'I was hoping he was not dead': Tot found in stolen Jeep

A Texas mom who left car running with her baby inside, is relieved after a thief leaves the vehicle parked with the child still inside. KPRC's Courtney Gilmore reports.

Terron Henry says he’s no hero, just relieved he found a missing Houston toddler alive and well inside a stolen Jeep abandoned in an alley behind his restaurant Friday morning.

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This photo provided Friday by the Texas Center For The Missing shows Evan Montgomery Lamar Miller. The 18-month-old boy went missing after an SUV was stolen from a Walmart parking lot in Houston with him strapped in the back seat.

“It terrified me,” Henry told msnbc.com on Friday. “I saw this green Cherokee parked in the middle of the alley, which is unusual, so I walked up to it and when I looked inside -- I saw the baby.”

"The baby had his eyes closed. I was hoping he was not dead, because it was so cold outside," Henry said. "I ran back to call police because I wanted permission to take him out. They said yes.


"I took him out of the seat and then he opened his eyes, they went wide open. He started looking around. He was not crying, but there were tears," Henry said.

Houston police had issued an Amber Alert Thursday night for missing 17-month-old Evan Montgomery Lamar Miller, who was inside an SUV stolen after his mother had gone inside a Walmart to use an ATM machine.

According to KPRC-TV in Houston, the child's mother told Houston police she had pulled up to the shopping center's parking lot about 5:30 p.m. Thursday and left Evan and her 7-year-old niece inside the vehicle. She told police she had left the engine running because it was cold outside and she didn't plan to be but a few minutes.

Investigators said that while Evan's mother was at the ATM inside the store, she saw a man wearing all black get into her SUV.

The woman said her niece jumped out of the car and the car bandit then took off in the 1996 vehicle with a "Baby on board" sticker in the back window.

"As I'm running out, I saw my niece running toward me screaming my name and my car going down the road. I dropped everything and ran toward the car," Niah O'Neil told KHOU TV, a CBS affiliate in Houston, on Thursday evening. "My son was in the car and I just want my son back. I don't care about the car."

Houston police issued the alert and searched without success -- until Henry called the following morning.

Henry, owner of the Cool Runnings restaurant in the southwestern part of the city, said he stepped out into the back alley for an early morning smoke when spotted the vehicle.

"He felt good in my arms," said Henry, who is a father of a 14-month-old daughter.

Henry said he placed his coat around the child and brought him inside his restaurant, where both waited for police officers.

Evan was taken to Texas Children's Hospital, where he was in good condition, according to Houston media.

"I am just happy that he is OK," Henry said.

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NEVER LEAVE UR KIDS UNATTENDED! no matter how long! Not saying this is a bad mom cuz im not here to judge just lesson learned and if u never knew the dangers of this - take note!!! My husbands car was stolen with the engine running right outside our home! Thank god we had taken our kid out the car before hand! Glad he is okay!

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#1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:48 PM EST

I rarely even leave my dog alone in the car for a minute or two (and it has to be nice or cool, windows cracked, engine off and doors locked). With the kids, even if I'm just running inside the gas station to pay for gas, I undo both 5 pt harnesses, drag the 5 and 1 year old inside, get stuck buying a twinkie or something, and re-buckle both for the drive home. To leave a kid in a running car while you go inside is just asking for trouble.

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#1.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:31 PM EST

OK .. you won't say she's a bad mom. I will. How dumb can a parent be? She should be charged with child endangerment.

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#1.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:51 PM EST

She went into Walmart to use the ATM just be a few minutes..but as she was coming out she said she dropped everything ( ???) when she saw her vehicle going down the road. Put this lady in jail too.

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#1.3 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:54 PM EST

There are too many drive-thru ATM's to count in my neighborhood to count. You don't go into Walmart to use an ATM. I think Momma went into Walmart to do some shopping. She is VERY lucky that her baby was found alive. This is a happy ending to what could have been a terrible tragedy.

  • 29 votes
#1.4 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:14 PM EST

Thank you! I was thinking the same thing.

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#1.5 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:35 PM EST
Comment author avatarMoheeheekoExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Drive thru ATMs dont cash welfare checks, WALMART Employees do.

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#1.6 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:37 PM EST

It's illegal in most states (if not all) to leave children in the car - even if they are in eyesight - even if the car is locked (which in this case it wasn't) and even if it's running and locked. I think moms get tired of having to lug all this gear around and they think "it will only take a second and I can see my car" especially if your child is sleeping or sick or something like that. I'm a mom, I know. I've felt like that at times - but I'm always afraid something like this would happen. So, regardless of your moral obligation, you have a legal one too! Never leave you kid in the car.

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#1.7 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:38 PM EST

So she loves her kids enough to leave them in a running SUV that is unlocked, to go get cash out of the ATM...then dropping everything?..huh....please stop breeding. we have enough stupid people in the world.

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#1.8 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:40 PM EST

It is a fundamental flaw in American society that you can't leave a child unattended for a minute without fearing that someone will kidnap them. In the summertime in many countries in Europe people leave their strollers parked outside of shops while they go in and buy things, without worrying that someone will run off with their babies. Why is there so much more crime in the United States? Where did things go so wrong?

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#1.9 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:49 PM EST

We've heard and read stories for years where a parent leaves their kid/s in an unlocked running vehicle and sadly the child was found dead. Did this Mom live under a rock and never hear one of these stories. How totally stunned and supid.

  • 10 votes
#1.10 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:51 PM EST

According to KPRC-TV in Houston, the child's mother told Houston police she had pulled up to the shopping center's parking lot about 5:30 p.m. Thursday and left Evan and her 7-year-old niece inside the vehicle. She told police she had left the engine running because it was cold outside and she didn't plan to be but a few minutes.

To those of you saying "she's a bad mother", "she should be charged with child neglect", "she left the baby alone in the car", etc., READ THE DAMN ARTICLE! It says right there in black and white that her niece was in the car with the baby while she was at the ATM. The niece jumped out of the car when the man jumped in. Unfortunately the girl didn't have enough time to get the baby out as well.

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#1.11 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:55 PM EST

Because a 7 year old is perfectly capable of defending herself and the baby from a GROWN-ASS MAN.

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#1.12 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:59 PM EST

@motherof2: If you won't say it, I will. She IS a bad mom.

@Elpea: It would be great if things weren't this bad here, but they are. Not sure the European example is relevant - the guy clearly was stealing the car, the baby was just along for the ride.

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#1.13 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:48 PM EST

I hold no seven year old accountable for reacting to a dangerous situation. Period. I dont even want to think of what could have happened to that little girl had she NOT moved! Who I do blame, and with a ton of anger, is any parent or 'responsible' adult who leaves a child in a car and goes five steps away from it. I dont care if they are locked in, sleeping soundly, 'you'll just be a minute' etc. There is no excuse valid for leaving a child or children unattended, even with a younger teen. They are called kids for a reason, they are looking to us to be responsible. Thank God the precious lil guy and the niece were safe. What a horrible thing to happen to both those children.

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#1.14 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:51 PM EST

This mother should be charged with child endangerment. There is absolutely no excuse for what she did. I can understand not wanting to unbuckle the kids and take them out of the car if you are only going to hit the ATM. I know that law says that you are not supposed to leave kids in the car unattended at all, but I am willing to be somewhat realistic here. However, leaving them in the car with the doors unlocked and the engine running is completely inexcusable. Some things about her story just do not add up to me. first off, if she was only hitting the ATM, what was this "everything" she dropped when she went running after the vehicle. Second, what was the need to leave to car running if she was only going to hit the ATM. It would have to be sub zero temperatures for it to be necessary to leave the car running for heat if you are only going to the ATM. Otherwise, there would be no problem leaving the kids in the car for two minutes while you hit the ATM. My guess is that this mother was doing a lot more than just hitting the ATM and really went in to do some quickly shopping for a few items and got lazy, not wanting to take the kids out of the car and into the store with her. That would explain both the need for the heat to be on in the car and the "everything" that she dropped when she went running after the car. I think she lied to the police to cover up her irresponsibility and to try and avoid being charged. The police should investigate and if this is really the case, she should not only be charged with child endangerment, but also with filing a false police report.

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#1.15 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:30 PM EST

She went into Walmart to use the ATM just be a few minutes..but as she was coming out she said she dropped everything ( ???) when she saw her vehicle going down the road. Put this lady in jail too.

Women typically carry a purse - thus, she would have things to drop.

There are too many drive-thru ATM's to count in my neighborhood to count. You don't go into Walmart to use an ATM.

Where I live, the bank inside the Wal-Mart only has one non-retail branch (about 30 - 45 min away - depending on traffic). The other drive through ATMs all charge $3.50 or more if your account isn't with them - not to mention what your bank will charge you for not using their ATM. The very few times I've been in the Wal-Mart, I have always seen people using the ATM.

Drive thru ATMs dont cash welfare checks, WALMART Employees do.

First - nothing in the article mentioned welfare (at least not that I saw). Second - welfare doesn't come in checks anymore. People receive their benefits on an ATM card. So, even if she had been using it to get cash benefits from a walfare ATM card, she could've used a drive through ATM.

ALL that said - she wasn't very bright for leaving those children in the car. 7 years old is NOT old enough to be left alone, let alone watch a younger child - even for a few minutes. I have had my children with me many times when it was inconvenient to unbuckle them and take them in - but I took the time to unbuckle them, and take them in with me every single time I had to stop. When my oldest son was a little tiny baby pay at the pump wasn't all that common where we lived - I always unhooked him in and took him in to pay for my gas, even if it took more time to get him out and back in the car than it did for me to pay in the store. You never know what could happen when you leave your children in the car - someone might steal the car with them in it, someone might accidentally hit the car injuring the children, if it's running, the child might accidentally put it in gear and cause an accident, etc., etc. Stupid to leave kids in the car for any reason for any length of time.

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#1.16 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:43 PM EST

In the summertime in many countries in Europe people leave their strollers parked outside of shops while they go in and buy things...

Elpea - it all depends on one's location, both in Europe and the USA. There are plenty of small towns in the USA were people feel safe leaving their kids in strollers outside of shops, but I guarantee you that no one is going to do that in New York, London or Paris. If you don't like it here, then move to Europe.

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#1.17 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:50 PM EST

Moheeheeko, Your a racist piece of @!$%#. Just because the child is not white does not mean the mother is on welfare.

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#1.18 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:04 PM EST

Oh dear, there you go again scales67, telling someone to leave the US because you don't like what they said.

Since you don't believe in free speech, why don't YOU leave?

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#1.19 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:13 PM EST

How about blaming the guy who stole the car????

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#1.20 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:16 PM EST

Kids or animals, no difference. Never leave either of them alone in a car. Never. Never.

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#1.21 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:26 PM EST

Everybody is talking about the mom being dumb for leaving the children unattended.Yes,I agree this is bad,but,why doesn't anybody say that stealing a car is even worse?It's because you have your priorities backwards!If they catch the thief,he will only get a slap on the hand.Chances are he's done it before.Chances are good he'd do it again.Lock your cars,and take your children with you please!

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#1.22 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:35 PM EST

I love how these types of stories will always have these 2 types of comments:

1. "I'm not going to judge, but this should have been done. What was done was wholly irresponsible. I can't believe people would do that."

2. "Why do you make these generalizations? I (emphasis on I) would never do something like that. I always do the right thing."

Yup. Never fails to disappoint.

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#1.23 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:37 PM EST

I will blame the guy who stole the car for stealing the car. I blame the mother for being stupid!

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#1.24 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 9:48 PM EST

I am just glad that the child was rescued by an honorable guy.

I am just glad he decided to investigate the vehicle left in the alley.

Seems like in this instance that stepping outside for a smoke resulted in the saving of a life... talk about irony... LOL

Some people would not even have bothered to check the vehicle and some would instead have called the police regarding towing of the vehicle blocking the alleyway. All that would have taken time, in which the child could have died.

Good thing also that the mother had dressed the child warmly too. Good for you mum.

In this day and age the child could have been 'rescued' and taken by someone who wanted to a child and is unable to pass the adoption screening or even sold to a pedophile or human trafficker.

One could say that that child is truly blessed considering all the other negative things that could have happened from the theft of the car.

Another thing ... at least the car thief had the heart to leave the vehicle where there was a possibility that hopefully the child could be found ... by leaving it blocking the alley behind a restaurant.... although it would have been better to take the child to a hospital ER and leave him there.

Even better yet he should not have stolen the vehicle in the first place, but at least this had a great ending.

Peace.....

    #1.25 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 11:03 PM EST

    lynsey - I blame the mother for being stupid!

    I think it's rather arrogant for you to think you are in a position to be blaming anyone. It's not yours to judge.

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    #1.26 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 11:47 PM EST

    mozzie; I know some parents of a certain niece who have the right to judge her..lol.

    Up Uranus; lean in a little, a little more, come just a bit closer - SMACK!

      #1.27 - Sat Jan 14, 2012 12:23 AM EST

      a real tot mom...would have put the kid in the trunk...tot tot... toty good bye ...tot tot...toty don't cry...

        #1.28 - Sat Jan 14, 2012 3:06 AM EST
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        She leaves two babies in the car? Hopefully she will at least be charged with child endangerment.

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        Reply#2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:49 PM EST

        Don't over dramatize. Seven years old is not a baby. One baby. One kid. My mom would leave us in the car to run quick errands when my sister and I were young, many, many moons ago. Sure, it was a different world back then or whatever, but no one ever gave that a second thought back then and we survived and thrived in spite of it. Is it a good idea, especially in winter? No. But does it make her an over all bad mother that she did it? No, of course not. Times have changed, standards have changed, what was considered fine back then is taboo now, but having your running car stolen with kids inside would still be a very, very remote possibility -- though one that seems more possible in retrospect, to be sure. I bet she'll never do it again, no matter how much of a hurry she is in.

        I'm glad her son is home unharmed. For once, a happy ending.

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        #2.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:53 PM EST

        That's rather harsh... and since when is a 7 year old a baby? I just wish some of you self righteous guardians of human behavior would get a grip on it. Optomyst?

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        #2.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:45 PM EST

        A seven year old should NOT be left in a car while it is running. A seven year old should NOT be left in charge of a baby. A sven year old should not be left in the middle a walamrt parking lot in Houston texas. period.

        and yes I do have children, I know what children are capable of and what they are not. and I know their value.

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        #2.3 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:17 PM EST

        @saddened, My mother left me in he car as a child too. I got some bad news for you, both our mothers were stupid for that. You seem to confuse LUCK with being safe.

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        #2.4 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:48 PM EST

        I can't believe the grief this woman is getting! It's not that unreasonable to leave your kids in the car for 2 minutes, especially if they're in view the whole time. What happened to her is incredibly rare!

        When I was a kid, we'd sit in the car for an entire hour while my mom shopped. Lots of kids did. We also rode our bikes around town alone, stayed home alone while parents ran errands, and walked 1/2 mile to the bus stop without an adult! Twenty years ago, other moms would roll their eyes if you dragged in a sleeping baby to use an ATM. That's paranoid!

        I once finished shopping on a freezing day with subzero temperatures, and immediately started my car so it would have time to warm up and defrost, then I strapped the baby into the carseat, shut the door, and walked over to the driver's side to get in. But it locked me out. So I had to go back into the store, leaving baby all alone in a running vehicle so I could call a locksmith. Crap happens. Running inside the store with a baby in the car doesn't hurt anyone. Criminals hurt people. And this woman was a victim of CRIME!

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        #2.5 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:52 PM EST

        Shoot,My mom would leave all six of us in the car while she shopped. Of course, no one in their right mind would want to grab that car. Even if it was a Lamberghini. Also, This was back in the sixities when crap like this didn't happen.

          #2.6 - Sat Jan 14, 2012 8:24 AM EST
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          Yet another stupid person not following basic safety rules.

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          Reply#3 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:53 PM EST

          Very true mother of 2. Our minute can be some-one elses 30 seconds.

          • 7 votes
          Reply#4 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:54 PM EST

          Always good reporting when the photo gives one age and the article another. Way to go!!!

            Reply#5 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:54 PM EST

            So she had to leave the car running...Carbon monoxide anyone?

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            Reply#6 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 2:56 PM EST

            That's the most brilliant comment of the day... Leaving a car outside running and carbon monoxide anyone?? She didn't leave the car running... in walmart.

            • 17 votes
            #6.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:31 PM EST

            Yes I'm sure she parked in the convenient little airtight garages that every Walmart parking lot has? Physics man... or just common sense.

            • 10 votes
            #6.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:32 PM EST

            I could see a 1996 Cherokee having an exhaust leak into the car. Could happen...

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            #6.3 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:48 PM EST

            In which case it wouldn't really matter if the car was moving or not. The comment was dumb, no need to defend it.

            • 8 votes
            #6.4 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:40 PM EST

            Wow Jerry, you're an idiot.

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            #6.5 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 7:45 PM EST

            i know someone's father who died in his running truck. he was out in the wilderness, it was cold, and he decided to take a nap in his running truck. he never woke up. carbon monoxide poisoning

            i work offshore in the gulf of mexico. everytime i end up at a dock that chevron owns, they have signs that say "no sleeping in running vehicles". its one of their safety policies. in the offshore industry, safety policies are implemented after an incident occurs.

            it appears all you people that are harrasing jerry here just want to be a bunch of dicks. exhaust leaks into a cab are rare, but possible

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            #6.6 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 11:36 PM EST

            @bigmowma

            i completely agree with you. i can see a 1996 jeep cherokee spewing exhaust fumes into the cab. those jeeps at that time were pieces of junk

              #6.7 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 11:48 PM EST

              Matt-1846929

              "i can see a 1996 jeep cherokee spewing exhaust fumes into the cab. those jeeps at that time were pieces of junk"

              AMC era Cherokee's had their share of issues, but by the time Chrysler revised them in 91 they were very solid vehicles. I sold my 92 Cherokee with 200k miles on it last year and it still ran like new with no problems.

                #6.8 - Sat Jan 14, 2012 3:17 AM EST
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                Seriously??? How many news stories do you have to read and hear about before people start acting like responsible adults and parents. I too hope that this woman is charged with child endangerment because she needs a wake up call. Kudos to the guy who was observant enough to investigate the parked car. If it wasn't for him this kid could be just another sad statistic.

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                Reply#7 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:02 PM EST

                I'm fairly certain that this was her wake up call. Its a mistake that she will never make again. Hopefully this will be a wakeup call to any other parent who thinks they can run in for just a minute and leave the baby in the car.

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                #7.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:57 PM EST

                Those "statistics" are temperature-related fatalities from "just a minute" that ended up being longer. I think this falls under carjacking statistics, and that is not something you can reasonably expect to happen!

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                #7.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:56 PM EST
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                now i know this wont stop a person if they really want the car but as anyone ever heard of car locks? and her niece should be old enough to know how to use them.

                • 5 votes
                Reply#8 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:26 PM EST

                at least the little one wasn't physically harmed! thank goodness for that!

                • 5 votes
                Reply#9 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:26 PM EST

                Rule # 1: Do not leave your car unlocked, with the keys in the ignition, and running at 7-11, Walmart or any other store, bank, dry cleaners, etc.

                Rule # 2: Do not leave your kids unattended in a car.

                Rule #3: Do not do #1 and #2 together ever!

                • 14 votes
                Reply#10 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:42 PM EST

                The sheer agony of this experience is enough to teach her never to repeat this act. Count your blessings that you have never had to do anything like this mom did.

                • 5 votes
                Reply#11 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:43 PM EST

                In what world is it okay to leave a child under 10 in a running car alone?! She should get slapped with a fine, I'm sorry. Call me heartless but this could have turned out a lot worse and all because she couldn't spare the time and effort to unload the kids and go inside together. Better safe than sorry.

                And before I get any smart remarks from 'parents' I have a niece who I have never left in the car even the pump gas. If I have to pay inside I get her out of her seat, go inside and pay. I'll do the same even when I have three of my own!

                • 12 votes
                Reply#12 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:47 PM EST

                It's against the law in most places NyNy and most people who have done this have been slapped with a lot more than a fine. IF she gets to keep custody of her kids, social services will be supervising for awhile and she might be ordered to take parenting classes. No one in their right mind leaves two kids in a car, running or not, in a Walmart parking lot.

                • 5 votes
                #12.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:34 PM EST
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                Let's hope the baby is smarter than his mom. She deserves at least a year of responsible parenting classes.

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                Reply#13 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:07 PM EST

                Thank God there's finally a happy ending in a missing child case!

                • 10 votes
                Reply#14 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:08 PM EST

                What is wrong w/so many parents? I can't tell you how many times I've seen parents (of all ages and ethnicities) leave their children in cars unattended. I live in a small town where crime is extremely low, yet so many ppl assume that because of this, it's safe to leave the children in the car. When I notice this, I stay in my car until the adult comes out, and on more than one occasion mention to them the dangers of such. Surprisingly, all of them are grateful and admit somewhat sheepishly that they know better. As to whether they will continue w/this dangerous habit or not, who knows?

                • 2 votes
                Reply#15 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:21 PM EST

                Blaming the victim, really? How about we start focusing on how we can create a society in which we don't produce human beings that commit these kinds of crimes? One where little girls can ride bikes in their neighborhoods, women can go on jogs by themselves, and a mom can make a quick run to an ATM without having to worry that her car will be jacked with her kids inside in the span of two minutes???

                • 28 votes
                Reply#16 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:25 PM EST

                Lil anomie: I like your way of thinking. There used to be a time when kids could play outside and not have to worry about anything except to make sure to come in when it got dark out.

                • 13 votes
                #16.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:48 PM EST

                The victim was this child, not his mother. His mother is supposed to protect him, she did not do that. Yes in a perfect world none of us would have to worry about something like this but this isn't the first time I've heard about this happening and I'm sure she's heard of it too.

                • 8 votes
                #16.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:48 PM EST

                That's what we all hope for....someday. And in the meantime don't lay blame on the person who has made the mistake, just learn from them and remind yourself every time you hear about it happening: I must NEVER leave my children unattended in the car with the engine running!!!!

                • 8 votes
                #16.3 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:49 PM EST

                The mother made a bad judgement call, but she did not commit a crime. The car thief did.

                • 6 votes
                #16.4 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:58 PM EST

                @flbikerchick - actually she did commit a crime leaving the children in the car unattended, that's against the law in Texas. It's even against the law to leave your keys in the ignition. Because, honestly, carjackings happen pretty often. She should have known better, but hopefully she does now!

                • 9 votes
                #16.5 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:09 PM EST

                When was this sacred, quiet, wonderful time? When I was about 11 a school friend wanted me to go on a walk with her, so, I did, but the further from town we got, the more afraid I became and so I told her I was going home. She got to her destination and there were 3 or 4 young men there, who ended up raping her.

                Later, as a teen, a man tried to get me to climb into his car and he would take me home. My home was a short distance away and I told him "no" and he insisted I get into his car. I then ran away as fast as I could because, I am a very big coward.

                I am now in my 70's, so I am curious as to when this quiet safe time was. Believe me, I do not trust many people and their motives, until, I am sure of their intent.

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                #16.6 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:13 PM EST
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                OK, now that we've successfully piled on the mom, let's pile on the low-life who steals a car with children inside. Gotta feel like a real man to jack a 7 year old! At least he was man enough to not simply throw the baby in the trash - not that abandoning him in an alley was any better, but at least he left him in the car where he would be noticed.

                All of this aside, kidnappings and other violent crimes have been declining in America since I was a kid. Back then it was OK for a kid to be left alone or play outside, but today with lower rates of these crimes we feel the need to lock our children up at all times. This story is just one small instance - let's not pretend that this kind of thing is rampant. Twenty years ago most of us would never had heard the story because it happened in another state and we would have been blissfully ignorant. The internet has us fooled into thinking this kind of thing is increasing when in fact it is decreasing. This story isn't going to make me be any more vigilant than my mom was with me and my sister. I refuse to be scared by sensationalism. I refuse to believe that there is a kidnapper waiting behind every bush, or that simply being outside is a health risk. I will not neurotically over react to protect my children from every 1 in a million event, while carelessly screwing up on protecting them from the real dangers which don't get sensationalized.

                • 9 votes
                Reply#17 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:57 PM EST

                Rad, this isnt the back woods where I grew up. This is HOUSTON. When I go back home, I dont have to worry about my kids outside in the cow pasture, but when I am back at my house in Sacremento, I am always on guard and wont let my kids play in the front yard without me or my wife out there watching them.

                  #17.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:11 PM EST
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                  That woman's an idiot. In hopes that she reads this: take a parenting class or two, Lady. What would you have done if your child had been murdered?

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                  Reply#18 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:58 PM EST

                  Really? A Idiot?

                    #18.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:57 PM EST
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                    Ok, if she just ran inside to use the ATM why did she say that "Dropped everything and ran towards the car". Is it just me or does anyone thing she slipped up and was in there longer than it takes to hit the ATM? This woman is a piece of garbage plain and simple.

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                    Reply#19 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 4:59 PM EST

                    Good point

                      #19.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:45 PM EST

                      Southernman76: I absolutely think the mother was wrong for leaving the children in the car unattended. However, don't read too much into the comment "dropped everything and ran toward the car". Think about it like this - most women carry a purse - we put our ATM cards in a wallet, and put the wallet inside the purse. According to the article, she could see the man dressed in black jump in the car. She ran outside, and her niece jumped out of the car. She dropped everything and ran after the car. She could've easily not had her wallet and purse put back together when she saw the man get into her car. First instinct would be to run outside after them - not take the time to put the ATM back in the wallet, the wallet back in the purse, etc., etc. - which means her hands would've been full.

                      Even if that's not what happened (say she had everything back in her purse when she noticed the man get in the car) dropping everything doesn't automatically imply multiple things - it just means everything that was in her hands (that could've been one time).

                      Essentially - yes, she was stupid for leaving the kids in the car (no one should ever do that under any circumstances) - but, "dropping everything" doesn't mean that she was in the store for longer than she states.

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                      #19.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:19 PM EST
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                      Glad he was there and checked the car out...Tip of the hat to you Mr. Henry...

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                      Reply#20 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:03 PM EST

                      Will we never learn? the son of a bitch who would take a car full of children would just as soon killl them....please don't leave your children alone ever.

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                      Reply#21 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:10 PM EST

                      Yes, watch them like hawks all the time. Put baby monitors on their cribs. Make them wear backpacks with leashes. Escort them to and from their bus stop 10 feet away. You never when a thief is lurking in the bushes, ready to take off with your kids the second they get a chance!

                      She was the victim of an unforeseeable crime. As for the typical dangers of leaving a child unattended in a car (heat stroke, hypothermia)... she took precautions against those (left the heat on, made it quick). Get a grip.

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                      #21.1 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 8:59 PM EST

                      This was not an "unforseeable crime". These types of crimes happen all the time and are in the news, all the time. Which is why we lock our doors at night, lock our cars and night, and DON"T LEAVE OUR CHILDREN ALONE IN A RUNNING CAR WITH THE DOORS UNLOCKED!! Stupidity at its best!

                      BTW...a seven year old is NOT old enough to be responsible for herself, let alone another child!!

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                      #21.2 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 11:05 PM EST

                      JLM - you are the idiot! There are laws about leaving children in cars alone for a reason. Even if it is not danger from what happened to this woman, in a running car a child could easily get unbuckled and make the car move, thus causing an accident. I am a parent of 5 children and I would never leave them alone in a car, whether it was on or not. It is just lazyness that causes people to leave the kids in the car rather than unbuckle them and take them in. And I am not one of those overprotective parents. My kids are allowed to ride their bikes in the neighborhood, go to the bus by themselves, and play in our yard without me having to be right there the whole time. Leaving kids alone in a running car is just plain lazy and a lack of common sense.

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                      #21.3 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 11:57 PM EST

                      These things are not foreseeable. There are 7 billion people in the world, so even if it did happen once a day, it would be incredibly rare. I do not lock my home. I do not lock my car. I leave my keys in the ignition. In fact, I keep a spare key zippy-tied to the frame in case I get locked out.

                      Could a thief traipse into my house and rob me? I guess. Could someone sneak into my unlocked car and steal my gym bag that I keep in there? Sure. Could they joy-ride my car for awhile? Maybe until I noticed and Onstar located it. Could someone fumble around my vehicle and find my hidden spare somewhere on my occasionally locked vehicle? Technically, yes. But why would any one do this? Who goes around jiggling door knobs, in hopes that one is unlocked and hopefully unoccupied? No one. They target places that they have scouted out safely. (Except in the case of a running, empty vehicle, which is obvious.)

                      There is a very real danger of routinely locking things. We have a few sad incidents every year of schoolchildren being dropped off by a bus in subzero temperatures to a locked house, because the parents got delayed or forgot or someone lost a key. We have people locked out of their cars on remote roads, where there is little traffic and no cell phone reception. This year a man was stranded in subzero temperatures and found unconscious, hypothermic and barely alive 2 days later huddling in his backseat after using up all his fuel to keep warm awaiting an unlikely rescue; he had gotten stuck after a heavy snow. I've lost my keys on a 3-mile mountain hike, with no hope of recovering them, and would not have been able to start my remotely parked vehicle without that spare I kept on it. I would say that locks are just as dangerous as thieves, depending on your circumstances.

                        #21.4 - Sat Jan 14, 2012 3:13 AM EST
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                        Cheers to Henry!! And jeers for that mom leaving babies in the car...

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                        Reply#22 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:32 PM EST

                        Stupid woman.

                        Kudos to Mr Henry

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                        Reply#23 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:41 PM EST

                        thank GOD this baby was found safe. Lesson for mother do not leave car running with child inside alone. You are one lucky lady to get your beautiful baby back.

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                        Reply#24 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:48 PM EST

                        thank God the baby was okay... good man... thank you for being a concerned citizen

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                        Reply#25 - Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:48 PM EST
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