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Subscribe to RSSThe Abbey nightclub in West Hollywood, Calif., regularly welcomes customers who are not gay, but operators say they will ban straight bachelorette parties until same-sex marriage is legal across the land. KNBC-TV's Angie Crouch reports.
The Abbey nightclub in West Hollywood, Calif., regularly welcomes customers who are not gay. But operators say there will be an exception to that policy until same-sex marriage is legal across the land.
“We love our straight girlfriends coming in to celebrate one of the happiest days of their life," says Abbey owner David Cooley. "But it’s also a slap in the face to my customers and my life that we can’t have that same celebration.”
Male go-go dancers are just one reason why one of America's most popular gay bars has become a big draw for straight women's bachelorette parties.
Each weekend, The Abbey hosts several dozen ladies night parties. But Cooley says, no more. Until marriage is legal for everyone, straight women can no longer celebrate their pending nuptials at his club.
His position is getting mixed reviews from both gay and straight customers.
“Everyone should be able to get married," says Roshanna Sabaratnam. "We shouldn’t, as straight people, be flaunting it in front of people who can’t.”
But, there are also some gay customers who disagree.
“I think the ban is an interesting approach to the debate about gay marriage," says Alexander Villalobos. "But I think you shouldn’t limit other people’s rights in order to get yours.”
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The legal facts are these ; This is this man's business . Most bars , gay or straight have signs that state " We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone for any reason . " Therefore a discrimination suit might not be successful . However , I do think he's using false reasoning , two wrongs never make a right . Moreover , I believe this will harm his cause , more than help it . Also the lost revenue might be prohibitive and long term as he may not get those customers back . They will probably take their business to a gay bar whose owner is more open-minded and realizes that the needed reform will come in good time . The civil rights act for blacks took some time also .
I hope they keep their promise. As a straight gal, I wouldn't want to go into the place anyway--regardless. With this policy, at least a person passing by will know it is a gay bar. I think this is a great policy. All gay bars should have this policy so everyone will know it is what it is. I say they should go for it. It's a terrific idea.
Fighting discrimination with more discrimination. That's the American way!
Take queers, load'm up in boxcars, ship'm to the nearest disposal center.
Fair is fair, Billie Jean!
It's not discrimination. They aren't throwing parties for gays and refusing them for straights.
They simply decided to stop giving straights special privileges that gays don't have.
Of course...for bigots...that looks like discrimination. They do love their special privileges.
Evidently the bar stools only work upside down............in a gay bar ;-/
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