A Florida mother and a father are in jail after they allegedly forced their daughter to run laps with nothing to drink and made her stand on one leg for two hours as punishment, officials said.
The 10-year-old girl also told police her parents forced her and her six-month-old brother to sleep on the floor, Michael Dunn, public information officer for Temple Terrace Police Department told NBC 6. Temple Terrace is near Tampa.
He said the girl was an apparent victim of child abuse after she told police that her parents made her hold a weight for two hours while standing on one leg as punishment.
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William Joseph Frederick, 33, and Suzanne E. Frederick, 31, both of Temple Terrace, face child abuse and child neglect charges, according to the Hillsborough County Jail. William Frederick is also being charged with failure to report a fire. Both are being held with no bail.
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Dunn said police arrived to the apartment complex around 8 p.m. Tuesday after they received a report of a distressed child wandering in the lot.
Authorities said the girl lit a small fire in her apartment prior to police arriving because she was frustrated. When her parents returned, they put out the fire but did not call the fire department, officials said.
When police arrived, they questioned the girl and her parents and found a six-month-old baby in the closet.
The Department of Children and Families took custody of both children.
It was not immediately known if the Fredericks had an attorney.
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Gee, seems all the crazy Fu_king nuts come from FL. no wonder why shooting a kid minding their own business is acceptable.
No they do not, they come from up north, like NY, Ohio and so forth. That is what Florida is made up of, the loonies from up north. Stay up there, do not come South.
hell, I dont see a problem with the laps .... holding the weights for 2 hours on one leg was way too extreme ... and stop your bigoted opinions of people from up North dick
The only people coming from the North are retirees, Disney visitors, and vacationers. Sorry, but, these are all home bred southerners. Floridiots.
This article is so poorly written.
When her parents returned from where? And if they put out the fire, why would they have to call the fire department?
Bob A. From Western NY and nicamma, they are not just retirees, they are all walks of life, and you northern idiots should stay up north, do not move South. I have been to NY and have watched the news, NY is not a prestine state. There are a bunch of NYidiots floating around up there also.
FloWIERDa AGAIN?!?!?
Well I don't see how making a child run laps is child abuse. Why though was the baby in the closet?
There are so many things wrong with this story, including the fool who attempted to write it. Please have a professional redo the story and post again so we can figure out wtf this was about. Thank you.
I was a little confused baout why they ahould have to call the fire department after puttin gout a fire too....
I once almost set my kitchen on fire when a pot holder was left too close to the flame on my stove.... I was able to put it out myself and didn't have to call the fire department....
How big a fire are we talking about?
But the other stuff sounds fishy. why was the baby in the closet? Was it a walk in? I saw a walk in closet at an apartment I looked at that was large enough it totally could have doubled as a nursery... it even had a window in it.
It doesn't sound cut and dry, there's too much information missing to say if it was abuse or not.
Hell! the nuns would outdo that for passing notes. Sisters of Charity they called themselves. Sort of like jumbo shrimp.
I just said to hubby: 'What the heck is going on down in Florida?' Is it the water? Too much sun? These poor children. I do hope they find a better home and guardians than what they have had to live with. Where were the parents that they left the 10-year-old with a 6-month-old?? And why was the baby in a closet??? Was it large enough for a nursery? But then, the writer said the children had to 'sleep on the floor.' Yes, if it was a small fire and put out completely, no calls would have been needed.
They found a six-month-old baby in the closet?! These people are the parents from hell. Having your well hydrated kid run 1 minute for however many years old they are (2 minutes for a 2 yr old, 3 for a 3 yr old, etc. obviously a 1 yr old probably isn't running yet) after prefacing it w/ "we're going to run and think about what you did while you're running" and then talk about it when you're done is parenting w/ a purpose. Making a dehydrated kid run for who knows how long in the summer in Fla is stupid. Standing on one leg holding a weight for two hours. Do it to a prison inmate and they'll report you for torture. A 10yr old distressed child wandering in the lot is very possibly neglect. A six-month-old baby in the closet is certainly abuse. A 10yr old child left alone in an apartment complex probably w/ the six-month-old baby in the closet since that's when the cops found the baby (when they responded to the call of a girl wandering) & lighting a fire out of frustration. Wow. Assuming all this is at least partly true and you have two kids who desperately need a new family and two adult who need to be neutered. Kids do tend to exaggerate but the parents can't dispute that the cops found the baby in the closet and the 10 yr old had been wandering outside at night while the parents were out.
You need to re-read the article. It states that the police received a call about a distressed girl wondering around in the parking lot. She probably got upset and set the fire and then left the apartment. Her parents must have come home fairly quickly after and put the fire out themselves. The police were already called and it had nothing to do with the fire. I do NOT think that it sounds ok to make a 10 year old girl run laps in this heat AND without water to drink. That IS abuse.
Sisters of Charity, jumbo shrimp, hahaha. Yeah, they don't make nuns the way they used to (praise God).
I do not see the problem with having the kid running lap, or doing isometric but well hydrated of course. Kids have to learn discpline sometime in their life, or we can just kiss our civil society away. Even though these mofos are turning it into a POLICE STATE!!!!!!!
Agreed Marvin - the key words being 'well hydrated' and the amount of running needs to be age appropriate. But all punishment is useless if you don't talk to the person about why they're being disciplined and telling them what behavior is appropriate. Give 'em examples. Have them think about what they did, make amends, forgive them and move on.
bunnyb7 - What do you think she was 'wondering' about? (I think you meant wandering) (Argh, it's my English teacher from 7th grade).
Sounds like the stuff we endured in the 60's and 70's from our Teacher at school. Back then our parents applauded the fact that school teacher's would punish us for misbehavior. If they didn't we'd get it worse when we got home. Like it or not no parent of any friend of mine would let is out of the house at 11 oclock at night to buy Skittle's and Ice Tea while on school suspension.
North, South, East, West. Crazy people all over. People of my generation were better behaved. I wonder if it was because we were made to go to church and were taught right from wrong by both parents.
Florida is the Japan of America because everything from both places has me questioning reality.
Two more POS "parents" who shouldn't have been allowed to breed in the first place. We had a case her in Minny just a while back where the Mother and stepfather made their 12 year old and her younger sister wear a diaper and run sprints out in the front of their apartment complex in the freezing cold. This happened more than once. When they were finally arrested, they laughed on the way to jail and couldn't believe the authorities were actually arresting them for child abuse. This country is going to hell.
If thats child abuse then my parents should have been in prison for a long time!
We hold the parents responsible for a childs upbringing but wont let them punish thier children? No wonder they go to school with bombs and guns nowadays! Its ok for coaches to make people run laps but not parents?
UNBELIEVEABLE
LEGALIZE MARIJUANA
Onlyyoucanchangethelaws, You had me, then you lost me!
Ok there is way too much information missing and too little detail to figure out what's going on here. The parents made the child run laps. So do a lot of gym teachers. Were they "excessive" and constituting abuse? She wasn't given water, but how long was she running? If it was only 15-20 minutes, it's a different story than if it were an hour or two! The children were made to sleep on the floor. Um, big deal? Ever have a sleepover - that's where the kids sleep and it's not considered abuse then, so is it pertinant or is there more to that? Not to mention there are families poverty stricken who really can't afford actual beds - that's not considered "abuse", it's considered heartbreaking. Next this 10 yr old child was wandering around at 8pm acting distressed. WHY was she distressed? Was it over something that happened at home, or had she gotten into an argument with a friend who lives in the same apartment complex? We have over a dozen children between 7 and 13 who are constantly outside between a 4 house area - and sometimes they get upset with each other. Again, pertinant details here people. Finally, what was the situation of the baby in the closet? What size of closet? Heck people used to use the bottom dresser drawer as a crib for infants, so again is this "abuse" or just situational? And really, why the heck would the parents have called the police for a small fire that they were able to take care of themselves?? Heck our grill caught on fire last week. We handled it in under 3 minutes - why call for help after it's out? I don't get it.
Like MonkeyMo said a lot of unknown. The main statement if the story that makes me believe the story might be accurate in all details is the baby being found in the closet by the cops. How do we know the girl didn''t make up the whole story to get back at her parents after getting in trouble for starting the fire. How big was the fire was it structual or what. If it wasn't structural how many of you would have called to report it?
To late DoobyDick I'm moving to Florida from NY after the summer and there's not a dame thing you can do about it, so just deal with it.
We don't know the whole story.
My opinion is the parents screwed up by not calling the cops on the child when she acted out of control.
We all know it isn't ever the children's fault. Instead of reprimanding them should of gave her some candy and let her know about the pretty jail cell she will have when she turns 18 right next to mommy and daddy.
My momma gave me my first black eye, and you know what I deserved it and learned from it. I look back and laugh because it was a good thing she did.
Why didn't the story say child almost burnt down apt. building possibly killing everyone inside?
Hey, it's not just Florida and the North, we on the West Coast have a few loonies too. DON"T FORGET THE WEST!!!
loonies like jungle jim who use guns as their avatar? Loonies that post gun picks on public forums where children can easily be exposed to? Those kind of loonies?
I am a responsible gun owner.
Post gun pics? Are guns porn now? MDB123 I don't believe you've ever fired a gun, much less own one. Guy's trying to say he has loonies in HIS area as well. Its not like he's bashing some area he isn't familiar with.
As far as the article, the child in the closet is the only thing I see that may constitute some kind of abuse or neglect, but knowing MSNBC and AP Journalists as I do, chances are it was a small room that someone jokingly said was "as big as a closet". Failure to report a fire? Is there a law that says you have to report a fire if no one was injured and no significant property damage occurred? Sounds like the girl needs to run a few more laps if she's setting fires.
MDB, they didn't say that probably because it was a SMALL fire, and plus, you don't know the whole story, so why on God's earth are you saying what you just said? Why are you deliberately trying to demonize the child? Is it because Mawma gave you a black eye, and you're all mad about it? Oh, I know what your answer is gonna be already... and I don't think I'm actually going to be suckered into believing it.
People like him and gold chain wearing thugs are no different to me. Try to rob my home, we will see how strong your beliefs are. :)~
MDB123
I am at a loss for words. First off, I use a 1911, yes that is what it is a 1911, not a gun. I use that for my Avatar because I happen to own a beautiful 1924/ 1911 and I love it for TARGET PRACTICE AND HOME PROTECTION!!! Get it. (Besides, my face is not as good looking)
Second off, I have a weird sense of humor, I am not a thug, take your attitude and go somewhere.
I too have an acquired taste of humor. I stand by my comment, it is my personal opinion. Funny tho I respect your opinion Old Timer. You did put a smile on my face!
My opinion by the way is people who show guns and gold are trying to intimidate others, when more than likely it is because they are full of fear.
Nflames I am not sure what to say?
Old timer??? who said I am old, I implied I was homely. By the way, your opinion is exactly that, your opinion. I neither hate nor fear, I am not prejudice nor racist. Protective, yes, fearful, nope! The only time my weapons are out is on the range. I may be a gun-nut but not nuts with them. I am....Jungle jim
P.S.MDB123, What do you consider to be old?
I do apologize I am in Rare form today, a touch of pms Punk male syndrome. Anyways I am done and will keep it to myself.
Don't rob my house and test your beliefs alienmartian. Nothing here to take if your secretly santa clause stop over anytime.
Jungle Jim it was your RESPECT which is a rarity anymore.
MDB, I can't but help feel that you are intimidated by the firearm photo.
Care to talk about it?
I was hoping you weren't going to reply, "It made me so much more of a better person, that's what it did!" and thank the lord, you didn't give such a cringeworthy response, because most of the people who reply like that to a question of that sort were not better off with an encounter like that because then they feel the need to punish others for everything, and end up being hot-tempered meatheads as adults. Sometimes, people just need to get over things instead of going apesh!t over them, and kids who were taught the "ol' fashin'd weh" often can't comprehend that because their parents have firmly engrained the zero-tolerance attitude in their heads, therefore giving them the urge to over-react to even the slightest of things with the illusion that they are teaching som important lesson.
I think the fact that the parents were arrested for not reporting a fire, says the police have no evidence (other than the fire) to charge them with. It seems odd that a 10 year old would start a small fire because she was frustrated over alleged abuse; she didn't think she would be punished for the fire? The article does not say where the parents were at the time of the fire or if the 6 month old was with them or at home.
Before you all convict these people you need to learn more..... they could be sick, idiots or they could be poor people who are trying to deal with an unstable child. The article did not say how large or small the closet was, they could have been using a walk-in closet as a nursery.
NFlames I hope you have no degrees! If you do sue and get your money back.
NY Mike. Yes I live in the old empire state they just changed the name to the welfare state. What am i to do? You must have an acquired taste of humor as well. :)~
Running laps + Florida heat + refusal of water = potentially fatal due primarily to dehydration. That's how that bit qualifies as abuse.
MDB123- Thank you.
I will sign off by saying most comments clearly indicate what is wrong with the democratic party.
I am an independent, Yes I am a member of the MAJORITY.
this crap article brought out the intolerant or the supposed tolerant.
Say it with me "There is no excuse for abuse". Now find a mirror and say it again and again.
Your Welcome
THANK YOU jungle jim I do believe to be more fitting under the circumstances.
I am as I was made "perfectly imperfect"
b895713...LOL! Ooops. I HATE when people do that, and here I am guilty of doing it myself. I meant wandering. Although she probably was WONDERING how she got such crappy parents while she was WANDERING around the parking lot. The world may never know...
@MDB Wow. No one needs a degree to find that what I said can actually work sometimes. There are times whem you must deal with something, but that whole military attitude old fashioned people have going does not make better kids!
Dang, I was late with that comment.
This is why birth control should be available for everyone!!! even for men!!!!
What the "f" is wrong with people!!!!!!!!!
Florida puts the "F" in WTF
LOL what_the _81 I was thinking the same same thing. Florida is the F in Flushing, Foolishness, F_ucked upness, and all other Fs. FLORIDA wtF a bunch of Foolish, moFo that needs to be Flushed down the drain!
Birth control is available for men. It's called "condoms."
I don't think birth control will help because of too many religious fanatics out there. What needs to happen is people should be tested and licensed prior to having children. If they fail the test then they are not allowed to have children. It sounds a little harsh, but I really could care less, our population is growing so drastically, and there are plenty of people out there who care for themselves, and there are those who have more kids than they can afford. People like this do not deserve children... It is not a matter of figuring out the situation that occurred, because obviously it was bad enough for them to be taken away into child custody.
Jumpmaster82, that comment in itself is why the parents would still go to jail. There's a fine line between punishing your child even if its spanking them and quoting you; "beatin their A$$ until the white meat showed" what exactly would that solve if they did? Its very easy for any of you to say that, but why don't you put your words into action because I can put all the money in the world on it that you wouldn't lay that harsh of a finger on your child if you have any children. All those "If I" comments are nothing more than that... Comments all talk and no walk.
Yes Nips let's go with your plan, because we all know that being rich makes you a much better parent. The world desperately needs more Paris and Nicky Hiltons.
No parenting skills whatsoever.
Who is born with parenting skills, no one, it is common sense.
Stupid people should not marry stupid people, all you get is more stupid people. They need to cut off the line, so no more breeding is done with these people.
SICK
This kid lit a fire in the apartment and you blame the parents? The cops take the parents to jail?
No wonder so many parents are afraid of disciplining their children, the child makes a call and the parents go to jail. I would have beat her A$$ the ole fashion way, just until the white meat showed.
ya and ya'll get plenty of foreigners to replace us any how . no more breeding for you or you or you or you but if you come from india or africa (north or south) come on in and have 5 or romania or any other dirt poor ass country come on in except mexico couse we dont like the houses you build or the coler of your skin or some such @!$%#. and call the fire dept. @!$%# that come on over and see if i put it out right derp. im a tard cant even do for my self. doing laps anyone remember jym class standing on one foot weird but what ever no statement of being beaten though spare the rod spoil the child for those religious folks out there . she's an feloniioyus arsononist and the parents go to jail . LOTS OF PEOPLE TO SCARED TO CALL 911 THEY KNOW WHO'LL SHOW UP FIRST and take you to jail couse some one called 911 and they sent the police first to verify if there even was a fire to begin with and make sure it's safe for the fire dept. to come at all. hhmmmmm now how do i become a hindue indian so i can get unlimited credit i wonder.
I have a question for you, rob roy. Did you make it past 5th grade? Although I know my grammar may not be perfect your post is almost unreadable due to spelling and grammar. For God's sake go back to school.
Let's end this gene pool right now....sterilize the both of them so they can longer reproduce and find a loving home for the two children!
you must be a new democrate . or from mississippi and white couse they do still do that to citizens / and for your crime against thier civil rights i sentence you to the same . and thier probibly black and poor but or white and poor and you want to sell thier children for 100,000 dollars if thier white no takers if thier black couse you say so / how do you punish your children ? or do you do as cps says and not tell them to do anything do not make them do anything you shall not . couse thier free and can do as they please but when they start skippin school it's on you but you can not make or force them to go to school . / also to distroy this gene pool you must remder the children barren as well dumb ass COMMIE liberal
OMG..that was so painful to read. Really - didn't you ever hear of punctuation?? Run-on sentences? Anything
remotely close to grammar and spelling?? I'd say you should hang up your writing career now before its too late.
rob roy... it's good to see somebody using commie as an insult instead of socialist again. Other than that, however, you and bunkie need to chill out. Get a beer and just chill out.
What is wrong? Simply answered, everyone is running amuck. The world is heading pell mell to its destruction. There is no longer any value in human life. All you need to do is read the news and the answers are there every day. Enough said!!!
Oh, good grief. The crime rate is the lowest in decades. Stop being so dramatic, the world isn't coming to an end because two people are too clueless to know how to be good parents.
http://www.csmonitor.com/USA/Justice/2012/0109/US-crime-rate-at-lowest-point-in-decades.-Why-America-is-safer-now
Stuff like this has always happened, you just didn't used to hear about it because we didn't have a 24 hour news cycle that needed filling. Sounds like those parents need some parenting classes -- 10 years old is really too young to be left with such a small baby, and making a kid run 30 laps a day with no water and stand in weird stress positions for hours is not discipline, it's child abuse.
But it's not the end of the world. It's just Florida.
Can you please stop putting down Florida? I love Florida. I love the weather. I love my house. I love my family. We are in no way like a lot of these people. There are a lot of good people in Florida too. I mean there are a lot of people who live here during the winter and all year long too like my family. People are from all over. Also, people are born here too. There are bad people every where. But, like some people have said. WHo knows the whole story here. This is just someone writing an article. It could be slanted or biased. It may not even be completely accurate. People need to not jump to conclusions all the time. They need to read and find out true information. I never believe everything I see and read on the internet. I decide what I believe. I do not let others poison my mind about a situation. There are many people out there that try to discredit people. This could all be a misunderstanding or someone who has a grudge or even the child trying to get out of a punishment. I need more information to make a decision. So, I will research more and will keep a watch on this storyline to get to the real truth.
You're right, Dee, and I'm sorry I was snarky about Florida. I should know better -- I live in Texas, and it annoys me when people make assumptions about all residents of my state based on the actions of random rednecks and politicians.
I really was just responding to Starlighter's post that the end of the world was at hand because of the actions of these two people. Shouldn't' have dragged Florida into it.
This is why stupid people should not have children.
stupid from lack of edgucation , or from lack of i.q. , ? or just stupid to you ? or is ignorence stupid or do you believe stupidity is just based on the coler of skinn and the far supperior schooling iner cities get based on thier far higher tax rates and the stipulated funding that we all know is available to iner cities kids . you tell me since your the major moority the way i see it and wez be don wt yoz be sain masa sam mark my bad
Amen.
Geez, you have to get a license to fish most places and you don't have to have ANY credentials to be a parent.
ol, son acording to the naming on you and the heiritage of your self ol, son youd be top of the lise for nuetering ati ol, son
We've stopped disciplining our children out of fear that we'll end up on MSN with people saying "What the "f" is wrong with people."
talanx, you don't seem to know the difference between discipline and abuse. I put my snow boots in a closet, not a 6 month old baby. I hope you don't have any children until you learn what parenting is.
Exactly! I received far worse punishment as a kid besides having to run some laps and stand on one leg with a weight. I remember I got in trouble for something and my mother woke me up at 3am to clean the entire kitchen including, pots, pans, silverware, sweep and mop, wipe walls, clean out the fridge and this was all before I had to be at school. Then after school I had to mow lawns, pull weeds and do other chores. Now that was a punishment!
That is not discipline, makeing your kid walk laps and hold weights on one leg. Your right "talanx" what is wrong with you. You should be sterlized, do not breed. I you think this is OK, then you are a sick person that needs help.
KJ01- Your mother's "punishment" was abusive and bizarre. Not all child abuse is physical. I'm sorry. :(
Seeing more and more how the goverment is telling us how to raise our children. If you spank them you go to jail. If you don't spank them they end up in jail. If they even mention they got spanked there is goverment at your door taking your kids away. There is a fine line between abuse and punishment. The goverment crosses the abuse line more than the parents they are investigating. Been under that thumb a few times myself. They always back off when you don't want your kids back till monday!
Had to hold a quarter against the wall with my nose as a kid for extended periods when I got in trouble. Better then getting your ass beat.
vgj-Not only was my mother correct but she raised a person who has two degrees and a business. The punishment was not at all abusive and taught me that my actions have consequences. I will always appreciate and love my mother for her sacrifices and discipline to raise someone who has morals and has never been to prison or on drugs. I have two children of my own and my son graduated recently with honors, a full scholarship and will be going into the airforce after college. My daughter is also on the honor role. They both volunteer and and are great kids. The parents in this article need parenting classes but doing laps as a punishment in my opinion is not abusive in any way.
Just because you run a successful business doesn't mean that your mother raised a good person. If she had she would've taught you the difference between being a good person and just being a rich person.
kjo1 sounds like chores to me . want allowance earn it . i remember when farmers used to say that all the time milk the cows feed the hoogs get the eggs all before school .
KJ01, I think you're missing the point here. Since you have two degrees, then I'm sure you can understand this: they had a 6 month old baby in the closet.
Running laps = not so bad, running laps without water = bad, holding a weight while standing on one leg = very odd, pointless and depending on the complete circumstances could possibly be child abuse, keeping a baby in the closet = CHILD ABUSE.
No offense, but no one cares about your kids, whether or not you've been in trouble with the law, how many degrees you have or what you do for a living. What we do care about is a baby being kept in a closet.
Chris - No I am not missing the point at all. I agree that putting the 6 month old in the closet is bizarre at best and depending on the circumstances could be child abuse. We dont know who put the baby in the closet or why? Was it the parents or the girl? Was the baby in a playpen or on the floor? There is not enough info to say it was child abuse for sure. As for the laps, that is still not child abuse unless she was doing it for hours and hours with no water. It doesnt state how long the girl was outside or how many laps she did. For all we know it could have been 2 laps. I did more laps in gym class with no water. Remember the sprints across the gym floor back and forth for what seemed like an eternity? Guess we need to start arresting gym teachers. If the information comes back that the parents had the girl out there for hours in 90+ degree weather and the baby was sitting in the closet naked in his or her own feces then I will agree with you 100%.
According to the laws today...my own parents would have been jailed for all the ways that my brother and I were punished. They were old school and believed very much in corporal punishment and HARD work. But, you know in the end, both my brother and I are successful in our lives, we have manners and we value everything and everyone in our lives. I have to say, there were times that doing a few laps would have been easier than the work we had to do at times for punishment.
If you follow the link to the original story, it was 30 laps, with no water. Daily. And why was this kid left alone with this baby?
I just don't unerstand people. It wasn't that long ago that a little girl died from this type of punishment. There are so many people out there who would love to have kids and these idiots don't know how to treat the ones they have been blessed with. I hope both of the children find wonderful and caring parents to take them in. No child deserves a life like this. None.
you meen rich people . and ya by all meens lets split them up too
You have to take a TEST to get a driver's license. You have to have 8 years of TESTED education to get an MD. A beautician must pass a TEST to get a state hairdressing license. You can procreate with no education, no license, no test, and you don't have to be sober or awake in the action.
So you like Ron Howard and Keanu Reeves? Anything more recent than Parenthood? Was that really the movie that informed you regarding parenting skills?
Too bad more people haven't watched that movie, maybe they would spend a little more time thinking before acting.
Ok I must be missing something here. She set a fire so as punishment her parents made her run laps and stand on one leg while holding a weight and she also had to sleep on the floor. So what? It sounds like the kid of a military parent. How long was she running? Obviously she was not in need of medical attention so I dont see the child abuse. I can say the punishment could be a little extreme but so is making your kid hold a sign up detailing their bad deeds. Again I say so what? I have had far worse punishment than this as a kid.
they found her 6 month old little brother in a closet....there is nothing military about that. Don't bring down strict parents with the likes of child abusers, they are two vastly different groups of people. There is no excuse for having a child punished like that. When I was caught playing with matches as a kid I was not allowed to go to the theme park with my mom, aunts and cousins, instead I had to stay home with my dad and do chores. Making a child run laps with no hydration and then stand on one leg for hours is child abuse through and through.
Cool story, bro. Did they keep you in the closet when you were six months old too?
So, as long as these people are from the military, then it's okey dokey doodle dandyish? As long as medical attention isn't REQUIRED, then everything's hunkey dory? I'm not sure which side of the turnip truck you fell off of, but I completely disagree with your logic, sir. Please don't have kids. Thanks.
Sorry Katie I will have to respectfully disagree with most of that. I do agree that having the six month old in the closet is completely wrong. As far as the girl's punishment goes I think setting a fire deserves a harsher punishment than say throwing a tantrum. If the girl was running laps for several hours with no water then I agree that is too much but it doesnt say in the article how long the girl had been doing laps. It could have been 4 laps around the parking lot. Standing on one leg is not going to kill her. It will just make her leg sore. Been there, done that and didnt die or have psychological problems because of it.
It did in fact affect you, KJ01, as you clearly don't know what child abuse is. If this is lighweight stuff to you, then you were most certainly a victim of child abuse. You were one of the lucky ones to make it out.
kj01 you are missing something the kid in the closet. the fact of how long she was running is missing too!!!!you dipstick!!!
We ended up with a pallet in the walk in closet for my son when he was a year and a half old. He would sleep walk and I kept waking up to find him in there. Does that mean I was/am an "abusive parent"? Again, there's just not enough information to judge a lot of this.
The baby in the closet was six months old. If he was there, it's because he was put there. the 10 year old ran 30 laps, not 2, per the original linked story.
This is harsh sure, but to be honest if this was abuse when I was that age my parents would be doing life.
Ok the whole laps with weights etc is nutty, not sure how abusive - but their was a BABY in a closet? WTH? Was it being punished for crying?
we probably need a definition of closet. i have a walk in closet at home that is bigger than the bedroom I had as a kid. Some closets are big enough for a bassinet to fit inside no problem. it is dark and quiet, perfect setting for the baby to sleep. Running laps for punishment to harsh?? You might as well arrest every grand parent in America. They have all done worse than this.
My first apartment had a closet that was 9 foot wide and 15 foot long with a window, my roommate and I put a twin bed and dresser in it for my little sister when she stayed with us. I have definitely seen closets bigger than my bedroom now, more detail would be nice.
Nice Mugshot of him on mugshotsusa
Why does FLORIDA HATE CHILDREN!?!
Why do you hate intelligence?
This kind of thing isn't new people. People have been abusing their kids for ages (ahem - hitting them with belts, making them walk to school in the SNOW). All that is different is the media. I make my kids run for exercise but I give them breaks, drinks, balls to chase, etc. The weights on one leg and baby in the closet is too far though. The fact that the girl set a small fire because she was frustrated is a sign of some serious family issues.
You don't even know what abuse is, walking to school in the snow, OMG for shame!!!
You know, step back for a second and think about this. Kids don't usually act out by setting fires unless 1. there are serious issues at home, 2. the child has mental or anger issues to deal with or 3. it's an accident. Everyone here is assuming #1, and based on the article it's understandable. To play devil's advocate for a moment, the only one who said she had to stand on her leg holding a weight for 2 hrs is this 10 yr old kid who was pissed off enough to set a fire. The ONLY "facts" that are known is that a fire was set, the child was wandering the parking lot upset, and the baby was in the closet. Unless the baby was stuffed in the closet (as opposed to a walk-in that had a bassinet set up, etc. - and we don't know which it is), there is no evidence that the parents even did any of these things. Now there may be witnesses, and these people may be well and truly evil and deserve to never see their kids again - or it could be the case of a very disturbed little girl. I'm not trying to blame the child, and she could be an absolute angel, but truth is, some children have issues and do lie as well. I think I'll have to reserve judgement until more details come out.
Lol What planet are you from? Walking to school in the snow is abuse? Kids did that for over 200 years and I doubt many died from it. I read a story where Geronimo's father had him and some other Apache children run 5 miles holding a mouthful of water, At the end of the race they had to spit out the water. The point of this was to teach them self-dicipline. When kids have no dicipline their parents are suppost to teach it to them. Excersise is one way to do that. It saddens me that Americans have gotten to be such a bunch of selfindulgent, whinny, wimps that any type of physical punishment is considered wrong. Why should not a parent be able to dicipline their child as they see fit as long as there is not a visible sign of emotional or physical trauma? Where in our constitution was the goverment given the power to be our parents? Or to tell us how we must teach our childern?
Some people - millions - should not have children.
Need a new law that requires a certain IQ level to bear children and vote.
Good, can we revoke your rights to do either -- right now?
That would decimate the Democratic party
I guess you would be planning to be childless then?
Why is it people who would be LOVING parents struggle to conceive and people who do not deserve children have them every day?????????????????
SAD TRUTH!
wow and you need a license to drive a car!!!
She had to do laps with no water, the kids had to sleep on the floor, the baby was in a closet- is that terrific parenting, or what? Seriously! I hope they find those two kids a good safe home.
Has it occurred to you lil brain that perhaps a billion children in the world sleep on the floor? Oh noes too much trauma...They will be scarred for life or untill the next Spiderman movie comes out.
My kids are offered a fairly long leash. They do not get hit, except when we are wrestling around, and they are not assigned any extreme punishments. I have, however, made them give me some push-ups, but I gave them a choice. "Give me 20 of your best push-ups, or do jumping jacks for 1 minute." This was in response to their declaration that chores were too tough, and that since they were kids, they should be out playing. I gave them a tough chore. My oldest hates it when I make him unplug the toilet after he plugs it up (he's almost 13), but he's not given the chance to skate out of it. I do not think that a child should be punished harshly, but should be dealt with appropriately. When my oldest, my middle, and the kid up the street decided to start a back field fire, in their fort, that almost got them too, they were pnished equally for the fire, as well as for the lies afterward. I work with the police, and fire department, so I called one of my friends in the FD to give them a talking to from the fire fighters perspective. He even gave them a fake ticket for remeberance. The only lengthy punishments, should be groundings, and chore lists. Physically demanding tasks, should not be dealt for extended periods, unless the person is allowed adequate hydration opportunities, as it appears was not the case here, or in the case of the one that died.
All the fruitcakes on here that say the world is going to hell in a hand basket, I say.....yes, way back things were so much better. You died from an ear infection, were burned at the stake if your neighbor said you were a witch, worked average of sixty hours a week, had no vacations, not enough heat, food, clean water, and decent clothes and lived to a ripe old age of thirty five.
THANK YOU!, For putting things into PERSPECTIVE!!
And yet you're typed all this on your computer, sitting on a comfy chair. GTFO, hypocrite.
You just proved the world would be a better place.
See, now we live to 75 and strain the economy and our resources to the breaking point.
We are taxed to the high heavens to help pay for all the worthless people in the country who cant be bothered to help themselves.
We have people who have no buisness having kids that are having 10.
Now people are basiclly worthless in the work place because they feel they are not getting paid enough.
We see minimum wage increases for exceptionally bad work habits. Seems they are still screwing up my order at micky d's even though these pukes are making nearly $8 an hour.
We have people who throw trash all over the place cause hey...someone will clean up after them.
Freaking disgusting if you ask me. Yeah Id love to see things go back to the way they were...way back when. The world would be a better place.
Umm okies and this ties into child dicipline how? Let me guess by raising undiciplined children we have solved all the above problems? Sorry Fruitcake Glendala you need to have the lobotomy reversed.
What she is talking about is clowns with an oversized sense of nostaliga on this post, nhtaol. She is merely pointing out that all those times when you could make your child wrestle a bear or some outlandish punishment like that, there were a lot of other unsavory things that went on, like witch burnings. The reason things were like that back then is because people valued life less back then.
They need to hire a lawyer and say they were practicing their religion.
Okay, so you can not whip your child, can not smack them, can not yell. Now you can not even do things like this as punishment. No wonder kids are out of control, and to the wonderful people who come up with these bogus laws what are we suppose to do about punishment? Taking electronics and such doesn't always work you morons.
It's your problem that you're too stupid, too weak and too lazy to educate yourself about how you can discipline children without resorting to violence and teaching them to respond with violence to behaviour they disapprove of.
You obviously do not have any children. We have all seen out of control kids acting out in the public. If you as a parent do not discipline your kids, that is exactly what you will have. and you may be able to get by with shoving candy in their face to passify them for awhile, but it will not work when they are 14. So take a little advice from some one who has raised 4 kids, the third one just graduated with honors. the older two kids are in ther early twenties and live and support themselves, good citizens. the youngest is straight a student just finished ninth grade. You need to lay down the law when they are young. I was one of those evil parents that spanked them with a belt. Did not have to do it very often, but they knew it was possible. I could not be prouder of them. They have turned into outstanding young people.
Yeah Gia-1007883 its the idiots that are at fault for not letting their kids become drug addicted self centered, sex addicts, with no work or personnal ethics, wearing clothing to imitate the thug lifestyle. Its not all the no violence parents like you...oh no, I am sure your kids are national honor society members. What were those 2 thinking actually using excersise to dicipline their children. too bad its not Texas, Bush could have sent them to death row.
Oh my god! The Nazis have struck again! Why do pricks like you always think that agressiveness and violence solves everything? Plenty of white trash parents spank and whip their kids, and they are certanly not going to grow up as great citizens.
Wow so making a kid do exercise is now considered child abuse? This is what is wrong with society, there is no discipline. Kids do whatever they want because they know there will be no real consequences. All you bleeding heart losers with your little sissy timeouts need to get a life and realize you are the problem, you are why kids today have no respect for anything.
Respect is earned, not owed.
I agree with you that a lot of kids need a good a$$ whooping to teach them some respect and discipline, but as for this story I think this is more on the abuse side of the fence. 2 hours with no breaks or water? That is excessive. Plus a baby in a closet? These parent's are obviously whack jobs.
No, honey, you and your violent ignorance is the problem, because they breed losers like the parents mentioned in the article.
It would seem a large number of Americans need a sausage emena to attempt to jumpstart their brains.
I firmly believe a lot of children now days have it easy by way of punishments ( most not all). This however is wrong, and obviously not the only time the children have been neglected/abused. It's tragic to see the long term affects children in abusive homes suffer. No matter how normal they appear they are still scarred. I hope these kids can be placed in a loving home, however with all the psycho foster parents who just want a check they may not be any better off.
TOO TRUE with the foster system comment.