Vacation of a lifetime pledged for bus monitor bullied in viral video

Three separate videos totaling 14 minutes taken during a school bus ride just outside Rochester, N.Y., show middle schoolers taunting a bus monitor until she cries, prompting questions about kids and civility. NBC's Craig Melvin reports, and bus monitor Karen Klein talks with TODAY's Matt Lauer about the cruel harassment.

Updated 10:30 a.m. Thursday ET: Karen Klein, a school bus monitor of Greece, N.Y., depicted being verbally bullied in a video gone viral, may have the last laugh.

By mid-morning Thursday on the fund-raising site indiegogo.com, nearly 8,000 donors had pledged more than $150,000 in a campaign called “Lets Give Karen – The bus monitor – H Klein A Vacation.”

The fund-raising was set up through a reddit.com member, identified as Max Sidorov of Toronto, Canada.


An Indiegogo spokesperson told msnbc.com that the website was in touch with Klein, who will receive all the money raised through its site when the campaign is over, scheduled July 20.

Karen Klein talks to Matt Lauer on TODAY

A video called "Making the Bus Monitor Cry" was posted to YouTube on Monday and had been seen by more than 100,000 viewers by Wednesday evening. The video shows students yelling at Klein and making fun of her weight and other physical conditions.

Graphic content warning: The video on YouTube 

NBC television station WHEC of Rochester, N.Y., on Wednesday confirmed with the Greece School District that Klein was the subject of the middle school students’ heckling.

An outpouring of support for Klein emerged after her identity became known.

While WHEC was interviewing Klein, the station reported, people were stopping over and flowers were being delivered.

Klein said she still can’t believe this happened. The video was taken by a student who is always very kind to her, she said.

“It’s just plain mean, and no one should have to live with that,” she said.

In her 20-plus years as a bus driver and monitor with the Greece Central Schools, Klein said she has never run into this kind of behavior.

See the original story at WHEC.com

“Everything started out as usual. I don’t know what happened,” she said.

Klein said the four kids in the video often misbehave, but what happened Monday was taking things to a whole new level.

Greece police and school district officials are investigating three videos, including the one titled "Making the Bus Monitor Cry." 

NBC affiliate WHEC talks to bus monitor Karen Klein, who was verbally abused by a group of middle school students on a school bus.

Debra Hoeft, Greece School District, said, “We do not tolerate harassment of staff or students. While we can not comment on specific student discipline, we can say that students found to be involved will face strong disciplinary actions.”

In one of the videos, the kids are calling her names, swearing at her and even making physical threats. Klein doesn’t say much to the middle schoolers.

“I was trying to just ignore,” Klein said. “I’m hoping they would go away, but it doesn’t work.”

Klein said she didn’t know about the video until Wednesday morning, and watched it for the first time at the police station when she went to help them with their investigation.

Klein told WHEC she plans to return to work but not on a bus carrying those students.

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Punk ass kids. I hope they had their fun. Now the whole world knows what they did and the fun is over.

  • 59 votes
#1 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:41 PM EDT

I hope their parents are too ashamed to show their faces as well. Not only are their kids lower than scum, but they are dumb as rocks too thinking they would look cool after posting the video on YouTube. Oops, plan backfired I guess. But mom and dad will probably defend their behavior.

If it were my kid I would send him to military school right away. Let a drill sergeant show him what humiliation is. If I had a girl, same thing. Where do you think those kids they learn to be so disrespectful?

  • 48 votes
#1.1 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:12 PM EDT
Comment author avatarDanielle Jewisvia Facebook

1. Permanent expulsion from bus transportation.

2. 100 hours of community service in working with PEOPLE, none of this raking up leaves crap or picking up garbage on the side of the road or working with animals and cleaning kitten cages. i'm talking like volunteering in nursing homes, or tutoring after school or working with ADULTS.

3. Harassment charges on all children involved.

4. Both public and private apologies. Public - for humiliation and repayment to the public for having such an attitude. Private - so that it is meaningful and acceptable to Ms. Klein.

5. 10 days minimum out-of-school suspension.

  • 76 votes
#1.2 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:40 PM EDT

As a teenager I feel that the best way to deal with these pukes is to sign em up for a military boarding school with an @!$%# for a commander, and then post every video you can of them crying because their mommies aren't there to hold there hands. see how tough they feel then

  • 35 votes
#1.3 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:30 AM EDT
Comment author avatarMike S.-2262427Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Good for her, I guess..

"A video called "Making the Bus Monitor Cry" was posted to YouTube on Monday and had been seen by more than 10"0,000 viewers by Wednesday evening. The video shows students yelling at Klein and making fun of her weight and other physical conditions."

My advise to her is to find a new job. If you can't handle criticism from kids, maybe you shouldn't be a bus monitor...I'm not blaming the victim here. What those kids did was terrible. But..c'mon. I understand times are tough and that finding a another job would be tough. But is it really worth it if you're going to cry over kids teasing you everyday? Is the pay for being a bus monitor just that great?

Sincerely,

Mike-expecting to be collapsed.

  • 3 votes
#1.4 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:50 AM EDT

Dude, they weren't just criticising her, they were talking about going to her house, killing her, beating her up, etc. Nevermind the fact that what they said was vile, but the threats are enough to qualify for legal action (and she should take it).

If these were adults, they'd be at the station by now.

  • 58 votes
#1.5 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:06 AM EDT

hey mike, do you realize what youre saying? if some clowns commit a crime, you should give in and leave? so if you get mugged on a subway, you should quit taking the subway? if you get raped at a bar, you should quit going to bars? if you get shot at the supermarket, you should quit eating? tell you what, mike, how bout some relatives of hers knock all their teeth out, and then she can bring a couple of bouncers with her on the bus to make fun of how they look with no teeth. then if they dont like getting teased, they can kill themselves by taking the overdose of sleeping pills they found shoved up their rectum.

  • 11 votes
#1.6 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:05 AM EDT

Mike - did you watch the video? This was way beyond criticism. They took bullying to a whole new level. The things being said to her was so disturbing on so many levels. The only other articles I've read that angered me to this level involve child abuse.

She shouldn't have to leave her job because of disrespectful, and probably future juvenile delinquents! It may not pay the best but it's what she's been doing for years and there may not be that many jobs in her area that she's qualified to do.

If I ever heard someone addressing anyone in the manner these kids did to this lady I would be in jail myself! Parents need to be held accountable for the actions of their children as well. Just simply removing them from riding the bus is not going to fix their attitudes. I'm not sure what discipline is really fit for these kids. But they need more than just being suspended and not allowed to ride the bus.

  • 19 votes
#1.7 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:07 AM EDT

I am married to a school bus driver, and have driven a school bus off and on over the years. In general, it is a profession that requires discipline and restraint. A monitor is usually placed on a bus when the passengers have proven to be too much for the driver to handle. That being said, the driver is the captain of that vehicle, and the one in final control. The driver should have known what the situation was, and pulled the bus over. Further, if these kids had proven to be an unruly bunch (and all evidence points to that) a male security guard should have been placed on the bus. Too often school districts and private bus companies who sub-contract transportation for school districts try to cut costs by putting retirees and untrained personnel in monitor positions. The thinking is that matronly monitors will command more respect and not escalate these situations like a male would. Obviously in this case that proved to be false.

In a school that takes charge (like where my daughter went to school), there would be immediate suspension from school, and removal from transportation for the school year. Nothing motivates a parent to discipline their child like having to drive them to and from school every day. The first impulse of everyone who sees this video is revulsion and a feeling of violence toward these kids. That's understandable, but it also teaches them that violence in the correct response to violence. I think by this time--from all I've read about responses to the video--every one of these kids is beginning to realize that they screwed up--BIG TIME. They're embarrassed themselves, their school district, their families, and even their city. Nice job, guys. Now you know what if feels like to be bullied. How do you like it? Not so nice, huh?

  • 20 votes
#1.8 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:06 AM EDT

See folks what public school employees have to deal with! You are on a witch hunt with teachers because some Republicans told you we are evil. Look what we have to deal with every day!! God forbid teachers make a living and get a retirement!!!! One of the news reporters said maybe the school can use it for a teaching moment?? Holy Lord put that on the list of a million things we have to do!!!! Crucify the parents for a change would you???

  • 22 votes
#1.9 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 6:51 AM EDT

These kids should be permanently expelled from school. They should then be given three options: 1. The Belt, 2. The Paddle or 3. The Hand. Maybe a little old school discipline is what they need.

  • 9 votes
#1.10 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 7:44 AM EDT

I like the military boarding school idea.

  • 8 votes
#1.11 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:08 AM EDT

I guess now i have seen everything. Kids who could be this cruel without ANY compassion or remorse . . . is there any hope? Whatever their punishment is, there had better be strong, powerful people supervising. This is simply unbelievable. The words were terrible, but you DO NOT TOUCH another human being! And the bus monitor was calm and maintained her cool. I admire her for that. Sorry to say, if it had been me, there probably would have been some bottoms spanked (one way or the other!) and/or bitch-slapping She deserves whatever vacation she wants.

+

  • 8 votes
#1.12 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:13 AM EDT

If they were my kids/grandkids, I would have wooped their butts good, taken their phone away, grounded them, and then invited that woman over to sit on their faces. Cured of being a dumb a$$ little puck.

The parents better hope that woman doesn't sue. She has all the evidence needed. Mental anguish, public humiliation, harassment, defamation of ....oh wait. She was fat....

  • 8 votes
#1.13 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:17 AM EDT

Punk ass kids is right!!! I watched the video and these little punks are in need of some major discipline! Kids today have lost all respect for each other and adults. No wonder our country is going to hell fast........

  • 14 votes
#1.14 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:31 AM EDT

Lolly1192 - do you have trouble reading? The video was uploaded by a student who is always nice to the bus monitor. It was not uploaded by one of the heckling students.

  • 3 votes
#1.15 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:37 AM EDT

Actually, there are two other videos that this punk put on the internet. He claims all he did was film, I call BS, in one of them you can clearly hear him tormenting this woman... These punks deserve whatever they have coming to them and their parents are absolutely disgustig human beings! If my child was one of these creatures I would have already called for a press conference and made them apologize on national television. Of course, people who raise narcissistic children like this are probably equally as bad... I am so glad to se that the fundraiser has already raised nearly $140k so this woman can retire and never ever have to be subjected to this type of humiliation... Ha ha you little punks, who is poor now?

  • 5 votes
#1.16 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:15 AM EDT

Those delinquents should spend a year in juvenile detention. And kudos to all those who donated to send this girl on a dream vacation!

  • 7 votes
#1.17 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:24 AM EDT

See folks what public school employees have to deal with! You are on a witch hunt with teachers because some Republicans told you we are evil.

<sigh>

Why do people need to bring their retarded politics into this?

  • 3 votes
#1.18 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:51 AM EDT

Dear Mrs. Klein,

Please, get right back on that bus, especially with those kids that behaved so terribly. Show them that they did not really hurt you in the long run. They are the cowards and you showing up will teach them exactly that. Show up, be professional, great them nicely and just be the kind woman that you are. You can't allow them a single molecule of victory.

Dear parents of those kids,

Wow, I bet you're wondering where you went wrong. Nobody here can tell you want to do, and they should not. But if my kids did that, I would make them do two things: First, read an apology to that kind woman in front of the entire school. Then they will spend the entire summer mowing the lawn, painting her home or some similar services for that woman.

Mrs. Klein's wounds will recover quickly but my "apparently brain damaged kid" needs to learn a very hard lesson. His punishment will be as ruthless as it will be efficient.

  • 10 votes
#1.19 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:08 AM EDT

John-1111,

What does your statement "You are on a witch hunt with teachers because some Republicans told you we are evil." have to do with this article? Furthermore, what the heck does the reference to Republicans have to do with this article?

Political statements such as yours are at best, the result of no thought process.

Lynn G,

" Kids who could be this cruel without ANY compassion or remorse...". Oh yes they can be this way!

  • 5 votes
#1.20 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:14 AM EDT

FIRST PUNISH THE KIDS THEN THE PARENTS AND THEN "TRY" TO EDUCATE THEM ALL.

ALL people involved in this KNOW the bulling problems and clearly don't give a 5hit. So lets send her on vacation?

The headlines should read.

ALL CHILDREN INVOLVED NOW SERVING 200 HOURS OF COMMUNITY SERVICE IN THEIR NEIGHBORS.

  • 3 votes
#1.21 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:14 AM EDT

I'm glad the kids posted it online,otherwise there would be no evidence and the poor woman would always be tormented,at least now they can put a stop to it for her sake and peace of mind.

  • 2 votes
#1.22 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:43 AM EDT

but it also teaches them that violence in the correct response to violence

There are many situations where violence happens, and violence is not the proper response. Unfortunately, there are situations where violence happens, and the only way to stop it is with the use of violence. Pain is a strong motivating force.

They should have been given corporal punishment, and that punishment should have been posted to Youtube, and their crying faces put into a close up shot for all to see. I think you wouldn't have to worry about disrespectful behavior again..

  • 1 vote
#1.23 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:50 AM EDT

I'm glad the kids posted it online,otherwise there would be no evidence and the poor woman would always be tormented,at least now they can put a stop to it for her sake and peace of mind.

If the school does not take proactive action to stop that abuse, she can sue the school for hostile work environment. Them knowing about it, and not doing something about it, is enough to bring suit.

    #1.24 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:59 AM EDT

    These little animals need to be prosecuted and sent to juvenile detention. Their parents may are may not have a hand in this disgusting behavior, if during the investigation they are found to somehow contributed to this behavior then they also should be fined and charged with neglect. That being said, believe me when I say that I see parents everyday who are at the end of their rope and have done every thing possible short of giving them up to the child disciplinary services to try to teach their children right from wrong. However this is almost a loosing battle as the rights of parents are being eroded by the very system which when the children become so destructive and disobedient that even they cannot control them anymore. They use corporal punishment as a last resort in disiplining their child and when they get to school they tell the officials they have been abused and then child protective services have you arrested. As far as I am concerned I have witnessed a parent using the so called time out and the children laugh at it, then they have their games and other things taken away from them and because of what theyhave watched on the television these days they become so angry and violent that they actually scare the parents into submission. I believe that until the system takes away the attempted parenting from the schools and return them back to the parents with certain assurances that baring severe physical or emotional abuse they will not be interfered with this will get worse. The public school has become a breeding ground for delinquent children, instead of teaching them the skills that they will need in the work area they teach them sex education or painting or dancing and many other things that should be taught to then by their parents or areas potside of the school and these kids leave schools without knowing how to read and write. Do a video and ask these kids simple questions that they should know such as who is the President and the Vice President or recite the Declaration of Independence of which I had to memorise when I was in the sixth grade. Of course I am kidding about who the President is because every child from kinder garden is indoctrinated as to who this is now and especially i the public schools, its almost if he is a god or something. But ask them who the President or Vice President was before that or before that and you will be shocked as to their answers. I am very discouraged about the future of this country just because the ones who are listening and learning on their own will one day grow up to become the leaders and my feeling is that their frame of mind will not be justice for all but for enslavement and power. Their are only two people left in this country now, the rich and the poor and when this happens it becomes a event for anarchy and violence.

    • 1 vote
    #1.25 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:39 AM EDT

    This has been going on forever to all the kids who do not fit in and no one in the school system chooses to address it.

    I am glad this adult gets a free vacation out of it but think of all the kids who are not adults that have to put up with this. She was an adult and they broke her - she couldn't handle it - she cried. She was a mature individual with a lifetime of experience to draw from and she couldn't cope with this!

    What chance does a good kid have in these Gladiator Acadamies?

    Ever wonder why kids joke and call school "prison" - because it's not that different.

    "Social Ettiqute" should be taught in schools and in prisons and if you don't pass - you either go to summer school or you don't get out of prison. There is enough trash on the street!

      #1.26 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:03 PM EDT

      My advise to her is to find a new job......

      Sincerely,

      Mike-expecting to be collapsed.

      Mike, my father always used to tell me "it's not what you say, it's the way you say it".

      You're probably not wrong. She seems like a VERY nice lady in a job where it helps very much to be a Certified A**hole. However you really could have said it a bit more tactfully.

        #1.27 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 2:15 PM EDT

        This is how kids behave when there is no fear of retribution. I used to think home schooling was only for religious fanatics until I overheard some "conversations" going on at the bus stop. You can't shield your kids from the world but you can reduce the amount of unnecessary trauma. My youngest is almost through high school. We chose an online alternative high school for her senior year. I'd think twice before sending my kids in with the general population if they were just starting out.

          #1.28 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:47 PM EDT
          Reply

          I watched about 30 seconds of the video and I can tell you that if that was my child who was harassing this lady then the school district would not have to worry about punishment for my child. However, the police may need to show up at my door to take my kid in protective custody. This is totally disgusting and goes to show that youth of today have no respect. These kids should be forced to show their faces on video as they are apologizing to this lady and it should be posted on youtube. Maybe about 100 hours of community service would be a good start. I'm absolutely appalled at these kids.

          • 46 votes
          Reply#2 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:55 PM EDT

          And imagine what life is like for kids in middle school if this is how adults are treated. Bullying literally kills.

          • 21 votes
          #2.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:16 AM EDT

          K, your kid would not be one of the kids who were harassing her in the first place.

          • 3 votes
          #2.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:10 AM EDT

          Tina, exactly my thoughts. I too thought at first "if that was one of my kids..." but then quickly realized that I don't have any fear of that being one of my kids. My kids are the ones that stood up to kids 4-5 years older the them at the Cincinnati Zoo for picking on mentally handicapped children.

          • 5 votes
          #2.3 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:00 AM EDT

          It's not surprising to find so many kids have no respect for others. Look at the behavior of so many adults in our country today. How often do you hear someone say "He/she has to earn my respect." Wrong, people. As humans we should respect everyone else who shares our planet, even if we disagree with them. Sure, someone can (and has) lose the respect of others, but the starting point of any contact with another person should be mutual respect. Otherwise, if you decide people must "earn" your respect, you immediately have established yourself as the deciding judge of others. Do you think everyone must live up to your standards? If yes, I feel very sorry for you and your little closed mind. Let's encourage kids to take a positive interest in others.

          • 4 votes
          #2.4 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:21 AM EDT

          MNPat: I agree! I've heard others say "respect must be earned." Baloney! I respect all -- including Mother Earth. I may not agree with others and may chose to avoid some--but I respect everyone--starting with myself.

          • 2 votes
          #2.5 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:37 AM EDT

          What and MNPat - I agree with you both in part, but disagree in part. I think people often confuse the term "respect" with "honor". Certain kinds of honorific respect, such as leadership respect and role model respect, definitely needs to be earned. The saying "respect needs to be earned" in those circumstances provides an incentive to work hard and act appropriately to obtain the goal of earning such honorific respect from those around you. However, there is also civility respect, which is something that should be automatic and in the forefront of every human interaction you have. That is the problem with many people - an utter lack of civility respect. They misunderstand and misapply the "earned" phrase and use it as an excuse to not have to be civil to others and to act in any manner they please. This is a huge problem in our society (ex: road rage, blog trolling, public insults, swearing and cursing in public, increasing vitriol in politics, selfishness, lack of altruism, etc.). These kids are exactly what Matt called them - monsters. However, they didn't become monsters on their own. They learned this behavior from their parents, who also failed to teach them the basics of civility respect. Unfortunately, I think we are going to see an entire generation of these monsters grow up into adults with equally little civility respect for others. I can only hope that this story and the videos are used by other parents as a turning point towards greater civility.

          Here is what I propose for everyone reading these boards today - go out and do three nice things to three people today, say something nice, help someone out, or just be extra kind, thankful, and polite to people you encounter. Who knows, maybe they will pass it on and we will start something...

            #2.6 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:57 AM EDT

            My thoughts were what if this was my Mother or Grandmother being abused like this. The very thought of this happening to my loved one made my blood boil, my thoughts were to severly slap them around but then my sanity returned and I wondered what type of home that they were living in that they would not fear the punishment associated with their actions. This video should be doctored with the images of each of these childrens Parents and Grandparents replaced in them and the kids should be made to watch. Old fashioned punishment is the answer to a child who rebels against their peers. The raising of children has to be left to the parents and when they cannot handle them then they need to bite the bullet and turn them over to the authorities. The schools should butt out of trying to be these childrens parents. The 60s generation is the cause of this with their free love and their drug use and their rebellion against God first and then society. This is now coming back to bite them in the rear. What the h*ll, its over now and you cannot change what is happening in this country and I cannot help but believe the worse is yet to come. Racism is now reversed, its the blacks who are now more racist than the whites, not that its right or wrong just that it is the way it is, but the problem is when they do that they are changing all the advances they have made. Martin Luther King would be the first to tell you that you cannot overcome hate with hate or racism with racism. As a Christian I trully believe that until we as a nation return to the teaching's of God and his Son Jesus Christ that this country will fall sooner than it is prophised in the Book of the Revelations. The teaching of evolution was the beginning of the destruction of mankind, you cannot tell a human being that he evolved from a animal and not expect them to act like a animal. When you tell a child that they are special and they are a created being and that they were wonderfully made in the image of a supreme being they then realise that they are special and will act accordingly. You cannot murder millions of unborn babies and then go home and when your child asks you what do you do daddy or mommy and tell your child that you have been at work today and killed unborn children, you cannot accept the immorality of homosexuality and teach your children that this is an acceptable way of life and expect them to get married with one of the opposite sex and give you grandchildren. I am so sick of the people in this country who stand up and proclaim to be a Christian and then allow this insanity to go on, why do you not admit that you are a child of satan and stop being a hippocrit. You would fair better with God than to straddle the fence and lead his children astray with your false living, or even better go, look at yourself in the mirror and realise that what you are doing is wrong and repent and if you are in the position of being able to do something about it then do it. I admit I am a sinner and I have to confess my sins to God evey day but I do not leave out in the morning knowing that I will today murder one of his creations, a beautiful child. I will not leave work in the evening knowing that at some point I will go against not only sinning against God but against nature itself by commiting the abomination of homosexuality. You can spin these evil acts any way you want but you cannot commit them and expect your children to live like a human being and not as a animal.

              #2.7 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:36 PM EDT

              coleslaw1,

              Your attempt to parse "respect" into politeness and honor allows you to justify the attitude that a person needs to earn respect from others. I agree that we should be civil to others, but being nice to others doesn't bestow on that person an equal status in your mind, should you choose to consider yourself superior. I'm nice - civil - to friends' pets, but that doesn't mean I respect them, or consider them my equal as living beings.

              Again, I sincerely believe we all need to bestow respect unconditionally to all other human beings. If their actions later cause that respect to be lost, it's not because my initial judgement was that they were inferior to me due to some standards I've imposed on them.

                #2.8 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:41 PM EDT
                Reply

                I tried to watch the video on another news site. It was so nasty and hateful I couldn't finish it.

                Honestly, what is wrong with those kids?

                • 29 votes
                Reply#3 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:56 PM EDT

                What is wrong with those kids?

                Look at the parents.

                • 6 votes
                #3.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:10 AM EDT

                Why Tina? Is EVERY bad thing that a kid goes the parents' fault? Every time a kid does something wrong, it's 100% because of how they were raised, right?

                Get a clue. Kids do things like this to be funny in front of their friends and to fit in. They don't treat people like @!$%# because their parents taught them to, that's not usually how it works.

                • 4 votes
                #3.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:39 AM EDT

                Kids do this to be funny in front of their friends but when a camera is involved and there's a possibility of their parents seeing their actions, the kids who know their parents won't care or will defend their vile actions are the ones who keep going. So maybe not in all cases, but yeah, it's the parents' fault.

                • 4 votes
                #3.3 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:08 AM EDT

                No Ryan. Kids do these things because their PARENTS haven't taught them to be repectful of other people, especially elders. It hasn't been stressed enough. You see, inside they are missing the moral compass that tells them, "Tthis is wrong-very wrong, and I just can't participate. It is not right." It hasn't been hounded into them. Now, it is too late for them. They will remain this way for the rest of their lives and no amount of community service, screaming, or belt-threatening discipline will change the way they treat other people. I've written them off. Bunch of disrespectful, hateful, mean, little brats.

                • 1 vote
                #3.4 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:56 AM EDT

                This is why you can throw all the money in the world at public schools and it won't solve any problems. Imagine how much fun it is to teach these little charmers all day while everybody says that your job is easy and requires no real work?

                • 1 vote
                #3.5 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:45 PM EDT

                No, Ryan, not every bad thing that a kid does is the parents' fault.
                But I find it very hard to believe that a child raised in a home with love and respect would ever participate in something like this.

                  #3.6 - Fri Jun 22, 2012 12:36 AM EDT
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                  How about kicking them off the bus PERMANENTLY!!!!! Make mom and dad take them to and from school. No one, absolutely no one should have to put up with this crap. Problem is lack of discipline. Can't discipline because we might stunt the little darlings mental, emotional health. Please. This is unacceptable for anyone to act in such a manner. And along with expulsion from the bus..each of them should have to write her an apology and then read it in front of a student body assembly. They should then have to perform community service. And this would be the punishment for anyone thinking of doing such a thing.

                  • 31 votes
                  Reply#4 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 7:57 PM EDT

                  They should be in juvenile detention.

                  • 5 votes
                  #4.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:11 AM EDT
                  Reply

                  Making the kids apologize directly (or indirectly) probably will not have any impact whatsoever unless their own parents also apologize. The parents are ultimately responsible for raising their children, and generally smart ass kids are often unhappy kids. It's up to the parent to identify their kids' underlying issues and deal with them accordingly. Sadly, the parents of those bullies are often just as unhappy as their own children, yet they need to take responsibility as adults to learn about 'respect' and then teach it to their own kids.

                  • 6 votes
                  Reply#5 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:13 PM EDT

                  Expulsion from the bus -- forever -- would be a good start. Brings it home to the parents who have obviously failed to impart the message that both school and the school bus are privileges they are lucky to have.

                  • 18 votes
                  Reply#6 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:19 PM EDT

                  Hey parents of the bullies- put your kids on tv and make them apologize to this lady. That is the least you could do.

                  • 19 votes
                  Reply#7 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:27 PM EDT

                  Not enough. If this were my kid, he'd be mowing this woman's yard for the next year.

                  • 15 votes
                  #7.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 2:30 AM EDT

                  Can't do that, Jack. They'd "piss on her door or egg her house" every week. They will learn nothing. Especially now that they are famous at school.

                    #7.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:00 AM EDT
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                    I wouldn't mind seeing these kids get expelled from school. This was beyond teasing, this was full-out verbal abuse. Anything less feels like a slap on the wrist.

                    • 19 votes
                    Reply#8 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:30 PM EDT

                    If they were making physical threats then that IS grounds for expulsion. Most schools have a zero tolerance for violence policy. Plus the monitor could possibly press charges.

                    • 16 votes
                    #8.1 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:13 PM EDT

                    The kids dont understand that the monitor is there to protect them. It is the monitors responsibility to be present to hopefully prevent kids from bullying other kids, or make sure the bus driver is safely getting the kids to where they need to go, and to do anything else necessary for the health and well being of the kids.

                    If I had a dog that bit me every time I fed it, I wonder what I'd do to that dog?

                    • 5 votes
                    #8.2 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:42 PM EDT
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                    It isn't surprising that young people are taking their own lives when they're subjected to this sort of ridicule day after day. Even faculty and staff aren't safe, as demonstrated by this video. Perhaps it is my cynical nature, but I'm afraid the school district is only acting on this because it blew up in the media. I certainly hope this experience gives them the accountability and encouragement they need to monitor this stuff more strictly. And I hope Ms. Klein enjoys her vacation, though I hope more deeply that she can find a job where she is treated with the dignity and compassion befitting a human being.

                    • 14 votes
                    Reply#9 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 8:36 PM EDT

                    I watched the video and was thoroughly disgusted. These kids insulted her weight, her crying, her sweating, her economic status......?? They were threatening to rob her house, beat her, put a knife in her?? What the hell is going on in their sick minds. They should be put back one grade, be made to walk to school, or expelled altogether. Who is raising these kids? What if this were their Grandmother. How can they be this uncaring and brutally mean. Why didn't other kids on the bus call them on this and ask them to stop. Well, now everyone knows who they are. Let them face the music. They thought the video was "funny". Goes to show how stupid and maronic they all are. I'm always amazed when more than 1 person will join another really worthless, cruel, harrassing, menacing moron to commit a senseless act like this. Have you no mind of your own? Have you a mind at all? I hope you're all punished to the max the law allows. Not by your parents either...clearly they failed. Are those tears streaming down your faces......I think so.

                    • 13 votes
                    Reply#10 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 9:58 PM EDT

                    She probably is SOMEONES grandmother.

                      #10.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:04 AM EDT
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                      Unfortunately, the introduction of low income housing to this area probably contributed to this attack. I imagine that if these punks even live with a parent or parents, their main beef with their children will be that they got caught, not that they exhibited this depraved behavior.

                      Mrs. Klein may rest easier tonight knowing that even if these vile creatures do not get the punishment they deserve, she need never return to that thankless, demeaning job ever again. Her vacation fund stands at $85K as I type.

                      • 10 votes
                      Reply#11 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:04 PM EDT

                      Honestly you just insulted alot of people who depend on "low income housing". Not all low income (or even high income) kids act like idiots.

                      • 1 vote
                      #11.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:43 AM EDT

                      I stand by my comment. Being in the Rochester area, I know the area well. I have also encountered children like this in several of my professional roles. Statistics, test scores, crime data, and now this incident are enough to back up my unbiased and informed opinion. I will concede that not ALL of any socio-economic demographic exhibits this behavior exclusively. Children who are respected & taught to respect learn to respect.

                        #11.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 7:34 PM EDT
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                        hopefully the especially mean girl gets a good punishment.parents should have to drive them from this point on. and threats to rob and knife are not funny.

                        • 5 votes
                        Reply#12 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:43 PM EDT

                        There was no girl in this video. All of the hecklers involved were boys.

                        • 4 votes
                        #12.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:40 AM EDT

                        Why would you single out "the girl" in a group? Just because you thought it was a girl? What is wrong with you?

                          #12.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:45 AM EDT
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                          The kids did something stupid and obscene ... no doubt. They should be held accountable. But lets not forget the parents. Blame must be shared by the parents as the lack of respect and decent behavior comes from them. The crisis in this country is the lack of values taught and exemplified by parents. Stupid kids come from stupid parents.

                          • 10 votes
                          Reply#13 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:47 PM EDT

                          One problem is that Child Protective Services agencies make parents afraid to discipline their kids. No spanking. No going to bed without supper. Anything more than a time out and the kids could end up in foster care.

                          • 13 votes
                          #13.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:33 AM EDT

                          Could not agree more Kevin.

                          • 5 votes
                          #13.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 7:27 AM EDT

                          Kids who come from homes in which love, respect and tolerance are taught do not do such things.

                          So to the people who are saying "If my kid did this, s/he would be severely punished" I say: Your kid would probably not do it in the first place.

                          It is generally the parents who don't give a damn whose kids do things like this.

                          • 5 votes
                          #13.3 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:18 AM EDT

                          Kevin,

                          You are correct that the laws and behaviors of our government and its cohorts contribute to this condition but that's no reason to absolve the parents from blame. In fact, the root cause of some of those laws was probably ... well, you get my point. In this case, let's put the blame where it belongs, with the kids and their parents.

                          • 1 vote
                          #13.4 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:16 AM EDT

                          Kevin,

                          I agree. I'm not one for violence. But watching this video, and I could not watch it all, makes me consider it. What decent person can sit and watch this and not have their blood boil? Logically, smacking my kid around would be the wrong message, so that's off the table. But as a normal human being, as Bill Cosby said it "The beatings will now begin!"

                          • 2 votes
                          #13.5 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:25 AM EDT

                          Kevin-186,

                          Unfortunately agencies like Child Protective Services were created because parents would go way beyond the level of physical punishment necessary to disipline a child. The flip side of this is parents and society treating children with kid gloves and these kids know it. I don't have a solution for this but I do know that a talking to by my fathers' belt sure worked.

                            #13.6 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:28 AM EDT

                            My kids were raised in a home with love, tolerance and respect. It doesn't stop them from occasionally bowing to peer pressure or making mistakes contrary to how they were raised.

                            Depending on how much press coverage this story gets we will find out what kind of parents these kids have based on their actions to this story.

                            • 1 vote
                            #13.7 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:52 AM EDT
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                            Not only should the kids be suspended but that time off should be spent in the county jail. A major wake up call before that behavior escalates any farther. No criminal records involved, just a very loud wake up call.

                            • 6 votes
                            Reply#14 - Wed Jun 20, 2012 11:55 PM EDT

                            This video was absolutely heartbreaking to watch. I couldn't finish it either.

                            I can't even believe it's possible for kids today to act that way towards someone older than them. I'm 22 and if I had acted that way to an adult when I was in middle school (only nine years ago)... Actually I don't even know what would happen because that's just something that my parents taught me was never acceptable.

                            No matter the age difference between the kids and monitor, bullying hurts. Good for you Karen, for taking all of that and coming out strong. You really do get the last laugh, because the joke is most certainly on them.

                            • 6 votes
                            Reply#15 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:28 AM EDT

                            You should have finished the video. It just got better and better. I'll fill you in. The insults kept coming and soon morphed into violent threats by the boys. Real classy. Usesless runts.

                              #15.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:10 AM EDT
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                              I was bullied mercilessly all through elementary school, and also middle school... back in those days, nobody talked about bullying. I can tell you that it left a permanent mark on my psyche. I believed that I was bad because other kids said and did mean things to me. Kids internalize cruelty. It never occurred to me that the bullies might be bad... I always thought that maybe if I were better or cooler or something-er... maybe they would like me. I still don't know why I was bullied, although I suspect it was because I was very shy and quiet. But the hurt cuts so deep... if you've never experienced being singled out from the herd and taunted, you may not understand how devastating it can be... for me, it went on for years... it affected my whole life and made me hate school. I had to overcome the damage it caused to my ego, and it wasn't easy... I finally realized, years later, that there was nothing wrong with me. Some people are mean and lash out and others who seem defenseless... I suppose this is the ugly side of human nature, because not all people are like that... but when I saw this video, my heart just broke... all of that taunting and cruelty is so unnecessary... those kids are lashing out because, who knows why, but they are targeting someone because it makes them feel better... I hope that their parents take this seriously and delve into why their kids are like this... and I hope they handle thier kids' behavior properly. The only way to teach kids what it feels like to be victimized is to have them walk in the victim's shoes... let them be humbled by having to work for people who they see as beneath them... let them work with adults in prison who take them down a few pegs... teach them that brutality doesn't work... hopefully the kids have some conscience inside of them that will respond to humanity in a new way... and this is nothing new, humans have always had the capacity for cruelty... thanks for letting me rant, viewing this clip stirred up lots of feelings I try to suppress cause I don't want to spend another minute feeling bad because some bad people behaved badly...

                              • 14 votes
                              Reply#16 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:42 AM EDT

                              I'm glad you quit thinking you were the bad one. I was not really bullied, but I was ostracized by the kids in school, because I was so shy. A friend of mine was actually bullied because of her appearance.

                              Even that had an effect on me, so I can only imagine what you went through.

                              • 2 votes
                              #16.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:22 AM EDT

                              Saraaaaa -- Same thing happened to me in what was then called junior high school, and it has colored every aspect of my life since. Maybe these kids who so viciously abused Ms. Klein should get a taste of their own medicine for a few years, and see how they feel about things afterwards.

                                #16.2 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:05 AM EDT

                                It happened to me too. Fattest kid in the class all twelve years. Shy, quiet, introverted.

                                God news! Today, I hate everyone!!!!!

                                  #16.3 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 11:13 AM EDT
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                                  This is a nice show of generosity toward this sweet lady, just helping keep kids safe on a bus. Can we start another fund? Call it, let's give those little punk ass kids a whipping of their lives... one that they will never forget.

                                  • 7 votes
                                  Reply#17 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:48 AM EDT

                                  I want to know what's wrong with Mike on this thread?? He was probably like one of those kids on the bus when he was younger..You have no decency in you and I have no idea why no one collapsed you!! Most of you on here assure me that there are still kind people living on this planet..

                                  • 8 votes
                                  Reply#18 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:58 AM EDT
                                  Comment author avatarCarly Mahoneyvia Facebook

                                  How about parents stepping up to the plate and making their kids behave? No excuses because they are kids. Kids shouldnt be naturally nasty.

                                  • 9 votes
                                  Reply#19 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:00 AM EDT

                                  If these kids came from a parent or both parents who were drug users or abusers - it is entirely possible that they do not understand anyone else's pain - they have brain damage. Their brains should be studied to see if they are abnormal, if they are they should not be sent into service for their harassment taking care of old people as some have suggested - they would probably harm them.

                                  Manual labor is a punishment, not necessarily a good one for sadists but they might see that their actions end up hurting themselves and that in the end is probably all they care about.

                                  Also I would not suggest boot camp or a tour of prisons, I am thinking Abu Graib and the soldiers who tortured prisoners, I believe those soldiers were once like those middleschool boys. If it is true and they are brain damaged, I don't know if it can be fixed - they will be trouble for us probably until they die or end up in prison themselves.

                                  If any of those children just got caught up in the mob mentality - which is a scary thing - and they are not really brain damaged sadists then I hope they do everything they can for the rest of their own lives to not only show mercy and kindness to others but stop bad behavior of harassers when they see it, before it gets out of hand. They would know bad behavior by sight because they have engaged in that behavior.

                                  But I wouldn't have them work with old people, no way, at least not until their brains have been examined to see if they are normal.

                                  And I am not joking or being fabulously sarcastic either - what a terrible thing it would be for old people to have these creeps around them and responsible for helping and caring for them.

                                  • 3 votes
                                  Reply#20 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:05 AM EDT

                                  My first thought after watching her response? What a classy dame! The only thing I'd like to see is a way to take the more than $80,000 raised (at last count) to send her on a dream vacation go farther than just Ms. Klein. I have a feeling she'd like to see the same thing but what can be done that would please all who gave? Maybe she'll think of something. She's good folk.

                                  • 4 votes
                                  Reply#21 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:21 AM EDT

                                  Perfect examples of why Forced Abortion, and Forced Sterilization SHOULD be L E G A L.

                                  • 3 votes
                                  Reply#22 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:21 AM EDT

                                  Mike - your idea seems perfect

                                  But let me turn your idea on its head - What if...

                                  These boys grew up and got the jobs of the people who decided who will be sterilized and who will have forced abortions? The world would be filled with bubble headed hard-bodied beach bunnies and wanna be gansta pimps.

                                  I think you will want to carry a cyanide pill with you in case they all come after you - you are probably too good and normal.

                                  Protecting the rights of all to be free - even the idiots - protects the rest of us too.

                                  • 5 votes
                                  #22.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:32 AM EDT
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                                  SPOILED BRATS,

                                  Where are there so called parents in all of this? Kids like these do not deserve to be in school if this is what they are doing.
                                  School is supposed to be a place of learning and I can see that they do not care about anyone except themselves. These are the type of kids who go on to become gang banger's and low life's period and a drain on society as a whole.

                                  I honestly hope the school district makes an example of these thugs and if after whatever punishment they continue there ways then expel them period.

                                  I'm fed up with these low-life kids who think there better than everyone else.
                                  There parents are also part of the blame and I look forward to seeing what there take is on all of this?

                                  • 4 votes
                                  Reply#23 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 1:34 AM EDT

                                  What is the parents' take?
                                  "MY kid would never do anything like that."

                                  At least until they saw the video.

                                  • 2 votes
                                  #23.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:26 AM EDT
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                                  Those little shets. there was not one brave soul on that bus that said anything. I think she and all bus monitors should be able to hand out detention slips and be allowed to carry a video camera or tape recorder to document anything that these "children" might be doing. This video made me sick but its kinda of funny that the little retards posted it on youtube. shows how dumb they really are.

                                  • 4 votes
                                  Reply#24 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 2:23 AM EDT

                                  there was not one brave soul on that bus that said anything

                                  They were kids who were probably bullied by the same people, who knew they'd receive the same treatment if they stood up to them.

                                  • 1 vote
                                  #24.1 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 8:41 AM EDT
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                                  This was an all-out verbal assault on the school monitor. These punks are vile, dehumanizing, and showed an utter disrespect for authority. Notice when the monitor starts to cry the punks go for the jugular, instead of stopping their putrid diatribe. This lack of empathy and derived pleasure when someone suffers, is a strong indicator for psychopaths! I seriously hope the school monitor can press charges!

                                  Their punishment at a minimum should be:

                                  1. Permanent expulsion from not only the bus, but school also. Let their parents find another school district that takes in sociopathic punks!

                                  2. Both public and private apologies to the school monitor.

                                  3. Supervised community service.

                                  These punks are lucky I'm not their father! They wouldn't be able to sit down for a couple days! Plus,
                                  no cell phone, no internet, or TV, and, oh by the way.........you're grounded for the summer (except for community service)!

                                  • 6 votes
                                  Reply#25 - Thu Jun 21, 2012 2:30 AM EDT
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