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The Berenstain family wrote on its website that it did not know about the controversy surrounding Chick-Fil-A and gay marriage until July 25. The site no longer includes the statement from HarperCollins.

Chick-Fil-A CEO Dan Cathy kicked up a debate about gay marriage following an interview he gave to the Biblical Recorder.
Updated at 5:30 p.m., July 31 ET: Comments by the CEO of the fast food chain Chick-fil-A opposing same-sex marriage continued to reverberate for a second week, drawing the beloved children’s book figures the Berenstain Bears into the controversy.
Dan Cathy, CEO of fast food chain Chick-fil-A, told the Biblical Recorder on July 16, "We are a family-owned business, a family-led business, and we are married to our first wives.” The fallout was immediate.
The Jim Henson Co., which until recently furnished the restaurant chain with "Jim Henson's Creature Shop Puppet Kids Meal Toys," spoke out against the chicken sandwich restaurant on Facebook: “Lisa Henson, our CEO, is personally a strong supporter of gay marriage and has directed us to donate the payment we receive from Chick-fil-A to (Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation).”
(Chick-fil-A then said it had pulled the puppets from the meals because of safety concerns.)
Chick-fil-A replaced the Muppet toys with Berenstain Bears books, but the Berenstain family doesn’t appear thrilled to be associated with Chick-fil-A either. A statement on the company web site said the books’ publisher, HarperCollins, has been working on this marketing project for more than a year.
Gay Rights Advocates Protest Chick-fil-A Food Truck
“The Berenstain family does not at this time have control over whether this program proceeds or not,” the statement said. “We hope those concerned about this issue will direct their comments toward HarperCollins and Chick-fil-A.”
For a short time Monday evening, the Berenstain family message was accompanied by a statement from HarperCollins that read: “We have a long history of diversity and inclusiveness and are very disappointed to hear recent statements made by Chick-fil-A. After much consideration, we have decided to honor our previous arrangement, with the chain. We have no plans to work with them in the future.”
By Tuesday, the HarperCollins statement was removed from the Berenstain Bears’ website and a HarperCollins spokeswoman asked NBC News to remove the image with the HarperCollins’ statement, saying that it contained “an unauthorized statement.” The company refused to provide further comment.
In the Biblical Recorder interview, Cathy said: "We are very much supportive of the family -- the biblical definition of the family unit."
Chick-fil-A has since become a foil for the discussion about gay marriage, with those who support gay marriage encouraging a boycott of the chain, which has 1,600 restaurants in 39 states, according to the company web site.

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Chick-fil-A, with more than 1,600 outlets mainly in the southern United States, has become the target of gay rights activists and their allies after president Dan Cathy made his views about gay marriage explicitly clear.
Chick-fil-A surprises some with gay marriage talk
Officials in San Francisco, Boston and Chicago have also decried Chick-fil-A.
Edwin M. Lee, mayor of San Francisco tweeted: “Closest #ChickFilA to San Francisco is 40 miles away & I strongly recommend that they not try to come any closer.”
Washington, D.C. Mayor Vincent Gray wrote several tweets about Chick-fil-A, including: “Given my longstanding strong support for LGBT rights & marriage equality, I would not support #hatechicken.”
On the other end of the political spectrum, Sarah Palin, who opposes same-sex marriage, posted a photo of herself and husband Todd Palin on Facebook with the caption, “Stopped by Chick-fil-A in The Woodlands to support a great business.” That post was shared nearly 25,000 times, commented on nearly as many times and received more than a quarter of a million “likes.”
Pawlenty calls officials’ thumbs down on Chick-fil-A ‘chilling, jaw-dropping’
Mike Huckabee, the former Republican Arkansas governor, declared Aug. 1 "Chick-fil-A Appreciation day" on his web site.
"Too often, those on the left make corporate statements to show support for same sex marriage, abortion, or profanity, but if Christians affirm traditional values, we're considered homophobic, fundamentalists, hate-mongers, and intolerant," Huckabee wrote.
Meanwhile, the company seems to have hedged its CEO's bold talk. The Chick-fil-A web site still makes its religious roots clear, describing its founder Truett Cathy as a man who applied "biblically-based principles to managing his business.”
But the company then states that it will “treat every person with honor, dignity and respect – regardless of their belief, race, creed, sexual orientation or gender … Our intent is to leave the policy debate over same-sex marriage to the government and political arena.”
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I think companies are starting to figure out when the gays scream boycott sales acually increase (free advertising) what is the gay population 2 % ? They have zero impact on anything, they just try to bully everyone into excepting them....
I don't care what Chick-Fil-A officials say. The chicken sandwich with 3 pickles on it is awesome.
Roger, this is the food police. We are going to have to detain you. Chicken and pickles never go together under any circumstance.
Try the sandwhich... I felt the same way until I did.. I love it !
I love Chick-Fil-A's spicy deluxe sandwich. I think Chick-Fil-A has a right to express their views and I stand by their culture.
"I think companies are starting to figure out when the gays scream boycott sales actually increase (free advertising) what is the gay population 2 % ?"
I agree. Also, whenever a company tries to encourage gay marriage, like Macy's, the sales of the company that is pro-gay drops.
Jimmy I think you meant "accepting them" not "excepting them", they are actually very different in their meanings.
It is not about just the gays but also about us traditional marrieds that appall ignorance and bigotry under the guise of Christianity. Mr.Cathy will rue the day he spoke out; loss of stock value, loss of business and perhaps a loss of job.
I don't think so, JerseyDog. For one thing, I don't think this will hurt CFA at all. In fact, I think over the long haul, it will help them. But even if there were some long lasting negative effect (in sales, stock, etc), I suspect Mr. Cathy's values are more important to him. CFA is privately held, so he owes no explanations to stockholders.
I could care less on their beliefs. I have always been taught that the best business practice is to remain neutral especially in controversial issues. Customers equal money! Why alienate half your customer base? Short term advertisement may be good, however long term the people that don't care will forget and the people that do will not.
For some reason, I know lots of
Chick Fil A managers. They are conservative Christians. Why are they not allowed their beliefs? I have attended many parties with them and do not believe that regardless of their beliefs that they discriminate either in employment or service to gays.
And that is all that matters here.
Not to worry Berenstain Bears, our family and 6 other families went to Chik fil A on Saturday and had a great time. Their salads are awesome and the waitress was nothing short of excellent.
I always commend them when I eat there. When I say thank you to them they always say, "My pleasure". You don't hear that very much anymore.
Their new sundae dessert is awesome too.
@nopolicestate, If you're speaking of business, I would agree. But this whole thing is about Mr. Cathy's personal beliefs. He was stating what he personally believes, and I believe we all have that right, don't we? It seems to me that we're all discussing our personal beliefs right now.
Christians are asked to let their light shine before the World. We are not ask to stone sinners anymore. We know that we all fall short of HIS glory. If your church is politicized--LEAVE. Remember, "Give to Caesar what is Caesar's".
It's God's bus, leave the driving to Him.
In the interest of fairness, one can only hope that christian groups will refuse to buy the bears or muffets merchandise, and bocot any group or city that boycots chick-fil-A.
I was at Chick-Fil-A this week and it was much busier than any of the surrounding fast food restaurants. If you don't like the owner's views, fine, don't eat there, but the name calling by those who disagreed with Cathy and the government officials vowing to keep new restaurants from opening was a step too far for my family. I think the homosexual activists have started to push a little too aggressively and conservatives who are usually, well, conservative about voicing their opinions are being pushed a little too far. I was shocked at how many of my conservative friends, who rarely address politics, were willing to speak out in support for Chick-Fil-A.
Mr. Cathy does indeed have a right to express his personal beliefs. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea. It's 2012, and corporate profits and business stability are harder and harder to come by -- the country is still trying to dig its way out of a long recession. Why would a business owner/manager/CEO say something that absolutely no good can come from? Gay marriage is an issue that polarizes people right down the middle. You might pick up a few extra sales in the short term from the supporters of what you said, but there's only so many chicken sandwiches that people can eat. On the other hand, you're much more likely to lose long-term business from the detractors. One has to question Mr. Cathy's business savvy to knowingly say something that has no potential upside.
Second, it wasn't as if everyone wasn't aware of Chick-Fil-A's corporate culture and leadership beliefs. The chain has plaques in each restaurant that explain their family-oriented management, and they're closed on Sunday. I think everyone "got it". However, it was tolerated by everyone at that point because it was just the corporation's and management's personal beliefs -- they didn't attempt to force that onto anyone. And most everyone had no problem with that. But when Mr. Cathy decided to cross the line and judge other people's lives, that touched a nerve. And again, for what? No gain whatsoever.
To me, it's just a very poor business decision for a high-profile company to enter a polarizing political debate. No business has too many customers where they can afford to lose some of them. Chick-Fil-A should have stuck to what they do best -- cook and sell chicken.
Jimmy3185
I think the majority of american companies (oh P&G, Microsoft, Apple, General Mills, Levis, etc) are starting to realize that the '2% of the population that is gay', deserve equal rights, and that WE also have money. We have a HUGE economic impact on business. However, putting that aside, they are joining the majority of Americans who believe in EQUAL rights and not bigots rights to "bully" individuals because we do not subscribe to their beliefs on marriage.
P.S. Its called 'Accepting" not excepting.
Chik Fil A is welcome to have their beliefs, but when those beliefs begin to influence secular laws (i.e., their mass donations to organizations especially American politicians) its morally and ethically wrong. Our government leaders swore to serve, protect, and defend the Constitution of the United States, not the bible.
So long as Chick-fil-A does not start discriminating against people in their hiring or who they will serve in their restaurants, I really do not care what the views of the CEO are. He is entitled to his opinions just like everyone else. The fact that he supports traditional family values and the traditional definition of a family certainly is not a negative to me, and also does not mean he is anti gay either. If you actually take the time to read the transcript from the interview, no where in it does he say a single negative word about gays or gay marriage, all he says is that they "... are very much supportive of the family -- the biblical definition of the family unit." The gay community takes any statements of support of traditional values as an attack against them. I did not see any negative statements against any organization or group of people in any of Cathy's statements. The gay community has so warped things and is so intent on pushing their agenda in trying to force everyone to accept their lifestyle that they see any statement in support of the traditional family as an attack against them. The gay community does not want to live and let live, recognizing people's rights to their own lives and views, they want to force their views on everyone and anyone who is not openly supportive of them is branded as anti gay. That is like saying that just because someone is of a particular religion that they automatically hate all other religions. This is not the case and is an extremely intolerant way of viewing things. I certainly can be of one religion without harboring any animosity towards other religions, although I certainly am not going to donate money or actively support other religions. It is a completely intolerant attitude where the gay community tries to say you either have to be openly for us or your are against us, they do not accept the idea of any middle ground where people can be indifferent or just plain not care about them or their agenda. It is this intolerant attitude that tries to force everyone to accept and acknowledge the gay lifestyle as being a good and acceptable lifestyle that creates so much friction and animosity towards these gay organizations. I can not be for you without being against you and the gay community just does not accept that as a valid position.
Hey Jimmy3185- Where do you get your data from? Yeah, I thought so. Keep hanging out in your little fantasy world. In fact, deliberately alienating a minimum of 10% of your potential customers is an amazingly stupid decision. If I were a stockholder in this company, I would be pissed.
What about the percentage of heterosexuals or bisexuals that don't care who marries who or what they do in their own personal lives?
Be very careful, Berenstain family; don't shoot yourselves in the foot. It's pretty obvious that this hissy fit by the gays and their supporters will have little or no effect on CFA. I eat regularly at CFA in three cities in two different states, and my only complaint is that they're too crowded, all the time. I usually have to park in the half empty lot at the burger joints next door.
By the way, pickles are very good on the sandwiches, and the Spicy Deluxe is downright awesome!
Feminists fuel the Homosexual lobby, and Feminism is about dismantling the family. Why does 1% homosexual population have so much power to shut down customer flow to stores? This is similar to disliking Jews and boycotting Jewish establishments.
This is a win-win for the LGBT community. The homophobes who are now eating at Chick-Fil-A to show their support for discrimination are now eating much more fast food, which will cause a decline in their health and speed up the inevitable decline of this bigotry.
How does it feel knowing that a vast majority of young people support the LGBT community? And how does it feel knowing that once the homophobes die, the LGBT community will be treated as equals? You cannot win. We just have to wait for this generation to die off before we can move on (sad that we have to wait that long, but it's a pretty straightforward solution!)
Old Sarge-3447849 Well Old Sarge you must have failed reading comprehension. There are no stockholders. The company is privately owned and Mr. Cathy is the founder. Members of my extended family have been with the company for many years and they feel blessed to be part of what they feel is an honest and reputable company. Every privatley owned company that I have ever seen go public turns into a craphole because the first thing the investors do is to turn on the employees that made it successful. Hpoefully Mr. Cathy will continue to stand up as a real leader of people and not worry about morons like you.
CommonSense wrote "What about the percentage of heterosexuals or bisexuals that don't care who marries who or what they do in their own personal lives?"
What about the percentage of people that aren't affected by crime in another city ? You are witnessing systematic deactivation of legal preferences for the nuclear family, or specifically, heterosexual males. If you're a man, this will concern access to your children after the American Six Year Marriage. If you're a woman, single-motherhood seems trendy, but your children will benefit less from having a biological father living full-time with the children.
Twitter suspended one user's account because they didn't like the user's opinion on the Olympics.
Yes people, we are slowly losing our First Amendment right to voice our opinions. Something needs to be done. We as a nation need to stand up and stop this.
Berenstain Bears company is just like Twitter.
And for the record, the owner of Chick-fil-A did not say anything anti-gay. He simply gave his personal opinion by answering a question.
Jo Ann, you and many others are confused as to what the First Amendment means:
The First Amendment protects your rights to speech, press, religion, petitioning of the government, and assembly, and it protects you from the government.
That's it. It doesn't guarantee consequence free speech. If you call your boss an idiot, he can (and probably will) fire you. It doesn't mean that a company (Twitter) HAS to leave up anything you post on their website. What, do you think you can spray paint words onto your neighbor's garage and stop him from removing it because of the First Amendment?
Yes, you have the right to say whatever you want. But we all have the right to treat you based on what you said. So if you say something that we don't like, we are free to let you know. If you post something on a message board that the host does not like, they are free to delete it. And if a company makes a stand on a social issue it has no business talking about, we are free to raise hell, criticize them, and boycott them.
The Amendments we are truly losing are the 4th (Patriot Act and the TSA disregard illegal searches & seizures/warrants/probable cause), 5th (there's no due process for people accused of terrorism, and this goes for the 6th, 7th, and 8th), 14th (people are trying to remove citizenship for "anchor babies"), and the 15th/19th/24th (voting laws are being used to prevent minorities, women, and the poor from voting).
I simply don't understand the people who blindly trust the Constitution without knowing what's in it.
JoAnn - which part of the US Government does Twitter belong to? Yeah, right. Nowwhere. First Amendment rights relate to GOVERNMENT censorship. Get your facts right before you post.
I think tomorrow I'm going to take my son and buy him a Muppet DVD. Then on the way home I'll get him McDonald's or Burger King or anything BUT Chic-fil-A. He is only a toddler but my wife and I are committed to teaching him tolerance of others and standing up for a cause. I know the fundaMENTAList are planning a huge Chic-fil-A rally on August 1, but those of us committed to tolerance and diversity will be boycotting it every day. Also, Jo Ann, Twitter is a PRIVATE company therefore they can suspend anyone's account they want. You have a First Amendment right to say what you feel, but Twitter has no obligation to be the platform to use that Amendment. Also, I seriously doubt they suspended someone's account JUST because they didn't like what the user said. He/she probably said something that violated the companies use policy. They are under no obligation to facilitate your or anyone else's First Amendment right. Set up your own company then use that to say whatever you feel like saying.
dieselbug,
Which part of the US Government does Chick-fil-A belong to? Yeah, right. Nowhere. A US government official has no right to try to block or remove a Chick-fil-A location of business.
Vince,
Twitter claims they suspended this guy's account because he gave out an NBC executive's e-mail address. The guy responded by saying he gave out the executive's company e-mail address. It is public information and located in NBC's website. Nothing wrong with what he did. This is hypocritical because other user's on Twitter have exposed private info. on individuals with no suspension to them.
Vince, with all due respect but you are a hypocrite.
For all of those that are saying Mr. Cathy was expressing his personal beliefs, read the entire interview as linked to in the article. It's very clear in the original interview that Mr. Cathy was not solely expressing his personal beliefs but also their corporate vision and foundation. For example: ""But as an organization we can operate on biblical principles. So that is what we claim to be. [We are] based on biblical principles, asking God and pleading with God to give us wisdom on decisions we make about people and the programs and partnerships we have. And He has blessed us." And this comment: "When asked if Chick-fil-A's success is attributed to biblical values, Cathy quickly said, "I think they're inseparable."
Because Chick-fil-A is a privately-held company, they are entitled to their opinions and beliefs. I disagree with Boston's and other mayors saying that Chick-fil-A is not welcome in their locations. Legalities aside, it's demonstrating the same lack of tolerance they accuse Chick-fil-A of exhibiting, and it's not leading by example. It's hypocritical and, IMO, just plain wrong.
That said, people can voice their displeasure if they disagree with Chick-fil-A's corporate philosophy, and vote with their pocketbooks. I don't agree with Chick-fil-A's corporate foundation or their leadership's personal beliefs and although there's not one in my location, they are located in many areas I travel to. They're not getting my business. And I'll discuss it with people I know that live near their locations and try to use some influence to sway their behavior. It won't make any difference to their bottom line but that's not what this is about. It's about taking a stand, not supporting businesses when I don't agree with their business philosophy, and living my beliefs. And standing by our beliefs is something we all have the right to do.
Sorry Jo Ann, but that's not gonna fly tonight.
1. First of all, I see no evidence of your claims. All I have is your word as to what is happening with Twitter. You have provided no proof. And in all honesty, your claims seem to contradict every experience I've ever seen on Twitter. I've seen people saying awful things about any company you can think of (including both NBC and Twitter itself) and any minority group you can think of on Twitter. And Twitter did not remove those posts or accounts. I am highly skeptical of your story. The only way someone would get banned from Twitter is if they broke a law, broke a user-agreement they had with Twitter, or said something SO offensive that Twitter decided to remove it.
2. As to you talking about government officials dictating where a Chick-Fil-A can operate, I assume you are talking about the Mayor of Boston. And I agree with you. But that was hardly a legal decision. I highly doubt that the he would actually stop them, and if he actually did, it would be a very quick lawsuit.
3. There is a fundamental difference between things people can control and things people can't control. Treating someone poorly because of something they can't control is not right. But treating someone poorly because of something they chose to do is a cornerstone of society. If someone robs a bank, we punish them by sending them to jail. That doesn't make us bad people. That bank robber chose to rob a bank, so in essence they chose to be treated poorly. It is the foundation of our justice system.
People can believe whatever they want. They can hate black people, view women as inferior to men, and believe that homosexuals are pure evil. But as long as they keep it to themselves, then nobody hates them. See, we are not hating the belief. We are hating the actions. These are fundamentally different.
Actions can (and are) judged. But judging of things that you have no control over is different. And that's why Vince is not a hypocrite.
It's the difference between criticism (which is hating something that can be changed to make improvement) and persecution (which is hating something that can't be changed, which serves no constructive purpose)
Jimmy
A lot of us straight folk don't like hate.
"We are still married to our first wives???" That should be just as offensive as the gay rhetoric their spouting. So they are trying to offend gays and people that have made the wrong marriage choice once or twice. I've worked for so called christain companies before and I can tell you, they didnt' treat their employees any different than other big companies. I'm pretty sure chik fil a is no different.
I ate at CFA today and I think I will eat there again tomorrow and I am definitely going to eat there on Wednesday to show my support for them. Free speech is still a right in this country. I will be supporting that as well.
You know, I love the sandwiches without the pickles. That being said, I will never buy another sandwich from them again. Yes, they have the right to believe what they want. And I have the right not to buy their sandwiches.
davefromdanapointca
and we shall eat at KFC. There you can enjoy a meal that was served without HATE.
JS in SD
No.. when a corporation out right donates to a cause that supports bigotry and is against gay rights, that is an outright attack.
Same comment as above.
Oh I see.. so pushing to have the same basic marriage rights that heterosexuals have today is pushing an agenda? When the african americans pushed for equality was that also "Forcing" everyone to accept their lifestyle?
No, that's heterosexuals like Cathy who want to force their traditional family values on everyone else. WHat you are also supporting is a heterosexuals rights to discriminate against gays because they do not subscribe to your views. Please explain how gay marriage directly and negatively impacts you.
This country is in 2012. Gays/Lesbians pay the SAME taxes you pay but are not entitled to more than 1000 federal benefits that are given to married heterosexual couples. That is taxation without representation. This country is "We the People", not "We The People unless you are gay".
You are clearly a good god-fearin' girl.
Because no one but the religious right makes this stupid comment over and over again. Why is it so hard for you people to work out the fact that no one cares what you believe. JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTH ABOUT IT.
You talk about gay people trying to push their agenda. Pot meet Kettle.
You just hate them because more people think they are sane than think you people and your imaginary friend are.
madd-dawg, please read this: http://www.bbc.com/news/technology-19061032
I didn't say he was banned, I said he was suspended.
No one is treating anyone poorly. The man just believes something that Jesus Christ said.
SpcTorres, Mr. Cathy was talking about everyone, hence the high divorce rate. It's sad to see all the divorces. What gay rhetoric is Mr. Cathy spouting? His company does not discriminate. His company is fair to everyone. He just believes what Christ says in the Bible.
Mr. Cathy is not forcing people to believe what he believes. If you don't believe then that's your problem.
So....does that mean that all employees get paid a living wage no matter how long they work, as per Jesus' parable, or do they pay their workers minimum wage?
Just a random bit of information; Chick-fil-a is a privately held company. This means there is no stock to value or devalue.
You say people shouldn't be allowed to shove their views down other peoples throats. Isn't that what DOMA did? What give Christians the right to force THEIR views on other people? Why is it when Christians state their views it's okay, but if anyone states an opinion or belief that goes against the Christian beliefs it's wrong?
Have you maybe considered that this is a reaction to the persecution and repression gays have suffered at the hands of Christians for countless years? That maybe, just maybe, they think and feel that they have to be this aggressive in order to get equal rights, and if they aren't this aggressive they will just continue to be crushed under the boot heel of the Christian majority? Maybe this wouldn't be happening if the Christian majority wasn't so totalitarian in trying to quietly stomp out homosexuality itself let alone the civil rights of gays and lesbians.
And don't even try to pretend that Christians haven't persecuted, repressed, and tried to stamp out homosexuals. That would be dishonest. We've all heard the words "God hates queers". We all know about the debunked pseudo scientific cures for homosexuality like "pray the gay away". And yes, we all know about how Christians in Africa actively murder gay men and rape lesbian women, and how the governments of African nations are encouraged to make anti-gay laws (including the death penalty just for being gay) by the American Protestant Evangelical missionaries that go over there.
So, the next time any of you want to whine about how gays and lesbians are pushing so hard for their rights, remember all the crap that the Christian community has put the gay community through, and that if not for that crap they wouldn't be pushing so aggressively.
Not at all. It's his company. Plus, if you're not willing to accept some backlash for standing up for what you believe in, then those beliefs are meaningless.
What part of Mr. Cathy's statement was forceful? When did he force anything on anyone? He was asked about his beliefs. He answered the question. Sorry if it doesn't coincide with what you wanted to hear, but...well, actually, no, I'm not. He was asked for his opinion, to which he is just as entitled as the rest of us.
He dared to start a company whose corporate values mirror his own! Good for him! Since corporations are privately-owned entities, he has every right to do so! He is still required to obey the laws, but that also has a biblical basis, in that all Christians are commanded to obey the law of the land as long as it does not contradict the law of God. And Mr. Cathy and his organization have done that.
Who's hateful now?
Right on, my friend. Warn a divisive person once, and then warn him a second time. After that, have nothing to do with him. You may be sure that such a man is warped and sinful; he is self-condemned. - Titus 3:10-11
“Too often, those on the left make corporate statements to show support for same sex marriage, abortion, or profanity, but if Christians affirm traditional values, we're considered homophobic, fundamentalists, hate-mongers, and intolerant," Huckabee wrote.
I agree with Mr. Huckabee. When Christians stand up for what they believe in, they are attacked by left wing extremists – every single time. Most Christians don’t hate anyone, we just don’t happen to agree with you. Yes there are some who are over the top, but they aren’t the majority and they don’t represent the group.
What’s really sad to me is that, from what I’ve seen, almost ALL left wing extremists are filled with hate and malice toward those who disagree with them – regardless of the subject.
I'm glad Chik-fil-a came out and made such a public statement of their views. Until then, I hadn't realized how much money their company donates to anti-gay groups. Now I know better than to ever give them one penny again!
I don't go to Chick-fil-A for the Buttstain Bears anyway. I go for the food, duh!
Read my post above. Does not an abused child become an abusive adult?
Absolutely, but when you are the ceo and thus the leader of a large company, it is wise to be careful about the words yous say as it can have an effect on your business.
I just had a sandwich from them it's tasty 8) I could care less what the company stands for if the foods good I am eating there..
In regards to the comment that they do not support gay marriage well that's there choice and it's not like they are gay bashing patrons who come in and buy there food.
I'd rather eat chicken than a penis.
Can't we just leave any political affiliation out of business? I want to buy or not buy something from a company based on its quality, not on whether or not the CEO's political affiliation is ok by me. This is true for either side of the political spectrum.
In a perfect world that would be a great idea. When it is revealed that a corporation is funding measures that one is either opposed to, in agreement with or indifferent to, it is wise to decide if you would like to fund those measures as well. Because in essence that is what you are doing.
Dagoth Ur,
Agree. Can you imagine where this is going? Soon every niche group will have their own boycott lists.
I understand that Chick-Fil-A is going to placate the homosexuals by introducing the Barney Frank. It's a cream-filled chicken bratwurst covered in fudge. If you don't like the taste, you can always just stick it up your a$$.
Oh how cute, a veiled reference to anal sex - brilliant mark. Of course approximately half of homosexuals are women, but don't let that stop you from making off color jokes. Nor should the fact that there are more heterosexual people having anal sex than the population of gay men). The outcry on the "left" still comes down to concerns about bigotry and you make people's point by comments like that.
(heterosexual, married father of two sick of the ignorance)
Oftentimes that is the only way that we can measure our disgust. I don't need their chicken sandwiches, and there are other restaurants that sell them. So yes, I will let make sure that I am not participating in any potentially discriminatory practices by not buying their products.
And if it makes others feel good to, like Huckafee and Palin, support discrimination, well...
By the way, could someone be so kind as to tell me where the Bible defines marriage? I find a story about daughters "laying" with their father. Surely you don't mean that!!
Hey DBAM, relax and enjoy a little levity. A little wit and humor is ALWAYS called for. Only a bigot thinks his particular cause/opinion is so important it can never be taken lightly. Don't Be A Moron, come out of the closet and into the real world. Thanks for listening!
Nina, in the New Testament. The words of Jesus Christ - the Book of Matthew 19: 4-6.
Matthew 19:4-6
King James Version (KJV)
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
"And if it makes others feel good to, like Huckafee and Palin, support discrimination, well..."
You "reverse bigots" sure like to read between the lines when it comes to promoting your own opinion/agenda. Go back and read the guy's statement and show me the discrimination. When was the last time a homosexual was turned away from a CFA store? Has there ever been a lawsuit or other action against CFA for discriminatory practices? (Serious question... I don't recall one, so if you know then speak up and prove your point. You're making the accusations, so you prove your point.)
Your "discrimination" accusations are tired, old propagandizing rhetoric. Until it becomes law that employers have to recognize homosexual relationships and afford benefits for it, then it's every business's opinion for itself. This man spoke his opinion, and you "enlightened, fair, inclusive" people want to crucify him for it.
Go ahead, boys and girls, boycott CFA. It's your "right" in a free country to have whatever reaction you want, as long as it's a legal reaction. But realize that you're REALLY boycotting the freedom to have an opinion different from the fad opinion of the day, and you're rallying to kill individualism. That same individualism and freedom of speech that gives you the right to boycott and bully people who disagree with you. That same Constitutional guarantee that gives you the right to have your "Gay Rights Parades."
As for me, I plan to support the Constitution in the small symbolic act of patronizing CFA. I stood up for homosexuals' rights to speak out, so I plan to stand up for CFA's and Christians' rights to do the same. If ONE group loses that right, then eventually we all will.
Please remember that Christ came to fulfill the Old Testament, therefore we are no longer bound by the laws of blood, we are bound in faith by the blood of Christ.
I am a conservative woman who is frustrated by the enmity shown to people like myself who are simply asking to be allowed to publicize our beliefs (just like those who don't agree we us do) and not be called haters. I may not believe in thee gay and lesbian lifestyle, and I will continue to exercise my right to say so publicly without inciting hate. HOWEVER, because I live in the United States, I am willing to fight for those same gay and lesbians to express their opinions as well.
I do not consider myself a "hater" because I don't agree with someone else's lifestyle. If I choose to associate with like-minded people, we are not a band of "haters."
Not just any political affiliation, but religious as well? We have freedom of religion in this country, and if we don't want to practice the biblical definition of anything we don't have to. People need to realize that not everyone lives by the Bible - that is the root of the issue here. I'm personally tired of people shoving religion down my throat. Not only is there nothing that says we have to abide by one religion, there are actually two clauses in the First Amendment of the Constitution (Establishment Clause and Free Exercise Clause) that prohibit the establishment of a national religion by Congress, or the preference by the U.S. government of one religion over another, and allow Americans to practice whatever religion that they wish. Government and individuals alike should stop wiping their butts with the Constitution and its Amendments and realize that prohibiting gay-marriage because the Bible says it's wrong is unconstitutional and if they don't agree with it, then that's unfortunate for them.
That isn't my issue with Chick Fil A CC GWRider. My issue is their donations go to large powerful groups that introduce anti-gay legislation to different levels of government. Religion has NO PLACE in American legislation. I can't hurt the pockets of the groups receiving the donations from CFA and others, but you better believe I can hurt the pockets of the source, and I will continue to do so.
"Religion is the last refuge of a man with no answers and no argument." - George Carlin
This seems like a simple enough issue to me. If you don't want to support CFA, don't. Companies are held accountable for their statements all the time, just ask Abercrombie & Fitch.
For the record, I think that Mr. Cathy is perfectly entitled to make this statement, just as he is entitled to make contributions to whatever cause(s) he prefers.
The public is likewise entitled to reward or punish his decisions at the cash register.
Nonsense. Individualism and differing opinions are both alive and well. Rest assured you can always find someone willing to espouse anything. CFA is a business. Support them or don't support them, but don't imagine they represent some last bastion of individual freedoms.
I agree. Everyone should be able to express considered and respectful opinions without being subject to cruelty. American discourse does not always live up to the ideal. That said, the frustration exists on both sides.
To be LGBT is not a lifestyle; it is part of one's identity. The generally accepted psychological determination is that sexual orientation is not really a choice. You are either attracted to people of the same sex, or you are not. The only real choice for LGBT Americans is how or whether one expresses that identity. This is a challenge for LGBT Americans, who are oftentimes subject to various forms of abuse for refusing to live a lie for the comfort of a portion of the population.
So before you go off being so "Offended" - maybe you should read what was actually written. I find it taken out of context and just another example of a group (that has been unfairly treated at times) lashing out - but doesn't make it right.
If the link is correct above in the story, I don't necessarily find anything wrong - he has a position, doesn't negatively address anyone (sorry - no gay bashing found in the article I read), so I think it's just another dust-up over a misrepresentation and rather than people reading for themselves, they instead jump upon rumor to grab their pitch-forks.
If someone can actually point out where he said anything against homosexuals, et al - rather than FOR Families (single or otherwise or HIS definition of Family), I'd be more than happy to look; but to me this seems to be another contrived dust-up against "Christians". While there are a few wack jobs out there, most Christians have a live and get along value, not a condemn / convert / or go to hell attitude which the media and the left continues to portray. It's getting old all this "made-up righteous indignation"
Read for yourselves rather than jumping on the bandwagon, otherwise you're just sheep.
DFW_Walt
Cathy's quote:
“I think we are inviting God’s judgment on our nation when we shake our fist at Him and say ‘we know better than you as to what constitutes a marriage’ and I pray God’s mercy on our generation that has such a prideful, arrogant attitude to think that we have the audacity to define what marriage is about.”
With this line it is obvious what he is talking about along with the money the company donates to NOM and other anti-gay-marriage groups. One would have to have their head in the sand not to see what this means.
For the record my personal views are this, we all have the right to exercise free speech, that is his right. However once money goes to support groups who actively work to prevent equality in law, then this turns from free speech to bigotry.
I think you are correct when the quote is taken at face value without the context of the larger national debate over marriage equality. The predominant argument to support the definition of marriage as one man and one woman is a religious one. Hence advocating for a biblical interpretation of family tends to equate to advocating against marriage among same sex couples.
Granted, this requires a couple assumptions about his interpretation of the Bible - but those assumptions are hardly wild or unsupportable.
Personally, I am not offended by this quote. He can say and advocate whatever he wants - it's his PR one way or the other. I've never eaten at CFA, and am not about to make the trip to Bellingham to try them out. Not worth the cost of gas.
And that is the true crux of the matter. the Company itself may not be discriminating in it's business practices, but by donating such large sums to Organizations that are they money we would spend there would be used to harm us. So it's not us saying they are a horrible evil corporation, it's us saying, Whoa, Wait a minute, you want to support what now?
Pretty much. If you don't like how the company engages with public policy, don't support them. That's the American way. There's nothing wrong with that.
@Jo Ann-666954: As usually happens with bigotted bible thumpers, You stopped short of the context to support your view. You obviously don't support divorce then, right?
Matt 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put
away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth
adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
And you obviously don't support reading because you forgot to keep reading the rest of the passage.
Matt 19:11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this
saying, save they to whom it is given.
Hey, look!! Christ teaching tollerance. Who'd-a thunk it. And in case you feel like screaming hypocrite at me for not reading the rest of the passage. Here you go:
Matt 19:12 For there are some eunuchs, which were
so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were
made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made
themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive
it, let him receive it.
Hey, look!! Christ teaching that people are allowed to make choices in their lives or are excused from being born a certain way. Wow, that Christ guy was a really neat person. I wish the people who believed in him would actually read his words and listen to his teachings. He seams like a pretty together guy.
You made your biblical bed Chick-fil-A, now you must lie in it. Oh, and what would constitute a "Biblical" family? King David? (He had hundreds of wives, and he still committed adultery...not that I hate the man, it's just an example). Lot? (Let's not go there...really. If you must, read Genesis 19:30 onward, and gird yourself, so to speak).
The Bible is open to many interpretations...likewise to the family unit. Should we look down on blended families, because they aren't with their "first" spouses? Or on single parents? Judge not, lest you be judged, as the Man once said...
Blended families? Give me a break.
Wm. Sanders "You made your biblical bed Chick Fil A, now you must lie in it"
Folks with biblical values are not concerned that their values are not of the unsaved world - in fact we embrace it. That being said, we are not for hatred of anyone. Standing against homosexuality is not hate, so we don't accept your label. We should love everyone, but stand against anything that is contrary to God's Word. And please don't quote the "judge not" verse if you don't accept scripture in the first place. It's not us who are judging, but God's Word. Finally, the Bible is NOT open to many interpretations considering the family unit. You can state the example of David, Soloman, or many other Bible figures .... but the Bible describes their lives, warts and all - it doesn't condone everything it describes. Quite the contrary, the Bible repeatedly describes marriage as between one man and one woman. Please don't lie when you make your comments.
The bible is just a make pretend fictional book made up by man anyway. So why should I follow what some dude back then trying to tell me what to do. I have a free will and mind and won't listen to that dribble.
You certainly do, Ronald. But this discussion is about why many of us support Mr. Cathy, and we believe the Holy Bible is God's Word - and that "dude" is the living Son of God. Your denial of Jesus Christ and the Bible is really nothing new.
Richod
"Folks with biblical values are not concerned that their values are not of the unsaved world "
If what you say here is true then why do we have to continually fight the 'religious right' to keep your biblical views out of our secular laws?
wm. sanders please do yourself a favor when you quote from the bible to quote it properly.
"judge not ,that ye be not judged. for with what judgement ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it will shall be measured to you again".
makes a big difference doesn't it!!!!!
@ dsb, Because we have the right to vote our personal values, just as you do. We base our values on the unchanging Word of God. Others base theirs on the ever-changing value system of mankind.
Yes, yes we do...
We know, and we pity you for it. BTW, your jesus son of god was an Egyptian story 2,000 years before jesus was invented (there is no proof he actually existed), but whatever stay unchanged.
dsb
If what you say here is true then why do we have to continually fight the 'religious right' to keep your biblical views out of our secular laws?
because this country was founded on strong religious right beliefs, you are now trying to change that. almost every document or law that this country was founded on has references to god including the pledge of alliegence, the constitution, even the swearing in of our elected officials and witnesses in court. Lucky for you we are also founded on allowing free speech and freedom of religion. try spouting you pro gay anti religion dogma in muslim countries and see what happens. The problem with the anti religious fanatics is they only want freedom of speech for their causes. We give tolerance to your beliefs and you in turn try to demonize us for ours
Many Religious Right activists have attempted to rewrite history by asserting that the United States government derived from Christian foundations, that our Founding Fathers originally aimed for a Christian nation. This idea simply does not hold to the historical evidence.
The U.S. Constitution:
Although the Constitution does not include the phrase "Separation of Church & State," neither does it say "Freedom of religion." However, the Constitution implies both in the 1st Amendment. As to our freedoms, the 1st Amendment provides exclusionary wording:
Thomas Jefferson made an interpretation of the 1st Amendment to his January 1st, 1802 letter to the Committee of the Danbury Baptist Association calling it a "wall of separation between church and State." Madison had also written that "Strongly guarded. . . is the separation between religion and government in the Constitution of the United States." There existed little controversy about this interpretation from our Founding Fathers.
If religionists better understood the concept of separation of Church & State, they would realize that the wall of separation actually protects their religion. Our secular government allows the free expression of religion and non-religion. Today, religions flourish in America; we have more churches than Seven-Elevens.
Although many secular and atheist groups today support and fight for the wall of separation, this does not mean that they wish to lawfully eliminate religion from society. On the contrary, you will find no secular or atheist group attempting to ban Christianity, or any other religion from American society. Keeping religion separate allows atheists and religionists alike, to practice their belief systems, regardless how ridiculous they may seem, without government intervention.
The Declaration of Independence:
Many Christian's who think of America as founded upon Christianity usually present the Declaration of Independence as "proof" of a Christian America. The reason appears obvious: the Declaration mentions God. (You may notice that some Christians avoid the Constitution, with its absence of God.)
However, the Declaration of Independence does not represent any law of the United States. It came before the establishment of our lawful government (the Constitution). The Declaration aimed at announcing the separation of America from Great Britain and it listed the various grievances with them. The Declaration includes the words, "The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America." The grievances against Great Britain no longer hold today, and we have more than thirteen states.
Although the Declaration may have influential power, it may inspire the lofty thoughts of poets and believers, and judges may mention it in their summations, it holds no legal power today. It represents a historical document about rebellious intentions against Great Britain at a time before the formation of our government.
Of course the Declaration stands as a great political document. Its author aimed at a future government designed and upheld by people and not based on a superstitious god or religious monarchy. It observed that all men "are created equal" meaning that we all have the natural ability of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. That "to secure these rights, governments are instituted among men." Please note that the Declaration says nothing about our rights secured by Christianity. It bears repeating: "Governments are instituted among men."
The Treaty of Tripoli:
"As the Government of the United States of America is not, in any sense, founded on the Christian religion; as it has in itself no character of enmity against the laws, religion, or tranquillity, of Musselmen; and as the said States never have entered into any war or act of hostility against any Mehomitan nation, it is declared by the parties that no pretext arising from religious opinions shall ever produce an interruption of the harmony existing between the two countries."
So here we have a clear admission by the United States in 1797 that our government did not found itself upon Christianity. Unlike the Declaration of Independence, this treaty represented U.S. law as all U.S. Treaties do (see the Constitution, Article VI, Sect.2: "This Constitution, and the laws of the United States which shall be made in pursuance thereof, and all treaties made, or which shall be made, under the authority of the United States, shall be the supreme law of the land; and the judges in every State shall be bound thereby, anything in the constitution or laws of any State to the contrary notwithstanding.")
Common Law:
According to the Constitution's 7th Amendment: "In suits at common law. . . the right of trial by jury shall be preserved; and no fact, tried by a jury, shall be otherwise re-examined in any court of the United States than according to the rules of the common law."
Here, many Christians believe that common law came from Christian foundations and therefore the Constitution derives from it. They use various quotes from Supreme Court Justices proclaiming that Christianity came as part of the laws of England, and therefore from its common law heritage.
But one of our principle Founding Fathers, Thomas Jefferson, elaborated about the history of common law in his letter to Thomas Cooper on February 10, 1814:
In the same letter, Jefferson examined how the error spread about Christianity and common law. Jefferson realized that a misinterpretation had occurred with a Latin term by Prisot, "ancien scripture", in reference to common law history. The term meant "ancient scripture" but people had incorrectly interpreted it to mean "Holy Scripture," thus spreading the myth that common law came from the Bible. Jefferson writes:
It's a little something called the separation of church and state...
@ WE, We'll certainly see, won't we? I feel very confident in my position ... and it sounds like you do as well. But if I'm right, you're in a world of hurt. If you are, well .... we're all in the same boat. For me, I trust Jesus Christ.
By the way, your comments on Jesus are completely insane. Hardened our heart, have we?
Richod, so you really want to pull out the ol' Pascal's Wager? Here's something I like to call the Atheist's Wager:
This doesn't even take into account the amount of time, money, and energy wasted on participating in a religion. Or the fact that there are literally 1000's of Gods to believe in, and believing in 1 typically excludes them from being "saved" by the other Gods.
No, this is what the options truly are:
Belief:
(true): You go to heaven
(false): You have wasted your one and only life.
No Belief:
(true): You have lived a rich full life
(false): A truly benevolent and just God still accepts you into Heaven. Any God that does not allow you into Heaven is not worth spending an eternity with.
@madd dogg,
There's only way anyone will be saved ... through faith in the birth, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. No one will "earn" it by good works.
My one and only life has only just begun, and it's definitely NOT a waste. Jesus Christ defeated death at the cross, and I WILL go to heaven. Not of my own doing, but of Christ.
Our truly benevolent and just God has sent His Son to die in your place, if only you'll accept Him. It's up to you.
Cool thing is... There is no Hell either
Wow, what a small petty god you believe in, to leave all those starving kids in Africa out of heaven simply because they never heard of this guy jesus, no matter how good they lived their short miserable lives...
There is NOTHING benevolent about a god who lets the vast MAJORITY of all the humans he supposedly created burn in hell because they didn't bow to a fictitious man who never even existed...
Pretty sure only jesus judges and pride is a sin...good luck, but then again lucky for you there is no hell either.
So wait, let me get this right. This "benevolent" and "just" God is willing to let me spend eternity in hell? What about Bill Gates? The man who has donated over $25 billion to helping people in Africa, significantly decreasing the AIDS epidemic, preventing starvation, and increasing literacy? All because we don't "believe"?
Think of a family member of yours. Is there ANYTHING they could possibly do that you would want them to spend just 1 day in hell? How about 1 week, or 1 month, or 1 year? How can you say you honestly love someone if you think they deserve to go to hell? And if your love for someone prevents you from wanting them to go to hell, what does that say about a supposed God that "loves" everyone but is more than willing to let people spend an eternity in hell?
But according to you, all it takes to get into Heaven is "faith in the birth, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. No one will "earn" it by good works." What kind of Heaven is that? And what kind of God is that? What kind of God is willing to let good, honest, and caring people spend an eternity in hell for not believing in him? What kind of God won't let children who are too young to understand religion into Heaven? What kind of God let billions of people live their entire lives before Jesus was born, and then proceeded to let billions of other people live their entire lives in areas that had no knowledge of Jesus?
I'm sorry, but the God you are describing does not sound benevolent and just. He sounds like an @!$%#. Someone who is so wrapped up in their self worth that they allow good people to suffer because of their vain ego. That does not sound like a person I want to spend an eternity with.
There is no way that this supposed God is as powerful as you say he is, as loving as you say he is, and as mean as you say he is.
Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God?
-Epicurus
It's a HOLY God, madd dogg. He cannot tolerate sin, and we ALL sin. The result of sin is death (separation from God), and we cannot earn redemption of those sins by good works. Redemption requires sinlessness or death. Jesus Christ provided both ... but He conquered death, and offers His redemption by faith. It's truly YOUR decision if you prefer sin or prefer salvation. Good works are something that certainly should follow conversion, but it doesn't save you.
My comment that I'm going to heaven was not pride, but assurance. I don't deserve salvation, but I have been given it by He who is sinless and died for me.
He is able, but let's us live the results of our own decisions. If He intervened constantly, you'd be screaming that He's not really giving you free choice.
And I prefer the wisdom of God than the "wisdom" of man.
"Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is heaven will enter. Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophecy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?' And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness.'" Matt 7:21-23
Pointing to one's own actions and deeds is lawless and evil, even while doing such actions in the name of Jesus.
Pointing to Jesus and His righteousness and accepting His gift bought by His sacrifice is the only way.
Your atheist's wager and the following argument doesn't even make sense in regards to the words of Jesus.
But do you really have free choice? What about those people born in areas that do not practice Christianity? What about the remote villages in Africa, South America, and Asia that have never been exposed to Christianity? Do they REALLY have free will? Are they really being given the choice to freely decide whether or not to follow a Christian God?
And what about people like me? Your religion claims that God made me just the way I am, but that means he specifically made me skeptical. He specifically made me into a person that would reject religion and belief. So he specifically made me into a person that would reject his teachings and ignore the rules to salvation. He KNEW before he created me that the only way to make me believe in him was through fear of hell, which makes that free will more an illusion. That's not free will, that's coercion!
Would you let your 5 year eat nothing but candy? No you wouldn't, because the negative consequences of someone eating nothing but candy far outweighs their free choice. You love your child so much that their safety, their future, their well-being trump their freedom of choice in this instance. And that's something as insignificant as their stomach/teeth/blood sugar.
I suggest you look at the following logical argument, known as Dan Barker's argument:
1. God is defined as a personal being who knows everything.
2. Personal beings have free will.
3. In order to have free will, you must have more than one option, each of which is avoidable. This means that before you make a choice, there must be a state of uncertainty during a period of potential: you cannot know the future. Even if you think you can predict your decision, if you claim to have free will, you must admit the potential (if not the desire) to change your mind before the decision is final.
4. A being who knows everything can have no "state of uncertainty". It knows its choices in advance.
5. A being that knows its choices in advance has no potential to avoid its choices, and therefore lacks free will.
6. Since a being that lacks free will is not a personal being, a personal being who knows everything cannot exist.
7. Therefore, a personal God does not exist.
Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able? Then he is not omnipotent.
Is he able, but not willing? Then he is malevolent.
Is he both able and willing? Then whence cometh evil?
Is he neither able nor willing? Then why call him God?
-Epicurus
"What if God, although willing to demonstrate His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much patients vessels of wrath prepared for destruction? And He did so to make known the riches of His glory upon vessels of mercy, which He prepared beforehand for glory, even us, whom He also called not from among Jews only, but also from among Gentiles. Rom 9:22-24
In other words God allows evil so He can save a remnant out of love and mercy. Epicurus left out of His argument a few things (love/mercy/righteousness/justice).
Thankful,
You have now opened Pandora's box. There is no selective use of Bible quotes. By validating 1 claim, you are validating all the claims in the book. So everything I post below this is with respect to this new validation.
What kind of a God is that?
That quote uses the word "lawlessness". I completely reject how that "God" is using that word. Who does he think he is? He thinks he can sit there and dictate laws about committing genocide, the protocol for owning slaves, and raping women and children and call ME lawless? You expect me to believe that he actually contributed to the writing of those books and allowed them to put in all those disgusting passages? By doing that, he allowed millions of evil actions to take place. And he wants to call ME lawless?!
I spend my life teaching the ignorant, feeding the hungry, helping the poor, and loving my family. If you want to call me "lawless" after all of that because I won't jump through your hoops, then I want nothing to do with you. If God can truly look at all of that and call someone "lawless", then he has no concept of what lawless truly is.
I'm sorry, but that doesn't make any sense.
There is no logical argument for why someone should be tortured for eternity.
When I see parents caring for children, I see them removing some of the child's free will to protect the child. When I see adults taking care of their parents that are losing their mental capabilities, I see them removing some fo the parent's free will to protect the parent. These are the people we love most in our world.
If you truly love someone, you wouldn't let them spend an eternity in hell.
Only a fool would follow the "Dan Barker Argument". Too tired to go through it all, but madd dogg, in spite of all the good things you do (and I commend you for those good acts), you are STILL a sinner, and God cannot accept sin. So you're left with two options. God gives you a "get out of Hell free" option in Jesus Christ, or you can try to make it on your own .... in all your "good works". But God's Word is clear that No one comes to God the Father, except through Jesus Christ.
As far as Hell is concerned, God does give you an option. If you end up in Hell, it was your decision to reject Christ that sent you there. He has already paid for your sins if you only accept Him.
If you're still not interested in a God like that and want nothing to do with Him .... you will get your way.
QUOTE:
I suggest you look at the following logical argument, known as Dan Barker's argument:
1. God is defined as a personal being who knows everything.
2. Personal beings have free will.
3. In order to have free will, you must have more than one option, each of which is avoidable. This means that before you make a choice, there must be a state of uncertainty during a period of potential: you cannot know the future. Even if you think you can predict your decision, if you claim to have free will, you must admit the potential (if not the desire) to change your mind before the decision is final.
4. A being who knows everything can have no "state of uncertainty". It knows its choices in advance.
5. A being that knows its choices in advance has no potential to avoid its choices, and therefore lacks free will.
6. Since a being that lacks free will is not a personal being, a personal being who knows everything cannot exist.
7. Therefore, a personal God does not exist.
END QUOTE
These arguments all make the same fallacy (highlighted above). Knowing does not equate to no other option.
Example: If a person knows everything about a past action, that does not exclude choices or will. If an American Civil War historian knew every little detail about what occured in a battle, down to the microscopic level of every combatant, his knowing what happened does not exclude any choices made in the battle. Knowledge of what happened does not erase the other possibilities of choices that did not happen.
Future knowledge works in the same way as it is history to the knower.
History: It happened, because that is what was chosen.
Future knowledge: It happened, because that is what was chosen.
Applied future knowledge: It will happen, because that is what will be chosen.
At (time 1) X chose Y.
At (time 1) X chose Y and Z at (time a) knows/knew X chose Y.
Pointing to the latter half of the premise says nothing about X chose Y, except for when Z knows/knew the choice.
Knowledge and different points of time does not equate to lack of choice. 'Knowledge of' is only descriptive, not postcriptive.
"As far as Hell is concerned, God does give you an option. If you end up in Hell, it was your decision to reject Christ that sent you there. He has already paid for your sins if you only accept Him."
How is that free will? Free will is "the power of acting without the constraint of necessity or fate; the ability to act at one's own discretion." And how is that ultimatum free will?
That's not free will. That's coercion. If someone is holding a gun to your head telling you to give them your wallet, is he really giving you free will?
And Thankful, that is a false analogy. That historian had no control over the people in the Civil War. God supposedly created all of us. That means he had control over who we are, how we think, and how we feel. In essence, he was in control over every mechanism people use to make decisions. If that historian had never studied the Civil War, the Civil War would have still happened. But if God had never created us, we would never be here (supposedly).
What a silly argument. Are you saying it's not your free will whether to obey (or not) traffic laws, for example? There IS a consequence if you don't follow them. But it's asinine to argue that you don't have free will. You certainly are a perfect example of free will .... you're consciously choosing to reject God. I'm choosing the other option - to embrace God and humble myself before Him.
Actually the analogy is fine. And your response shows my critique was spot on. You pointed to God and creation for why choices are made and NOT time and knowledge. In other words you pointed to the first part of the premise and not the second part, the very thing I pointed out. Knowledge of a choice at a certain time says nothing about the choice itself.
As for God and creation, do not confuse God's creation with creation corrupted.
"Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world." 1 John 2:15,16
Corruption has "control over who we are, how we think, and how we feel".
My analogy stands.
Yes, Richod, that is exactly what I am saying. If you want to see free will, remove consequences from decisions. Free will is something like choosing between vanilla and chocolate ice cream. There is no external factor forcing you to decide one way. It is purely up to you. That is free will.
No one ever "chooses" to believe in something. You believe in something when you are convinced. When you are a child, you believe in your parents because they provide for you. You obviously believe in religion because SOMETHING in the religion convinced you it was true. I personally have seen no proof that it is true. All it would take to have me "choose" to believe in God is a little proof, but for some odd reason sending me to an eternity in hell is a better option than providing proof.
And how bout we stop talking about the free will of men and talk about the free will of God. He is free to do as he sees fit. If he wanted to, he could change the rules. He could allow good people like me into Heaven. He could change what sins are. But he doesn't.
Thankful, your analogy does not stand. Your entire premise centers around Z having no impact on X. My claim is that Z created everything about X. And that includes how X thinks and feels. That includes every aspect of X that leads to X making decisions. In essence, X is an extension of Z; everything about X has been designed by Z. Therefore, everything X decides is an extension of Z.
There is no logical argument for a loving God who is willing to let billions of people spend eternity in hell. Either he does not care or unable to change the rules. Or the premise of belief is wrong. Or the premise of God itself is wrong.
Anyway, it was nice having this chat, but I'm going to bed now. As a parting thought, I'd like to just quickly redirect this conversation back to my original post: America was clearly founded separate from religion and has successfully operated for 250+ years with that firm separation. Many European countries spent hundreds of years fighting wars over religion, but America has mostly avoided that needless violence because of that firm separation. Let's just all try to keep religion out of politics and politics out of religion. I think we'd all get along better that way.
Thank you, Madd Dawg, heroic Defender of the Faithless. I'm glad I slept a little later than usual, so I could allow your eloquence and logic to speak for me. I too tire of parrying religionists' arguments. . .
Mad dawg needs to get a life! You seem very long winded too! Do you think anyone really cares what you think? NOT! Waisting your breath except for the people that think its funny to pull your chain and argue! Have fun! hahaha
Thankful and Richod have no actual reasoned response, they have old, often contradicting quotes from a series of books originally written hundreds and sometimes thousands of years after the events described, and re-written for hundreds of years afterwards by a priest class that had 100% control over all writing and reading of those texts. Those Priest classes whole point of existence and source of wealth for many hundreds of years was dependent on getting as many people as possible to show up and give them money to listen to them read a book that only they could read from.
Now off the top of your heads, how many "preachers" have been caught lying, cheating and stealing (not to mention much, much worse) from there flock in the last 20 years?
If I wanted your money, one way is to tell you that you must listen to me and only me and give me 10% of everything you get or you'll regret it forever. Legally that's called blackmail, and when done by a large group, it's racketeering, but if you call it a religion, you're good to go.
I live my life much like Madd-Dawg and I can't agree with him more, if your god is so petty and cruel, hell is probably preferable.
@WE the Corporations
Actually, Historically both in secular and biblical cannons, Jesus of Nazareth, Jesus the CHRISTOS exsisted. Check with most Atheists, and Agnostics, do a little research beyond our own language, some of the greek writers, and there were more than a few. (Most Atheist just question the divinity). He was written about after death by a few scholars of ROME as well as the disciples that followed.
Welcome To This World
This is what Christianity teaches.
You completely ignore that a truly loving being also practices justice. If your father was murdered, would you not want to see the criminal who killed him to come to justice? Of course you would. Justice isn't wrong. Any person who commits a crime should be punished.
So no, God will not accept unrepentant sinners into heaven. That is, actually, the entire reason for the need for Jesus to come to earth. The justice of your wrongdoing is no longer on you--Jesus has offered to take the punishment for you. The price you pay for escaping your punishment is that you must choose to admit you are wrong and that you need him. It's easy enough to do if you have no pride in your heart. Sadly, most people want to say they can live a good life and do it all on their own. And the life time that you get is your opportunity to prove that. Without even know who you are, I know you have already failed, because we all carry the same desire to selfishly protect ourselves, even at the expense of others. I've done it too.
The choice is yours: dig into the facts to find the truth, or to ignore it and choose to face the punishment on your own.
Have you heard of something called "ear worms"? They are the term now used to describe how songs work their way into your head and you can't get it back out. Mark 9 describes hell as the place where "the worm does not die, and the fire is never quenched." We don't know exactly what hell would be other than you suffer, but I think the worm is nagging regret about rejecting the knowledge of the truth, and it never leaves you.
I honestly can't believe this viewpoint is still being spouted. If you want to live a life that rejects God, go ahead. But for people to deny the existence of Jesus of Nazareth on this earth is unreal to me. Proof of his existence has been documented by non-secular archaeological and historical sources conclusively. It's not even a debate in scientific circles anymore. This stuff only gets passed from person to person by people who never actually dug into the proof themselves.
No he didn't. The earliest know historically proven mention of jesus was 100 years AFTER his death...so no, there is still no proof other than multiple middle eastern stories about a son of a god (hercules, osiris, etc...) who died to save man and become a full god.
No it hasn't, not even a little bit. There is not a single writing or shred of evidence that is contemporary to jesus, all are stories written down decades later, sometimes centuries. It is amazing to me that people don't know that, but you have faith so it shouldn't matter right?
But again, believe whatever you want, just don't pretend it is factual its insulting to those of us who evolved a brain.
We know, debates require evidence, and there is NONE that jesus ever existed.
We the corporations - you are obviously an angry, angry person. If you want to reject Jesus and Christianity, then that is your belief and your right. It doesn't make believers stupid - we've evolved brains too. I'm sad for people like you.....
Actually, no anger at all
Well not stupid, but something, and the more people use the brain they evolved the less religious we become and THAT is good news. Someday we as a people will stop believing in stuff just like we did as kids, no tooth fairy, no easter bunny, no santa claus, no jesus. I know its scary, but you may just have to live your life without the blanky of belief
Richod, I disagree with that, but I'll even give you that one.
Would you consider supporting the oppression and denial of a homosexual's civil and Constitutional rights hateful ?
Because that's what most of the groups that Mr. Cathy support do, introduce anti-homosexual legislation into different levels of state and federal government. Like the gays or not, that's just anti-American and hateful to deny a person, (because like or not they ARE human beings) liberty and basic civil rights.
Wow Richod, your posts are fun !
That's a little arrogant of your god and his son Jesus, to only accept you into eternal bliss if you spend your life worshipping them ?!?!? You can live a good, loving, giving and full life, but if you don't believe and "kiss the rings" of these two I'm going to hell ?!?!?
I want nothing to do with ANY of that then.
I'm glad you left the adjective 'wise' out of your description of god. I would think if he's wise and all powerful he wouldn't have minded waiting a few thousand years to send his son, since the Earth has been here millions of years and he's just recently decided to send Jesus. If he had waited until say, last week, to send him we could record and document it properly to spread the word for the remainder of eternity, no ?
Seems like the right place in the discussion to interject this:
http://theoatmeal.com/comics/religion
It's a comic, but dead on in most aspects, imo...
The amusing part is, if his son showed up in human form today with that message, almost everyone on the planet would assume he was crazy and either ignore him or put him in a mental hospital. Even Christians would think he was some crazy homeless drunk just trying to get attention. But put those stories in a book written hundreds of years ago in a time when people were far less educated than most of us in the U.S. are today, and voila, it must be real.
@Rochad: Are you sure there's no way to heaven but throught Christ? I know it says that in Galatians 2:16 but it also says this:
...and it says this:
...and this:
...and this:
...and this:
...and this:
...and this is only a small selection of the various and sundry ways you can be "saved" that are listed in the bible. So, which one is the "right" one? The one about doing Christs wok? The one about just saying his name? The one about following the law? I'm confused by this. There's so many to choose from.
Oh, and as for the "benevolent God" argument - I like to point to two great scriptures:
Kinda mean, don't you think? That God would deliberatly trick people into not believing in him and then punish them for it.
And one of my personal favorites:
Wow, what a benevolent God.
Who cares?! I'm sure that Chick-fil-A can make it without the "berenstain" bears. Not only that but I'm pretty sure that there are some cartoons that believe in the biblical and traditional form of marriage that would be willing to make money with Chick-Fil-A.
I doubt that very few toy companies would like to have their products associated with a topic so divisive. Most companies are in business to make money and alienating one side or the other with politically charges positions is not what is best for their bottom line.
Do the Tele-tubbies market figurines?
Tele-tubbies are very pro-gay marriage. They even mascot gay events... (and they are British)
I love it .... conservative christians always couch their un-Christ like behaviours and beliefs behind Old Testament morality. Shoot, you folks would probably have been all over the Biblical righteousness of slavery 100 years ago. Things sure don't change much in some backwoods quarters, do they?
Andrew, Which behavior exactly are you describing as un-Christ like? And if you're speaking of homosexuality, there are plenty of verses discussing it in the New Testament.
I agree Ed!
From now on I am going to buy even MORE Chick-Fil-A sandwiches. I don't care what Men who sleep together say.
What about women who sleep together Tarzan? Or does that actually appeal to you?
and I am buying more KFC. It's nice to know I can enjoy a meal that was not served with HATE.
Hey Tarzan.... I wish you would eat a dozen of them sandwiches daily. Good for their business and your arteries. Stupid stuff eventually catches up to us all.
Good luck with yours.
What's a "Chick-fil-A" anyway? Chicken sandwich? Like that Southern Style thing McD has (not bad - yes the pickle thing works).?
Taking a divisive stand is bad for business no matter how you slice it. Its not that Christians shouldn't hold thier beliefs, its just that they shouldn't advocate policies that force thier beliefs on others. It's un-American.
I think I'd prefer a burger from Kidd Valley or Dicks...
Its about time: yea, no haters at KFC LOL And Patrook, do you live under a rock?
uknownance - I live in the pacific northwest. My nearest Chick-fil-a is 407.5 miles away at Boise State University (according to the store locator).
I suppose they are yummy, but not drive-for-8-hrs yummy.
I guess I will not be buying a book by that author anymore. I am tired of being blackmailed by the liberals.
This business of dictating to the business public what they can and cannot do by Hollywood and the Liberal Democrats has got to stop and this might just be the straw that broke the camels back.
If you don't like or agree with their ideas, then you do not have to do business with them. Many people in this country are against gays being married. It is not a crime to express your ideals and to run a private business the way you want to. So why are they being treated like criminals?
So you don't want the liberal media and Hollywood telling you what to believe? Well I don't want someone who believes in a 2000 year old book that has been rewritten multiple times by man telling me what to believe.
And you don't want businesses to be told what they can and can not do well I don't want individuals told what they can and can not do and that is exactly what the Republicans and religious right try to do. Just because it isn't what you believe doesn't mean everyone has to follow.
The Bible may be a great way to live your life, but it isn't for everyone and it is definitely not the way to run a FREE country. A country that is built on the idea of religious freedom. But the only religious freedom I see is the freedom to be Christian.
Anyone who thinks that their way is the only way is the one with the problem. A true free society lets all people be who they want to be and not held to one ideal. This is why the founding fathers of this country demand separation of Church and State. So one religion wouldn't start to impose its beliefs on the greater population.
Standing in the way of another group or individuals right to something is nothing but hate and bigotry no mater which way you look at it.
@BigNick, What are you talking about??? Have you ever seen how many different kinds of churches there are in America? And you certainly have the right to be an atheist, or to believe in the tooth fairy. Our right to freedom of religion means freedom to worship your God, or to deny Him if you so choose.
"Standing in the way of another group or individual's right to something is nothing but hate ..." So Big Nick, are you for legalizing plural marriage, prostitution, bestiality, pediphilism, etc? We don't want to stand in their way!
I am glad you equate believing in god to believing in the tooth fairy. There is actually more proof that the tooth fairy exists than god and its good you are starting to see that.
Steven100
Can you make sure you turn off your computer too? Microsoft and Apple both support gay marriage. So if you don't want the 'liberals' as you call them influencing you, stop using it immediately. Oh, and stop going to Starbucks, do not buy Levis, stay away from any product from Proctor and Gamble, watch the food you eat (General Mills), I wouldn't fly on American Airlines or Delta Airlines, and Oh.. I almost forgot, IBM is a huge supporter as well.
In short, there probably isn't one product that you use everyday that isn't MADE by a US Corporation that supports GAY Marriage :-). Maybe you can move to Iran.
P.S 53% (Majority) of Americans now support Gay Marriage.
@We, Actually, I was thinking of those like YOU when I said that. Your stubbornness and hardness of heart has blinded you, and you're actually proud of yourself. I pity you.
As for me, my trust is wholly in Jesus Christ. You hate that, don't you! :)
@Richod.... I believe an atheist or agnostic has a higher understanding of morality than you guys do. In your fanatical approach to the Old Testament you've forgotten Christ's message. You don't know whether to be Jewish or Christian and are taking the worst of both to suit an agenda. THAT is pitiful.
Nope, pity it really, sort of sad like a 12 year old who still believes in Santa Claus despite having no proof whatsoever... oh well, whatever makes you feel safe and cuddly.
I have the Holy Spirit in me ... something that proves my salvation. This is something you don't know about, so you can't understand - but I hope someday you will. And I DO feel safe and cuddly!
@ Andrew, You're right ... I AM fanatical when it comes to trying to follow God's Word. I'll take that over man's wisdom any day.
Richod
Just remember.. your beliefs in god are not equal to the secular laws of the United States. Amendment #1 prohibits the establishment of any religion and god is mentioned anywhere in the Constitution.
P.S. Can you point out the specific phrase in the bible that says god is against 'gay marriage'.
I suggest you re-read the actual constitution. Here is Amendment #1: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof..." You don't have to take my word for it, here's a source: #Original_text
The first amendment specifically states that the federal government is not permitted to stop anyone from establishing a religion, or from freely expressing their beliefs therein.
I suggest YOU read the actual Constitution and study constitutional law. You can start by also reading SCOTUS rulings on separationof church and state", and the influence of the 1st Amendment and Declaration of Independence as well.
http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/church-state/decisions.html
P.S. Christanity is not nor will it EVER be the official religion of the United States of America. It has no place in our secular laws.
To answer your question Steven100,
Because the donations go to groups that introduce anti-homosexual legislation on state and federal levels of government. Not quite criminal, but very hateful and biased, against basic civil and Constitutional rights. Religion has no place in those forums.
Your point? I have read the constitution many times. I am well aware that the government is prohibited from forcing any religious beliefs on anyone. However, I am also aware that the government is likewise prohibited from stopping anyone from those same beliefs. What the first amendment states regarding religion is that 1. Government cannot establish an "official" religion, and 2. Government cannot stop us, on our own time, from establishing/practicing whatever religion we choose.
As for your PS, I never said anything about any "official" religion. But no place in secular laws? That's a bit of a stretch, don't you think? "Thou shalt not steal, etc."
That is correct. you know, that whole separation of church and state thing.
Not stealing was codefied into law long before the bible was written, nor is it unique or exclusive to religion.
Not entirely true. Religious practice can be impeded by the government if that practice violates the law.
Key word (and red flag) here is "fanatical."
It seems there are some issues with comprehension here. Allow me to assist with finding the key words.
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof..."
The words in bold are the key words. No law means exactly that - the government is not permitted to pass laws about what religions can and cannot be established.
Free is the other important key word, which, in this context, says this:
What the government can do is pass laws that protect the rights of others. If any group (religious or otherwise) imprisons someone against their will, that practice can be impeded by the government. That's not a religious practice, that's a felony. So the whole violation of the law part of your argument is comparing apples to baseballs.
That's a chicken-or-egg argument, one that we could debate until we're both purple in the face without either side bending.
The point being that it's a law that is not based on or entirely based in religion, especially where the bible is concerned.
Everyone has the right to practice whatever religion they choose. What they do not have a right to do is use religious principles to govern. If you don't like gay marriage then don't get one and keep them out of your church, but to introduce theologically-based legislature to prevent non-believers from sinning against the Christian God is clearly an overreach.
Really? Tell that to the Rastafarians. I'm sure they will tell you how fair it is that the Christians can give children alcohol but they can't follow their beliefs. Why are the Christians allowed to perform their sacraments but the Rastas aren't?
The law is SUPPOSED to protect against such discrimination, but in practice it doesn't always happen.
@Wall of J
Actually, that's not a chicken-or-egg argument. The oldest recorded code would be the Code of Ur-Nammu which states that stealing is punishable by death. Now, I'm not arguing that it is right or wrong, only that it exists and has been dated to 2100 B.C.
Since the oldst known New Testament scipt is the Codex Vercellensis from around 350 A.D. there's not much hope for this being a chicken-or-egg argument.
Want-a-be stars like the moron Russel Brand making stupid remarks about Sarah Palin needs to quit spending so much time dropping the soap in the showers with Bill Maher!
Don't be gay, eat Chick-Fil-A
just don't be a fool:
live by the Golden Rule.
I'm really sick and tired of the gays and lesbians - they think they are "special" - and that anyone who voices a negative opinion about their sick sexual perversion is the devil. You want to be "special" - suffer the consequences.
I am really tired of ignorant people calling something they do not understand a "sick sexual perversion"...just saying.
I'm pretty sure they are really sick of dil-holes like you as well. See how that works? I call you names and disrespect you, and now you don't like me. Weird stuff, I know.
But it IS a sick sexual perversion.
you most likely think oral sex is pervsion too don't you?
If it's not within the biblical marriage of one man and one wife, yes.
Even if it is between "one man and one wife," the bible still considers oral sex to be the sin of sodomy.
How so, Toasty? Prove that to me.
Sadly, Richod, just because you say it is so doesn't mean it is. Though, if you want to play that game I could just as easily call you a liar, hypocrite, rabble rouser and baby eater.
On what basis could you do that, aardvark?
Put your bibles down. They are inhibiting your ability to think openly and freely. The highly religious boggle my mind. The story of christ was around before christ to include the virgin birth and resurrection. Pick up a book other than the bible and educate yourself on the history of man based on evidence.
Merely your opinion and one which the APA disagrees with!
What a boring sex life you must have. And also just your opinion.
Indeed. It's borrowed from the Egyptian story of Horus.
Richod, any sex that isn't missionary, penetrative, ejaculative intercourse between a man and a woman is sodomy. Oral sex? Sodomy. Foreplay? Sodomy. Doggy style? Sodomy.
I think they should change their name to Chic feel gay. This would solve everything, and show how "tolerant" they are.lol
Chic- fil- a has been closed on Sundays because of their religous affiliation since opening, does it surprise anyone they are not for gay marriage? I mean really. This is a case of open mouth insert foot.
Gays are a part of society and if two people want to get married that is their business.This is legal union between two people so their gender really is a moot point. Most just want to be able to take care of eachother,eg Insurance,making life or death decisions. I do not believe this is about Gays trying to be special,this is about gays wanting to be recognized as a legal union, and elevate the bond they have to a higher level.
There is something I don't understand about this whole Gay Marriage thing.Why is it whenever someone says we don't believe in Gay marriage because, it is against their religious beliefs, they are called names, they are disciminated against,Don't bring your store to my town", you cant be Miss America,etc,etc. The excuse the Liberal pro gay anti God ,conservative Christian hating ,left leaning Liberals ,give for this reaction is, Christians shouldn't push their belief's on others. On the other hand though ,they push their believes on us. Every show on TV now has a gay person ,or a gay couple, their are pro gay articles in every magazine,but we are the pushy ones. can anyone spell Hypocrite!!!!!!
Coral Taxi wrote "Chic- fil- a has been closed on Sundays because of their religous affiliation since opening, does it surprise anyone they are not for gay marriage?"
Do you have a problem with businesses closed due to religious observation ? Call up BH Photo, the premiere photo/video/audio brick&mortar and mail order business, and ask them why they are closed for every holiday observed by Orthodox Jews, because, well, they are Orthodox Jews. Perhaps you should boycott them as well because you can't buy or place an order for your Nikon every few weeks.
@ Ian;
Umm no.
I might eat at chic fil a twice a year, I was just making a point that it is no secret they are a Christian oriented business, so it should not be a surprise they are against gay marriage. Call up BH photo? Who the hell is BH photo.lol
Your attack is very misguided sir. I could care less when chic fil a is open or closed.lol
That's easy Joe. The reason that companies like Chik-fil-A are getting all the bad press is because they are funding groups that are seeking to block rights of fellow citizens.
Does the company's owners have a right to their beliefs? Absolutely. But once they take those beliefs and seek to impose their ideology using the method of restricting the rights of others they're reveal themselves to not only be bigots, but unethical and bluntly un-American.
Now at this point the typical response from the Right is "But by allowing people equality you're forcing your beliefs up me!" Here's the difference. You are still free to practice your religion and beliefs as you see fit. You are not being forced to do, or not do anything. Gays unfortunately can't make the same claim. They are being legally barred from enjoying the rites enjoyed by the majority of citizens.
So I'm sorry but there is no hypocrisy here. Bigots don't get to protest disapproval of their bigotry.
"Our intent is to leave the policy debate over same-sex marriage to the government and political arena.”
But Mr. Cathy you didn't leave it there, you brought your personal beliefs to the forefront and put them in my face. Not a smart move. You have stepped in my faith and conviction and attempted to define my Christianity as have to be in step with yours. Go look in a mirror sir and ponder WWJD.
@Bill, You're completely mistaken. Mr. Cathy was speaking to a Christian organization, and was only stating his personal beliefs. That is still acceptable in America, isn't it? He wasn't "putting them in your face" as you call it, unless you're part of that organization he was speaking to. The leftist media picked up the story and made it what it is. Chick Fil A does not discriminate, and I challenge anyone to prove otherwise. This is his own personal belief ... and America is in deep trouble if we start discriminating against people's free speech. You certainly have a right to not eat there and boycott the business, but government (such as Boston's mayor) have NO right to ban companies based on the personal beliefs of it's owner.
Unless you were reading the Biblical Recorder, Mr. Cathy didn't put them in your face. That was done by the main street media stirring up trouble. Why not investigate every Muslim business and find out what groups they donate to? I doubt you'd like what you hear.
Do you think The Muppets and The Berenstain Bears refuse to do business in Muslim countries?
WWJD? Probably urge us to drop the hate on both sides.
Apparently only the liberal view is tolerated here. I do not have an iron in this because I am the live and let leave sort. But I do notice that if you do not fall into liberal think you are not allowed an opinion.
o'really -
love how you guys always bring up the "main stream media". this story was, in fact, published correct? and it was published by someone you trust, correct? so what's to keep anyone from reporting on it? seems to me that mr. cathy might have been better off skirting the issue and none of us would be here now. but i know, you've just got to press the issue...
MSNBC might be putting it in your face..running the same basic story every other day but Mr Cathy didnt get anywhere near your face.
spock -
you might want to catch up on current events. msnbc doesn't exist anymore. microsoft and nbc disolved their business arrangement like two weeks ago. try to keep up.
btw- if you so hate what used to be msnbc, what are you doing here? why don't you just stay at fux news? oh, sorry, fux doesn't provide space for you do they?
Spock has been running around the universe, fighting the Klingons ... and missed the MSNBC change. His point is still correct though.
Bill, you sound like a drama queen.
Bill, what is the problem? He was asked a question, he answered the question honestly. It's just like the Carrie Prejean debate. She was asked a question, she answered it honestly. Both people were asked for their honest beliefs on the topic, and they stated their honest beliefs on the topic. Were they supposed to lie, or duck the question out of fear of what those who disagree with them might feel about it?
Mr. Kathy's personal view is not the issue here; the issue is that he's using his company's profits to donate to organizations that introduce anti-gay legislation. His company is guilty of funding discrimination.
And other companies fund pro gay marriage organizations. Freedom of choice. Oh yeah, Christians don't have that right.
On the contrary, everyone has that right (at least until anti-discrimination laws catch up). What you do not have is the right to not be criticized by those who think you are doing something wrong.
Happily, you do have the right to defend your position.
I know. Its just a chicken sandwich. A tasty one at that. But sometimes you have to make a stand. Sadly, I will never again provide a penny of revenue to this company. Its not just the message. Its about about the tone. Do a search for the audio recording of Mr. Cathy's comments. He obviously has very strong feelings about the subject of same-sex marriage. So do I. Equal rights to ALL. Equal rights to ALL. I have made my choice.
Nonsense. America is founded on religious freedom. If you are not interested in Section VII Civil Rights Act that prohibits employer discrimination based on sex, religious and race, perhaps you will be more comfortable in a Communist regime that bans religion, such as that of Soviet Russia or Communist China .
Currently, same-sex marriage (which includes the interests of the 1% homosexual population) is illegal in nearly every US state. Mr. Chik-a-fil's opinion is in accordance to marriage laws of nearly every US state, including his own, Georgia.
Same-sex marriage is illegal in nearly every US territory, including California.
California is a state.
Your comment makes absolutely no sense. Chuck Akers was talking about making a personal choice to not spend his money at a particular business. WTH does a personal choice have to do with communism, religious freedom and the Civil Rights Act? It doesn't affect you anyway.
Chuck Akers.
I'm sure you will not be missed.
Congrats! Pat yourself on the back, buy yourself a cookie! YOU GO, GIRL!
Wm. Sanders "You made your biblical bed Chick Fil A, now you must lie in it"
Folks with biblical values are not concerned that their values are not of the unsaved world - in fact we embrace it. That being said, we are not for hatred of anyone. Standing against homosexuality is not hate, so we don't accept your label. We should love everyone, but stand against anything that is contrary to God's Word. And please don't quote the "judge not" verse if you don't accept scripture in the first place. It's not us who are judging, but God's Word. Finally, the Bible is NOT open to many interpretations considering the family unit. You can state the example of David, Soloman, or many other Bible figures .... but the Bible describes their lives, warts and all - it doesn't condone everything it describes. Quite the contrary, the Bible repeatedly describes marriage as between one man and one woman. Please don't lie when you make your comments.
Could someone explain why is it GAY and LESBIAN... isn't GAY the same thing as homosexual? Why does GAY men & LESBIAN women distance themselves from each other?
Probably for the same reasons they won't marry each other.
I am pro-Gay/Lesbian (I am straight/hetero myself)
I believe the separation was to clarify male/female for comparative reference... Gay used to refer to males in general as females didn't become a issue the same as males... as more females made a stance the separation became more of need to define sex as opposed to context. The "group" is Homosexuals, it is broken down to Gay/Lesbian as sub-group. Much the same way that a group "Fox" is broken down to Reynard/Vixen.
gay / lesbian I think we should go back to the old name. Queers...
Aside from the gay marriage issue, I am offended at his comment regarding his comment "and we are married to our first wives". Despite best efforts my fist marriage ended in divorce. I will celebrate my 15th anniversary this year in my second marriage. While I offer my congratulations to him, I resent the implication that I am somehow a lesser person as my first marriage did not last.
Oddly, according to English structure, that indicates they are NOT married to their 2nd wives but they could exist.
I'm divorced and remarried. I also identify myself with Christian beliefs. Cathy's opinion does not offend me because he is stating beliefs he values that in no way mean that he doesn't love or appreciate others. He simply states he values people who fight for a first marriage between a man and woman.
Why you choose to resent that means you have your own issues you need to work through that have nothing to do with Cathy.
He did not say anyone is a lesser person because they are divorced and remarried. People are commenting about things that simply aren't there.
Sort of. The implication is that a good Christian does not divorce, and that is a tenant of some branches of Christianity.
I'm not offended either - they're his values, not mine. Where he contributes money on behalf of the (private) company is his business. My option is not to eat there. Easy.
Sorry, homosexuals, your outrage and boycott won’t put a dent in Chick Fil-A’s bottom line. It is not the largest, but definitely the most successful fast food restaurant in the nation. If you don’t know already, every Chick Fil-A has six serving lines inside and a drive-thru line which loop around the parking lot six days a week at lunch time. Deprive yourself of the great chicken sandwiches if you like, but I know you love their sandwiches like everyone else.
Then what are you whining about?
We're having some fun debate with Sodomites!
richod -
oh, so just like i thought, you are a troll...
Oh I see, good old "christian hate".
I don't hate anyone. And is Sodomite a bad word to you people???
Dave,
How is what I said be perceived as whining. I was simply saying I hope all homosexuals would boycott Chick Fil-A so the lines won't be so long. My time is valuable, so please stay away, Dave.
Richod, sodomy is any non-penile/vaginal sexual act. So if you and the wife have ever stepped out of those bounds guess what? You're a sodomite!
Mr. Cathy has donated millions to groups such as James Dobson's Focus On The Family organization. Focus on the Family is no stranger to organizing boycotts of businesses that don't meet their standards. It would be very hypocritical of Mr. Cathy to be upset about his business being boycotted when he has helped fund boycotts of other businesses.
I think this boycott is ridiculous. But, it's no more ridiculous than when a religious group tries to get people to boycott other businesses.
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
@mrgrinch09, I agree with most of your statement. But I believe Mr. Cathy was not looking to inflame the issue with anyone, nor does he discriminate. He was merely stating his personal religious belief ... and if that is somehow not acceptable to the gay community and the leftist media, then I truly worry about the future of our country. I believe the left and the right (and the majority somewhere in the middle) should be able to speak their mind. We call that the first amendment. If people want to boycott, let them ... that's also part of free speech. But government needs to butt out.
What you don't get is that we don't give a rat's ass about his personal beliefs. If he wants to be a bigot--fine. Just keep it to himself and within his religion. But when he starts donating millions towards lobbyists and legislation to keep an entire subset of the population from being seen as equal in the eyes of the law--and a subset whose lives have absolutely zero impact on his own life and marriage--that's when we take issue.
Do you not see the irony in screaming about religious persecution and claiming that your rights are being trampled on when we do nothing more than call you a bigot or arrange a boycott, and then turning around and actively trying to keep LGBT people from having equal rights under the law? One of these two groups is actually having their rights trampled on, and it's not Christians.
Ms. Emily,
YOU might not care about his personal beliefs, but obviously someone did; that would be why the interviewer asked him.
This is just like the Carrie Prejean issue; someone asked her what her honest beliefs were on a controversial issue (the same exact one, in fact), and then there was a huge uproar when she answered honestly. This sounds like a classic case of entrapment to me.
All these companies are on the wrong side of history.
Hate is not a fundamental Christian value, any more than racism and segregation was.
@ PSound, Where exactly is the hate? I don't believe in the Democratic party .... does that mean I hate people that are democrats?
Hate is not a fundamental Christian value, any more than racism and segregation was.
Segregation, at least politically, mostly came from Southern Democrat Protestants: George Wallace, James Eastland, John Stennis, William Fullbright, Robert Byrd, et. al.
Why? How? What is "the wrong side?" The one that's not yours?
How hypocritical.
"in the interests of diversity and inclusion, we've decided to ostracize you".
Laughable!
You just have
to love the gay community bunch of hypocrites just disgust me to no end, I feel
constitutionally same sex marriage must be allowed by Law so obviously I am a
fair and reasonable person, but I have listened to the gay community go on and
on about what’s fair and using their Right of Freedom of speech and have
exploited at every turn, not everyone is on board with the whole Gay thing… I
am Not!..But I am not against it either: to each his own, live and let live! But
shame on those that would be vengeful to another person personals beliefs and
them expressing them and exercising their rights publicly.. It’s like they are
saying: if you’re not with us then you must be against us and you are the enemy..
I will take my family now to his restaurants, not to Anti-gay but to be pro
freedom of speech!!!!! Smoke that in your pipe you made an enemy of me for lack
of respecting other group’s rights to freedom of speech!
Peccker Wood. We ARE expressing our freedom of speech. How is it different from YOUR freedom of speech? Please respond. Smells like hypocrisy to me. How about you?
Congratulations pecker, you win circular logic award of the day.
How dare you exercise your rights as a result of me exercising my rights!
After a generation or two there should be no queers left 'cuz they can't reproduce. Just look back at the Shakers. No sex and now no Shakers. Problem solved.
BM43
"After a generation or two there should be no queers left 'cuz they can't reproduce."
So straight people don't have gay children?
I name you IDIOT. Don't breed. The gene pool is obviously shallow enough.
so they're still married to their first wives. i guess half of americans are no longer welcome in their restaurants.
Yeah? I wonder how many Chick Fil- A owners are married to their FIRST wife? Does Mr Cathy follow the tenets of the Bible completely? Ooops..women can not wear red! Men must not have long hair! Lets exclude these heathens from church, too! On and on and on.......................... that is my complaint with so many "Christians" they cherry pick what they want to believe and force these concepts and beliefs on others, ignoring what is written and specific in the Bible.
Your comment reads like uneducated rambling. If you studied biblical literature, you would be aware of dispensationalism.
In short, the law (old testament Jewish rituals and requirements) do not apply to Christians.
Sadly, even most Christians are unaware of this concept.
It suffers quite a bit for being overly condensed. Basically, Christ did not revoke the Law, He fulfilled it. The "rule" of the sin offering is still there, but Christ fulfilled that by giving Himself as the sin offering. This doesn't mean we stop trying to live a good life as Jesus taught us. It simply means that we recognize that we've fallen short of this, and that the only reason we have any hope of going back home to the Lord is that we have been forgiven.
Christians are NOT perfect. We are simply forgiven. That, in and of itself, doesn't make US special, it makes Christ special, as He is the only one with the authority to forgive. See how simple that is?
See how illogical that is?
I say good for them!!
I'm gonna eat at Chick Fil A as much as possible, about time someone takes a stand. When Obama said he didn't agree with gay marriage you losers still voted for him.. Quit crying eat the food, its awesome!!!
I wish every homosexual would boycott Chick Fil-A. I am tired of driving to the restaurant at lunch everyday and having to go somewhere else because of the huge, huge lines. I want some of that good chicken.
Waffles fries FTW.
Funny thing, in West Hollywood, one of THE gayest communities, there's a HUGE Chick-fil-a restaurant with a double drive-thru and that place is constantly packed!!! You can't tell me it's only the 4 heteros in that area that are keeping that place bumpin! Admit it gays, YOU LOVE THEIR CHICKEN TOO!!! Hahaha!
Let's all just take a breath and agree that it's some damn tasty chicken!
I will keep eating there and supporting the place. I respect a man who stands up for his beliefs. If you don't agree, don't agree. I don't really care. But people don't need to get nasty.
It amazes me how hateful and intolerant some people can be when it comes to beliefs other than their own.
Enjoy your heart attack.
Yeah, uh, no!
Just a little information about our local Chic-fil-A, my daughter performs in plays at our community center, Chic-Fil-A always donates to help them out. We do an annual buddy walk for kids with down syndrome to help raise awareness and money for struggling families, guess who the largest donor the last 3 years has been, yip good ole Chic-Fil-A....The media and gays may try to tear down works of goodness, but charity never faileth!
Just curious, do the LGBT groups contribute to anything worthwhile?
Yes, but how is that relevant to whether LGBT Americans should be able to marry the one they love? I have a sister-in-law who's popping out babies on welfare, but she's married.
Dear Mr. Cathy. I was married once before. Your superiority precludes me from visiting any of your stores ever again. Keep up the good work.
you can still go. but you have to wear a scarlet "D"
Your comment = Projection.
Chuck Akers I believe you took that wrong. He was not condemning anyone for being divorced and remarried. He was not putting anyone down. He was simply stating he is married to his one and only wife. I applaud him! I am divorced as well but for good reason, my husband abused me in every way shape and form. I wish my first marriage would have lasted for ever but it didn't. I am married to a wonderful man now.
People take offense to the least little thing these days. Lighten up.
I'm sure those Family Circus kids meals are going to fly off the warming trays. I can practically see all those imaginary footprints leading to Chick-Fil-A now.