
Family photo/Courtesy of Bobbi Jamriska
Kristina Grill, 15, was murdered in 1993 by her ex-boyfriend, who was also 15 at the time of her death and 16 when he was convicted. She's seen in this file photo in Pennsylvania a year before her murder.
Nineteen years ago, Bobbi Jamriska's younger sister was found murdered in a Pennsylvania schoolyard. As Jamriska grieved, one thing brought her solace: When a court found her sister's 16-year-old ex-boyfriend guilty and sentenced him to life in prison without parole.
"When you get up every day, you think about what happened, but at least you know that there was that one constant, that life-without-parole was going to make sure that you never had to relive that part of it," said Jamriska, 40, who lives in Pittsburgh.
But three months ago, the Supreme Court struck down mandatory life-without-parole sentences for juveniles as cruel and unusual punishment. While the June 25 ruling wasn't necessarily designed to be applied retroactively, some youth advocates are trying to use it to free so-called "juvenile lifers," setting off a series of battles over what to do with the approximately 2,100 convicted murderers who were handed mandatory life-without-parole sentences for acts committed as youths.
For victims' families, the decision has had huge emotional, and in some cases, legal implications.
"After the [Supreme Court] ruling, everyone felt like they were reliving the trial phase and their loved ones' murder," said Jamriska, who traveled to Washington, D.C., with other victims' families to protest the ruling.
She is part of a support group called the National Organization of Victims of Juvenile Lifers.
"There were a lot of families who didn't have any idea that this was even possible," she said. "For them, it was literally one day business as usual, and then the next day, on the news, their whole world got turned upside down."
Pennsylvania, where Jamriska lives, has the biggest concentration of juveniles serving mandatory life sentences -- about 480 of them, the oldest of whom was convicted almost 60 years ago and is now in his 70s, according to the Juvenile Law Center. Earlier this month, the state Supreme Court in Pennsylvania began hearing arguments for why some of the lifers there should be paroled, including the ex-boyfriend who killed Jamriska's sister in 1993.
No one in the legal system told Jamriska that the parole arguments involved her sister's killer. She found out from a reporter's voicemail about three weeks after the Supreme Court ruling that lawyers were trying to get parole for him.
Jamriska was stunned, but she said a lack of communication is somewhat understandable.

Jennifer Bishop-Jenkins / teenkillers.org
Bobbi Jamriska, of Pennsylvania, right, and Jody Robinson, left, of Michigan, another member of the National Organization of Victims of Juvenile Lifers, are seen advocating for victims' families' rights on March 20, 2012, outside of the Supreme Court in Washington, D.C., as the Supreme Court heard arguments on whether mandatory life without parole was cruel and unusual punishment for convicted juvenile murderers.
"There never was a contingency for if this person who was sent to life in prison with no parole is suddenly able to get out," she said. "The DA's office isn't really staffed to manage that influx of appeals and those victims who are trying to get information -- I don't blame them."
The state Supreme Court has put the arguments on hold and didn't give a timeline for a ruling. The Pennsylvania legislature still needs to come up with an appropriate alternative punishment for minors going forward.
"The sentencing scheme in Pennsylvania currently provides that for any individual, juvenile or adult, convicted of first or second-degree homicide must either receive a sentence of death or a sentence of life without parole. For juveniles, that mandatory sentence of life without parole has been declared unconstitutional," Marsha Levick, deputy director and chief counsel at the Juvenile Law Center, said. "We think the courts should look to the next most severe sentence that is statutorily available in the state. Here, that means a sentence for third-degree murder, where you have a maximum sentence of 40 years."
Levick suspects lawyers in other states will argue for that too. Since the Supreme Court ruling, North Carolina has passed a law replacing the mandatory life without prison sentence with a 25 years to life sentence; California's governor is currently evaluating a law that sets up two different schemes where parole eligibility comes in at either 15 or 25 years to life, Levick said. In all, 28 states still allow mandatory life-without-parole sentences for minors, a situation that will have to change.
"States can still impose life without parole," she said. "They just can't make it the only sentence available."
As some juvenile advocates try to undo sentences that have already been imposed, Jennifer Bishop-Jenkins, 54, president of the National Organization of Victims of Juvenile Lifers, worries about the families of their victims.
"Whenever you reopen traumatic wounds or you're triggering a retraumatization, you're talking about something that is going to affect people's work, their sleep, their health, their marriages -- everything," she said.
Victims can only rely on each other for support, Jenkins said.
14 years old: Too young for life in prison?
"They don't register for victim notification and they don't monitor what's happening, and then you get these reactions like what we've been getting in our organization," Bishop-Jenkins said. "We've been trying very hard to find people to let them know that this multi-billion dollar campaign to free their loved ones' killers is going on and they're just shocked."

Family photo/Courtesy of Jennifer Bishop-Jenkins
From left to right: Richard Langert and Nancy Bishop Langert are seen on their wedding day in 1987 in Kenilworth, Ill., with Nancy's parents and sister, Jennifer Bishop-Jenkins, far right. The Langerts were murdered by a 16-year-old in 1990.
There are potential legal issues too: Bishop-Jenkins' pregnant sister and brother-in-law were murdered in their home in Winnetka, Ill., 22 years ago. It was Bishop-Jenkins' father who found their bodies; his testimony served as crucial evidence in the initial trial. Eight years ago, her father died of cancer. She says the judge from the first trial has also died.
"My father was the best eyewitness to the carnage of the crime scene. We didn't videotape him talking about the crime," Bishop-Jenkins said. "We didn't get the transcript of what the judge said at the sentencing hearing where he gave this speech about if anybody deserved life without parole, he did."
She now fears she and her mom, 83, could have to face her sister's killer in sentencing hearings in court. And while she doubts he will be granted parole, she said she worries lawyers may try again every couple of years.
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Nunc pro tunc ? NO! RES IPSA LOQUITUR!
America's libtard judges are always bleeding for the murderers, the molestors, the rapists. If they had as much regard for the victims as they did the perpetrators, they'd have the common sense to execute the scum of the earth instead of trying their damndest to get them back on the street.
Let's make a rule that, if a released murderer or rapist or molestor harms somebody after they're released, the judge who released them goes to prison with them to serve the same term in the same cell.
How much longer will it be before the criminals are in control. Seems the courts and advocates are continually releasing criminals into society. How many stories are there every day about repeat offenders continuing their life of crime after being release from prison/jail. In many cases more than after being caught, convicted and imprisoned several times.
Its a great concept. Give the juvenile another chance to commit murder when they become an adult. No respect for the victim's family or the community.
As one of the Co-founders of Mothers of Murdered Offspring in Charlotte, NC , my heart bleeds for the families of all victims who may be forced to face their loved ones' killer. My god-daughter's killer tried to get his sentence of death commuted to life in prision without parole and it was tramatic for all of us. Just having to look at him and realizing that this man who was convicted of killing 9 women now wants to live - it seem so unfair. She wanted to live too and so did the other 8 or more women he killed.
My god-daughter, Shawna Hawk would have been 40 years old this coming December 2 and he murdered her when she was 20.
Those who committ crimes should be held responsible for their actions. Some christians think that when you forgive a perpetrator, it means that if the that person can be freed, you should be okay with that. Well, I don't believe one has anything to do with the other. It is the Bible that says, "Whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." The freedom they seek should be more spiritual rather then physical. They should never forget - they took a life. And in the case of the couple expecting a baby - three lives were taken - NO PAROLE!!!!! EVER!!!
If you commit a Big Boy crime, you should serve Big Boy time. That simple. Don't like it? Don't do it.
too bad the victims never survive their cruel and unusual punishment at the hands of these murderers, too bad we can't make them suffer like their victims did, makes me sick that killers have more rights and that people actually care about them and their FEELINGS ! WAAAH
The reality is that the last 5-7 years of psycho-neuro science research shows that the human brain is not fully developed until the age of 25 - and that the last part of the brain to develop is that which contains impulse control and morality. How can you hold someone accountable for their entire life for something in which they physically would be unable to comprehend???? Yes, the should be held accountable. But accountability and culpability do not mean "never another chance". While what the victim's family is going through is an individual tragedy, the murderer's family is also being punished for the actions of a child that did not have the mental capacity to control an impulse. 14 is too young to be punished for life. Held accountable? Again, yes. BUT..... the recidivism rate for homicide is extremely low. That's because most homicides are perpetrated because of sudden rage (impulse control) and most homicides are perpetrated where there is a relationship between victim and perpetrator. The idea that a juvenile offender will one day go out killing randomly - or even kill again - is statistically highly HIGHLY unlikely and actually quite ludicrous to argue. Yes, Jeremy Bentham (crime theorist) argued the punishment should fit the crime but he also argued that the punishment should be "just enough" to deter future crime. Severity of the punishment is the real concern here. Keeping a 14 year old (or any juvenile) in prison for their life is not being used to rehabilitate or to deter future crime - it is pure and simple unadulterated revenge. "Revenge" is not why you put criminals in jail.....
So is the thinking here that if we take a convicted murderer, lock them up with a bunch of other criminals (who abuse them), and then wait some period of time that the murderer will somehow magically transform into a successful member of our society?
IMO, if the thinking is that a juvy could be reformed then I say let the convicted murderer prove it. And if they can they should pledge a % of their income during their parole plus some number of hours of their personal time as restitution to the surviving families of their victims.
Hee Haw
Keep electing idiots like Obama and they will keep appointing people like Sotomeyer, which gives you these type of decisions.