A Connecticut father who fatally shot what he thought was a masked prowler outside his home only to discover it was his 15-year-old boy is “in a state of anguish,” his lawyer said on Monday.
“It is a very emotional time,” attorney Gene Zingaro told NBC News. “The family is left asking so many questions that will go unanswered forever. There will never be a satisfactory answer. The father and the whole family are utterly devastated. The father is in a state of anguish.”
"The family has been broken in half by this tragedy,” Zingaro said.
Zingaro said he spent time with the Giuliano family Sunday during a memorial service for Terry Giuliano, who was shot to death Thursday outside his family’s house in New Fairfield, a town just north of Danbury.
Zingaro said details of the evening have left Terry’s father, Jeffrey Giuliano, inconsolable and physically ill.
Jeffrey Giuliano went outside with a gun around 1 a.m. after his sister called him to say someone was trying to break into her house next door. When he went outside, Giuliano saw a knife-wielding man wearing a black ski mask. The masked figure approached him in a threatening manner, police said. Giulano fired a single shot, killing the purported prowler.
It was only hours later that Jeffrey Giuliano learned that the slain suspect was his adopted son, causing him to weep and vomit at the scene.
"He was in disbelief and a state of shock," Zingaro told NBC News.
Zingaro said Jeffrey Giuliano, a popular fifth-grade elementary teacher, will not face criminal charges.
“It is my belief that it will be termed an accidental shooting, and he will not face charges,” Zingaro said.
State police say they are continuing to investigate. No charges have been filed.
Zingaro said Giuliano and his wife adopted Tyler and his sister about four years ago.
"It's a tragic loss that cannot be measured,” Zingaro said.
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the liberals will save us by banning guns in america.
.....but they will have to kill me to get mine.
come get some.. =)
Take off your tinfoil hat.
yikes.
plork, you go boi
So plorky you're antigun,anti religion, anti god,hell just about anti everything!Is there anything you're not anti about?
I'm with you keck!They'll have to kill me first! Bring it on liberal stooges!
Anyone that comes for my guns better bring lots of help, three days rations, and A LOT of body bags.
Ooooh. Vern. You are so very manly. How many people have you killed?
Some men are empty cocoons without guns. Without them they would literally collapse.
The government doesn't have a problem with that. Neither does anyone else.
Buffaloes Roam: Don't like Guns don't own them, don't want to be around guns then move to a country that bans guns. If that is not good enough for you then STFU.
Have a nice day.
Have guns. Don't brag about them. I have a penis.
I believe that the law is on the side of the Father who felt threatened by a masked individual and an knife. No matter how that individual approached the Father, if the Father felt threatened and was being approached then it was self-defense.
Kids, don't do this at home.
Let this be yet another lesson to those that want to adopt. I see too many good people who adopted and thought love and a good home could trump bad genes and the answer is not a chance. Way too many examples of adopted kids doing unthinkable things, leaving the adoptive parents in a state of anguish and shock!
Hmmm. Now, I didn't get that as a moral of this story.
I did. Being scum in your genes is the same as being gay or straight. Can't fault one for being gay, same as you can't fault one for being a low life scumbucket. Only difference is that gays are harmless.
Handguns are 43 times more likely to be used to kill a family member than an intruder. FACT.
so ?
move to canada if you dont like handguns.
you are not going to ban guns in america....get that through your head, tin foil or not.
Hey bob,I here England's nice this time of year also!
bob-
Don't like guns? Don't have one.
bob-1468349: Fact you have a better chance of being killed by a drunk driver then being shot to death.
Fact: This statistic of 43 times more likely to be used to kill a family member than an intruder is a blatant lie.
Fact: Study Confirms Private Firearms Stop Crime 2.5 Million Times Each Year.
Fact: If you were to research your statistic you will find they included suicides approx 16,000 per year( A family member shot themselves)
Only 649 are unintentional shootings, 311 from legal intervention and 235 from undetermined intent (4%).
So in fact if you took out the suicides then the amount is more like 10 to 15% only pal.
@BOB Post source and independent backup or it is not fact, just more fiction running rampant on the internet.
Prowler outside? First check to see that everyone who belongs in the house is inside, especially if you have teenagers. A prowler outside is not an immediate threat and there is time to verify whereabouts. If there is someone inside, again I would try to verfiy occupants. Personally I would rather be killed than mistakenly kill my child. It just seems that there are too many incidents of mistaken intruders that turn out to be family members.
So if he somehow figured out that it was his own kid, outside in the middle of the night, dressed in black, wearing a ski mask, and charging him with a knife, then it would be acceptable to take a knife in the chest?
Are you effing high?
Vern theses libs will scream at the top of there lungs they should have done this or done that, in the end when it happens to them some crazy person invades there home and ****s with there family or kills some or all of them. They will know in the end we were right and they were dead wrong.
This is a very tragic situation. what was the child doing out at that time in that situation. We don't know if the sister called the police first or not, but I myself would also call my brother for help if he was nearby. Do I think the cops would be better to protect, yes, HOWEVER, depending where you live (like where I live) we are lucky if the police can get to a house within 15 minutes. Our policy force has had so many cuts there aren't many left. Citizens are getting to the point of having to protect themselves because there isn't enough police to handle everything all the time. If there was there wouldn't be so many people in the need to have CCW permits to protect themselves. If it is me, my child or the intruder, you can be sure it would be the intruder, but they would have to be intruding in my house. I wouldn't be my intension to go outside and shoot someone down in a similar situation, and if I did, I would shoot for the knee to just disable the situation. But until more cops are back on the forces to the point where people can feel protected again, more and more will get the guns to protect themselves.
The police were not called until after the boy was killed. I want to know the motive! Why would make this kid do this? The dad didn't know if this "guy" had a gun or not so why would he put his life at risk by getting that close where he could be charged at or shot at? I would had called 911 first and then my neighbor. This smells fishy to me!
He was an adopted drug baby.
First, where does it say they weren't called until after. Second, and very important, the neighbor that called was the father's sister. Third, equally important, where they live, response times tend to be very high.
By saying you want to know the father's motive, it makes it sound like you belive that the family planned the kid's murder. Is that what you are saying?
The father's motive in going out there was simple, he was protecting his sister!
Totally insane, the number of people blaming the father! Let's see, father's sister calls in the middle of the night that someone is trying to break in her house. Been another break in/rape in the neighborhood just recently. Man responds, someone in mask lunges at him with knife. So, according to the idiots on this vine, man should run, pray he or his sister is not stabbed, call the police and pray THEY come in time to stop a crime. Is that what you're saying, bubby? Then when you are in the same circumstance, I hope the cops come in time to save YOU or your wife/daughter. Or maybe not, some people just can't learn from teaching, they have to experience it themselves.
In the meantime, condolences to the father, pray for his peace. But for the boy, sad, but when you go looking for trouble, you usually can find it.
I feel bad for the father.He adopted this kid in the fifth grade,and he really lovedf this kid.The kid was troubled to begin with.For him to charge at his own father adopted or not,there had to be something radically wrong with the kid,and many people including his father never saw the Jekyll and the Hide in this kid.The kid never really showed it till now.
Many of his friends were shocked,at the circumstances. It's to bad as truthgoddess mentioned he didn't shoot him in the knee,or leg.
Now his father has lost a son and will live with it for the rest of his life.I really feel for the family and this man.
Amen.
What the kid was doing one a.m. in the morning wearing ski mask and with a weapon in his hand ? He was an adopted son. The father really did know him too much. When a person come after you at one a.m. in the morning, you must defend yourself. The father is not a trigger- happy man.It is a tragedy, but it was not the father's faulty.
It depends. A fifteen year old can be a 90 pound little kid with commando fantasies. Or he can be a 200 pound legitimate threat.
Anyone with a knife is a very real threat. Weight is not the issue. Also, if on drugs, all bets are off. Rational thinking abilities are gone, strength increased, and fear of consequences go out the window
This is what we get from the gun-crazy NRA. Lots of guns but very little INTELLIGENCE. I would rather live under the "Rule of Law" than the "Rule of the Gun".
Also, this sad incident is just more proof, like we need it, that a gun in the house is more of a danger to YOU and your LOVED ONES than some imaginary BOOGIE-MAN.
And for the CRAZIES and WACKO SURVIVALISTS that think "Obama and the liberals are coming for my guns." That's certainly One Foolish Idea! My condolences to the grieving father and Family.
Maybe you might want to sit down and breathe into a paper bag so you don't tip over or something.
lmao...another irresponsible gun owner who shot first and asked questions later....
You're sick in the head. This man lost his adopted son. There's nothing here to laugh about, Rick.
Jeez, what a compassion.
I thank God the father is still alive to be distraught. Having anyone come at you with a knife whether wearing a mask or not is enough to scare the hell out of anyone. No one will ever know what this kid had in mind once he entered his Aunts house. A knife should give us some clue; it wasn't to use the bathroom or phone, or even to escape from anything else that might have been going on. This man needs to come to the understanding that he may have saved his sisters life. I'm now concerned about the boys sister, how is she taking the death of her brother at the hands of someone that adopted her?
If you walk around with a ski mask and wielding a knife at 1 am, perhaps you bring it upon yourself, at least, in gun loving America.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
Hard to argue with that.
Idiot+knife+mask=a morgue drawer visit. Sad scene all around.
Gun ownership is the worst thing that ever happened to this country. Period. I'm sick and tired of hearing tragedy after tragedy. Then, we have to listen the smarmy @!$%# for brains gun rights people and their idiotic arguments after some trigger happy dumbass murders his teenage kid.
Don't like guns? Don't have one.
Milhaus-2271724: Don't like it, move to a country of your choice that bans them... If not STFU.
I believe this man saved his families life. For the kid to say nothing but advance on the father, armed, says he had some ulterior thoughts in mind. This man is obviously grieving but he would have grieved more if the kid had gotten inside the home and stabbed everyone to death.
You are the worst kind of idiot.
Well, maybe that was harsh. This case is upsetting. Sorry Carol. However, I disagree with you.
A sign of a guilty man is he goes and get a lawyer. I now further doubt the father's story. He probably got into a big fight with his son and in anger shot and killed him. Not too hard to drop a knife on him, get a ski mask and tell the police he was being threatened. It makes no sense that his son would charge at him with while he is armed with a gun. Most people would flee.
Too far fetched.
Robbie the robot: Wrong, the first thing you do when you kill someone is to CALL YOUR LAWYER..
Second thing you do is not make a statement to the police or anyone until you have talked with said lawyer first...
That is the smartest thing you can do in theses types of situations.
Leatherneck is almost correct. First tell the police everything they need to secure the area. I.e. are there more people involved, did anyone get away, etc. Then you clam up until you get a lawyer. Some police officers feel like a lot of people on here and will try to railroad you into prison.
Sorry, but I gotta point this out... no gun? No death.
No gun? Knife death.
What, you think the guy's son was out to KILL him? They get into some kind of physical confrontation with a knife, don't you think it would come out that, hey, this is my son?
Why didn't the guy shout, "HEY! Take one more step and I shoot you dead!" Or did he?
I get you about the gun. I don't have one, but I think about it sometimes. You want to have an equalizer if you need it. But hell, the risks... you have a grandkid over, people lose track of what's going on, next thing you know, you're on CNN having tragically lost a grandchild. That's what I fear. How do you keep it ready enough for emergencies (within seconds, in the middle of the night), but still safe? How do you see what you're doing and who you're shooting at in the dark? Do you have the presence of mind to turn the lights on, when your heart is practically exploding out of your chest with fear and adrenaline? Man... it's risky. I ask myself, do I really wanna get into a shootout with someone? Well, bottom line, if it's me and my family, or them... tough problem for me.
Why did the father not know whom he'd shot until "hours later"? What am I missing here?
Whats missing is that possibly the father thought his son was sleeping inside of the home and did not come out. It was not until some one went to the body and ID it and found out the body is the fathers son.
How did the father not know whom he'd shot until "hours later"? What am I missing here?
It's a totally tragic freak accident, but you have to wonder about the kid's behavior. I'm a 50-year-old woman who lives alone, a dyed-in-the-wool liberal, and a bunny-loving tree-hugger. I own a gun, know how to shoot it, and I would not hesitate to shoot to kill in that situation. Shoot a person in the leg and they may just pull out their own gun and kill you. Of course you try to protect a sibling--social animals are like that; it's instinctual behavior. There are people out there doing f-d up things to innocent victims, like tying them to beds and burning the house down with them inside. If there is a chance of one of us getting hurt, it's going to be the intruder, not me, and I won't feel badly about protecting myself. Luckily I have no kids to shoot I guess. Although I do support reasonable gun control regulation, I am definitely in support of gun ownership. If you were a single woman (or man!) who wanted to live alone, especially out in the country, wouldn't you want the right to own a gun?? Some of you may be looking at it from a perspective of living with your family in the city or suburbs where the police can be there immediately. Thank dog for guns because they allow me to live the life I want and protect myself if someone wants to hurt me. At a little over a hundred pounds, it's not like I'm going to wrestle someone to the ground and take their knife away, lol.
He couldn't make a kid of his own, now he killed the one he was trusted with. What the he$$ was he running around the neighborhood with a loaded gun for if his intent wasn't to shoot someone? Well, he did. I wonder if he wishes he'd let the authouities handle the situation and stayed home to protect his wife and child. What a hero. May God forgive him.
Was the boy intoxicated or high? It's not a nice question to ask while the family is grieving, but if an autopsy shows he has levels of alcohol or drugs it might help explain his behavior. A kid under normal circumstances would say something to his dad to reassure him who he is, then take off the mask.
There is such thing as a warning shot, over the head into the air. Or if too populated, into the ground. I have had to do this with strange dogs heading for the goat pen. But of course, I am in a rural area. Sometimes just the click of the gun will stop them.
And then there was always the shotgun filled with rock salt. Just gives a good sting. If not too close. And there is the pocket tazer too.
whisperingsage: Another idiot who has no idea about gun's.