Gay teen denied Eagle Scout: 'Change is happening' over Boy Scouts anti-gay policy

John Makely / NBC News

Ryan Andresen, 18, of Moraga, Calif., in New York on Oct. 12. After completing the requirements for the Boy Scouts' top honor, the Eagle rank, he was denied the award because he is gay. The organization has a longstanding, controversial policy banning gay Scouts and leaders.

NEW YORK -- On his 18th birthday, Ryan Andresen received a symbol of the Boy Scouts’ highest honor, which the national organization had denied him because he is gay: an Eagle Scout pin.

He got it on Monday from another Eagle Scout, Matthew Kimball, 30, who was also in his troop years ago and publicly came out as gay after learning about his fellow Scout’s plight.

“I look at it; it just gives me hope,” Andresen, of Moraga, Calif., told NBC News on Friday during a visit to New York. “I see it as there’s people out there that support me and care about me and believe that I earned it. And it also shows me that things are happening, change is happening, there’s hope in the Boy Scouts to change this policy.”


Andresen learned more than a week ago from his father, Eric, that the Scoutmaster of Troop 212 would not be signing off on his Eagle application even though he’d completed the requirements. The father said the Scoutmaster told him he was grappling with the conflict between Ryan’s sexual orientation and the policy set by the national organization that bans Gay Scouts and leaders.

The Scoutmaster has not responded to emails or a phone call seeking comment. Andresen said he had found his father crying over the rejection, which he then explained to him.

“It's not fair that gay people can’t go through it and can't get the recognition,” he said. "It’s especially not fair that people like me can go through the whole entire program, you know, do everything and get all the way to the Eagle award and at the very last minute be told they can’t get it. It's totally devastating, it’s terrible … that's bullying.”

Andresen came out in July to his fellow Scouts in a letter that was focused on bullying in the troop. But he said his Scoutmaster knew before then that he was gay and had encouraged him to stick with the troop when he had thought about not pursuing his Eagle Scout rank.

John Makely / NBC News

Andresen shows an Eagle pin given to him by Matthew Kimball, a fellow member of his Troop 212. Kimball, 30, publicly came out as gay after learning that Andresen was denied his Eagle award because he is gay. Kimball has asked other Scouts to send in their pins for the teen.

His final Eagle Scout project focused on bullying. Named the “tolerance wall,” it consists of 288 tiles depicting acts of kindness and is displayed at his middle school, where he says he endured name calling over his sexual orientation. He said he also was bullied in the Boy Scouts because he was gay.

Speaking about the bullying brought his mom, Karen, to tears.

“It's hard … when you're a mom and your kids are, you know, suffering in pain,” she said, adding that the Eagle Scout denial “was like the final straw because we were all in such shock about this decision. And I didn’t want Ryan to go down to a bad place again and be so depressed, and so I just had to step in and be his advocate.”

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The Boy Scouts of America have a longstanding policy denying membership to gay leaders and Scouts, which they reaffirmed earlier this year after a two-year confidential review of the controversial ban.

“While a majority of our membership agrees with our policy, we fully understand no single policy will accommodate the many diverse views among our membership or society,” BSA spokesman, Deron Smith, said in an email in August.

The organization said last week in a statement that because of Andresen's sexual orientation and that he did not agree to Scouting’s principle of "Duty to God," “he is no longer eligible for membership in Scouting.”

But the family has disputed that, saying the only reason Andresen was denied the rank is "because the Boy Scouts of America has a problem with Ryan being gay."

Andresen has had his emotional ups and downs since he learned he wouldn’t get his Eagle, though is family is still appealing that decision and Karen Andresen started an online petition calling for him to get the award. He is also hurt that his Scoutmaster has not responded to a letter he wrote him.

“He still won't talk to me and, it’s sad," he said. “He was a huge role model to me so it’s devastating. I really looked up to him.”

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Andresen said he has received some critical messages online that he was bullying the Scoutmaster.

“I apologized that it looked that way and I said that this is not what I’m trying to do and I’m very against bullying,” he said. “I’m not targeting anyone. I love Boy Scouts. I love the boys in my troop and I really just want this policy to change.”

To earn the Eagle rank, which is in its 100th year, Scouts must progress through five lower ranks, earn 21 merit badges and serve six months in a leadership position, among completing other tasks. More than two million young men have received the Eagle rank.

Kimball, who started a campaign to collect Eagle regalia for Andresen, said he has gotten up to 170 pledges of pins. Scouts for Equality said last week that some 300 Eagle Scouts had returned their regalia to the Boy Scouts in protest since mid-July.

But many other Eagle Scouts have said they agreed with the policy.

Brian Groenig, 36, of Lake Stevens, Wash., said he backs the BSA’s decision.

“This is an organization that has set ‘their own’ standards and set ‘their own’ values. All those (who) want to join are only asked that they live by those standards and values.We’re not forcing it upon anyone … but it is a private organization that can choose what they will and will not accept,” Groenig, a charter organization representative with his troop, told NBC News in an email. “I find comfort in knowing there are organization that won’t bend and conform to the ‘social norm’ just because of peer pressure and political positioning.”

A spokesman for the Boy Scouts of America, Deron Smith, said 50,000 Scouts earn the Eagle rank every year. He said in August that a “few” had returned their medals, badges or certificates since the membership policy announcement. On Tuesday, he said he didn’t have an update on numbers of regalia returned, but noted such items were either kept at the national office or stored in the National Scouting Museum.

Andresen said he is looking forward to returning to high school and being out of the spotlight, though he knows this experience has changed the course of his life. He initially thought he would go into the family business after college, but now has some new ideas.

“What if I could help people when I’m older and share my experiences?” he asked. “It's really just making me thing about all of that. … I don’t have a good idea of what I’m going to do going forward, but I definitely think this is going to be a part of it.”

If you are a current or former member of the Boy Scouts and would like to share your thoughts on the membership policy, you can email the reporter at miranda.leitsinger@msnbc.com.

 

 

 

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Comment author avataryay politics!Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

So, when do we change the status of 'boy scouts' from community organization to hate group?

way to go boy scouts! (please note...sarcasm)

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#1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:38 PM EDT

hate group is an organized group or movement that advocates and practices hatred, hostility, or violence towards members of a race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation or other designated sector of society (from the ever consistent wikipedia)

  • 18 votes
#1.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:42 PM EDT
Comment author avatarparagusExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Rules are rules if you dont like it dont join..It funny he had to get a "Pin" hand me down from another faggot master...

  • 44 votes
#1.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:09 PM EDT

While I don't agree with their position, the Boy Scouts are a private group and can operate as they wish. If they want to be discriminatory, it's up to the parents to find other activities for their kids. Perhaps if no one wanted to become a Scout, if it were interpreted as akin to joining the Nazi Youth, then the organization would change.

Until then, it's entitled to exclude gays if it thinks they are against what the organization stands for, even if the rest of us think that's backward and hateful.

  • 42 votes
#1.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:10 PM EDT
Comment author avatarskrekkExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Between the BSA's hatred for gays and atheists and their historic policies of racial segregation, the BSA has never been an ethical leader - they've always followed the rest of society by at least several decades.

  • 33 votes
#1.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:15 PM EDT

Look, everyone from his scoutmaster on down knew Ryan is gay. Why did they not kick him out before he did all the work to earn his Eagle status. THAT seems to go against everything the scouts means. Give him his full recognition he deserves.

  • 45 votes
#1.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:17 PM EDT
Comment author avatarparagusExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Rednawt3

A eye for a eye..Lye about being gay then the gay needs to be string along with a carrot and then take it away...:P Karma is a B1tch...

  • 8 votes
#1.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:20 PM EDT
Comment author avatarRandyEKExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Just another story about a pervert looking to legislate the absolution of their sins. If these miscreants truly believed their depravity was acceptable they would not be demanding groups opposed to their proclivity reverse course and declare it to be moral by the laws of nature and natures God.

Go sell crazy somewhere else...

  • 35 votes
#1.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:23 PM EDT

I am getting tired of seeing articles about this. It is obvious that NBC has an agenda against the Boy Scouts. From earlier articles it sounded like the scoutmaster was willing to look the other way on this kid being gay since it says that he knew. Then this kid apparently decided he was going to make his being gay an issue by openly "coming out." The kid did this knowing full well what the BSA policy was towards gays. I do not know if it was the kid's idea to come out or if his parents influenced this decision. In any case, by coming out he intentionally backed the scoutmaster into a corner. The scoutmaster was left with the choice of either violating BSA policy and risking his own position as scoutmaster or refusing to sign off on the kid's award. I get the feeling that the kid coming out at this time was a very deliberate political move that was designed to try and make the BSA look bad by denying the award he had completed all of the requirements for. The timing of his coming out is just too convenient to think it was anything else. There is not much time between completing the requirements and getting the award, so his coming out at this particular time seems very contrived and deliberate. It may have even been a set up to try and justify a suit against BSA, even though the Supreme Court ruling gives them virtually no chance of winning. Like it or not, the BSA is a private organization and is entitled to their policies. This kid in now not going to get the award he worked so hard for because it appears he tried to make a political statement and it cost him. I think that was extremely deliberate and I refuse to feel sorry for this kid. He appears to have deliberately set out to challenge the BSAs rules, possibly with the urging of his parents, and he lost. He has no one to blame for that but himself. Like it or not, he knew the policies and now has to live with the results of his actions.

  • 55 votes
#1.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:23 PM EDT

It has nothing to do with hate.

  • 37 votes
#1.9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:24 PM EDT
Comment author avatarRandyEKExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

NBC is heading towards BK under new ownership; they have allowed themselves to be taken over by a corrupt special interest group from within -only ones being hired in Hollywood now are perverts- looking to obtain public approval through a coordinated disinformation campaign.

And so it goes with all sociopaths as they seek to create willing victims.

  • 16 votes
#1.10 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:33 PM EDT

Paragus,

Andresen came out in July to his fellow Scouts in a letter that was focused on bullying in the troop. But he said his Scoutmaster knew before then that he was gay and had encouraged him to stick with the troop when he had thought about not pursuing his Eagle Scout rank.

The scoutmaster, who refuses to comment, encouraged Ryan. So, now scoutmasters are not trustworthy.

JS, you think this is the only outlet reporting on this? Why do you bother reading nbcnews.com?

  • 18 votes
#1.11 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:35 PM EDT
Comment author avatarDan-2358143Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Yes, the BSA are a private organization, and yes they have the right to accept and/or bestow honors upon only those whom they wish.

However, just because you have a right to do something doesn't mean it's a good idea.

The BSA total membership is dropping every year, and the organization is becoming less and less relevant. Sooner or later they will have to conform to what society wants and expects, otherwise they will cease to exist. At this point, their leadership is simply delaying the inevitable.

  • 22 votes
#1.12 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:38 PM EDT

There's a comment further on down the thread where the writer is eagerly anticipating the death of all who oppose the integration of homosexuals everywhere.

So your tolerance is wishing everyone who has a different perspective DEAD....?

Let's look at this:

On one side one group does not approve of the other or want to associate with them.

On the other side we have people wishing for as early a death as possible for millions of people.... in a TOTAL VACUUM of any comments checking the Nazi-like ideals emanating from within their ranks.....

This is yet another example of why we say liberalism has dissolved and was replaced by PSEUDO-LIBERALISM

It's simply fascinating.

  • 8 votes
#1.13 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:40 PM EDT

If someone doesn't agree with you the modern thing to do is cry "hater", "bigot", or "racist"...you know...the argument enders.

Can't be on a ball team if you can't play ball....haters!

Can't be in a yacht club without a boat.....haters!

Can't be in a literary group if you can't read....haters!

Can't be a doctor without a license.......haters!

See the pattern? Certain groups have rules. Follow the rules or start your own exclusive group....hater!!

  • 32 votes
#1.14 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:40 PM EDT

This really does upset me. This policy is misguided and wrong already on the adult level but actually seeing applied to a youth member is even more upsetting. Its one thing with the adults but really sad when you have to bring the sexual orientation (something that has no bearing or influence, nor should it, on the typical scouting activities) in the equation and deny this young man his Eagle Rank. This was nothing more than a dick move on this scoutmaster's part. I do support the scout's and glad that I was one, but at the same do disagree with the policy and am embarassed by it and the issues it has caused. The fact is the scout's do alot of good and teach alot young boys things that are beneficial later in life. Also the typical SOP is for the local troops to be a little autonomous if you will and usually a little more removed from what goes on at the national level. Usually there are only issues once someone complains or brings something up. So its very surprising to see this happen to a youth. Again while I support the scout's but disagree with this issue I truly hope that at some they can finally resolve this issue and stop the nonsense (it will happen at some point just a matter of when will they change the policy).

Now I will add to that in saying that there is a level of respect that I have for a private organization doing what it wants which the scouts are but one cannot overlook that they do get some public endorsement from time to time so there are some considerations there.

As for the hate group comments those upset me as much as this stupid rule, actually probably a little more. Hate group is a stretch in deed. And yes the definition doesn't even touch anything the scouts are doing with this rule. No hatred, hostility, or violence is practiced at scouting fuction towards gays or others. Its past if anything was worse (not defending it) but was also just part of the times and a bigger societal issue that was at hand. At any rate all I'm saying is hate group is not the correct term and I see it used more by those that don't seem to really understand scouts at all but are just running with the mainstream media's view on the subject. Stupid, ignorant, and wrong, but hate group, no.

Here's to hoping the Scouts will see their error and change this policy but to do so on their own terms as much as possible and not be forced by outside groups.

It is time

  • 7 votes
#1.16 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:43 PM EDT

Denied because he lied, deceived, and was untruthful. What's next, never taking rights away from convicts? If a group had set standards, do we force them to change to accommodate? If so, I want to be a Mensa member, and be able to join any group without restrictions. No group public or private may deny membership in their group, because that is contrary to the ideals of America.

  • 18 votes
#1.17 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:46 PM EDT

My only argument is that most boys start scouts well before they even know what sexual orientation even is.

Bob, from the article,

But he said his Scoutmaster knew before then that he was gay and had encouraged him to stick with the troop when he had thought about not pursuing his Eagle Scout rank.

  • 19 votes
#1.18 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:49 PM EDT

You know this does get a little tiresome, don't think for one minute that this was not planned from the beginning...The boy scouts have never denied that they don't want gay scout leaders or gay scouts.. this a not a big surprise and just because they don't want gays, DOESN'T make them a hate group..

this just others trying to push THERE agenda on others and try and shame them into backing down...If you watch commercials or movies its all about being gay and its OK.. what about the majority who doesn't think its ok, speak up and be branded a racist or keep quiet and the others thinks it ok...

I like to watch MSNBC crazy crew and all they say is ALL americans think the way they think and are completely surprised when the voters vote the other way and they start having temper tantrums...its the liberal abbot and costello all the time...

  • 15 votes
#1.19 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:53 PM EDT
Comment author avatarTheOverlordExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

The Boy Scouts is an organization that teaches children how to hate and use religion as a justification. It is not only a hate group but also hypocritical since it covers-up pedophilia!

I'm an atheist and would not let my children join the organization even if they would accept my boys because it's not the kind of education I want my kids anywhere near.

Boy Scouts are quickly becoming irrelevant and known for hate, not helping boys grow into moral adults. It is never moral to hate other people just because they are different. Shame on the Boy Scouts.

  • 19 votes
#1.20 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:54 PM EDT

And this AGAIN why none of my kids are or were in scouts.

  • 10 votes
#1.21 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:03 PM EDT

Overlord: I've never heard of an atheist doing anything for anyone. I wouldn't be proud of that. There is no proof atheism even exists, but in the mind.

Annon: That would have been a mistake on the part of the scout master. Example; bank adds 2 zero's to your account, teller says go ahead and spend it. Police and Bank President charge you with theft for taking money. He knew it was wrong and took the money.

  • 5 votes
#1.22 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:08 PM EDT

There is no proof atheism even exists,

Huh? Of course it exists.

  • 16 votes
#1.23 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:10 PM EDT

The BSA continues to fight efforts of the judicial system to obtain the "pervert files" concerning adult molesters of children in the Boy Scouts, yet believes that refusing to award an earned Eagle Scout award is acceptable.

The folks that say "rules are rules -- deal with it" as a combination of support for the discriminatory policies of the BSA and an anti-gay statement are not my kind of Americans.

  • The BSA has rules
  • The KKK has rules
  • I have rules

My rule is that I support the policies of neither the BSA or the KKK and I am opposed to those people who do support them.

  • 13 votes
#1.24 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:13 PM EDT
Comment author avatarGetmadstaymadExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

The sooner we pass a law that forces homosexuals to register as sexual deviants the better.

  • 8 votes
#1.25 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:23 PM EDT

Barry: Atheist existence: What is your proof? What are you comparing it to? How do you prove non-believe? I will except any answer that does not rely on belief of something.

  • 2 votes
#1.26 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:26 PM EDT

The important thing to note here are the lies from BSA. They don't even have enough scouts in upper grades that 50,000 are getting Eagle Scout status each year. They might have a total of 50,000 scouts in high school level in the US--maybe.

Local Boy Scout organizations put down the names of boys who are not in troops to make it look like the qualify for United Way funds. Membership in BSA is way, way, way down. It is pretty well disintegrating right under them.

They also lied about this young man and claimed that he was being denied Eagle Scout rank because he denounced his duty to God, when he did no such thing.

While BSA can lie all it wants to--there is no law against a voluntary organization lying in the same way that there is no law against bigotry in a voluntary organization--they should not lie. It sets a bad example for the young men.

I think that the young man should let it go--I understand that he pursued the rank, spent his own money, and worked hard to fulfill the criteria that the BSA set out, and that others let him go on believing that if he completed the actions, he'd get Eagle Scout rank. Again, this was a lie. If he sues, it will not be because he didn't get Eagle Scout--it will be because they all knew perfectly well that he was gay and didn't kick him out before he spent all that time and all that money making the local troop look good. They led him on because, I wouldn't be surprised, there probably weren't many other boys in the troop that went the distance.

This affects his ability to list the organization on his resume, and to list his accomplishments on his resume. At the very least, an agreement should be reached stating that he did complete all requirements, even if they did not grant the rank in the end. This was a flat-out scam on the part of the scout master.

It is old to see people blaming the gay scouts, who got in long before they knew that they were gay, and making excuses for BSA--which is just as complicit in child abuse as the Catholic Church and just as big a scam as any Medicare fraudster. The young men are not to blame, but the paid employees of BSA are very much to blame. This is all very sad.

  • 8 votes
#1.27 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:27 PM EDT

bob: Have you any idea how ludicrous your question sounds? You want proof of non-belief? Seriously?

You seem to be under the impression that belief is a given, that everyone starts out a believer and something happens to make them an atheist.

An atheist's position would be everyone starts out knowing nothing, but gets brainwashed into believing in a god at a very early age.

You should be asking, "Why do I believe in a god? What proof do I have?" not "Why don't you believe in one?"

  • 10 votes
#1.28 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:35 PM EDT

Most people who don't believe in spiritual beings or anything that cannot be explained rationally are skeptics mostly, not atheists. The definition of atheist is unambiguous at best.

AG99: I believe I am hungry? Thats how it starts, and no one taught you. Then it begins to domino from there all by its self-preservation. I would call that enlightenment, wouldn't you?

  • 2 votes
#1.29 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:40 PM EDT

“This is an organization that has set ‘their own’ standards and set ‘their own’ values. All those (who) want to join are only asked that they live by those standards and values.We’re not forcing it upon anyone … but it is a private organization that can choose what they will and will not accept,”

The Hitler Youth and the SS probably felt the same.

  • 8 votes
#1.30 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:42 PM EDT

bob-2476682 had this to say:

Barry: What is your proof? What are you comparing it to? How do you prove non-believe? I will except any answer that does not rely on belief of something.

This is a little kind of a logical fallacy called equivocation. You are requiring people to prove that atheist beliefs are provable. You want proof of the absence of God. No one has claimed that. The claim was that atheism--which is a belief and not a science--exists.

One can easily prove that there are atheists and that there is such a thing as atheism--it is not an absence, it is a presence. The first is a presence of a person who does not believe in a God figure. If you have never met such people, I'll introduce you to one--I assure you that they exist every bit as much as you do. The second is the presence of a belief system--the belief system can exist whether or not is is accurate. Some people believe that man never set foot on the moon--skeptics of this sort exist, and the moon-landing hoax movement made of skeptics of this sort exists, whether or not the skeptics are right (and, no, I don't think that they are right).

There are, by the way, quite a few religions that don't think that there are gods or that there is "a" God. Confucianism is a practice--some call it a religion, but others insist it is not because it is atheistic. Buddists sort of do but sort of don't believe in gods--but they certainly don't believe in "a" God. Taoism is a religion that does not posit a god (though it does posit some immortal spirits, these spirits are not worshipped). Some Unitarians are also atheists. And, yes, all of these belief systems exist.

A belief does not have to be true or prove itself in order to exist. A belief is a belief, and believers are believers. Atheism is not really a religion, but a view about whether or not there is a "god." It exists as a belief whether or not it can "prove" that there is no God just as Protestantism exists whether or not they can prove that there is a "God."

Anyone who can't understand that belief systems are belief systems, and that they don't rely on proof, really needs to go back to school. A belief is a thought or feeling; a fact is a corporeal thing. There are atheists. Unless you want to go all existential on us--in which case, you'd have a lot of fun proving to me that you exist--atheism exists.

Now, if you want to go all Being and Nothingness on us, you go right ahead. You can't, in that case, prove anything yourself either.

  • 8 votes
#1.31 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:44 PM EDT

"The BSA accepts federal support. Public money should NOT be given to private, discriminatory organizations. ""

I TOTALLY AGREE. SEEING THAT HOMOSEXUALS ARE DISCRIMINATORY AGAINST CHRISTIANS AND THEIR BELIEFS, THEN HOMOSEXUAL ORGANIZATIONS SHOULD LOSE ALL THEIR GOVERNMENT FUNDING. PERIOD.

  • 13 votes
#1.32 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:47 PM EDT

Bagdadjoe: "Can't be on a ball team if you can't play ball....haters!

Can't be in a yacht club without a boat.....haters!

Can't be in a literary group if you can't read....haters!

Can't be a doctor without a license.......haters!"

You totally miss the point. In this case, he could play ball, he can read, he has the requirements for the license; The only thing missing is that even with meeting all those requirements, he is denied simply because of who god made him and the group who runs the program is too afraid that which they cannot understand. It's just basic ignorance really; because if they were so "worried" about the content of his character he would have never been allowed to advance in the program and be around other "children".

  • 10 votes
#1.33 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:47 PM EDT

Hahahaha! Getmadstaymad, what on earth are you talking about? What government funding would that be? If there was federal money going to any Gay rights group, every GOP, TP Republican in Congress would be standing in their church pulpits preaching the movement to "stop this abomination" since they seem to think the country belongs to them and their beliefs alone. They are left to rally to change science and deny evolution, and force able rape science.

  • 9 votes
#1.34 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:52 PM EDT

Most of the hate and intolerance in these messages is coming from those that feel it necessary to force their beliefs on others. Joining the Boy Scouts is optional and although I was never a Boy Scout, I'm pretty sure the requirements and restrictions are very well publicized. Where will the liberals go next once they've run out of gay's to defend and foist upon those of us that are simply repulsed by their lifestyle. You know how this goes. Once it is been made illegal for private organizations to prevent gays from being members, the ACLU will say pedophiles have rights too and they should be allowed to be Scout Masters.

I'm sure this young man is upstanding and respectful, or he would never have gotten to where he is in the Scouts now. Unfortunately, he took it upon himself to go against the rules. That alone should be the reason he is denied Eagle Scout.

  • 8 votes
#1.35 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:59 PM EDT
Comment author avatarrationallyExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

that and hes a fag

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#1.36 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:09 PM EDT

What f*cking change are we talking here? Sodom and Gomorah type change in boy scouts? Seriously? F*cking kiddin right? This is going too far...

I am not sure parents would want their boys sent to some place where they could get poked in the middle of nowhere because it is politically correct...there's just too many perverts out there, like that Sandusky sumbitch

It will be a disgrace to water-down this once great institution

This I highly disagree with...I dont know who wouldnt, not even the deviants...

Please dont take our children through this b*llsh!t

  • 8 votes
#1.37 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:18 PM EDT

Bean home: Touche! I am impressed with the bravado and insight you have brought forth into the light. If you had searched or had journeyed back through the posts you might have noticed I said in your mind. Many points you have made, but the truth is the truth whether you believe it or not.

    #1.38 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:19 PM EDT

    Lanikai Ron

    "It's against the rules" is a very vacant defense of almost anything. Let's instead look at the rules to see if they are fair. Let's decide whether the rules are discriminatory. Let's see what you think about the "rules" when they deny rights and/or equality to Lanikai Ron. Let's be sure we all abide with the "rules" no matter how out-dated or unfair as long as it is someone else we are depriving of the same treatment we receive ourselves.

    rationally

    You do not belong in a conversation with anyone. Please go away.

    Doc Holiday

    Lighten up. This Boy Scout was accused of no sexual act whatsoever. None. He was denied his award because he declared himself to be gay. No act. No "Sodom and Gomorah" moment except in your own sick head. Meanwhile, the Boy Scouts of America fights to keep their "pervert files" about the adult pedophiles in its ranks from the authorities. Keep defending the undependable, Doc. It is your right to demonstrate your character publicly however you choose.

    • 8 votes
    #1.39 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:23 PM EDT

    Lanikai Ron

    Much as you would like the tingly feeling, no one is asking you to embrace anyone or any idea. All you are being asked to do is to "embrace" the American spirit of tolerance ... to stop blocking the freedoms of other people whose actions do not concern you or affect you in any way.

    GetMadStayMad

    I TOTALLY AGREE. SEEING THAT HOMOSEXUALS ARE DISCRIMINATORY AGAINST CHRISTIANS AND THEIR BELIEFS, THEN HOMOSEXUAL ORGANIZATIONS SHOULD LOSE ALL THEIR GOVERNMENT FUNDING. PERIOD.

    That statement is irrational and your use of bold print and capital letters only made it easier to notice how silly your statement is. You failed to make your case that homosexual organizations are discriminatory, failing to even put forth an example of a "homosexual organization". This article, in case you failed to notice, is about the BSA, an organization which should be inclusive, not exclusively heterosexual or homosexual .... more like an "American" organization.

    • 7 votes
    #1.40 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:31 PM EDT

    Overlord -- your statements are just the thing the BSA is fighting against. Other people who say everyone has rights but only if everyone else agrees. You do not want your kids in BSA because that is not your moral standard, that is fine, but I do not hear the BSA coming to your house attempting to change how or where you do things. You on the other hand are livid with what or how they do things. No organization is perfect contrary to all the blood sucking lawyers and not every opinion is an attack on the special people who feel they have the right to do whatever they want and others can not. Think before you all jump up and down about organizations or people who want different things than you. The label of hate has become a buzzword for every dang so called slighted spoiled rotten people who think they have the right to tell everyone what they have to do.

    The only immoral action going on here is the immoral attacks on a good organization who never wanted nor requested your help.

    • 3 votes
    #1.41 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:31 PM EDT

    "but the truth is the truth whether you believe it or not."

    Of course, that means that what YOU believe is the truth may not be so either.

    • 4 votes
    #1.42 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:31 PM EDT

    jock59801

    Finding truth is a matter of personal journey, however truth for the masses or the group is found in morality. Individual morality only exists as truth in the group concept. Individual truth may or may not be true as it is only defined by the individual. Truth in this case is drawn by the BSA for the BSA and the group who wants to redefine the truth for the BSA has agreed that theirs is the only truth. That is not freedom or liberty especially individual liberty it is truth given and judged by the outside group. Refusal to accept that truth of another does not change what is true to the BSA because that is what they accept as true. So in that sense it is true.

      #1.43 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:51 PM EDT

      I TOTALLY AGREE. SEEING THAT HOMOSEXUALS ARE DISCRIMINATORY AGAINST CHRISTIANS AND THEIR BELIEFS, THEN HOMOSEXUAL ORGANIZATIONS SHOULD LOSE ALL THEIR GOVERNMENT FUNDING. PERIOD.

      You failed to make your case that homosexual organizations are discriminatory, failing to even put forth an example of a "homosexual organization".

      DON92754: I think this person meant to say is that most christians are unwilling to go into a homosexual organization and fight for their rights there. The reason is that most of the ideology is completely incompatible with being a christian. In other words, we don't wish to be like them.

      The difference here is that gays who join the BSA, do wish to become like the christians in the groups, all without changing their way of thinking.

      In other words, GAYS HAVE TO LIE to a certain extent in order to be accepted up to a certain point in the organization. Since christians are taught to be truthful from the start, the deceptiveness is not something we can tolerate just so we can infilitrate a homosexual group.

      This gay scout did just that....LIED.

      • 4 votes
      #1.44 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:12 PM EDT

      No, two groups believe two different things and they are exercising their God-given rights to argue about it.

      • 3 votes
      #1.45 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:14 PM EDT

      Boy Scouts will soon be gone.

      Given all the information coming out regarding decades of child molestation cover-ups, it is disgusting that anyone would support organization.

      But once again, Christians are there to support it. I am starting to see a trend here . . . maybe the church can absorb them. They would fit right in.

      • 4 votes
      #1.46 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:25 PM EDT

      bob: You're hungry? I don't get it. Did you mean spiritual hunger leading to a belief in God?

      "Then it begins to domino from there all by its self-preservation. I would call that enlightenment, wouldn't you?"

      No, I would call it confusing. What are you talking about?

      • 4 votes
      #1.47 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:32 PM EDT

      Given all the information coming out regarding decades of child molestation cover-ups, it is disgusting that anyone would support organization.

      But once again, Christians are there to support it. I am starting to see a trend here . . . maybe the church can absorb them. They would fit right in.

      INDIE071: You think christians are the only ones who support child molestation?( sarcastic) Maybe you should get your head out of the sand...... Have you ever heard of Adam Flanders? Another Gay Activist?

      “Flanders was subsequently convicted of sexually molesting a 14-year-old boy he met at the “gay youth” organization. He spent time in jail, and is currently a registered sex offender in Maine.”

      Maybe it's because it isn't on MSNBC daily that you think it doesn't happen?

      • 2 votes
      #1.48 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:34 PM EDT

      This is an organization that has stood very strong against changing. It has been challenged in court repeatedly over the past two decades and for the most part has won every time. It continues to be very clear on the athiest issue and the LGBT issue.

      It is not going to change this position until or unless the churches in America that support it, fund it, maintain it, sponsor it, and provide the majority of the meeting spaces and resources change their positions on homosexuality. How likely is that to happen?

      One thing that has happened through the many law suits against the BSA, is that they had to revoke or dismiss charters they had at one point with agencies or districts that were affiliated in any way with governments. Mostly at the local levels. School districts, city/county rec departments, etc. No government funds are supposed to go to scouting. The organization was more willing to revoke these chartered relationships than change their position.

      Large corporate donors have stopped giving money. Prominent citizens (and some former scouts) have resigned as leadership and denounced them. And still BSA isn't going to change.

      When 70% of your membership, volunteers, leaders, and scout troops are affiliates of the Catholics, Mormons, Methodists, Presbyterians, Baptists, and other religious organizations who have zero interest in changing...then the BSA isn't going to change. That is it.

      The isolated individual situations like this one this boy is dealing with, just aren't going to matter to the organization. As of 2010, BSA membership was down over the past decade, but they still had nearly 2.7 million youth registered at all levels of scouting. That is a lot. And they still collected through dues, fees, retail sales, and private/religious donations more than a half a billion dollars.

      While the organization continues to have the full support of these churches and is able to raise those kinds of funds, their leadership just simply won't care about a little bad publicity. They aren't going to change a thing for a very long time. If they did, then the Mormon church and the Catholic church (2 of the largest sponsors)would be out faster than you could say "donation" and they'd form their own variation on scouting. Most of the rest of the churches would withdraw within a few years as well. If that happened...BSA would probably cease to exist within a decade.

      • 2 votes
      #1.49 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:56 PM EDT

      Unhappy

      First you have the single, largest, most powerful religious organization on the planet . . . the Catholic church . . . drowning in child molestation charges and cover-ups going back decades, if not centuries.

      Then, you have a strong Christian organization, spanning the entire country . . . Boy Scouts of America . . . coming under investigation for decades of child molestation.

      Two HUGE Christian organizations behind numerous child molestation cases, spanning hundreds, if not thousands, of perpetrators. Mountains of evidence, Christian leaders covering it up, Christian leaders perpetrating these actions . . . and you bring up one single person.

      One single person versus two of the largest Christian organizations protecting HUNDREDS of child molesters. So yes, I am saying that people like YOU support it. These are YOUR organizations doing this, and YOU defend them. That's all I need to know about YOU and what kind of person YOU are.

      • 4 votes
      #1.50 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:09 PM EDT

      Went and dug out all of my boy scout badges and gear and threw it all in the trash this week.

      Don't want to be associated in any way with the BSA hate group.

      .

      • 5 votes
      #1.51 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:14 PM EDT

      Agree with comments that ever since Comcast bought NBC I see more and more of these stories on NBCnews.com than any other news website. Like some of the posters makes me wonder if Comcast is anti-Christian. Here is why Christians won't support homosexual marriage:

      Christianity condemns homosexual acts based on:

      Gen 2: 23-24 The LORD God then built the rib that he had taken from the man into a woman. When he brought her to the man, the man said: “This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; This one shall be called ‘woman,’ for out of man this one has been taken.” That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body
      Rom 1: 26, 27 Therefore, God handed them over to degrading passions. Their females exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the males likewise gave up natural relations with females and burned with lust for one another. Males did shameful things with males and thus received in their own persons the due penalty for their perversity.
      I Cor. 6:9-10 Do you not know that the unjust will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators nor idolaters nor adulterers nor boy prostitutes* nor sodomites nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor robbers will inherit the kingdom of God.
      Lev. 20: 13 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, they have committed an abomination; the two of them shall be put to death; their bloodguilt is upon them.
      I Tim. 1:8-11 We know that the law is good, provided that one uses it as law, with the understanding that law is meant not for a righteous person but for the lawless and unruly, the godless and sinful, the unholy and profane, those who kill their fathers or mothers, murderers, the unchaste, sodomites, kidnapers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is opposed to sound teaching, according to the glorious gospel of the blessed God, with which I have been entrusted.
      Catholic Catechism paragraph 2357 Homosexuality refers to relations between men or between women who experience an exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same sex. It has taken a great variety of forms through the centuries and in different cultures. Its psychological genesis remains largely unexplained. Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity, tradition has always declared that “homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.” They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.
      The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.Homosexual persons are called to chastity. By the virtues of self-mastery that teach them inner freedom, at times by the support of disinterested friendship, by prayer and sacramental grace, they can and should gradually and resolutely approach Christian perfection.

        #1.52 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:27 PM EDT

        First you have the single, largest, most powerful religious organization on the planet . . . the Catholic church . . . drowning in child molestation charges and cover-ups going back decades, if not centuries.

        Then, you have a strong Christian organization, spanning the entire country . . . Boy Scouts of America . . . coming under investigation for decades of child molestation.

        Two HUGE Christian organizations behind numerous child molestation cases, spanning hundreds, if not thousands, of perpetrators. Mountains of evidence, Christian leaders covering it up, Christian leaders perpetrating these actions . . . and you bring up one single person.

        Indie071: Have you never heard of NAMBLA? How about Butterfly Kisses?

        Are you saying that these groups also support child molestation or does your bigotry only go towards christians? Yes, people like you also like to defend homosexuals. We judge these groups and think why haven't the gay community done something about it? Perhaps it is because it is not kept in the public eye according to the media?

        Your hypocrisy shows!

        • 2 votes
        #1.53 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:42 PM EDT

        yay politics!

        hate group is an organized group or movement that advocates and practices hatred, hostility, or violence towards members of a race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation or other designated sector of society (from the ever consistent wikipedia)

        What you and like so many other people, want to classify a private group and its moral standard , to that of hate because of an individual acting out against the standard already set and in place.

        When a bartender or convienance store clerk turns away a person for buying alcohol its because of the person not meeting the criteria of being 21. When people try for the police, or military and they are turned down its because they didnt fit the physical, or mental standard already set in place. Would you consider this hatred ?

        The BSA was long in place before this new age of political correctness and double standard society. You all demand that people accept your views and in the same time you violate the views of the BSA, this is indeed a double standard. The bsa having a policy in place of not allowing gays to have be part of their group has nothing to do with hatred what so ever. Its about not meeting a standard set in place, and a standard of morality that is before God.

        The BSA has every right, and is protected by our first ammendment, and the supreme Court. I dont even believe in Hate groups, I also think this is the dumbest thing we as a society have come up with. Hate groups, its nothing but another word you all misuse at anything that isnt in agreeance with you.

        • 3 votes
        #1.54 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:44 PM EDT

        Unhappy-1583758 and Shalom2U you seem to be missing the point that YOUR version of Christianity is precisely that- YOURS. I am confident that I could cherry-pick passages out of the Bible to support buying a Ford over a Chevy, but that would have ZERO relevance to real life. you are each buying into a particular brand of Christianity that suits your own personal tastes and views, and I have little doubt that when necessary you break the rules set by your brand-er, church- to suit your own needs. followed of course by the usual repentance and promises to do better. the reality is that how you have been told to read the Bible by your particular church is only 'truth' and 'fact' in your own small minds.

        furthermore, the laughable concept that 'homosexuals deny christians' is far from the truth. do you ever venture out of your little cocoon? there are multiple Christian churches that welcome gays. multiple. and guess what- they can pick out more than enough Bible verses to prove their rightness in doing so to suit their members. the notion that homosexuals are by definition NEVER Christian is insupportable. being gay is not some club, with a rule book that states- NO CHRISTIANS. please. grow up. the clubs making rules to exclude others here are the Boy Scouts and certain Christian sects, not gays.

        maybe your nice little church should make a rule kicking you out if your hair ever turns gray. or you gain weight. or you lose a limb. because that makes as much sense as accepting enrollment of children who don't yet know what their sexuality will be, then kicking out certain of them right in the homestretch because of who it turns out they were going to become. it is sickening that those who claim to follow a man who preached nothing but love, tolerance, and acceptance are in reality the world's biggest purveyors of hatred, intolerance, and selfishness. there is nothing Christlike about most 'Christians'

        • 2 votes
        #1.55 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:04 PM EDT

        jock:: Wish I had said that.

        • 1 vote
        #1.56 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:06 PM EDT

        i only hope when my son...joins the scouts...the new badge ... for best blow job in a pup tent...goes to his girl friend...

          #1.57 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:34 PM EDT

          1.) I keep seeing people on here saying that the scout lied. How did he lie? He had been in the scouts since he was a small child and he even told his scoutmaster about his sexuality when he realized he was gay. Where is the lying?

          2.) I'm getting very tired of people claiming that GLBT individuals are looking for "special rights." Enjoying the exact same privileges and rights as everyone else is not "special" rights. You only seem to perceive it as "special" because you appear to think that by definition GLBT people should be treated as less.

          3.) I'm also tired of the claim that GLBT individuals are forcing their beliefs on others. Again, receiving the same rights and privileges as everyone else is not forcing beliefs on anyone. It's demanding that one be treated like an equal. And again, if you have a problem with that it suggests that you think GLBT individuals should be treated as "less." If you don't see a problem with that, regardless of your views of homosexuality, I can't help you. No human being should be treated as "less."

          4.) Directly in response to Con-science:
          Please don't pretend that this negative behavior is only the province of one side. I consistently see comments on these articles that say things like "I hope all you gays die of AIDS" or "I hope you fags get shot." Wishes of harm or death upon others is wrong, no matter what side of the debate you are on.

          • 4 votes
          #1.58 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:47 PM EDT

          Allie22 post #1.56:

          furthermore, the laughable concept that 'homosexuals deny christians' is far from the truth. do you ever venture out of your little cocoon?

          Christians believe the Bible is the Divinely inspired word of God authored by human beings. The Bible verses I cited are clear: God believes homosexual acts are immoral. At best, gay Christians are misguided. G. K. Chesterton said, "The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting; it has been found difficult and left untried”. Homosexuals, like heterosexuals, have a very difficult time controlling their sexual urges. They don't want the guilt or stigma for being openly immoral. So they to convince the world that homosexual acts are moral and not contrary to God's laws even though they have no moral authority to make such a statement. They know the Catholic Church is the institution that can best lay claim to what human actions God says are immoral (and moral) so they try to discredit the Catholic Church at every opportunity. They do the same with Evangelicals who disagree with their view of morality. This will ultimately fail in the long run. Read below:

          Read MT 16: 13 - 20. If God is good, wouldn’t He make sure that humans can be confident that they can know what human actions He says are morally right and what human actions He says are morally wrong? Jesus founded the Catholic Church by appointing Peter as Her head. Jesus also sent the Holy Spirit to protect Her from teaching error. Jesus told Peter whatever you hold bound on earth shall be bound in heaven and whatever you hold loose on earth shall be held loose in heaven. When the Church exercises her Magisterial Teaching Authority through official Church documents on Faith and Morals humans can be confident that these are God’s pronouncements about what human actions are morally right and what human actions are morally wrong. If you disagree, where does your moral authority come from? Also, as proof, it was also predicted about 2,000 years ago that the Catholic Church would survive until Jesus Second Coming. What other hierarchal human institution has survived that long—and predicted it would be so? Given these two facts, what are the odds that the Catholic Church surviving as it has is just a “coincidence” or the reason it survived is because one set of humans is more successful at “pulling the wool” over the rest of humanity?

          The Bible came from the Catholic Church. It really becomes a question of authority. Catholics believe that the Church is the authority on Faith and Morals. (Read 1 Timothy 3:15.)

          But if I should be delayed, you should know how to behave in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of truth.

          The Catholic church, and not the Bible is the foundation of Truth.

            #1.59 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:52 PM EDT

            Ryan give it up , America is NOT behind you and the scouts wont bend to your LIBERAL bully tactics !!!! Start the GAY SCOUTS OF AMERICA and see how many join you loser !!!

            • 5 votes
            #1.60 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:17 PM EDT

            Shalom2U,

            Do you rail against Christians who are not Catholic as sinners who are going to hell? After all, other denominations of Christianity have changed sacrements, have changed their churches, do not follow the Catholic church or the Pope. So they are in direct violation of the Bible. Do you argue for them to be barred from organizations, to stay away from your children because they have perverted the word of God?

            Do you condemn people who are divorced? Do you advocate for laws that say divorced individuals should not be allowed to re-marry? How about those who have sex before marriage? Do you argue for them to be denied certain rights? To not be allowed to teach children?

            Because if you don't, then it suggests you only have a problem with gays. And if that's the case, does it not suggest that this has absolutely nothing to do with God and Bible but really with just fear and hatred of a certain group of people. Sad that people use God and the Bible as an excuse to justify their discrimination and prejudice. But, again -- if there is God, those are the people who will be answering for their sins. Because if there's anything the Bible tells us that God really doesn't like, it's people misusing his name for acts of evil.

            • 2 votes
            #1.61 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:20 PM EDT

            Love how the homo's claim b/c you support an organization that had a few bad apples(the child molesters), basically saying the whole organization is bad.

            Well, i can run that same scheme back at the homos. What about when you freaks were having AID parties ? Same concept. Sick deviants spreading a fatal disease.

            • 1 vote
            #1.62 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:22 PM EDT

            Siobhan27 post #1.61

            Do you rail against Christians who are not Catholic as sinners who are going to hell?

            No

            After all, other denominations of Christianity have changed sacrements, have changed their churches, do not follow the Catholic church or the Pope.

            I will argue with them when they say what God clearly says a human action is evil to be morally good.

            So they are in direct violation of the Bible.

            They are not forcing me to accept their beliefs by codifying their moral beliefs that I object to into a law. It is clear that for many, but not all, of the people who are against the BSA because they won't accept openly gay people, want them to be legally prohibited from doing so. When they force me to act against my religious belief via a law rest assured I will object strongly.

            Do you argue for them to be barred from organizations, to stay away from your children because they have perverted the word of God?

            You are the one who wants to bar the BSA because they won't allow openly gay people because it is against BSA's moral standards. I am arguing this because I think the any organization should not be FORCED by the government to act against their moral code if the moral code reflects standard Judeo-Christian values. Other Christian denominations have not done so.

            Do you condemn people who are divorced?

            No, but if a private organization didn't want to accept divorced people as members they should have that right. Why do you think differently?

            Do you advocate for laws that say divorced individuals should not be allowed to re-marry?

            No, but if but if a private organization didn't want to accept divorced people who re-married as members they should have that right. The Catholic Church requires an annulment (this si a gross simplificattion) for people who have been divorced and re-married without an annulment who want to enter the Church as a new member. Do you think the government should bar them from doing so?

            How about those who have sex before marriage?

            No, but if club was formed that accepted only Virgins so they can help support living a chaste life I don't think the government should bar them from doing so. Why do you think differently?

            Do you argue for them to be denied certain rights?

            I don't think the government has the right to force a private organization to accept people who are denied membership because they openly do something that is against traditional Judeo-Christian morality. Why do you think differently?

            To not be allowed to teach children?

            I think parents of Religious schools or private organizations should have the right to not hire teachers because they are openly living a lifestyle that is against the moral principals the parents want to teach their children. Why do you think differently?

            Because if you don't, then it suggests you only have a problem with gays.

            Nonsense. I think homosexual acts are gravely immoral. I have a problem with laws that FORCE me to accept people who are openly gay (especially when it comes to teaching my children) because the people in governmental power disagree with my traditional moral belief about homosexuality. Read the Catechism of the Catholic Church on homosexuality in an earlier post.

            And if that's the case, does it not suggest that this has absolutely nothing to do with God and Bible but really with just fear and hatred of a certain group of people.

            Completely asinine statement and disingenuous as well. You know darn well that it has everything to do with what God says is immoral and He has clearly said homosexual acts are immoral. If He hadn't said homosexual acts were immoral, I and the Boy Scouts would accept those living a homosexual lifestyle as members. It has NOTHING to do with fear and hatred of openly gay people. Openly deifying God's sense of right and wrong is sinful and could cost our salvation. Christians believe that Eternity is a long time. That is why we don't want to look like we accept that homosexual acts are morally good. We certainly don't want the government to force us to teach our children that.

            Sad that people use God and the Bible as an excuse to justify their discrimination and prejudice.

            Even sadder that people think they can openly defy God's laws on morality and then think they have the right to FORCE people to accept their defiance and think that there won't be consequences for doing so.

            again -- if there is God, those are the people who will be answering for their sins.

            We will all be answering for our sins--all those who have pre-marital or extra-marital sex outside the bonds of marriage between a man and a woman. The Catholic Church teaches no sin is greater than God's mercy. But in addition to asking God for forgiveness their must be true repentance and a firm purpose of amendment to sin no more.

            Because if there's anything the Bible tells us that God really doesn't like, it's people misusing his name for acts of evil.

            Amen.

              #1.63 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:07 PM EDT

              Sioban:

              1.) I keep seeing people on here saying that the scout lied. How did he lie? He had been in the scouts since he was a small child and he even told his scoutmaster about his sexuality when he realized he was gay. Where is the lying?

              I agree once he told his scoutmaster he knew he was gay, his scoutmaster should have brought it up for discussion. That was the fault of the Scoutmaster. However, after taking an oath every week, he should of realized the very first time that he could no longer keep that oath....In which case, he should have withdrawn from the organization. It really is no different than the woman who signed a pledge at church against homosexual marriage, but then was the CEO of diversity at Galladet University where she worked.

              2.) I'm getting very tired of people claiming that GLBT individuals are looking for "special rights." Enjoying the exact same privileges and rights as everyone else is not "special" rights. You only seem to perceive it as "special" because you appear to think that by definition GLBT people should be treated as less.

              I agree.... homosexuals have the same right as any other single person. There are no special rights. So why does the homosexual community think they have the right to push their beliefs into an organization that was started in the year 1908? This is why people think they have "special rights".

              3.) I'm also tired of the claim that GLBT individuals are forcing their beliefs on others. Again, receiving the same rights and privileges as everyone else is not forcing beliefs on anyone. It's demanding that one be treated like an equal. And again, if you have a problem with that it suggests that you think GLBT individuals should be treated as "less." If you don't see a problem with that, regardless of your views of homosexuality, I can't help you. No human being should be treated as "less."

              Explain that one again? Do you not remember Chik-Fil-A? How stupid do you think we are? The GLBT FORCED their beliefs on everyone even though they had nothing to gain from doing it...... This is where I think you've got your head in the sand.

              • 1 vote
              #1.64 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 8:15 AM EDT

              Just like most parents wouldn't want their daughters sleeping in a tent with a boy scout, I wouldn't want my son sleeping in a tent with a sodomite, yet somehow I don't hate boy scouts or sodomites.

              • 2 votes
              #1.65 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:34 AM EDT

              Ya know what? He got a $20,000.00 scholarship for college. So, y'all can be as nasty as you want about his being gay. He's going to be your boss soon. And, I guarantee, he won't forget how he was treated, and he'll see to it you know what it's like to be on the @!$%#ty end of that stick, especially since it will ensure his other employees can work without fear of harassment and discrimination.

              Have fun being at his mercy.

              • 2 votes
              #1.66 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:25 PM EDT

              So LJ...are you saying this wanna be(?) Eagle Scout who deserves this high esteem(?) is going to be a vindictive little SOB who will hate those who aren't queer? Actually I'm sure you're saying that it's ok to be, or act, any way you wish because the only standard is what you "feel"(?). Right? And this "gay boss" he won't have any standards in his workplace...will he? After all, anybody can be anything 'cause it's fair...right? Note the sarcasm throughout.

              Guess what...the NAACP wouldn't even let me apply for a scholarship, I get it, I ain't black (and yes I tried to apply). The Native American analogy probably would've turn me down also, I get it. Was it fair? Hell no, we were damn poor and needy also! But neither the Constitution nor the Bible promises life is going to be fair. You are what you are...stop trying to make everyone else accept you for what you're not. Just 'cause you call a pig a cow doesn't make it a horse!

              Get over yourselves people, and accept YOURSELF for who you are before you start trying to make everybody else accept you. Then know, regardless of who you are, some people are going to disagree with you, welcome to life! Live with it.

              • 1 vote
              #1.67 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:03 PM EDT

              Hey guess what? Im an atheist and I want anybody who is atheist to start complaining about not being able to join the Boy Scouts. I think that is fair why should we be discriminated against. I wont do that because I respect the rules of the boys scouts. Then I think all African americans should be able to join the KKK...

              • 1 vote
              #1.68 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:30 PM EDT
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              Comment author avatarThe Truth-2190315Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

              "I'm not targeting anyone. I love the boy scouts. I love the boys in my troop"....uh, that's what they are worried about......

              • 13 votes
              Reply#3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:45 PM EDT

              I'm guessing you're voting for Romney....

              • 8 votes
              #3.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:30 PM EDT

              Uncle Gar

              I'm guessing you're voting for Romney....

              I'm guessing someone has to tell you how many letters are in the name you want to vote for in order for you to pull the right lever.

              • 1 vote
              #3.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:12 PM EDT

              "Don't you know that homosexuality is determined BIOLOGICALLY"

              Just like alcoholism etc. Right??? We dont allow drunks to drive cars because they are a danger to society. Homos are the same thing.

              • 1 vote
              #3.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:54 PM EDT

              Perhaps you could try again at that logic trick you just failed at.

              • 1 vote
              #3.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:03 PM EDT

              We dont allow drunks to drive cars because they are a danger to society. Homos are the same thing.

              No, they are not. You are wrong. And that's putting it nicely.

              • 1 vote
              #3.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:50 PM EDT

              @yay politics!

              you do not appear to understand who/what the Constitution governs (the Government) - NOT every individual or organization in the country. If this kid was able to complete the requirements for Eagle Scout (not easy) and has others backing him up he can and should work toward this being a better organization.

              My guess is you have no clue what Boy Scouts is about and probably made fun of them until now, when it's convenient for you to speak out. It looks like there is more going on here than is being reported (the article fails to elaborate on the "Duty to God" issue, which is absolutely fundamental to the Boy Scouts - I believe it's still a part of their motto, taught when you're about 10 yrs old). There is insufficient info to make an informed comment as to why this Scout was actually denied the rank of Eagle Scout. Could be an intolerant Scout Master; could be a Scout trying to get into the news; could be something or anything else...

                #3.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:57 PM EDT
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                Comment author avatarI'mnotconcernedwhereheis~BushExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                What a hateful group; I would not want my children being around a bunch of bigots, they are better than that. Just like with church, if those hypocrites I know are going to heaven, then I'd rather not. My ex friend who went to church every Sunday, would talk horrible about other races. She is not the only one to open my eyes up to "churches, boy scouts, etc" I hope they DO THE RIGHT THING !!

                • 19 votes
                #4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:45 PM EDT

                @I'mnotconcernedwhereheis~Bush: Hallelujah! As I've said for many years, "Religion is the commercialization of spirituality."

                • 12 votes
                #4.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:06 PM EDT

                I'mnot -- you're applying your personal experience with one ex friend and a few others to literally millions and millions of people and implying that everyone is the same. That's a good thumbnail definition of bigotry. The Bo Scouts are doing the right thing -- they are applying the same standards they have for a hundred years and exercising their freedom of self determination. That's what made this country great to the degree it is, not tolerance defined as bowing to the whims af the loudest voices. Historically we defined tolerance as respecting the views of others while practicing our own. The Boy Scouts are absolutely entitled to practice as they wish, and while its too bad for the kid who did all the work only to be disappointed at the end, he did that work with knowledge of the Boy Scout's rules and the fact that he was in violation.

                Another thing that made this country what it is, or rather once was, is self reliance and entrepreneurship, not trying to change the institutions that thrive. That's a modem phenomena, this idea that we should the to conform institutions to the values of the few. Anderson should use his leadership talents to introduce a new institution using his own ideas of scouting. If his ideas are strong enough thy will succeed. If they're too weak they will fail. But he should stop trying to whine his way into the sympathies of the weak minded and angry.

                • 13 votes
                #4.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:32 PM EDT

                The Boy Scouts are absolutely entitled to practice as they wish,

                If the kid was black, would you still support their treating him this way? How is his behavior any different from Rosa Parks?

                He's not whining. He standing up for his civil rights.

                • 11 votes
                #4.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:53 PM EDT

                Sexual orientation is not a civil right. You give Anderson the right to violate the Boy Scout standard, then you take away the Scouts' right to self determination. That's a slope we will all slip down as we inch toward totalitarianism...

                • 11 votes
                #4.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:09 PM EDT

                Sexual orientation is not a civil right.

                WRONG. We all have the right to be whatever sexual orientation we are.

                • 19 votes
                #4.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:53 PM EDT

                The Boy Scouts have no policy towards hating anyone and says nothing about promoting hostility or violence towards anyone.

                You simply do not agree with us and that is your right. It is our right to set membership as we choose. The only hate I see is coming from those who do not agree with us.

                Perversion is not a value we want among us. Don't like it? Then don't join or support BSA.

                • 14 votes
                #4.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:37 PM EDT

                The real question is what gives the Boys Scouts of America the right to determine which of the 714+ commandments in the Bible are worthy of compliance and which are not? As a troop of Scouts enjoys an evening cookout of bacon cheesburgers (violating two commandments) or perhaps the Board of Directors of the BSA enjoys a clambake on the beach with their wives/girlfriends in their swimsuits (violating another two)... What hypocrisy, this is pure hate and ignorance not adherence to any Christian or Jewish or Muslim...set of values.

                • 7 votes
                #4.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:33 PM EDT

                Its call 'BOY SCOUTS OF AMERICA..anything different isn't it! Its a private organization and they have the rights to do what they want! There are plenty of gay organizations in the USA..join them..all fair!

                • 8 votes
                #4.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:21 PM EDT

                So it is NOT Boy Scouts of America! It is Bigoted Scouts of America. Congratulations to Ryan and to Mr. and Mrs. Andresen. Mr. and Mrs. Andresen, I'm sure you are very proud of Ryan. You three stuck it out through the hate that the scout organization showed-- and you WON!

                • 6 votes
                #4.9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:26 PM EDT

                NC:: Oh, and all the straights who are troop leaders are squeaky clean? Bet if you dig REAL DEEP you will find their records aren't as clean as their uniforms.

                • 6 votes
                #4.10 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:30 PM EDT

                I'm not gay..have no intentions of being gay..can I go to a gay organization and become a member without any problems?

                • 8 votes
                #4.11 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:30 PM EDT

                There are gay rights organizations with straight members like PFLAG. Regardless, most gays aren't hung up on who's gay or not, so if a straight person wants to be in a gay organization, all power to them.

                • 5 votes
                #4.12 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:44 AM EDT
                Comment author avatarplain bobExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                let them start their own scouts...GBSA...no problem...goat bang'n scouts of america...GBSA...put them in the same troop...is that a great idea...my goat said it was baaaaadddd...

                • 3 votes
                #4.13 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:32 AM EDT

                Another warped and twisted liberal spewing rhetorical, nonsense. Did you have two mommies or two daddies ?

                • 4 votes
                #4.14 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:48 AM EDT

                yupp ...them warped twisted conservative silly sayer's with one baby moma not sure who baby daddy is...

                • 4 votes
                #4.15 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:00 AM EDT

                mike277 Yes you can become a member of a gay organization. Most that I know of have straight members that don't have any issue. We also have had married couples(men&women) that have joined.

                Unlike many organizations that discriminate against people for what ever reason you will most likely be welcomed regardless of your sexual orientation as long as your not rude to people.

                • 5 votes
                #4.16 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:07 AM EDT

                mike you don't want to do it...they have people show how tuff they are...they got this turtle in a box..and he bites down on your thingy...you have to swing him around and say your the meanest sob to ever walk...then you have to thump it on top of it's head to make it let go...then you have to ask if anybody else wants to try...there's one guy who will shout out.. i will if you promise not to thump me on the head...

                • 1 vote
                #4.17 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:27 AM EDT

                Hate is Hate, no matter what you wrap it up in... Be it flag, bible or a boys/girls organization...

                In the past I have given generously to the scouts when they have their collections at the local super market... No more... Even if they change their policy...

                When I was a scout, I don't remember this blatant dislike for others...

                • 1 vote
                #4.18 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:42 AM EDT

                Ok :

                1) I'm an Eagle Scout

                2) I'm not Gay

                3) I feel this is a very bad direction and policy that BSA is taking, since scouting is about honor, and respecting diversity too.

                4) To say "Duty to God and Country" (Reverent) was a term always in line to the constitutional rights of Freedom of Religious choice. So this is a perversion of the scout motto in my book by some very biased (not very scout like) behavior by this new breed of BSA heads.

                If a Scout does the work, and achieves Eagle Scout, and then is denied that honor, what does this say about the morals of the organization itself? This is a very bad mark on an organization I love. I certainly hope they get over this hate, and biased direction, or the "Boy Scouts of America" will be no better than the KKK who also started out as a good and honorable organization that decayed into a hate group.

                • 2 votes
                #4.19 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:14 AM EDT

                Some comments for the haters:

                1) The BSA is NOT a "private" organization. It is a Congressionally-chartered organization that IS answerable to Congress. This is done to keep them from compliance with anti-trust laws. If they are so "private" then let them surrender their Congressional Charter.

                2) Sexual orientation is determined BEFORE peuberty. The "he knew the rules" argument is nonsense. When the kid became a Cub Scout he had no idea what his sexual orientation was, had no idea what the rules would mean for him, and that is a lot like saying that at 9 he signed the papers for a loan he never got, but he should pay it back because he knew the rules. Bad reasoning at best, hate speech at worst.

                3) If you have followed the story, he completed his last project --- an anti-bullying project that essentially tagged the BSA, the Scoutmaster, and the troop for bullying based on sexual orientation. So everyone knew well before that time and this smacks much more of retaliation than anything else. The only possible defgense would have been for the BSA to undertake an anti-bullying campaign (which they did not.)

                4) The BSA is a failing organization. Membership is dropping precipitously, camps are closing for lack of funding, and there has been scandal after scandal. The current scandal is for covering up incidents of sexual abuse going back to the early 1900's, but there have been others --- padding the membership and attendance roles to get taxpayer funds fraudently, obtaining and then selling for profit military surplus goods, embezzlement, etc.

                5) The relationship that once existed between the BSA and churches is now gone. When the Southern Baptists disavowed the BSA, it was not long before other churches followed suit on the basis that "where there is smoke, there must be fire." Mostly it has had to do with the scandals invilving BSA leadership, but a lot was also competition between "christian" denominations and churches.

                6) Sometimes organizations need to be slammed when the life lessons they teach their members is bad. Teaching hate and adverse discrimination is bad. The very best thing it does is send very mixed messages to very young and impressionable minds that it is okay, even desirable, to hate those who are different. But we have reached a time in our society when it is the BSA who "are different."

                7) Many of the haters, both within and even on NewsVine who shout so loudly and call the worst names anonymously are actually gay themselves. Remember Foley and Craig? They were the loudest voices in the House and Senate calling for anti-gay sanctions. Many closeted gay people still believe that if they yell "faggot" loud enough that people will not notice that it is they who are "different." Didn't work for Foley and Craig. Won't work for others. The fact is that people who are comfortable with their own sexuality do not feel a need to critisize the sexuality of others.

                I say give the guy his Eagle ceremony and pin, a nice letter of apoplogy, and drop it. He earned it fair and square. If theis is too much for the BSA, then public support for the BSA, including all taxpayer dollars, tax breaks, and their Congressional Charter need to be eliminated.

                  #4.20 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:17 AM EDT

                  @Mike277,

                  All the "gay organizations" I am aware of also have bisexual, transgender (who are not gay), and straight members. The things they have in common are either other interests or that they abhore the hateful discrimination that they see around them and want to do something to show that they are not a part of it.

                  If you read the article, you will see that a STRAIGHT Eagle Scout felt the same way.

                    #4.21 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:21 AM EDT

                    And for the idiots who keep bringing up "atheism": Atheism is a religion as well. Atheism is simply a religion in which a person says: "You cannot empirically prove that there is a god or gods. I do not have to prove the negative because of its inherent impossibility." In all other aspects, atheists are a religion just like any other.

                    Agnosticism is the belief that metaphysical beliefs are unknown and, as far as can be determined, unknowable. Agnostics are sceptics who say: "Prove it." and stand halfway between belief and nonbelief.

                    The fastest growing "religion" in the United States is "no religion" which is up to about 15% of the population and growing about a percent a year at this point. Atheists comprise about 4% of that number.

                      #4.22 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:36 AM EDT

                      1) The BSA is NOT a "private" organization. It is a Congressionally-chartered organization that IS answerable to Congress. This is done to keep them from compliance with anti-trust laws. If they are so "private" then let them surrender their Congressional Charter.

                      You do realize that the term congressional charter is purely an "honorific" title. In fact, Congress does not control anything inside any of these organizations. That being said organizations such as the YMCA, USO would also be under scrutiny. When was the last time, the USO recieved help from the govt.? Can't remember..... Then it is wise to say, Congress doesn't make the decisions in dealing with them.

                      2) Sexual orientation is determined BEFORE peuberty. The "he knew the rules" argument is nonsense. When the kid became a Cub Scout he had no idea what his sexual orientation was, had no idea what the rules would mean for him, and that is a lot like saying that at 9 he signed the papers for a loan he never got, but he should pay it back because he knew the rules. Bad reasoning at best, hate speech at worst.

                      He knew from the time he was gay....... That means he probably knew around the time he was 14 or 15; more than enough time to drop out before he became an eagle scout.

                      I would answer your other questions, but that is just your opinion and has no bearing on what I believe. Therefore, your argument is irrelevant.

                        #4.23 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:38 AM EDT

                        The problem is if they start embracing
                        homosexuals, next thing you have are scout leaders that are gay, that take
                        little boys out in the woods for camp night. Personally I would not want my son
                        to be on an overnight event with a gay camp leader. It's the same as saying, why
                        can't men be girl scout leaders. I don't want to have a talk with my son when he is 6 and have to say if Mr. Smith touches your private....etc It also protects the gay men from being falsely accused of doing things. I'm not sure what the solution is to the problem of boys that join when they are cub scouts then hit puberty and realize they are gay. The gay people I have heard talking about knowing they are gay over 90% said they knew very very young before they even knew about sex, it was just "known". I'm not gay so I can't personally vouch for how every gay person comes to know they are gay. However it is a private org. and I guess just don't donate or support them if you feel what they are doing is wrong.

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                        #4.24 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:49 AM EDT

                        The problem is if they start embracing homosexuals, next thing you have are scout leaders that are gay, that take little boys out in the woods for camp night.

                        You are confusing homosexuality with pedophilia. They are not the same at all. Most pedophiles are heterosexual, and therefore this particular risk has always been there. Any organization that deals with kids needs to do background checks and properly supervise its leadership, gay or straight.

                        Personally I would not want my son to be on an overnight event with a gay camp leader. It's the same as saying, why can't men be girl scout leaders. I don't want to have a talk with my son when he is 6 and have to say if Mr. Smith touches your private....etc

                        Well, boys have to be at least 11 to join the boy scouts, but you should have that conversation anyway, and in the context I mentioned above that the risk of pedophilia is greatest in the straight community.

                        The sooner the better.

                          #4.25 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:14 AM EDT

                          I dont agree with the gay lifestyle but have friends that are gay. Now with all of this I am thinking about de-friending them. BSA set rules a long time ago, for all you moron's that are talking about HATE.. there is no hate here, they make rules and they are sticking by thier guns, they are not forcing this kid to be straight, they are not pulling this rule out of nowhere, the kid knew it was there. If everytime someone enforced a RULE it meant they HATE you. Then your parents hate you, the police hate you, your school hates you.

                          And all the gays on here and gay supporters, trying to FORCE the BSA to change thier rules, to accept gays, that to me is such BS, that is what makes you F'N hypocrytes. Get the F out of here.

                          Case in point of hypocrisy. YMCA, stands for young MENS christian association. Started out being just for men to go work out. Hang out with other dudes. Then a bunch of feminists thought that was wrong and sexist, so they made YMCA be open to all sexes... ok.. well now they have a TON of female only gyms... SO WTF.. you want to be part of something that allows women, or gays or whatever, go find one. Or make one yourself. You all need to look at your own actions, your the ones ruining this country, but you can't see that sitting on your soap boxes, looking down on everyone else.

                          You all sicken me.

                          • 1 vote
                          #4.26 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:48 PM EDT

                          Freedom is a beautiful thing. Does the left, in general, really feel that if they want to start an organization that they would want "just anyone" to join? Does any organization want "just anyone"? Isn't that the idea of an organization, to bring together those with common goals or values? Does GLAD really want to have Bush, Cheney, Romney and Ryan on their roles, and voting!? I think that every Christian in America should join GLAD and their analogous organizations, take over the majority, and collapse them from the inside! Or better yet promote their own "values". The lib's would define me as a hater or 'phobe...big surprise. Here's an idea...hows'bout this be America and let the queers be queer and the Christians be Christians and as long as you're not poking anybody else in the chin...do what you want and say what you want.

                          And for those of you who still want to tear down those barriers...better start with ANY preferential treatment given to ANYONE for colleges, jobs and government contracts based on gender or minority status. If we're going to be "fair" then everyone has an equal shot. Although that really wouldn't be fair to those that don't meet the qualifications, I'm sure it's not their fault though...lets cancel all qualifications requirements to really make it fair! That'll really make the bridges and buildings safe:)

                            #4.27 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:35 PM EDT
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                            Times are always changing and hatred will die along with the generations that created it. There's no room for Hatred, Bigotry and Racism in this country. Go to Pakistan if that's your belief.

                            • 14 votes
                            #5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:49 PM EDT

                            Good luck of hatred for gays of dying out...It has not died since man walk the earth..

                            • 9 votes
                            #5.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:12 PM EDT

                            Times are changing. When the media backs up stories like these and there are talk shows and it's on the political agenda, then it does mean people are paying attention. You don't see people backing up racists and bigots anymore. And there are other countries that are more accepting than the U.S. So much for the "Land of the Free". More like "Land of the Free (only if you're straight)." People in the U.S> are more backwards than people think...

                            • 3 votes
                            #5.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:23 PM EDT

                            No, what will happen once all of the "knuckle-dragging, sub-human older generations" are no longer present.........., then you will turn on yourselves, subdividing into smaller groups in order to fulfill your need to have a "them" to hate and demonize.


                            We'll see how far you have evolved from primitive man once there is competition for food and the thin veneer of civilization is stripped away.

                            • 3 votes
                            #5.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:32 PM EDT

                            Hey, Paragus, do you live with your head in the sand? You'd have to if you truly believe times aren't changing.

                            Also, why do you HATE homosexuals? Some people believe homosexuality is a sin (even though Jesus NEVER says so in the bible). Some think it isn't natural (even though science has proven it is). But why the HATE?

                            • 2 votes
                            #5.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:39 PM EDT

                            Many hate that which they do not understand. It's called being human and no one is perfect.

                              #5.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:14 PM EDT

                              Also, why do you HATE homosexuals? Some people believe homosexuality is a sin (even though Jesus NEVER says so in the bible).

                              Watching: Jesus never said anything about rape either, so does that mean it is okay? Should rapists get the same special treatment?

                              Jesus never said anything about beastiality/ animal abuse either. So does that mean it is okay? Jesus never said anything about specific about pornography? Does that mean it is okay to view it?

                              Where do you get your interpretations of what Jesus said?

                              • 10 votes
                              #5.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:44 PM EDT

                              Obviously, Unhappy, you have no clue about what "legal consent" means.

                              • 4 votes
                              #5.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:03 PM EDT

                              Show me the hatred. Proof please.

                              • 3 votes
                              #5.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:37 PM EDT

                              ErinNJ: So did Jesus ever cover Prostitution? Because isn't a prostitute giving their "legal consent"?

                              No. Then how do you think Jesus would feel about it?

                              • 2 votes
                              #5.9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:50 PM EDT

                              Unhappy, how Jesus would feel about anything is irrelevant, because Jesus is a fictional character in a work of fiction.

                              • 3 votes
                              #5.10 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:03 AM EDT

                              Actually.....It has been proven that Jesus was a live person. So where do you get your information from?

                              Why don't you just say that Abraham Lincoln didn't exist either..... You are good at that.

                              • 3 votes
                              #5.11 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:32 AM EDT

                              Unhappy:: PROVE IT. The Bible was written by MORTAL MAN thousands of years after they say that the man lived. You can't tell me that someone who saw that man was still living thousands of years later. And no one had a tape recorder with tapes to record things as they were supposed to have happened. Batteries and electricity hadn't been invented thousands of years ago. And the guy in the sky didn't come down and tell the people just what happened thousands of years ago.

                              Electricity had been discovered and harnessed at the time of Lincoln and people wrote things, so it is possible that people saw and recorded on paper about him.

                                #5.12 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 8:43 AM EDT

                                Susie: Have you never heard of the St. Johns' Fragment? It has the written accounts of Jesus appearing before Pilate.

                                How young are you? Because it shows...

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                                #5.13 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:48 AM EDT

                                Susie , please .. I know people want to reject the teachings of Jesus, which is fine, but please dont be the very very few that deny his existence. You dont have to be a believer in God, or the divinity of Jesus, there are the majority of Historians, believers non believers, other cultures and their history, the evidence for his existence is strong. There is a very very very tiny % that deny this. I dont mind if you dont believe in him being the son of God, but denying he existed is like saying the sun doesnt exist outside.

                                  #5.14 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:13 PM EDT

                                  Ok,

                                  I watched the movie, first his scout master should be fired for accepting and encourging a gay person in his troop. This gay person should have been told no from the get go. The scout master for this troop has no honor and therefore should not be in charge of a Boy Scout Troop.

                                  The movie star standing up for him is probably gay herself, so the check for $20,000 is acceptable from her.

                                  Still the Eagle Pin should not be given to him since he is gay, and broke the rules by letting himself be accepted by the troop.

                                  Even though I hate and despise gays, if they leave me alone, I leave them alone, don't try to double talk me or set your ways on me, if you are gay don't try to touch me, because you will find yourself laying on the ground with a broke nose, I don't like gays, and will tell you out right so. As long as you respect my wishes and go away I won't bother you.

                                  This scout master should definetly be banned from any other boy scout actions. To turn him down for what he has worked hard for should of never happened, especially since he was told he could earn it.

                                  The scout master is lower than a snake, and has shown his troop a grave dishonor by accepting a gay child in the first place.

                                  Ryan I am sorry that this has happened to you, but, you should not have been there in the first place.

                                  Your scout master has cheated you by accepting you, encouraging you etc.

                                  Are you being completely truthful or is this just another tactic to bring homosexual behavior back in the spot light.

                                  • 1 vote
                                  #5.15 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:17 PM EDT

                                  Someone being gay is no big deal. We are all many things in our life. Feeling threatened by gay people by defining solely within their sexuality is really simple minded. Smerf, just because a person is gay does not mean they are going to try and have sex with you anymore than someon in a heterosexual interaction will. Yes Scouts does have a policy and Ryan hid his sexuality for a long time because society makes it unsafe to be honest. In the end, I'm quite sure Ryan is a good young man who honorably committed to Scouts and as he matured grew to understand the emotional aspect of himself that he is not heterosexual. Denying him recogniton for his work claiming it is about the duty to God is silly. That is just a sliver of some people's interpretation of what that means. Huge numbers of Christians all over this country are gay or support gays and have gays in their churches. I'm no Jesus expert, but he did associate himself with those on the fringes of society then - yes prositutes etc. - not the elite. I find it very difficult to believe that Jesus would support the Scouts were he on earth today. He loved everyone unconditionally - even those that killed him.

                                    #5.16 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:53 PM EDT

                                    The Boy Scouts is a private organization that takes no money from government, therefore their rules are in stone. It sickens me when I read about some "gay" suing to become a scout master. ( Den Mother.) Law suits are expensive. The Boy Scouts need every penny they get to do what they do best, turn out polite, God loving patriots. The rules are clear, you knew them when you started, you were not bullied. Don't try to change the Scouts. Start your own organization and call it the Glad Scouts, invite everyone in and be happy.

                                    • 2 votes
                                    #5.17 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:18 PM EDT

                                    For two days, I've observed your posts herein. And I've watched as each goes away. Me, I don't nix anyone, but watch each spend his or her venom, all = nothing.

                                    I'm an old woman, and have seen most of this tired planet, and more than once. I'm educated in both Social & Behavioral Science, Human History, and Business Marketing. I've spent more than 2-years living and working in the Far East. I'm neither Republican nor Democrat; a swing voter. And I'm a Catholic, but probably the worst little Catholic on the planet.

                                    Yes. homosexuals have been on this planet since the beginning, and before. Homosexuality exists in all mammal groups, and in all ape groups, including chimpanzee (Pan Paniscus) our closest "cousin" in the genetic group. Homosexuality appears to be "normal" to the species.

                                    And homosexuals aren't treated badly in all societies, but badly specifically in some of Christian Society. In past, I've witnessed homosexual persons treated with respect in the Islamic world, and most specificall Persia (now Iran).

                                    Every Human society has a minimum of 10% exclusively homosexual population. That is constant, never changes. In anonymous, blind, college tests given since the 1950's, that's the case. There are more persons of whom are "switch-hitters," as they say. Many, many, switch-hitters.

                                    Homosexuals are born at the same rate every day, day after day--not going away soon. So, why are homosexuals born into the world? I'd say for the same reasons that lefties are born, or genius persons, or whatever....they have some special take on the Human Condition that the rest of us cannot see, maybe.

                                    Those whom hate Gay Folk are in the minority on this planet. You're not found in most societies. And it is you that are, perhaps, wrong? Yes, perhaps.

                                    Just think about it. What if you were born, e.g. Native American, or Buddhist, or Hindu? Your parents wouldn't have taught you to hate. And you would be speaking with another voice.

                                    Thank you all.

                                    • 1 vote
                                    #5.18 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:21 PM EDT

                                    Now.

                                    Question: Why do some religious groups deny Homosexuals membership, speak against, and "pray for them (uh-huh)."

                                    Answer: For a religion to grow, it must produce more children to be taught by parents and church, synagogue, temple, that homosexuality is wrong and against God's plan. And those children produce more, etc. And offerings, tithes, donations shall increase the religion's wealth and power. More children = more.

                                    Gay folks don't usually give birth, but under special conditions = Few to none children to the religion.

                                    And I'll not discuss further the psychology of those persons whom force it. That just might explain away some, why we have too many mentally handicapped, even dangerous, persons among us.

                                    The next and best religion will bring homosexuals into it's fold, free of negativism, hate, and fear. The same code of conduct exists for both hetero and homo; all religions teach approximately the same set of rules--Ten Commandments aren't owned by Christians. No mention of homosexuals therein.

                                    Obey those 10 simple rules, and you're okay.

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                                    #5.19 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:44 PM EDT

                                    Here are a few simple answers to some real doozies above.

                                    to Zombiequest and AliveinSD:

                                    You have fallen victim to the LGBT agenda to confuse race and equality issues with those of behavior and morality. Just because someone thinks a particular behavior is immoral does not equate to hatred or bigotry as the activists want us to think. For example I loved my alcoholic grandfather very much. I hated the alcoholism and felt it was immoral. The fact is that the LGBT movement was unsuccessful for many years in trying to gain acceptance by trying to convince everyone that homosexual behavior was not immoral. It just didn't fly with most people because the focus was on the behavior. So, cleverly, they decided to try a route which was more in keeping with Americans sense of fairness which was to be seen as a true minority group and thus it would change change the argument to one about "rights". Well, Americans are all about rights. We think we should have the right to do anything we want although that is really not true. Fortunately, we have laws that prevent us from doing anything we want and most of those are based on what society considers permissible according to current moral values. Herein lies the crux of the issue. It still pretty much comes down to a moral argument and no matter which side of this you are on, the fact is that while they are getting traction by piggybacking the civil rights movement, there is still a moral question about the behavior that will never go away. Now, is it fair , or even right, for anyone to call those who have a moral opinion on any type of behavior, sexual or otherwise, a "hater"? What about your opinion on incest? Do you feel it is immoral? If you do, does that mean you hate all people involved in incest? Likely I would say your answer is no. So, let's get the "hate" issue out of it and realize we are talking about behavior versus race which is an inborn trait with no moral issue attached and thus we have to conclude that any behavioral group , sexual or otherwise, cannot be defined as a true minority group and does not have "right" to their behavior the same as inalienable rights are endowed to people of various race or ethnic origin in our country. And one last thing. Just because you feel you are born a certain way also does not give you the right to act that way openly in society where many people will be offended. Aliveinsd says gays are born everyday. That is a very broad assumption based on his education by the media that sexual behaviors are all inborn and programmed from the beginning which leaves out a tremendous amount of scientific evidence in the behavioral sciences to the contrary ( identical twins where only one is gay, etc) which is conveniently excluded in the LGBT agenda. However, whether born that way or not, it really in the end doesn't matter and here is why. The American Psychiatric Association met in Boston last year and there is a proposal that pedophiles are born with that "orientation" and I am sure you don't feel that just because "they can't help it" that they should be given free reign to express their behavior openly in society. So, it's a moral issue, not a civil rights issue, and one side believing a certain way does NOT equal "hate". In regard to the scout, he is unfortunately in violation of a portion of the scout law according to the fact that he was voluntarily and with full knowledge participating in a faith based organization. He would open every scout meeting reciting an oath which included, " …to do my duty to God." and "I will keep myself morally straight". So, his issue is ultimately in the realm of a faith based conflict. If you disagree with these principles and you are on the side where you feel it is not immoral to act out homosexual urges, then don't participate in scouting. For the religious argument go to www.robgagnon.net and he will clearly explain that part. Also please keep in mind my grandfather. Anyone who feels a certain lifestyle is immoral can still have respect for those individuals as people and have compassion for them, but that does not mean that the behavior needs to be condoned as I did not condone my grandfather's behavior. And, considering rights, I would hope you agree that faith based organizations should have the right to define what behaviors are acceptable within their ranks.

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                                    #5.20 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:30 AM EDT

                                    BTW Aliveinsd. You really need to go to Dr. Gagnon's site. I see you have many confused concepts about God in general and yet you attempt to have some idealistic concepts about what should be right and wrong which is good. Wonder where right and wrong came from? I would also recommend C.S.Lewis's simple book "Mere Christianity". Both of the are highly cerebral endeavors by men far more educated than we will ever hope to be. One a Phd from Harvard and the other a PhD from Oxford and former atheist. To get involved with you on these issues here would be pointless but I challenge you to go read both of these and if you still feel as you do then so be it.

                                      #5.21 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:38 AM EDT

                                      You have fallen victim to the LGBT agenda to confuse race and equality issues with those of behavior and morality.

                                      And YOU have fallen victim to the christo-bigots' agenda to confuse behavior with orientation, as well as the agenda that apparently states that there is only ONE set of morals by which everyone must live.

                                      Homosexuality is a sexual orientation, just like heterosexual, bisexuality, and asexuality (the four medically-recognized, normal variants of our naturally-occurring sexual orientations). One can be homosexual (or any one of the others) without ever having sex -- it's about attraction, which is what "orientation" means.

                                      Furthermore, morality is subjective, which is why it is not legislated. What YOU decide is "moral" or "immoral" is not necessarily true for anyone else -- in fact, apparently the majority of Americans disagree with you regarding the "morality" of homosexuality, since the majority of us support equality. Apparently, you agree with the BSA's version of "morality," which promotes bigotry, ignorance, and homophobia as "moral values".

                                      For example I loved my alcoholic grandfather very much. I hated the alcoholism and felt it was immoral.

                                      Try comparing apples to oranges -- alcoholism is not an inborn trait, while homosexuality (sexual orientation) is.

                                      What about your opinion on incest? Do you feel it is immoral? If you do, does that mean you hate all people involved in incest?

                                      I was wondering how long it would take for you to throw in the usual slippery-slope arguments like this one and your later comparison of homosexuality to pedophilia. Those dumb arguments are the same ones the dumb bigots tried to use against interracial marriage in 1967, and they LOST -- just like the dumb bigots will LOSE again. Whether it is in the courts, or with the public, you will still LOSE -- and apparently you will never learn your lesson.

                                      One more thing: it's another apples/oranges issue.

                                      Aliveinsd says gays are born everyday. That is a very broad assumption based on his education by the media that sexual behaviors are all inborn and programmed from the beginning which leaves out a tremendous amount of scientific evidence in the behavioral sciences to the contrary ( identical twins where only one is gay, etc) which is conveniently excluded in the LGBT agenda.

                                      It is not simply based on "education by the media;" all of the credible, valid, peer-reviewed research states that sexual orientation is caused by biological, hormonal, genetic, and environmental factors working together. If you know of a "tremendous amount of scientific evidence in the behavioral sciences to the contrary," then cite it -- or STFU. But any evidence provided must be reliable, unbiased, and peer-reviewed -- that means that anything from NARTH, Focus on the Family, or any other known anti-gay hate groups is invalid, as is the encyclopedia of your ass (which is where it seems you've gotten the information you've provided so far).

                                      BTW, Rob Gagnon does not meet the criteria for an unbiased, peer-reviewed source. He apparently got his encyclopedia from the same place you did.

                                      However, whether born that way or not, it really in the end doesn't matter and here is why. The American Psychiatric Association met in Boston last year and there is a proposal that pedophiles are born with that "orientation" and I am sure you don't feel that just because "they can't help it" that they should be given free reign to express their behavior openly in society.

                                      And apparently you cannot differentiate between what constitutes "legal consent" and what does not meet that criteria.

                                      Pedophilia is not classified as an "orientation;" it is a paraphilia, which you might learn if you had done even a modicum of research.

                                      Being "morally straight" and being homosexual are not mutually exclusive, contrary to the opinion shared by you and the rest of your christo-bigoted ilk.

                                      One more thing: while the BSA can define what "behaviors" are acceptable within their ranks, this boy did not behave in an "unacceptable" way -- they are simply denying him based on his orientation.

                                      Wonder where right and wrong came from?

                                      People knew the difference between right and wrong, and had laws to clarify those differences, long before there was any organized religion.

                                      One a Phd from Harvard and the other a PhD from Oxford and former atheist.

                                      All that proves is that people can attend the best schools and STILL be clueless. If that's what impresses you, you'd better listen to me, because I have two master's degrees, as well as two bachelor's degrees -- from Cornell and NYU. And I'm a former Catholic.

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                                      #5.22 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:41 PM EDT

                                      I have already posted the studies of the supposed gay gene and science used to see the difference between straight and gay. The studies can and are easily criticized. If a study shows that brain size in gays and straights are different, then that could be something easy to see, however its not the case, because the brain size is also found in hetero just as homo, so that study is inconclusive.

                                      Also the people tested had died of Aids, which also needs to be considered are the effects of Aids and the body.

                                      The other study was with chromosomes, but I dont have that one on hand on this computer. I did post it some where else in one of these threads.

                                      As for Rob Gagnon, I am familiar with his work. He is someone who has spent much time in this issue, and his research is right on the mark.

                                      Also peer review means nothing, other then people just agreeing with the topic. Being peer reviewed does not mean it is valid by any means. Peer review shows much bias, and not allowing any other information to be considered, regardless of how sound it may be, if it doesnt fall with in the main stream view of society.

                                        #5.23 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:37 PM EDT

                                        Sounds like a bunch of excuses to help justify your endless bigotry and ignorance. What you have posted are not "studies," they are claims made by a bunch of anti-gay zealots trying to justify their own biases, which makes them suspect to start with. The fact that none of them have been peer-reviewed is further condemnation of them as well as their "studies".

                                        And I love the "I don't have that one on this computer" bull@!$%#. I've seen what you've posted on other threads -- I (and others) have DISPROVED what you've posted on other threads, on this and other subjects -- and I just keep buying higher boots to deal with the piles of @!$%# you spread.

                                        In addition, the fact that all of them died of HIV/AIDS is irrelevant, especially considering that 85% of all HIV/AIDS worldwide today are among heterosexual men, and the group with the lowest incidence of HIV/AIDS is lesbian women.

                                        No surprise that you think Rob Gagnon's "work" is "right on the mark," and that you're familiar with it -- since it's quacks like him who give quacks like you what validation you need for your ignorance and bigotry.

                                        It's also no surprise that YOU think peer review means "nothing," but you clearly have no idea what "peer review" entails. The most important aspect of peer review is that the study under review has been replicated, something that is sorely lacking in the community that produces the "studies" on which you rely.

                                        BTW, no one is claiming that there is a "gay gene" -- however, it has been amply proven that sexual orientation has a genetic component. Furthermore, there is no "straight gene," either.

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                                        #5.24 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:49 PM EDT

                                        Of course your not going to see my way because your so lost in this wild liberal crazy world view of things.

                                        If you really want to debate lets debate on one topic at a time, and go until it is resolved. This is getting tiresome listening to your senseless attacks on my views. You are acting so ticked off over nonsense. I dont care if you have issues with me, or the people who I quote, I want facts , not fiction. Shall I start with your accusation that the founding fathers were all deists ?

                                        Shall you provide your evidence first or mine ?

                                          #5.25 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 6:54 PM EDT

                                          Shall I start with your accusation that the founding fathers were all deists ?

                                          When someone says 'Founding Father' they usually are referring to one of these 7 people; John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Hamilton, John Jay, Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, and George Washington.

                                          John Adams was Unitarian, and staunchly secular in his view on civil governance and religion.

                                          Benjamin Franklin was a Deist and secularist.

                                          Alexander Hamilton was Christian/Episcopalian, agreed with Jefferson and Adams in regard to church-state seperation.

                                          John Jay was a Christian/Episcopalian, out of all the Founders was the 'least' supportive of secularism.

                                          Thomas Jefferson was an agnostic/deist and secularist.

                                          James Madison was a Deist and secularist.

                                          George Washington was an Episcopalian but espoused views much closer to Deism and also a secularist.

                                          Links and quotes can be provided to support each one of these assertions.

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                                          #5.26 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:53 PM EDT

                                          Shuklack, don't you find it very telling that Marmaduke views an assertion that someone was (or is) a Deist as an "accusation," as if it is something illegal or something one should hide?

                                          Apparently Marmaduke has also never heard of the Jefferson bible.

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                                          #5.27 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:56 PM EDT

                                          Apparently Marmaduke has also never heard of the Jefferson bible.

                                          I'm sure he has. But then selective amnesia takes place to remove any facts that do not fit his religious upbringing.

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                                          #5.28 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:03 PM EDT

                                          Yes I guess we need to be more specific when were talking about founding anything. It can indeed refer to the settlers coming to america, first colonies, states, drafters of the constitution.

                                          So when I say founding fathers I am going to talk about the majority of them who came here and played a role in our beginning. I dont need to clip and paste certain quotes needed to prove my point. Just read about their ENTIRE life and you will see that the majority of them were of faith. As i said, from being on the American History forums and discussing this with them there, they all agreed on the same thing, that people will strip one liners from an entire context to prove that the founding fathers were against religion or something like that. But when you leave it in context and also get familiar with their life history you plainly see they were people of faith.

                                          Alexander Hamilton was Christian/Episcopalian, agreed with Jefferson and Adams in regard to church-state seperation.

                                          Issue with this is so many today think that church is supposed to stay out of government affairs. This couldnt be farther from the truth. It hasnt even been until the last 50 years that you have seen such a radical change in the view of church and state. It was and always will be meant that Government can not establish a state religion, government is to stay out of church affairs, no where does it say that we cant vote for christian people or prefer to have christian people in office, or be in office and have christian views. They ( founding fathers ) didnt have any issues talking about such, and we shouldnt either. We been slowly taking religion out of everything, I miss saying the pledge of allegiance, something that wasnt around since the beginning, but was nice when it was around to show us where we came from. We strip the public of our religious expression and views , now you see what kind of hoodlums we have growing up in schools. Decay of society .

                                          List of the Founding Fathers

                                          Signers of the Continental Association

                                          President of First Continental Congress

                                          1. Peyton Randolph

                                          New-Hampshire

                                          2. Nathaniel Folsom
                                          3. John Sullivan

                                          Massachusetts Bay

                                          4. Thomas Cushing
                                          5. Samuel Adams
                                          6. John Adams
                                          7. Robert Treat Paine

                                          Rhode-Island

                                          8. Stephen Hopkins
                                          9. Samuel Ward

                                          Connecticut

                                          10. Eliphalet Dyer
                                          11. Roger Sherman
                                          12. Silas Deane

                                          New-York

                                          13. Isaac Low
                                          14. John Alsop
                                          15. John Jay
                                          16. James Duane
                                          17. Philip Livingston
                                          18. William Floyd
                                          19. Henry Wisner
                                          20. Simon Boerum

                                          New-Jersey

                                          21. James Kinsey
                                          22. William Livingston
                                          23. Stephen Crane
                                          24. Richard Smith
                                          25. John De Hart

                                          Pennsylvania

                                          26. Joseph Galloway
                                          27. John Dickinson
                                          28. Charles Humphreys
                                          29. Thomas Mifflin
                                          30. Edward Biddle
                                          31. John Morton
                                          32. George Ross

                                          The Lower Counties

                                          33. Caesar Rodney
                                          34. Thomas McKean
                                          35. George Read

                                          Maryland

                                          36. Matthew Tilghman
                                          37. Thomas Johnson, Jr.
                                          38. William Paca
                                          39. Samuel Chase

                                          Virginia

                                          40. Richard Henry Lee
                                          41. George Washington
                                          42. Patrick Henry, Jr.
                                          43. Richard Bland
                                          44. Benjamin Harrison
                                          45. Edmund Pendleton

                                          North-Carolina

                                          46. William Hooper
                                          47. Joseph Hewes
                                          48. Richard Caswell

                                          South-Carolina

                                          49. Henry Middleton
                                          50. Thomas Lynch
                                          51. Christopher Gadsden
                                          52. John Rutledge
                                          53. Edward Rutledge

                                          Signers of the Declaration of Independence

                                          Delegates to the Constitutional Convention

                                          Signers of the Constitution

                                          Delegates who left the Convention without signing

                                          Convention delegates who refused to sign

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                                          #5.29 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:41 PM EDT

                                          From my point of view, this whole situation could have been Avoided by just Turning Down the Drama a couple of Notches, and keeping the Really important Priority's in sight...

                                          back in the 1970s, my older brother was in boy scouts a couple of years before i was old enough to join, and i was always tagging along to meetings and on Hiking/camping trips because i was so Quiet, and a very Stout boy. i was 12 when my brother ask if i was Gay... or "an Effing Queer" as He liked to put it.

                                          He Really Did Not like my answer. he was pretty Rough with me when he would bully me over it. and it embarrassed him, so it embarrassed me even worse... he called me Queer in front of the other boys, and they were not exactly what you would call "nice" about it, because i didn't answer them when they gave me the third degree... i did not speak much to anyone for a year or so, but i was always there with the Scout troop. after a few months, a couple of the other boys Fathers who were mostly always around, and two or three of the oldest Boys, finally could not watch me take it anymore and put their foot down, and made my brother and some of the boys stop abusing me since i wouldn't Quit, and i never said a word of complaint, if i spoke at all... (most of the families where we lived were wealthy... their kids tended to Whine about long Hikes, cutting up wood, etc) so there was No Secret about me. if their were showers where we camped, i waited until they were empty. i was not embarrassed about my body, i just did it out of respect because i did not want anyone else to have to feel as uncomfortable as i did.

                                          My point ?

                                          even though it was the 1970s and Folks could be downright mean to me if they wanted to, and get away with it,... no one Tried to Kick Me to The Curb, and take away the ONE THING that Taught me about Respect and Being selfless, and being a Gentleman, AND Basic survival skills, and to look out after the ones who Needed looking out after because the were too inexperienced, or careless... or too pampered up to that point, and not making them look or feel stupid when they messed up...

                                          i came close to making eagle scout too... but, life Happens... and we had to move away.

                                          but the learning Experience was absolutely Vital to my Being able to keep moving forward in life,.. and more importantly,....... what i learned about How to treat others that i would encounter in life along the way.

                                          trust me when i say it was Rough for Me, but as Bigoted as folks Typically were back then... they still understood that i was a just a Kid, and that standing on their "MORALS" or caving in to their Discomfort, were not nearly as important to them as the Reason they were There in The First Place... they were There For Insignificant Me... and i owe them a debt of Gratitude.

                                          so i would only like to ask that of all of you go ahead and Debate your issues as freely and Honestly as you like.. just as you should.

                                          but please understand that making any kid, or any proud young Boy scouts Future outlook for success or even survival in the uncertain future, Less of a Priority to all of us than this Terribly Fascinating Debate is.......

                                          Well,.. THAT would Really be the only True moral Failure Here.

                                          Have a Better Day...

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #5.30 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:06 PM EDT

                                          Marmaduke 49 - Wow... Umm.. that is just about the most Needy Display, that i have seen here in a while...

                                          Actually, that i have seen here... ever.. period.

                                          Congratulations on your Success...

                                          Well, they say if your gonna' go... GO BIG !

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                                          #5.31 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 8:23 PM EDT

                                          It hasnt even been until the last 50 years that you have seen such a radical change in the view of church and state.

                                          WRONG. Reynolds v. US was decided in 1879; they noted a clear separation between church and state in that ruling:

                                          The Supreme Court turned the spotlight on the "wall of separation" phrase in 1878 by declaring in Reynolds v. United States "that it may be accepted almost as an authoritative declaration of the scope and effect of the [first] amendment."

                                          The high court took the same position in widely publicized decisions in 1947 and 1948, asserting in the latter case, McCollum v. Board of Education, that, "in the words of Jefferson, the clause against establishment of religion by law was intended to erect 'a wall of separation between church and state.'" Since McCollum forbade religious instruction in public schools, it appeared that the court had used Jefferson's "wall" metaphor as a sword to sever religion from public life, a result that was and still is intolerable to many Americans.

                                          http://www.loc.gov/loc/lcib/9806/danbury.html

                                          Even you should be able to do the math and figure out that those rulings were issued quite a bit more than 50 years ago.

                                          The list you provided was of everyone who signed the Constitution; however, the framers -- the LEADERS -- are the ones who are referred to as our "Founding Fathers," and they were primarily Deists, and most certainly they were progressives.

                                          Historian Richard B. Morris in 1973 identified the following seven figures as the key Founding Fathers: John Adams, Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Hamilton, John Jay, Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, and George Washington.[4]


                                          http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Founding_Fathers_of_the_United_States

                                          Note that of the seven Founding Fathers, FOUR of them were Deists: Franklin, Jefferson, Madison, and Washington. And at least two others (Adams and Hamilton) strongly supported a secular government. In addition, Thomas Paine, who was a major influence on the Founding Fathers, was also a Deist.

                                          Repeating your misinformation in various threads will not make it true.

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                                          #5.32 - Mon Oct 15, 2012 9:13 PM EDT

                                          There were more then 7 people who framed this entire america erin. And even all of those had different views and had issues agreeing with many things, how ever most of our early americans who framed this country were men of faith. I cant state this enough, the 7 you listed are not the sole people who framed this country, it is more complex and in more detail then just saying these 7.

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #5.33 - Tue Oct 16, 2012 2:09 PM EDT

                                          Erin - if morality is "subjective", why do you think there are established laws that control behavior? Think about those laws in everyday life. Evidently you want no laws to rule you and your choices - that is anarchy, and it cannot, and does not support a civilized and moral society. Expect those people who disagree with you to push back, since we want an organized life where clear boundaries exist for the safety of all.

                                          Furthermore, you state that there are a number of "normal" sexual lifestyles. You do not have to believe following but you will be held accountable for the truth of it:

                                          Ever since the creation of the world God's eternal power and divine nature, invisible though they are, have been understood and seen through the things he has made. So they are without excuse; for though they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their senseless minds were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools; and they exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling a mortal human being or birds or four-footed animals or reptiles. Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the degrading of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen. For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error. And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind and to things that should not be done. They were filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, covetousness, malice. Full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, craftiness, they are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, rebellious toward parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. Romans 1:20-31

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #5.34 - Sat Oct 20, 2012 11:54 AM EDT

                                          Erin, Though Franklin was a deist, he held to his conviction that God rules in men's lives and government:

                                          I have lived, Sir, a long time, and the longer I live, the more convincing proofs I see of this truth that God Governs in the affairs of men. And if a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without his notice, is it probable that an empire can rise without his aid? We have been assured, Sir, in the sacred writings, that "except the Lord build the House they labour in vain that build it." I firmly believe this; and I also believe that without his concurring aid we shall succeed in this political building no better, than the Builders of Babel: We shall be divided by our little partial local interests; our projects will be confounded, and we ourselves shall become a reproach and bye word down to future ages. And what is worse, mankind may hereafter from this unfortunate instance, despair of establishing Governments by Human wisdom and leave it to chance, war and conquest. Ben Franklin - Constitutional Convention, July 4th , 1787.

                                          also:

                                          Christianity As An Influence On The Founding Fathers

                                          www.lawandliberty.org/founders.htm

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #5.35 - Sat Oct 20, 2012 12:16 PM EDT

                                          I think Erin believes that people like me want this country to be some Theocracy or some state religion formed. I never have indicated such.

                                          Early America was rich of Religious Freedom, and most everyone professed their faith in private , and public. If they wanted to do away with religion they would had just said so in our constitution, or they would require that anyone running for office had to be an atheist, or could never speak of religion. This couldnt be farther from the truth. It was part of their lives, they seen society as something that would decay with out God in it. Once again , this does not imply that the government is going to, or should force religion on people. I am merely saying that they , early american fathers, documents, indicate that society would be nothing with out God in it. There is a BIG difference between the two.

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #5.36 - Sun Oct 21, 2012 11:10 AM EDT
                                          Reply

                                          I'm conflicted about this. On the one hand, I don't support the BSA's discrimination policy. I get that they're a private organization and they're allowed to set their own standards. So, I get it...I just don't like it. Now on the other hand, this policy has been in place for a LONG time. So, if you're in the boy scouts and you're gay, then you know what's coming: the organization doesn't support you. So if you know that's the case, then why stay in, and why would you expect to receive the highest recognition the BSA awards?

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                                          Reply#6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:50 PM EDT

                                          @DotComCTO: Yes, they are a private organization and, as such, can set their own policies. So what if this 'private organization' had a policy that no blacks could join their group? Or had a policy that no Jews could join? Would that also be acceptable? By your reasoning, and theirs, apparently so.

                                          • 4 votes
                                          #6.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:09 PM EDT

                                          and so everyone knew of Ryan's homosexuality for some time. Why did they not kick him out a couple of years ago while he was still earning the 21 merit badges? Good point Scruffy. Let's hear these deniers answer to that now.

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #6.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:28 PM EDT

                                          Those thoughts were part of my internal conflict. Substitute "African-American", "Jewish", "tall", "short", or any other population for the word "gay" and you have the same kind of discrimination, just applied to a different group. Now, if you re-read what I wrote, I said I do not agree with the BSA on this kind of discrimination. Operative word is, "not". What I did say is that joining an organization and knowing you're in whatever group that is being discriminated against is probably not wise. And then expecting to be eligible for whatever awards and recognition you've earned is equally unwise.

                                          • 1 vote
                                          #6.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:32 PM EDT

                                          "So if you know that's the case, then why stay in, and why would you expect to receive the highest recognition the BSA awards?"

                                          It's a good question. I don't support the BSA policy but I do see value in the BSA in general. I had two sons who participated in both Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts and I held volunteer positions in both. One thing I always looked out for was any negative talk about homosexuals. You know what I found in 10 years? Not a peep about homosexuality inside the program at all. Simply put it’s not something that is addressed except as a check box on a form. However most of the older Scout and all of the leaders know about the standing policy.

                                          With that in mind I have to wonder why this young man choose to send a letter to his Scoutmaster stating he was gay and an atheist ahead of being awarded the Eagle award. I can’t speak for all troops but I can say that in our troop the question of sexual orientation is not asked of youth members. I’m sure there are gay scouts in the troop some who are open about the sexuality outside of scouting. However sex is not a part of the program so it literally does not come up.

                                          Now the question of believing in god is a different topic. Scouting is a faith based program and the scout law does specify that a Scout will do his duty to “God” capital G. As such we do ask each boy as they progress to acknowledge a belief in a deity. In the 10 years I have been involved I have seen all the Protestant faiths, Catholics, Muslims, Jewish a Hindu, a Buddhist, and one Wiccan who claimed a faith in mother earth or the natural God. I admit we had difficulty with the last one and ended up having an adult Wiccan come in to talk about their faith. After a protracted review it was found to be consistent with BSA policy.

                                          Given that the policy is the scout must profess a “faith” and that definition of faith is a belief in a “higher power”. If you reject that then you cannot be a Eagle Scout and in reality should not be able to progress past First Class scout. I bring this up because in this case not only did the young man send a letter about being homosexual but he also stated that he was an atheist. Either of these two things would have prevented him from getting his Eagle, however the first, being Gay, most likely never would have come up. SO why do something that you know will cost you the Scout rank you are seeking. I suppose it was principle, in that the Young Man decided he could not A) keep quiet about his sexual orientation even when the Policy of the BSA is not to ask youth members about it, and B) he could not find a deity to profess “faith to a higher power” too. On that I salute the Young Man, way to stick to your principles.

                                          The issue I have is that after taking a principled stand against the BSA’s policy on faith and homosexuality he and his parents start a campaign to get the Eagle anyway. That is a problem, because he took an action that he knew, and his parents knew, would explicitly prevent him from getting the award but they don’t want to accept the responsibility for his action.

                                          That kind of defeats the purpose. Taking a principled stand is supposed to have some element of sacrifice in it. If you’re not sacrificing then your stand has no merit. In this case stop asking for something you know you are not entitled to under the BSA rules. You took your stand; you made you sacrifice, be proud of yourself and stop seeking the thing you are giving up.

                                          In closing, I wish the BSA would revise their policy on youth members. Most of these boys are too young, even at 18 to fully know who they are or what their sexual identity will be. Further no matter their sexual orientation it is not germane to the program. On faith I support the program as is, it’s a core value that a Scout believes in God, any God so long as you believe in something greater than yourself.

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                                          #6.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:34 PM EDT

                                          And why shouldn't organizations be able to operate to the exclusion of whomever they want? If their ideas don't work, they will fail. If other ideas are stronger, the will prevail. You seem to want to force change on an institution that has succeeded for a hundred years into what you think it should be. Leave them alone, man up or woman up and stop complaining about stuff that's none of your business. Don't like it? Don't join, start your own group.

                                          • 9 votes
                                          #6.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:41 PM EDT

                                          John-362791

                                          most clear response seen. My son is an Eagle Scoutand I totally agree.

                                            #6.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:00 PM EDT

                                            All blacks are not perverts. All homosexuals are. Blacks have been in Scouts since the beginning.

                                            John 362791, well said. Jogrinder, same for you.

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                                            #6.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:40 PM EDT

                                            All blacks are not perverts and homosexuals are? How do you justify a statement like that...

                                              #6.8 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:52 AM EDT

                                              BSA doesn't have to revise anything. This is not the NAZI youth. No one is forced to join. If BSA wants to stop homosexuals from joining, that is their business. Is Congress going to support them too? Nope.... which is why they can make whatever decisions they want.

                                              This gay teen doesn't like it, tell him to start his own group. In fact, all the people on this newsvine can join if they want to. But don't go inflicting your morals on an organization who is probably a lot older than any of you are.

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                                              #6.9 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:53 AM EDT

                                              John wrote; "So if you know that's the case, then why stay in, and why would you expect to receive the highest recognition the BSA awards?"

                                              "It's a good question. I don't support the BSA policy but I do see value in the BSA in general."

                                              [[In general? It depends. The value is vastly degraded, in my view, via the shift where leaders and national leaders don't follow their own stated precepts. (Not inclusive) Kind? No. Honest? No.

                                              Scouts like this young man, as well as others in the past, have honestly presented themselves as they've discovered they were. Responses (not all inclusive) have been for the scout to lie about their status(es)-some results I've read indicated dishonesty on the part of National, as well. Have these leaders been dismissed from the Organization? They have not. Double standards.

                                              Cases like this one (and past examples being atheist) have demonstrated the Eagle scout, or candidate, showing higher ethics than those in higher leadership positions.

                                              In the past, the BSA was presented as an organization of value for all boys. And it did demonstrate much much value as well as leading by example. In my time, it didn't matter I didn't much believe in 'God'. I was not religious and not an atheist as I wasn't a communist. At camp outs I'd often go to church as the singing, and such, was fun.]]

                                              "I had two sons who participated in both Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts and I held volunteer positions in both. One thing I always looked out for was any negative talk about homosexuals. You know what I found in 10 years? Not a peep about homosexuality inside the program at all. Simply put it’s not something that is addressed except as a check box on a form. However most of the older Scout and all of the leaders know about the standing policy.""

                                              [[Homosexuality wasn’t on anyone's 'radar screen'. A few years after I left it turns out one adult was a paedophile. I read about his being sentenced to a long term in prison in the newspaper. That was a surprise.]]

                                              "With that in mind I have to wonder why this young man choose to send a letter to his Scoutmaster stating he was gay and an atheist ahead of being awarded the Eagle award."

                                              [[He was following the precept about being honest.]]

                                              "I can’t speak for all troops but I can say that in our troop the question of sexual orientation is not asked of youth members. I’m sure there are gay scouts in the troop some who are open about the sexuality outside of scouting. However sex is not a part of the program so it literally does not come up."

                                              [[Nor did it in my time.]]

                                              "Now the question of believing in god is a different topic. Scouting is a faith based program and the scout law does specify that a Scout will do his duty to “God” capital G. As such we do ask each boy as they progress to acknowledge a belief in a deity."

                                              [[Problem. God with the capital 'G' means the Xian deity construct; no others need apply. The downgrade is a dishonest one and it expanded things to fully exclude those who lost, or lacked, religious faith. Such indicates, and not subtly, others boys had no worth.

                                              I remember when the BSA went on the hefty leagal court offensive to be ruled a private organization (which is their prerogative). If memory serves, this was when 'God' became 'god'. Worse, was they were now a bigoted private organization but yet expected to continue to 'suck on the public tit'. At this time the BSA tried to portray themselves (ludicrously!) as being the victim! There goes; honesty and trustworthness. And these people still presented themselves as being good role models for boys! This is when the BSA lost my, and many other peoples', respect. They were even forced off military bases based on their rabid discrimination policies.

                                              The GSA's 'star' sky rocketed as they remained as an organization for all girls.]]

                                              "Now the question of believing in god is a different topic. Scouting is a faith based program and the scout law does specify that a Scout will do his duty to “God” capital G."

                                              [[Again, the capital 'G' means the Xian deity construct, no others need apply. There is no, and can't be, a 'duty to deity'. There's nothing a person can do for a deity which is; omnipresent, omniscient, and omnipotent. All are mere actors in a pointless play hitting their marks, and spouting their lines as was scripted eons ago when 'God' ejaculated the universe into existence. What's happening is the BSA leadership at national is further victimising innocent boys! This is the ramifications and reprecussions based on religious dogma and teachings.

                                              There's no such thing as 'Free Will'. First, no matter how much I 'will' it there's no way I can flap my arms and fly cross-country. Second, there's no thought or action I can take which would show 'God' in error-no matter how much I, or anyone else, wills or yearns for it.]]

                                              " As such we do ask each boy as they progress to acknowledge a belief in a deity. In the 10 years I have been involved I have seen all the Protestant faiths, Catholics, Muslims, Jewish a Hindu, a Buddhist, and one Wiccan who claimed a faith in mother earth or the natural God. I admit we had difficulty with the last one and ended up having an adult Wiccan come in to talk about their faith. After a protracted review it was found to be consistent with BSA policy."

                                              [[BSA policy shifted in an effort to regain 'sucking at the public tit' even though its a bigoted private organization. Once again honesty, for one, is AWOL.]]

                                              "Given that the policy is the scout must profess a “faith” and that definition of faith is a belief in a “higher power”. "

                                              [[Such was a dishonest change by National and a betryal of 'God' himself.]]

                                              ""If you reject that then you cannot be a Eagle Scout and in reality should not be able to progress past First Class scout. I bring this up because in this case not only did the young man send a letter about being homosexual but he also stated that he was an atheist. Either of these two things would have prevented him from getting his Eagle, however the first, being Gay, most likely never would have come up. SO why do something that you know will cost you the Scout rank you are seeking. I suppose it was principle, in that the Young Man decided he could not A) keep quiet about his sexual orientation even when the Policy of the BSA is not to ask youth members about it, and B) he could not find a deity to profess “faith to a higher power” too. On that I salute the Young Man, way to stick to your principles."

                                              [[The young man followed the stated principles of; honesty, integrity, trustworthyness, and others.]]

                                              "The issue I have is that after taking a principled stand against the BSA’s policy on faith and homosexuality he and his parents start a campaign to get the Eagle anyway. That is a problem, because he took an action that he knew, and his parents knew, would explicitly prevent him from getting the award but they don’t want to accept the responsibility for his action."

                                              [[Speculation here. It could be based on the recognized shift from the Xian deity to a watered down version which encompassed all faiths based on perceived political gain on the national level in the USA. It isn't much of a shift from there to be all inclusive for boys. There's also nothing saying a change to being all inclusive would start from 'time x' onward and not be retroactive. This would allow the organzation to fulfill its lofty goals.]]

                                              "That kind of defeats the purpose. Taking a principled stand is supposed to have some element of sacrifice in it. If you’re not sacrificing then your stand has no merit. In this case stop asking for something you know you are not entitled to under the BSA rules. You took your stand; you made you sacrifice, be proud of yourself and stop seeking the thing you are giving up."

                                              [[Covered in prior paragraph.]]

                                              "In closing, I wish the BSA would revise their policy on youth members. Most of these boys are too young, even at 18 to fully know who they are or what their sexual identity will be. Further no matter their sexual orientation it is not germane to the program."

                                              [[I agree.[[

                                              " On faith I support the program as is, it’s a core value that a Scout believes in God, any God so long as you believe in something greater than yourself. post 6.4"

                                              [[The core value *was* belief in the Xian God. The precept's been watered down to meaninglessness. Note; Your post fractured into a mixture of four different intermingled copies. I did my best to compile it into a single copy I could reply to. I hope I got it right. I will try to see if you do reply, but I can't promise I'll see it.]]

                                              Rgds;

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                                              #6.10 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:45 PM EDT

                                              "That kind of defeats the purpose. Taking a principled stand is supposed to have some element of sacrifice in it. If you’re not sacrificing then your stand has no merit. In this case stop asking for something you know you are not entitled to under the BSA rules. You took your stand; you made you sacrifice, be proud of yourself and stop seeking the thing you are giving up."

                                              I disagree. A principled stand should involve a risk of consequence, but should not necessarily result in a sacrifice. In this case, this young man's actions seem to be oriented towards pressuring BSA into changing their policy, which I applaud. He could have taken the easier path of remaining silent about his atheism or homosexuality and obtain the Eagle badge (and then post an anonymous blog criticizing the policy), but he chose to put himself on the line helping those that like the idea of scouting without the religious elements, who would otherwise have to hide their true selves.

                                              If BSA never changes its policy, he will have experienced a sacrifice. If they do, then he will have contributed to making BSA a more tolerant organization. In either case, what he did should be considered a "principled" stand.

                                                #6.11 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:55 PM EDT

                                                It is plain and simple. He lied. He did not uphold the Boy Scout Oath to be Morally Strait. He should have stayed out, and does not deserve the Eagle Scout Status.

                                                  #6.12 - Tue Jan 29, 2013 1:44 PM EST
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                                                  Bullying???? Come on, Andreson--bullying is activity or speech designed to humiliate someone and make him/her feel terrible about him/herself. That's not what happened here. You may consider the Boy Scouts to be intolerant, but they are not bullies.

                                                  Why would you want to be part of an organization that doesn't want you? You knew that the BSA does not allow homosexual members or leaders, so why did you remain a member?

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                                                  #7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:50 PM EDT

                                                  probably for the same reason Rosa Parks sat in the front of the bus.

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                                                  #7.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:53 PM EDT

                                                  I'm sorry but this isn't even close to the equivalent of Rosa Parks. She was fighting discrimination institutionalized in government regulation and law. The BSA is not government sponsored and has the right to set its own criteria for membership just like any other private organization. Once again, if he is truly that adamant, let him start a fully inclusive organization that does the same things as the Scouts. It is not his right to force them to change their rules to suit him. They have rights as well.

                                                  • 8 votes
                                                  #7.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:07 PM EDT

                                                  cjhs-

                                                  Is it too much to ask that you be accepted by an organization that you have been part of for many years? Or that you are allowed to get what you earned, regardless of your sexual orientation?

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                                                  #7.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:12 PM EDT

                                                  Actually the bullying is coming from this young person. He was on his way yo getting his Eagle scout pin but chose to highlight his sexual preference before he got it. Then he annouces it to the world knowing it would bring attention on himself . He wanted to embarass and humiliate a century old Organization for his own glory. Thats bullying. The fact is by his actions he has proven to be unworthy of the award because he emarrassed his scout master who was turning the other cheek and he is profiting by his self serving actions.

                                                  the BSA have rules just like any other organized group. You have the oportunity to follow those rules or not join or leave. Pretty simple. This person only wants attention and that attention got him at least $20,000 and probably more which was his REAL goal not change. He got his 15 minutes of fame.

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                                                  #7.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:19 PM EDT

                                                  Ooops, gagged on that one.

                                                  what a maroon!!!

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                                                  #7.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:32 PM EDT

                                                  Dean_Commentator....far as I understand it, the KKK was a private organization too. A few years ago, Tiger Woods would not have been allowed to play golf at The Masters cause the golf club was a private one. "Can't drink water here and can't use the bathroom here if you're black cause this is a private club". Pick your club, pick your victim, pick your exclusion.....discrimination smells in any era, and for all of us that are forced to sniff it. Folks should in fact start petitions and shine the light on this darkness. When the light shines on discrimination, things change...witness Chick-Fil-A.

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                                                  #7.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:36 PM EDT

                                                  "When the light shines on discrimination, things change...witness Chick-Fil-A."

                                                  Nothing changed at Chick-Fil-A. They had a Sr. Executive that personally believes that homosexuality is a sin. They still have the same Sr. Executive and he still believes that Homosexuality is a sin. The corporation had NO discriminatory policies against homosexuality and still has NO discriminatory polices.

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                                                  #7.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:56 PM EDT

                                                  "I'm sorry but this isn't even close to the equivalent of Rosa Parks. She was fighting discrimination institutionalized in government regulation and law"

                                                  Dean Commentator, you'r right, the BSA isn't a government. but they are another target in our (yes I'm gay) fight for equality. Gay's are being discriminated by the US government, our social security dies with us, we are taxed on health benefits when one person's employee benefits cover the other partner, most states don't have laws against workplace discrimination due to sexual orientation.

                                                  This is a battle for our equal rights, and the BSA has made themselves a part of that battle, by letting this kid grow up in scouting, then kick him out for who he grew into. I would bet that this kid did not identify himself as being gay when he first started with scouts, so I think it's pretty lame to deny him his eagle award. And I think its two-faced of the scoutmaster to encourage him, then deny him of the fruits of his labor (I know some jack-hole is going to make a fruit joke)

                                                  And finally, for all of you who wish the gays would just pipe down and remain second class citizens, would you rather we got a cut in our taxes for rights paid for and not received, or would you rather give up the protections that marriage offers you to create universal substandardness? Or of course we could make sexual orientation the non-issue that it should be and treat everyone equally and respectfully.

                                                    #7.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:22 PM EDT

                                                    And finally, for all of you who wish the gays would just pipe down and remain second class citizens, would you rather we got a cut in our taxes for rights paid for and not received, or would you rather give up the protections that marriage offers you to create universal substandardness?

                                                    Actually according to the law you are still single...... It would be no different for a straight person who was single. Are you saying you deserve special rights based upon your sexuality? Really? Single people don't get special rights based upon the fact that they are straight...... so technically you are equal to them.

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                                                    #7.9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:55 PM EDT

                                                    Unhappy,

                                                    Ridiculous circular logic.

                                                    The person is in a relationship. The person wants to marry another consenting adults. Why do heterosexuals couples get special privileges and homosexual couples do not? The answer: because of blatant discrimination that violates the basic principles of equality in our Constitution.

                                                    You can all do the all the arm-waving and hair-splitting you want, but progress will continue, DoMA will likely be overturned by the Supreme court. States will continue legalizing it. And potentially, once DoMA is overturned someone is likely to sue a state that doesn't recognize gay marriages of other states because it violates the Full Faith and Credit clause of the Constitution. In the event that happens, states will likely have to recognize same-sex marriages of other states. And at that point, the gay marriage debate will pretty much be over. Welcome to the 21st century.

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                                                    #7.10 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:03 PM EDT

                                                    They just need to change the laws and remove the word "marriage" from them and change it to partnership. Leave the fight over what is defined as marriage to the churches and different religions. That is the only controversy facing many of the changes to federal/state laws. Stop calling it a marriage and you will progress much further.

                                                      #7.11 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:58 AM EDT

                                                      The person is in a relationship. The person wants to marry another consenting adults. Why do heterosexuals couples get special privileges and homosexual couples do not? The answer: because of blatant discrimination that violates the basic principles of equality in our Constitution.

                                                      It is not the relationship that is the problem, it is the type of relationship. Siblings are not allowed to marry either even though they may be of legal age. Does that mean they are entitled to special privileges too? Would you say it was because of blatant discrimination? Nope..... they are just not allowed to marry.

                                                      Anyway this doesn't really have anything to do with the BSA.

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                                                      #7.12 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:36 AM EDT

                                                      They just need to change the laws and remove the word "marriage" from them and change it to partnership. Leave the fight over what is defined as marriage to the churches and different religions.

                                                      You and your bigoted ilk do not own the word "marriage". Furthermore, you are talking about changing THOUSANDS of laws, both federal and state -- an administrative nightmare, to say the least. And totally unnecessary, since legal marriage in this secular nation is and has always been strictly a civil contract.

                                                      Siblings are not allowed to marry either even though they may be of legal age.

                                                      Sex between siblings has always been illegal, while homosexuality has never been. If you want to make such stupid arguments (which the dumb bigots tried to make in 1967 against interracial marriage, and the arguments were just as dumb then), you might as well argue against heterosexual marriage -- because THAT is what has led to all of this.

                                                      • 1 vote
                                                      #7.13 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:10 AM EDT

                                                      ErinJ: YOU ARE A BIGOT. MY values are not yours. I don't have to listen to your crap about why you think the word marriage should be changed. The only views that are important are the ones that I use to control myself.

                                                      Sex between siblings has always been illegal, while homosexuality has never been. If you want to make such stupid arguments (which the dumb bigots tried to make in 1967 against interracial marriage, and the arguments were just as dumb then), you might as well argue against heterosexual marriage -- because THAT is what has led to all of this.

                                                      Apparently you were never made aware of the sodomy laws. Again, this shows your ignorance. This Boy Scout entered into an organization where they instituted a MORAL code.

                                                      Laws won't matter in this case.

                                                      He didn't have to join. Let me repeat that.....HE DIDN'T HAVE TO JOIN........HE DIDN'T HAVE TO JOIN......HE DIDN'T HAVE TO JOIN....... keep repeating that to yourself before you decide what you consider to be unfair.

                                                        #7.14 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:01 AM EDT

                                                        I don't have to listen to your crap about why you think the word marriage should be changed.

                                                        FYI, the definition of marriage has already changed -- and it has changed numerous times since this country's inception. YOU don't have to listen to my "crap," but the courts have, which is why the dumb bigots (like you) have LOST every step of the way, and you will continue to LOSE with the Supreme Court.

                                                        Apparently you were never made aware of the sodomy laws.

                                                        Can you really be that clueless? Sodomy laws were enacted against ANY sodomy, but were only enforced against homosexuals -- which is ONE reason why they were struck down by the Supreme Court. Furthermore, having laws against sodomy does not mean that homosexuality itself was illegal. Do you enjoy looking so stupid?

                                                        But how is all this relevant to the Boy Scouts?

                                                        One more thing I'll point out to you: Out of all of the various Boy Scouts affiliates worldwide, the Boy Scouts of America is the ONLY one that bars homosexuals. What does that say about this country? To me, it says that we are not as "tolerant" and "inclusive" as we portray ourselves; we still have too many bigots making decisions (like you).

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                                                        #7.15 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:09 AM EDT

                                                        Be a love and give us an example of when an how the definition of marriage changed in these United States Erin?

                                                          #7.16 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:29 PM EDT

                                                          Here is a list of how marriage has been redefined in this country since our inception:

                                                          • 1830 - Right of married woman to own property in her own name (instead of all property being owned exclusively by the husband) in Mississippi.
                                                          • 1848 - Right of married women to own property in her own name in New York.
                                                          • 1854 - The Republican party referred in its platform to polygamy as one of the "twin relics of barbarism" (in addition to slavery). At the time, polygamy was a practice of some Mormons.
                                                          • 1862 - The United States Congress enacted the Morrill Anti-Bigamy Act, signed by Abraham Lincoln, which made bigamy a felony in the territories punishable by $500 or five years in prison.
                                                          • 1873 - Supreme Court rules that a state has the right to exclude a married woman from practicing law.
                                                          • 1874 - Congress passed the Poland Act, which transferred jurisdiction over Morrill Anti-Bigamy Act cases to federal prosecutors and courts in Utah, which were not controlled by Mormons.
                                                          • 1879 - The Morrill Anti-Bigamy Act was upheld by the US Supreme Court in the case of Reynolds v. United States.
                                                          • 1882 - Congress passed the Edmunds Act, which prohibited not just bigamy, which remained a felony, but also bigamous cohabitation, which was prosecuted as a misdemeanor, and did not require proof an actual marriage ceremony had taken place. The law also allowed polygamists to be held indefinitely without a trial.
                                                          • 1887 - Congress passed the Edmunds-Tucker Act, which allowed prosecutors to force polygamist wives to testify against their husbands, and abolished the right of women in Utah to vote.
                                                          • 1890 - Mormons in Utah officially renounce polygamy through the 1890 Manifesto.
                                                          • 1900 - All states now grant married women the right to own property in their own name.
                                                          • 1904 - Mormons in Utah officially renounce polygamy again, excommunicating anyone who participates in future polygamy.
                                                          • 1907 - All women acquired their husband's nationality upon any marriage occurring after that date.
                                                          • 1933 - Married women granted right to citizenship independent of their husbands.
                                                          • 1948 - California Supreme Court overturns interracial marriage ban.
                                                          • 1965 - Supreme Court overturns laws prohibiting married couples from using contraception.
                                                          • 1967 - Supreme Court overturns laws prohibiting interracial couples from marrying (Loving v. Virginia).
                                                          • 1969 - The first no fault divorce law is adopted in California
                                                          • 1971 - Supreme Court upholds an Alabama law that automatically changed a woman's legal surname to that of her husband upon marriage.
                                                          • 1971 - Supreme Court refuses to hear challenge to Minnesota Supreme Court ruling allowing prohibition of same-sex marriages (Baker v. Nelson).
                                                          • 1972 - Supreme Court overturns laws prohibiting unmarried couples from purchasing contraception.
                                                          • 1973 - Maryland became to first state in the US to define marriage as between a man and a woman in statute.
                                                          • 1975 - Married women allowed to have credit in their own name. 3 states outlaw same-sex marriage by statutes.
                                                          • 1976 - Supreme Court overturns laws prohibiting abortions for married women without the consent of the husband.
                                                          • 1993 - All fifty states have revised laws to include marital rape.
                                                          • 1994 - 40 out of the 50 states amend their marriage statutes to outlaw same-sex marriage.
                                                          • 1996 - President Clinton signs the Defense of Marriage Act into law, which outlaws both same-sex marriage and polygamy through a statute under the federal Government.
                                                          • 1998 - 2 states (Alaska and Hawai’i) for the first time outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy by their state Constitutions, because of fear from Courts striking down statutes. South Carolina was the penultimate state in the US to remove the ban on interracial marriage in its state Constitution.
                                                          • 2000 - Nebraska amends its state constitution to outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy, while Alabama became the last state in the US to remove the ban on interracial marriage in its state Constitution.
                                                          • 2002 - Nevada amends its state constitution to outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy.
                                                          • 2004 - Massachusetts grants and recognizes same-sex marriages, while 14 states rushed to outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy through their state Constitutions in response.
                                                          • 2005 - Texas amends its state constitution to outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy.
                                                          • 2006 - 26 states outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy through their state Constitutions.
                                                          • 2008 - Since March, New York recognizes same-sex marriages performed in other places but do not grant such marriages. Since November Connecticut grants and recognizes same-sex marriages. Briefly from June 2008 California grants same-sex marriage until the passage of Proposition 8 later in the year, but continues recognizing marriages entered into prior to the proposition's passage. 29 states outlaw same-sex marriage and polygamy through their state Constitutions.
                                                          • 2009 - Iowa and Vermont grant and recognize same-sex marriages; Since July the District of Columbia recognizes same-sex marriages performed in other places but does not grant such marriages. Maine rescinds planned legalization of same-sex marriage with 53 percent of a popular vote on November 3, 2009.
                                                          • 2010 - New Hampshire (from 1 January) and the District of Columbia (from 3 March) grants and recognizes same-sex marriages. Maryland (from 24 February) recognizes same-sex marriages performed in other jurisdictions.
                                                          • 2011 – New York begins granting same-sex marriages.
                                                          • 2012 – A federal appeals court upholds the district court decision that struck down California's ban on same-sex marriage (the case is expected to be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court)
                                                          • 2 votes
                                                          #7.17 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:38 PM EDT

                                                          marriage has always been one man , one woman, long before our founding of america. It has not changed in america. That standard one man, one woman. What you are trying to define are rights with in a marriage between man and woman or womans rights ect ect

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                                                          #7.18 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:35 PM EDT

                                                          marriage has always been one man , one woman, long before our founding of america. It has not changed in america. That standard one man, one woman. What you are trying to define are rights with in a marriage between man and woman or womans rights ect ect

                                                          Not just that. Marriage used to be only between "one man and one woman of the same race", and yet this has fortunately changed. The Bible forbids marriages between people of different nations and religions (Deuteronomy 7:3-4; 2 Corinthians 6:14-18), and yet this is considered perfectly normal today. Furthermore, Jesus was very explicit about divorce (Luke 16:18), and today it is perfectly legal and hardly anyone questions it. The "together 'till death do you part" used to be (and for may Christians it still is) a core element of the definition of marriage, but society has fortunately evolved and now permits married couples to split up, sparing millions of spouses and children the pain of an unhappy marriage.

                                                          This is just further proof that Christian notions of marriage are slowly becoming irrelevant, unless Christians are willing to adapt their Holy Book to modern times. In 20-30 years time, I bet this whole debate about same-sex marriage will be just a bad memory.

                                                            #7.19 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:37 PM EDT

                                                            Actually Coolnfriends your not quite correct.. Corinthians is reffering to believers not to marry NON believers. We are not to become unevenly yolked. The bible does not say a white is not to marry black , or chinese cant marry irish ect ect .. Only believers to non believers.

                                                            As for Christians adapting, that is the main issue. God knows best, and if you havent looked lately at our society and the broken homes, fatherless children, kids being born our of wedlock, younger suicide rates up sky high, marriage divorces even Higher, with Gay marriages in other countries even higher yet.

                                                            I dont change the bible to fit my views or world views. I change my views to fit the bible and the truth and morals of what God prefers, not what I prefer.

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                                                            #7.20 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:47 PM EDT

                                                            You are correct Marmaduke49 regarding the prohibition to marry non believers. However, if you read that verse (and the one in the Old Testament) in its proper context, you'll find that by "non believers" it refers to anyone outside of the Judeochristian faith (as it is made clear by the references to those that worship "other gods"). Today, everyone is free to marry outside their religion. A triumph of love over bigotry.

                                                            As for interracial marriage, my claim was that there used to be a prohibition against it, not that the Bible advised against it. The prohibition was applied by social convention and the law, and it wasn't questioned until later in the twentieth century - the point of that part of my post was only to show how definitions of marriage change over time.

                                                            As for the "broken homes, fatherless children, kids being born out of wedlock", etc., I would pick that any day over unhappy or abusive marriages. No longer are women (and children) forced to stay with a man that mistreats them or doesn't love them. Society has no right to impose a relationship to those that no longer want it, or in fact suffer because of it. How do you reconcile a loving, free-will-promoting God with one that imposes something so draconian? Legalizing divorce was definitely a step forward. I am glad I am no longer a Christian, and I hope for the sake of human happiness that modern Christians will continue to adapt to this time.

                                                              #7.21 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 5:34 PM EDT

                                                              marriage has always been one man , one woman, long before our founding of america.

                                                              WRONG. Same-sex marriage existed in ancient civilizations, and our own Native Americans also performed same-sex marriages.

                                                              The early Egyptian and Mesopotamian societies that are considered important antecedents for Western culture apparently not only tolerated same-sex relationships, but also recognized such relationships in their culture, literature, and mythology. Evidence of same-sex marriage is at best indirect in these ancient societies, however. One finds slightly stronger and more direct evidence of same-sex marriages in Greek and early Roman culture, in imperial Rome, and in Western Europe for much of the Christian Middle Ages.

                                                              ...after examining the few pertinent records (including legal documents), as well as the literature, myths, and artifacts of this period, one might tentatively conclude that most ancient cultures did not prohibit same-sex relationships, nor did many stigmatize them. Although the evidence is debatable, some of the ancient cultures may have treated same-sex relationships similarly to marriages involving different-sex partners.

                                                              Further evidence of same-sex relationships may be found in Mesopotamian statutes, which have been preserved, escaping the fate of the lost Egyptian laws. None of Mesopotamia's early legal codes-the Laws of Urukagina (2375 B.C.), the Laws of Ur-Nammu (2100 B.C.), the Laws of Eshnunna (1750 B.C.), the Laws of Hammurabi (1726 B.C.), and the Hittite Laws (circa 800 B.C.)-prohibited or disapproved of same-sex relationships, 59 even though sex and marriage were otherwise heavily regulated. Indeed, the Hittite Laws can be read to suggest that same-sex marriage was legally as well as culturally sanctioned in at least some parts of ancient Mesopotamia.

                                                              http://digitalcommons.law.yale.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2503&context=fss_papers&sei-redir=1&referer=http%3A%2F%2Fscholar.google.com%2Fscholar_url%3Fhl%3Den%26q%3Dhttp%3A%2F%2Fdigitalcommons.law.yale.edu%2Fcgi%2Fviewcontent.cgi%253Farticle%253D2503%2526context%253Dfss_papers%26sa%3DX%26scisig%3DAAGBfm3g-8j65ZGkoAK-51evCqzlRZWkOA%26oi%3Dscholarr#search=%22http%3A%2F%2Fdigitalcommons.law.yale.edu%2Fcgi%2Fviewcontent.cgi%3Farticle%3D2503%26context%3Dfss_papers%22

                                                              You keep forgetting (or ignoring) the fact that the bible does not make our laws, Marmaduke; we are a secular nation -- and our laws are not based on works of fiction.

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                                                              #7.22 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:03 PM EDT

                                                              And you keep forgetting , I could care less what You think and your beliefs no matter how true you think they are. God is the first, even if there are record of marriages, It began with one God, the God of the bible, and God made it woman and Man for each other, period.

                                                              As for a secular nation, we are not, I dont know how many times I need to debate you all on this. We are a nation of Chrsitians based on Christian Values, with our founding fathers most of them Christians, NOT deists , only a few were. OUr supreme Justices of the past, said we should vote for people of christian values, and we are a christian nation. Our founding fathers lived by their religion daily, they were not scared to express it in public. Supreme court views have changed in the last 50 years due to the huge liberal movement and political correctness movement, along with so much misunderstanding and misinformation of people thinking that Church and State exists in the constitution. They viewed other religions as imposter religions, and that Christianity is our religion.

                                                              Now with that being said, no where did I say we are to be forced to be christians, live like christians. No one is forcing that, but I feel as they felt, that our government is better off by voting for people who do believe in God of the bible, and have the moral values of the bible. So many of you guys want to twist and distort the truth of it all, but I will not let you say we are a secular nation. History just doesnt support that

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                                                              #7.23 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:09 AM EDT

                                                              God is the first, even if there are record of marriages, It began with one God, the God of the bible, and God made it woman and Man for each other, period.

                                                              It began LONG before anyone believed in God, Marmaduke; marriage -- and civilization -- existed for thousands of years before that time. And those civilizations allowed same-sex marriage. PERIOD.

                                                              As for a secular nation, we are not, I dont know how many times I need to debate you all on this. We are a nation of Chrsitians based on Christian Values, with our founding fathers most of them Christians, NOT deists , only a few were.

                                                              There is no "debate" on this, either, Marmaduke: we are, and have always been, a secular nation. Our Founding Fathers were primarily Deists who distrusted organized religion in general, and Christianity in particular, and felt that whatever their personal religious beliefs, they did not want future generations to suffer the same religious persecution that they and/or their families had undergone. Furthermore, our laws and government are based in English common law, and documents like the Magna Carta -- no "Christian values" involved.

                                                              OUr supreme Justices of the past, said we should vote for people of christian values, and we are a christian nation.

                                                              We are not now, and have never been, a "Christian nation" in any way, shape, or form. And while some Supreme Court Justices may have believed that our leaders should be people of "Christian values," the fact remains that the Constitution contains Article VI, which specifically provides that "...no religious test shall ever be required as a qualification to any office or public trust under the United States." And that is in addition to the First Amendment, which specifically provides for the separation of church and state.

                                                              If this country is a "Christian nation," then explain why the Constitution, which is the foundation of our laws and government, contains NO reference to God, Jesus, the bible, or any other religious text or deity. If this country was founded on "Christian values," then explain why NONE of those "values" are included in the Constitution, which is the foundation of our laws and government. If this country is a "Christian nation," then explain why the Supreme Court has expressly ruled AGAINST the inclusion of ANY approval or endorsement of religion; in fact, the Court has specifically provided that NO law or ruling can promote ANY personal religious belief without an accompanying secular state interest. If this country is a "Christian nation," explain why the Founding Fathers included in the Constitution, the foundation of our laws and government, an Amendment that specifically provides freedom OF and FROM religion. If this country is a "Christian nation," explain why some of our key Founders, including Jefferson, Madison, and Franklin, specifically and explicitly opposed mixing church and state.

                                                              So many of you guys want to twist and distort the truth of it all, but I will not let you say we are a secular nation. History just doesnt support that

                                                              I'd like to see you try to stop me from telling the truth about this country: that we are, and have always been, a secular nation. History supports nothing else (except on your planet, apparently).

                                                              Apparently, when it was time for US history, you were too busy reading the encyclopedia of your ass and decided that was more interesting, because you have proven repeatedly that you know NOTHING about the history of this country. One of my minors was US history, so I will not let you spread such bull@!$%# around about it.

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                                                              #7.24 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:36 AM EDT

                                                              There is no "debate" on this, either, Marmaduke: we are, and have always been, a secular nation. Our Founding Fathers were primarily Deists

                                                              This is a bold face lie. I have already had this debate , that you were around .. I showed how many were of what christian faith, and how many were deists. There were only a few that were deists, the rest were of a Christian faith.

                                                              Your minor in US history sucks. I dont know who is teaching you but I would be more then happy to have a debate with them in US history. I would be more then happy to set them straight with TRUE history and not some twisted washed down version of it , so many of you revisionists seem to be doing to our christian nation.

                                                              Being of a a certain christian denomination was part of the standard to hold a position in office in the states in our beginning.

                                                              If this country is a "Christian nation," explain why the Founding Fathers included in the Constitution, the foundation of our laws and government, an Amendment that specifically provides freedom OF and FROM religion.

                                                              You sicken me with your dogmatic view when you toss FROM religion in there. You might fool those who dont know any better erin, but I know your a snake in the grass with twisting history. FROM religion, you make me sick how you just add words to the constitution to try to make it mean something it doesnt. Get a new minor erin because yours isnt working. ALso tell your teacher who ever it is I said they are wrong ./

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                                                              #7.25 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:56 AM EDT

                                                              I showed how many were of what christian faith, and how many were deists. There were only a few that were deists, the rest were of a Christian faith.

                                                              What you have "shown" is nothing more than your David Barton-sanctioned version of US history, which has been debunked by REAL historians, with REAL evidence.

                                                              I dont know who is teaching you but I would be more then happy to have a debate with them in US history.

                                                              Then you can debate the professors at Cornell University, if you feel that you know better than they do.

                                                              Being of a a certain christian denomination was part of the standard to hold a position in office in the states in our beginning.

                                                              That was BEFORE the Constitution was written and ratified. Any states that still had such laws after that time were not allowed to enforce them; six states still had such laws on their books after that time, until Torcaso v. Watkins settled the issue once and for all. After the US declared its independence from Britain, seven states had requirements that officeholders be Protestant, while three required that they be Christians.

                                                              BTW, at least 10 of our Presidents, starting with James Madison, had NO religious affiliation, or their religious views were "doubtful". Furthermore, Theodore Roosevelt, John Quincy Adams, and Lyndon Johnson did NOT use a bible when they were sworn in. And the majority of Americans today say they would vote for an atheist as President.

                                                              You sicken me with your dogmatic view when you toss FROM religion in there. You might fool those who dont know any better erin, but I know your a snake in the grass with twisting history. FROM religion, you make me sick how you just add words to the constitution to try to make it mean something it doesnt. Get a new minor erin because yours isnt working. ALso tell your teacher who ever it is I said they are wrong

                                                              Marmaduke, you are such a deluded POS that it's almost not worth arguing with you, because it's so easy to prove you wrong. There can be no freedom OF religion without freedom FROM religion.

                                                              You christo-bigots sicken me and all other rational, intelligent people with your constant unfounded claims that this country is a "Christian nation" or that it was built on "Christian values". If YOU are an example of what having "Christian values" does to a person, perhaps it's time we require that ANY officeholder (especially the President of the United States) be an atheist. People like you are nothing more than terrorists: you rewrite history and deliberately misconstrue our laws and governing documents to suit your own determination to inflict your so-called "morality" on everyone else. That is not "morality," Marmaduke: it is IMMORALITY of the most egregious kind.

                                                              Oh, and your contention that we are a "Christian nation" because the majority of Americans are Christians is ludicrous in the extreme; in the first place, the US is not a country of majority rule; and in the second, if you follow that convoluted "logic" to its natural conclusion, you could also say that the US is a "white" country because the majority of Americans are white; that the US is a "Protestant nation" since more than half of all Americans identify as Protestant; or that we are a "German nation" since people of German ancestry make up the largest ethnic group in this country.

                                                              Seriously, go to history class -- and civics class, too. You obviously missed BOTH.

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                                                              #7.26 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:49 AM EDT

                                                              Marmaduke, you are such a deluded POS that it's almost not worth arguing with you, because it's so easy to prove you wrong. There can be no freedom OF religion without freedom FROM religion.

                                                              Once again erin your view is beyond reasoning. Once again your making a huge assumption by adding and leaving out words. How about all of it.

                                                              "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion..."

                                                              ...or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech..."

                                                              Erin the words FROM does not exist, and when you add them the way you do , you are guilty of butchery of our history and documents.

                                                              I posted a question a while back on an actual american history forum, and have people who are specialized in this subject.
                                                              So far from what I have read in responses seems that we are a christian nation, with the right to freely express our christian views whether your in office, or at your job, or talking about it publicly. They have shown me that people are guilty of just using snips and clips from early documents, or personal words. When everything is put together and left in total context, we are , or i should say, we were a christian nation, until people like you have twisted the view.

                                                              I do have some books they offered up to read as a starting point.

                                                              The Faiths of Our Fathers: What America's Founders Really Believed: Alf J.,Jr. Mapp: 9780742531147: Amazon.com: Books

                                                              Founding Faith: Providence,Politics,and the Birth of Religious Freedom in America [Hardcover]: Steven Waldman: Amazon.com: Books

                                                              American Colonies: The Settling of North America (The Penguin History of the United States,Volume1) (Hist of the USA): Alan Taylor: 9780142002100: Amazon.com: Books

                                                              A Leap in the Dark: The Struggle to Create the American Republic: John Ferling: 9780195176001: Amazon.com: Books

                                                              Empire of Liberty: A History of the Early Republic,1789-1815 (Oxford History of the United States): Gordon S. Wood: 9780199832460: Amazon.com: Books

                                                              And yes I would be more than happy to debate such professors. Give me an email to one of them and I will begin.

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                                                              #7.27 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:31 PM EDT

                                                              You know what you can do with those books, Marmaduke -- or do you need me to spell it out for you? Of course the only reason you believe them is because they are the only sources you consult. You have not bothered to consider both sides of the issue, and your own faith prevents you from seeing it objectively. That is called "bias," Marmaduke, and you are full of it (among other things you're full of).

                                                              The Supreme Court has stated emphatically -- more than once -- that we are not a "Christian nation," and that we are a secular nation.

                                                              You cannot grasp the concept that there is no freedom OF religion without freedom FROM religion. People can worship AS they choose, IF they choose.

                                                              My professors would find you and your arguments laughable to say the least, and have better things to do with their time (although it would take them all of about five minutes -- after they'd finished laughing at your pompous bull@!$%# -- to completely dismantle your "arguments").

                                                              What a moron.

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                                                              #7.28 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:50 PM EDT

                                                              Erin if they wanted us to be free FROM religion they would have said it.. Do they say it erin ? Do they ? Stop lying to yourself and to people on here. I hope people with half a brain can read exactly what it says. Also what you like to do is just use bits and clips to try to prove your point, ripping something out of context to make it fit your agenda.

                                                              Use the entire First ammendment ERIN and choke on the truth of what it says.

                                                              "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion..."

                                                              ...or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech..."

                                                              How much more clear can this be. You seem to think there is some hidden agenda with this wording. It was wrote as plain as day to be followed as plain as day, we have the right to exercise our religious views when ever and where ever, whether in private or in the public in politics Period.

                                                              On the american history forum I was on, they warn of people like you , who rip just little parts of founding fathers words , instead they say to read the ENTIRE document or bill or what ever in its entirety and you will clearly see how they felt, and one of them was a bill that Thomas Jefferson was doing to get passed. I dont have that here either, but it showed me that if i want to see how much of a nation of christian views this was, just read everything in the entire context.

                                                              Also the Supreme Courts did defend our views as a christian nation and our government and christian views were very much intermingled until thes epast 50 years when people like you distort it and try to change things.

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                                                              #7.29 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:44 PM EDT

                                                              Erin if they wanted us to be free FROM religion they would have said it

                                                              They didn't think they needed to say it, Marmaduke, because rational and intelligent people understand that you can't have one without the other. They also didn't say explicitly that we have a right to privacy, but the Supreme Court has found that to be so -- and it was always understood to be so. They also didn't explicitly say we have a right to marry, but the Supreme Court has found that to be so, and we have always understood that to be so.

                                                              But if you want to be literal, tell me where in the First Amendment the words "freedom of religion" are. It actually says

                                                              Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

                                                              BTW, the Supreme Court actually incorporated the Establishment Clause on the states in 1947 -- quite a bit more than 50 years ago (but I guess math doesn't matter to the uneducated). And Reynolds v. US was decided in 1879, and that was quite an important decision in the separation of church and state. So YOU are lying by trying to make anyone believe that the Supreme Court has only interpreted the First Amendment correctly in the last 50 years.

                                                              It was wrote as plain as day to be followed as plain as day, we have the right to exercise our religious views when ever and where ever, whether in private or in the public in politics Period

                                                              "It was wrote"? ROFLMAO! Yes, we have the right to exercise our religious views -- except in politics and government. PERIOD. We also have the right to exercise NO religious views, if we choose to not to worship at all. That is what the First Amendment is all about.

                                                              Laws are made for the government of actions, and while they cannot interfere with mere religious belief and opinions, they may with practices. Suppose one believed that human sacrifices were a necessary part of religious worship; would it be seriously contended that the civil government under which he lived could not interfere to prevent a sacrifice? Or if a wife religiously believed it was her duty to burn herself upon the funeral pile of her dead husband; would it be beyond the power of the civil government to prevent her carrying her belief into practice?

                                                              Reynolds v. US, 98 US 145 (1878)

                                                              I'm sure that those on your American history forum don't like what I have to say, nor do they like the fact that the Founding Fathers would agree with me, as does the Supreme Court. YOU can misinterpret and misconstrue the Constitution to your heart's content, and try to twist the meanings of the words and the intent of our Founding Fathers, but the truth is far different -- whether you admit it or not. PERIOD.

                                                              Jefferson didn't just reject the Christian belief that the Bible was "the inspired word of God"; he rejected the Christian system too. In Notes on the State of Virginia, he said of this religion, "There is not one redeeming feature in our superstition of Christianity. It has made one half the world fools, and the other half hypocrites" (quoted by newspaper columnist William Edelen, "Politics and Religious Illiteracy," Truth Seeker, Vol. 121, No. 3, p. 33). Anyone today who would make a statement like this or others we have quoted from Jefferson's writings would be instantly branded an infidel, yet modern Bible fundamentalists are frantically trying to cast Jefferson in the mold of a Bible believing Christian. They do so, of course, because Jefferson was just too important in the formation of our nation to leave him out if Bible fundamentalists hope to sell their "Christian-nation" claim to the public. Hence, they try to rewrite history to make it appear that men like Thomas Jefferson had intended to build our nation on "biblical principles." The irony of this situation is that the Christian leaders of Jefferson's time knew where he stood on "biblical principles," and they fought desperately, but unsuccessfully, to prevent his election to the presidency.

                                                              James Madison, Jefferson's close friend and political ally, was just as vigorously opposed to religious intrusions into civil affairs as Jefferson was. In 1785, when the Commonwealth of Virginia was considering passage of a bill "establishing a provision for Teachers of the Christian Religion," Madison wrote his famous "Memorial and Remonstrance Against Religious Assessments" in which he presented fifteen reasons why government should not be come involved in the support of any religion. This paper, long considered a landmark document in political philosophy, was also cited in the majority opinion in Lee vs. Weisman. The views of Madison and Jefferson prevailed in the Virginia Assembly, and in 1786, the Assembly adopted the statute of religious freedom of which Jefferson and Madison were the principal architects. The preamble to this bill said that "to compel a man to furnish contributions of money for the propagation of opinions which he disbelieves is sinful and tyrannical." The statute itself was much more specific than the establishment clause of the U. S. Constitution "Be it therefore enacted by the General Assembly, That no man shall be compelled to frequent or support any religious worship, place or ministry whatsoever, nor shall be enforced, restrained, molested, or burthened in his body or goods, nor shall otherwise suffer on account of his religious opinions or belief; but that all men shall be free to profess, and by argument to maintain, their opinions in matters of religion, and that the same shall in nowise [sic] diminish, enlarge, or affect their civil capacities".

                                                              Here is firsthand testimony from the rectors of the church that Washington attended with his wife, and they both claimed that he never participated in the communion service. Writing in the Episcopal Recorder, the Reverend E. D. Neill said that Washington "was not a communicant, notwithstanding all the pretty stories to the contrary, and after the close of the sermon on sacramental Sundays, [he] had fallen into the habit of retiring from the church while his wife remained and communed" (Remsberg, p. 107). In this article, Neill also made reference to Abercrombie's reprimand of Washington from the pulpit, so those who knew Washington personally or who knew those who had known him all seem to agree that Washington was never a "communicant." Remsberg continued at length in his chapter on Washington to quote the memoirs and letters of Washington's associates, who all agreed that the president had never once been known to participate in the communion service, a fact that weakens the claim that he was a Christian. Would preachers today consider someone a devout Christian if he just attended services with his wife but never took the communion?

                                                              As for Washington's membership in the vestry, for several years he did actively serve as one of the twelve vestrymen of Truro parish, Virginia, as had also his father. This, however, cannot be construed as proof that he was a Christian believer. The vestry at that time was also the county court, so in order to have certain political powers, it was necessary for one to be a vestryman.

                                                              These terms by which Washington referred to "God" in his inaugural address are dead giveaways that he was Deistic in his views. The uninformed see the expression "nature's God" in documents like the Declaration of Independence and wrongly interpret it as evidence of Christian belief in those who wrote and signed it, but in reality it is a sure indication that the document was Deistic in origin. Deists preferred not to use the unqualified term "God" in their conversation and writings because of its Christian connotations. Accordingly, they substituted expressions like those that Washington used in his inaugural address or else they referred to their creator as "nature's God," the deity who had created the world and then left it to operate by natural law.

                                                              At the constitutional convention, Luther Martin a Maryland representative urged the inclusion of some kind of recognition of Christianity in the constitution on the grounds that "it would be at least decent to hold out some distinction between the professors of Christianity and downright infidelity or paganism." However, the delegates to the convention rejected this proposal and, as the Reverend Bird Wilson stated in his sermon quoted above, drafted the constitution as a secular document. God was nowhere mentioned in it.

                                                              As a matter of fact, the document that was finally approved at the constitutional convention mentioned religion only once, and that was in Article VI, Section 3, which stated that "no religious test shall ever be required as a qualification to any office or public trust under the United States." Now if the delegates at the convention had truly intended to establish a "Christian nation," why would they have put a statement like this in the constitution and nowhere else even refer to religion? Common sense is enough to convince any reasonable person that if the intention of these men had really been the formation of a "Christian nation," the constitution they wrote would have surely made several references to God, the Bible, Jesus, and other accouterments of the Christian religion, and rather than expressly forbidding ANY religious test as a condition for holding public office in the new nation, it would have stipulated that allegiance to Christianity was a requirement for public office. After all, when someone today finds a tract left at the front door of his house or on the windshield of his car, he doesn't have to read very far to determine that its obvious intention is to further the Christian religion. Are we to assume, then, that the founding fathers wanted to establish a Christian nation but were so stupid that they couldn't write a constitution that would make their purpose clear to those who read it?

                                                              As for the religious beliefs of the general population in pre and post revolutionary times, it wasn't nearly as Christian as most people think. Lynn R. Buzzard, executive director of the Christian Legal Society (a national organization of Christian lawyers) has admitted that there is little proof to support the claim that the colonial population was overwhelmingly Christian. "Not only were a good many of the revolutionary leaders more deist than Christian," Buzzard wrote, "but the actual number of church members was rather small. Perhaps as few as five percent of the populace were church members in 1776" (Schools They Haven't Got a Prayer, Elgin, Illinois David C. Cook Publishing, 1982, p. 81). Historian Richard Hofstadter says that "perhaps as many as ninety percent of the Americans were unchurched in 1790" (Anti-Intellectualism in American Life, New York Alfred A. Knopf, 1974, p. 82) and goes on to say that "mid-eighteenth century America had a smaller proportion of church members than any other nation in Christendom," noting that "in 1800 [only] about one of every fifteen Americans was a church member" (p. 89). Historian James MacGregor Burns agrees with these figures, noting that "(t)here had been a `very wintry season' for religion every where in America after the Revolution" (The American Experiment Vineyard of Liberty, New York Vintage Books, 1983, p. 493). He adds that "ninety percent of the people lay outside the churches."

                                                              Historians, who deal with facts rather than wishes, paint an entirely different picture of the religious composition of America during its formative years than the image of a nation founded on "biblical principles" that modern Bible fundamentalists are trying to foist upon us. Our founding fathers established a religiously neutral nation, and a tragedy of our time is that so many people are striving to undo all that was accomplished by the wisdom of the founding fathers who framed for us a constitution that would protect the religious freedom of everyone regardless of personal creed. An even greater tragedy is that they many times hoodwink the public into believing that they are only trying to make our nation what the founding fathers would want it to be. Separation of church and state is what the founding fathers wanted for the nation, and we must never allow anyone to distort history to make it appear otherwise.

                                                              http://www.infidels.org/library/modern/farrell_till/myth.html

                                                              But you keep clinging to your pathetic delusions, Marmaduke; don't let pesky facts get in the way of them.

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                                                              #7.30 - Sun Oct 14, 2012 4:16 PM EDT

                                                              Erin NJ - Be nice! Jesus loves you.

                                                              by
                                                              Dave Miller, Ph.D.

                                                              Those who insist that America was not intended to be a “Christian nation” point to the obvious absence of specific directives regarding Christianity in the federal Constitution. The popular propaganda since the 1960s has been that “the irreligious Framers did not want the nation to retain any attachment to the Christian religion.” Such an assertion is a monstrous perversion of historical fact. The truth of the matter is that they were fearful of the potential interference by the federal government in its ability to place restrictions on the free exercise of the Christian religion. Consequently, they desired that the specifics of religion be left up to the discretion of the several states.

                                                              Nevertheless, we must not think for a moment that the federal Framers did not sanction the nation’s intimate affiliation with Christianity, or that they attempted to keep religion out of the Constitution. On the contrary, the Christian religion is inherently assumed and implicitly present in the Constitution. In fact, the United States Constitution contains a direct reference to Jesus Christ! Consider three proofs for these contentions (SeeConstitution of the United..., 1789).

                                                              First, consider the meaning of the First Amendment to the Constitution: “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof....” We have been told that, by “establishment of religion,” the Framers meant for the government to maintain complete religious neutrality and that pluralism ought to prevail, i.e., that all religions (whether Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, or Hinduism), though equally tolerated, must not be given any acknowledgement in the public sector. But such an outlandish claim is absolutely false. All one has to do is to go directly to the delegate discussions pertaining to the wording of the First Amendment in order to ascertain the context and original intent of the final wording (Annals of Congress, 1789, pp. 440ff.). The facts of the matter are that by their use of the term “religion,” the Framers had in mind the several Protestant denominations. Their concern was to prevent any single Christian denomination from being elevated above the others and made the State religion—a circumstance that the Founders had endured under British rule when the Anglican Church was the state religion of the thirteen colonies. They further sought to leave the individual States free to make their own determinations with regard to religious (i.e., Christian) matters (cf. Story, 1833, 3.1873:730-731). The “Father of the Bill of Rights,” George Mason, actually proposed the following wording for the First Amendment, which demonstrates the context of their wording:

                                                              [A]ll men have an equal, natural and unalienable right to the free exercise of religion, according to the dictates of conscience; and that no particular sect or society of Christians ought to be favored or established by law in preference to others (as quoted in Rowland, 1892, 1:244, emp. added).

                                                              By “prohibiting the free exercise thereof,” the Framers intended to convey that the federal government was not to interfere with the free and public practice of the Christian religion—the very thing that the courts have been doing since the 1960s.

                                                              Second, consider the wording of a sentence from Article I, Section 7 of the Constitution: “If any Bill shall not be returned by the President within ten Days (Sundays excepted) after it shall have been presented to him, the Same shall be a Law, in like Manner as if he had signed it....” “Sundays excepted”? The government shuts down and does not transact business on Sunday? Why? If this provision had been made in respect of Jews, the Constitution would have read “Saturdays excepted.” If provision had been made for Muslims, the Constitution would have read “Fridays excepted.” If the Founders had intended to encourage a day of inactivity for the government without regard to any one religion, they could have chosen Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday. Instead, the federal Constitution reads “Sundaysexcepted”—proving conclusively that America was Christian in its orientation and that the Framers themselves shared the Christian worldview and gave political recognition to and accommodation of that fact.

                                                              Third, if these two allusions to Christianity are not enough, consider yet another. Immediately after Article VII, the Constitution closes with the following words:

                                                              Done in Convention by the Unanimous Consent of the States present the Seventeenth Day of September in the Year of our Lord one thousand seven hundred and Eighty seven and of the Independence of the United States of America the Twelfth....

                                                              Did you catch it? Their work was done “in the Year of our Lord.” The Christian world dates all of human history in terms of the birth of Christ. “B.C.” means “before Christ,” and “A.D.” is the abbreviation for the Latin words “anno Domini,” meaning “year of our Lord.” If the Framers were interested in being pluralistic, multi-cultural, and politically correct, they would have refrained from using the B.C./A.D. designation. Or they would have used the religionless designations “C.E.,” Common Era, and “B.C.E.,” Before the Common Era (see “Common Era,” 2008). In so doing, they would have avoided offending Jews, atheists, agnostics, and humanists. Or they could have used “A.H.” (anno hegirae—which means “in the year of the Hijrah” and refers to Muhammad’s flight from Mecca in A.D. 622), the date used by Muslims as the commencement date for the Islamic calendar. Instead, the Framers chose to utilize the dating method that indicated the worldview they shared. What’s more, their reference to “our Lord” does not refer to a generic deity, nor does it refer even to God the Father. It refers to God the Son—an explicit reference to Jesus Christ. Make no mistake: theConstitution of the United States contains an explicit reference to Jesus Christ—not Allah, Buddha, Muhammad, nor the gods of Hindus or Native Americans!

                                                              Let’s get this straight: The Declaration of Independence contains four allusions to the God of the Bible. The U.S. Constitution contains allusions to the freedom to practice the Christian religion unimpeded, the significance and priority of Sunday worship, as well as the place of Jesus Christ in history. So, according to the thinking of the ACLU and a host of liberal educators, politicians, and judges, the Constitution is—unconstitutional! Go figure.

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                                                              #7.31 - Sat Oct 20, 2012 12:58 PM EDT

                                                              BTW, the Supreme Court actually incorporated the Establishment Clause on the states in 1947 -- quite a bit more than 50 years ago (but I guess math doesn't matter to the uneducated). And Reynolds v. US was decided in 1879, and that was quite an important decision in the separation of church and state. So YOU are lying by trying to make anyone believe that the Supreme Court has only interpreted the First Amendment correctly in the last 50 years.

                                                              Excuse me, 65 years ago , we good now ? SO now were only talking about 2 court cases out of how many thousands of others ? You have a clear mis understanding of the wall of separation. The wall is meant for the government to not be able to establish a state religion. That was the issue back then. No where did it ever indicate that people of faith can not express their religious views. The wall was meant for one thing and one thing only. If it was meant to be a two way wall then they would had specifically stated , people of faith should not be in office, nor let their faith influence their decisions. When you read about our early american fathers, you will see this couldnt be farther from the truth. Their lives were guided by the influence of God. But no where do they ever try to impose their religion and make people worship God, or make the USA have some state religion. That would be the reason for the Separation. As i said no where do they ever indicate people in public office need to have lives void of religion. It was part of their lives, a big part.

                                                              "It was wrote"? ROFLMAO! Yes, we have the right to exercise our religious views -- except in politics and government.

                                                              WRONG !!! That is just your progressive liberal view. Where in the world does anything say in any document in our beginning that religous views are not allowed in politics and government ? You seriously think they never spoke about God at their meetings ? Or held prayers before their meetings asking for divine influence and guidance for this nation ? I hate when people try to strip away the beliefs of our ancestors and try to make early america like it was void of God.

                                                              Reynolds v. US, 98 US 145 (1878)

                                                              I'm sure that those on your American history forum don't like what I have to say, nor do they like the fact that the Founding Fathers would agree with me, as does the Supreme Court. YOU can misinterpret and misconstrue the Constitution to your heart's content, and try to twist the meanings of the words and the intent of our Founding Fathers, but the truth is far different -- whether you admit it or not. PERIOD.

                                                              Your more then welcome to come to the History Forums. At least there the conversations are more civilized and not some name calling event like here all the time. Historum.com i think is the website

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                                                              #7.32 - Sun Oct 21, 2012 11:28 AM EDT
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                                                              A faltering step in the right direction, but a right step none the less.

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                                                              Reply#8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:51 PM EDT

                                                              Chic-Fil-A didn't back down or change their position.

                                                              The radical gays are claiming they backed down so they could claim another 'victory'.

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                                                              #8.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:09 PM EDT

                                                              I know..... I think maybe 6 gay couples showed up on what was a failed demonstration.

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                                                              #8.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:57 PM EDT
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                                                              There is NO need for change. Form your own damn group and stop cramming your filth down everybody elses throat!! You know the rules BEFORE you join. If you dont like them, DONT JOIN!! This is why political correctness makes me want to puke!!

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                                                              Reply#9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:52 PM EDT

                                                              as i'm sure your ancestors new the rules when they came to this country.. looking for the opportunity to be treated fairly and equally...

                                                              you're wrong and dated. someone build this guy a time machine so he can go back to the 50's and beat up black people without consequence

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                                                              #9.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:56 PM EDT

                                                              This young man joined when he was a child. I doubt he knew what gay was or even thought about sexuality at the time.

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                                                              #9.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:04 PM EDT

                                                              truetexan

                                                              So at seven years of age you knew the riles of every organization you joined?

                                                              How the hell is equality political correctness?

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                                                              #9.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:04 PM EDT

                                                              why is it that when somebody thinks one way about an issue like this crap everybody makes comments about other things like beating up blacks or jews? The BSA has the right not to allow what ever they want to or have rules for a reason to not corrupt young people with this GARBAGE about being gay is ok, ITS NOT!

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                                                              #9.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:06 PM EDT

                                                              Why must bigots try and cram their filthy hate down everyone elses throats? Bigotry is ugly and the people who embrace it are a blight on society.

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                                                              #9.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:08 PM EDT

                                                              Would YOU have known you were gay at 7, 8, 9..years of age???? And then what: Sorry Dad and Mom, I can't be a boy scout-they won't let me join-I think I may be gay. Another complete idiot posting in here. I, personally, think the 'rule' is just SO WRONG. The BSofA better start changing their 'way of thinking' or the whole organization will be shut down. Baden-Powell must be turning over in his grave.

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                                                              #9.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:20 PM EDT

                                                              joe spence

                                                              Actually it is OK to be gay, kind of like its ok to have blue eyes, can't help either.

                                                              Yes they have the right to not allow gay people in their group and we have a right to disagree with them strongly.

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                                                              #9.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:25 PM EDT

                                                              Filth? OK, then you are a bible thumping breeder. Gotta love name calling...

                                                              A$$hole. I got your filth right here>>>

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                                                              #9.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:34 PM EDT

                                                              Would YOU have known you were gay at 7, 8, 9..years of age???? And then what: Sorry Dad and Mom, I can't be a boy scout-they won't let me join-I think I may be gay.

                                                              So when did he find out he was gay. At 14? Was it before he tried to become and Eagle Scout? Then yes, I say he knew what he was doing when he continued to LIE.

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                                                              #9.9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:00 PM EDT

                                                              So if he comes out, he's no longer a worthy scout and if he hides who he is, he lied and no longer a worthy scout. It's nothing but a conundrum. At least he doesn't have to hide who he is to please those who won't accept him for who he is.

                                                                #9.10 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:06 AM EDT

                                                                truetexan-- What you call filth is a misconception. People fall in love with who they fall in love with. Anything gay couples engage in very often are the same things Hetero's engage in.

                                                                Be careful running your mouth about gays wherever you are,some of them might teach you a lesson about mutual respect. Not every gay man prances around. Some could probably tie you in a knot 6 different ways.

                                                                By the way, don't compare yourself to other Texans some of us have a mind and respect other people regardless of their lifestyle.

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                                                                #9.11 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:26 AM EDT

                                                                So if he comes out, he's no longer a worthy scout and if he hides who he is, he lied and no longer a worthy scout. It's nothing but a conundrum. At least he doesn't have to hide who he is to please those who won't accept him for who he is.

                                                                I'm saying he could no longer fulfill his obligations to be in the BSA. As an eagle scout, he will be set apart as an example to others. Can you honestly say his deception is what others should do in order to get ahead? People on this site, judge pastors for exhibiting any type of sin whether it be for child molestation, adultery,etc..... Are you saying that you can judge them and this person is not allowed to be judged?

                                                                That's hypocrisy!

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                                                                #9.12 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:42 AM EDT

                                                                What "deception" has he perpetrated, Unhappy?

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                                                                #9.13 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:11 AM EDT

                                                                Augure666

                                                                So if he comes out, he's no longer a worthy scout and if he hides who he is, he lied and no longer a worthy scout. It's nothing but a conundrum. At least he doesn't have to hide who he is to please those who won't accept him for who he is.

                                                                So then we shoudl show the same equality for maybe elemtary school teachers that might be secretly a pedophile , or perhaps someone who killed kids over in some other country, but he decided to come out also and let the public know he did all these things.. You think parents will still feel the same way about the teacher ? What is the standard of being a teacher is someone who doesnt lust for kids, or has no past criminal record, and 20 years later they find out, or he comes out saying what he has done, does he still fit the standard of being in a position of school teacher ?

                                                                  #9.14 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:51 PM EDT
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                                                                  Asia for Asians, Africa for Africans, White countries for EVERYBODY??????

                                                                  Everybody says there is this RACE problem. Everybody says this RACE problem will be solved when the third world pours into EVERY white country and ONLY into white countries."

                                                                  The Netherlands and Belgium are more crowded than Japan or Taiwan, but nobody says Japan or Taiwan will solve this RACE problem by bringing in millions of third worlders and quote assimilating unquote with them.

                                                                  Everybody says the final solution to this RACE problem is for EVERY white country and ONLY white countries to "assimilate," i.e., intermarry, with all those non-whites.

                                                                  What if I said there was this RACE problem and this RACE problem would be solved only if hundreds of millions of non-blacks were brought into EVERY black country and ONLY into black countries?

                                                                  How long would it take anyone to realize I'm not talking about a RACE problem. I am talking about the final solution to the BLACK problem?

                                                                  And how long would it take any sane black man to notice this and what kind of psycho black man wouldn't object to this?

                                                                  But if I tell that obvious truth about the ongoing program of genocide against my race, the white race, Liberals and respectable conservatives agree that I am a naziwhowantstokillsixmillionjews.

                                                                  They say they are anti-racist. What they are is anti-white.

                                                                  Anti-racist is a code word for anti-white.

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                                                                  Reply#10 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:52 PM EDT
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                                                                  #10.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:00 PM EDT

                                                                  Most "Races" don't care to be Superior to everyone else.. they only want to be treated "Equal". Only the white race has that obsession for power and dominance.. and they fear anyone else be given the same rights and power. (Ask the Pilgrims)

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                                                                  #10.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:04 PM EDT

                                                                  Gee, that must be why Japan invaded China and dominated it for so long. That must be why Ghengis Khan ruled over a land larger than the domain of Alexander the Great. That must be why there is so much tribal conflict in Africa. Come off of it. Every 'race' has had conquest somewhere in its history.

                                                                    #10.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:12 PM EDT

                                                                    When people, all of them, realize there is only one race, the human one, then we will be all right.

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                                                                    #10.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:13 PM EDT

                                                                    Well that was entertaining.

                                                                      #10.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:51 PM EDT
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                                                                      Just because you are against something doesn't mean you hate the people/person involved. This kid can do what he wants but don't be mad at the organization or try to make them change their values! THAT is wrong! They are allowed to have standards. If you don't like their policy, don't be a part of it.

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                                                                      Reply#11 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:54 PM EDT

                                                                      well said

                                                                        #11.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:02 PM EDT

                                                                        That HOMO is a celebraty now. He was on Ellens show! He will be making a vidio titled"THE BOYSCOUTS MADE ME CRY"All you homos can cry along with him!!

                                                                          #11.2 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 3:19 AM EDT
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                                                                          All Scouts groups are overseen by the Mormons, so I'm not shocked they don't like Homosexuals. From the top down, the scouts are no longer what they used to be. I would not be a part of them without great embarrassment. A shame most parents are unaware of the Mormon ties.

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                                                                          Reply#12 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:55 PM EDT

                                                                          I read that somewhere. But the Catholic church also has its hands into scouting and has been there for a VERY VERY long time. I know that BYU offers a degree major in scouting.

                                                                          I'm not sure that I view these ties as a negative. After all... if you have ever been deeply involved in scouting... you know what I mean.

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                                                                          #12.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:02 PM EDT

                                                                          "All Scout groups" I belonged to the scouts as a youth and came from an area that had no Mormons. Besides what does being a Mormon have to do with the standards set by the Scouts themselves. If you don't like their position, don't join them.

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                                                                          #12.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:13 PM EDT

                                                                          Actually the BSA at the national level is controlled by both the Mormons and Southern Baptists, two cults which have historically been profoundly racist and homophobic.

                                                                          At the local troop level things are different, and usually far more tolerant.

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                                                                          #12.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:21 PM EDT

                                                                          Either way, I would not be proud to be part of an organization whose highest leaders are ultimately bigots. I was a scout for many years, earned my badges, rose through the ranks honorably, and have good memories and learned. But, have lost respect for the leadership and name 'Scouts'. Maybe it is time to start a more honorable group of enterprising youth.

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                                                                          #12.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:21 PM EDT

                                                                          I was a den leader for a Mormon congregation. We had to register our troop with the BSA just like everyone else. The Mormon Church does support Scouting, but does not "oversee" the BSA. Many military bases, schools, and other orgs have scout troops.

                                                                          I can't wait until my son gets old enough to join Scouts. It's a great organization. If you think that troops are teaching hatred and intollerance, obviously you've never been to a pack meeting...just rediculous. When I was a scout, I didn't even know that this was a rule b/c the question of sexuality never even came up. To me, it sounds like this was a non-issue until the "almost-Eagle" made it one.

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                                                                          #12.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:58 PM EDT

                                                                          @Wendy

                                                                          what is your source regarding who "runs" the Scouts? In my experience, you will find things quit different based upon which geographical area you live in, and the vast majority are focused on community service and leadership- not pushing a political agenda.

                                                                          Though media outlets do push social agendas under the cover of journalism. As the article quotes one-sided souces for the entire story, I would say that it lacks credibility - entirely. It's good only for generating comments, but of minimal value as a source of reliable information.

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                                                                          #12.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:10 PM EDT

                                                                          Wendy-3462028

                                                                          All Scouts groups are overseen by the Mormons, so I'm not shocked they don't like Homosexuals. From the top down, the scouts are no longer what they used to be. I would not be a part of them without great embarrassment. A shame most parents are unaware of the Mormon ties

                                                                          Catholics are ALSO against homosexuality not to mention THOUSANDS of other religions are ALSO against homosexuality,so what's your point? Besides trying to make this about who is running for president. It's aridiculous and pathetic attempt to try to make someone running for president look bad. So I guess Joe Biden who is Catholic shouldn't be in office either b/c Catholics do not accept homosexuals either. You ARE the embarrassment.

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                                                                          #12.7 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 11:19 AM EDT

                                                                          Wendy1071 - Catholics are ALSO against homosexuality not to mention THOUSANDS of other religions are ALSO against homosexuality,so what's your point?

                                                                          Ummmm.....it's the Catholic hierarchy which hates gays, not Catholics in general. For example, 71% of Catholics support marriage equality even though their church leaders don't.

                                                                          Just like with the BSA, it's the leaders who are the dumb bigots.

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                                                                          #12.8 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:18 PM EDT
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                                                                          "Gay scouting?" Nonsequiter defined.

                                                                            Reply#13 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:55 PM EDT

                                                                            The BSA has had this policy forever! This is nothing new. If you don't like it, don't be a part of it or expect special treatment.

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                                                                            Reply#14 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:57 PM EDT

                                                                            Amen! I couldn't have said it better. This country used to be a melting pot for the common good, now it is a tossed salad of "my rights". When and where do your rights come into conflict with my rights. Or as a Christian, do I have any?

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                                                                            #14.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:08 PM EDT

                                                                            Humphs- I'm so tired of Christians who complain about their rights being violated. Complainers are mostly conservatives who want to pass laws to make it criminal to disagree with them on issues like abortion and gay marriage. You ought to try talking to non-Christians about their experiences.

                                                                            PS- before you label me a Christian-hater, I need to mention that I've been very active as a Christian in churches all my adult life.

                                                                              #14.2 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:10 AM EDT

                                                                              Wow.

                                                                                #14.3 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:45 AM EDT

                                                                                Hi GeorgeBurnsWasRight,

                                                                                It just goes to show why the Vatican is pulling out of America. We have people who are gay sneaking into the Priesthood, we have people like you claiming tht being a downright queer is right, and being active in our Christian churches spreading their poison. The earth truely belongs to Satan, and you are proof of it.

                                                                                  #14.4 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:51 PM EDT
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                                                                                  Just watched the video. Wow... no one saw this coming? Probably if he didn't "come out" just before getting the award... nothing would have been said because there would be nothing to say. Oh well... he saw an opportunity and took it.

                                                                                  The scoutmaster should have signed off. Its not his responsibility to interpret corporate policies or enforce them. Apparently, the scoutmaster has some antigay leanings that are getting in the way of his personal decision to refuse to sign off.

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                                                                                  Reply#15 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:58 PM EDT

                                                                                  It is time to publically identify the scout master. Maybe some marches on his home and family will wake the turd up.

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                                                                                  Reply#16 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:59 PM EDT

                                                                                  Rich-807761 You can protest all you want. I wouldn't mind seeing you get the snot beat out of you.

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                                                                                  #16.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:09 PM EDT

                                                                                  Rich-807761,

                                                                                  What you advocate is bullying. That would be a blatant attempt to humiliate or coerce that man into doing your will instead of what his conscience or his obligation to the organization required.

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                                                                                  #16.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:14 PM EDT

                                                                                  I agree with Rich - the dumb bigot should be exposed. If he's so proud to be a homophobe, why doesn't he publicly accept personal responsibility for those views?

                                                                                  After all it's the scout master who encouraged Ryan to do all the work for the Eagle badge, and then turned around and denied it to him.

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                                                                                  #16.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:23 PM EDT

                                                                                  So protesting is bullying now? Scouts have 'their' rights but we are not allowed to protest? My, my. Stinks of stiffling the 1st amendment to me.

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                                                                                  #16.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:47 PM EDT

                                                                                  Dean-801011,

                                                                                  Protesting isn't bullying, but I think "It is time to publically identify the scout master. Maybe some marches on his home and family will wake the turd up" definately qualifies as bullying.

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                                                                                  #16.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:39 PM EDT

                                                                                  Scouting is fun- interesting that you completely ignored the post about "not minding seeing you get the snot beaten out of you".

                                                                                    #16.6 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:14 AM EDT
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                                                                                    The Boy Scouts have principles that they believe in strongly. I support their right to believe as they do AND for this young man to do the same. His rights cannot trample their rights and vice versa. It is their organization and he is arrogant to think that they should bend to his will. He knew the policy and chose to stay. He must think that they are, in fact, correct or he would have left. Parents choose to allow their children in the scouts because they believe in the principles of the scouts.

                                                                                    The real question is does the religion the boy chooses condone homosexuality? If not, it proves the Scouts position- "morally straight".

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                                                                                    Reply#17 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:01 PM EDT

                                                                                    I'm sorry that this young man feels he was denied the recognition he had worked for but he knew, his father knew, and pretty much the entire country knows that the Boy Scouts don't permit gay men into the organization. If you choose to flout their rules then you should expect something like this. I don't necessarily agree with their policies but then again I'm not a scout, never have been. Just because we don't like someone's opinion is no reason to try to force them to change. If you are that adamant about it, then start your own, fully inclusive organization. It's not bullying to say, "These are our rules. If you want to be in our club then you must abide by them." It's the right of the organization to set those rules unless they are sponsored by a government entity and they aren't. I'd love to see tolerance going both ways for a change.

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                                                                                    Reply#18 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:01 PM EDT

                                                                                    I don't completely agree.

                                                                                    The scout master knew the boy was gay, allowed him to remain in the troop and to continue to work on his eagle scout badge. That created an expectation that he and his homosexuality were accepted.

                                                                                    The scout master failed to enforce "the rules" until it came time to make the award, then he denied it. That is disgraceful and the scout master should be forced to resign.

                                                                                    But I do agree that this situation should not be used to make the Boy Scouts change their policy. That has already been challenged and settled in court.

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                                                                                    #18.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:07 PM EDT

                                                                                    I think the scoutmaster was trying to let it slide since it was not public knowledge. If I read correctly, the young man came out before getting the award. It was at that point that the scoutmaster could no longer look the other way.

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                                                                                    #18.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:15 PM EDT

                                                                                    The BSA has a don't ask don't tell policy which applies to members and leaders who are gay, atheist, or agnostic. As long as you pretend to be attracted only to the opposite sex, and to have some kind of religious belief you can remain in the organization. It is more a mater of keeping up appearances than being honest and truthful.

                                                                                      #18.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:50 PM EDT

                                                                                      Look.... this isn't the NAZI youth. You don't have to join if you don't want to.

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                                                                                      #18.4 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:52 AM EDT

                                                                                      This is so typical of these vines. People accusing the BSA of hatred against gays and atheists, when all you have to do is read any vines regarding gays or religion to see that gays and atheists are some of the most hateful and intolerant people on around. The hypocrisy is laughable as usual!!!!

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                                                                                      #18.5 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:15 AM EDT
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                                                                                      I think the policies of the Boy Scouts are despicable. I think the scout master, who knew this boy was gay, allowed him to remain in the troop, to continue to work towards his eagle scout award, and when the work was done denied the award is disgraceful. The scout master is a piece of sh*t.

                                                                                      BUT, as strong as my indignation may be, the ability of the Boy Scouts to not allow homosexual scout masters and scouts have been challenged and upheld in the courts. I may personally disagree with, but I have to respect the rule of law.

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                                                                                      Reply#19 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:02 PM EDT

                                                                                      Well said, Chris.

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                                                                                      #19.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:06 PM EDT

                                                                                      Hi,

                                                                                      The BSA is for boys not faggots. It is to try to teach boys how to become MEN, not perverts, or queer sex partners. Get one thing straight (if you can) straight males don't like homosexuals, we despise you, we don't want to even see you, hate is to weak of a term. You break every rule of nature. Think about it, if we all became homsexuals, who would repopulate the world.

                                                                                      The BSA don't allow girls in, they don't cry about being dicriminated against, they started their own club, called Girl Scouts of America. Have you tried joining them?

                                                                                      If you don't like our rules. to bad. We didn't change our rules for the girls, and I don't think we will change them for a bunch of limp wristed crying faggots either.

                                                                                      Why don't you just start your own club, called the Faggots of America, their you could teach such things as you know proper whatever you homo's do.

                                                                                      But

                                                                                      Don't try teaching how to be real men, you definetly failed that in high school.

                                                                                        #19.2 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:29 PM EDT
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                                                                                        I cannot understand how the scout master knew for quite some time that he was gay and encouraged him to go for his Eagle Badge. Now when he reaches it he denies it. Picket the guys home, work, place of worship etc. He is a bully and a homophobe.

                                                                                        Wouldn't be funny if one of his kids turn out gay....

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                                                                                        Reply#20 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:03 PM EDT

                                                                                        And you know... one of the leaders in his troop if not all of them had to sign off on the scout's accomplishments many times on his way through various ranks toward Eagle. I wonder what he said to the boy... if anything?

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                                                                                        #20.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:10 PM EDT

                                                                                        Hi Rich,

                                                                                        He was probably trying to be nice, and trying to teach his real boy scouts, how to cope with real world situations, like there are times when there are things you aren't going to like but you just have to put up with them and ignore the main subject, like a person being gay. Back in the old days if a man was like this he would have to hide it, because if the populus knew they would force him out of their tribe, and out into the wild by himself where mother nature would take care of the queer problem, get the hint, MOTHER NATURE usually took care of the problem, the queer baby became sabre tooth tiger feces, but you queers should like that, after all you are always trying to get in that way.

                                                                                          #20.2 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:36 PM EDT
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                                                                                          This boy had to raise his right hand and state the Boy Scout Oath probably a thousand times during his scout career.

                                                                                          On my honor I will do my best
                                                                                          To do my duty to God and my country
                                                                                          and to obey the Scout Law;
                                                                                          To help other people at all times;
                                                                                          To keep myself physically strong,
                                                                                          mentally awake, and morally straight.

                                                                                          Maybe he didn't understand.

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                                                                                          Reply#21 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:03 PM EDT

                                                                                          Yes he did. That is a fact!

                                                                                          We live in a land of hypocracy. So this really is no surprise is it?

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                                                                                          #21.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:06 PM EDT

                                                                                          What's there to not understand?

                                                                                          The oath says he will do his "duty to God." It doesn't say which one. From what I understand, the BSA allows their members to hold a variety of religions. So unless they vetted every single religion as "god hates homos" religion, it's very well possible that his "God" doesn't think homosexuality is bad.

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                                                                                          #21.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:28 PM EDT

                                                                                          So is every sin a failure to do duty to God, and therefore every sinner should be kicked out of the BSA? Or is being gay somehow a worse sin than others?

                                                                                            #21.3 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 5:00 AM EDT

                                                                                            The oath says he will do his "duty to God." It doesn't say which one. From what I understand, the BSA allows their members to hold a variety of religions. So unless they vetted every single religion as "god hates homos" religion, it's very well possible that his "God" doesn't think homosexuality is bad.

                                                                                            Except in every religion, where they look to a higher power, homosexuality is considered forbidden. So name one religion where " GOD" doesn't think homosexuality is bad?

                                                                                              #21.4 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:50 AM EDT
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                                                                                              The fact that this teenager likes penis in his mouth and rectum is an absolute shame, a disgrace to society and utterly disgusting. That was his choice. There is “NO” other species on earth that has intercourse with the same sex except man and women kind. You might see a dog humping here or there but you will never see a dogs penis in another dogs but. Now that we defined gay, I know of virgin women and women in their 40’s and they chose to remain virgin. They are not twisted, they are not perverted and gay? They chose their path just as heterosexuals have.

                                                                                              Homosexualitaly does nothing good for society, procreation, or evolution. If I ran an all boys club where it teaches honor, respect, and everything good.. I sure would not want some penis sucking qu-eer looking at all the boys private parts when they are taking a piss. Go find a queer group to join and spread your HIV and aids infection somewhere else! Everyone knows all the mail gays are HIV positive. Everyone I know that is Gay and a man has HIV... It is the big secrete they won't tell you!!

                                                                                              We don't want our kids around this type of poor behavior!!

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                                                                                              Reply#22 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:04 PM EDT

                                                                                              Actually, you are the one that is disgusting. What an uneducated, bigoted moron you are.

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                                                                                              #22.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:16 PM EDT

                                                                                              I the "facts" you stated were actually true you might have a point. However there is homosexuality in the animal world, even necrophilia (you look it up). Not all homosexuals have HIV or AIDS, just as not all heterosexuals have syphilis. It is already established that homosexualit is NOT a choice. If you choose use your brain only to seperate your ears, that is your choice. Should you choose to use it for its intended purpose you might just educate yourself out of your prejudices.

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                                                                                              #22.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:19 PM EDT

                                                                                              It doesn't sound very nice when it is truthfully told does it? These people are sick (literally with HIV). I know it is hard to read but do you really want your teenage boy doing that??? You have the right to support this type of activity and poor judgement and I have the right to tell it what it is!! Perverted and twisted!!

                                                                                              No specie does this but humans!!

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                                                                                              #22.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:22 PM EDT

                                                                                              Do you want to know what also does nothing good for procreation or evolution?

                                                                                              A female taking a penis in the mouth or up the butt. But nobody seems to have a problem with that.

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                                                                                              #22.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:37 PM EDT

                                                                                              RR...,

                                                                                              I'm an Eagle Scout. I'm gay. I would like to send my awards and accomplishments back to the organization.

                                                                                              That said, everything you've stated is just ignorant. ALL animal species have homosexual behavior.

                                                                                              Further, I don't have HIV....and of the dozens of other gay people I know, only one or two is living with HIV. I do, however, know lots of straight people with HIV, and they did not get it from homosexual contact.

                                                                                              What's my point? You're really just an idiot.

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                                                                                              #22.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:38 PM EDT

                                                                                              I agree with Andrew. RR123 you are nothing but a low life. I am sure God is going to have lots of fun watching you burn in hell for the injustices you are doing to his creations. You are probably a in the closet homosexual. Most people who protest the loudest usually are to try and hide their insecurities.

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                                                                                              #22.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:51 PM EDT

                                                                                              You don't know God or His Bible gathering from your comment. You worship your feelings and think every thought that comes into your head is true.

                                                                                              Read the Bible so you can learn how God Almighty thinks about all the important issues. You can do it.

                                                                                                #22.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:18 PM EDT

                                                                                                RR123. I KNOW him, he's a flaming self-hating fruit-loop.

                                                                                                They're the worst kind. Trolling bathroom stalls in public places.

                                                                                                  #22.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:43 PM EDT

                                                                                                  What a disgusting assh*le you are. Likewise you bible totting jerks. I'd like you to explain how so many scout masters have, like their priestly perverts, been molesting these kids.

                                                                                                    #22.9 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:22 PM EDT
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                                                                                                    Oh...the BSA will change their policy...when they start losing donations and their tax-exempt status so they CAN'T accept donations.

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                                                                                                    Reply#23 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:06 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Wrong again. The BSA will change their policy when they decide to become an atheist, humanistic organization.

                                                                                                    In the meantime, Good job BSA for standing with Godly morals and ethics.

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                                                                                                    #23.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:15 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Well said Herald9

                                                                                                      #23.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:00 PM EDT

                                                                                                      Congratulations on the pin from your fellow scout. You should be getting it from the national office. My son is an Eagle Scout and got his pin this summer. NO, he is NOT gay. But, he would be very proud of you. Stay the hard working and caring young man that you are.

                                                                                                        #23.3 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:16 AM EDT

                                                                                                        Well said Herald9, good backup ScoutingIsFun, and kudzupatch, how can a faggot stay the hard working and caring young man, to be a man you have to notice and be after the female gender as mother nature intended in ever plant and animal. The only thing this queer boy will earn in the future is HIV, which in some way will cost you and the government taxpayers money. I am really happy that your son isn't gay, but I am somewhat concerned about you.

                                                                                                        Congratulating a homosexual is like patting a rabid dog. Neither is a good thing.

                                                                                                          #23.4 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:49 PM EDT
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                                                                                                          There was an article the other day regarding BSA allowing and hiding evidence showing they knew about their scout leaders molesting and sexually assulting their boy scouts. BSA values ? WTF.

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                                                                                                          Reply#24 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:07 PM EDT

                                                                                                          I would say that is not uncommon in religiously based organizations and institutions. They would rather cover something up and protect their precious godly image than do the right thing and take care of problems.

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                                                                                                          #24.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:10 PM EDT

                                                                                                          I've been part of my Protestant church for 32 years and can say that you are wrong.

                                                                                                          BTW: The right thing to do, always, is agree with God and not rebel against Him. Nobody ever wins a fight with God.

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                                                                                                          #24.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:12 PM EDT

                                                                                                          The BSA is not a religious organization, but it does have a history of problems with adult, heterosexual child molesters.

                                                                                                          Pedophiles are a risk in any children's organization - scouts, schools, church groups. Look at the Sandusky story.

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                                                                                                          #24.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:07 PM EDT

                                                                                                          Just as the Catholic church homosexuals are infiltering and screwing up everything that man has held sacred for centuries. Americans today are weak, they won't stand up for what they believe is right, therefore we have illegal immigrants infilterating the country and slowly tearing down what Americans have built up for the past 200 years, we also have homosexuals infilterating the system and tearing down what we taught was morally right. We won't get rid of illegal immigrants or homosexuals until we let our politicians know that we don't want or like this.

                                                                                                          Take a look at our country, remember when you knew who your neighbor was, that you knew everyone around your neighborhood, if you didn't like the politician running your town, you gathered together with a bucket of hot tar and feathers and ran his derlick butt out of town, then re-elected a new mayor.

                                                                                                          We Americans have become afraid, and the politicians know this and try to keep us in fear, which keeps us apart, we no longer talk to each other and say no to what they are doing, therefore the politicians knowing that we are living in fear do what they want and do things to keep us in fear, like project housings, they purposely move bad people into communities that the people are close together to instill fear in your neighborhood therefore keeping you apart and having more control of your community.

                                                                                                          Take a good look around you, is your city in financial trouble, are they cutting the police and fire department employees to save money, is crime up in your city, town etc. Are the politicians still receiving huge salaries. Are you planning to install bars on your windows, steel doors, security systems, how about are you planning to buy a gun, or do you already have one for protection.

                                                                                                          Why are we being bullied into spanish, why is spanish and no other languages being incorporated into our life style. Why is Obama making citizens out of illegal immigrants through a certain age limit?

                                                                                                          and finally

                                                                                                          Why is America supporting homosexuality, when our forefathers forbid this and had extablished sodomy laws which have all but been repelled?

                                                                                                          Let's start asking questions, and demanding that our laws as established by our forefathers be upheld.

                                                                                                            #24.4 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:12 PM EDT

                                                                                                            Smerf--The answer to most of your "why" questions is that most people have learned something in the last 200 years. I doubt 200 more would help you, however. Fortunately you are in the minority.

                                                                                                              #24.5 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 4:11 PM EDT
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                                                                                                              Sorry. That's like forcing a church to perform same-sex marriage. Why should it be forced on them? Apparently there was no problem with the guy who gave him his medal because he made it through and got the medal and he was gay. So, the only reason it was denied is because he had to make a point of it. Doesn't seem fair when he knew the policy (which had been in place since the beginning).

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                                                                                                              Reply#25 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:07 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Sorry. That's like forcing a church to perform same-sex marriage.

                                                                                                              No, it's not. Scouting is not protected by the First Amendment.

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                                                                                                              #25.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:08 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Very Interesting,

                                                                                                              No one is forcing churches to perform same-sex marriages. Even in places where same-sex marriage is legal, churches do not have to perform them. There are special protections in the law that allow churches to conduct their services as they see fit. A church can legally deny marrying anyone it chooses and they already do so. For example, many churches deny conducting services for those who are not members of the church. They also deny conducting services when one of the people getting married is of a different faith or denomination. Please make sure you understand your facts.

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                                                                                                              #25.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:50 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Very Interesting - That's like forcing a church to perform same-sex marriage. Why should it be forced on them?

                                                                                                              Sounds like your name should be "Very Clueless".

                                                                                                              Apparently you've never heard of the 1st Amendment and have confused a legal contract with a religious rite.

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                                                                                                              #25.3 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:20 PM EDT
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                                                                                                              i'm glad my boys are grown, i'd never send my sons out in a tent, over nite, alone in the tent, with a known gay boy.....i will discourage my daughter from putting my grandson in scouts.....shall we call them "the gay transgender scouts of america" now??

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                                                                                                              Reply#26 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:09 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Then you are part of the problem.

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                                                                                                              #26.1 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:11 PM EDT

                                                                                                              You're over reacting... I'm pretty sure gays don't recruit boys to be gay... Now if one of your sons turns out to be gay... then YOU could have a problem.

                                                                                                              Hey... you never know :-)

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                                                                                                              #26.2 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:16 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Better have your daughter keep him indoors, home schooled and sheltered from other people so he won't run into any gay and lesbian types in the real world. We surely wouldn't want to him to have an open mind, now would we, grandma?

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                                                                                                              #26.3 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:33 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Linda, the best thing your daughter could do for her grandson is to keep him away from an ignorant bitch like you.

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                                                                                                              #26.4 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:41 PM EDT

                                                                                                              Andrew

                                                                                                              That was soooooooooooooooo funny. Thank you.

                                                                                                                #26.5 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:15 PM EDT

                                                                                                                Linda, if they were called the gay transgender scouts of america, then this kid would ahve gotten his eagle award and there wouldn't be a story. so feel free to encourage your grandchildren to join scouts since they are anti gay, then maybe they will learn to be just as narrowminded as their grandmother.

                                                                                                                  #26.6 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:29 PM EDT

                                                                                                                  And most people with any kind of Morals Linda would not, of course here on msn you are out numbered because the free will, anything goes society with no morals will out number the few that oppose. Just like Rome. People in the 21st century on their own have chose to modify the word of God to suit their needs, and that is a very serious mistake. Modifying the word of God, well I don't want to be in those shoes.

                                                                                                                  One day all will have to answer for the road they choose.

                                                                                                                    #26.7 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:55 PM EDT

                                                                                                                    Promod,

                                                                                                                    Hilariously, if anyone has modified the word of God, it's Christians. Unless you're an Orthodox Catholic, you have changed the sacrements, you have changed what is and isn't considered sinful (divorce, anyone?). You've changed marriage rites, including for your own pastors. You've changed all kinds of things over hundreds of years. And suddenly NOW you have a problem with the changes? It's the obvious specific bias against homosexuality that makes it so apparent that this has nothing to do with the God or the Bible. If it did, where is the outrage about all the other changes? All the other sins people commit on a daily basis that no one still adheres to?

                                                                                                                    It's patently obvious that people are using God and their religion as an excuse to justify their hate and fear of a group of people. And, assuming God does exist, you will be answering to Him for that.

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                                                                                                                    #26.8 - Fri Oct 12, 2012 10:13 PM EDT

                                                                                                                    there ain't no badge for gayness...most folks like it better when sexuality isn't a factor...in their dealing with groups...who cares what some some young puss...wants you to know his sexual preference...

                                                                                                                      #26.9 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:49 AM EDT

                                                                                                                      When you Judge someone on what they do with their Private parts.. you are Superficial Person ...there's alot more to a person than their Sexuality...and if you don't get that ..you are one unevolved Human being...and also time to check where you fall ..on The Kinsey Scale...

                                                                                                                        #26.10 - Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:11 AM EDT
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