Police: Shaima Alawadi's death was domestic violence not hate crime, arrest husband

Reuters

The husband of Shaima Alawadi, Kassim Alhimidi, holds a picture of his slain wife in April 2012.

Police have arrested the husband of an Iraqi woman beaten to death in her home eight months ago for what initially looked like a racially motivated hate crime, U-T San Diego reported, citing jail records in El Cajon, Calif., in San Diego County.

Kassim Alhimidi, 48, was booked into jail Thursday evening on one count of first-degree murder. He is being held without bail.

"After months of hard work, we determined that this homicide was a result of domestic violence," El Cajon Police Chief Jim Redman said Friday, NBCSanDiego.com reported.

Shaima Alawadi, 32, was found bloody and unconscious with multiple skull fractures in her family's home on March 21. She died in the hospital three days later.


The couple’s 17-year-old daughter told police she was in her bedroom when the attack took place. She found her mother unconscious and called 9-1-1.

Family members said they had found a note near Alawadi's body telling the family to go back where they came from. They said they had found a similar note at their home weeks earlier, but they didn't keep it or report it.

Police said at the time they were investigating the possibility of a hate crime.

Alawadi's horrific death sparked fear and anger among immigrants who believed the crime targeted her because she was Muslim or because of her country of origin.

Thousands of supporters wearing the traditional Muslim hijab headscarf signed on to a Facebook page called "One Million Hijabs For Shaima Alawadi."

Later court documents emerged suggesting family tensions, and showing that Alawadi was preparing to divorce her husband and move with her children to be with relatives in Texas.

Affidavit: Iraqi beating victim in California had friction with daughter, husband

After Alawadi's death, Alhimidi traveled to Iraq for her burial and returned two weeks later.

Redman told reporters that investigators did not have any reason to keep Alhimidi in the country at the time, NBCSanDiego.com reported.

"He came back, and we decided he was a person of interest after he came back," Redman said without giving specifics.

The couple's minor children have been taken into protective custody

More content from NBCNews.com:

Follow US news from NBCNews.com on Twitter and Facebook

 

Discuss this post

Looked/smelled like domestic violence from the get-go. Honestly, I thought it was the teenage daughter more so than the husband. Her "traumatic" interview on camera was just bizarre. Wonder if this is a trap to get her to confess? Regardless, I hope that they convict the true killer. Domestic Violence affects 1:4 American women every day. Religion, race, income...doesn't matter. Domestic violence homicides are up. Very sad for the surviving kids who will now lose two parents.

  • 12 votes
Reply#1 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 7:43 PM EST

This tragedy is the outcome of an arranged marriage that took place in Iraq when Shaima was age 14 and Kassim was age 30 (pedophile).

Then the father arranged a marriage for their 17 year-old daughter to some creepy hairy uncle from Iraq and the mother didn't want her daughter to suffer as she did so she demanded a divorce. It's dishonorable to disobey your husband on these matters in Islam so he did as instructed by his culture to do, and that was to savagely beat her to death, collect the life insurance and then blame the infidels in America.

The experts have already confirmed that there is a distinct difference between domestic violence and honor killing.

On February 12, 2009, Muzzammil Hassan informed police that he had beheaded his wife. Hassan had emigrated to the United States 30 years ago and, after a successful banking career, had founded Bridges TV, a Muslim-interest network which aims, according to its website, "to foster a greater understanding among many cultures and diverse populations." Erie County District Attorney Frank A. Sedita III told The Buffalo News that "this is the worst form of domestic violence possible," and Khalid Qazi, president of the Muslim Public Affairs Council of Western New York, told the New York Post that Islam forbids such domestic violence. While Muslim advocacy organizations argue that honor killings are a misnomer stigmatizing Muslims for what is simply domestic violence, a problem that has nothing to do with religion, Phyllis Chesler, who just completed a study of more than 50 instances of North American honor killings, says the evidence suggests otherwise.

http://www.meforum.org/2067/are-honor-killings-simply-domestic-violence

  • 9 votes
#1.1 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 9:30 PM EST

1. who are "the experts"? I would say it certainly is domestic violence since it involves one family member committing violence against another. Whatever label anyone wants to give is, murder is murder.

2. Islam does not allow "honor killing". It is a cultural thing and is foreign to Muslims not from those cultures. "Honor killing" is murder plain in simple and is impossible to justify in Islam.

  • 3 votes
#1.2 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 10:11 PM EST

Thank god it wasn't an evil white Christian male. Amazingly, it was tan skinned Muslim male that committed the crime for which all the Liberal Lemmings put head-scarfs on and march for women's rights against racist evil white Christian males. Well, I guess you showed those evil white racist who was boss, right - idiots! This is you f&*king cultural diversity shoved down you throats in reverse! Try not to choke on it you pack of bigots who accused the wrong group!

  • 12 votes
#1.3 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 11:15 PM EST

As time goes by, violent crime rates will rise. Because of the liberal policies of our government. Bleeding heart liberals want less time for violent criminals and when those criminals get out of prison they will commit even more crime.

  • 4 votes
#1.4 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 1:46 AM EST
Lenny12Deleted

Logan, I'm not sure where you get your information----Most "liberals" want NON VIOLENT criminals like those busted with less than an oz of Marijuana released so room can be made for violent criminals like murderers.

This guy regardless of his church or skin color is a wife beater who obviously terrorized his family in the same way as most abusers and should be tried as such. The problem is when the Uncle comes here and tries to forcibly take the teenage daughter as per the agreement between him and his brother (in-law?).

  • 1 vote
#1.6 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 8:28 AM EST

Pedophile? Latekate? That term does not exist in those nations that do arrange marriages. You already labeled a man for something that never occurred in the U.S., or Western Civilization. There are Muslim women, who get killed, and "honor killed" for going against Islamic, and Sharia Law when it comes to "moral crimes". Shaima Alawadi's marriage occurred in Iraq, and if she wanted a divorce, would have to request permission in their Court of Law (Iraq), and go through red-tape to get it, since this action is greatly discourage at the start. My understanding is that such a woman is still expected to comply to Islamic rules of morality in the West, or United States. If such a Muslim woman express the need to have more freedoms, or exercise "citizenry rights" That Muslim woman is now a trouble-maker, or corrupted. If Shaima fled her husband after seeking a divorce? She would still be alive. At least the police did not give up on the case, and they arrested Kassim Alhimidi for murder. And Kevin-1865513? There has to be a classification system for types of murder for clarity purposes for law enforcement. Therefore this is an act of domestic violence that the husband sought to cover up as a "hate crime". Back in his home Country, he would stand little chance of prosecution for the same crime, because the women there are already villianized in advance, before there is an investigation.

    #1.7 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 9:04 AM EST

    Perhaps if more men faced these types of consequences, fewer women would have to face husbands who believed they were only property, easy to throw away and of little worth. The times of hiding behind false ideologies which allow males to get away with not having to learn self control,believing they have ultimate rule over any female so they can do as they wish, and hold the power of life or death in their two hands, is over. Talk about an ego trip, wow.

    Welcome to the United States of America of the 21st century. Where everyone has equal protection under the Bill of Rights and Constitution. I know, that will be really hard for certain immigrant men and women to accept. Just try throwing stones at it,punching, burning the flag or stomping on it, Because it won't make a dent. Any who try practicing their old world traditions which deny another their same rights will face arrest and prosecution. Americans still value life.

    It occurs to me that this husband knew his wife was going to leave, as did the daughter. Perhaps the daughter wrote the note after the fact. I can't image the mother not making any sounds or calling out for help.On the domestic cases I have been to, there have usually been loud noises, shouting, etc.So I would think the daughter might have heard something even. How sad this mother never got away to the relatives she had in mind. May she rest in peace. I hope the girl wasn't involved and gets the support she will need.

    • 1 vote
    #1.8 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 9:20 AM EST

    Thor 9. In a way, I can see your point about classification of different types of murder, but to me what it really comes down to is murder is murder. No type of murder is less severe than any other type. If her husband murdered her, he deserves the same penalty regardless of his motive.

    • 3 votes
    #1.9 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:51 PM EST

    Shaima Alawadi's marriage occurred in Iraq, and if she wanted a divorce, would have to request permission in their Court of Law (Iraq), and go through red-tape to get it, since this action is greatly discourage at the start.

    Are these people US citizens??? The article doesn't say but if they are, there was no reason to return to Iraq for a divorce. Divorces are granted in the US on a daily basis.

    Twice you say

    My understanding is that such a woman

    If such a Muslim woman

    That murdered "such a woman" was entitled to freedom. She was no longer worth less than a goat. She was a free human being. Free to think and pursue dreams. The neanderthal that she was chained to put an end to all of that and had a good laugh trying to pin this on some phantom racist.

    Do you think that such a man as this is still laughing???

    • 4 votes
    #1.10 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:15 PM EST

    The daughter should be locked up as an accessory,has anybody seen the Bull...t story she relates in the news interview she gave.And to call this Domestic Violence is as disingenuous as when labelled a "hate crime".Sooner or later western society needs to wake up and "smell the coffee".Islam permits this sort of Nonsense it's what Happens under the Sharia.And not a word of an apology from Kari Huus about the nonsense she published as news.

    • 2 votes
    #1.11 - Wed Nov 14, 2012 7:15 PM EST

    I still wonder if the daughter was in on it.

    • 1 vote
    #1.12 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:05 PM EST

    I still wonder if the daughter was in on it.

    Me too. Not only does she report hearing a sharp whimper from downstairs along with a thud that morning of the killing, but then takes a full ten minutes to meander down to have a look.

    Plus friction with her Mom as reported in the court papers including jumping out of a car at 35 MPH (her Mom was driving) after having been caught by police in a public (car) sexual situation with an unapproved boyfriend.

    Then there was that bizarre media interview too which raised all kinds of alarms with many of us.

    Or she might be completely innocent, just really psychologically screwed up. Hard to blame her, though, given her family and Islam.

    • 1 vote
    #1.13 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 12:22 AM EST

    chefaz-1319563. It is still a marriage that did not occur on American soil. Let us say that our courts gave Shaima Alawadi a divorce here in the U.S.? It would not be necessarily recognized by the Iraqi Court, or the government for that matter.

      #1.14 - Sun Dec 9, 2012 8:01 AM EST
      Reply

      I thought that too on the original story. That it was staged to look like a hate crime. Who would get such a threatening letter & just throw it away? I sure wouldn't, I would call the police & at least have it on police file in case something did happen.

      • 6 votes
      Reply#2 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 8:26 PM EST

      Lots of people do this kind of thing.2 different events in the last 6 mo or so have been 'hate crimes' against gays that were staged.We need no more third world retards of any stripe from anywhere

      • 7 votes
      Reply#3 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 8:39 PM EST

      Well it appears that we have reached a consensus, I too questioned the hate crime theory.

      • 3 votes
      Reply#4 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 8:41 PM EST

      So if he really did this, can we send however many women it takes to beat him to death? That has to be a horrible, fearful way to die. Women need to have guns, especially women who face this every day. It levels the playing field.

      • 3 votes
      Reply#5 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 9:00 PM EST

      Women need to have guns, especially women who face this every day. It levels the playing field.

      Uh guns no, not unless that woman is very proficient in the use of firearms, plus she may not be able to get to the gun. From my perspective, martial arts training would work much better, especially if bully boy was out of the loop.

      • 7 votes
      #5.1 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 10:56 PM EST

      Excellent point, Stevie. I'm not against conceal and carry, but with the martial arts, you always have your weapon and never have to "reach for it" or worry about it getting caught in its holster. A gold star for you, sir.

        #5.2 - Tue Nov 13, 2012 1:11 PM EST
        Reply

        So once again we seem to have a case where the perpetrator concocts a story which just invites other people to believe him. In this case, everybody seems to have believed that these Iraqi immigrants were being subjected to anti-Muslim or anti-immigrant or anti Iraqi hate. And the surrounding Iraqi community quickly came to demonstrate and protest that they, as Iraqis or Muslims or immigrants, were being victimized. In effect, they were blaming all of America for this terrible crime, which they seemed to think was caused by hatred toward them.

        What do these Iraqi/Muslim/immigrants have to say now?

        • 5 votes
        Reply#6 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 9:40 PM EST

        Actually, I think it was more the America-hating leftists and liberals who fanned the flames of fear over this the most. They were the ones who so eagerly took the bait that the killer dangled in that note he left. It sounded completely plausible to them because that's how they view America too, as a country overflowing with racists and bigots who can hardly wait to start killing people for looking a bit different. So they ran with it and splashed it everywhere with WWIII type headlines: Crazed ("white" assumed of course) Bigot Killer on the Loose in Racist San Diego, targeting Muslim women who wear a headscarf. They believed it because they wanted to believe it. In their heart of hearts they were hoping it was true.

        • 1 vote
        #6.1 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 12:33 AM EST

        Hey Adam got a question for you, you don't really believe that American liberals hate America do you? I mean i'd have hought they love America as much as any Conservative they just have different soical and political values then their conservative counterparts, or at least that's the impression I get and I'm a European (so by American right wing standards i'm anywhere from a Socialist to a Communist depending on how far right you want to go lol) I would say from what I have seen both right and left wing media framed this story in their traditional ways, as in the Left called it a racists hate crime whereas the Right called it an honnor killing, it's one of the side effects of have over competative 24/7 media networks, there is no time to wait for facts.

        • 1 vote
        #6.2 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:50 AM EST

        Hey Adam got a question for you, you don't really believe that American liberals hate America do you?

        A lot of them do, for sure. Or maybe contempt is a better word. They are contemptuous of the America that they can't orchestrate to the tune they want to conduct.

        I mean i'd have hought they love America as much as any Conservative they just have different soical and political values then their conservative counterparts

        As before, they love America only insofar as it aligns with their idea(s) of what America should be. And they hold America to an impossible standard of lofty purity that they expect of no one else in the world. So there's a constant elitist sneering and condescension for whatever they don't understand and/or don't control. And constant indictment of American history: The Native Americans (Indians) were intentionally and methodically massacred so that "the white man" could steal their land. And it proceeds from there, an intentional attempt to undermine, delegitimize, and shame American history in order to weaken social cohesion and pave the way for the liberal/left agenda. Not to sound too conspiratorial, i don't think it's all arranged in a mass meeting somewhere, but rather disseminated through organs like The New York Times, the ACLU, and on and on. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions of course but they're tearing down the country and it's not going to lead to a happy ending. It's a big part of why America is so fractured with that enormous maw between left and right that continues to widen.

        I'm a European (so by American right wing standards i'm anywhere from a Socialist to a Communist depending on how far right you want to go lol)

        I don't know what you are exactly but it seems that you've picked up on some of my hostility to what I perceive as a liberal/left ideology and agenda. I won't worry too much about that because I take the same approach with that as I do with Islam. As you know I find Islam to be particularly repugnant, regressive, repressive, misogynistic, supremacist, etc. However, that doesn't mean that I dislike Muslims qua Muslims. In fact I don't dislike Muslims, I dislike Islam. Well, it's the same for me (though not as intense) with the liberal leftist paradigm. I dislike a lot of the theory and practice of the liberal left. That doesn't mean that I necessarily dislike liberals and leftists. In fact I like some of them a lot. In fact, more than half my family is liberal left. More than half my friends are liberal left. The University I went to was/is very much liberal left. Where I was born and grew up is quite liberal left. I quite easily distinguish between ideology and individuals.

        I would say from what I have seen both right and left wing media framed this story in their traditional ways, as in the Left called it a racists hate crime whereas the Right called it an honnor killing

        As I said before, the "honor killing" part was -- at least for me -- payback for the damage that the killer and the leftist media did with their unjust screaming headline (and note threat) indictments of racist, bigoted America.
        It wasn't an isolated incident. The liberal/left media do this kind of thing constantly, seizing on every big or little shred of "news" that indicts racist, bigoted, homophobic, Christian America. It is a constant drumbeat. This time they got caught with their pants down (trumpeting the story) so when it became clear that it was not a "hate crime," they just buried the outcome so that 99.99999% of the people never got to hear how the story ended. America heard ALL about the crazed, bigoted, "white" Islamophobic killer who targeted and killed a Muslima for having hijab, but didn't hear a damn thing more about it once the fraud was exposed. Wasn't that a story too? Nope. That's the arrogance and control of the leftist-liberal elites in action. Just a dollop of payback comes in the form of calling the former "hate crime" an "honor killing." Personally i don't think the killing was convincingly an honor killing but it serves the bastard (the killer) right that such a tag should be hung on him since he tried to cover up his crime by damaging his adopted country in the way he did. And also it's payback to the liberal leftist elites who rammed the story down everyone's throat when they thought it was a hate crime. For some reason they're always protecting Islam anyway even though it's such a regressive, repressive, intolerant, and supremacist creed. "But Hey, Christianity is just as bad" comes the invariable retort, even though that's demonstrably untrue, as the enormous discrepancy in numbers murdered by each creed attests to (people infected by the fundamentalism of each creed to be more exact).

        it's one of the side effects of have over competative 24/7 media networks, there is no time to wait for facts.

        There was no longer any interest in the facts once the sexy, desirable "HATE" angle fell though. They didn't even bother to finish telling the story.

        • 1 vote
        #6.3 - Fri Nov 30, 2012 4:27 AM EST

        Hey Adam

        Thanks for replying I remember you saying you’ll be busy this time of year, and in case I forget to say it in the future “happy Christmas” anyway, I just want to reply to a few points, first of I wasn’t just picking up on your hostility but -from what I can tell- is the feeling of the American Right in regards to Europeans in general. That they see us universally as left wing (and that does include even our right-wing parties) and how far left they see us as being depends on how far left our governments are. So if we have a right-wing government in charge we are Socialists if we have a left-wing government in charge we are Communists. (Well that’s the basic gist)

        Also since you bought up Native Americans I am aware that there is a running theme in schools of thought regarding American history and it should be noted that there is also a lot of evidence to back it up. However, there are also other themes and schools that stress that the removal of Indians was an unfortunate consequence in the creation of the United States and that there wasn’t a unified policy but a collection of polices conducted by various actors throughout history and even that some of the removal was partly deserved as during the American Revolution and the War of 1812 the Natives mostly fought against the United States. In all I take the view that since the different schools of history have evidence that can both credit and dis-credit them. There only real value is as frameworks for historians (and by that I mean anyone who has an interest in history not just professionals) to better understand and explain the events of different periods of time. But it is understandable and unfortunate that such schools are adopted by political ideologies as in doing so they are invariable watered down, simplified and presented as unquestionable truths by said ideologies.

        Finally I just want to say that even if for you the calling of this murder as an honour killing was in reaction to the left. The fact remains that both left and right aired this at the same time and both framed it within their pre-existing parameters, so saying it’s an action-reaction system (even if it was for you personally) is a bit off the mark. I also want to say in regards to the whole “Christianity is just as bad view” that whilst the numbers of murders by Christian and fundamentalist are lower the hate speech, implication goals and justifications are the same. Which leads me to wonder that maybe it’s not their creed that prevents them from using violence but actually their means? After all in countries where most Christian fundamentalists are there is generally very strong law enforcement, very stable political and social institutions and with the exception of the US tight regulations of distribution of armaments too.

        PS i do agree that the fact that MSNBC didn't do a follow up and admit it was wrong is disgracefull. But I have come to expect nothing less from todays media

        • 1 vote
        #6.4 - Fri Nov 30, 2012 6:02 AM EST
        Reply

        So much for "honor" in a "honor murder. He didn't even have the guts to claim it, what a coward trying to blame it on us infidels.

        I despise any official that condones "Sharia Law".

        • 7 votes
        Reply#7 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 10:48 PM EST
        Hills HoboDeleted

        Liberal lie lie lie.

        • 2 votes
        Reply#9 - Fri Nov 9, 2012 11:44 PM EST
        Lenny12Deleted
        Reply

        I hope this guy goes to prison and meets with a violent untimely death. He deserves no less.

        • 1 vote
        Reply#10 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 1:49 AM EST

        I knew it was the husband. The "hate crime" scenario sounded like BS from the start.

        • 2 votes
        Reply#11 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 1:55 AM EST

        That threatening note was a dead giveaway. What killer does that? And in the house, no less, next to the dead body. A lot of us smelled a rat right away and so did the police when they announced that there was no evidence that a mad killer was on the loose in the community.

          #11.1 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 12:36 AM EST
          Reply

          Jews remain the faith group most likely to be targeted in hate crimes. There were 887 anti-Jewish incidents in 2010, comprising 67.1% of those linked to religion.

          • 4 votes
          Reply#12 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 3:45 AM EST

          Interesting turn of events?

            Reply#13 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 9:05 AM EST

            Seem to be a lot of false hate crime reports lately. Anyone concocting a false hate crime report should themselves be charged with a hate crime because their false report causes dangerous antagonism to flare among groups of people.

            The worse call of a "hate crime" was the one of two grade school children who tried to pull the scarf off the head of a Muslim classmate on the playground. Police arrested the children on a charge of a hate crime.

            This is getting out of hand.

            • 5 votes
            Reply#14 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 9:13 AM EST

            Headscarves should be banned in public schools anyway.

              #14.1 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 12:37 AM EST
              Reply

              Typical Arab anger management issues.

              • 5 votes
              Reply#15 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 1:12 PM EST

              I hope they make a good example out of this guy to show the other raghead douchebags we don't tolerate their kind of behavior here in America. If they want to live here, they darn well better learn that they must follow OUR laws. It is never okay to beat a woman here because women are equals to men (gasp!) so if they insist on barbaric behavior, they'd be better off living in the sand wastes they call home. F-ing savages.

              • 3 votes
              Reply#16 - Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:15 PM EST

              Follow our laws? Why should they be expected to do that, no one else does. Illegal aliens are called undocumented workers, A Muslim Jihadist going on a shooting spree on an Army installation is called an incident of work place violence, the people in certain areas flaunt their distaste for the rule of law by doing drive by shootings KNOWING NO-ONE will come forward and identify them.

              • 2 votes
              #16.1 - Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:13 AM EST
              Reply
              Comment author avatarAndrew Jacksonvia Facebook

              WOW! This is a new kind of dirtbag. I know that wife beaters are cowards but this one takes it to a new level. What a coward to get his daughter involved in his sleazy coverup. This guy should be put to death for his crimes and fined heavily for misuse of government resources. Imagine how many man hours it took to prove that this guy is simply common trash.

              Speaking of domestic violence, do any of you even realize the long term impact it has on the children that witness this, even if they aren't "directly" impacted. Their is an organization that is focused on the needs of these children and helping them cope with this. CDV.org, or Children of Domestic Violence is a foundation that solely focuses on children. They even recently finsihed production of a documentary titled "The Children Next Door" .

              This documentary short is about domestic violence as seen through the eyes of a child. They are holding their New York City premiere on November 12th at DOC NYC, the world renowned documentary film festival. This documentary is the first of its kind, as it recounts the fear and pain of domestic violence from the child’s perspective. The film was sponsored by Children of Domestic Violence, a nonprofit organization focused on building awareness and helping those who experience domestic violence as children reach their full potential and break the cycle of violence. Check out the official trailer on the CDVorg youtube channel!

                Reply#17 - Mon Nov 12, 2012 2:02 PM EST

                Fined first. Killed after.

                  #17.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:49 PM EST
                  Reply

                  I wonder if the age they indicated for this disgusting lunatic is a typo. 48?? He looks at least 20 years older than that! I hope they throw away the key on his cowardly murdering behind and that somehow this family is able to find peace.

                    Reply#18 - Wed Nov 21, 2012 2:45 PM EST

                    Well, he was born in Iraq. I suppose he could pick any age he wanted to on his immigrant application papers.

                      #18.1 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 12:39 AM EST
                      Reply
                      You're in Easy Mode. If you prefer, you can use XHTML Mode instead.
                      As a new user, you may notice a few temporary content restrictions. Click here for more info.