Police: Florida woman's nose cut off after she refuses sex

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MIAMI -- A man was arrested for cutting almost all of his girlfriend's nose off after she refused to have sex with him, Fort Lauderdale Police said.

Ricardo Salamanca, from Plantation, faces a charge of aggravated battery causing bodily harm and remained in jail in lieu of $75,000 bail on Wednesday. It wasn't immediately known if he had an attorney.

On Oct. 28,  the victim was taken to North Broward Hospital for surgery to have her nose reattached.


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"The victim's nose was severed down to the sinus cavity where the victim's nose was only attached by a thread," the complaint affidavit said.

The woman identified Salamanca as the person who did this to her, authorities said.

She said that she had been in a relationship with him, and they lived together, the report said. That night, she had seen him at a Plantation nightclub but went home alone, the affidavit said.

Later, he knocked on the door and she let him in, but he started yelling when she would not have sexual intercourse with him, and he threw her down, trying to place her in a chokehold, the affidavit said.

She told authorities that he couldn't place her in a chokehold and she ran to the front door, according to the affidavit. She remembered being thrown across the room, and then saw that she was bleeding from her face, authorities said.

"That's what you deserve, b****," the affidavit quoted the defendant as saying.

Salamanca left, and she drove herself to the hospital, the report said.

She told authorities that she had been a victim of domestic violence from Salamanca in the past.

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Some guys just can,t take NO for an answer.

  • 14 votes
#1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:34 PM EST

What an A-hole man. Jeesh! I mean, if she's not interested just rub one off in the bathroom for Christ sakes.

Some dudes are just scumbags. Their way or the highway.

If she just put one between his eyes, all she would have to do is use the old "Stand Your Ground Law" and her problems would be solved. After all, it's Florida right?!

  • 61 votes
#1.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:03 PM EST

If you give her a turn with the knife, choice of body part, she would smell sweet justice.

  • 55 votes
#1.2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:06 PM EST

The way men treat women really is @!$%#ty. But, with so many stories of where physical abuse leads if women stay in such relationships, and so many resources available to help them get out of them, why on Earth do so many still stay in abusive relationships?

I don't at all want to sound like I'm blaming the victims of domestic abuse/violence, but, seriously, y'all, get the hell out of there at the first sign of such, 'cause it really is only going to get worse. Bullies are just angry, mean-spirited predators with no anger/self control, and they're plain dangerous by their nature and must be avoided if not outright destroyed (I, for one, would support euthanasia for violent bullies as a matter of routine, since we already do it to vicious dogs and other animals).

She really should've left the first time he hit or otherwise harmed her. If she stayed out of fear of what would happen to her if she left, then she ignored an entire society telling her repeatedly everywhere she looked that she could leave, and that we'd help her do so. If she stayed for the dick, then, well, that's just ignunt. And, I really can't think of any other reason she would've stayed other than hardcore masochism, in which case, well, that's just a fetish that you'd better be truly ready for before indulging in, 'cause it can go horribly wrong horribly fast.

Now, let's hope this assmunch goes to prison for a very, VERY long time, and that this lady never, EVER allows another man to abuse her. Some very hard lessons to be learned by both, to be sure.

  • 15 votes
#1.3 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:20 PM EST

LOL! Yup Creek Dog, Florida.... Geesh! Only there would this happen.

  • 6 votes
#1.4 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:21 PM EST

Florida ----again, Florida. It should be they who secede before Texas. There's something seriously wrong down there.

  • 24 votes
#1.5 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:36 PM EST

GA CreekDog, you nailed this one pretty well, Gary you may be on to something with the choice of body part.

L.J. - a bit of a man hater there are ya? Not all men treat women like that, but unfortunately the vast majority who don't ever yell at or hit their wives/girlfriends/fiance/etc don't get on the news, just the few that need to be eliminated from society. BTW - there are men in abusive relationships as well. Why do the men and women stay, usually it is called low self-esteem and a bit of co-dependency that keeps them there. Occasionally you will find some fear, a bit of psychological kidnap as such, to go along with it. Read a little college level reference material and your comments might become intelligent.

  • 16 votes
#1.6 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:36 PM EST

No not in Florida would this happen. Idiot.

  • 1 vote
#1.7 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:39 PM EST

The amazing thing is that he isn't a Muslim. That makes this a man bites dog story. Give him 25 years , real years , not the synthetic years of our typical justice system. He goes in in 2013 and doesn't get out till 2038.

  • 17 votes
#1.8 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:47 PM EST

I know women are threatened to stay in a relationship, or their families, or children will be attacked. Restraining orders don't work against a "man" like this. Carry a taser? Carry a pistol?

  • 14 votes
#1.9 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:51 PM EST

Tracy-2712120, considering I'm a man myself, and considering I love the cock, I think it's safe to say I don't hate men. I just hate men who treat other humans poorly, especially women. Or who don't give them fair shakes in the workplace. Or public office. Or anywhere else, for that matter. Take all that together, and it points to the majority of men treating women @!$%#tily, hence women still not having equal pay, equal opportunity, etc.

How d'ya like them allegedly uneducated apples, dear?

  • 32 votes
#1.10 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:57 PM EST

Well LJ, your still uneducated, but nice try. You are swiping a wide brush in a narrow space and expecting not to get splatters everywhere. Then trying to pronounce that you are automatically right with only using generalizations that really no longer hold true across the board. You can find numbers that prove both ways on promotions and salaries. Sources aren't all created equal.

  • 8 votes
#1.11 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:06 PM EST

Give this dirtbag a 1 way ticket to Afghanistan!

  • 8 votes
#1.12 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:35 PM EST

The amazing thing is that he isn't a Muslim.

This crime happened in the US. Before you start crowing over how terrible they are over there, take a look at what's going on here :-

from http://preventconnect.org/2012/01/rape-more-common-than-smoking-in-the-us/

18.3% of women over 18 reported being sexual assaulted in their lifetime while 17.4% of women reported smoking. Let consider this as we set health priorities.

And from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_statistics :-

According to the American Medical Association (1995), sexual violence, and rape in particular, is considered the most under-reported violent crime.[4][5]

We have a significant problem against violence with women that needs to be taken very seriously and addressed. As a man, I was staggered by the magnitude of these numbers.

  • 10 votes
#1.13 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:49 PM EST

Florida is the #2 home of the Machismo Homies. #1 is California.

  • 5 votes
#1.14 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:53 PM EST

$75,000 bail.....A little low don't you think, considering?

  • 19 votes
#1.15 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:31 PM EST

Rob,I agree.I can't fathom another person being so enraged that they would do something like this.We need tougher laws with cases like this having no bail.A nut like him may get out,find her and try to finish the job.

  • 11 votes
#1.16 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:34 PM EST
Comment author avatarBigAl Las VegasExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

This happened in Florida a Republican state where women are second class citizens so it won't be long before she's accused of wrong doing and he's made into hero by his high priced attorney. That's Republican justice in America folks.

  • 11 votes
#1.17 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:35 PM EST

Cant spell "nose" without N-O

  • 2 votes
#1.18 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:35 PM EST

the bail is ridiculous low, the judge must not have all the facts, he is a danger to society.

  • 11 votes
#1.19 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:37 PM EST
Comment author avatarzinga-zingaExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Beware. Shariah infiltration. only a Muslim is capable of committing such crimes. isn't so? Or may be he got training from Shariah fanatics. Oh my God! Call pam geller to tell her how shariah is infiltrating Florida!

  • 4 votes
#1.20 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:38 PM EST

Considering.....this guy ought to be shot. Some things there is just no excuse for....

  • 4 votes
#1.21 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:39 PM EST

What gets me is this State is responsible for electing Presidents because it's one of the bigger States!

  • 1 vote
#1.22 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:57 PM EST

This happened in Florida a Republican state...

BigAl Las Vegas - you and those of you who are trying to blame this on Republicans...the election is over, Einstein, in case you haven't been awake long enough to know that. Second, Obama won the State of Florida, but why would anyone think that you Obama fans would be intelligent enough to figure that out?

Those of you who are criticizing Florida are showing your extreme ignorance. First, most people living in Florida were not born there. They immigrate from other states, so blame those psychological problems on the states in which they were raised. Second, I challenge all of you to find one state in this nation that has never had crimes as heinous.

  • 11 votes
#1.23 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 6:31 PM EST

Florida again..should have known.

  • 3 votes
#1.24 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 6:56 PM EST

Unbelievable, NO woman should ever have to endure that behavior EVER! I don’t care what the circumstances are. This guy is a coward at best and I hope he gets the maximum time in prison allowed by law. Even us Republicans that “hate” women should stand up for women being victimized. To bad if this had to happen it didn’t happen in front of someone who would have straightened his dumb ass out. I hope she will be all right.

  • 6 votes
#1.25 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 7:42 PM EST

Put him in the cell with the biggest strongest prisoner then turn off the lights.

  • 6 votes
#1.26 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 7:54 PM EST

It's not always the women who are the victims and not always the men who are violent.

  • 6 votes
#1.27 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 7:56 PM EST

All you FL haters, it wasn't always like this until they made FL a tourist state with Disney, Universal & all the other attractions plus the Muriel boat lift (Thanks Jimmy). It's all the legal & illegal immigrants plus the snowbirds from up north. I was a 3rd generation floridian & it used to be a very nice place to live. When I grew up there all you could see was orange groves as far as the eye could see now it's automobiles, strip malls & houses. Even all the old crackers are leaving. I didn't go very far though I still have a fishing shack in the panhandle, it's still like the old FL.

  • 7 votes
#1.28 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 8:24 PM EST

You think the retirees from the north that live in florida during the winter are "making it like" that? I think it's more likely that Florida's lax immigration enforcement and pill mills are to blame.

  • 2 votes
#1.29 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 8:37 PM EST

Ignorant BigAl, this creep was a Hispanic, probably Cuban, since it is South Fla. Hispanics are almost exclusively Democratic Obummer supporters. You are a bigoted idiot. Too bad your brain isn't "big."

  • 3 votes
#1.30 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 9:10 PM EST

At least the crime should make the sentencing easy. Cut his nose off.

  • 3 votes
#1.31 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 9:14 PM EST

@stc1993, All the young people keep coming to this state and ruining it. Florida used to be for old timers like myself, not you teeny boppers. Get off my lawn and out of my state!

I translated your statement for you.

  • 4 votes
#1.32 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 9:24 PM EST

SpcTorres, I don't live there full time anymore. Haven't since 1971

  • 2 votes
#1.33 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 10:04 PM EST
Key FactorDeleted

its NOT just florida, Im from kentucky and a woman was shot at walmart last week in broad daylight in front of god and everybody by her estranged boyfriend. We live in a violent soiciety. Lots of crimes dont make the news. I bet this one made the news simply because it was in florida and because everyone was going to think it was a muslim that did this. The best thing we all can do is educate our children on what is acceptable and what is not. It begins in the home and is carried over into the our schools. children will grow up and express thier feelings, especially anger, exactly how it was demonstrated to them by adults. The best thing we all can do for our children is display acceptable behavior and they will follow suit. This is hard to do. I did not learn this at home myself it took many years and a 12 step program and anger management to come to this realization. I hope just one person reads this and follows this advice. If your daughter sees you being hit by a man she will think that this is ok. If your son sees you being hit by a man he will think it is ok to hit a woman. If your in this situatation get out of it he is not going to change because he thinks that this is how things should be. Break the cycle.

  • 11 votes
#1.35 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 12:06 AM EST

gary-309869

The amazing thing is that he isn't a Muslim. That makes this a man bites dog story. Give him 25 years , real years , not the synthetic years of our typical justice system. He goes in in 2013 and doesn't get out till 2038.

Why is it so amazing he isn't muslim ?

  • 3 votes
#1.36 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 9:34 AM EST

So now it is time to cut off his penis!!

  • 5 votes
#1.37 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 11:34 AM EST

Off with his (lower) head...

  • 3 votes
#1.38 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 12:40 PM EST

For those of you saying, "Why doesn't she just leave?" think about this. If he did this to her when she refused sex, what do you think he would do to her if she tried to leave him? If she had the resources to leave the state and go undercover, do you think he would just let her go and not go hunting for her? If a solution sounds too simple it usually is.

  • 3 votes
#1.39 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 1:39 PM EST

Off with his penis....

  • 5 votes
#1.40 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 3:13 PM EST

Florida ----again, Florida. It should be they who secede before Texas. There's something seriously wrong down there.

Annie-322924

Yeah, Republicans...!

  • 1 vote
#1.41 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 3:25 PM EST

I wonder if he cut off her nose to spite her face.

Think about it.

  • 1 vote
#1.42 - Sat Nov 17, 2012 1:22 AM EST

WTF....Why the fuking nose.

Is she Jewish?

  • 2 votes
#1.43 - Sat Nov 17, 2012 9:57 PM EST

Sounds like a crime of BEER!

    #1.44 - Wed Nov 21, 2012 10:38 AM EST

    And this is his first offense? Really? He should have been stopped long before this.

    • 2 votes
    #1.45 - Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:23 PM EST

    How if that was his first offense? didnt read the article, came for the comments and i assumed she was a prostitute because i cant imagine a guy going crasy over wifey sex. (this is my second time posting because this got deleted) anyway i have a friend ive known since childhood. about a month ago her boyfriend was going through her phone and stumbled upon messages she sent her friend about messing with one of her guy friends. understandable that this was wrong of her especially since she messed with this friend years back. ok so her read the messages and beat the crap out of her while she was asleep. (thats when he found out) she was in shock for the next couple of days because if you know this girl you would know something like this never happened to her before but she admitted that it was her fault. anyway its her apartment and the boyfriend and the brother have been living there with her. ok follow me so far? after this happened the boyfriend and the brother would still be there but neither one of them are speaking to her even now. shes in one of the carolinas states staying with her parents for thanksgiving and this son of a bitch has the nerve now to tell her he wants nothing to do with her. its bad enough these guys are living under her roof. now she has to deal with this crap mind you they have a son together about 9 months. should i go there and kick these guys out myself? it was originally her parents apartment but they moved out to the other state and they took over although the parents didnt like this guy. did this guy overreact? i certainly think so especially since he beat the crap out of her in her sleep and told the brother whose also staying there to not speak with her and now after a month wants nothing to do with her. this girl does not deserve any of this. ive caught my girlfriend talking to many guys but i always keep my composure. this guy needs to leave asap and im mad at myself for not having stepped in sooner. these guys are brazen to think they can live in her apartment and freeload despite the fact that they arent on speaking terms and no longer want anything to do with her. WHAT SHOULD I DO? WHAT SHOULD SHE DO? ITS A SAD SITUATION A BABY SHOULDNT BE IN. THE BROTHER SHOULD RESPECT THE RELATIONSHIP AND GET OUT ALREADY FOR ONE.

      #1.46 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:14 PM EST

      LJ- look up variable reinforcement. He might have been a really nice guy most of the time. Also, a lot of women feel extreme low self esteem; that they can't get a better relationship. Very sad indeed.

        #1.47 - Mon Nov 26, 2012 7:51 AM EST

        Whats ..this? Not Florida - again!

        I have to believe this guy or maybe both people in this couple must have brought some Middle Eastern culture with them. cutting off a woman's nose is much more common there than any were else I've heard of. By taking away her appearance, they have forced her to remain with them, since no other man would want her.

          #1.48 - Fri Dec 14, 2012 4:32 AM EST
          Reply

          Discusting and horrible! Lorena Bobbitt should be called!

          • 14 votes
          Reply#2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:40 PM EST

          Yeah Bobbit should be called in. Actually in some remote South American cultures females will band together and punish men who hurt women in their village. Castration is one such punishment. Now that is justice.

          • 16 votes
          #2.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:01 PM EST

          Somehow this POS should be taken out of the gene pool - PERMANENTLY.

          • 11 votes
          #2.2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:44 PM EST

          Bla...Blaa...Bllaaaa Mite ons de alcohol.........That's what he will use. No defense, blackouts count. I would not give this POS a bond. Put him in Max security as the new baby girl on the pod.

          • 6 votes
          #2.3 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:52 PM EST

          this man voted for obama

          • 4 votes
          #2.4 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 6:09 PM EST

          loser,

          Seriously? You read this article, and you felt compelled to share that brainfart of an idea with the world. Not a message of compassion for the victim. Not remorse for even thinking something that disgusting. Well, here's hoping you and Ricardo get the opportunity to share some quality time together soon in an intimate space courtesy of the State of Florida. I suggest you bring your own silverware. I'm pretty sure Ricardo will have his.

          • 5 votes
          #2.5 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 7:56 PM EST

          I sincerely doubt he even knew there was an election.

          • 6 votes
          #2.6 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 9:24 PM EST
          Key FactorDeleted

          He'll meet a shiv in the joint! Bulls or cons, he'll get it!

          • 1 vote
          #2.8 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:05 PM EST
          Reply

          She told authorities that she had been a victim of domestic violence from Salamanca in the past

          In that case get a gun. It's florida after all, just open the door and unload a 9mm into his skull. Claim you were standing your ground. No cop would question it in this circumstance. I just don't get these women who stay in abusive relationships...

          • 9 votes
          Reply#3 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:42 PM EST

          Staying in an abusive relationship is a symptom of mental illness. They need sympathy and help, but are often unable to reach out for it.

          • 6 votes
          #3.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:27 PM EST

          Thats not true at all. I was only 17 when i married a boy who later on abused me and I was not nuts. I have no mental illness at all. But when we went to counseling together. I was told he was sick. He had been raped and abused as a child and was acting out his pain on me and if I did not get away from him I would become sick, Just trying to deal with him. He was like a 5 year old emotionally. When he did not get his way he thow fits. But I swear, the counselor said it was him who was mental ill. not me..!! So I ran away. But he found me and it started all over again. I called cops and cops laughed at it all. Every time I tried to get away from him he tried to kill me. I married him in 1976 and I moved many times to try and get away from him. Fearing eaxch time he would find me and kill me. In 1987 cops came when he thow a fit hitting me and pushing me out a moving car. He went to jail but still he did not stop. In 1990 I ran away again and married my friend and finially it stopped. But by that time the stress had made me very ill. We had 3 kids together and one was from rape from him. My kids all take abuse from the mates. My heart fells when they tell of the abuse the mates do to them. And I feel It is all my fault.

          • 5 votes
          #3.2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:10 PM EST

          @Mary mclain... you are absolutely right, it is actually the abuser who is the one with mental illness. I was with someone for 30 years and it was difficult but I also got away. His abuse was emotional, psychological, even towards our daughters, telling one since she was a little girl that I did not love her, that forever changed our relationship and he did it for nothing other than fun and to have her for his own. I did not even find this out until a couple of years ago, she told me he still tells her that and she is almost 30. She no longer accepts calls from him and has moved far enough away from him that he is not as interested in bothering her as he used to be. Our other daughter was stronger and one time he slapped her and she slapped him back. However, behind everything there was a scared little girl, still is and she is now past her mid 20's. Both my daughters take too much nonsense from their husbands and both of them comment on how much their husbands are like their father in some ways. I cannot change the past but I let them know I am sorry and I understand and I support them, even if it is their decision to stay, as much as I hate that. They know they can come to me when they need to. My leaving showed them that if they choose to leave they can and will be okay. For that at least I did better in showing that it doesn't have to be forever... that is all you can do Mary, you cannot change the past but you can go on and have a better future, support your kids and love them. I don't know what else to say... I am sorry you went through what you did and I wish the courts would take it more seriously and make a woman inaccessible to the man by keeping him in jail until the trial, it would give her time to see that she is okay without him and she does not have to fear that he will come after her after they let him out. It will give her time to move away with the help of a woman's shelter if that is what she wants. It is so hard to break that stupid bond, created by the abuser to make the victim feel they are nothing without the abuser to tell them what to do, feel, act, think etc.

          • 3 votes
          #3.3 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:37 PM EST

          Why didn't she leave? The age-old smug, blame-the-victim question.

          The short answer: because these POS's are masters at destroying a woman's sense of self-worth and confidence--starting long before the first physical blow lands.

          And also because there are so few non-judgemental people to lend a hand. That includes the justice system and the cops.

          Interesting how these days a woman can wear clothing fit for a streetwalker while getting falling down drunk in a bar, but if she gets raped and anyone dares to imply she asked for it, all hell breaks loose. Not so for a woman who can't get away from an abusive man. Then the response is more along the lines of she must like it--she puts up with it.

          And BTW, a large percentage of sane people would be incapable of blowing someone's brains out except perhaps to protect their child. I'm tired of that trite response being the solution de jour. Those who suggest it ought to practice on themselves first.

          • 7 votes
          #3.4 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:43 PM EST

          Revvurrundd Merry, merry mc,clayinnurrz,

          Have to say that you really, reeeeealllly du sound like a foul-ball, played once too-mannnnnyieeee times. He, (in addition to yur CONNNNNsulllleaurr) BOTH sound like a couple of JIM-DANDIEEEEES & LU-LU-ZZ, right alongside of you. DEFUNCTIONAL, deeeelusional and dumbbbb 2. You are in need of our Lord's compassion, help and understanding!!! I pray that you find it!!! SOON too.

            #3.5 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 8:37 AM EST

            We need to start in kindergarten teaching children manners and morals. Teaching them they they are deserving of love, not abuse, as well as teaching them violence is not the answer. Too many parents do not teach their children ANYTHING (except the ones who abuse their children). We, as a society, need to arm our children with knowledge and self respect; perhaps it would save them from being future abusers/victims.

              #3.6 - Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:29 PM EST

              Guns are not a solution!

                #3.7 - Tue Nov 20, 2012 9:50 PM EST

                sixemkay....the more the abused turn & use those guns on their abusers is a solution....they will have stood up for themselves...

                  #3.8 - Wed Nov 28, 2012 4:48 PM EST
                  Reply

                  So I am thinking cutting of her nose was probably not going to help get in her pants..

                  • 12 votes
                  Reply#4 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:44 PM EST

                  NO means NOse

                  • 1 vote
                  #4.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:27 PM EST

                  Why does this seem to be such a joke to some jerks like you? What has happened to empathy? There is nothing in your statement that shows you have any feeling for another human being except to try to get a laugh at their expense. You need humanity lessons ....

                  • 6 votes
                  #4.2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:39 PM EST

                  Kjose: ...or grow a conscience.... ...or think with the big head instead of the little head..... ....have you figured out why yer dateless yet?.... ...nature's way of eliminating your genes from the pool!.... hmmmm.....

                  • 1 vote
                  #4.3 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 5:50 PM EST

                  That's What's Up, so he's going to claim it was a miss understanding???? He wanted her to take her pants off and he thought she wanted him to take her nose off, I get it. The old I don't undersand de englesh

                    #4.4 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 6:00 PM EST

                    When my wife refuses to have sex with me, I just refuse to do any housework, I don't try to cut off one of her body parts.

                    • 1 vote
                    #4.5 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 8:31 AM EST

                    Well uhmmmmmmmmmmmmm, duh, dude???????? duh, double duhhhhhhhhh dude!!!!!!! Whut an IDDDDDIOT yu appear to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??? JUST PLAIN OLE STUPIDDDDDDDEEEEETO!!!!!!

                      #4.6 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 8:39 AM EST

                      Kjose: ...or grow a conscience.... ...or think with the big head instead of the little head..... ....have you figured out why yer dateless yet?.... ...nature's way of eliminating your genes from the pool!.... hmmmm.....

                      LOL I am a happily married Woman of 18 years. I have a conscience however, she let a drunk repeat abuser (of her) into her home late at night WTH did she think he wanted?

                      I feel sorry for the woman but hell, how long do you have to be victimised before you start to think maybe there is an issue you yourself may need help with to quit attracting or loving beaters.

                      These women all seem to get in the same cycle and I believe they can help themselves out of it.

                      • 3 votes
                      #4.7 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 1:34 PM EST

                      @Kjosee

                      I didn't think your first comment was all that bad or offensive but it did put a smile on my face. Dark humor with a bit of sarcasm toss in, very nicely done.

                      But your responsed for Um Yeah.....was dead-on. Two big thumbs up.

                      • 3 votes
                      #4.8 - Sat Nov 17, 2012 10:20 PM EST
                      Reply

                      At least he did not rape her. He could have cut her then forced her. Not excusing it just saying it could have gotten worse

                      • 2 votes
                      Reply#5 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:49 PM EST

                      he should have been charged with attempted rape as well, she said no and he reacted by cutting off her nose, also, why are guys who are involved in domestic violence given any bail options at all? It should be mandatory that they stay in jail until trial, especially this case where someone could do something so horrific to a woman.

                      • 19 votes
                      #5.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:56 PM EST

                      TO::::::: JOE - - - - - AKA: >>> JOE, ... the IDDDDIOTTTT -dip-shytttt, DORKEEEE PERSUNNNN!!!! YU shud jus go soak yur HEDDZ in an old dirty OIL DRAIN BUKKKKET fer a few months uno, dorkkkkkeeeey dumbbbbbellll!!!

                        #5.2 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 8:43 AM EST

                        Denk? not sure what all that is about

                        • 2 votes
                        #5.3 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 9:35 AM EST

                        Well Joe......I think having your fuking nose chopped off is juuuuuuust a bit worse than being rape by her boyfriend.

                        You see....being rape by her boyfriend is almost like having angry sex with her man.

                        Case and point......Would you rather have your girlfriend rape you or having your nose cut off????

                          #5.4 - Sat Nov 17, 2012 10:32 PM EST

                          Cause sure, being raped can only result in disease and an unwanted pregnancy. I guess guess all you guys would prefer being raped.

                          • 1 vote
                          #5.5 - Wed Nov 21, 2012 4:06 PM EST

                          dont want to say too much. kids may be reading but for a woman to have sex she must be turned on. if shes not turned on shes dry. plain and simple it would have hurt and her organ could have been torned to the point where she wont have kids anymore or even cervical cancer

                          • 1 vote
                          #5.6 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:31 PM EST
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                          "she was ran to the front door"?? A little proof reading wouldn't hurt, ya know.

                          • 7 votes
                          Reply#6 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:50 PM EST

                          They don't proof read in India...I'm surprised they didn't write 'he cut off her nose when she refused to do the needful'

                          • 2 votes
                          #6.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:02 PM EST

                          This is for both Cappy and WD... yes, how smart you are to pick up on mistakes in grammar and proof reading but miss the point of the article... you must be so proud that your education got high enough to know there were some mistakes, it is too bad it didn't go a bit higher and teach you to have more empathy for a human being than a mistake in the proof reading.

                          • 5 votes
                          #6.2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:43 PM EST

                          JOE, yur mentality stikkkkz out all ovurrr yu!!! It looks BROWN n' like shytttt too tho, just like it emplifieeeeeees yur personna, purrrrrfectly!!!!!

                            #6.3 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 8:46 AM EST

                            in this case just me i will have to bring up denkos typing. wwwwwttttffff. do you have a typing impediment or something? what 17 year old types like that? what grade of weed are you smoking because the weed i smoke never did that to me.

                              #6.4 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:35 PM EST
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                              wow florida again go figure. i think we really need to cut florida away from the country and let it float out to sea. that would also produce a ton of shovel ready jobs.

                              • 2 votes
                              Reply#7 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:50 PM EST

                              They tried it once... It's called Cuba now.

                              • 4 votes
                              #7.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 6:31 PM EST

                              Florida is a big State and mostly very nice. This is Broward county, which has quite a reputation.

                                #7.2 - Wed Nov 21, 2012 4:04 PM EST

                                I'm surprised he made it to Booking without a facial and genital re-arrangement worthy of a death sentence! Back in the dark ages they were turned over to the local wiseguys for 'counseling' before the ride to booking!

                                • 1 vote
                                #7.3 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:13 PM EST
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                                I really hope this is enough to make her leave him for good, no matter what happens with this case in particular. I do understand why women stay because they get caught in a cycle. But, for her sake, I really hope this is enough to shock her out of the mind game, leave him for good, and move on to a safer, healthier life.

                                • 3 votes
                                Reply#8 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:56 PM EST

                                Takes two to tango... if he was abusive to her on a regular basis (verbally as well as physically--you don't jump from "lover's tiff" to taking off someone's nose without some prior confrontations), then she shouldn't have let him in the door (they were both probably drunk).

                                If she was a victim of domestic violence from him in the past, well, how many warning signs do you need to know that you're in a bad relationship, exactly?

                                • 4 votes
                                #8.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:07 PM EST

                                I hope so too lavrn, but the odds/statistics are that she will go back to him.

                                  #8.2 - Mon Nov 26, 2012 9:14 AM EST
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                                  Just living up to the Salamanca name - I'm sure Tuco would be proud.

                                  • 5 votes
                                  Reply#9 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 2:56 PM EST

                                  Nevermind. I'll google it. :o)

                                  • 2 votes
                                  #9.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:05 PM EST

                                  Hope this guy ends up meeting a fate worse than Tuco's.

                                    #9.2 - Fri Nov 16, 2012 4:36 PM EST

                                    tuco? whose that the guy from season 1 of breaking bad?

                                      #9.3 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:37 PM EST
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                                      wow talk about cutting off the nose to spite the face.

                                      • 3 votes
                                      Reply#10 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:02 PM EST

                                      South Florida. Pri*k.

                                      • 1 vote
                                      Reply#11 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:03 PM EST

                                      I've got to say it she should have kept her nose out of it!

                                      • 1 vote
                                      Reply#12 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:07 PM EST

                                      no bubba! dont stoop to vins level!

                                        #12.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:39 PM EST
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                                        This guy should never be let out of prison.

                                        • 4 votes
                                        Reply#13 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:08 PM EST

                                        Maybe HE wanted a nose job??? ;-}

                                          Reply#14 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:11 PM EST

                                          Will they be able to reattach it?

                                            Reply#15 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:15 PM EST

                                            You people are sick.

                                            • 3 votes
                                            Reply#16 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:19 PM EST

                                            Maybe.....just maybe, she has a terrible cocaine habbit and by wanting to help her.....He cut off her nose???

                                            It could happen!!!!

                                              #16.1 - Sat Nov 17, 2012 10:48 PM EST
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                                              This guy needs his nuts and nose cut off! What a mo""""r fu"""r! Hopefully in prison he gets it good!

                                              • 4 votes
                                              Reply#17 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:22 PM EST

                                              She also good of set him up good by first having intercourse and then filing rape charges against this scum. Is he an Illegal Immigrant?

                                              • 1 vote
                                              Reply#18 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:23 PM EST

                                              /sarcasm Yes, she totally should have let this violent psycho have sex with her so she could then lie to police who probably would have requested a forced entry examination and then she would have ended up in prison instead of him, great idea. And it's very important that we find out if he's an illegal immigrant or not because everyone knows only illegal immigrants are violent?!?!?! /endsarcasm

                                              What if she was an illegal immigrant, would this whole attack be okay with you then? Not sure what you're aiming at or why it matters if he's an illegal immigrant, I could probably link you 100+ articles of violent attacks on women by American citizens. All races and citizenships have a minority of people in their group that are violent psychos.

                                              • 6 votes
                                              #18.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:57 PM EST
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                                              Your an idiot USA1-3551705

                                              • 4 votes
                                              Reply#19 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:29 PM EST

                                              put a bullet in this guy's head...

                                              • 4 votes
                                              Reply#20 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:31 PM EST

                                              I can think of a few things that should be cut off of this guy. What a slimeball. Are there really any punishments in our justice code that are fitting for such atrocious acts?

                                              We should dump him in the sea wearing a pair of cement trousers.

                                              • 5 votes
                                              Reply#21 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:42 PM EST

                                              Only in Florida, home of the freaks!

                                                Reply#22 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 3:50 PM EST

                                                No ...there are a**holes everywhere ....

                                                • 7 votes
                                                #22.1 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:15 PM EST

                                                I would say Florida has more frequent weird articles than other states, on a morning radio show where I live they used to do the "Florida Story of the Day." Every single day they had a new story about some wacko doing something. But PValdes is right, there are a**holes everywhere. Near where I live there was a 15 year old girl getting raped and screaming for help, a group of 6 adult men went over to her and watched, then when the first rapist finished they all took turns raping her. I've got no solutions how to curb the violence surrounding sex and rape, I'm not a huge supporter of the death penalty but I think it's about time we start killing more people faster if there is a 100% certainty of guilt.

                                                Also, I just want to say to Floridians, I have generalized about your state in the past but I will no longer do so. All of you, Republican and Democrat, showed great spirit and will fighting for your right to vote in this election. I thank you for your effort and I hope things are easier for you next time around, and they will be if you elect a Democrat governor, or a Republican that doesn't share tea party views.

                                                • 2 votes
                                                #22.2 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:22 PM EST

                                                wow thats insane? and she pleaded for help from these guys? wow. may have been the first guys friends.

                                                  #22.3 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:46 PM EST

                                                  Hey, River. Heard about the Human Stew cooker in California? OK, OK, OK!! Florida had the Miami Zombe! I get it! I get it!! Florida wins!! You're right!

                                                    #22.4 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:19 PM EST
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                                                    Unbelievable. If that guy ever gets a girl friend again then I give up on humanity. And as for her, I hope she finds a BETTER boyfriend whose clearly not psycho.

                                                    • 1 vote
                                                    Reply#23 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:06 PM EST

                                                    My heart goes out to this woman and I hope she recovers, both physcially and emotionally.

                                                    • 3 votes
                                                    Reply#24 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:13 PM EST

                                                    A total POS.....This person should never be allowed out of prison.....Surely someone who could do that to a woman could be capable of much worse. I hope he gets the crap beat out of him in jail or worse ...dirtbag loser

                                                    • 5 votes
                                                    Reply#25 - Thu Nov 15, 2012 4:14 PM EST
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