Teen sentenced to 10 years of church for manslaughter

"I hope and pray that church will give him his lord and savior, and make a difference in his life," said Oklahoma judge Mike Norman, who sentenced a teen to 10 years of church as part of his probation for a conviction of manslaughter. NBC's Thanh Truong reports.

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yeah, that one's a double edged sword..a tough story, an accident, and sending that kid off to prison will probably wreck him..but not so sure of the whole church idea...

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Reply#1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:10 PM EST

Prison tends to make young offenders future prisoners. Community service and counseling seems a more reasonable option.

Did he accidentally cause a death? The article is vague.

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#1.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:14 PM EST

Completely inappropriate. This will be over turned. I agree, prison isn't necessary, but the state does NOT get to force religion into the lives of citizens.

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#1.2 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 1:05 PM EST

Church???? What the @!$%#?!!!!!!! I thought this country had a separation of church and state!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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#1.3 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 1:23 PM EST

The judge's decision/sentence can indeed be challenged in court based upon the principles of separation of church and state.

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#1.4 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:37 PM EST

The point of church is to want to be there, to choose to be there and not forced to be there by an outside source, MORE SO a court of law. Very unconstitutional, in every sense of the word.

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#1.5 - Mon Nov 26, 2012 1:42 AM EST

So the Judge should give him the ten years in prison ? it was one or the other try watching the video lot more info than the story.Just because he has to go to a church every sunday does not make him a christain I would rather spend 20 years going on sunday than 10 in state pen.

    #1.6 - Mon Dec 3, 2012 7:03 PM EST

    I wished they did that for those who don't commit crimes that shouldn't be on the books anyway. Like all of the drug offenders who have never hurt anyone.

    They get life in prison and the police only target black and latino areas. When they know all of the drugs are in white colleges.
    This has been going on for years.

    Not to say that whites need to go to jail for it either.

    But, the justice system has been raping blacks and latinos for things that they have the right to do anyway.

    You can't smoke weed!!!!!
    God didn't make you me!!!!
    Therefore you can't choose for me.

    As long as you don't disrespect or cause harm to anyone you have the right to choose for yourself!!!!

    Enough of the drug charge crap!!!!!

      #1.7 - Mon Dec 3, 2012 7:57 PM EST
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      Wow. That is a blatant mix of Church and State. Not really enough info to understand the man slaughter charge.

      If it was involuntary, I might understand. Ten years of Church? What exactly does that mean?

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      Reply#2 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:10 PM EST

      I think that judge is a moron. CHurch and state seperate? Not in Oklahoma apparently. Ive never heard of a judge saying something like this. @!$%# I have a couple of people I would love to see go away, but not sure if its worth ten years of God being shoved down my throat!!!! This is the most ridiculous thing ive ever heard. And i was joking about what I said of a couploe of folk, just in case mediators or other people get their panties in a bunch!!

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      #2.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:49 PM EST

      This is insane. Here we have a Bible Belt state sentencing a felon to 10 years of church as a sentence? What kind of sentence is that? I hope the ACLU contests this sentence and the judge. What happened to the separation of Church and State? It appears to be a violation of the US Constitution.

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      #2.2 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 1:05 PM EST

      I think this minister, I mean judge, was a total idiot, and calling the judge an idiot is insulting idiots! What does 10 years of church mean, some people do that kind of time in church and don't consider it punishment. Is this kid going to be dusting off bibles or attending service every morning, all morning? What the Hell is that about??

      A sentence that does not include church would have been more appropriate, such as helping the underpriviledged, community service or delivering meals to shut ins. By the way, he judge should go to jail for this sentencing!!!

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      #2.3 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:23 PM EST

      This is yet another reason to get rid of two useless things that don't work - the juvenile justice system, and the state of Oklahoma!

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      #2.4 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:27 PM EST

      Let's step back and look at this from another angle. There is no separation of church and state in the government. Yes, there is SUPPOSED to be a separation, but we still use the bible in court, for inauguration etc. The judge is not the idiot, the government is at fault because it has not set clear boundaries for the separation of church and state.

      That said, I don't think that he should have chosen "10 years of church" for a sentence, but I do agree that the boy shouldn't go to prison. I think some serious community service (I mean more than picking up garbage) and making him random drug test isn't a bad idea. We also have to remember that this was a terrible accident, and his friend was in the car by his own free will. These types of accidents happen all of the time, all parties need to take some responsibility. I hope both families come to an agreement and figure something out.

        #2.5 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 5:23 AM EST

        Actually, we don't use bibles in courtrooms any more; you simply raise your right hand and affirm to tell the truth. Additionally, a bible is not used at swearing-in ceremonies either, unless the principal wishes it. The government need not set clear boundaries for separation; a simple reading of the Constitution is all that is needed.

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        #2.6 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:35 PM EST
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        This is patently UNCONSTITUTIONAL.. Government MANDATING that some attend CHURCH is something that is done in Muslim countries..

        But,, what can we expect from the US State that thinks women get pregnant two weeks before they have sex.

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        Reply#3 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:28 PM EST

        As a Christian minister even I think this is wrong. May be drug court, which we have seen some good, but for 10 years for manslaughter? My experience is that Church is good but only if the person wants to be there. They must be a seeker, and if so, they will find. A resistant adult under court order to attend is not what Church is all about.

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        Reply#4 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:34 PM EST

        forcing a religion down a kid's throat.....hmmmmm...sounds illegal.

        what is our country coming to? everyone makes mistakes and have regrets. this kid doesnt need to be forced to go to a church to realize what he did was wrong. this judge made a bad mistake. if i were forced to believe in a religion that just wasnt something i believed in, i think that would make everything worse. this was a bad idea.

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        Reply#5 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:50 PM EST

        forcing a religion down a kid's throat.....hmmmmm...sounds illegal.

        When the state does it, it doesn't SOUND illegal, it IS illegal.

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        #5.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 1:06 PM EST

        I am forwarding this article to the Okie ACLU for action. This demeans our constitution and is a blatant federal violation. Where's Inhoff when he is really needed? Pollute the air, land and water no big deal to him. I thought Okies were against Sharia Law and passed a bill banning its practice.

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        #5.2 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 1:29 PM EST

        Intellect-If you had run the video, you would have found that the ACLU is filing suit next week.

          #5.3 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 3:48 PM EST

          If was on my PC I would have but I am using my smart phone.

            #5.4 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 3:52 PM EST

            JJ and Intellect - the ACLU is filing a COMPLAINT with the Oklahoma Council on Judicial Complaints. They can't actually file a suit unless Tyler Alred agrees to fight it.

            However, if his friend had worn his seat-belt, we wouldn't be discussing this.

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            #5.5 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:12 PM EST

            3rdview - you're right - a seatbelt would have prevented the passenger from being ejected and, quite likely, from being killed.

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            #5.6 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:36 PM EST

            These Okies must be shown they cannot co-mingle Church and State to suit their personal desires. I would suspect this kid was a relative or friend of some law enforcement or judicial system in OK. This is a first, to my knowledge, in any state judicial office. I am still stunned this sentence was not contested by the DA's Office. This is just too much to comprehend.

            If you were to put this kid in another state or maybe another county in OK such as Tulsa County I do not believe this sentence would have been given. He would have been sentenced to a juvenile detention center due to the seriousness of this offense. The young man was responsible for his passengers wearing a seat belt just as we all are hence the manslaughter charge.

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            #5.7 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:32 PM EST

            Did no one watch the video? He was charged with DWUI.. I didn't see where it said his friend wasn't wearing a seat belt.. I believe he wasn't based off the fact he was ejected, however y'all make that assumption because it doesn't state that he was or wasn't.. His friend shares no responsibility for dumb@!$%# getting drunk and going off driving, that was the drivers choice.. He killed his friend no matter how you look at it because he was drunk, and driving all while underage. He pretty much destroyed everyone's lives making that lovely choice, don't ya think..

            I can also bet this judge locks up black kids for life for lesser offenses and lets this white boy off with a slap on the wrist.. Someone should look at this judges record on convictions and sentences..

            Who is going to watch this @!$%# to make sure he is going to church.. Coddle the little ass munch some more parents next time maybe he will take out a school bus of children and they can all pray to make it better.

            Basically the judge kissed his ass and said all hail the drunk 17 year old driver, everyone should model their lives after this boy because he is a gawd..

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            #5.8 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:10 PM EST

            I forgot to add the link in my post to show you what actually happened. Click Here to read for yourself..

              #5.9 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:20 PM EST

              Intellect-1949393- His parents asked for this punishment because they couldn't stand to lose their child..

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              #5.10 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:26 PM EST

              Calico - comment 5.8 - No assumption made - if you're wearing a seatbelt, you DON'T get ejected!

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              #5.11 - Tue Nov 27, 2012 8:08 AM EST

              Ever heard of a seat-belt malfunction? My cousin was rear-ended and it snapped the metal that held the end of the belt. She is a 100 pounds soaking wet.. The accident broke my neck the impact was so bad. So before you assume verify..

              I never doubted he was ejected but the article never stated if he was or wasn't wearing a seat-belt. AND other articles state he died to due to the injuries sustained in the accident and never does it state he was ejected from the car..

              and that doesn't take away the fact his idiot friend was drunk..

                #5.12 - Wed Nov 28, 2012 2:02 PM EST
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                I would fight the sentence for jail over time with a dreary group of holy rollers. How "Okie" can you get?

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                Reply#6 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 12:51 PM EST

                If this was an accidental death wouldn't community service be more appropriate? That way the young man would be serving his fellow man in a productive way and still be able to continue his own religious/non-religious beliefs. While I may (or may not) agree with the judge's religious convictions, a judge does not have the right to force any religion on another. That is not his job. His job is to render a fair verdict and the consequences have to be constitutionally separate from religion.

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                Reply#7 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 2:23 PM EST

                There is nothing accidental about driving drunk and getting into a wreck and killing the passenger...

                He was an underage, drunk driver. And now he's a murderer.

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                #7.1 - Mon Nov 26, 2012 12:42 AM EST
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                Religion is just another form of slavery for those who are too feeble minded to see the big picture.

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                Reply#8 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 2:54 PM EST

                While you say religion is just another form of slavery there just may be an addict, (vice not important), somewhere in the world turning to religion instead of their addiction! And yes, some people do use religion as a crutch, but that doesn't mean that everyone that's religious does! And I sir, find your comment prejudicial as I am Christian and am far from feeble minded!!! Despite what you may think, not every Christian or Catholic person out there subscribes to the idea of creationism, such as myself. This is the reason I strongly resent your comment, and think that closed minded people such as yourself are, to use your own words, "feeble minded"!

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                #8.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:34 PM EST
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                So if this boy was convicted of 2nd degree murder this judge would have sentenced him too 20 years of church no doubt. How about sending the boy to a work camp or shock camp at the least. If he misses church does he have to say extra prayers?

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                Reply#9 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 3:26 PM EST

                So if the same judge has a convicted pedophile teen rapist does he get sentenced to church also? He could then become a priest and feast on young children.

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                Reply#10 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 3:28 PM EST

                Attending church as punishment?!!! Sorry, but church is not a half-way house, at least not for those who don't want to be there.

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                Reply#11 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:03 PM EST

                This is absurd. Judge Mike Norman should be removed from the bench ASAP! They have, of course been doing this crap for years through required attendance of AA meetings. Though not a specific religion it is a theistic organization.

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                Reply#12 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:04 PM EST

                Religion being forced on someone against their will....now where have I seen that before? Just didn't think it would come to America.

                If you have to FORCE someone to believe in Christianity, then you have failed God and abandoned the tenants and teachings of the Bible.

                Can someone say "Hypocritical Pharisees"?

                Religion should ALWAYS be a personal choice. Never Forced. Period.

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                Reply#13 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:22 PM EST

                Religion being forced on someone against their will....now where have I seen that before? Just didn't think it would come to America.

                How about every baptism of an infant, or traditional bris....ever!

                  #13.1 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 10:50 AM EST

                  Well Argues, that's an intellectually dishonest comparison since it isn't a state actor with government authority ordering those babies baptized, but the personal choice of their parent/guardians.

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                  #13.2 - Mon Nov 26, 2012 2:51 PM EST

                  Who grants the parent the power of decision making over the infant, hmm? Could it be....the government?

                    #13.3 - Tue Nov 27, 2012 10:53 AM EST

                    Nature.

                    The government stays out of it, unless there's a risk to the child. Your logic is flipped backwards. The government doesn't/can't grant parental rights, it can only take them away.

                    Besides, the government doesn't dictate to the parents that they must baptize their kids. That's a personal decision of the parents, that the government can't interfere with because of the 1st Amendment. Can you please give me an example of the government forcing a parent to baptize their child???

                    Sheesh. I think you need to find a sport you're better at.

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                    #13.4 - Tue Nov 27, 2012 12:26 PM EST
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                    The article is not vague at all. It says he recieved a DUI/DWI. And I believe the judge is right in his sentence. He isn't asking the teen to believe in a certain religion, he is asking him to attend and to stay away from drugs, alcohol, and tobacco. This too me seems like a good sentence to teach him right from wrong and to make better choices. He now gets a second chance to prove that he will make better choices and perhaps make a difference in some other teens life. He will be a testimony to others, young or old. He now has the penance to show others, something he wouldn't be able to do in jail. Jail would just give him a bad and hateful attitude about life. They made a bad choice, and someone paid the price, don't make them all pay the price.Teach them. Give them strength and motivation to make something of himself. He will prolly walk the correct path this time because he has leadership to give and instil in him the proper way. God Bless the family who paid the price, God Bless this boys future and the outcome of this situation.

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                    Reply#14 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:02 PM EST

                    The quote under the video sure sounds like Christianity to me, "Lord and Savior". The court system is not supposed to be concerned with yours or the church's sense of right and wrong, only with what the law says is right or wrong. Religion may be OK for someone that wants it, but forcing it on someone is just making it a punishment and something this kid will rebel against. Secular government should be dealing out secular sentences, not trying to evangelize.

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                    #14.1 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 5:59 AM EST

                    "I hope and pray that church will give him his lord and savior, and make a difference in his life," said Oklahoma judge Mike Norman

                    Clearly, the boy was "sentenced" to a specific church of a specific denomination (I'm going to take a wild guess that it's the same church attended by the judge).

                    It may be, too that he will be condemned to regular reading of the bible where he will learn that slavery, rape, genocide, infanticide and other horrifics are encouraged and applauded (in fact, ordered) by heisthatheis.

                    If that doesn't save him, nothing will.

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                    #14.2 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 2:53 PM EST
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                    Reply#15 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:14 PM EST

                    Last time the Church was used to dispense justice, a rack was involved.

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                    Reply#16 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:37 PM EST

                    Yeah, hundreds of years ago.

                      #16.1 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:30 PM EST
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                      I am surprised that most of the comments are negative. I looked at this as a chance for this kid to go with life and do some good after making a bad mistake. I guess I did not consider the aspect of separation of church and state . Sometimes I think we need to let a judge make a determination and let it go. I think when I first heard about this both of the kids had been drinking so the kid driving was not alone in this decision, although when you take the wheel you take the responsibility. I, for one, applaud the judge and I hope this young man sees what a gift a second chance is and he lives the rest of his life well.

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                      Reply#17 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 7:10 PM EST

                      The govenment should NEVER force citizens to go to church or to any house of worship. That would be imposing religion on someone. What is this judge, the Christian Taliban?? If a Muslim did what this boy did would the judge send him to a Mosque or jail or if he were a Jew would he be forced to go to Temple or jail? I suspect the judge might have a bias on that question!

                      In the United States of America we have freedom of religion and freedom from religion. The judge should uphold the constitution of the land but he went way beyond the scope of the law.

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                      #17.1 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:38 PM EST

                      Many are using the word "force" as if the kid did not have a choice in the matter. The kid did not have to agree to the 10 years of church. Prior to a judge making a sentence, both sides (prosecution and defense) set forth their positions on what an appropriate sentence should be. This requires very detailed sentencing memos that include investigation & interview by the police, letters of recommendation, victim impact statements and statements by the defendant. In order to get the sentence he did, the kid had to have agreed to it. Prison, community service & drug rehab, church could have all been on the table. This is the sentence that was chosen with input from the parties and the victim's parents.

                      • 1 vote
                      #17.2 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:15 PM EST

                      Of course the kids going to agree to it.. Who is going to babysit him while he is "attending" church.. Bet you money he will be out getting drunk again in no time at all.. I don't believe for a minute he sees this as a punishment but is relieved the judge is stupid enough to let him off with nothing..

                      • 3 votes
                      #17.3 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 11:14 PM EST

                      Has anyone stating how good a sentence this is and how he doesn't deserve to be punished understand that the kid was driving while drunk when he wrecked the vehicle and killed the passenger?

                      Since when are drunk drivers who kill people martyrs?

                      • 3 votes
                      #17.4 - Mon Nov 26, 2012 12:45 AM EST
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                      No no no! Our government cannot force religion on its people; for punishment or any other reason.

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                      Reply#18 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 9:44 PM EST

                      It's a bribe: now criminals coming up before this judge will try and get a "church sentence." This opens the door to all kinds of manipulation and connivance. The judge thinks he's found a sneaky way to get people to eat Jesus, like a mother putting zucchini in muffins.

                        Reply#19 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:41 PM EST

                        Yeah, Church might teach him to "love one another" and "do unto others as you would them to do unto you". We can't have that now can we.

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                        Reply#20 - Sat Nov 24, 2012 11:54 PM EST

                        BWil, you seem to be such an optimistic maybe you should take this kid in and nurture him into being one of yours. There is a separation of Church and State that has been violated. Bottom line and this must be corrected no matter what Believer stuff you try to iterate on this site.

                        I would suspect you would also wear a side arm to church and believe in capital punishment or "Cowboy" law. Actually you would do better to find a Believer site to peddle your rhetoric to other Believers. You would do much better and actually feel better having all of those Believers agreeing with your rhetoric. I does not work for me and I would suspect over 80% of those posting on the Vine. Like has always been said learn to choose your fights and when to run.

                        • 1 vote
                        #20.1 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:07 AM EST

                        Forcing church on someone is NOT going to teach them love or anything good.

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                        #20.2 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 6:02 AM EST

                        On the other hand, it may teach him that disobedient children should be taken to the edge of town and stoned to death.

                        Don't you christians ever read that book?

                        • 1 vote
                        #20.3 - Thu Nov 29, 2012 3:03 PM EST
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                        Maybe it was part of a plea agreement. I don't remember reading anywhere the kid was objecting to this punishment, so don't assume its being forced upon him. As for community service, what better place to do community service than at a church, who do most of the homeless shelters and food lines.

                        Too many people jump to conclusions without knowing anything.

                        • 1 vote
                        Reply#21 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 7:04 AM EST

                        As a church member, I find it highly inappropriate for a judge to dump a state problem on a church. We welcome people that wish to attend ,but do not feel the should be forced to attend. Once again the state is infringing on the churches as a whole to fix their problems. We are one of the first to show up in times of disaster to give aide, unlike atheist, and require nothing in return. Man helping out man in time of need ,something non church goers should think about.

                          Reply#22 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 8:20 AM EST

                          Hell no !!! For one " How many people have been KILLED in the name of their GOD ! Two if the church get's a foothold in our judiciary it is down hill from there , what would be next burning people at the steak for witchcraft or being a atheist !!! There is a reason for the separation of the church and state it may be better said this way " it is there to protect the Church from the State and Protect the State from the Church " !!!

                          • 3 votes
                          Reply#23 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 8:32 AM EST

                          It totally depends on the church and whether the congregation is a forgiving and supportive one, or whether the church is one like the gay-bashing hypocrites in Kansas who would love to blame the world's problems on their own hatred of gays. It can work both ways, you know.

                          • 2 votes
                          Reply#24 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 9:18 AM EST

                          This isn't the first case of a judge sentencing someone to go to church. Either way, I don't agree with it.

                            Reply#25 - Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:02 PM EST
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