Inspired to act: #26Acts of kindness to honor those lost in Newtown, Conn.

Newtown's heartbreak has a lot of us asking, "What can I do?" Thinking about this, I took to Twitter and asked people to imagine what would happen if all of us committed to 20 acts of kindness to honor each child lost in Newtown. I added, "I'm in. If you are, RT #20Acts."

Tens of thousands of people on Twitter and Facebook not only seized the idea, they increased it to #26Acts, to include the heroic teachers, and are launching acts of kindness big and small all over America. The acts are spreading overseas, including one tweeted from Borneo.

There are many questions about Friday's shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School, but one being asked by just about everyone is how to best honor the victims. In Newtown and across the country, random acts of kindness are being performed in the memory of each person lost. NBC's Andrea Canning reports.

Some changed the hashtag to #26ActsOfKindness, some wanted to increase it to 27, and 28. All good. You are in charge of this wave now.

We are curating some of the acts shared so far, as a way to inspire you, and maybe help heal us all.

Fred Rogers once said that when he saw scary things in the news as a boy, his mother would say, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping."

Below, find some of the helpers.

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On the corner of exit 2 off Interstate 84, Millplain Rd, I gave $20 to a homeless man.

To the 20 new angels in heaven and their 6 Guardian angels we pray for you and your families...pray for us, we are all so imperfect

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Reply#32 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 7:53 AM EST

@Elk Meadow: I am with you concerning the mental health crisis in this country. The mental health hospitals were closed for two reasons: they were like snake pits ( many of them ) and just about anyone could be forcibly committed by family, neighbors or so-called friends. But the second reason was that it saved the government billions. It was good to do away with the abuse in the hospitals BUT they threw out the baby with the bathwater. There needs to be hospitals where those who are a danger to society because of a mental condition can get treatment or be locked up ( but treated humanely ) so things like this does not happen. Another thing, in many of these cases family members had tried to get help for their kids but could not get any help. Sometimes they begged for help and would be turned away. The mentally ill are not criminals or evil but they CAN be a danger when in a psychotic state. They live with a health condition that is often treatable ( though not always ). We need to treat mental illness as an illness because that is what it is.

Another thing, some of these disturbed young men are honor students, genius level. There was a good articles some months back about a young man who had fits of rage and then when he was allowed to advance to learning beyond his young years the fits of rage stopped. While it is easy to find schooling for the mentally challenged, unrecognized geniuses fall through the cracks. Or they are diagnosed with ADHD or something.

One last thing, why is it that the police never want to mention if any of these shooters are on some sort of Meds? As one example, Prozac, in some people, can cause rage, suicide and homicidal feelings and/or actions. Shouldn't we be asking questions about that or is that something Big Pharm would rather we didn't talk about regardless of the body count from these tragedies?

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Reply#33 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 7:55 AM EST

I think it would be a wonderful gesture if everybody turned their outside lights on Friday evening.

    Reply#34 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 8:01 AM EST

    How about not just 26, let's just make this a habit and live your life with this new focus. I love the idea, and I love that so many people are involved. I love that it is honoring those poor children and teachers. But we need to realize that doing this on a regular basis will make such a difference in the world. Make it a habit!

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    Reply#35 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 8:33 AM EST

    I am very disappointed with FOX. On Sunday for the Tampa Bay/New Orleans game, there was a moment of silence for the Newtown tragedy and FOX CUT TO COMMERCIAL!!! I guess the advertising money is more important than the moment of silence. I'm guessing it was about a minute (I don't know because I DIDN'T SEE IT). That's pretty sad.

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    Reply#36 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 8:54 AM EST

    That's odd. I watched that game and saw the entire moment of silence, and the announcer talked a bit after, and then the commercial.

      #36.1 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:48 AM EST

      It's was probably cable provider that put the commercial there. I doubt FOX had anything to do with it.

      See, there are several fingers in the pie when it comes to commercials- the network doing the broadcast and the cable company providing the signal. Unless you get your TV signal over the air, ie old style, you have a cable provider and almost everyone has that now. So it was your cable provider who slide that commercial in there to get some extra bucks.

        #36.2 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 1:15 PM EST
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        On my way to work, I dropped off six blankets to the local animal shelter. On my lunch break, I will stop by the Salvation Army Donation Center to drop off four coats, two pair of boots and a box filled with hats, scarves and gloves. I went home last night and ravaged my closets in an effort to do something that might affect even a few people (and dogs, too). It's a shame that everyone gets into the giving mood at one time a year or after a particularly shocking tragedy such as Sandy Hook. If we all did just a little all the time, it might make a small dent in the growing need of many.

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        Reply#38 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:04 AM EST

        I made some Irish Lamb Stew for the office. 26 more acts of kindness to go! #27ActsofKindness.

          Reply#39 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:06 AM EST

          My friend, Beth Howard, is headed to Newtown today to distribute pie. Her philosphy is that pie heals grief. For her, she knows this is true from first hand experience in dealing with the grief of suddenly, and unexpectedly, losing her husband. You can follow her act of kindness from her facebook page: The World Needs More Pie.

            Reply#40 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:12 AM EST

            I found out I was a little too close to Sandy Hook Elementary this weekend. My stepuncle's (stepmom's brother) granddaughter goes there. Kindergarten in the afternoon. So she was getting ready to go there. And her classroom was one of the ones shot up. And other relatives work at other schools around there and the hospital. They know so many of the victims and their families.

            So thank you for all of this!

            I even started my own good deed list before I knew about my relatives (Knew they lived in Conn, just not so close to Newtown.) There was a stray cat hanging around our building. Found out he had been thrown out a few months back. Sunday I scooped him up and he now has a home.

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            Reply#41 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:17 AM EST

            Put our own needs and wants aside while we're out doing our shopping and visiting friends and family. Do something nice for someone else. This is the perfect time of the year to do so. It doesn't have to be much, just the thoughtfulness is required.

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            Reply#42 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:17 AM EST

            Just sending Christmas or Holiday cards to everyone on your street is an act of kindness...everyone should be remembered by someone...especially at Christmas.

            Plus...this will keep the Post Offices open in and business!

              #42.1 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:18 AM EST
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              27 victims

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              Reply#43 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:46 AM EST

              I am in! I am committed to this way of being in my life.

              I will teach my children and be an example of Kindness in my world.

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              Reply#44 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 9:51 AM EST

              I think the point of this article is what can I do, not what someone else should do.

              I've always enjoyed random acts of kindness and senseless beauty. The fun part of this activity is you do something for someone at random and never let them know who did it. I try to make it spontaneous but sometimes a little planning is required.

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              Reply#45 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:01 AM EST

              How about you all commit 26 acts of "give me a break". Does this crap make you all feel good? Do you think it will stop one more crazy person from murdering people? Oh, that's right, Facebook is all about lying to others to make yourself look great. I am going to personally commint 26 acts of cynicism, sarcasm and hate in your name.

                Reply#46 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:08 AM EST

                Hence your name D I C K... I hope you don't own any weapons or if you do, run into the law quickly and are put away for all our safety. Lunatic.

                  #46.1 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:22 AM EST

                  Dick...I'm sorry you're in such pain. What can the rest of us do for you? There is much that is beautiful in this world and, yes, much that is rotten. But if you only focus on the bad...you'll never see the beauty. People are not perfect at the best of times...much less during the worst.

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                  #46.2 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:56 AM EST

                  Nope, can't stop anything but it may make someones life a little more bearable.

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                  #46.3 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:57 AM EST

                  Hon, your life is act of cynisism. Feel sorry that you are such an arse and feel even more sorry for anyone in your life.

                  From all these small acts of kindness, big things will come. It will ripple out and keep increasing.

                    #46.4 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 1:20 PM EST
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                    I adopted my son's entire kindergarten class for two gifts for Christmas. I cannot afford more than that, but largely the children there are from low income families. It's the least I can do. This really struck me hard because my son is 6... God Bless those babies.

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                    Reply#47 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:15 AM EST

                    When unexpected things happen — trials, difficulty or tragedy — the enemy sends a whirlwind of fear to try to shake our faith and steal our focus. His goal is to take our eyes off of God and cause us to feel overwhelmed by circumstances. But if we will choose to stay focused on the love of God, if we choose to meditate on His goodness, the truth will set us free from fear and ground our hearts in confidence. (Word from Joel and Victoria Osteen)

                      Reply#48 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:33 AM EST

                      My mother and I took much needed diapers, wipes and hand soap to the local women's shelter in Rapid City, SD. I then delivered a $26 check to the local Boy's Club to help them buy Christmas presents for needy kids and donated $26 to my local food bank. I don't have much money right now due to reduced work hours and a medical issue in our family that is making life difficult, but it feels good to do a little. A little can go a long way for someone in need. I am thinking that I won't stop after the 26 acts of kindness, but just keep on going.

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                      Reply#49 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:39 AM EST

                      Jeanne...thank you to you and your mom. I hope that the new year brings blessings to you. Thank you for thinking of those less fortunate than yourself. Its not how much you do...just doing something kind makes everything seem so much brighter. By doing something kind for someone else...you probably reap more than you have given. SMILES and HUGS.

                        #49.1 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:51 AM EST
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                        The people in my office adopted a needy family...mother and three children...we all brought gifts Monday and today for this family to try and make their Christmas a little nicer this year...I include Aesop's act of kindness message on all my outgoing emails...several people have written back that they really appreciated reading it as it gave them pause to think of something nice to do for someone else...sometimes God plants a seed...all it takes is some nurturing for it to grow into something beautiful for all to enjoy. Maybe if someone somewhere sometime had done something kind for the young man who caused all this heartache...the outcome may have been something different. God Bless all of you.

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                        Reply#50 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 10:46 AM EST

                        I am gonna send 26 christmas cards to random people just to make them smile . I am also gonna make sure i do something like this everyday so maybe we can live in non violence

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                        Reply#51 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:00 AM EST

                        I this type of thing on a regular basis when ever I can, why wait for tragic thingis to happen to spur you to be kind and why stop after 26, 27 or 28. Just be kind, loving and helpful when you can and be less selfish and angry.

                          Reply#52 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:31 AM EST

                          My husband and I had already decided this last week, but in light of what is going on right now, we feel we must must do this...We will be taking our Food Truck to a local park on Christmas Day in Tucson, AZ to serve food to the homelss and anyone who stops by, families with little or no money, single people with no family to eat with on the holiday...anyone. Spread the light and love, don't let the doubters and haters try to stop you. There are good people in this world, and good things do happen, don't lose hope.

                            Reply#53 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:32 AM EST

                            They said Emily Parker would draw pictures for people who were sad to try and cheer them up. Her family contacted a couple schools to see if the kids there would draw some nice happy pictures to put up at her service. So far they have been turned away by every school and told they weren't interested in doing anything like that. It's unbelievable to me that such a small gesture would be denied for a family that has had their hearts torn out !!

                              Reply#54 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:40 AM EST

                              Thank you Ann! Loved this! We started by making special cards for each of my boys teachers and are on our way to 24 more acts of kindness in memory of those that lost their precious lives on 12/14 in Newtown.

                                Reply#55 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:46 AM EST

                                Thank you Ann. Loved this. We started by making two cards for my boys teachers Sunday and are on our way to 24 more acts of kindness in memory of those who lost their lives in Newtown on 12/14.

                                  Reply#56 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:50 AM EST

                                  This is a great thing, by why not try doing one act of kindess each day. 365 days of kindess is what our country and world need. It can be anything from leaving a random "You are loved" note on a box of cereal at the store (happened to me last year) to helping someone push their car on to a side street after it stalled at a light. Maybe if more of our nation feel compassion from their fellow man then sensless things like NT won't happen.

                                    Reply#57 - Tue Dec 18, 2012 11:54 AM EST
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