One of Newtown’s heroic teachers – remembered as a bright light on the darkest of days – was laid to rest Wednesday, with family friend Paul Simon performing the folk song “Sound of Silence.”

Obtained by NBC News
Victoria Soto, 27, first-grade teacher at Sandy Hook elementary. Soto had taught for five years and was known by students as silly and loving.
Mourners who arrived at a church in Stratford, Conn., for Victoria Soto’s funeral were handed ribbons of green, her favorite color.
They spoke of the 27-year-old’s selfless final act: She died trying to protect her first-grade students at Sandy Hook Elementary School from rifle fire during the massacre, according to her family.
“Truthfully, you have been a hero to me for a lot longer than five days,” said her sister, Jillian Soto, according to the Stamford Advocate. "You've been my big sister. The one I always looked up to."
Another sister, Carlee, sobbed as she spoke. "The pain is unbelievable," she said.
Outside, family friend Ryan Ortiz, 27, said he couldn’t help thinking if he would have been as courageous as Soto.
“Mind-boggling what she had to go through,” Ortiz said. “No matter how many times I sit at home and think of what I would have done, you just can't imagine being in that situation.
“In my opinion, she was that light amidst the darkness that was going on that day in that school,” Ortiz said. “There's really no other way to remember her than being that light in that room."
Simon was asked by the Soto family to perform at the service; his sister-in-law, a nurse, is close to Soto’s mother, also a nurse. He came and left without comment.
Soto, who was in her fifth year of teaching, was finishing up her daily morning meeting with the students of Classroom 10 when gunman Adam Lanza began his rampage Friday morning.
NBCLatino: Soto remembered as a hero and a giving soul
Relatives say they were told she hurried the kids she called her "angels" into a closet behind her and tried to shield them from the bullets.
Some of the children in her class managed to survive the slaughter. Many did not.
Funerals were held Wednesday for first-graders Charlotte Bacon, Caroline Previdi and Daniel Barden, and a wake was held for 7-year-old Chase Kowalski – continuing a week of mourning.
A large contingent of firefighters arrived for 7-year-old Daniel’s funeral at St. Rome of Lima church in Newtown, where the strains of bagpipes filled the air.
Two of his relatives are members of the New York City Fire Department, and he dreamed of wearing a uniform when he grew up, according to a Facebook post from a firefighters’ foundation.
"It was one of the hardest funerals I was ever at,” FDNY Lt. Eric Torres told NBCNewYork.com.
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Family friend Laura Stamberg, of New Paltz, N.Y., said that on the day of the shooting, Daniel’s father Mark spent precious moments with him, teaching him a Christmas song on the piano.
"They played foosball and then he taught him the song and then he walked him to the bus and that was their last morning together," Stamberg told the Associated Press.
At a funeral where mourners wore buttons with her picture, 6-year-old redhead Charlotte was recalled as a ball of energy who loved the color pink and wanted to be a veterinarian. Caroline was “just a doll,” was just a doll," family friend Pam Fehrs said. "She was happy – dancing and happy everywhere she went."
Later on Wednesday, hundreds attended a wake in Woodbury, Conn., for Sandy Hook Principal Dawn Hochsprung, 47, who also has been hailed as a hero for running toward the sound of gunfire after Lanza blasted his way into the school.
Family: Boy's favorite teacher died cradling him
Connecticut Gov. Dannel Malloy and Lt. Gov. Nancy Wyman came to pay their respects at Munson Lovetere Funeral Home, where candles in paper bags, arranged to spell HOPE, were laid out on the front lawn.
U.S. Education Secretary Arne Duncan also attended. Earlier in the day, he said Hochsprung and five other staffers killed at Sandy Hook “made the ultimate sacrifice, literally laying down their lives to protect the children they taught and cared for.”
“If it was not for the quick and courageous response of other teachers and staff, even more children and adults might have died,” he said.
Some of the services have been marked not just by tears, but by calls for tougher gun laws. Miguel Padilla, who works with Soto’s father, said he hoped the unity shown in the wake of the tragedy would translate into legislative action.
“With assault rifles, there is no need for those,” he said outside the church. “If you need to protect yourself, a handgun is good enough. That a 20-year old can get his hands on [an assault rifle] is pathetic.
“Something big has to come out of this,” he added. “They have to change the law.”
NBC News' Courtney Hazlett contributed to this report.
As funerals are held for four more Sandy Hook Elementary victims, President Obama will announce that Vice President Biden will spearhead a panel to formulate gun policies in the aftermath of the Newtown tragedy. NBC's Craig Melvin reports.
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Hopefully now, the bashing and negative press of the GOP towards Education and teachers will stop. Also, they need to rethink their business relationship with the NRA, and stop paving the way for more mass murders in this country.
Bring the troops from Afghanistan to protect ourselves from ourselves. Forget the Taliban. I am sure they have less weapons than any town in the US.
You are callous enough to drag petty politics into an article about the funeral of a wonderful teacher murdered protecting children slaughtered by a shooter who killed 20 kids, just to promote your personal political agenda? Using her when she isn't even buried yet, as your soapbox is pretty pathetic and heartless.
It is wonderful to know, there are teachers who absolutely love their job and working with their little students. How tragic that we have lost, not only such young lives that had so much life ahead of them, but also dedicated teachers as well. The impact of such a teacher on one life, is impossible to calculate.But on a whole classroom of impressionable minds, over years, it is impossible to imagine. Our country is poorer for the loss of both this teacher, and her charges.
No other news organization likes to sensationalize a tragedy for political gain like MSNBC. Thank goodness the majority of the country is slightly right of center and sees through this jornalistic garbage. Then we have posters like you trying to garner support for your ridiculous agendas as if the NRA had anything to do with this terrible tragedy. A Mom failing to secure her guns in the home and a deranged and mentally unstable Son are to blame. The GOP has nothing against teachers. What we are against are these fiscally impossible wage and benefit plans which have and are bankrupting a number of cities and states. Its called "unfunded liabilities". We can see why teachers unions are against pay for performance and instead want to protect non performers with tenure.
It's time to stop sweeping the facts under the rug under the false pretenses of never being the appropriate time to discuss the main reason why these tragedies happen. Wake up and smell the coffee. NOBODY IS BEING DISRESPECTFUL BUT you, BY TRYING TO SWEEP IT YET ONE MORE TIME!
WHILE ALL OF YOU OFFER NOTHING BUT YOUR OPINIONATED BS, THAT SOLVES ABSOLUTELY nothing, but just ridicule other people that wants to do something.
Do not read my posts if they insult you, but do not tell me that I have an "agenda"The only "Agenda"here is that of all those that continue defending their "right to bear arms"under the excuse of the second amendment, that was never meant to be a shield for mass murders.
And you ACCUSE ME OF HAVING AN AGENDA!!! shame on yoU!
God bless this young woman and the rest of the shooting victims. The second amendment should have been trumped by their right to "life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness". I do not want to go to work or school only to be shot dead by an NRA members son.
Good for you IRESPOND. I agree, NOW is the time to change the politics, change the laws, and prevent this from ever happening again.
Guns are tools for evil. There need to be VERY strict laws in place.
@freedomfrys Really an NRA members son?? Get a clue and grip on life! Guns don't just shoot them selves now do they? Ignorant people on these damn threads make me sick. WE SHOULD PROBABLY BAN OUR MILITARY AS WELL plenty of innocent children and women die from drone attacks BUT YOU DONT SEE THE MEDIA COVERING THAT DO YOU !!! He had mental issues As Chris Rhodes Scholar said his mother should of locked them up! In my opinion she failed as a parent!! I have a .45, 20 gauge and .22 don't see me shooting up schools and on top of that I have two little sisters. So it only make sense to LOCK THEM UP DUH!! NRA has nothing to do with this if anything people like you are going to allow/make more people to join cause people with no brains in there head and lack of common sense are trying to ban them. UMM how you think this country has got to where it is now think the revolution was fought with sticks and stones??? Your more likely to die while driving your sorry self to school or work.
We can't allow these lost lives to be in vain. Each and every one of these stories makes me cry, and if it doesn't make you cry there's something seriously wrong that you'd have such a lack of empathy and compassion for others. Think of the absolute terror of these teachers and children as they were gunned down (OMG, I can't help but think of my 1st grader grandson who I love so dearly)... think of the staff and children in the building that survived and the trauma that will torment them for a very long time to come.
Of course we MUST discuss the policies that worked toward allowing this kind type of horrific event from even taking place!!! On Friday, after the news reports started coming out, my step daughter's gun collector boyfriend thought it was perfectly appropriate to run out immediately and buy a couple more semi automatic weapons of mass destruction... and I dare anyone to tell me that's just wonderful. My step daughter and husband are TEACHERS for Gods sake!!! I am praying that she dumps his incredibly STUPID, insensitive ass ASAP. How are we supposed to trust someone like that with our girl? Thank God the little scumbag will be out of town for Christmas, I couldn't abide to have him here with us this year with that kind of attitude.
I grew up and lived much of my adult life in a very rural area where most guys (and many women) hunt for a hobby and to help put food on the table; not a problem as long as they get a license, ask permission from the land owner where they plan to hunt, and are properly trained!!! Many people need a small handgun for personal protection as their jobs (hospice & home health agency workers for example) take them into neighborhoods plagued by daily violence; I have no problem with that as long as they're properly trained!!! BUT!!! When these NRA fools feel so entitled and have the absolute need to run out and buy more of these EVIL weapons that have NO practical use, all I see is supreme selfishness.
The most important question is... Is someone's so called right to an evil WMD (that has NO practical use) more important than those teachers and children's right to live out their lives!?!?!? What if next time it's one of your loved ones? Do you even have a heart to be outraged or have you been so overtaken with being selfish that you've lost your humanity???
For those who think they need to protect themselves from the government (and form a militia or something ridiculous like that), extreme paranoia is a symptom of mental illness. And, if you're THAT dissatisfied with how this country is going, do some research and relocate somewhere that you might feel safer... it's for your own good (and ours).
Ps. I happen to have a sibling with a serious mental illness... start collecting the taxes that the rich have been evading for decades now and start to provide some real support for those who suffer with these devastating illnesses (just as hard on their families as those with cancer but usually more extended suffering). Most afflicted with mental illnesses will never hurt anyone but themselves, but they need psychiatric care, medicines and the families desperately need support services. Legislation in this country makes it impossible for parents to help incredibly ill children... this MUST change NOW.
irespond... You are just as guilty as the shooter for the deaths.
You sit are an A-HOLE! Nothing you speak of will change anything that has happened, or will happen in the future. Crawl back into your hate filled political agenda and shut up!
This is how courage and selflessness looks like. We humans have it in ample. We just need to see around rather than up.
IRESPOND-2315268
Hopefully now, the bashing and negative press of the GOP towards Education and teachers will stop. Also, they need to rethink their business relationship with the NRA, and stop paving the way for more mass murders in this country.
Bring the troops from Afghanistan to protect ourselves from ourselves. Forget the Taliban. I am sure they have less weapons than any town in the US.
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Shame on You! This is a time for remembering these teachers and students, not rantings about Politics. Democrats are notorious for "bashing" whatever and whoever does not agree with them and their agendas, so let's not go there ok? This was about these victims, not us or our Political views!
To all of the victims of Sandy Hook, may you all RIP. You will never be forgotten.
Must be a slow news day. When will this stuff move to section C, page 14? Enough already; crazy guy creates tragedy, kills himself. Why are we still reading about it?
The NRA will forget her like garbage, they say if we ban these types of weapons they will only end up in the hands of the criminals, its not the criminals I'm worried about, all of these mass killings were committed by mentally imbalanced people and not criminals..The time is now to get these weapons out of our cultures, we can't go back and analyze anything like why she didn't keep them in a gun safe and if she was mentally imbalanced herself or why there is so much hate in our country..
May she rest in peace she was so beautiful..
Time for the "press" to stop their orgy of coverage and let this town grieve together and away from the tragedy vampires that is the Pop Media.
@Svenolafson- my sentiments exactly! I am tired of the 'continuing coverage' of this grieving community, keeping us up-to-date on the next funeral to come with the play-by-play. Milking this story for everything they can gain like parasites. This is utterly disgusting behavior.
Its called being human. Forget your polotics. I couldnt care less about polotics. A woman died. A huma lost a life. Polotics are bull@!$%# compared to this.
After reading this article and the first post is b.s. from irespond is accusing the GOP of teacher hating. You're a sick puppy.
COLUMBINE STUDENT'S FATHER 12 YEARS LATER !!
Guess our national leaders didn't expect this. On Thursday, Darrell Scott, the father of Rachel Scott, a victim of the Columbine High School shootings in Littleton, Colorado, was invited to address the House Judiciary Committee's subcommittee. What he said to our national leaders during this special session of Congress was painfully truthful.
They were not prepared for what he was to say, nor was it received well. It needs to be heard by every parent, every teacher, every politician, every sociologist, every psychologist, and every so-called expert! These courageous words spoken by Darrell Scott are powerful, penetrating, and deeply personal. There is no doubt that God sent this man as a voice crying in the wilderness.. The following is a portion of the transcript:
"Since the dawn of creation there has been both good & evil in the hearts of men and women. We all contain the seeds of kindness or the seeds of violence. The death of my wonderful daughter, Rachel Joy Scott, and the deaths of that heroic teacher, and the other eleven children who died must not be in vain. Their blood cries out for answers.
"The first recorded act of violence was when Cain slew his brother Abel out in the field. The villain was not the club he used.. Neither was it the NCA, the National Club Association. The true killer was Cain, and the reason for the murder could only be found in Cain's heart.
"In the days that followed the Columbine tragedy, I was amazed at how quickly fingers began to be pointed at groups such as the NRA. I am not a member of the NRA. I am not a hunter. I do not even own a gun. I am not here to represent or defend the NRA - because I don't believe that they are responsible for my daughter's death.
Therefore I do not believe that they need to be defended. If I believed they had anything to do with Rachel's murder I would be their strongest opponent.
I am here today to declare that Columbine was not just a tragedy -- it was a spiritual event that should be forcing us to look at where the real blame lies! Much of the blame lies here in this room. Much of the blame lies behind the pointing fingers of the accusers themselves. I wrote a poem just four nights ago that expresses my feelings best.
Your laws ignore our deepest needs,
Your words are empty air.
You've stripped away our heritage,
You've outlawed simple prayer.
Now gunshots fill our classrooms,
And precious children die.
You seek for answers everywhere,
And ask the question "Why?"
You regulate restrictive laws,
Through legislative creed.
And yet you fail to understand,
That God is what we need!
"Men and women are three-part beings. We all consist of body, mind, and spirit. When we refuse to acknowledge a third part of our make-up, we create a void that allows evil, prejudice, and hatred to rush in and wreak havoc. Spiritual presences were present within our educational systems for most of our nation's history. Many of our major colleges began as theological seminaries. This is a historical fact. What has happened to us as a nation? We have refused to honor God, and in so doing, we open the doors to hatred and violence. And when something as terrible as Columbine's tragedy occurs -- politicians immediately look for a scapegoat such as the NRA. They immediately seek to pass more restrictive laws that contribute to erode away our personal and private liberties. We do not need more restrictive laws. Eric and Dylan would not have been stopped by metal detectors. No amount of gun laws can stop someone who spends months planning this type of massacre. The real villain lies within our own hearts.
"As my son Craig lay under that table in the school library and saw his two friends murdered before his very eyes, he did not hesitate to pray in school. I defy any law or politician to deny him that right! I challenge every young person in America , and around the world, to realize that on April 20, 1999, at Columbine High School prayer was brought back to our schools. Do not let the many prayers offered by those students be in vain. Dare to move into the new millennium with a sacred disregard for legislation that violates your God-given right to communicate with Him. To those of you who would point your finger at the NRA -- I give to you a sincere challenge.. Dare to examine your own heart before casting the first stone!
My daughter's death will not be in vain! The young people of this country will not allow that to happen!"
- Darrell Scott
Do what the media did not - - let the nation hear this man's speech. Please send this out to everyone you can.
God Bless
well done. thank you for sharing. not a lot of argument coming towards you for your post. what i find so ridiculous is the sterotyping done by so many folks. i am Christian, I typically vote Republican, i do a lot for those in need. i do a lot for children and others. in fact i try and do something everyday. yet i am labeled as someone who does not care, a religious freak or something worse. i am told my opinion is wrong, i am told i believe in fairy tales, i am told "my kind" is what is wrong with the country. i have to ignore these response's or my anger takes over. these are personal attacks by people who do not know me. i have great love for this country - to a fault - i have great hope for our children - i want nothing but the very best for everyone. i do not support westboro, or people killing others at abortion clinics or anyone harming anyone in anyway due to their lifestyle or beliefs. yet i am labeled. when someone ask me what is wrong with our country i start by stating we are divided as a nation, we all have our own opinion and it becomes an agenda and those who want free speech typically only want it when it agree's with their ideas. when the house divides we lose. all of us. Friday December 14th, as a people and as a nation, we lost. As the President stated in his address at Newtown, "God Bless and bring comfort and peace to those facing hardship. God Bless the United States of America".
I like the poem. He has a way with words...
Ignoring all the banter about guns, religion, and those pushing their agendas (save those for articles about such as this in not the article to do so) I want to actually focus on the topic of the article and say may Victoria Soto rest in peace and live on in eternity or whatever/where ever she believed. She was a true hero. A word that sometimes gets over used or has had its meaning water down some recently. She died saving those children and gave her life so that they could live. It was a senseless death but (depending on how you look at it) it was not fully in vein since she was able to save others. She did her best and died with honor and grace in the face of losing odds. Thank you to Victoria Soto for paying the ultimate price and doing what you did. Again may you rest in peace, you are a true hero and inspiration.
It is time
People talking about God before the dead are buried. Satan has his demons working overtime.
Look very hard at the people talking about God, it's not God they worship.
They're no better than the liberals trying to use rhe slaughter to advance gun control.
Sick twisted people like you, if anything, would be the reason this nation gets judged. You talk of God and spit on Jesus.
Okay perhaps you should lay off the glue .. it's bad for your arteries and the brain cells lost reading your post. (: happy hollidays!
there is no way to protect society from a lone nut deranged maniac, other then to kill him/her before they kill you or yours/ in every country Thu out history, there have been insane people who go on a killing rampage; everyone says we must pass laws to protect us from these mad-persons; insane people do not care what laws are passed, they live outside of society, they are anti-social.
I am so sick of saying God is not allowed in school?? Last I heard God was Omnipotent (big word, look it up) and you believe in God and his infallibility then you would KNOW prayer is alive and well in schools. You can pray during the morning moment of silence, say grace before lunch and pretty much pray (silently) anytime and anywhere!!! The parents are the ones who are failing to teach their children to pray! Teach them at home and at church and stop blaming teachersand PUBLIC school systems which do, must and are proud to teach any and every child regardless of religious affiliation! THAT is what PRIVATE religious schools are, if you can't afford that then I suggest you take responsibility for the children YOU brought into the world and teach your religious beliefs at home!
So are saying we should legalize murder too? After all murders happen despite laws against them. Just asking....
Where did it say these GUNS were just lying around for Adam to play with. I did NOT see that in any article out there. For you to ASSUME that they were NOT locked up is just IGNORANCE on your part.
First before you take away my right to bear arms. we need to take your right to freedom of speech. You want me to give up something I want you to give up something also. You do NOT have or believe in guns so that one will not work for you, i will take your freedom of speech. just another admendment that gets trampled on.
RIP Victoria Soto.
This teacher reminds me of the Mona Lisa; except that she is more beautiful. What a shame she had to go this way.
She did not have to go this way. We, as a nation should do better than this, just like Obama said. Stricter gun laws NOW.
@Obama Wh...
Not true amigo...we do follow laws but you follow ignorant beliefs. Innocent people die all the time like this teacher. Let's keep to topic. If this teacher was your sister, daughter or significant other, would you rant like this? or would you want people to show respect for her heroism? She's my SHERO!
@singlepayerhealth,
Can you explain how stricter laws would have prevented this? Have you done any research at all or are you just one of the Koolaid drinkers?
DawgFan,
Your post is so so right. People think to balme everyone and their brother for this, but the truth is the person behind the gun is the issue.
fact #1 Conneticut is the only state with the stricktest gun laws in the nation, fact look it up
fact#2 If the semi automatic weapons didn't exsist this kid would have used somthing else more powerful to do his deed, like a bomb or dynamite. look at schoolhouse killing in 1929 yes 1929....
fact #3 no one remembers the soldier that killed 10 innocent people in afgahnistan, are we going to ban the military too now?
fact#3 name one smart and non crazy person who has done somthing like this and was perfectly normal. answer NONE.
They do not want to see the fact is that we have to first arm our schools with undercover police officers or security agents, because a uniformed police officer will stick out and the perpertrator will find a way around this.
But in all you will never be able to ensure 100% safety for everyone, ther is unfortunetly going to be a situation that happens where the one person you would lest expect to do somthing like this will do it. So we all need to calm down stop blaming everyone and their brother for this and blame the people who are the ones that created this US we all are responsible, we all need to come togeather as a nation and stop placing the blame on everyone accept the killer himself. He could have done the right thing and took his own life, but instead he chose an evil path and brought evil to that poor town.
We all need to take a closer look at our surrondings and eventhough you think it's not your business to get involved,maybe you need to re think that thought now. Maybe if that Marine had gone to authorities and had voiced his concern about the kid and the fact that his mother has weapons around like he was aware of then maybe this wouldn't have happened.
If you really care about this tragedy, why not respond positively by getting involved in your own community. Its very easy to yak about gun control because you don't have to do anything - except vote or write a letter to congress. But if you want to honor the memory of the teachers, principal, and children, why not get involved in a mentoring program for kids. There are over 1500 children murdered each year by their parents - where were you? There are 100,000 kids in foster care 3 years of age or younger. Where were you? If you care, then put your love into action for someone who needs it.
They need to make people like this woman the focus of the story more often, rather than inadvertently glorify the mass murderers that comit these acts by making it (the news) all (or most) about them.
I agree with Taharrington and im not a gun owner.
A tragic moment in human history again to put into the history books, and my heart goes out to everyone that passed away and their family. I'm a new dad my self and I couldn't even imagine.
Everyone is to quick to blame the guns and automatic weapons. That's not the problem, its a short term excuse for what happened. A gun is just one of many weapons available to humans so even if they ban all guns and there are 0 guns left in the hands of citizens, a psychopath will just choose another weapon of choice "Pipe Bom, baseball bat, Hockey Stick, hunting bow, plain rock, rental cat ETC..." and accomplish the same thing. I could make a pipe bom in 20min and I never even take chemistry or shop class.
The problem is people and how they are raised at home and how parents act towards their children.
Example: The incident that recently happened in China at a grade school, guns were not involved and numerous children died by a knife. THERE WERE NO GUNS THERE.
Personally I think they should look at the mother and see what she did with the kids and how they were raised. There is a much bigger underlying problem here that everyone is trying to avoid.
Even the other school shooting from the past, again people blame guns.. Well some of those kids were bullied for years and nobody did anything about it. Even with a dog if you harass him long enough, HE WILL BITE BACK.
We need to take a close look at our standards as humans, teach our kids to respect each other more no matter how rich or poor, black or white, handicapped or not, smart or stupid, good looking or not. We all have a place in our society and the only thing that is missing is respect.
And not that I'm picking on Americans cause I'm not, but you guys need to learn to say Thank You fallowed by Your Welcome and not AhhHaaa.
So what will the USA do now.. Spend Billions more on new gun laws that wont help at all, just to make it look as if they are doing something about this problem and to shut everyone up.
For Dawgfan-4710266:
Please see rates of mass shootings before/after restrictions were put in place in UK, Australia. Both enacted them after large-scale tragedies. Gun deaths down 36% in UK since 1997 when ban went into effect. Down 59% in Australia, and no massacres since, versus 11 in the decade before going into effect.
22 children in China were injured. No Deaths from the mentally ill 36 year old man with a knife.
Source: CNN
Hey Dawgfan, Conn is not the only state with strict gun laws. NY has very strict laws and you don't see mass shootings here.
Those arguing about gun control how about you shift your arguments to some on topic forum instead of discussing it here, you are being rather disrespectful.
Instead let us comment on this article which is about how a hero is being laid to rest and about how a teacher tried to protect the children she was intrusted with.
What an amazing woman.
It is a pity the Purple heart is only for members of the military.
To Obama Whistles....you are a complete and bumbling idiot!!!
RIP to this beautiful teacher who was clearly loved by her students
This morning in our local paper the NRA Promises to Help Prevent School Shootings. Fantastic. They had days of self imposed silence out of respect for the families and as a matter of decency. They are the largest gun rights lobby and I so respect the way they have showed compassion to the victums and their families. They are made up of 4 million Moms and Dads, Sons and Daughters and they promised to " offer meaningful contributions to help make sure this never happens again." We are all saddened and heartboken by the news of this horrific act by someone who had to be completely out of touch with what a life really means. So all of us as gun owners should take responsibility for the safety of our weapons and work with the President and the NRA to come to an agreement on what can be done to help stop this. Hopefully the readers who continue to make remarks about the 2nd Amendment rights will stop with the scare tactics and realize no one is going to take away that right. No one. The President does not want to take away our guns. Our 2nd Amendment Right is in place and will stay in place. But as Parents, Grandparents, Brothers , Sisters, Aunts and Uncles we all need to be so much more responsible when listening to the people around us. We need to be cautious about how and where we store our guns. We need to listen closely at young people when they feel alone and take mental health a lot more seriously than in the past. Anyone who could do this has got to have a mental problem. It is hard to believe that in some of these cases the person is like our next door neighbor who we thought of as just a kid. Open our eyes and ears. Open our hearts to the ideas being given to us and lets make a difference in the way we all come together as a Nation. The political arena has got to stop bickering and the American People need to stop fighting over politics especially posting lies when the truth is so much better.
Sullyness,
There is a main difference. In both the UK and Australia they have been completely banned from owning or possessing unless permitted under strict conditions. No exceptions for firearms already in circulation. They also are not guaranteed under their Constitutions the right to keep and bear arms. Face it. There are over 300,000,000 firearms in this country, and there is not possible way to get them all turned in. Criminals don't follow the law now, so what makes you think they would follow the law if guns were banned? Criminals in the UK and Australia have guns. They have easy access to them in their black markets. The UK also saw a huge rise in violent crimes.
Top 10 Violent Crime rates per 100,000 in the World.
1. UK-2,034
2. Austria-1,677
3. South Africa-1,609
4. Sweden-1,123
5. Belgium-1,006
6. Canada-935
7. Finland-738
8. Netherlands-676
9. Luxembourg-565
10. France-504
The US comes in at 466 violent crimes per 100,000 residents.
Rest peacefully Victoria, you are a wonderful spirit, and an inspiration to us all. God keep and protect you through all eternity.
Now..........To taharrington, and dawgfan......you are both wrong. Stronger gun-control legislation would have restricted the mother from owning the types of weapons she owned, in the quantities that she owned them. It would-have also required her to complete a weapons safety class, in which she would have been taught how to properly store and secure her guns, and would have required her to lock them up when not in use. Additionally, it would have required the identification of her son to the local police, as someone with a mental illness who had access to a house with guns in it.
Anyone of those measures could have prevented this tragedy.
@Trochj,
Top 5 States for Murders by Firearm.
1. California
2. Texas
3. Michigan
4. Pensylvania
5. New York
Top 5 states for murders
1. California
2. Texas
3. New York
4. Pensylvania
5. Michigan
Source FBI UNIFORM CRIME REPORT 2011.
Zman,
First, we don't know how her guns were stored. For all we know they could have been in a safe with a biometric lock. He knocked her out, put her finger on there and then shot and killed her. We don't know the details, so you can't speculate on how they were stored.
Second, Even if she didn't have the AR-15 it wouldn't have prevented this from happening. He still killed people with the two handguns. There was also a 12 gauge in his car.
Third, a limitation on how many firearms one can own is a violation of constitutional rights. Nowhere in our constitution does it state how many of a certain thing someone can have. Cars kill 32,000 people a year, but we don't limit how many you can have. We would have an easier time banning cars as they are not a right gauaranteed by the Constitution.
Sorry, but that is a violation of Constitutional Rights basing one person's ability to keep and bear arms based on the actions of others.
I will say this. I think anyone that owns a firearm should be required to buy a safe. Now that doesn't restrict people you have given authorization to have access to them, but it would cut down on the number of accidental shootings. I have a number of different safes for my firearms. A couple 1,200 lbs safes that are bolted into concrete all with biometric and numberic locks, a couple wall safes for quick access in the middle of the night, a pistol safe in my desk, and I built a safe in my car for when I go to places that don't allow me to carry. But, there are people that will say that requirement is a violation of Constitutional rights, just like requiring training and competency tests are a violation.
@Obama Whistles, I am horrified that you thought this was the appropriate venue to spew hatred and racist remarks. Reread the article and please allow yourself to feel ashamed for using a story about loving heroism as a vehicle for you cowardly hatred!
@Maxine, I so agree with your comment. It seems obvious that this "conversation" about restrictions has to take place and the people who are clinging to the "you'll get my gun when you pry it...etc." are stating facts about like FOX news does! I grew up around guns, my husband and I have guns, he has his concealed weapons permit! When the Colarado shooting happened and I read that the shooter had ordered a huge ammount of bullets via internet I thought to myself, "that should have sent up some kind of red flag..." and I still believe that! When my husband got his concealed, he had to take a class and pass a test. I think that is just a smart requirement for all gun ownership. I also think that the gun show loopholes need to be closed. These are just a few simple regulations that make sense to me. Our constitutional rights are not without responsibility. If gun owners want to have a say in what regulations need to be created and enforced, they had better quit being beligerant and defensive and allow for some intelligent cooperation!
@Pronost,
I agree with several of your comments. How children are raised, and the general lack of respect that both children and adults give to their fellow human beings has certainly deteriorated. I'm not a psychologist, but I'm sure there are cases where no level of nurturing or guidance will change how a problem person will develop, but I do think there are many kids who just need a positive role model/parent figure to make a world of difference.
Pretend for a moment that all of the issues you cited stayed the same; children are raised poorly, kids at school are bullied, racial differences still occur. Now take (or reduce) guns from the equation. Yes, there will still be violent crime. Yes, a criminal intent on killing somebody will find a way. Yes, cars will kill more people than guns (sorry not your comment). But I have to believe in probabilities, and that the mass murders such as what happened in Newton will be reduced if access to firearms was controlled to a greater degree than it is now.
Blaming guns is very easy to do, but I think it's because they are an obvious part of the problem.
Catherine,
I'm with you on the concealed permit requirement, but for all gun owners that is an infringement. There are some people in this country that would be defended by the ACLU because making them take a test violated their constitutional rights and they have a slight learning disability because of a rough childhood and failed the test.
The Gun show loophole needs to be gone. Private citizens should have access to the FBI background check number to check a buyers status. That doesn't mean everyone will call, but i'm sure it would find a couple.
Those of you who have made not one single reference to Victoria Soto, you know the teacher that this @!$%#ing story is about, are vile human beings. All you disgusting people care about is the mention of @!$%#ing guns and you all go crazy. A brave woman was murdered while protecting her children and all you POS people can do is rant and rave about guns.
Victoria Soto: You will forever be remembered for the beautiful person you were. Thank you for trying to protect the children. RIP. May her family find solace in her courage and bravery.
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AlaskaGirl,
Kettle meet pot. Pot meet Kettle. You come on here talking about vile people while cursing and calling people you don't know names really turns the tables back onto you. Had Victoria been allowed to carry a firearm in her school I have no doubt she would have defended those children. Unfortunately we have gun free zones and the only people that follow that rule are the law abiding. That is why we see schools shot up so much, is because the shooters know there will be noone to stop them for an extended period of time.
Dawgfan, I actually know people who are very smart and unable to take written tests. BUT a mandatory gun safety class, (they can be free) with certification of passing the class would be good. Responsible gun owners are so safety conscious that we think in those terms as the norm, but geez I know people who still store their guns in the back of a closet!
No, Dawgfan. Wrong.
R.I.P Victoria Soto
R.I.P 20 children ages 6 & 7
I try very hard to figure you people out - but time and time again I come to these boards - even boards like this set up to remember a very heroic teacher who died protecting her children and all people can do is freak out because their love of guns is so strong that that is first and foremost in their minds and to he** with all these babies and teachers etc. who were slaughtered by this moron. What is it with you people. Why are you so paranoid that you must have not one gun, but 4, 5, 6 of them and included in them are semi-automatic guns?? Why the paranoia that without a gun in your house you feel threatened to violence? I cannot wrap my head around this. Did you people even bother to stop for a moment and look at the pictures of these babies and teachers whose lives were cut down way too soon. They will never graduate or have their first prom, get married and have children or fulfill their dreams. That is what this board is about folks. I cannot even fathom what these families are going through - so have a heart folks and stick to the subject of this board. And go to another board to rant and rave about your fear of losing your precious semi-automatic guns and clips holding more than 30 bullets. I am Canadian and I dont feel badly for any one of you gun owners - and I hope strict regulations are put on your loving guns - cause you see I value the lives of babies and other humans more than I do you being subjected to some form of gun control
May God be with these families at this really sad, sad time and help them get through Christmas as best they can with one little one or one adult missing at the dinner table. Lots of love to all of you.
Oh and for your information we have very strict gun laws, very few people here pack guns like you do and we feel safe in our homes and on the streets. And people will argue the fact that we have only 150 shootings a year, but it is true - so we must be doing something right.
Amen, SHar. Your post brought tears to my eyes. My eyes fill everytime I look at the pics of those slaughtered. May none of us ever know the violence and fright that each and every person in that school endured. And, yes, your country is definitely doing something right.
Merry Christmas/Happy Holidays to you and yours.
Victoria Soto, she will always have all our respect and them some. Im sure at some point during those final moments she wished she had some way to defend herself and those little kids. If this president really wants to make schools safer he'd fund a nationwide program for teachers so they could get specialized training in the use of weapons and tactics. Doing this while funding programs for at risk kids with mental problems makes more sense that anything he's said so far.
Shar, Alaska, and Catherine, it seems you three are more intelligent than most people makinmg comments on this board. Why do people need murder weapons such as assault rifles? After all, that is what assault rifles are, they are murder weapons. They are not used for hunting or protection. The reason the ban was lifted on them was the NRA has a lot of puppets in congress. They believe the BS the nra claims about having the right to own a murder weapon. Why not a rocket launcher or grenade launcher too. I have no problem with someone owning a gun even though I have no desire to.
People are starting to do something about it. In fact, I and a number of engineers I know have already started work on devices that will make guns a vary dangerous an fruitless thing to use on the general population without increasing the risk to the general population.
If we do our job right, one of the things we will be able to do is make an assailant unable to hold their weapon basically at the push of a button and at range in some cases outside the range of light weapons.
It is time for those of us that can to put an end to this madness. No more dead people because you fools need your guns. Time to put it to bed.
My heart breaks every time I look at the faces of these victims.
There was another family member of one of the murdered children yesterday who said some of the families had talked about getting together and taking action toward stricter gun laws in America.
To all the families who are grieving right now: there are millions of us who hear you and grieve with you. Whenever you are ready to lead the charge on this, we are here to back you up.
We will not let these beautiful children and their teachers die in vain.
Dawgfan-4710266
A bit late I know nice twisting of the states there but if we look at firearm MURDERS the US is at least 2 times higher rate per 100,000 than any other western country on Earth.
It was God's plan.
Prayers and thoughts with her family and friends at this time. God bless you, Victoria....
God gives us free will. This was not God's plan. If the principal was armed this would have turned out differently.
Ban semi-automatic weapons like the one that killed this teacher and her students.
These weapons were banned from 1994 to 2004 with no effect on violent crime. Columbine happpened during this ban. Not a good solution but a politically popular one with LWNJs.
The laws were not strong enough. but they will be.
The bill that Feinstein is proposing is virtually the same bill. Its not a retroactive ban. 285,000,000 privately owned weapons in the USA. You can't get a law through congress that will have any effect at all. It may make you FEEL safer but not BE safer. Better to focus on the type of people who commit these terrible crimes.
Laws may be passed banning them....but rest assured they will not go away.....far far too many of them out there and far far too many people that will resist the tyranny of this Gov't.
Such a tragedy.....I work in a school and see daily the good that teachers do....it is unfortunate that the Gov't and school districts have such silly standards they have to to abide by sometimes, but overall our nations teachers do a wonderful job....now if only we could get discipline back into our schools......
Me, Too, RBshoots. I work in an elementary school 20 miles from Newtown. I drive by there every day. Last night I saw that the motorists began leaving stuffed animals by the exit and exit signs. I am making it a point to visit Newtown more. I ride my bike over there when the weather is good. I used to be an advocate for gun control, but now I am an activist. It may be that the weapons will still be there, but as one person, I will leave this earth active in pursuing the removal of all assault weapons. It is the least that I can do to help the families and honor the dead children, teachers, and families. Nothing will change my attitude, except my passing from this earth.
Oh yes the gun laws have done so much good in Chicago. The highest murder rate in the nation. You can ban what you want to ban, people will get it if they want it. If I am not mistaken drugs are ban, but seems they are still fighting like hell to end it.
I am sick and tired of hearing, ‘oh, there’s too many guns out there now’, and ‘will never get a strong enough law passed to do any good’. We hire those legislators with our votes. If our legislators are in bed with the gun lobbyists, then vote them out. They work for us. We will find legislators that fulfill our needs.
The report done ofter the ban ran out in 2004 showed that the crime rate from Assault Style Weapons was the exact same in 2004 as it was in 1993. It is still the same today at 1.9% of all gun crimes. In 1993 the year before the ban there were 3,000 ATF investigations into assault weapons. In 2004 there were 3,100. The highest number of traces conducted came in 1997 at just over 5,000. That was in the middle of the ban. Now tell me how banning them would make any difference?
And when a dozen people are killed with a handgun, do we ban those too?
Yes, handguns should be banned, too.
Any new gun legislation should include a retroactive ban on said weapons. It's the only way. It should also come with absolutely ridiculous penalties and jail time, for those who think they can just keep it locked away and the government will never know. Start with the weapons registry, go house to house and get them. The Government should reimburse any citizen for the money spent on the item (including accessories). Include new laws that hold the gun owner, and seller accountable if their weapon is used in a crime. Make the prospect of your weapon being used in a crime so costly in fines and jail time, no one will want to risk it.
All future sales of any semi-automatic/automatic weapon should be the responsibility of the gun manufacturer and seller to do appropriate background checks. If a seller is pushing out quantities of semi-autos, the manufacturer should research how that's happening and demand documentation of where those weapons went.
Ban all sales of weapons at gun shows, without a background check. Those sales should also be included in a national registry with normal gun store owners. Any store/gun show that has no access to said registry, is denied the permit to sell weapons.
Ban high capacity clips, unless they're military, and stored ON military bases/armorys.
Couple that with meaningful improvements in our Mental Health infrastructure, and you might see some improvements. Yes, someone will always figure out a way, if they really want to do harm. But that doesn't mean we have to make it easy for them. The harder it is, the likelier they will get noticed/caught in the process.
I love guns, I really do. I enjoy shooting, and I enjoy the technology behind weaponry. But, I like my brothers and sisters more. I view schools as a place to learn, free from the ills of the world. And if we don't come together and start talking about possible solutions to this dire issue in America, everyone in Newtown died in vain.
I am simply in awe of these brave teachers and school staff. Actually, I guess I shouldn't be - they died doing what they loved, teaching, and they died fiercely protecting the children they loved. They are true heroes and may they always be remembered and may they rest in peace.
Victoria Soto - you are a hero to many.
For those saying the assault weapons ban had no effect:
You're leaving out the gaping whole that you could drive a howitzer through: the banned weapons were still made available at gun shows, without paperwork, without background checks. Dawgfan listed ATF background checks, but didn't mention they did find a reduction in usage of the banned assault weapons in violent crimes from 4.82% to 1.61%. But yes, crimes mostly shifted instead to the non-banned weapons.
By the way, Chris Rhodes Scholar, Columbine may have happened during the ban, but the two shooters bought their otherwise "banned" weapons at gun shows, without a background check, without paperwork, and without any traceable receipts. Some of their guns were not even on the banned list, however (shotguns, 9mm pistols, etc.).
B Murphy,
The Germans thought the same thing. Turned out so well for the Jewish population and most of Europe right?
No amount of background checks or regulations would have stopped this. The Ban back in 1994 did nothing to stop the violence. The sad reality is that there are crazy people in this world and will kill people with whatever they can find. In China they use knives, and yes they also have gun violence even with their strict gun laws. In the Philippines they use machetes and firearms. In Mexico they have strict regulations on firearms and we know how well that's going for them.
El Salvador, Jamaica, Honduras, Guatemala, Swaziland, Colombia, Brazil, Panama, Mexico, Philippines, and South Africa all have a gun death rate per 100,000 residents higher than the US.
El Salvador has strict gun laws. Everything gun control groups in the US call for is in place in El Salvador, but they top the list in gun deaths per 100,000 residents.
Jamaica has some of the strictest laws in the world. Gun owners are required to have a license and pay a $6,000 fee each year. The penalty for unauthorized possession of a firearm is an automatic life in prison. They are number 2 on the list.
Honduras requires owners be licensed, and must re-apply and re-qualify every 4 years. They are limited to 5 firearms, firearms are to be registered, unique identifying marks on each gun, and tracing procedures.
Guatemala all firearms owners must be licensed. Full auto is prohibited. Background checks are completed based on criminal, mental, and army or police service records. Owners are required to undergo training. Licenses must be renewal every one to three years which includes training/qualification. They are also limited in the number of ammo they can have. They have to register their guns.
Swaziland is under the UN guidence for regulation of firearms.
Colombia only handguns are permitted under license. Owners must have a valid reason for being permitted, background checks include criminal and mental records. Domestic violence denies or revokes a license.
Brazil requires owners be licensed to acquire, possess, or transfer firearms. They must have a valid reason for obtaining a firearm, must be a minimum of 25 years old, background checks consider criminal, mental, and employment records. Safety training and understanding of a firearm, and testing on a training course are required. Guns are also suppose to be registered.
Panama requires a valid reason for obtaining a firearm. Guns are to be registered.
Mexico law gives a constitutional right to keep and bear arms, but most types and caliber weapons are reserved for the military. Owners must also be licensed to possess a firearm that meets private ownership criteria. Background checks look at criminal, mental, physical and addiction records. Civilians are limited to 2 firearms for legitimate defense purposes, and they are limited on the number of bullets they can have.
Philippines requires owners be licensed, prove a genuine reason for possession, and limited to pistols and revolvers. Background checks are required.
South Africa requires license for the possession of pistols and revolvers. Civilians are not allowed to possess semi-automatic firearms without special endorsements. Background checks include criminal, mental, medical, domestic violence, addiction, employment, and previous firearm license records. They are limited to 1 firearm and 200 rounds of ammo.
All of these countries have more restrictive laws just like many of the gun control crowd wants, but the death rate exceeds the rate of the US. It just proves that no amount of regulation will prevent gun violence.
What?? You mean MSN decided not to post this story next to the "tragedy" of Selma Blair being photographed without makeup as appeared on MSN mobile yesterday?
My thoughts and prayers for this wonderful teacher who is passing.
@BMurphy, Are you serious about going house to house to collect all guns? How about we authorize the feds to go house to house and collect all illegal aliens, drugs, etc, etc. I personally will not support ANY legislation that gives free hand to the govt to just openly go door to door for anything. That is ridiculous and exactly what they did in Nazi Germany, USSR, Cuba, Vietnam, etc. still do in Communist China, North Korea and others.
Where does this all end? How many more children and adults have to die because of this insanity. Everyone wants to scream gun control, but is that really the answer. No I am not a gun toting enthusiast, but I am a mother and grandmother, and prior military. Every time something like has happened , the shooter has been called mentally deficient or ill, sorry but that is a cop-out excuse that we as a nation have to quit using. Am I mad about this, hell yes. These children were innocent and should have been allowed to liveand grow, and thier teachers , the loss to this country is just too great to bicker amongst ourselves about this should have been done, or that should have been done. Words can't bring these lost back to us. They can't give solace to the anguish that thier families feel , or the emptiness they will face for the rest of thier lives.
We can remember them and hope that a lesson is learned, but it is now up to usas a nation to do something about it. No I am not saying answer this violence with more violence. But we DO have the power in our hands and it's time we made our government officials act, or replace them with those that will. The greatest resource our country has is our children. They should be put first, above pay increases for government officials, or "committee talks", the time of words is over, it's time for action on the part of nation to say NO MORE!!!
@BMurphy: You know, strangling someone to death comes with jail time, sometimes a death penalty. Consequences do not seem to enter the minds of the people who commit such evil acts.
The main point here, is, these families that survive, the surviving classmates, how will they have the strength to handle all these funerals? This makes me hurt for them all so bad. What a monumental mountain of grief they are/will continue to suffer. Whoever in another article stated "we are broken", well, they were right. We are broken. My heartfelt prayers go out to the grieving families.
Sorry, I stopped reading your defeatist garbage after the first sentence. You have no ideas, you have no solutions, you simply accept the status quo and that we're powerless. Congratulations, you're muppets.
Sullyness,
I cited ATF Traces on assault wepons. The number of background checks in 1998 was 892,840. In 2012 not including December is over 16.5 Million.
PBgeorgia: You know, strangling someone to death comes with jail time, sometimes a death penalty. Consequences do not seem to enter the minds of the people who commit such evil acts.
Are you saying we should legalize murder then? Since despite our laws against it--murder always happens anyway?
@ bmurphy, you are sorry alright. A sorry lot.
@maxwell's, no, he just said that owning an assault rifle should have ridiculous jail time... like murder doesn't??? Does it stop murder?? Hell no!! I wish every state had the electric chair ready for murderers, rapists, and child molesters. You grossly misunderstood my comment. You should have read the ramblings of bmurphy above before showing how truly ignorant you are.
Dawgfang,
The countries with strict weapons laws, yet high rates of death by firearms that you list are hardly a comparison to the US. Everyone of those countries is not a first world developed country. They have severe underlying political and social problems. In many cases their gov'ts and police are run by a corrupt mob.
There is no comparison. Of all the developed nations in the world, the US has by far the most deaths attributable to firearms. Gun controls are required.
B Murphy has it right; I too like guns, how they work and the thrill I get from using one... but I like my friends and family more.
@PBGeorgia: Very constructive, yet again. Good job, guns are more important than children, I get it.
Did my comment leave a bald streak when it went over your head? You are nothing but a troll. I don't appreciate having words put in my mouth. I never said that guns were more important than children. I am not powerless. I have professional training from swat team members how to use a gun, how to keep it in my hand and never take it out against a person unless you will use it. That is for my safety. If I'm carrying it, and had a chance to, I would try to stop an evil nut job from committing such crimes. I am a decent person unlike yourself. OH, yet again, (rolls eyes) when in the hell did I say guns were more important than children? What comment? Go troll someone else. C U Next Tuesday!
In Japan, and other countries there have been attacks on school age children that resulted in death. All done with a knife. So you dont think many can be killed or wounded with a knife? How about 8 dead and 20 wounded. All with a knife. How about 911, 2,993 deaths all because criminals had knives.
@PBGeorgia:
Something going over my head, wouldn't actually affect my head, therefore it would leave no distinguishable mark, whatsoever.
A troll who proposed ideas to at least work towards finding a solution to the escalating violence inside the United States. What did you do? Nothing.
Your vehement opposition and lack of any thoughtful dialogue regarding what I said, says otherwise.
You must've missed the lesson on professionalism, because you clearly have none. Most SWAT team members actually behave in a manner befitting their position. You, behave like a child.
Baseless conclusion drawn from perilously little dialogue, because you had nothing constructive to say. Simply attacking, vehemently, what you disagreed with. Nothing I proposed is in the pipeline in our Government, let alone about to be signed. Therefore, your response was woefully inappropriate.
The mere fact that you responded, would indicate a successful trolling. However, I'm not trolling. As, mentioned before, I actually had some ideas to present. You had nothing, but name calling. And since your kind only knows name calling, I returned in kind. Next time, Mr. Professional SWAT training, attempt to broaden your mind, or in the very least understand that not everyone has the same ideas or solutions, as you do. You may actually have some very good thoughts regarding what we as a country can do, to at least make it more difficult for wannabe toughs like Mr. Sanza to obtain weaponry and/or find help for those who need it before something like this happens again. It's just that simple. If not, you are admitting powerlessness, and not worthy of anyone's thought or consideration.
And no, there's no way you will ever stop every bad person from doing something terrible. But increasing safeguards, or providing early Mental Health services to those disturbed individuals out there, just might remove many of them from the equation. It's far better to have 1 or 2 less mass shootings a year, than do nothing at all.
You are the ever present troll, BMurphy. I have just as much right to make comments on this vine as you or anyone else on here. Your opinions of me are just that, opinions. You clearly do not know me. What a horrible waste of your time and effort to make the post above. I know plenty of SWAT team members and let me tell you, some of them are a little skewed. One of the points I tried to make to you is, if someone is going to kill you and others, their mind is made up. If they don't have access to a gun or guns they will use whatever means possible to get the job done. I totally agree with the mental heath services for the people who suffer from mental health. It is also all of our responsibility that if we know someone in that state of mind, who has access to weapons of any kind, we should report them, give a heads up to authorities that this certain indiviual may pose a serious threat to him or herself and to others.
You write as though I am a blithering idiot, you see a few posts and make your ASSumptions and jump to all sorts of conclusions about me. I can't believe that you think authorities should go house to house to retrieve weapons. You wrote a lot of so called solutions, none of them made any sense so in effect, you, as well have made no contribution to this discussion. You know, I will take part of that back, the only contribution you may have made was about mental health issues. Here is where I take issue with that. The Northwest GA Regional Hospital was a state-run hospital that housed the criminal mentally ill, mentally ill, and they HOUSED a TB ward. Due to loss of state funding, the doors were closed and not all were relocated to other facilities, some of them were released to their families, so now the burden of care for these people is back on the families who couldn't begin to be of any help anyway. So, back to square one with that one. The less funding there is for treatment for the mentally ill, the more and more of these types of crimes we will see. Let's talk about "not worthy of anyone's thought or consideration". What you have proposed is more restriction on our freedoms, which I did not like, found you worthless for all your statements that led me to that conclusion. Law abiding citizens, even if they have let's say.. legal cannons in their front yards, are not a danger to society, no inanimate object can rise up and kill you. It takes a killer to kill you and to me, a killer is not a law abiding citizen. My family was attacked we suffered a fatality, and an injury, had I been smart enough then to be armed and trained we may not have had that fatality. So for someone to want to take my freedom to own firearms away or pick and choose what I can PROTECT myself and my family with, I get extremely vehement. I have a very good reason for that.
Yes, it is since 26 have been taken. Senseless.
Chefaz: Indeed. Sad beyond words.
A beautiful hero. This is one board where condolences should be left, not ones political agenda - plenty of time for that, but not here - respect the family.
Exactly! Remember, everybody: TWENTY-PLUS PEOPLE WERE KILLED IN THIS TRAGEDY, INCLUDING THE DUDE RESPONSIBLE FOR SAME! And even anybody living under a rock knows by now that THE MAJORITY OF VICTIMS WERE SIX OR SEVEN YEARS OLD AND IN FIRST OR SECOND GRADE!! HEL-LOOOO?!? While I understand the calls for stricter gun control and even the pro-gun saying about "when guns are outlawed" being brought up, this is no time for that kind of debate. Especially after this particular school shooting and the nature and scope thereof. If you want to post anything on this board--I'm **with** *you* on this, Becky--it should be condolences to the families of the victims and even to Newtown, CT as a whole. I mean, God forgive me, but if you don't have even 1/16 of compassion for the victims and their surviving families, you hardly have any business calling yourself a human being whatsoever.
I'll bet that deep down, your heart is hurting for the victims of this past Friday's massacre, especially for the little kids who were gunned down therein. No matter what you think of President Obama (or even the Democratic Party), he hit the nail right on the head: those kids will never experience (another birthday, never mind [, as he said that afternoon, ]) "graduations," (or, I would like to add, bar mitzvahs or bat/bas mitzvahs if they were Jewish, or First Communions or Confirmations if they were Catholic), "weddings, kids of their own."
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Did any of you see ABC News--'and/or, for those of you who, like myself, live in the New York City area, its ABC station's--interview with one of the school's hero (or in this case, what we now call a "she-ro")/survivor teachers--Kaitlin Hoig? Did you see her sob (during both interviews) as she was describing her ordeal (because of which her students have themselves survived the shooting)? At the end of the network interview in particular, even Diane Sawyer (who conducted that interview) was crying! Plus, I was listening to the audio of the local interview (via radio simulcast of the New York ABC-TV station's wall-to-wall [at that time] coverage of the shooting and its aftermath). I may be of the stronger sex, but I was crying along with Kaitlin during the local interview and watching the network interview via MSN.com. (If this ordeal won't make even the most macho man or the most callous and/or skeptic person of either gender cry on the inside, never mind weep and sob like a baby, what will.)
And on that note, I just watched the last part of a special episode of "Dr. Phil"--the third straight episode that dealt with the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting. Today's installment of the show appropriately ended with Dr. Phil and his wife Robin reading a special version of the poem "A Visit from St. Nicholas" (a/k/a "The Night Before Christmas) (re-)written (by a viewer of the show) about-and in memory of-those innocent children that we (and by "we," I mean the whole human race) lost five (Man!) days ago. Tune in to this episode (if the show airs tonight or later this afternoon where you live) or log onto www.drphil.com , where I'm pretty sure excerpts of that episode, including the reading of that aforementioned poem. By the way, as Dr. and Mrs. Phil McGraw were reading that poem, not only was there not a dry eye in the house (in this case, the "Dr. Phil Show" studio), Robin's eyes included, but so was I crying during much of that time. Pay close attention to the words as you watch this. Those words--and the bell tolling for the victims, plus the acccompanying caption--say it all.
I meant, "...where I'm pretty sure wil feature excerpts of that special episode (instead of the episode that was originally taped for today)." If you don't shed tears while Dr. Phil and his wife read that special version of "The Night Before Christmas", you're not human. I don't care how hard-nosed you are or (if you are of the male gender like myself) how macho you are.
I read that a couple of days ago David and it only added to the tears I have been shedding since learning of this massacre of those babies and teachers who did the unthinkable and sacrificed their lives to protect those children. When I saw the pictures of these babies - beautiful, beautiful children I sobbed more than ever. I have 3 kids and 2 grandchildren and I cant even begin to imagine losing one of them in a massacre like this. I keep thinking about how fearful they must have been knowing they were going to be shot, how long did they feel that fear and how long did they suffer. The medical examiner says if they suffered it wasnt for long. That is where my mind has been since Friday. Not listening to all these people who dont seem to have any compassion for anyone or anything except their beloved guns. I believe something has to be done. You guys cant have a defeatest attitude and say "it wont work ". Well after witnessing what happened and after listening to Obama I agree - you guys at least have to try or else all of these deaths are in vain. Can you live with that??
My apologies, everyone. In comment # 6.3, I incorrectly identified the name of the Sandy Hook Elementary School teacher who tearfully described her heroic ordeal on TV. Her name is Kaitlin Roig, not Kaitlin Hoig.
John 15:13 - No one has greater love than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends. Don't tell me that God doesn't live in our classrooms. He is there everyday in the works of thousands. Let us now work to make certain that no teacher has to die, ever again, to protect our children.
Joemike404:
Thanks for the Bible verse.
joemike:
What a beautiful sentiment and although I am a firm believer in the separation of church and state I agree with you about the majority of our teachers being willing to sacrifice everything for our children, including an upper income lifestyle. I would like to see that no more have to.
All rhetoric aside, everything we do from banning assault weapons and large capacity clips to requiring registration and classes for gun owners to closing gun purchasing loopholes will help. If these measures stop one crazy person from doing this type of unimaginable harm then we have created a compromise where gun owners can keep their misguided 2nd Amendment rights and teachers/children can keep their lives.
Augment these changes with more attention on regulating video games, overhauling our mental health care system and just plain better parenting and we might make schoolrooms in America much safer.
For those of you who argue that the problem lies with the removal of religion from schools I would have to totally disagree with you. As an agnostic I actually don't have a lot of knowledge of Bible verses and religion as a whole BUT I do know that Christians and Jews and other religious people carry God in their hearts at all times. Why would any person who is a good Christian need to outwardly express their Christianity in school? Prayer doesn't have to be said out loud for God to hear your prayer. The prayer can be and should be in your heart. Showing your religion in public is not necessary. I imagine that every person that was slaughtered by the murderer was screaming to God to have mercy on them, to save them, whether in their hearts or out loud. No, Christianity has not been removed from schools - it is there every day in the hearts of good Christians. Their God was with them in this terrible time.
Thank you JoeMike for that passage from the Bible. And BigdogMom your comment really spoke the truth in all of this. God is good and God promised that no matter what He would never leave us. He was there without a doubt and maybe without His presence there more babies would have been killed. The moron had lots and lots of ammunition and this tragedy could have been so much worse. But having said that to me it was bad enough.
And Thinking Mom - I couldnt agree with you more.
The same political party that is pro gun, wants to cut social services for mental health. Imagine that. The GOP is evil if evil had a name: the Republican Party owns it.
STFU with the political crap! There is a place for it and this isn't it.
@obams...
you need serious help dude...
@Obama Whistles: You're probably one of the mentally unbalanced who has free access to weapons of mass destruction.
@Obama Whistles: Oh? And what has the GOP done about illegal immigration? Hmm? Neither side has touched the issue, because it was an election year, and they prefer holding their power, rather than risking their political future proposing legislation that would be seen as unfavorable either to their constituency, independents or the opposite side of the aisle. Get a grip.
@Sablelace: Incorrect. Now is the time to start discussing all options that we as American citizens can employ in order to prevent as many future tragedies as we possibly can. Can we hope to stop them all? No, that just won't happen. However, inaction is the same as giving up.
We owe it to Victoria Soto (Rest in Peace), and the other 25 people who lost their lives over this, to do everything we can, to come together and discuss any and ALL ways to prevent it from happening in the future.
First of all what does a story about a "Hero" who we should all look up to start a dialog about Illegals. Oh and for you nut cases who hate Mexicans they are leaving Arizona in greater numbers than are coming in.
Getting beyond the political side of this is important. I am a democrat and voted for President Obama. I do also agree that we need to enforce our gun laws and ban assault weapons. But the fact is that there is over 300 million guns already in the hands of Americans that we know about.
This is an issue that will come up again. Count on it! We are fortunate that so far the terrorists haven't exploited our greatest weakness. The shooter entered one of the most secure schools through a blown out window in a State with the strictest gun laws. We do not have enough police officers to maintain the security of our children at these schools and we know it. Lets also remember that until 911 it seemed outragous to arm the pilots of planes.
We must arm the principles and vice principles of every elementry and high school in the country. We must also put a locked gun safe with a loaded hand gun inside of every class room. The safe should only be able to be accessed via biometrics i.e. finger print and the safe should be linked to an alarm system so that if anyone opens it it sends an alarm to the closest police department much like a panic button that is triggered on a safe at a bank if it is opened incorrectly. This would ensure that only the teachers and or designated personel would be able to access the safe and that anybody opening the safe would only do so knowing that such an action would bring the world to tht room in a matter of minutes.
I say this as a former school police officer with advanced active shooter training. This strong woman who tried to shield her students from this idiot would have shot him if she could have to save these kids. At least she should have had the chance.
We will not be able to protect all of our schools. Lets be smart and provide the tools necessary to keep them safe to those people who we already trust with providing them the education that they need for life.
@Obama Whistles Idiots Follow You sound like an idiot or you may be on drugs did you snort, smoke, or pop anything before writing that ridiculous post? Do you not realize that the person that caused this tragedy did not fit any of the criteria you listed? Illegals, drugs, and gang bangers have nothing to do with this hero's death above.
Obama: you forgot Iraq & Afganistan. Oh. Doesn't fit your agenda. Woops. I noticed you stopped when you realized how wrong you were.
No, there are not more people being killed/maimed in Chicago. There are gangbangers with guns provided by the racist GOP. Do you think the two I mentioned are not wars? And WHO put us there? I also noticed you became a member of newsvine just this month. Better you keep your thoughts to yourself and be thought a fool than reveal them and confirm it.
Although this is not the forum to discuss illegals , since the subject has been opened I just have to say that while illegal Mexicans are a drain to the economy in some ways in other ways their deportation as a whole could actually collapse the economy.
Who do you think are harvesting the crops in California? It sure isn't the white people, the black people, the yellow people or the other brown people. It is the Mexicans, legal and illegal. I live in the central valley of California where we produce much of the food that is on your table. We produce grapes, carrots, potatoes, tree nuts, safflowers for oil, oranges, apples, lettuce, alfalfa, cattle for milk, cheese and beef, chickens for their meat and eggs and much, much more. Actually California produces nearly anything you put in your mouth.
Without Mexicans crops wouldn't get harvested on time or at all. It's a differentt world than during the depression when "Okies" and the like came to California looking for work. They were desperate and would work any job where they could get a few dollars to live on. Now most Americans find manual labor somehow beneath them. It's backbreaking, dirty, hot work and the Americans just won't do it. They would rather work at McDonalds than work a field. I have seen how these Mexicans work and they are good at what they do. I hate to admit this but it is true - we couldn't live without them.
I;m sorry for not sticking to the heart of this board but I just needed to remind people where much of their food actually comes from. Good or bad Mexicans are needed in the USA.
Obama! "We owe it to all the Americans who died fighting evil to remove all Mexican invaders from the United States!"
You do realize it was WE who originally invaded what USED to be "Mexico" and took Texas and California for ourselves? Whoopsie!
Obama Whistles Idiots Follow
Unfortunately, facts don't actually stand with your insane ramblings. You're actually quoting a Huffington Post Article (which has been updated since), that indicated more people have died in Chicago than in Afghanistan. False. The story was updated to reflect that more people have died in Chicago than US Troops, killed in Afghanistan, this year. It does not reflect civilian casualties, nor does it reflect all US Casualties in Afghanistan, or Iraq, let alone coalition casualties.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/06/16/chicago-homicide-rate-wor_n_1602692.html
To make that claim, only proves that you're simply saying anything inflammatory to incite thoughtless arguments. Which is typical, rather than make tough decisions, or actually think about the situation, you'd rather derail the conversation entirely.
@Obama - I LIVE where most of the illegals are working. I have seen Cesar Chavez work the grape fields to unionize the workers. I have seen the Mexican workers every time I drive up and down the California's central valley. I don't know where you live but I guarantee at least some of the produce in your nearby store comes from California.
And about you jumping to conclusions - I do not, nor have I ever worked for LaRaza. Neither have I been brain washed. I live and work where Mexican legals and illegals live and work. I have stood in live behind them in stores buying their supplies for a day of harvesting the food I eat. They are a necessary evil and until you actually live where they live, watch them work you will never understand.
Do what you can to get rid of them if you wish but be prepared. When all the Mexicans are gone from California you will go hungry because I know that I won't be doing the harvesting and I dare say you won't either.
You might want to check your facts before you spout and spew your racist, insulting, childish remarks because it only makes you look like the fool you are.
And before you get your knickers in a twist you need to understand - I am not defending their illegal entry into the USA. I am defending my right to eat the food that is harvested by hardworking Mexican laborers. BTW - have you ever harvested grapes, strawberries, potatoes or any produce not grown in your own back yard? I thought not. When you do you will see that those machines don't run themselves, the grapes don't harvest themselves nor do they prune themselves. Those beautiful oranges that are sweet and delicious and from California certainly didn't make it to your table by osmosis.
"We don't need no stinking Mexicans" - oh yes we do. Unless you want to hunt your own meat, churn your own butter, grind your own flour, raise chickens for meat and your own eggs and have a nice "truck" garden in your tiny back yard then tell me YOU don't need "no stinking Mexicans." Otherwise do your own research. AND - veggies aren't MADE anywhere, they are grown. AND if you are such a good American why are you buying them grown in other countries? Shame on you.
@Obama idiot
What the hell you learn from history? The Aztecs means anything to you?? Oh yes, the Aztecs are from North America...ujum...yeah... The Mexican culture have contributed to North America culture like the rest of the world, which by the way is forged by immigrants...or not? I am confused.... North America is the land of immigrant, forged by immigrant for the immigrant or the history is wrong?
Do you know that the civil war had more casualties that WW1 and WW2 combined?? Was the bloodiest war ever fought in USA!!! Oh yeah… the Mexican were the cause of the war….hahaha. OMG.
You may have born in USA…but your roots are from other part of the world… The real Americans are quartered in reserves... the rest are uninvited guest..
Mexico, Spain, France, Italy, Japan, China, Greece, Germany, Egypt, Africa, England, etc, THOSE are the real cultural initiators and the precursors of the culture in North America and the rest of the world.
And shame on us to use this post to discuss this stupid and never ending issue.
Descansa en Paz Victoria!!
We wouldn't be talking about this Mass Shooting ,if it was up to the GOP.
That's right, the GOP would just sweep it under the rug and say it didn't happen.
what by chance are you folks on ? please check your meds.
You would lump all conservatives as GOPers? Some of us have a heart, pay our taxes, and even contribute to the betterment of the community. Yet you want to lump any conservative in the One per-center category. Not all of us a Millionaires, but we do love our country.
GOP/NRA people do NOT love our country or our children. The only things that the lunatic fringe love are power, money, and the stockpile of weapons they can get with their power and money. They don't want or use Buckmasters for hunting. If you can't take out a deer with a plain old rifle, then you are a bad shot and need to take up fishing. The GOP/NRA want to cling to these weapons of mass destruction to protect their money and power. The 2nd Amendment and other smoke screen excuses they give are just slight of hand distractions.
The GOP sure didn't want to come on the Sunday Talk Shows.Gun Manufacturers are making tons of money from the AR-15,and the NRA will lobby to protect their profits.The Gun Manufacturers give alot of money to the NRA.Blood Money.I see WalMart took the AR-15 off of their website,will probaly put it back up after this blows over.The GOP does what the NRA says,or else.Why are our Gun Laws being decided by the Gun Manufacturers through NRA.It's Crazy.
Allison Wyatt is the sweetest looking little girl with deep cerulean eyes and now her spirit soars above us...
Just as I said before - we are going to go through all 20 something funerals! WTH!?!?! The media has to let this GO and put it to REST! ENOUGH ALREADY!!!
Segdirb - Whether you choose to "go through all 20 something funerals" or not is entirely up to you. Turn off the TV, don't open stories about the funerals online. Retreat into your denial and stay there. We all handle grief in our own way. No one is making you look. On Friday 20 first grade children and 6 adults were murdered. It is Monday. There will be a time to move on. For most of us, that time has not yet arrived.
I think he means how the media wont leave Newtown alone. They talk about WHY and HOW. They dont seem to actually care about the Straight fact that people DIED.....
Could be, but it doesn't come across that way.
Umm Joe...its Weds.
^ Hes got a point ^-^'
Brutus - oops, time flies... I stand corrected but I don't think that substantially changes my point.
JoeMike don't forget the mother of the killer. No one is even mentioning the fact that her son blew her face off. HIS resposibility and choice no matter that they were her guns he was using.
I think the media needs to get a grip. They are running around this grieving little town looking for anybody who might have had even the tiniest connection with the killer or his mother. The hairdresser for crying out loud? Please - as someone mentioned last night the hairdressers could have been his target if anyone! Look at the horrible "bowl" haircut. And talking to people who went to school with him ten years ago. Again - please. The press needs to take a breather and when all is said and done then inform us of the real facts.
RIP Vicki Soto and all the victims. Joemike404, you are so right. I can't possibly imagine the anguish of the families and what they are going through. As for the dialogue that needs to take place in this country I only have 1 answer. Everyone without exception needs to be included. It's not just about mental health, it's not just about the 2nd amendment, it's not just about families compromised by poverty or wealth, single or married mothers & fathers. It's not about republican or democratic agendas. It's not about the NRA or the anti-gun groups. Everything and I mean everything needs to be on the table. If you are not part of the solution then you are part of the problem as my father used to say. Good and reasonable people should be able to put personal preference and or differences aside and say this is for the greater good of all.
Exactly!!! Thank you for such an intelligent comment.
Brian,
What needs to be done is impose harsh penalties on those that use guns in crimes. Financial as well as prison time. I think a mandatory sentence of 30 years for being in possession of a firearm while in commission of a felony or other forcible crime would be a good start. Then mandatory LIFE in prison if a firearm is actually used during any crime.
Right now the criminals barely get a slap on the wrist. Many of the people convicted or on trial for murder have run ins with the law, and a lot of those involve firearms. How may lives could have been saved if we have harsh penalties on the criminals instead of trying to infringe on the rights of the law abiding?
What rights did those babies in class have? Since when does the 2nd Amendment trump the 14th Amendment? The individual who carried this massacre out had no previous criminal history. He is not alive now to impose harsh penalties. Your argument is doesn't apply in this case. Brian's post is quite accurate. This doesn't have to be a political quagmire. It is about firearm regulation. It is about mental illness. It is about family support. It is about schools, religion, and community. It is about funding. But most important, it is about children and their right to attend school without being assassinated. We all have blood on our hands over this. We all failed our children, our Nation, and each other. We have an obligation to these youngsters and their teachers to do anything and everything in our power to make sure this does NOT happen again.
People are cra-zy is right - most of the time these things end in a suicide or with the perp getting shot by the police. No one is ever held accountable! His mother should have been held accountable too for letting her mentally ill child have access to weapons but she's dead now too. That is what is wrong with the mentality of gun enthusiasts - they all believe that they are totally in control andnothing bad could ever come of them owning guns. I have been to a funeral of a 15 year old who accidentally shot himself before a hunting excursion. Like the families of Newtwon, his family's lives are devastated forever, and for what? A hobby? Same thing with Lanza's mother. She couldn't protect herself when she really needed to. Her guns did her no good at all. So please tell me again how we need guns because otherwise we are all victims.
suspended, you don't know the circumstances of how the son came into possession of his mother's guns. He could have forced her physically to take them out. She may not have "let" him have access. I'm speculating because neither you nor I know the true circumstances.
Amazing how this is NOT being addressed as an anti jewish attack. These kids were mostly jewish and I just can't believe that this had nothing to do with the motive ....
Everything i READ appears to be connected to this. Look at the names of these kids .... They are jewish. The REGAILING of this poor woman is because she tried to save jews.
RIGHT before our eyes, the powers in charge are spinning spinning and we ALL are being hoodwinked ....
Victoria Soto, 27, "A man travels the world over in search of what he needs,and returns home to find it."
You, my friend, have problems. I doubt Victoria wants to be remembered as nothing more than Collateral damage. Have a heart.
Obama Whistles needs to be investigated for history of mental illness and then searched for any weapons.
Once again a "gun free zone" does nothing to stop a madman from murdering innocents.
Let the people arm themselves and protect their charges. Texas does it and there have been no mass shootings of children there.
Except of course when Clinton and Reno massacred the children at Waco.
Ummm we aren't allowed to have guns in schools in Texas, either! So why are you spitting out erroneous information... and BTW it's just a matter of time before it happens in another state...
ralph: "Except of course when Clinton and Reno massacred the children at Waco."
You DO realize the people at Waco had LOADS of guns, don't you? It didn't save them, did it?
Geez what a waist! You gaze into those pretty eyes, she should be honored among others as an angel. A protector for children going to school. RIP little lady...
Perhaps if she were armed, she'd still be alive, possibly along with some or all of the kids. At least that's the NRA's argument, which they'll be happy to express once this story fades away in time. As of now, the NRA is too cowardly to admit that this is exactly what they're thinking.
If she were armed she and a lot of others might be alive. But the government gives gun free zones for killers to roam unhindered in.
When moments count, the police are only minutes away!
Do not be surprise if it was "Mind Control" by the U.S. Government!!!
Ralph, are the voices telling you that the Gvt is trying to create "New World Order"? Seek therapy.
I'd have hit that. mwahahahaha
Classy.
like she would have let you...you insensitive idiot...
IDIOT ALERT. i think there wold be a lot of folks that would like to hit you. what a waste of space.
I place alot of the blame squarely on the mothers shoulders. She knew she had, at best, an emotionally unstable kid. WTF was she doing with all of those guns in the house?
It seems he had all of the classic traits of a spree killer. She set up this tragedt by making it so easy for him.
I wholeheartedly agree.
How do you both know he didn't take her guns by force? Do you think she said "here take my guns I know you're upset honey, go kill something" I highly doubt she didn't put up a fight as her face was blown off. Stop deciding what happened in that home when no one knows except 2 deceased people.
The liberal "we the sheeple" stance of thinking stricter gun laws will prevent this from happening again and ignoring the culture in which they created is so typical and expected...
How ‘bout we create a different culture, one in which we don’t need to tote guns around with us everywhere we go. We don’t need this generation of students thinking that they need to carry guns for the rest of their life to be safe. The NRA and gun manufacturers may like this idea, but this is not the way we have to live. I’m not ready to give up.
It's better than creating an arms race between the insane and the commmon folk. I mean, when I heard the joke that the GOP wanted to take us back to the 1800's, I thought it was just a joke. Clearly it's not...
In a word that has been bastardized, she is the definition of the word "Hero".
I pray for all even the idiot posters who have no feelings and can not have a civil tongue.
https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/reallocate-8-billion-50-million-spent-foreign-aid-domestic-use-hire-vets-protect-our-schools/KjVvmWBy
I pray for peace and strength for the friends and family (and dog) of this caring and brave teacher and all the others that lost their lives to the crazy coward coocoo whose mother may or may not have been planning to have him committed unwillingly to a mental institution, but regardless, equated to mass deaths of innocent people by keeping guns readily available. There is a lesson to be learned here, in all of this sadness. Laws only go so far and really only seem to keep the sane and law abiding citizens in check. Common sense goes much further. Let's stop pointing fingers at the laws and the politicians and everyone else and look at what WE, as mothers, fathers, friends, family and even acquaintances can do to make the world around us a safer place. Watch out for people that say or do threatening things and don't be one of those people that when interviewed AFTER the incident says that they aren't surprised by what happened.
Time or place to deal with this "issue" will come - In the meantime...Vicki you are an inspiration. I have a feeling that God took you for a reason. Perhaps in some way to look after these kids that came with you. If so they could not be in better hands. There is some comfort in that.
RIP Vicki - You are my hero.