Connecticut school named for slain Newtown teacher Victoria Soto

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A photo of Sandy Hook Elementary School teacher Victoria Soto is held outside of her funeral at the Lordship Community Church in Stratford, Conn. on Dec. 19.

Updated 10 p.m. ET: The Stratford, Conn., Town Council voted Monday to name a new primary school building after Victoria Soto, one of six staffers killed during December's tragic school shooting in nearby Newtown, Conn., NBC Connecticut reported.

Stratford Mayor John Harkins told NBCConnecticut.com that he recommended the town council name the new site for Stratford Academy's Honeyspot House building after 27-year-old Soto. The town of Stratford, where Soto reportedly grew up in, is located just about 22 miles southeast from Newtown. She graduated from New Stratford High School in 2003.

Soto died while trying to protect her first-grade students when a gunman opened fire at Newtown's Sandy Hook Elementary School on Dec. 14. Twenty children and five other adult staff members were also killed in what became the second worst school shooting in U.S. history.


Monday's Stratford Town Council meeting agenda includes the naming resolution and states, "Soto’'s courage, dedication and self-sacrifice demonstrate a strength of character and extraordinary commitment to her students of the absolute highest magnitude."

"This tragedy has affected so many people," Harkins told NBCConnecticut.com. "But I think the one thing great about the Stratford community is the outpouring of support and people wanting to recognize her and what she did."

Harkins has said the family supports the renaming tribute, as does the town's Board of Education members, Reuters reported. The mayor told NBCConnecticut.com Soto's aunt reportedly had taught at the old school building. Harkins also hopes to build a memorial for Soto.

Construction for Honeyspot House's new school building will begin over the summer and is expected to open in 2014, NBCConnecticut.com reported.

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NBCConnecticut.com's Amanda Raus and Reuters, contributed to this story.

RelatedLight amidst the darkness': Heroic teacher Victoria Soto remembered

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Thats a nice Tribute. She seemed like she really cared about her kids. And she certainly was a hero on that tragic day. Such a pretty young woman too, a real shame. Now her name will serve as an inspiration to others for years to come. Im sure she would be proud. And her family should be proud.

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#1 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:26 PM EST

I hope when president obama bans all these high capacity ammo and automatic assault rifles they name for the bill after this brave teacher, and after that our schools will be much safer.

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#1.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:28 AM EST

She was a true hero trying to help the children when she could have easily ran and saved herself. No greater love than a man would lay down his life for a friend. Sorry Barry but they will be no safer. To even think that would be to invite it again. You can ban them now but there are thousands already out there.

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#1.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:31 AM EST

@Morejustice Your comment better than any other comments in regards to this story ,I'm outside the US and I agree 100% with you. My prayers continues for the families that are in suffering over lost of their baby's and loved once .May God give comfort to all.

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#1.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:11 AM EST

I have a big problem with this whole thing. They act like she was the only adult that died trying to protect those children. What about the other 5 adults who gave their lives trying to do the exact same thing she did. How are they going to honor those people and their families? If you are going to do for one do for all.

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#1.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:28 AM EST

@englewoodtrkr, that was my first thought when I read the headline only, but when you read that Stratford is her hometown, a place with no direct connection to the others, who died, it makes sense.

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#1.5 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:59 AM EST

Englewoodtrkr,

I agree totally with you. Yes, no doubt she died with fear in her and as a heroine trying to save the children, but the facts are so many lives were lost....young and old. What about the principal who ran toward this terrorist in hopes of stopping him. She too lost her life doing a courageous act in trying to protect others as well. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers to all affected by this undescribable tragedy.

  • 8 votes
#1.6 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:01 AM EST

She lived in a different town. That town, where it seems like she is the only one who died in this incident from there, decided to name the school after her. Not in Newton...

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#1.7 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:04 AM EST

Barry,

Why must you bring the politics in? This was a nice tribute to a very brave person.

The Boy Blunder can't ban anything. Congress makes laws. An Executive Order is not a law.

  • 7 votes
#1.8 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:19 AM EST

MoreJustice: Would it have been less of a shame if she wasn't pretty? Other than that, I agree with your other comments. It is a fitting tribute to a true hero.

However, as others have said there were others who lost their lives that day, too. Is it only because Ms. Soto was pretty that she is the one that the media and the public continue to focus on? Was the principle not attractive enough to garner our sympathy? What about all the children who lost their lives...or the first responders who had to come upon the heartbreaking sight of child after child lying dead?

They are all people who should be remembered. It's a shame that only the one "pretty" girl is the one everyone is focused on.

  • 3 votes
#1.9 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:00 AM EST

Sorry to burst your bubble, but citizens dont need the same firepower as the police have. One day someone in the airforce is going to go crazy, steal an f-16 fighter jet an kill a few hundred people with sidewinder missiles........ At which point the NRA,s new motto will be , if the American people cant own f-16 fighter jets with sidewinder missiles, only criminals will have them...

  • 5 votes
#1.11 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:30 AM EST

She was from Stratford not Newtown. Her hometown was Stratford, she lived there, grew up there, went to school there and her family lives there. She worked in newtown. If her hometown wants to name a school after her that is their right. The hometowns of the other teachers can do the same if they wish. She wasn't the only adult killed but this is Stratford's way of healing.

  • 13 votes
#1.12 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:43 AM EST

Paul - You are a meathead..... And to the rest of you who are on the "ban the assault weapons" bandwagon, stop watching Rambo and relying on fictional movies to draw your conclusions about these guns. What the American citizen is allowed to buy that everyone likes to call an "assault weapon" is not different than most hunting rifles. It just has a different handle configuration....

Rather than focusing on 40 people who die every year by a deranged gunman wielding an "assault weapon", why don't you get angry that nothing is done about the other 10,000 who are killed annually by handguns. Stolen handguns.... Instead of giving gangbangers an 18 month sentence for possession of a gun, make it 18 years.... Use it in a crime, 25 years, inflict injury you get life... Then you might actually make progress on this issue instead of passing feelgood laws that will do nothing to protect anyone.

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#1.13 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:51 AM EST

Barry,

No Automatic weapons were used in the Sandy Hook Shooting. Also, no High Capacity Magazines were used either. Standard Mags were used in all three firearms. Please enlighten us with what someone of your brain power considers High Capacity? Please tell us how any of the restrictions you mentioned would have stopped the Sandy Hook shooting? How would it prevent future shootings? The answer is it wouldn't. The ban in 1994 didn't stop school shootings. It certainly didn't stop the North Hollywood Bank shootout. There are over 24 million assault style weapons in the US, and no ban or restriction is going to change that number. We have a soceital problem, not a gun problem.

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#1.14 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 10:19 AM EST

Wow Princess, how you do you walk around with that HUGE chip on your shoulder? Yes, she was very pretty, and any death is terrible. This is her hometown honoring her, why are you so resentful?? There have been stories about all of the people killed,why are you so upset that she was pretty? You sound hateful and jealous, let this beautful woman, and all the other beautiful people who lost their lives that day rest in peace.

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#1.16 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 4:35 PM EST

Obama : Mexico's Puta is INFLAMATORY.in the name itself and so is the message. It should get deleted

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#1.17 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:37 PM EST
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What a very nice thing for the town to do! She was so young herself--I'm sure many of those who taught her at the high school are still there, and they are no doubt proud to have known her. Many of them surely served as an inspiration for her in her career choice.

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Reply#2 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:41 PM EST

Most of my family are in Fairfield County, CN, and my cousins were close friends with Vicky Leigh (Soto). They became teachers together and taught in the same district. I probably played with her at my uncles pool parties during family visits. It was eerie getting texts from my father (relayed from my uncle) knowing it could have easily been one of my cousins. Personally I would rather remember her as the girl with a mess of long curly hair playing water dodge-ball.

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Reply#3 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:45 PM EST
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Maybe I am just a troll... but I can't understand where they get, "...the community is devistated by the loss..."? I seriously doubt that, had she not died, no one (other than her immediate famly and friends) would have known she was there. It's pitiful that it takes something like this tragity to have someone recognized like this...

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Reply#4 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:47 PM EST

you ARE a troll, and a full blown jerk.

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#4.1 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:17 PM EST

How do you know what the community feels...... this whole incedent touched more than you think. How dare you talk that way. SHE GAVE UP HER LIFE TO PROTECT CHILDREN that she had no relationship too other than being a teacher for. You are such a D A. You and all the rest of the hatefull americans can go to FN Hell. Oh by the way I'am not a part of that community but I think they are sad of this loss. Who wouldn't be. FO

  • 10 votes
#4.2 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:34 PM EST

What an autistic jerk you are SADDEN. Sad that you don't really comprehend human nature.

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#4.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:58 AM EST

Your right....you are a TROLL....

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#4.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:04 AM EST

I don't believe that Sadden is a troll....I think there is alot of honesty in what was said. What if the shooting never happened? Would we even know her name? And if you think about it; would YOU want to be remembered because of this horrific event? Would she? Personally, I wouldn't want ANYONE in my family to be given tribute in the name of something so evil and ugly....and for my family member to be remembered in the same breath as the person who did such an ugly deed!

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#4.5 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:43 AM EST

@Dianne Bush I think the same way ,Sadden try to express sorrow over the the real facts ....YES while a human on this earth is rarely recognize for doing the good things in life ,only when he/she passes all the good things appear .Sadden did not express opposition to this issue ,I believe he/she is wrongly accused ,please people WHY not use your sensitivity for all .Ms Soto deserves all the respect for the unselfish act she has done for "HER KIDS" (reading a report she had called them ) and so is the others ,each and everyone dedicated their life in their own way to save the Newton children .Her town is doing the right thing,Newton town have to deal with so many HEROES ,how to recognise one v/s the other .LIFE IS SHORT BE KIND <GOD BLESS YOU ALL > greetings from ROMANIA .

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#4.6 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:28 AM EST

clearshot,

What? How does autism enter into this?

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#4.7 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:21 AM EST

NC because people are ignorant and just throw stupid comments out there ya know cause the alleged shooter was autistic.

    #4.8 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:38 AM EST

    CLEARSHOT!!!

    What an autistic jerk you are SADDEN. Sad that you don't really comprehend human nature.

    Really? "Autistic?" I'm appalled that you would choose to use an illness and couple it with "jerk" to describe a person whose opinion you disagree with. So, everyone with autism is a jerk? Do you even know what autism is? I think you should stop posting on public websites.

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    #4.9 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:05 AM EST

    My God people - this has gone from an article about naming a school after the teacher into a lesson on the political correctness of using the term "autistic."

    If this hadn't happened, the community probably wouldn't have known who she was. But it did, and I feel quite sure they feel devastated - I know I have, and I don't even live in that part of the country or know anyone involved - that doesn't take away from how devastating this is.

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    #4.10 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:34 AM EST
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    I don't want to sound like a jerk, but I feel like by naming a street, school, building or whatever for just one person it kind of takes away from all the others that died. It would be nice for everyone to be included. They were ALL important and they will ALL be missed.

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    Reply#5 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:56 PM EST

    I'm sure other things will end up being named after others, especially in Newtown, but this school is being named after Ms. Soto because she is the only only from Stratford. Stratford is quite a ways from Newtown. There's no disrespect implied. It's just that this is her hometown.

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    #5.1 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:05 PM EST

    I agree with the sentiment. I am happy her home town is recognizing her, but I feel like the media jumped on this one teacher as the poster image for the tragedy. I have seen her face more than any of the other faces of any victim.

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    #5.2 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:34 PM EST

    I agree. For some reason, she was singled out and praised. There were 5 other adults that also gave their lives. Other than the principal and counselor, not much information was given on the others. I don't mean any disrespect, but I think that all the teachers should have been recognized.

    Teachers all over the USA would have done the same thing. That is because their class are their "kids". Each of these adults gave their lives and I don't feel right in recognizing just one.

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    #5.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:03 AM EST

    Do you mean having eveyone included...as in the 26 chandles? As in, everyone except the first person killed that day? Or as in everyone included that advances this government's agenda?

    And to history-255, you do realize that there were 6 other adults besides the principal?

    Why is it that so few people have acknowledged that this person also killed his mother- as reported? Why 26 and not 27? Why is it that his mother is being ignored in how this story has been told? I imagine it's because she doesn't fit any politicians's agenda. If only he had killed his mother and then killed himself, perhaps then this story would have gone unnoticed.

    Let's make the U.S. a gun free zone...only then will all of our citizens be protected by a false sense of security.

    Why is it if the government declares a place a gun free zone...that they are not responsible for it's defense? Our courts are protected, our politicians are protected, but none of those that they claim to represent are protected..hypocrisy? How dare you...

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    #5.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:12 AM EST

    Lee, SDMN and Windacersong,

    So nice to see mature comments on the message board for a change! I completely agree with the comment about the media's choice to continually highlight only a few, or really one of the victims. I think it's disrespectful to the memory of the rest of the victims and especially to the other teachers and employees who did the best they could in that horrible situation. My issue is with the media not the people trying to do right by the deceased.

    • 5 votes
    #5.5 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:14 AM EST

    Damn, people, give it a rest. Why do some of u have to be so frigging negative about everything? This young teacher gave her life, as did others, and her hometown honored her and some of you yohos have a problem with that. Too bad the town of Stratford's sense of honor doesn't fit your definition.

    And Getting Older, yeah I can tell you are. Honoring someone is not the place for you to dishonor them by a near rant about gun free zones. Everyone with a brain understands that Adam Lanza did not pick that school because it was a gun free zone. He picked it because he connected it to something bad in his life. Just as Holmes in Aurora did not pick that specific theater because it was gun free. He picked it because it was showing the Batman movie, hence his near Joker look. And contrary to popular misconception, none of the theaters in Aurora permit the carry of guns on their property.

    Mass shooters pick places where there will be masses of people to shoot which generally happen to be places where guns are not wanted. Just like Columbine, which had an armed guard, those shooters picked it for something which they considered to be symbolic of something unpleasant in their lives.

    Stop believing the utter BS that NRA leadership is feeding you. They are nothing more than a front for the gun industry and increased profits.

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    #5.6 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:05 AM EST

    Getting Older, his mother supplied the gun to a mentally ill person, so I think that is more of the reason she's passed over. Rather than your therory.

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    #5.7 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:23 AM EST

    @NUNI..........This is HER OWN TOWN not the town where the incident happened ,read the article it's her town's decision and her citizens ,her own school mates support.

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    #5.8 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:33 AM EST

    bowknuckles, we supplied MOM with the guns, so maybe we should be to blame. I honestly wonder if she knew what kind of risk she was undertaking. Was it the right thing to do? no. Did she more than pay for her mistake? yes. Are "we" doing anything about it?

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    #5.9 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:57 AM EST
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    nunyabiznaz1

    People will find ways to honor others I am sure. There will also be monuments which will include everyone on them. In other events in which numerous people have died, individuals have been chosen for their names to go onto buildings, like institutions, scattered across the country, as they had some association with that person.Like where they were born, educated, donated to a cause or charity of some kind. It is the way things tend to go. Give it time and see what happens.

    As for this woman, she was in her classroom and her role was that of teaching the students, and trying to protect them. So being that the case, it is not quite the same role as just a victim, but a teacher in one of the two classrooms. Since the new building is also a school, the suggestion for a teacher who died trying to protect her students, seemed an appropriate one.I am sure other people will be chosen for other places in time.

    This is a lovely way to help remember a wonderful young woman who dedicated her life to teaching the very youngest in our society to develop a love for learning.Truly a gift with literally can change the destiny of each child's future and potential for life long happiness. By providing opportunities to explore,discover the incredible treasures this world holds, while fulfilling their own dreams in life.

    No one will ever forget how this loving, courageous teacher lost her life.Yet, it should be her absolute love for every child in her care, her devotion to meeting their needs in learning,selfless commitment to making learning a fun experience, constant striving for excellence in all she provided, that should be remembered most of all.

    I hope the students who will use the new school will be inspired by her story, while teachers will seek to follow her role model as well. For we all need inspiring individuals at times, to help us reach farther and climb higher, then we normally would push ourselves.It is so easy to just get caught up in the dull drums of life and take so much for granted, or not see true potential. Including what lies slumbering within oneself

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    Reply#6 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 10:57 PM EST

    windancer,

    This was a lovely thing to say. Thank you.

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    #6.1 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:28 PM EST

    A wonderfully written comment - and I hope that others responding to this article read it. Yes - some victims are currently getting more coverage, and that is for various reasons. However, each family is dealing with their grief in their own way, and only putting so much information out there regarding their loved one. Mrs. Murphy died with Dylan Hockley in her arms, trying to shield him from the bullets. I am in complete awe of her strength, as well as the other adults who tried to save the children's lives. Her story, along with those of the other victims, will live on. For anyone to judge how a family, town or community chooses to honor or remember each of these blessed souls is their own business. Respect that.

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    #6.2 - Wed Jan 16, 2013 12:22 AM EST
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    What a gorgeous little creature! R.I.P

    Myself, personally, I don't accept hearing and reading that this was "the 2nd" worst School shooting in this Country. This was "THE WORST". NO MINIMIZING in any way, whatsoever.

    • 2 votes
    Reply#7 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:19 PM EST

    I thought that at first too, "what about the others". I am happy that her town is naming a school after her, that is a nice gesture. However, I have seen her face too much and not the others. There was another young teacher killed and I hardly have seen her face grace the news.
    Ultimately, I hope that none of those killed died in vain and that each of their memories live on in the hearts of those that they have touched.

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    Reply#8 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:31 PM EST

    @SDMN It is her town that talks and recognise her ,her school mates her family not the officials not media to bad that the others have no one to bring them up .WE never know what happened to the Janitor that had big part in saving all the children and staff. It is up to whom cares about you ,whatever you feed the media they are eager to report .So stop that "HEAR ENOUGH " I'm out side the US ,but I feel to much jealousy involved in such comments .She was such a beautiful CHILD ,SISTER , FRIEND ,COUSIN , I would talk about her in every news report if I was close to her SHE DESERVES ALL THE ATTENTION I have a sweet daughter like that GOD forbid if anything would happen I would scream to the whole world day and night .BE KIND ,PUT YOUR SELF IN THOSE PARENTS SHOES ....

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    #8.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:47 AM EST
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    Funny how she already had a rip page on facebook on the 10th and the appearant shooting didn't happen till the 14th. Wake up people! Do a little research!!!

    • 3 votes
    Reply#9 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:45 PM EST

    You are a total moron. How do you breathe?

    • 8 votes
    #9.1 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:57 PM EST

    There is not enough tinfoil on earth for hillbilly's hat. Good grief

    • 7 votes
    #9.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:30 AM EST

    You HillBilly Red...neck moron

    • 3 votes
    #9.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:08 AM EST

    Yeah, everyone knows that the NRA staged this whole thing to increase the sale of guns. Get a grip Hillbilly.

    • 6 votes
    #9.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:09 AM EST

    @hillbilly, I brought up this point to a friend and he would not listen! The fact that most of all the "victims" are registered with the screen actors gild seems to elude any mention by the media. This seems to be more about removing the second amendment from our constitution. Never let a crisis go to waste.

    • 4 votes
    #9.5 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:46 AM EST

    I also saw this and there are a lot of other unexplained coincidences, like what ever happened to the 2nd person arrested in the woods. maybe the government staged it to make all the sheeple want to ban guns. you guys think the govt can do no wrong your ignorant. guns are selling without the nra's help.

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    #9.6 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 7:12 AM EST

    I am aghast at these conspiracy theories. The reporting in the moments after the shooting, like all major events, was incomplete and often inaccurate. As the FACTS were sorted out, it became clearer. The "facebook memorial" to Ms. Soto before the shooting is hogwash. The 2nd person arrested was a father who showed up to help his child's class with gingerbread houses and he happened to be there just as the shooting stopped and the cops arrested him just in case he was involved and he was very quickly released. These conspiracy people MAY be well meaning, but for the love, be respectful. Don't harass these families or those that were there to provide immediate assistance. That is appalling.

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    #9.7 - Wed Jan 16, 2013 12:28 AM EST
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    SO, can one of you explain why her memorial page was posted to facebook on the 10th. of dec. and then immediately removed after the event happened? CAN YOU TELL ME WHY EMILLE PARKERS FATHER IS LAUGHING SECONDS BEFORE HIS INTERVIEW WITH THE NEWS? can anyone tell me why Emille Parker's father needs to read Q- cards to describe his own daughter? can you tell me why EMILLE PARKER seems to be dead according to the news and her father and for some reason is sitting on the presidents lap 2 days after the event? If you watch the mainstream news of the event, there is NOT A SINGLE TEAR SHED BY ANY OF THE PARENTS. The entire event was staged by your govt. TIME TO WAKE UP AMERICA...........

    • 5 votes
    Reply#10 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:55 PM EST

    Well, golly. No. The rest of us don't know that it is a conspiracy from...what? Obama? The UN? The Tripartite Commission? Muslims? Martians?

    So many people would benefit from killing six year olds.

    You are a total idiot. The parents on the television were sobbing tonight.

    • 8 votes
    #10.1 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:59 PM EST

    anotherdude, go get hillbilly, run to wal-mart, grab as much tinfoil as you can afford and go jump off a fukn cliff you complete fukn MORON

    • 6 votes
    #10.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:33 AM EST

    Can you tell me why you believe garbage that people make up?

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    #10.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:10 AM EST

    @Phillyfan........Thanks for your comment I didn't have such good laugh in a while .....good one ...

    Oh my God ....what a poisoned minds we have on this earth HILLYBILLY & ANOTHERDUDE.......names says it all.......Please GOD don't let them loose ,police should check their basements .....

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    #10.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:55 AM EST

    Yes indeed.. Everyone needs to watch this video..

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6fvFVVEG5Q

      #10.5 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:03 AM EST

      @anotherdude,

      You have to get it right: The correct conspiracy theory is "It was the Rand Corporation, in conjunction with the Saucer People, under the supervision of the Reverse Vampires. We're through the looking glass here, people."

      Some people just refuse to face reality...

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      #10.6 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 10:41 AM EST

      The conspiracy theorists are disgusting. They want the rest of the world to check the facts? They dare to judge the grief of a parent who just lost a beautiful 6 year old child? Is there a manual somewhere for this as to how families and communities are supposed to cope with this? They insinuate that these children and parents are members of the screen actors guild? Emilie Parker's little sister, her best friend, wears her older sister's dress and people claim it is actually Emilie? A parent is not allowed to smile and laugh when recounting beautiful memories of their little one? It's one thing to question certain facts or unexplained details - but to question the grief of a devastated parent is appalling.

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      #10.7 - Wed Jan 16, 2013 12:34 AM EST
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      This is a fine tribute and also touching. Her bravery is to be commended. However that is what makes America "America" because most of us would have stood in front of those little kids in such circumstances. May God heal those families and love those children who have come to his throne. Amen.

      • 3 votes
      Reply#11 - Mon Jan 14, 2013 11:56 PM EST

      @ Larry AMEN to that ...

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      #11.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:56 AM EST
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      So the pretty young girl gets a school named after her. Ugh... Doesn't deserve it.

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      Reply#12 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:02 AM EST

      You are right, Charlie. She just gave her life to protect kids. Not heroic like you.

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      #12.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:09 AM EST

      They should name one after you. The Charlie Judd School of Pudd.

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      #12.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:11 AM EST

      Deserves it, even more than yourself getting your ass whooped. Do you really think you are the one to say who is deserving of respect? You're an idiot.

        #12.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:14 AM EST

        doesn't deserve it?

        so trying to protect her kids WITH HER OWN BODY doesn't deserve her with the recognition to name a school after her?

        she gave her life to try and protect her kids. the least we can do to honor the memory of her sacrifice is to name a school after her.

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        #12.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:15 AM EST
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        Well, roaming buffalo, if you would do just a little research OUTSIDE the mainstream media, you would find that this event is no different than the last 2,3,4, or maybe even the last 10 events. The Aurora shooting was the beginning oof this at least in the last year. If you can show me a single tear in the eye of just one parent of the Sandy hook event then i will gladdly withdraw all of my comments. and if you do the research, this girls sister is one of the actors and the only photo of ANY EMOTIONAL person in pictures. There are just too many loopholes for me to feel any greif at this point. I KNOW that this soley an attack on the second ammendment.

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        Reply#13 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:11 AM EST

        People are NOT plotting to kill kids in order to take away your guns. If you morons could ever figure out that a "conspiracy" can have two or three people, tops. You can't have a shooter or shooters, cops, Facebook, parents and fake children. Bush didn't bring down the Twin Towers. Obama was not born in Kenya. Global warming is a fact. Man landed on the moon.

        The earth is round, too, in case you have doubt about that.

        • 10 votes
        #13.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:17 AM EST

        Anotherdude, are you sure you are a dude and not just misspelling dud?

        • 3 votes
        #13.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:13 AM EST

        You mean like from Breibart.com or one of those?

          #13.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:20 AM EST

          You're total and complete scum.

          • 3 votes
          #13.4 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:54 AM EST

          Anotherdude,

          I'd be surprised if there is a single thing anyone can say or any amount of proof offered up which would convince you that your premise(s) are crackpot.

          • 1 vote
          #13.5 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:51 AM EST
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          It's a nice tribute, and she certainly deserved it. I just cannot get over this tragedy, these young children, twenty of them, murdered in their own school. It is too horrible for words. It is all so senseless and yet the pain of these parents will last a lifetime. A very sad day for our country, it should never have happened.

          • 4 votes
          Reply#14 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:20 AM EST

          show me one dead body or the front door that was blown open by the shooter. can't do that can you. why was all the law enforcement and fire personell at the firehouse instead of the school? i don't know, do you? Why does the corroner have no idea what the results of his own autopsy's are? Why doesn't he even know how many males of female victims there are? I'm looking for answers just like you. I just have real questions, instead of a soft heart.

          • 2 votes
          Reply#15 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:23 AM EST

          Apparently you shut off the news prior to the coroner's report. Each victim from multiple gunshot wounds, some as many as 11. No bodies by the front door because the shooter had progressed farther than that before being confronted. You are one sorry paranoid piece of delusional sadness.

          • 5 votes
          #15.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:15 AM EST

          We are all entitled to our opinions. I feel everybody who has posted a comment here, has a valid point if we all take the time to see beyond our own points, and try to understand each other. Only then, can we start to feel each other, like each other and learn to tolerate others. Ms. Soto, was indeed a hero, but so were all the teachers, and the teachers who kept their classes calm throughout the noise of those guns firing, lord only knows what the shooter was shouting, kicking in, etc. That School should be torn down, and a beautiful Memorial to Newton and their loss should be erected there, and a place for each lost individual where there story can be told....I am sorry for Nancy Lanza, but she put those guns in her son's reach; and she knew what she was dealing with, as well as the rest of the Lanza family, who should step up and take responsibility for what has happened in Newton...For the man suing the State, outrageous and disgusting, there is no amount of money that will ever make you or your child forget; or that town for that matter forget. You want to sue someone, go after the Lanza family, the father, the brother, the aunt, the officer who is living in Nancy Lanza's home and is a relation. What is that all about? What are they searching for? Too many secrets within that family...And the shame most of all, the NRA....Shame Shame Shame on you, take some of your money and funnel it towards tragedies to help the victims families. I agree with our right to bear arms, but our forefathers could not fathom the depth of violence and how fast as a society we would progress with the kind of guns that are being used to shoot down innocents. As an adult I cannot even conceive what it felt like to have 223 bullets ramming into my body. I know the gun, I know the bullets, and they are not necessary in our American Homes. We are not at war with each other, so why are these guns in our homes....NRA, wake up and smell the coffee.

          PS And when we name call people hiding behind our computers, it is easy to do that when you do not have to do it to a face. Those are the kind of people who are unable to think of anything interesting to say and thus, just pick apart another individual. Shame Shame on you too....Until we start treating each other with respect and kindness, the World will continue on a horrid collision within itself.

          • 3 votes
          #15.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:08 AM EST

          For the love - anotherdude you make it too easy - too too easy to lampast your ridiculous assertions. It's an ongoing investigation. Did you quit watching or reading the news a few hours after this happened? It's an ongoing investigation - hence many details/pictures of the exact happenings won't be available until it is complete. And given that these beautiful, beautiful children were all hit by bullets multiple times - do you think it was possible for the coronor/medical examiner to identify the bodies immediately? One child was hit ELEVEN TIMES. A first grader. Shot 11 times. Let that sink in.

          Was Emilie Parker's father speech the evening of the shooting not convincing enough for you? His tears not real enough? The fact that spoke of her in the past and present tense because he was trying to come to grips with a future without her didn't break your heart?

          Of course they had others waiting at the firehouse. The school was a CRIME SCENE. The bodies were still being identified. A teacher was shot in the face. You don't need a criminal justice degree to know that a crime scene can't be contaminated.

          You don't have real questions - they come from misinformation and shoddy research. Is it the gore and graphic details you seek? Do you need to know where the bullets hit? Do you need to know whether or not the children were huddled in a corner, terrified, when this monster attacked? Out of respect for these children, teachers and their families, show some compassion. Even if it means holding back on the "questions" you want answered. Wait until the full results are out. If you must, do a FOIA request - at least that way you can hopefully put these ridiculous theories to rest in your own mind without burdening the rest of the grieving world with your nonsense.

          • 1 vote
          #15.3 - Wed Jan 16, 2013 12:51 AM EST
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          Buffaloes Roam- Vote - Vote - Vote - Vote

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          Reply#16 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:25 AM EST

          There are the parents of twenty children who have lost what they most loved in this life who will tell you that indeed this terrible thing happened. Don't be so callous as to turn other people's suffering into some idiotic conspiracy theory. If we as a society let these children down by not finding a way to keep them safe, at least let's have the decency to honor them in death and respect the pain of the people they left behind.

          • 6 votes
          Reply#17 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:30 AM EST

          LOOK, Buffaloes roam, If you think that this country is going just peachy then you have ABSOLUTELY no idea about what is going on in this country, or in the entire world for that matter. you have to STOP WATCHING THE NEWS!!!! I am telling you and everyone else who has an open minded ear that the democratic, obama owned media will NEVER tell you what is realy going on in your own country, because they simply DO NOT WANT YOU TO KNOW, AND YOU DON'T KNOW. It's a simple task, go online if you want the real news. i do not recomend eating before you go there, you will probably vomit at the truth.

          • 2 votes
          Reply#18 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:37 AM EST

          Hell no this country isn;t fine, it contains total paranoid freaks like you mucking up the works.

          • 3 votes
          #18.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:16 AM EST

          @ Anotherdude ...I guess it's time for you to move to IRAN .

          • 2 votes
          #18.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 4:00 AM EST

          Obama owns the media? Pretty sure Fox news would disagree with that. I think Karl Rove is still hoping that Ohio will recount and proclaim Romney as the victor. And so the news that we watch - the physical actual events occuring around the world depicted, often in real time, are false, contrary to the spoutings of varoius conspiracy theorists on the internet? Yes - some news outlets, journalists and programs are designed to inflame, incite and skew the facts - but that's why it's important to read and watch various sources and come to logical conclusions. Your above overbroad and generalized comment that insinuates that our President does not want us to "really know" what is going on in our country simply demonstrates that you need a heavy dose of anti-paranoia drugs.

          • 1 vote
          #18.3 - Wed Jan 16, 2013 1:00 AM EST
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          Enough already ,We are tired of the media taking this tragedy and talking it into the ground. All so that our government can scare people into giving up their second amendment rights. Just like ADOLPH HITLER did with the burning of the Parliament building resulting in him taking guns from the German people. How many innocent men,women and children died because of that? Hundreds of thousands. WAKE UP AMERICA! That's a lot more then 26. I'm sure the German people thought ."That could never happen here" You cant defend yourself with a bolt action rifle against fully automatic weapons . and the second amendment was not put into place so we could hunt.@!$%# is getting ready to hit the fan in this country financially and our Government knows it. And they will use every excuse that they can to take your guns away to prevent an uprising when it does.The founders of our country new this and put the second amendment in place to prevent a tyrannical Government. A lot of them died to give us the right to bear arms. DONT GIVE THAT RIGHT UP SO FREELY,AGAIN I SAY ,WAKE-UP!

          • 2 votes
          Reply#19 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:47 AM EST

          You are upset about an article that shows respect to this woman? If you believe it's wrong to use this tragedy to push gun laws, you are not any different pushing you own beliefs each time a mass shooting or young child gets killed. The gun supporters do not care about the victims of guns.

            #19.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 10:18 AM EST
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            tell me , James-1944260, Please send me a photo of a single dead body on a streacher leaving the school, tell me why Emille Parkers seems to be dead according to actor dad, and the news, and then for some reason is perfectly well and alive on barry obamas lap 2 days after the event. Once again, theres a reason for everything. This one is just a very bad one.

            • 2 votes
            Reply#20 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 12:48 AM EST

            There are some really bad people in this country, anotherdude, and you are one of them, haters who ignore other people's suffering just to indulge selfishly in some whacko conspiracy theory. They did not take pictures of the bodies for the same reason the parents identified the children only with photos given to the coroner. This maniac had shredded the bodies of these poor children, some had been shot as many as a dozen times. Thankfully, the parents of these children are unlikely to read the callous nonsense you spew here. Lord, where do people like you come from? I certainly know where you belong--not in the United States of America. Most Americans have been greatly saddened by this tragedy, even those of us like me who did not vote for Obama. Your only excuse is that you are obviously not too bright.

            • 1 vote
            #20.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:21 AM EST
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            2nd. ammendment lover, Thank you so much for making your point. Your statement is and is supoes to be an eye opening one for all Americans. you will have many REAL AND TRUE, AMERICANS that will listen. Then you will have the leftwing people that want your guns but will beg for your protection when they wake up into reality one day soon.I pray to GOD THAT we can protect the tunnel vission people of this country in the future. Thank you sincerely for your post.....

            • 1 vote
            Reply#21 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:00 AM EST

            Because I don't believe paranoid claptrap like yours, doesn't mean I'm any less an American than you. It does make me more intelligent in that I gave up the oppressive US government daydreams when I reached puberty. How many years away is that for you?

            • 3 votes
            #21.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:19 AM EST

            okay picture of the gunmen in the school? we all know how the media loves to show those....not a one.... or how there is conflicting reports on how many guns and what type where used. I don't know what to think but some stuff is a bit out of place and please links to pictures or video that dismiss the questions peoples are having.... not just name calling......The Sandy Hook Shooting - Fully Exposed! - Video

            • 3 votes
            #21.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:50 AM EST

            Can anyone show photos or video of Adam Lanza "shooting" his way into the school? Why was the rifle[.223] found in the trunk of his car, if he used it to kill everyone [according to the coroner], and Adam killed himself inside the building? Questions, only questions, who has an answer?

            • 2 votes
            #21.3 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:05 AM EST
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            She was so pretty. I'm happy she is being honored by her home town. There are many good reasons to name this school after her. These posts, sure do point out the adage that you simply can't make everyone happy.

            • 1 vote
            Reply#22 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:02 AM EST

            I feel terrible that this tragedy happened and I am sorry for the lose of life, but I want to speak my mind about this. Too many people get hyper-sensitive during tragedies where clear thinking doesn't always prevail. I'm on my 2nd tour in Afghanistan and we have guys dying who put their lives on the line on a daily basis. Now if one dies during a shootout where a military member saved many lives, a full investigation is done; witnesses, how the scenario played out, etc. That can take weeks, sometimes months if not years, to get the full account and many are awarded the Medal of Honor or other high ranking medals. Now my problem with this school being named after the teacher, who I am grateful for her service to the school and kids, is, how can after two days, the police and other investigators get the whole story and within one month have the city council decide to name the school after her? There was total chaos there so how could they have received an accurate depiction of the events? Were people just standing around taking notes? I hate to sound condescending, but I believe the naming of the school was premature.

            • 3 votes
            Reply#23 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:17 AM EST

            At the risk of being flamed here, I gotta say, although the idea behind it is nice, I disagree with the school being named after this one teacher. I'm sure all of the teachers tried to protect their students that day. Also, it was her job to protect her students, so while it was great that she tried to do so, I don't think it was above and beyond what was expected of her. I don't agree with people in certain jobs being called heroes at all actually. If someone saves a life, in the scope of their job, it is what was expected of them, and to do otherwise, would be negligent.

            I think calling this one teacher a hero, is inaccurate, or at least could be inaccurate, in that none of us know what the other teachers were doing...and again, I'm sure they were also trying to save the lives of their students. How would you feel, to be the family member of another of the murdered teachers, and hear that this one was being singled out? It's another blow as far as I'm concerned.

            • 3 votes
            Reply#24 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:28 AM EST

            Jacqui, in my opinion, individual greatness is worth lauding for all the world to see. Yes, she is being singled out, just as she was that day, along with precious little children. You mention the other teachers. I dare say that their hometowns might find ways to honor them. As is only right. Maybe seeing Vicki Soto's name will help her family heal, and will inspire others-and not just teachers!- if THEY are someday in a place to give their last full measure of devotion.

            I guess I didn't realize that prospective teachers took courses in how to "give your life, in the scope of your job".

            While I don't live in Stratford any longer, it is my home town. I've been in Lordship Community Church. By the way, it's not New Stratford High, just Stratford High School. I remember the old Honeyspot School, as well as all the other elementary schools. For my one vote, and yes, I'm singling myself out: Thank you, Stratford, for honoring this amazing hero.

            • 2 votes
            #24.1 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:01 AM EST

            Jacqui, a number of other posters have tried to explain this above, but no one seems to be listening. It is NOT the Sandy Hook School where the shooting took place that is being named for her; it's a totally different school buiding in her own hometown, which is 22 miles away. The last I heard, they haven't even decided whether or not to re-open the actual Sandy Hook schoolor just tear it down and build a new one (as was done here in PA after the Amish school shooting a few years back), let alone having any discussion as to what to name it. None of the other teachers are being slighted in any way; one thing has nothing at all to do with the other, and their own home towns (which may be in other states for all I know) are free to do something similar to honor them. But this has nothing at all to do with the Sandy Hook school itself. Please slow down and re-read the entire story.

            As for the others of you above claiming that this was all some staged, faked event because you haven't seen the bloody crime scene photos for yourself, all I can say is that while I know there are some sick, twisted people in this country, you guys take the cake. If you honestly believe that there is some mega-conspiracy at work here that involves not only the Obama administration, but every single person who lives in Newtown and all of their relatives, the FBI, the ATF, the first responders, the medical examiner, the many funeral homes, the police, the media worldwide , etc, etc, etc, then you scare me even more than a lone crazed gunman does. I dare you to go to Newtown and have the courage to spout your insane nonsense face to face to the grieving families there. You make my skin crawl.

            (sorry, Jacqui, that last part was not aimed at you).

            • 1 vote
            #24.2 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:31 AM EST
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            Such a nice tribute to a wonderful teacher and beautiful woman!

            • 3 votes
            Reply#25 - Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:33 AM EST
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