NM couple arrested after 8-year-old girl found locked in cage

Police arrested a mother and her boyfriend after they found an 8-year-old girl with a brain disorder locked in a homemade cage at their New Mexico home. KTSM's Jessica Munoz reports.

Police in New Mexico found an 8-year-old girl locked in a cage in a darkened mobile home, authorities said on Tuesday, adding that they charged the girl's adoptive mother, who had gone to the movies, with child abuse.


Cindy Patriarchias, 33, and her boyfriend, Edmond Gonzales, 37, were arrested after police found the caged girl on Friday evening, Las Cruces Police Department spokesman Dan Trujillo said.

He said police, acting on a tip from the woman's estranged husband, found the girl in the corner of a bedroom locked inside the cage, about 4 feet high, slightly more than 2 feet wide and about 5 feet long.


The homemade wooden structure had two latches and a baby crib mattress on the floor, Trujillio said.

He said Patriarchias had been charged with one count of negligent child abuse while Gonzales was charged with one count of negligently permitting child abuse. Patriarchias was released on bond on Tuesday but her boyfriend was still being held Wednesday, authorities said.

Las Cruces Police Department / AFP - Getty Images

Cindy Patriarchias, 33, and Edmond Gonzales, 37, are charged with leaving Patriarchias' 8-year-old adoptive daughter in a cage while they went out to see a movie.

The girl was seen by medical personnel but showed no visible signs of physical abuse. She apparently suffers from microcephaly, a condition in which the head or cranial capacity is abnormally small, Trujillo said.

He said detectives did not know why the girl was left locked in the cage. She and three of Patriarchias' other children had been placed in state custody, he said.

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Scumbags. Kudos to the biological father for tipping off the cops.

I'll never understand how some people simply thinks it OK to lock up a kid in a cage. WTF is going through their minds? Especially when they must have read about other similar cases and the consequences.

Bottom line is, "they're" going to see how it feels to be locked up in a cage for awhile. Heh heh!

I hope the kid says to both of them after they're locked up behind bars ...."How do you like me now!"

Karma, what goes around, comes around...

  • 106 votes
#1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:52 AM EST

gm Creek Dog

Her moustache looks better than his.

  • 36 votes
#1.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:53 AM EST
Comment author avatartippie2000Restored

The article said it was an estranged husband, not the biological father. He probably used to participate but became 'estranged' and then called it in out of revenge, not compassion for the girl.

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#1.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:02 AM EST

Their prison cell will be a whole lot more comfortable than the tiny cage the poor girl was kept in.

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#1.3 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:07 AM EST
Comment author avatarNEA Exec.Restored

Child suffers from microcephaly...takes after the mother, no doubt.

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#1.4 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:18 AM EST

And people are screaming about guns hurting our children?

We need to do an psych exam on every potential parent and make sure they have the emotional stability to raise a child.

You need a permit to have a gun, but any IDIOT can have a child.

  • 82 votes
#1.5 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:33 AM EST

Tippie, way to make a villan out of the person responsible for the rescue. I'm sure in your long and personal relationship with the "estranged" husband, he told you all this.

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#1.6 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:34 AM EST

This is what happens when people confuse children with pets. I wonder if they left bowls of water and canned food in the cage.

Meanwhile, their dog is probably treated to the same dinner they eat and gets to sleep on their bed.

  • 19 votes
#1.7 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:35 AM EST

I wish the article said what happened to the other children. I certainly hope they are removed from their custody as well. I will never understand why people adopt disabled children just to abuse them. This type of situation happens all too often. Mind boggling.

  • 16 votes
#1.8 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:47 AM EST

Michelle from the woods

He said detectives did not know why the girl was left locked in the cage. She and three of Patriarchias' other children had been placed in state custody, he said.

You'd be surprpised what some people will do for money...

I think when people adopt disabled children, they receive state benefits and checks to help them out with the kids.

But in this case, "if you ask me", they treated the kids like animals and kept the cash for themselves and as you said, "this happens all too often".

Looking at her, she looks 55 yrs old and she's actually 33. This says drug addict all over it.

It's also funny when people get busted and when they take their mug shot, they usually have that "surprised" look on their face but she has that "busted" look on hers.

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#1.9 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:53 AM EST

GM CD, Bill

More breeders

  • 9 votes
#1.10 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:53 AM EST

dang new mexico set the record for ugly with those two loser's....

  • 26 votes
#1.11 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:11 AM EST

GM folks. I really hope that they keep these kids away from this couple for good and they visit their own little cage for a good long time. You don't mess with Gods little angels. I am glad to hear that there were no visible injuries or marks on this poor girl at least.

  • 16 votes
#1.12 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:12 AM EST

this is sad, that poor kid has to suffer so she can have a check to blow on the movies....Pityful.

  • 11 votes
#1.13 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:25 AM EST

If you don't want to be a parent, figure it out before you have kids. No child deserves to be neglected. Any adult to treats a child like this needs to be beaten!

  • 14 votes
#1.14 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:28 AM EST

G' morning C Dog, Bill, Scooter, Bob, Blake.

"How do you like me now!"

Love it, Dawg!

Hey Scooter, is it snowing yet-where U R?

  • 6 votes
#1.15 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:34 AM EST

They do get extra money for adopting special needs children. Thank goodness the dad/husband called someone. It is bad enough to mistreat a healthy child, it is a whole other level of sick to mistreat a special needs child. I'm with CD: addicts!

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#1.16 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:34 AM EST

I agree with Tippie2000.I bet the ex participated before he became the ex and is being vindictive.Mom good at picking losers.And why is she even going to the movies when she has kids to take care of.Selfish.I hope the kids are placed in good homes while mom spends time in the govt.appt.cage!

  • 2 votes
#1.17 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:36 AM EST
Comment author avatarNicole loves USAExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

How much do you want to bet this woman is an Obama supporter and collecting more than 1 form of welfare?

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#1.18 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:40 AM EST

Time to bring back public executions for these types.

For this woman (man?) to be out on bond is unconscionable

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#1.19 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:42 AM EST

Blake 2644, The sad thing is that in 20 or 30 years, "Gods little angles", by learning from what they have been taught by these two slime balls, will themselves be abusing their children.

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#1.20 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:44 AM EST

Amazing how so few people read the article before commenting. The woman was an adopted parent. We don't know the relationship between the girl and the other two men. For all we know, the other children were also adopted.

Once a child is adopted, agencies don't go back and check on them. Even with the Orphan Train children, one agency refused to allow formal adoptions for that reason, so that the the children could be checked on from time to time and removed from bad situations. Children who were adopted were stuck, for better or for worse.

Even back when Bible readings and prayer were in all public schools, there were too many people who were nice and friendly in public and cruel, disgusting scumbags in private.

With the girl having a disability, I would have expected a caseworker to have been checking up on the family, but that's New Mexico; maybe it's not required there.

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#1.21 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:45 AM EST

What a wildebeest

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#1.22 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:46 AM EST

freaking pieces of human garbage..

  • 10 votes
#1.23 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:46 AM EST

U don't say-3994780

Hey Scooter, is it snowing yet-where U R?

On this side of the state,( next to the Mississippi ) we had Rain last 24 hours. Hell i went out on the porch and fired up the grill yesterday in a t shirt ( with a cold one of course) turned to snow bout 7 this am. heavy for now but don't i expect much from it. May get 3-5 mid-state from say Iowa city to des moines, not bad. how bout your place on the big blue marble?

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#1.24 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:49 AM EST

why is the wife released.....womens lib

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#1.25 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:52 AM EST

Hey Scooter!

I got the idea (from previous conversations) that we were kinda close 2 each other. I could have posted the same. I'm in the QC.....

  • 3 votes
#1.26 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:59 AM EST

why is the wife released.....

Good question. wheres all the "equality" people today? Mention gays and poof there they are screaming " equal rights under law".

should this not be another equal right?

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#1.27 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:01 AM EST

I must reiterate - the child was adopted, which has no bearing on the "breeding" part and the malady is something she may have endured/inherited from her birth parents. However! The new mom should have her head examined. How is it that she was able to pass a battery of tests/processes to be successful in adopting the child? Something isn't right somewhere with this.

  • 10 votes
#1.28 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:01 AM EST

"How is it that she was able to pass a battery of tests/processes to be successful in adopting the child?"

Drug money used as a payoff?

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#1.29 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:03 AM EST

Well for the most part, this has nothing to do with Obama and who his supporters were.

All this says is that too many people are getting too damn comfortable with their

pyschotic ways and just going off the deep in with stupidity.Who in the hell puts a kid,special needs or normal in a cage? I'll tell you who, that psychotic and stupid male and female pretending to be good parents!

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#1.30 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:03 AM EST

U Dont say,

shot ya a contact answer.

  • 1 vote
#1.31 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:15 AM EST

They are probably in the country illegally. Locking your kid in a wooden cage is probably acceptable in Mexico, so they will just claim ignorance of the law. Wouldn't it be something if the kid they locked in the cage is their anchor baby.

  • 2 votes
#1.32 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:20 AM EST

In other news Walmart is missing 2 of its best customers.

  • 16 votes
#1.33 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:23 AM EST

You know, this was the perfect opportunity for the estranged husband to beat the living piss out of those 2 folks. If that was his kid, not a jury on the planet would have convicted him for doing it either.

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#1.34 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:27 AM EST

I don't understand why people go through the time and expense of adopting a child if they don't really want one. My only guess is to get more welfare.

  • 14 votes
#1.35 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:31 AM EST

Chris from Yucaipa

Chris...But what if he shoots em? then where would ya be?

tap...tap.....tap...

  • 5 votes
#1.36 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:34 AM EST

Gmornin, Bill, Scooter, Chris.......

BeachBum,

You pretty much nailed it....

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#1.37 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:35 AM EST

CoRavensFan

They are probably in the country illegally. Locking your kid in a wooden cage is probably acceptable in Mexico, so they will just claim ignorance of the law. Wouldn't it be something if the kid they locked in the cage is their anchor baby.

Might I suggest, before speaking again, you actually go look up the definition of 'anchor baby' and 'adopted' and come back and explain to us how your post made any sense at all. I guess since the the guy has a Hispanic sounding name clearly he must be an illegal. Interesting enough but in all my trips south of the border while living in San Diego, I never noticed any kids in cages. But at least once a month in the US I hear about them being in there, or chained to the floor, locked in a closet, etc.

  • 9 votes
#1.38 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:36 AM EST

IA.ScooterTramp

Chris from Yucaipa

Chris...But what if he shoots em? then where would ya be?

Still in California. With an alibi.

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#1.39 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:37 AM EST

This poor child has microcephaly.

At 8 years of age she is probably functioning at a 2-3 year old level. She most likely needs constant attendant care. I'm sure this "cage" wasn't just built so mom and dad could go to the movies for an evening. I can guarantee they have used this cage regularly.

These "adoptive" parents are despicable. Their begavior is lower than any animal on the planet. This mother and father, wheteher biologic or not, deserve to suffer. Leaving this poor child locked up in a cage is brutally inhumane. Neither of them should be allowed near a child ever again.

If it were up to me they would both be getting a special 3 cocktail injection at the local penitentiary in about 3 days.

This type of filth deserves no more sympathy than they gave their own child.

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#1.40 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:38 AM EST

Hmm let me see, poor white trailer park tattooed trash with her criminal border jumping filth boyfriend leave an adopted child in a cage. Then the Po Po let the the female go while El Guapo is held until ICE finishes with his illegal butt. Can't understand why they let the woman go? Because this country is going to hell in a handbasket, that's why.

  • 8 votes
#1.41 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:40 AM EST

It's so sickening to read/hear about people like this. I will be VERY lucky to ever have my own children, and it is especially painful to know that there are so many people who treat their little miracles like this. These people need to be locked up and the key thrown away! Even better, let's start making them register as "child abusers" and not allow them to live within a certain distance of schools, etc.....just like we do with pedophiles and other scum-of-the-earth!!!

Disgusting.

  • 5 votes
#1.42 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:41 AM EST

Why is it that in almost every case like this the 'perps' are SO FAT ??? what's up with that??

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#1.43 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:42 AM EST

Ya got it beachbum..... scamming the system is a way of life for far too many.

Good comeback chris....made me smile for a change. got some free snow here if you want it. you pick up of course.

  • 6 votes
#1.44 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:42 AM EST

In todays world one needs a license to drive, to fish, to hunt and a vast amount of other things. As teens are going into adulthood everyone should get a license to have sex. It should explain the responsibility of having sex and the outcome that could happen. This makes sense to me that there can't be enough sex education!

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#1.45 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:59 AM EST

For all the folks asking why she is out and he isn't - she paid the bond.

He may not have the bucks, may be an immigration issue, may have other wants/warrants . . .

Nice to see a board where everyone can agree on something: scumbags.

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#1.46 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:01 AM EST

This is where the law must be swift and stern. Child abuse is not enough here. If she was getting some type of public assistance then this is a case of child exploitation as well. I would like to pile on as many charges as possible and just smother these "people". We argue about the 1st and 2nd Amendment on here all the time. This is one of those times when I find myself wanting to revisit the 8th Amendment. What scares me is some lawyer may find a way to spin some tragic case for these two and get sentences reduced or possibly dismissed.

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#1.47 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:09 AM EST

"Gmornin, Bill, Scooter, Chris......."

That hurts, Dawg. (mock crying)

;-)

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#1.48 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:11 AM EST

tippie2000,

Must be a man's fault right?

And Chris, while I agree in theory, she would just claim to be the victim and the jury would convict him for being a guy and hurting a woman, even though she would definitely deserve it in this case. He did the right thing, called the cops, and got all the children removed from those people.

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#1.49 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:12 AM EST

Interesting, the adoption part. Not uncommon for scum like this to load up their double-wide with FOSTER children because the state/county pays a LOT to help raise these poor kids. Recent case here in Northern CA (shut up!), woman had 8 foster kids (mostly teens who had NO apparent adult supervision) and used that money to live in a half-million $ house, with a pool (AND a pool boy!), driving her lazy a$$ around in a $80,000 MBZ. All with no job. Were these two losers pulling the same tricks, with their 3 other kids? And who let them adopt a needy child in the first place. Please, if you feel the need to reply to this, keep Obama, Bush, Romney, or any other political bullshot out of it.

And good morning to you, Creek Dog.

  • 3 votes
#1.50 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:34 AM EST

G' morning Mr Burns!

"Northern CA (shut up!),"

(snicker)

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#1.51 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:37 AM EST

The girls lucky she's adopted..This mother is one of the ugliest I've ever seen..

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#1.52 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:44 AM EST

NEA Exec- How do you know her birth mom? You said the girl has the condition must have taken it after the mother. This article doesn't mention her birthmom. Its about her ADOPTED mom. I agree with Creek Dog these two are addicts. You can look at them and see that they are stoned. Look at their eyes. I wish they hadn't given the Adopted mother bail and let her out cause the girl couldn't have bail or any other excuse to get out of her cage. SICKOS!

    #1.53 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:50 AM EST

    Poster child for courthouse kanings, eye for an eye, same size cage. Forced to hear all of these comments in public

      #1.54 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:57 AM EST

      I don't see how a case of child abuse can turn into a political discussion?? People you all need to get real a child was ABUSED !! It saddens me that we as Americans are so caught up in the political rhetoric that we are missing the pertinent issues. Child abuse is a world problem that needs to be addressed.

      My question to all of the people who are bringing in politics " What are you doing to make it better? If all your doing is spewing your rants on the internet, than your part of the problem ! If you are volunteering in your community than I appologize, if not get a life!!!

      • 2 votes
      #1.55 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:58 AM EST

      @CoRavensFan - what part of the clearly Caucasian woman in the photo, along with the last name Patriarchias, immediately leads you to think illegal immigrant from Mexico?

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      #1.56 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:46 PM EST

      Keep hearing more and more of this........"parents" locking their kids up in cages, rooms, etc. Don't babysitters exist anymore? If you can afford to go to a movie then you can surely afford a babysitter!!

      I am sure this poor child was adopted so mom can get extra $$$ off the government for adopting a special needs child. Happens all the time.........unfortunately.

        #1.57 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:51 PM EST

        Creek Dog,

        Unfortunately, the likelihood of either of those people being sentenced to time behind bars is minimal. They will almost certainly only receive probation.

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        #1.58 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:53 PM EST

        @Stunner,

        Guilt by association?

        ;-)

          #1.59 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:58 PM EST

          I see Scooter is familiar with my favorite saying -

          'Stupid People Shouldn't Breed!' (Yes, I know, the child in question was adopted, but we don't know for sure about the other three - or more, since it says 'three of Patriarchias' OTHER children', which seems to indicate there are more.)

          I question the intelligence used in allowing a special needs child to be placed with someone living in a GD Trailer (pardon me, Mobile Home) with minimally three other kids! That's a healthy environment? That's living like sardines!

          • 2 votes
          #1.60 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:00 PM EST

          IA.ScooterTramp

          Good comeback chris....made me smile for a change. got some free snow here if you want it. you pick up of course.

          No., I've accepted the reality that no matter what the forecast claims I'll get, not matter how much I hope, and no matter how many chickens I sacrifice, I'm not going to get any snow this winter.

          /sob

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          #1.61 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:04 PM EST

          "I've accepted the reality that no matter what the forecast claims I'll get, not matter how much I hope, and no matter how many chickens I sacrifice, I'm not going to get any snow this winter."

          LOL

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          #1.62 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:08 PM EST

          I wonder how many other kids like this are experiencing similar abuse and no one knows...

          eh, it's just easier to pretend like there are no problems and not give a @!$%#.

          I mean, if we went after child abuse - which encompasses so much, from abuse, neglect, molestation, rape, trafficking, kidnapping, ect - like we do terrorism, we might actually give the impression we give a sh!t

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          #1.63 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:11 PM EST

          Creek Dog, normally you do not get money for adopting children although because of this child's disability, the scum may have been getting SSI. You get paid for raising foster children, not adopted children.

          eddie keites said "why is the wife released.....womens lib"

          Have you thought that maybe the guy has a prior record and that is why they are keeping him? By the way, I haven't heard the term womens' lib since the 70s.

            #1.64 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:15 PM EST

            This is very strange. I know perfectly nice people who have had trouble getting approved as adoptive parents. So how did these people manage it? The article says they live in a trailer, wtf? In some cases this sh*t happens and you would never guess but in this case its really obvious there's a problem.

            • 3 votes
            #1.65 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:26 PM EST

            Hi Scooter, CD, DB, Chris, mpa, U don't say...

            This is such a sorry story on top of the others so far this week.

            You guys are correct. By adopting this child she is guaranteed payments for the life of the child through various agencies.

            Between this story and the "gun" stories I'm probably going to just vote for you guys today and avoid trying to comment and reason with the rabid rabble.

            Take care and be safe my friends.

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            #1.66 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:43 PM EST

            Another article (on Fox News) stays, "A police spokesman said Patriarchias had been trying to adopt the girl but hadn't been able to reach the girl's birth mother to get her consent."

            This article also states that "three of Patriarchias' other children had been placed in state custody" which indicates that she has more than three other children (otherwise it should have said "her three other children: instead of "three of her other children").

            Also, just a a point of clarification, the parent is adoptive, and the child is adopted. Adoptive refers to the person doing the adopting; Adopted refers to the person being adopted. (Grammar lesson over)

              #1.67 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:46 PM EST

              I'm puzzled though. Why would the estranged husband return the girl to the woman's custody at all? She may be the girl's adoptive mother, but she's not the girl's mother. If the man was at all concerned, why not tell her: "here, you won't go back there, we're going to the police right now and I may not be your dad, but I'll protect you in any way I can?"

              That's what I would've done. Call me family or not, if I've lived with someone's child, and I suspect abuse, I'll go to hell first before returning that kid to an environment like that.

              And let's ensure she can't get pregnant--give her a couple of cuts free (I'd pitch in!) and I'll even pitch a few bucks for her hubby's vasectomy, too.

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              #1.68 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:50 PM EST

              tippie2000... Has it ever occured to you that assumtion is the mother of all f**kups?

              CoRavensfan... "probably acceptable in Mexico" That goes for you, too. Have you ever been to Mexico or do you just live inside your own head and assume the worst?

              "There is a principle which is a bar against all information, which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance. That principle is contempt prior to investigation." Herbert Spencer

                #1.69 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:57 PM EST

                "avoid trying to comment and reason with the rabid rabble."

                (snicker)

                G' afternoon Scremin'.

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                #1.70 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:09 PM EST

                Sam - yes I have been to Mexico. And if Mexico is so great and civil, why are the Mexicans risking their lives to come to the US?

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                #1.71 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:16 PM EST

                "if Mexico is so great and civil, why are the Mexicans risking their lives to come to the US?"

                I have often wondered this myself.

                I especially love the travel agencies pushin' Acapulco & Cancun.

                Gee I guess if the blondes really want 2 disappear, it would B cheaper than going 2 Aruba. (sarcasm)

                  #1.72 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:27 PM EST

                  I wonder what kind of help was this woman getting while raising a special needs child. Kids like that need care 24/7

                    #1.73 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:29 PM EST

                    I don't want my tax dollars taking care of these sick people.

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                    #1.74 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:37 PM EST

                    That face would make a freight train take a dirt road.

                    • 2 votes
                    #1.75 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 3:01 PM EST

                    Yeah, that lucky guy is hitting that.

                    • 2 votes
                    #1.76 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 3:15 PM EST

                    She used the money he made for taking care of these kids to post bail for herself, but the boyfriend is still sitting in jail.

                      #1.77 - Thu Jan 31, 2013 4:03 AM EST
                      Reply

                      But such sweet irony! For their cruelty, these "parents" will themselves be locked in cages.

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                      Reply#2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:52 AM EST

                      She's already been released on bond, the boyfriend is still in jail.

                      She should NEVER get those children back.

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                      #2.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:45 AM EST

                      @Nicole loves USA....so only Obama supporters are cruel to children? Party lines has no place in here...this is a story about an innocent child was abused....grow the f^ck up...where is your empathy for this child?

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                      #2.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:50 AM EST

                      She's already been released on bond, the boyfriend is still in jail.

                      Why is that? they do the same thing here, both are guilty yet she goes free. Why? What happened to "equality"?

                      • 5 votes
                      #2.3 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:55 AM EST

                      Jen - Nicole's comment has been blocked (thank God) but I must say, the trolls will use every story to throw in their crummy two cents about the POTUS

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                      #2.4 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:03 AM EST

                      Jen - Nicole's comment has been blocked

                      Bury head in sand approach, BTW it was collapsed not blocked.

                      (thank God)

                      For that little piece of censorship,...( providing of course you view this site as a link to "god")

                      but I must say, the trolls will use every story to throw in their crummy two cents about the POTUS

                      Like that?

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                      #2.5 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:13 AM EST

                      @IA.ScooterTramp You are demented. This story has nothing to do with 'equality' or your broken understanding of it. Go push your idiocy elsewhere.

                        #2.6 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:15 AM EST

                        IA.ScooterTramp, I noticed that you've posted twice about inequality because she's been released on bond and he hasn't. Did it occur to you that she had the money to get out and he didn't. Or that she had a family member get her out and he didn't. They aren't married, just girlfriend/boyfriend so she apparently doesn't feel under any obligation to bail him out. Has nothing to do with equality and everything to do with bail money.

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                        #2.7 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:16 AM EST

                        This story has nothing to do with 'equality' or your broken understanding of

                        When a man is held and a women is not, though both are charged with the same crime. ....your right it certainly isn't equality.

                        name calling? a sign of true idiocy.

                        abanksone

                        You may have a point, however it also says nothing about bail so your theory although functionally sound is just that...a theory.

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                        #2.8 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:28 AM EST

                        For the record ScooterTramp, bail is the cash payment paid by the defendant to the court and bond is the bondsman’s pledge to make good on the bail if the defendant doesn’t appear. The article stated "Patriarchias was released on bond on Tuesday" so she apparently made some type of arrangement with a bondsman which would include paying some type of bail.

                        • 1 vote
                        #2.9 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:52 AM EST

                        Tramp -

                        I mostly enjoy your posts, but you are missing something here. Say you visit your neighbor and see that he is abusing his animals. You don't do anything about it.

                        He is guilty of the abuse, you are not.

                        The man here was charged with negligently "permitting" the abuse.

                        Why he is still in? No money, other charges/wants/warrants . . . .

                          #2.10 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:08 AM EST

                          MPA,

                          funny you should bring that up, my neighbors are no longer allowed to own pets. took 6 months and more phone calls then you could possibly believe to make certain that happened.

                            #2.11 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:24 AM EST

                            abanks

                            sorry i missed it. it happens.

                              #2.12 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:26 AM EST

                              Which makes you a human being who knows to do the right thing.

                              Edmond Gonzales - not so much.

                              BTW - local paper indicates that they both had the same "cash only" bond requirements.

                                #2.13 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:40 AM EST
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                                THREE other children?????

                                and why doesnt the country do forced sterilization?

                                • 20 votes
                                #3 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 7:57 AM EST

                                I get closer and closer to supporting that idea.

                                • 15 votes
                                #3.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:09 AM EST

                                I also do believe the penalty for conviction of child abuse should be forcible sterilization, in addition to jail time and having all minor children removed from the abusers' custody. In addition, such criminals should be forever barred from adopting minor children.

                                • 18 votes
                                #3.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:22 AM EST

                                Already ruled Unconstitutional by the Supreme Court in the early 60's.

                                • 3 votes
                                #3.3 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:38 AM EST

                                That's something I like about China's ONE CHILD Policy. We should institute it here. Potential parents should be screened for mental stability as well as financial stability.

                                • 7 votes
                                #3.4 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:46 AM EST

                                Time to revisit that Supreme Court ruling...

                                • 8 votes
                                #3.5 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:48 AM EST

                                TEvil

                                and why doesnt the country do forced sterilization?

                                Because the President and Congress can't agree about who gets to choose the subjects.

                                • 8 votes
                                #3.6 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:48 AM EST

                                and why doesnt the country do forced sterilization?

                                Because the President and Congress can't agree about who gets to choose the subjects.

                                Yet.

                                • 3 votes
                                #3.7 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:57 AM EST

                                The article actually says, "...three of her other children." Let's hope there aren't MORE than three others!

                                • 4 votes
                                #3.8 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:20 AM EST

                                "and why doesn't the country do forced sterilization?"

                                It wouldn't have helped in this case because the girl was adopted. Someone at the adoption agency dropped the ball as well, and hopefully will learn from this situation. I wonder if the other children were adopted as well?

                                • 9 votes
                                #3.9 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:22 AM EST

                                "I also do believe the penalty for conviction of child abuse should be forcible sterilization, in addition to jail time and having all minor children removed from the abusers' custody. In addition, such criminals should be forever barred from adopting minor children."

                                I nominate SteveR as Poster of the Day!

                                • 4 votes
                                #3.10 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:47 AM EST

                                Read the article. It is about an adopted child. For all we know, the others might be adopted as well. Sterilization would not make a difference.

                                • 4 votes
                                #3.11 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:54 AM EST

                                "Sterilization would not make a difference."

                                "In addition, such criminals should be forever barred from adopting minor children."

                                But sterilization AND barring them from adopting/being a foster MIGHT actually help.

                                • 3 votes
                                #3.12 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:10 AM EST

                                Sterilization WOULD make a difference in preventing these peopel from re-entering the gene pool at a later date. This woman at 33 still has multiple years of fertility left, but clearly has not gained the insights necessary to be a reasonable parent.

                                AS for the bleeding hearts out there - who worry that the repentent offender would not be able to have children once he/she "sees the light"- there are very easy, cost-effect long-term reversible contraceptives (including implantable subcutaneous hormonal treatments as well as intra-uterine devices) which are highly effective and reversible. In the case of an IUD, placing one take about 20 seconds and no incisions are required. If the state is supporting these trolls (in or out of prison) I think it is reasonable for the state to require some reasonable measures of self control.

                                • 2 votes
                                #3.13 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:47 AM EST

                                Some people want to ban birth control but its ok for forced sterilization? How about teaching people accountability for their actions. It should be a required class for all 4 years of high school. Because it seems like allot of people don't know where kids come from. Here is another case of where free birth control might saved a child this type of abuse.

                                • 2 votes
                                #3.14 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:10 AM EST

                                Smitty -

                                I've now seen you advocate for "free" birth control several times. Who are these benevolent pharmaceutical companies, latex manufacturers who provide all these free birthcontrol products?

                                  #3.15 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:27 AM EST

                                  mpa ....you advocate for "free" birth control.........

                                  Go to your county health department and one can get "free" condoms. Plus they should offer women free oral contraceptives. Contraceptives are cheaper than a child on welfare. So what would you rather pay for contraceptives or a child on welfare?

                                  • 2 votes
                                  #3.16 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:05 PM EST

                                  Smity -

                                  My point is simply that there is nothing "free." Somebody is paying for it.

                                  Personal preference? My wife and I have taken care of that permanently through surgeries. I prefer personal responsibility.

                                    #3.17 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:27 PM EST

                                    mpa I prefer personal responsibility.

                                    If you read my post 3.14 you would read that I speak of teaching people accountability. Accountability and responsibility are the same thing.

                                    As for paying for it. I don't mind that a portion of my taxes goes for contraceptives like I said its cheaper than a child on welfare.


                                    • 1 vote
                                    #3.18 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:39 PM EST

                                    "My wife and I have taken care of that permanently through surgeries. I prefer personal responsibility."

                                    "I speak of teaching people accountability. Accountability and responsibility are the same thing."

                                    It seems (2 me) that the 2 of U R on the same page, but different paragraphs..........

                                    I am in agreement but I think it should B taken 1 step further. We, as a society, can now have DNA proof of the guilt of rapists & pedophiles. When this proof is found (INSIDE their victims) I think that mandatory sterilization should B done. I also think that the child-labor laws (as well as the welfare system) needs 2 B updated. If a 14-year-old can have a baby, she can certainly work 2 pay 4 it; DNA testing should B done 2 determine the father (if SHE can't identify him) and he can work 2.

                                      #3.19 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:22 PM EST

                                      TEvil, Rick and U don't say... Careful, you're skating on thin ice here. Sounds like Bremerhaven, 1938. The "Fuhrer" would have loved it.

                                      skibum609... Thank you. It's amazing how many folks here aren't up to date on current laws and statutes, isn't it? Why am I not surprised?

                                      Janine... "screened for mental stability as well as financial stability"

                                      Sound like discrimination to me. Do you believe that financial stability has anything to do with child abuse, or that wealthy people aren't capable of it? I'm having trouble connecting those dots.

                                      Smitty... Would you please stop making sense? Your posts are entirely too rational for some folks.

                                      • 1 vote
                                      #3.20 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:28 PM EST

                                      "The "Fuhrer" would have loved it."

                                      Sorry Sam, but no where in my post did I say that 'whitey' was exempt. But since U went down this road......

                                      I have a grandchild that is very Autistic. This is not my grandchild by blood-as I have no offspring. She is the grandchild of my hot, sexy, bed warmer. ;-) Sometimes U (not U personally) can get through & sometimes U can't. Her parents R stupid. Plain & simple; HER PARENTS R STUPID. They have been heard saying things like: "She'll B better when she's older & has grown out of it." WTF??? This child cannot care for herself. I shudder at what would happen if she was raped & became pregnant. She cannot care 4 herself; How would she care 4 a baby? i think she should B sterilized-4 her own protection. I don't believe she should have 2 go through all the pain over something she may or may not understand-just 2 have a baby that she cannot take care of. In this world, we all know that children cannot B safe 24/7.

                                      Now the really sad part: HER PARENTS R STUPID and they R currently fighting over custody of the 2 girls. My baby & I have come 2 the conclusion that the only reason either parent is fighting, is 4 the SSI check. As soon as "dad" got the first check, instead of buying his girls warm clothes 4 winter-he went out on a shopping spree. "Mom" isn't any better. When she was getting the check, she was using the money 2 support her partying. (sound familiar?)

                                      My baby & I have also come 2 the conclusion that WE R gonna end up raising these girls. I don't think I could do any worse.

                                        #3.21 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 3:40 PM EST
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                                        I hope they "Lock these two gigantic idiots" in a cage!!! Let the punishment fit the crime!!!

                                        • 7 votes
                                        Reply#4 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:02 AM EST

                                        "Detectives did not know why she was locked in the cage".....Um, ever think of asking the parents why they did it? Duh!

                                        • 2 votes
                                        Reply#5 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:06 AM EST

                                        Yeah, there's no possibility that the police did ask them and they refused to answer.

                                        • 8 votes
                                        #5.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:20 AM EST
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                                        If they broke the law, doesn't that qualify them for amnesty?

                                        • 7 votes
                                        Reply#6 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:12 AM EST

                                        of course.

                                        • 5 votes
                                        #6.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:58 AM EST
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                                        According to the article, this child was adopted. Seems any moron can adopt a child now. Although the doctors say there's no evidence of physical abuse, the psychological abuse has already been done. My heart goes out to that poor child.

                                        • 14 votes
                                        Reply#7 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:15 AM EST

                                        Although adoption is regarded with hearts and flowers as the "forever family" for children allegedly abused or neglected, and although most adoptive parents are responsible, even ideal, parents, the realities are: 15% or more of adoptions ultimately fail, and a small percentage of adopters turn out to be vicious abusers.

                                        • 4 votes
                                        #7.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:23 AM EST

                                        Child was "special needs". They are very difficult to adopt out. Child services was probably happy to get the kid off their hands..... Idiots - they are just pure evil idiots.

                                        • 2 votes
                                        #7.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:13 AM EST

                                        I get that this is a special needs child and Child Services was probably happy to see her adopted - but don't they check out where the child will be living? When did a mobile home housing the adoptive parent, three other children and the boyfriend (who they may not have known was living there, if he really was) become an acceptable home environment? To call it cramped already is to understate the facts, so you actually allow a special needs child to be placed there?! WTH??

                                        • 1 vote
                                        #7.3 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:48 PM EST
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                                        Sick, Sick, Sick...... God bless the little girl. And the rest of the kids too.

                                        • 7 votes
                                        Reply#8 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:17 AM EST

                                        The article failed to mention that the entire family went out to the movies and left this kid locked up in a cage. In addition Patriarchias is in the process of adopting this girl.

                                        The filth we share air with makes me sick.

                                        • 10 votes
                                        Reply#9 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:20 AM EST

                                        SLUGGO, I am wondering if this woman was attempting to (or did) adopt this child in order to collect a monthly check which she would be entitled to from the Federal government for having a disabled child in her care. She didn't seem to want the child to provide her with a loving home. Adding the cost of having someone sit with the child while the rest of the family went to a movie would have been a small cost but they chose to put the child into a cage instead. I have to wonder how many times this solution has been used.

                                        • 8 votes
                                        #9.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                        This is not the first time this sort of thing has happened. The point of adoption was collecting easy money from the government. The point of the cage was to minimize any effort or expense the people had to expend on the child. No doubt a pair of sociopaths that need to be removed from society.

                                        These stories sicken me and cause me no small amount of grief. The day that stories like these stop shocking and horrifying people is the day I give up living on this wretched planet.

                                        • 1 vote
                                        #9.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:46 AM EST

                                        these two little piggies need to go wee wee wee all the way to the chair..........ZAAAAP!

                                        • 3 votes
                                        #9.3 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:57 AM EST

                                        @ Sluggo & Holly - Sluggo's remark makes it make a bit more sense now. I will bet that this "Family" wanted to go out on the town. Either felt they couldn't take the handicapped child or didn't want her along with them so they caged her up while they were out having fun so she wouldn't hurt herself or damage the house. (I would bet the latter is the primary reason.) I'll bet they felt it was OK. I'll bet they don't understand why they were arrested.

                                        God help us....

                                          #9.4 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:08 AM EST

                                          While I agree with sentiments expressed here, and think it likely there was a money motivation in the attempted adoption (birth mother is nowhere to be found), don't think "night on the town." The creeps took the other three kids (biological) to see a movie at the kids' elementary school.

                                          Sometimes it isn't about evil so much as poverty and stupidity.

                                          NBCLite here never provides detail. Thankfully there are still journalists - you can find details on this case at "International Business Times" (of all places), the "Spartanburg Herald, the "Las Cruces Sun-News."

                                            #9.5 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:56 AM EST
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                                            Considering our justice system, they will probably end up putting this poor child back with the mother eventually... I pray to god they don't, but it just seems like so many children slip through the cracks. So sad. I wouldn't be surprised if they ended up getting no jail time!

                                            • 3 votes
                                            Reply#10 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:21 AM EST

                                            Kelly -

                                            "Considering our LEGAL system . . ." If there is any justice found in our system, it seems to be random at best.

                                            • 1 vote
                                            #10.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 11:58 AM EST

                                            Kelly and mpa... Truth spoken here: "The United States is a nation of laws: badly written and randomly enforced." Frank Zappa

                                              #10.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:34 PM EST
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                                              wow..

                                              whats happening to people.....

                                              the poor girl was adopted,,,,by the wrong people

                                              • 4 votes
                                              Reply#11 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:21 AM EST

                                              we were allowed to adopt a shelter dog after a background check and 2 "home visits"....wonder what these two subhumans were required to do to gets KIDS?

                                              • 8 votes
                                              #11.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 10:05 AM EST

                                              Texas... "Don't overestimate the decency of the human race." H.L. Menken

                                                #11.2 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 2:37 PM EST
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                                                They should "stuff" her fat A** in the same cage. Ugly B***h!

                                                • 8 votes
                                                Reply#12 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:24 AM EST

                                                This is just horrible, and gives a bad name to foster and adoptive parents. I plea with those reading to please not paint with a broad brush! I know an AMAZING couple who have been fostering children lovingly for years, and have adopted several of them.

                                                • 10 votes
                                                Reply#13 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:26 AM EST

                                                I agree. I know quite a few foster parents, some of whom adopted the children they were fostering and they have very big hearts to do what they do. One family exclusively fosters/adopts children with fetal alcohol syndrome and they are really helping the kids to live up to their potential socially and scholastically. Very inspirational.

                                                • 7 votes
                                                #13.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:27 AM EST
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                                                They should start KILLING people who do this s**t to children. I bet you jerks would think twice b4 doing it then!

                                                Their fat asses were in it for the money. Or they had the poor child as a maid/slave. With all the Susan Smith's

                                                and Casey Anthony's and now this! WTF! Somehow we need to stop the madness. Not lock em up and feed em.

                                                Only to turn em loose in a few years.

                                                • 1 vote
                                                Reply#14 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:26 AM EST

                                                This is the best guardian the system can come up with? What must the mother be like!!!

                                                • 5 votes
                                                Reply#15 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:29 AM EST

                                                WAIT! I just reread the article. They released this lowlife B**ch ON BOND! I cannot beleive the justice system!

                                                Where is she? I wanna meet up with her in a dark alley!

                                                • 9 votes
                                                Reply#16 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:31 AM EST

                                                Ugh!! You have to be kidding! I will join you in that dark alley.

                                                • 5 votes
                                                #16.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:40 AM EST
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                                                To the two of them...
                                                Die...
                                                ...just die.

                                                • 3 votes
                                                Reply#17 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:34 AM EST

                                                THAT FAT *********** NEEDS TO BE LOCKED UP IN A CAGE.

                                                WELFARE NEEDS TO STEP IN AND TAKE THE POOR BABY AND GIVE HER A GOOD HOME.

                                                IT'S NOT HER FAULT SHE WAS BORN WITH A DEFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!

                                                • 5 votes
                                                Reply#18 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:39 AM EST

                                                They do not know why the child was locked in a cage ! Does it really matter why they did it???? there is no reason in the world to put a child in a cage. The fools need to be locked up for life!

                                                • 3 votes
                                                Reply#19 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                                I remember when Sqeeky Fromme took a shot a president Ford, John Wayne commented we should tie the attempted assasin behind a car and drag them around for a while. Sounds like a good idea for these two, I'll drive

                                                • 6 votes
                                                Reply#20 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:52 AM EST

                                                We need to outlaw cages now joe!

                                                • 4 votes
                                                Reply#21 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:52 AM EST

                                                They should be charged with intent to kill this child and hopefully a sensible jury can throw them in prison for life.....demonic scumbags!

                                                • 2 votes
                                                Reply#22 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:53 AM EST

                                                This sorry excuse for a mother should not be allowed to procreate and her children should be placed in a foster home immediately. I hope they are both imprisoned in a cage for years.

                                                • 2 votes
                                                Reply#23 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:54 AM EST

                                                Some people are not mentally capable of being parents, much less good ones.

                                                • 2 votes
                                                Reply#24 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:55 AM EST

                                                very well said "backtobasics". I totally agree.

                                                • 2 votes
                                                #24.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:42 AM EST
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                                                Unfortunately, as someone else mentioned the woman probably was only being a foster parent to this poor disabled girl for the extra money you get from the state for taking in disabled/handicapped children as compared to non-disabled children; I rather doubt she was doing it out of love & compassion.

                                                Nice tattoo showing in the vee of her shirt, too.....

                                                • 7 votes
                                                Reply#25 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:56 AM EST

                                                The scum adopted her. She's not a foster child which are assigned a social worker. No one from the state or county was looking out for this child.

                                                • 1 vote
                                                #25.1 - Wed Jan 30, 2013 1:18 PM EST
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