Nurse refuses to perform CPR despite 911 dispatcher's plea

A disturbing 911 call released after an elderly woman's death reveals employees at some senior centers are not allowed to perform CPR on residents. NBC's Miguel Almaguer reports.

An elderly woman being cared for at a California retirement facility died following the refusal of a nurse at the facility to perform CPR on the woman after she collapsed, authorities said.


When Lorraine Bayless, an 87-year-old resident of Glenwood Gardens, Bakersfield, collapsed at the facility around 11 a.m. Tuesday, a staff member called 911 but refused to give the woman CPR, according to a recording of the call.

In refusing the 911 dispatcher's insistence that she perform CPR, the nurse can be heard telling the dispatcher that it was against the retirement facility's policy to perform CPR.


During the exchange between the nurse and the dispatcher, the dispatcher can be heard saying, "I don't understand why you're not willing to help this patient.''

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An ambulance arrived several minutes after the call and took Bayless to a hospital, where she was later pronounced dead. She has been identified as a resident of the home's independent facility, which is separate from the skilled and assisted nursing facility.

The retirement facility released a statement extending its condolences to the family and said its "practice is to immediately call emergency medical personnel for assistance and to wait with the individual needing attention until such personnel arrives.''

The statement also said a "thorough internal review of the matter'' would be conducted.

A call to the facility by The Associated Press seeking more information on the incident was not immediately returned.

Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

Read KGET's account of the 911 call

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Comment author avatarDomewarsExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Seriously... FIRE the nurse. Unless the patient has a DO not resuscitation policy this woman was totally out of line.

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#1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:24 AM EST
Comment author avatarCreek DogExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

I hear ya. Knowing CPR myself, It would be on my conscience for the rest of my life.

You would think being this is a nursung home, that they'd be prepared for something like this.

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#1.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:30 AM EST

I was thinking that maybe she did have a DNR and that is why it was not performed? According to this article, the family isn't upset so there must be more to the story.

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#1.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:30 AM EST
Comment author avatarOkeeboyExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

I watched this story on the news last night and sat there with my jaw on the floor. The nurse kept telling the 911 operator that although she was a nurse, company policy prevented her from giving CPR. She even prevented others from giving any type of assistance because it was against policy.

All I can say is if that had been my mother laying there and this happened, well, as the song goes... better tell the grave digger to dig two.

I hope everyone who has a relative living at this facility has removed their love ones from this death camp.

  • 125 votes
#1.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:32 AM EST

You'll never catch a doctor doing this on the side of the road. Unless he's ready to be sued. Sorry to say, but it's true.

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#1.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:33 AM EST
Comment author avatarA. PattersonExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

The patient's DNR status is not revealed in this story. However, if she was a DNR, the normal procedure would be to call her doctor and have him come and pronounce her. On the other hand, statistics show that anyone over the age of 70 who has CPR performed has a ZERO chance of leaving the hospital alive. CPR on an 87 year old would under any circumstances be futile.

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#1.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:36 AM EST

G'morninn' Okee...

Mary,

I read somewhere that a little boy was struck by a car. A good Samaritan woman (nurse) stopped her car and performed CPR saving the kids life. The kid tried to sue the nurse that saved his life saying she broke a couple of his ribs (yeah, really).

The judge threw it out of court.

Unfortunately, "yes"... There are people out there that will do this.

  • 130 votes
#1.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:37 AM EST

Domewars

Seriously... FIRE the nurse. Unless the patient has a DO not resuscitation policy this woman was totally out of line.

Guess you haven't been reading the news lately. People who go against company policy can and will get fired. Remember the life guard the went past his designated area to save someone from drowning and got fired for doing so? If you want people to go above and beyond to save lives, then make laws to prevent them from being fired from their jobs for doing it. A woman bartender just recently lost her job for calling the police on a man who was drunk and attempting to drive. Her boss said it was bad for business to call the cops as customers will go elsewhere.

So no, I do not think she should be fired for following company policy.

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#1.7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:38 AM EST

If the policy is to NOT provide assistance, why call 911??

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#1.8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:39 AM EST

GM OkeeBoy, CD and Mary. Good call Mary!

I believe if the nurse attempted CPR, she would have lost her job for going against company policy, as stated in the article

The retirement facility released a statement extending its condolences to the family and said its "practice is to immediately call emergency medical personnel for assistance and to wait with the individual needing attention until such personnel arrives.''

I am not saying I agree with it but the nurse has to follow procedure and the company was ensuring that it could not be placed in a lawsuit. That is a tough call because as a Divemaster, I have to be CPR certified and am required to perform it, if necessary.

  • 39 votes
#1.9 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:44 AM EST
Comment author avatardprnExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

The nurse should be fired and reported the board of nursing, I am a nurse and would have violated this policy. Why have a nurse on duty if they by policy cannot perform this role... and the facility should be CLOSED.

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#1.10 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:44 AM EST

The nurse said "company policy" was DNR. Since when can a company decide to let someone die? How can you stand there and watch someone die and refuse to help them. Get rid of her and get the CEO by the neck and shake the stuffing out of him/her. If they have a DNR and they are DEAD (no pulse, no respiration), so be it. If they are breathing or have a heartbeat, they are NOT dead. DNR does not mean do not bring out of an unconscious state.

    #1.11 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:50 AM EST
    Comment author avatarbrenda1964Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    RRS in MN

    If the policy is to NOT provide assistance, why call 911??

    If you read the article then you would not have to ask this question. It is part of the policy to call 911 and stay with the patient until medical team arrives. This isn't rocket science and she was just doing her job.

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    #1.12 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:52 AM EST

    sigh....remember when common sense use to kick in instead of policy's......

    gm mary,cd,jack,okee,

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    #1.13 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:54 AM EST
    Comment author avatarbrenda1964Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    dprn

    The nurse should be fired and reported the board of nursing, I am a nurse and would have violated this policy. Why have a nurse on duty if they by policy cannot perform this role... and the facility should be CLOSED.

    You are a nurse now, but go against hospital policy and you won't be for long. And no, the facility should not be closed. you don't even know what her DNR says. Maybe she has it set that way and the nurse was just following policy to do what the patient wishes.

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    #1.14 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:55 AM EST

    all states have the GOOD SAMARITAN law, immunity from any liability for rendering any reasonable assistance; the nurse did not say there was a dnr with this patient, only not company policy; since a nursing home is considered a medical provider; the nursing home and nurse are liable under medical malpractice; the state has the right to revoke the license of the nursing home for their policy which is against all state laws requiring nursing homes to have life saving procedures in place (gee another frivolouslawsuit). of course do to her age and infirmity, it will be hard for the family to find a attorney to take on the insurance company and nursing home, since the recovery may not even cover the costs of the lawsuit.

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    #1.15 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:55 AM EST
    Comment author avatarRRS in MNExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Wow, Brenda--snotty much? The 911 dispatcher was pleading with the nurse to perform CPR until medical assistance arrived. If that wasn't going to happen, why bother?

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    #1.16 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:57 AM EST

    saxon unfortunantly the good samaritan law only pertains to untrained people trying to help. a nurse, firefighter, emt, police officer is not protected by it.

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    #1.17 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:58 AM EST
    Comment author avatarbrenda1964Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    RRS in MN

    Wow, Brenda--snotty much? The 911 dispatcher was pleading with the nurse to perform CPR until medical assistance arrived. If that wasn't going to happen, why bother?

    How dense are you people? How many times do I have to say it? The reason you bother calling 911 is because the company policy dictates that she must call. If she did not, then she would have lost her job. How hard is it to understand? The 911 dispatcher won't lose her job for violating company policy, the nurse will. The dispatcher can plead all day long, she has nothing to lose, but the nurse does, her job.

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    #1.18 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:02 AM EST

    GM Scooter

    This seems like one of the toughest calls to make - damned if you and damned if you don't. This has no "what ifs...." to work arouns and CD said it well with:

    Catch 22

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    #1.19 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:04 AM EST

    DNR means DO NOT RESUSCITATE.

    We don't have the complete story (not a surprise on MSN). If she had a DNR, then the nurse was following the correct procedures. If not, she will be stripped of her license and wont be a nurse. Company policy or not.

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    #1.20 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:06 AM EST
    Comment author avatartatasExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Why be a nurse if you're not in the business of helping people?

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    #1.21 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:07 AM EST

    GM Tramp. I was a first responder till I found out how bad I could get screwed.. All I wanted to do was help. The system is f--ked. But it is what it is and that's all that there is.

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    #1.22 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:10 AM EST

    Thank GOODNESS we have experts such as Brenda among us!! Since there is a woeful lack of detailed information in this article, what I am wondering about, dear Brenda, is if company policy is to NOT provide assistance until medical help arrives, and the 911 dispatcher is clearly letting the nurse know that CPR is necessary in this situation, is it a reasonable policy? Why should a nurse be put in the position of choosing between her job and the welfare of a patient in her care?

    There isn't enough information in the article to say, leading to questions such as mine (and many others), and throwing the quality of the facility & the care of its patients into doubt.

    Feel free to call me stupid again--it apparently makes you feel better.

    • 47 votes
    #1.23 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:17 AM EST

    So the hospital has a blanket DNR policy to protect their institution from being sued when they perform CPR. Blame society and the lawsuits we allow for that, not this nursing home or its staff.

    I just hope everyone knows this is this nursing home's policy before they take up residency there.

    • 38 votes
    #1.24 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:18 AM EST

    It sounds like the same policy Congress has when dealing with the health of our country.

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    #1.25 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:21 AM EST
    Comment author avatarHeartland25-1932636Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    For god's sake the woman was 87 years old and in a nursing home! Kudos to the facility for not prolonging the woman's march toward death. So everyone who wants the nurse fired would prefer that the woman have CPR, be put on life support, billed for unnecessary "tests" to find out what's wrong with her. Here's a clue..... She's old. If it were my mother at 87 I would be happy that she went quickly and wasn't subjected to "save her at any cost" mentality. At what point is it god's decision and when did we become so all knowing that every patient has to be saved if possible. Give me a break. This mentality is what is wrong with our healthcare system. Let the woman go in peace for god's sake.

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    #1.26 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:22 AM EST

    The individual above who said that CPR would not have helped is absolutely correct. CPR is of near ZERO value in this situation (individual over 70 who suffers sudden heart failure). Unfortunately, as a former Paramedic, I can tell you that we generally view CPR as a great way of preventing bystanders from panicking, and not much else. There are VERY few situations I ever encountered in my professional career where CPR improved the outcome- in fact, I can think of exactly ONE, where CPR was done for all of 30 seconds before a bystander found the AED. The nursing home has this policy for this very reason- CPR has nearly zero benefit to that patient population, and simply opens them up for a hit should the family decide to sue.

    As cold as it may sound, the nurse did the right thing- for herself and her employer, and at the end of the day her failure to perform CPR likely had nothing to do with the final outcome.

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    #1.27 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:28 AM EST

    gm to all the usual suspects,

    I am required by my job to stay certified in CPR and first aid. On thing they don't tell you in the classes is to be aware of what Good Samaritan laws do (or do not) exist in your state. Every medical professional should be aware of what liability they incur if they render aid. It varies by state.

    • 26 votes
    #1.28 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:34 AM EST

    Regardless of the Nursing Home's policy, the nurse would have been legally protected under the Good Samaritan Law.

    Her failure to act was unconscionable.

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    #1.29 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:36 AM EST

    ERIC 1964 : good Samaritan law also applies to any and all medical personnel.

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    #1.30 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:49 AM EST

    The real problem here isn't the nurse - it's the policy of the nursing home (if indeed this is the case.)

    The nurse didn't want to lose her job. She surely would have been fired the next day for breaking policy.

    Anyone know FOR A FACT if 'good samaritan' laws exist in this state and if her job would have been protected?

    The threat of being sued for helping is real, folks.

    • 19 votes
    #1.31 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:52 AM EST

    I just checked: California Law does have a provision in their Good Samaritan Act that allows professionals to be covered AS LONG AS there was no gross negligible act involved. Lack of doing something will not qualify as long as it is policy (albeit a lousy one) for inaction.

    • 15 votes
    #1.32 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:58 AM EST
    Comment author avatarsoarsisExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    once again idiots, she was in the independent part of the facility, not the skilled nursing part. she may have been in the independent part because they have specific DNRs. get a clue people

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    #1.33 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:59 AM EST

    She called 911 because it was her employers policy!

    Many of you don't work in the geriatric field of medicine and have no idea about what you are even talking about!

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    #1.34 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:04 AM EST

    saxon - read California's good samaritan law (California Health and Safety Code Section 1799.102) it does NOT protect medical personnel. They are specifically exempt from the law in section a.

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    #1.35 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:04 AM EST

    gm mary,cd,jack,okee, Scooter, DB,

    brenda is correct in what she is telling you people. My daughter is a nurse who has worked her entire career in nursing homes. I couldn't begin to tell you the insane and bizarre rules and policies the employees in these places must follow.

    And CPR on anyone as old and fragile as this woman would have resulted in broken ribs from the chest compressions at the least, and possilby permanent damage to the heart at the most.

    When the rules are "do not attempt CPR" you DO NOT ATTEMPT CPR.

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    #1.36 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:10 AM EST

    Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

    Then why the article? It is obvious that common sense has COMPLETELY gone out the door. I mean THINK ABOUT IT!!!

    It is the POLICY NOT TO REVIVE!!
    Don't you think the deceased and family KNEW THAT BEFORE moving in?

    THE DAUGHTER IS A NURSE and is FINE with how her mother was treated!!
    The only people hurt by this families CHOICE is a 911 operator and butt hurt America.

    If you people on the Vine are a direct reflection of society then we are screwed.

    • 66 votes
    #1.37 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:11 AM EST

    Actually, despite IF there was a DNR order on file, CPR is not considered to be "extraordinary measures". As opposed to say heart defibrulation, breathing machines etc. And in all 50 states you will find laws on the books stating that a person with medical training "on scene" MUST give aid when this type of thing occurs. And withholding such aid is Criminal Negligence. This nursing facility can and SHOULD be held accountable. Because the person on the phone did not state that there was a DNR, she simply said it was against the nurshing facility's "policy" to do CPR and refused to find someone who would. And when you think about it so what if CPR would have caused broken ribs? Don't you think that this woman would've been glad to be alive? Albeit with bumps, bruises etc?

    I hope that the family, when they've had time to think about it, DOES sue. The publicity generated might prevent this type of inhumane treatment in the future.

    • 12 votes
    #1.38 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:13 AM EST

    A no CPR facility is a NO CPR facility. It's in the policy. The Customer and the estate gaurdian had to sign for it to be left in that care and thats life or in this instance, death, but isn't death for those not affraid actually another chance at Life?

    It's only their job to call authorities to prevent the notion that a crime may have been commited and they aren't coming to rescue the victim if they are dead. They are coming to pronounce them as being dead because that's what those people that lived there wanted.

    Also, CPR cannot be performed without breaking the ribcage, ask your professionals what has to give to make the heart pumpable. Or, if you've ever needed CPR you already know and, it really really hurts like heIl.

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    #1.39 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:25 AM EST

    Never mind good Samaritan laws, DNRs, or what seems right or wrong. If you put your family member (or yourself) in one of these facilities, you sign a lot of contracts, all of which you should read, and all of which state the policies, so that you know what you can expect in the event something like this happens. This is really a non-story being sensationalized to make this woman seem like a bad person for not acting, but there's a whole lot of contract there backing up her actions, and the fact that the family isn't upset confirms that. The dispatcher is incensed because she wasn't in the loop on that contract signed by all of those people involved on the other end of the phone line and should get over it. THE ONLY lawsuit that will come of this is the dispatcher being sued for slander for dragging this woman's name through the mud, making her look like some evil person who just stood by and watched, causing her distress as she tries to explain again and again to friends and family and neighbors and even strangers (like you and me) that literally she was doing her job and abiding by the contract signed by the family and in all likelihood the woman who died.

    • 48 votes
    #1.40 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:26 AM EST

    CPR on an elderly person does much damage, but when performed immediately it does save lives. Perhaps this is a compromise the home follows considering the quality of life that would follow. I would not want to be the one making that choice.

    • 6 votes
    #1.41 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:27 AM EST

    Although this article doesn't give the entire story, this facilities procedures are not to resuscitate. More than likely a person has to sign a DNR before even moving. Seems the daughter sides with the facility, so that indicates to me there is far more to this story but as always the news media wants to glorify the story for increase viewership.

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    #1.42 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:28 AM EST

    we generally view CPR as a great way of preventing bystanders from panicking, and not much else.

    Alex,

    I've no idea what your personal experience is, but I've seen CPR performed exactly twice in my life, and it worked both times.

    The first was a neighbor's toddler who fell head first into a bucket of water. His father had gone into the house to answer the phone, and didn't find the child until he was blue (and not breathing). I watched as he performed CPR, and saw the child literally turn pink again after a huge shudder and gasp. He lived.

    The second was a man who had a heart attack while driving his car. My daughter saw him crash into a pole, pulled him out, and performed CPR on him for about 12 minutes until the EMTs arrived. He also lived.

    And for those of you who say this was an 'old' woman and should be 'allowed to die', I'd add this: the woman was not in assisted living, which means she was ambulatory and able to care for herself and her home. That doesn't sound 'old' to me. My own grandfather lived to be 98, and my aunt passed last year at 94 - bright and active until the last month of her life.

    Eighty seven isn't 'old' for everyone.

    • 22 votes
    #1.43 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:32 AM EST

    My my...the last time I seen this many "medical professionals" in one place was at a training foray in OKC for Masters of Public Health students...now those were some sharp people. Half of you dont know what you're talking about and most of the rest just wish you did.

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    #1.44 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:32 AM EST

    ctually, despite IF there was a DNR order on file, CPR is not considered to be "extraordinary measures". As opposed to say heart defibrulation, breathing machines etc

    this is false. DNR is "do not resuscitate". By any means. You can write in specific allowed measures (shocks but no breathing machine) but chest compressions are the most traumatic of all these interventions and are forbidden if the patient is DNR

    However, we do not know if she was DNR or not. It doesn't sound like she was from the article, or it wouldn't be news.

    I agree with the above posters who have stated CPR would be futile in her. But, if the family wishes for everything to be done, and the patient has no advance directive or has stated the same, then our hands are tied as far as her care

    • 5 votes
    #1.45 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:34 AM EST
    Comment author avatartea1959Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    It's Bush's fault

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    #1.46 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:34 AM EST
    Comment author avatarbrenda1964Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    RRS in MN

    Thank GOODNESS we have experts such as Brenda among us!! Since there is a woeful lack of detailed information in this article, what I am wondering about, dear Brenda, is if company policy is to NOT provide assistance until medical help arrives, and the 911 dispatcher is clearly letting the nurse know that CPR is necessary in this situation, is it a reasonable policy? Why should a nurse be put in the position of choosing between her job and the welfare of a patient in her care?

    There isn't enough information in the article to say, leading to questions such as mine (and many others), and throwing the quality of the facility & the care of its patients into doubt.

    Feel free to call me stupid again--it apparently makes you feel better.

    I would not dream of calling you something when you already are aware of it. To quote a famous person, " Stupid is as stupid does". You make of that what you will.

    • 15 votes
    #1.47 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:34 AM EST
    Comment author avatarMystery RheeExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Fire the policy! This can't be viewed in the context of "age". Unless there was a "legal" DNR and not one of being some kind of "implied consent", this Nurse SHOULD NOT have been "PREVENTED" from administering aid. This story is the EPITOME of what is wrong with HealthCare today, because the Ones who are most directly responsible for administering are NOT ALLOWED TO. (TRAINED to not be allowed to) Fire the Policy! Deflecting to HAVE TO CALL 911, first, is in no way reasonable in regard to a Facility that is built around the knowing possibility that something like this could happen at any moment. This isn't an "of-the-moment" 911 Emergency, this is a wrongly "planned for" 911 Emergency. (again, unless there was a "legal", not implied or forced consent" DNR). And then that would also bring in the question of whether "Hospice" Care is in the equation anywhere, too.

    If there was a DNR, the Nurse should have said so. That is also just REASONABLE to expect that the Nurse could tell 911 that there was a DNR, but that little tidbit is kept under supposedly needed "CONFIDENTIALITY-for-the-Patient/Client's-own-good!"

    • 4 votes
    #1.48 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:35 AM EST

    All I can say is if that had been my mother laying there and this happened, well, as the song goes... better tell the grave digger to dig two.

    If she were your mother, maybe she should be in your care. Make a note that the daughter of the deceased has no complaints. You need to think about if you were an employed nurse like the one here, would you have tried CPR on an 87 year old person against the policy of your employer. Depending on the kind of people that you would have to deal with, you might get sued and or lose your job

    Also, in addition to the suing culture, the home had an assisted nurse section and an independent section, and this was a case in the latter section.

    • 8 votes
    #1.49 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:37 AM EST

    Im with the nurse. GOOD FOR YOU. For @!$%#s sake people use some common sense. The lady was 87, if she collapsed then it was her time.

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    #1.50 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:37 AM EST

    physicist,

    Ive seen CPR performed hundreds, if not thousands of times. It works very infrequently

    Young kids drowning/choking is a notable exception. They usually recover

    But instead of using anecdotes, go look it up. Or ill do it for you

    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8222679

    Not the most recent article, but our care hasn't changed a ton (except for cooling I suppose) Anyway, the info is out there

    • 15 votes
    #1.51 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:38 AM EST

    Creek Dog, I recall a similar story where a good samaritan happened upon a horrific accident. He pulled out the victim in the car just moments before it blew up. The victim in that car was left paralyzed in the legs and sued the good samaritan for rescuing her. It was believed that pulling her from the car is what caused further damage. I don't know whatever became of the lawsuit but I sure as hell hope that a jury favored the good samaritan simply for saving the woman's life that otherwise would have been blown to pieces. I am thinking a judge at the appellate level would have thrown the damn case out since the first judge was stupid enough for allowing the case in the first place.

    Would the family have sued the good samaritan for allowing her to die instead? And this is why people turn a blind eye in society!!

    • 17 votes
    #1.52 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:41 AM EST

    Believe me, IllRose, the family is not going to sue. If the old lady's NURSE DAUGHTER is fine with it, doesn't that tell you something? A code is not pretty or respectful, and in this case, totally futile. The patient was pushing 90 and had a DNR or this would not have happened.

    • 14 votes
    #1.53 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:43 AM EST

    There could be more to this story. We had a DNR on my mother when she was in such a facility. We also have one on my husband, who has cancer. If that is the case, the nurse did as requested by the family. Just not enough facts to pass judgement.

    • 17 votes
    #1.54 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:44 AM EST

    It seems cold what this nurse did but she certainly knows more about this case than we do. I suspect the woman had a DNR in place and it was being respected. My mother has one and it covers everything from choking on a piece of food to falling out of bed. She doesn't want to be resuscitated under any circumstance. It's difficult for the family and the nursing staff to abide by her wishes but the truth is she wants to die and has been ready to go for several years.

    It's a horrible way to die but we treat our humans less humanely than we do our pets so it's the best she can do since she can't do it herself.

    • 18 votes
    #1.55 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:44 AM EST

    People that age in these kind of homes are there because they are waiting for their day. If anything it is inhumane to bring them back to suffering. You stupid ass holes who think we should prevent people from dieing are @!$%#ed in the head. When you become too old to have any quality of life, have to return to diapers and cant even remember ten minutes ago life is no longer a good thing and keeping these people alive is toture. Just because you cant bear to let go of your loved one doesnt make it ok to repeatedly recussitate them.

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    #1.56 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:44 AM EST

    To all that are bitching and saying lawsuit are sadly out of touch with what goes on in the healthcare world. Also this Nurse will be sued or be charged when there is a policy in place and going against the policy will clearly get you fired, this is just how and yes more facilitys have this policy to protect their staff. The policy is to call 911 and wait as same with if you fall or collapse in a parking lot of a hospital they have to call 911 and then transport you into the ED, this is for liabilty purposes. Also if you know CPR and perform it on someone that has collapsed due to a MI doing CPR is a judgement call as the Good Samaritan rule has been challenged by many that have received it and sued the the individual performing it. They forget or do not have the understanding that when this is done you will have broken ribs and contusions.

    Also as one stated we have DNR/DNI orders on most individuals who reside in these facilitys and that to means no CPR or chest compressions only or only medications.

    To : lrose30198 DNR orders are subjective and also these facilitys have Lawyers that are aware and have proofed the policys and would not allow any that are in harm also I have worked in healthcare for over 20yrs and yes I have seen many rehabs that have the same policys to not perform CPR and and call 911.

    These policys are to protect the staff against biased lawsuits that many of you use to sue healthcare workers when they save your life!

    Also CPR only saves 30% of the those that receive it and who and no ones knows the quality of life that this indvidual had?? We know live in society where all that are not in healthcare and I mean Nurse,Respiratory Therpist or Doctor that believes when one goes to the hospital we are there to fix them or more as know called Sick care not healthcare anymore. Many out there that stated or used lawsuit are the exact individuals who we in healthcare are sick of and ruin our lives when you have no clue to what healthcare is really about.

    • 10 votes
    #1.57 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:45 AM EST

    Did anyone read the last line?

    "Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received."

    All of us will die, accept it. Her daughter did. Why can't others.

    • 33 votes
    #1.58 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:48 AM EST

    She was 87 years for gods sake. When are we going to realize that spending MORE ON ONE"S LIFE IN THE LAST 3 MONTHS THAN ALL OF THEIR PRECEDING YEARS COMBINED IS BANKRUPTING this country. Enough! death is part of life, no one lives FOREVER!! Religious kooks get over yourself.

    • 25 votes
    #1.59 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:51 AM EST

    All I know is that 30 years ago, when I first got out of high school. I worked in my local hospital's emergency room. Our doctors on staff plus the EMT's and Paramedic's from our county fire department were constantly being sued by people who would otherwise be dead. Regardless, Myself, it's always been my nature to step in and help. Despite the facilties policy in this story. I feel that this nurse was a gutless coward.

    • 8 votes
    #1.60 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:52 AM EST

    A job is just that. A job. As a "skilled" nurse, she would never have had any problems finding a job if she were fired for saving the life of a patient. She is in deeper do do right now, than a job loss, even if the patients "family" (which I can only guess were glad she's no longer a burden to them), said they were "happy" with her "care". What care? That was neglect! Harming or neglecting a patient is a serious offense in the medical field.
    There's always a possibility of legal action and the threat of losing your license. But the oath the medical professionals take is to protect and care for patients, and you could also lose your license for not following THAT.
    The "Nightingale Pledge"
    I solemnly pledge myself before God and in the
    presence of this assembly, to pass my life in purity and to practice my
    profession faithfully. I will abstain from whatever is deleterious and
    mischievous, and will not take or knowingly administer any harmful drug. I will
    do all in my power to maintain and elevate the standard of my profession, and
    will hold in confidence all personal matters committed to my keeping and all
    family affairs coming to my knowledge in the practice of my calling.
    With loyalty will I endeavor to aid the physician in his work and devote myself to the welfare of those committed to my care.

    Unbelievable amounts of people on here are more worried about being sued than the well being of another human being.
    I personally hope to heck, if I ever needed someone to help me, it wouldn't be one of you, and each of you better hope the same thing when it becomes YOUR turn. What if it were one of your kids and YOU didn't know CPR, but someone around you did, yet they wouldn't perform it because they could get sued, and your child dies. Just think about it.
    Prepare yourselves people...the death panel members have begun to take their seats...

    • 6 votes
    #1.61 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:54 AM EST

    this is a link to a more complete version:

    http://www.kget.com/news/local/story/Dramatic-911-tape-reveals-dispatcher-s-fight-to/g2pqsOnJJUGDHFDtxoK04Q.cspx

    The patient was NOT DNR but the facility does not offer medical assistance. Interesting...

    • 7 votes
    #1.62 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:55 AM EST

    This a BS half baked story designed to upset people. Great, more upset people in the world.

    • 12 votes
    #1.63 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:55 AM EST

    Steamie2010

    All I know is that 30 years ago, when I first got out of high school. I worked in my local hospital's emergency room. Our doctors on staff plus the EMT's and Paramedic's from our county fire department were constantly being sued by people who would otherwise be dead. Regardless, Myself, it's always been my nature to step in and help. Despite the facilties policy in this story. I feel that this nurse was a gutless coward.

    That's your opinion, but you were not there. She made the call to follow company policy. I would have done the same. Oh and by the way, if I am 85 and my heart stops or something like that, I hope i don't have you there to bring me back.

    • 19 votes
    #1.64 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:56 AM EST
    Comment author avatarthetruthteller-3478699Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    DNR/DNI polices need to be made illegal period. Anyone that argues otherwise is no better than scum like the Nazis that we fought against things like this, abortion, and killing because of the ethnicity of people and the color of their skin. Finally, the nurse not only needs to be fired but she needs to go under the death penalty and anyone that supports her needs to also die as a terrorist combatant instead of a martyr. Sending them as weapons of mass destruction against people on the left, right, middle, and fringe that commit terrorism world wide would be a good start.

      #1.65 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:56 AM EST

      This is a good example are for profit companies....they will not do anything for the people they have in their care. There is always someone their waiting to get in so there is no worry about money security.

      • 3 votes
      #1.66 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:57 AM EST
      Comment author avatarSteamie2010Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

      Brenda,

      What? Do you have ESP? Of course not! You don't know the whole story. Hell no!

      So if your mom drops to the floor? Are you just going to sit there like a stump on a log because she's old? You're an idiot! ... and probably gutless too ... If something happens to you at any age. I hope somebody like you is there to save you. Because you will be dead.

      Plus commenting on every post you don't like is called trolling. TROLL

      • 5 votes
      #1.67 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:05 AM EST


      .

        #1.68 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:08 AM EST

        alright RRS in Min & Brenda. settle things in an adult-like fashion. take it to a jello wrestling gig already. meowwwwwwww....

        • 1 vote
        #1.69 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:09 AM EST

        Why when you call a doctors office and their messages says if this is an emergency hang up and dial 911? If I needed a doctor and go to his office of practice to get his help is he going to refuse service if I have a medical condition that would require immediate attention?

          #1.70 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:09 AM EST
          Comment author avatarMarty-3578909Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

          So the woman's daughter isn't upset? Could it be that now that Mom is gone, the daughter isn't spending Mom's money on the retirement center and instead the daughter will be heading to an attorney to collect her inheritance? Could be...

          • 6 votes
          #1.71 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:12 AM EST

          I'm not going to waste my breath arguing with a troll...but company policies have been known to get "companies" in a lot of hot water. This one just might be the demise of not only the patient, but the private care facility as well.

          • 3 votes
          #1.72 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:14 AM EST

          They tell you to call 911 because you will get emergency help there. A doctor's office is usually not equipped or staffed for medical emergencies. And, the doctor might be out to lunch or with another patient and not able to get to your call to even know why you are calling.

          • 5 votes
          #1.73 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:17 AM EST

          I did not see anything in the story which broached DNR (Do not rescusitate). My wife is a nurse who previously worked in acute dialysis. She says that many of her patients had it plainly stated that they did not want ANY level of CPR! To do CPR when it was expressly forbidden could cost the nurse her license!

          • 9 votes
          #1.74 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:17 AM EST

          So now remind me, EXACTLY WHO ARE THE DEATH PANELS the republicraps were hollering about after the Affordable Care Act was introduced to the citizens, NO WONDER THE PROFIT AT ALL COST TEABAG REPUBLICRAPS , THAT'S WHO. I believe this woman needed the same care everyone of us needs, compassionate and expert care from whomever is closest to the victim, THIS WAS NOT DONE. The ADMINISTRATORS of this facility should be sued enough that the nurse in question has to become homeless herself. Truly despicable people run this country now, and I don't mean the president, I blame the legislators that allowed businesses to write such rules of employment. The president is nothing compared to the corporate greed we all have to live under, WE SHOULD DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!!

          • 7 votes
          #1.75 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:18 AM EST

          Marty

          Have you ever cared for someone who can't wipe their own ass, can't feed themselves, can't remember you and even when they could didn't like you? Probably not.

          Nursing homes and assisted care facilities are extremely expensive and can dwindle life savings very quickly. Some of these patients who require over $10k a month for care are barely comatose. It's not all happy grandmas knitting sweaters in most of these places.

          We've learned how to extend life but we are extending the worst months and years of it. Most people at the end of life have little memory, are in pain, are confused and scared. It's a horrible way to die.

          • 23 votes
          #1.76 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:20 AM EST

          Creek Dog

          I read somewhere that a little boy was struck by a car. A good Samaritan woman (nurse) stopped her car and performed CPR saving the kids life. The kid tried to sue the nurse that saved his life saying she broke a couple of his ribs (yeah, really).

          The judge threw it out of court.

          The judge threw it out of court after the woman had racked up exactly how much in lawyer and related expenses??

          Folks you can blame the lawyers for this one and until we have a loser pay system like every other sensible nation we might as well get used to it. There is ZERO doubt that attempting CPR will result in injury to an 87 year old woman even if it does save their life. As Creek Dog mentions such injury could easily result in litigation under our current system. Even if the case is throw out that won't happen until thousands of dollars of expenses are incurred and of course if it's not thrown out the cost could easily reach the millions.

          And for those screaming to fire the nurse...if she was following company policy you can bet her lack of action saved her job for the reasons I just mentioned. It's a @!$%#ed up system that allows good deeds to be punished but until we get some politicians with the balls to stand up to the trial lawyer lobby and push through tort reform we're stuck with it.

          • 5 votes
          #1.77 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:25 AM EST

          As an RN for 40 years I have many times seen headlines in the news saying a "nurse" did this or that bad thing......then come to find out it is a nurse's aide instead. Since this was a residential facility, and the woman was in the independent living part of the facility, I highly doubt this person that called 911 was a licensed nurse (RN, LPN, or LVN)......more likely a nurse assistant, maybe a certified nurse assistant. I happen to have always worked in a hospital where every employee, even administrative people are required to know basic life support....but I have never seen one of them participate in any resuscitative efforts (and usually no doctor either, even in the cases of someone collapsing in the cafeteria).....only "real" nurses and respiratory therapists seem to get involved. This facility in this instance obviously has a policy in place that the people living there understand when they sign their contracts to live there. A regular nursing home would still resuscitate because that is the expectation as a "nursing care" facility - which this place was NOT. My parents live in a retirement apartment facility where they receive one meal per day, some light housekeeping, and some supervised activities, but no one there would be doing any CPR........just calling the ambulance or my parents would be using their "lifeline" button that they wear around their neck to summon help from the local ambulance themselves. And that is just fine with me.

          • 14 votes
          #1.78 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:27 AM EST

          Marty-3578909

          So the woman's daughter isn't upset? Could it be that now that Mom is gone, the daughter isn't spending Mom's money on the retirement center and instead the daughter will be heading to an attorney to collect her inheritance? Could be...

          Do you automatically assume the worst of everyone??? What a sad existence that must be.

          • 8 votes
          #1.79 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:28 AM EST

          This says it all

          Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

          Just maybe the daughter knew her mother's condition better than a bunch of strangers. No one even knows if she was in cardiac arrest.

          It wasn't a nursing home. It was an intendant living facility. Health care was not part of the package although they have other facilities that do.

          • 7 votes
          #1.80 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:30 AM EST

          Ranting

          Yes I have cared for a family member nearing life's end, in fact I am doing so right now. BUT being in an assisted living center doesn't mean the old lady was helpless, it means she was able to do many things for herself. Most of these centers provide cleaning services, aid in medication, sometimes meals, but other than that the residents pretty much care for themselves. I'm certainly happy no one I care about is in YOUR care, you might be inconvienced by doing for them what they did for you as a baby.

          • 7 votes
          #1.81 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:30 AM EST

          ConwayTwitter

          A job is just that. A job. As a "skilled" nurse, she would never have had any problems finding a job if she were fired for saving the life of a patient.

          ROFLMAO.....

          Most of our care facilities are owned by entities outside the borders of the US. And no, she would not have an easy time finding another position just because she saved the life of a patient against company policy.

          In fact, she would be blacklisted for having done so and deemed a non team player.

          • 7 votes
          #1.82 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:32 AM EST

          Family should sue the facility for wrongful death caused by inhumane policy. I'd like to see that one come before a jury. After they're through with them for several million dollars, I'd bet the policy would change. Condolences, my fat behind.

          • 1 vote
          #1.83 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:34 AM EST

          Unless the woman had a DNR on file the situation is completely unacceptable. I would hope that any families who have relatives at this place should have them removed at once.

          • 3 votes
          #1.84 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:35 AM EST

          Welcome to the future of Obamacare, health professionals letting the elderly die.

          • 4 votes
          #1.85 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:36 AM EST

          Ray....buddy...you have it backwards! It is the Dems who wanted the death panels to save the government money. The evil rich Republicans would make more money if she were alive!

          • 6 votes
          #1.86 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:36 AM EST

          I have gone through the final stages of life with three people I loved very dearly. My parents and a most beloved aunt. Whether or not this nurse would lose her job is moot. Her actions were respectful and loving and showed the ultimate in care. Until you have actually seen your loved ones become less and less of themselves as all of their dignity is lost... you can't understand that death can be a kindness.

          • 13 votes
          #1.87 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:39 AM EST

          wje37fcsm

          Family should sue the facility for wrongful death caused by inhumane policy. I'd like to see that one come before a jury.

          It would never come anywhere near a jury. The judge would throw it out as soon as he read the CONTRACT that the people signed when the woman moved in. You can't sue someone for something you agreed to which is the exact purpose of this policy. The injuries the woman received during the administration of CPR would certainly be something they could sue over however.

          The lawyers are the root cause of this problem not the solution. In fact you could argue that the root of the root of the problem is people like you who start screaming "SUE...SUE...SUE" at the drop of a hat.

          • 10 votes
          #1.88 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:44 AM EST

          I would like to add one more comment. It is not easy to find facilities that are independent living... allowing their guests as much dignity as possible, that will also care for them through the final stages. When the inevitable downward spiral starts it would be very difficult to move the person, causing more disruption and often confusion. They develop relationships with their care givers and to be able to continue with them is a blessing. Facilities that keep patient until death have quite a mixture of patient capabilities.

          • 3 votes
          #1.89 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:44 AM EST

          In refusing the 911 dispatcher's insistence that she perform CPR, the nurse can be heard telling the dispatcher that it was against the retirement facility's policy to perform CPR.

          The most likely reason for this policy is a fear of litigation. I suspect this facilities own lawyers advised this policy be put in place to prevent lawsuits. Don't be so quick to judge this nurse. Had she performed CPR and the patient died anyway, she probably would have lost her job at the minimum and could be sued or worse.

          • 3 votes
          #1.90 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:55 AM EST

          Backcountry

          Haven't you heard many times of people doing something awful or allowing something awful to happen to a family member for money or an inheritance? (The Menendez brothers in CA come to mind.) I didn't say that was the answer in this case, but it IS a possibility for why daughter isn't upset about what happened.

          • 1 vote
          #1.91 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:58 AM EST

          Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

          That's the bottom line period. The nurse did nothing wrong and everything right.

          • 7 votes
          #1.92 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:58 AM EST

          Looks like you beggars who supported obamacareLESS won. Her death panel voted against

          her 666 to nothing!! Your'e gonna see alot more of this people. The insurance companies are in it for the money now. If you think they were making a profit before, just watch thier bottom line now. Patient is sick, let them die!!!!!! The bastards won and you let them!!!!!!!

            #1.93 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:00 PM EST

            To the person decrying DNR and DNI orders, those are there for a reason, to respect the wishes of the possibly soon to depart. Everybody should have a living will that indicates what he or she does and does not want to have done.

            Mine involves the cases in which I want the plug to be pulled and when I find it permissible to harvest the organs. It's mostly common sense stuff, but it's there in case my parents need to make those decisions for me so that they have something to provide cover so they don't feel like they're murdering me.

            BTW, I'm only 32 and I had a heat stroke at 30, thankfully, I pulled through with no obvious damage, but I could easily have been unlucky and wound up in a condition worse than dead for the next several decades.

            • 1 vote
            #1.94 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:02 PM EST

            Tim, what's wrong with you? A woman in her late 80s has access to nationalized healthcare, so I'm not sure what Obamacare would have to do with this.

            • 5 votes
            #1.95 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:04 PM EST

            WTF!!! Is California going to the dumps or what, fire fighters and rescue crews let man drown in San Francisco Bay, but they go rescue a horse out in sea. A lady falls to the floor and the nurse just watches??? Yeah, the Liberals really have good morals!

            • 1 vote
            #1.96 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:09 PM EST

            For crying out loud already...

            This has nothing to do with Obama even though Obama sucks badly.

            This has nothing to do with being sued even though in California we are awful about lawsuit reforms. But the one area we do have right is that proper care given in situations like these cannot be rewarded with a judgement against the person who acted properly.

            This has nothing to do with Obamacare even though Obamacare sucks just as badly as Obama.

            This facility has a KNOWN policy of not performing emergency medical care on people in the independent living facility. People can, or cannot, being FREE people, decide to pay for the services they do provide (Obamacare will be changing our freedom and so this will one day not be true, but that is another debate).

            Imagine if the nurse had performed CPR against company policy and was fired. Then you same complainers would be here demanding the firm rehire her, but in that case the nurse would likely go to court and demand people like you be on her jury so she could get an enormous and unjust, as well as undeserved, award.

            If the woman's OWN freaking daughter is happy with the care her mother received, and the daughter is a nurse, and the woman who died knew the rules of the place she agreed to live in, then who in the hell are any of us to decide that what was done was wrong? Even if you come down on the side that the woman should've been given CPR, you are putting yourself above that woman's free choices affecting her own life and you are putting yourself above the company that offered to her that very choice and you are putting yourself above the nurse who complied with both her employer's AND the woman's contractual choice.

            Think it through...by your criticisms and complaints here you validate the very garbage we will face with Obamacare. "The nurse should do what we say, not what the patient/resident says, and not what her employer says, but what WE say". All hail fascism.

            • 2 votes
            #1.97 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:10 PM EST
            Comment author avatarchris-2252558Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

            Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

            of course she is, she is now looking at some money from a will and could care less about her mother, or is saving money now that her mother passed away. typical Liberal!

            • 1 vote
            #1.98 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:13 PM EST

            First of all CPR on an anyone requires chest compressions and chest compressions on an 87 year old will ultimately crack her ribs. Second of all she probably did have a DNR on file which is why the family was satisfied with the care she was given in the facility. This is why a hate news reporting only half the story. The nurse is probably not to blame at all and doing her job and the news is trying to sensationalize the story just to get people to listen to their program. This is terrible reporting at its best. Let's stop blaming the nurse and the facility and find out the real truth. Journalism is full of half truths and innuendoes these days just to blow things out of proportion.

            • 2 votes
            #1.99 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:16 PM EST

            I would hope that if I ever have to live at a nursing home, whether assisted or skilled, that they have that sort of policy. I will make sure that a DNR is in place. It is the most basic form of what some would call assisted suicide. Although it is a natural death which has not been extended by heroics! My thought is that if it is my time, when I am a little older, then it is my time and I do not need to enrich someones pocketbook or make myself poorer, or be a financial drain on the government, to please others views on humanity! I will have lived my life, and doubt that I will be enriching mine or anyone elses life by prolonging it! I agree with @Heartland comment 1.25 and @Dave comment 1.36. This is what is wrong with us, we have decided that the individual/ family choices should not be honored and that we should have the government/society making the personal decisions for us!

            • 3 votes
            #1.100 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:19 PM EST

            Marty-3578909

            Haven't you heard many times of people doing something awful or allowing something awful to happen to a family member for money or an inheritance?

            Yes but I realize those things are incredibly rare. I don't typically bother with "what if's" when the odds are astronomically small. If they wanted moms money so bad why blow potentially 10's of thousands of dollars on an assisted living facility?

            • 1 vote
            #1.101 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:25 PM EST

            Lets all hope we never work at this place and happen to get shocked by accident and our heart stops, or choke while eating lunch. According to "company policy" I guess if your even 18 years old the staff, your coworkers, can't help you.

            • 2 votes
            #1.102 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:27 PM EST

            For everybody crying about the company policy, thank the Trial Lawyers Assn. It's California people! You can be sued for ANYTHING! The retirement home is just covering their butts. As for me, if I make it to 87 and just keel over one day, I'm figuring it was a good life! CPR at 87 sounds kinda pointless.

            @Stephen Nichols

            18 year olds don't live in retirement homes!

            • 4 votes
            #1.103 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:27 PM EST

            All nurses in this country take oaths upon completion of their training similar to the Hippocratic Oath administered to new physicians in this country. As far as I am concerned, that nurse violated that oath to care for her patient, irregardless of the patients age, by refusing to provide a potential life saving measure and has absolutely zero business in her profession. She has obviously become jaded and seriously needs to consider a career change!

            • 5 votes
            #1.104 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:38 PM EST

            My small political rant, There is no such thing as "THE good samaritan law". There are dozens of DIFFERENT laws, in different states, that say different things. One more example (among many) of the lunacy of "states rights". As one nurse commented, you have to know what your state's law says and does. (And, if you move, or travel on vacation, you better know the laws in any states you find yourself in.) Ah, the joys of states' rights.

            This sounds to me like another one of those "Catch 22" things. Maybe CPR is like some other medical procedures (like say annual mammograms) that are mostly symbolic. I don't know. The daughter seems to say that she is satisfied with the facility's service. (Whether that answer applies to this situation, the story doesn't mention. It could just be a general statement about all-around care, spread out over years.) I'd have a hard time saying that the facility was ok, given that they followed a policy not to even attempt to help my dying mother (whatever their rationale), even if the "help" would have been mostly symbolic. (About that annual mammogram thing, if you don't get one [symbolic, or not] and you don't find out you have breast cancer, until its already stage four, what do you think you will tell yourself, and your family?) The daughter may be a better person than I am.

            The facility's policy is just business, folks. (Nothing personal.) Businesses are in business for one purpose (and one purpose only): To maximize profits! (Not to make a great products, or provide outstanding service, or create jobs, or save lives, or whatever else you may think. Those things may, or may not be part of a particular business plan, but they are not why the business is in business [if I were snarky, I would mention that they are not in business to be good citizens, or good people, either.].) A good rule of thumb: Whatever any successful business does (whatever it may look like) is ALWAYS aimed at maximizing profits. Period. That's not wrong. But, all parties need to keep that realization uppermost in mind, at all times. Buyer, be aware!

            • 1 vote
            #1.105 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:40 PM EST

            The family knew what the policy was and are satisfied, why is anybody complaining about this so called story?

            • 2 votes
            #1.106 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:41 PM EST

            HEY BRENDA, heres a tidbit for your snotty little pea brain to chew on. People are questioning why the company would have a policy of calling 911 when a person has a DNR. You actually have to think beyond your insulting knee jerk instant reply. I know it makes you feel like such a superior twit, but you really are an annoying little insect.

            BTW, DNR policies that I have seen all say you DO NOT call 911. Even home hospice tells you not to call for an ambulance, call them. The reason you call for an ambulance is because you want someone treated for thier condition. If the plan is to let them go- why would you call?

            Sounds to me like the facility found a way to use EMS to handle thier end of life issues or some odd legal prevention.

            • 5 votes
            #1.107 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:41 PM EST

            I previously worked in an Assisted Living facility as a Wellness Nurse. We did not provided "nursing" care, however I supervised the caregivers and medication aides. The company I worked for is one of the largest Assisted Living Community corporations in America. I was astounded to learn they had a NO CPR policy!!! I told them at hire I could not ethically comply with that policy. The HR Director said she understood my views and would "pretend" she didn't hear me say that. She also advised me that I would be fired if the situation were to occur and I gave CPR. She also went on to say the company would follow up with legal action towards ME! I still accepted the job. But, I can say the oath I took as a nurse supersedes any company policy. As a nurse and as someone who is certified in CPR, I have a professional, moral and ethical obligation to administer CPR. I don't think any court would argue against that. The only way I would NOT give CPR is if there was a Do Not Resuscitate order on file for the patient/ resident. She should not be fired for following company policy, but she should have her nursing license revoked if there was not a DNR in the chart.

            • 5 votes
            #1.108 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:46 PM EST

            Putting aside the company policy which could be in place for a good reason, and which the residents or their POA's have signed. Maybe the Dr. should be investigated for filling out the POLST.

            Have any of you armchair medical proffesionals ever done CPR on anyone? If you do it right you WILL break bones, if you don't do it right you're wasting time.

            To the people saying the nurse needs to be fired, I say she needs some flowers, the patient is better off now, an 87 year old with broken ribs would more than likely never leave the hospital. Demanding the nurse perfprm CPR in this instance is pretty cruel.

            • 6 votes
            #1.109 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:48 PM EST

            When my mother was in the hospital she had a big red DNR across her chart. She was 84 and her lungs were failing. She smoked since her 20s, she didn't have cancer, but her lungs were shot. She had a person that monitored her treatment from the agency that tracks the care of older people after they inter hospitals or extended care facilities, I guess Sarah Palin would call that a death panel. This woman made sure that these facilities followed the wishes of the older patients. I had been out of the country, so when I first saw the DNR across her chart I ask the nurse, what's up, and the nurse explain that it's what my mom wanted. My mom had lived a full long life. At 84 she knew she wouldn't last, as her lungs were starting to fail.

            So before people start to go nuts over this failure to start CPR, maybe this is what the woman and her family wanted, by being in this facility, that had a policy to not initiate CPR!!

            • 7 votes
            #1.110 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:48 PM EST
            Comment author avatarLea Kellyvia Facebook

            My 96 year old grandmother is in an assisted living facility. I spend a lot of time with her and others there, most of whom have dementia or Alzheimer's. They are tragic and horrible diseases to live with, and most are in those facilities because they can no longer care for themselves and live in a constant state of confusion, sadness, and agitation...yet, they are often still aware that they've lost the basic dignity of even being able to go to the bathroom without asking for help (or if they don't make it in time, can't even clean up after themselves). It's heartbreaking. There are many reasons people can collapse or need emergency assistance that are not always life-threatening. Perhaps that is why it is policy to call 911. I cannot imagine anyone who has witnessed the day-to-day life of elderly individuals that can no longer care for themselves to the point of being in assisted living wanting to prolong it. I certainly would be surprised if a family member of any resident at my grandmother's facility were upset if CPR hadn't been performed on their loved one, so I think the daughter's response is completely normal and correct. I'm sure it is made clear upon intake of the resident that they don't perform CPR, and, I feel this is the way most elderly people prefer it.

            It seems that this 911 dispatcher (and all of you so angry at the lack of CPR) need to spend some quality time volunteering at your local assisted living facility. They could definitely use the company, and you will come away with a new appreciation for the present. This is a non-story, that was written without exploring both sides of the issue and without giving enough information. This 911 operator (or whomever went to news with the story) should be ashamed, and NBC News should be embarrassed for reporting on it in the manner in which they have. If nothing else, this should have been used as a teachable moment highlighting the lack of understanding, and apparently, blatant lack of knowledge many people have of what life is like for a large portion of our elderly population.

            If I make it to my 80's and can no longer care for myself, or whatever age I am if I am robbed of my mental capacity, I can only hope that I am allowed to die when it is my time. If this nurse had brought her back with CPR, she wouldn't have saved her life, she would've only allowed her to survive.

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            #1.111 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:49 PM EST

            Damn this world!!! Anyone who thinks it was ok for that nurse to refuse CPR IS AN IDIOT!!!!

            My wife is a nurse and she would help anyone who needed it as quickly as she could, regardless of the consequences. I know this because she HAS done it.

            If you disagree than you're out of line, PERIOD! This isn't even an argument, there are no alternative answers. If you are put in charge of the care of others than you have a responsibility and a DUTY to make sure they stay alive as long as possible.

            People in nursing homes aren't paying THOUSANDS of dollars per month to be abandoned in their time of need. Shame on this POS nurse for letting her die this way. Shame on all of you defenders of this nurses actions.

            Every single day this country gets dumber and dumber and NONE OF YOU want to fix it because you're all just too damn lazy and incompetent. It's easy to do wrong...the hard thing is doing right.

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            #1.112 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:03 PM EST

            Stephen, Marty, et al,

            There isn't anything in this story to suggest, or in any story about this to suggest, that the family was in cahoots with the independent living facilty provider to deprive this old woman care in order to get an inheritance. If people want a place to live where the rules are different than this place plenty of them exist. This woman, for whatever reasons she had, chose this facility. She owned her own body, and in my opinion controlled her own destiny.

            The arguments you people make against this woman living her life as she wanted--this all presumes she wasn't compelled to live there against her will--are equally as dangerous to us all as Mr. Obama's ideas that he, and fascistic people like him, should be able to dictate to each of us how we live our lives too. If no crime here was committed, and so far there isn't even a whiff of a crime, then be HAPPY that this elderly woman lived, and died, as SHE wanted to. Those days are going to quickly come to an end, and your arguments against her liberty are the very fodder people like Mr. Obama needs to make it happen.

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            #1.113 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:06 PM EST

            I wasn't there so I can't condemn the nurse, I like many other people have to take a yearly course that involves cpr and am always informed of the potential of a liability suit if I ever assist someone in need, after a person receives x amount of training they have to be insured to assist, the good Samaritan act no longer applies you are responsible and sadly sometimes you are expected to stand back, its the way it is, you help someone then they die some time later from a complication or just run out of life, and you become the target and your life gets ruined or even your employer, the property owner, lawyers just crawlout of every crack in the system and you can only wish you were never their in the first place. its a tough decision but given the age of the victim she probably is better off, how many times do you expect someone to have to die, and what good is life if it is void of quality, like I said I wasn't their and maybe this was the better scenario, sometimes feelings can get in the way of rational thought, sometimes there is no right way of handling a situation. my respects to the departed and sympathies to the family. if you have a need to blame someone for her death blame a insurance co, or the lawyers hiding behind every case, they created the mess. if your a liberal just blame Bush or Boehner.

              #1.114 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:09 PM EST

              yep, Ranger Combat Vet. you're probably the last decent individual in existence. the world & everything in it sucks with the exception of your self-righteous, simple-minded, self-proclaimed martyr. (guessing you're the type that's not happy unless you're pissed off.) smoke the proverbial joint...

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              #1.115 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:47 PM EST

              Ranger Combat Vet, do you know what POLST stands for? Do you know what DNR is? Ask your wife if you need clarification. If my relative was under DNR and your wife disregarded that, I would own all your stuff, PERIOD.

              If you disagree than you're out of line, PERIOD! This isn't even an argument, there are no alternative answers. If you are put in charge of the care of others than you have a responsibility and a DUTY to make sure they stay alive as long as possible

              When you are part of the care team, you follow the orders of the people up the chain. The Dr., and family make the decision for care of the patient, if CPR is not on the list having a rogue nurse "go off the reservation" opens up lawsuits, good sam does not apply.

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              #1.116 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:48 PM EST

              OK.....<deep breath> here I go:

              I have been an ICU RN in California for 25 years. Lots of experience with this sort of thing. I have a couple of thought on this.

              First, the article states that a "nurse" called 911. Are we talking about an RN, an LVN/LPN, or a CNA? Since this happened in California, if this was a licensed facility, it had to be one of the above. Training levels vary with skill level.

              Second, did the "nurse" see the patient collapse, or did she find her already down? It isn't really clear. If CPR is started immediately after someone collapses, it is possible to save their life. If they have been down for, say 10 minutes before CPR is started, the odds of getting them back approaches zero. Age also does make a difference. It is easier to resucitate a baby than an 80 year old. As far as the broken ribs are concerned, unless you are doing CPR on an infant, you are probably going to break bones. That is just the way CPR works.

              Third, "Good Samaritan Laws" do not apply in this case. In California, if you are employed as a member of the medical staff and you do CPR on someone, you are not covered. By definition, you have a "duty" to your patients. Being a "Good Samaritan" means that you have no "duty", but choose to do CPR anyway. BTW, "duty" does not mean to prolong life no matter what! It means to care for the patient according to the patient's wishes!

              Fourth, DNR laws in the state of California requires a prior discussion with the patient to follow their wishes. If the patient isn't able to make these decisions, the family may make them. There are lots of reasons that a patient would have this in place. Terminal illness comes to mind. The article doesn't state that this patient has a DNR. I do know that there are facilities that only accept patients with DNRs. Most Hospice facilities are one example. If the patient has a valid DNR order, you can't be sued for not doing CPR, but you CAN be sued for actually doing CPR!

              Fifth, this article leaves out quite a bit of information that would have been nice to have! Did the patient have a DNR? What skill level did the 'nurse' have? How long had the patient been 'down'? What is the actual policy at this facility?

              It seems to me that if the patient's daughter was OK with the outcome, complete strangers who read about this on-line should be OK with it too.

              Lastly, when in doubt, do CPR!!!!!!!

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              #1.117 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:02 PM EST

              Posted this in the wrong place, so I'll repost it here.

              eric (#1.61 above) provides a link. Perhaps some of you would like to know what really happened there. Here is a transcript of the last three minutes of that call.

              Dispatcher: We need to get CPR started

              Nurse: Yeah, we can't do CPR

              Dispatcher: Then hand the phone to the passerby. If you can't do it, I need, hand the phone to the passerby, I'll have her do it. Or if you've got any civic citizens there, I'll have them do it.

              Nurse: No, no, it's not …

              Dispatcher: Anybody there can do CPR. Give them the phone, please. I understand if your facility is not willing to do that. Give the phone to that passerby, that stranger … this woman is not breathing enough. She's going to die if we don't get this started. Do you understand?

              Nurse: I understand. I am a nurse. But I cannot have our other senior citizens who don't know CPR do it…

              Dispatcher: I will instruct them.

              Nurse: we're in a dining room …

              Dispatcher: I will instruct them. Is there anyone there who will …

              Nurse: I can't do that …

              Dispatcher: Okay. I don't understand why you're not willing to help this patient

              Nurse: I am but, I'm just saying that …

              Dispatcher: Okay, I'll walk you through it all. We, EMS takes the liability for this, Colleen. I'm happy to help you. This is EMS protocol.

              At this point, the nurse asks someone else to get a supervisor. She is heard telling someone else at Glenwood Gardens, "Can you get (unintelligible) … right away. I don't know where he is. But she's yelling at me and saying we have to have one of our other residents perform CPR. I'm feeling stressed and I'm not going to do that, make that call."

              Dispatcher: Colleen, is there anybody who works there who is willing do to it?

              Nurse: We can't do that. That's what I'm trying to say.

              Dispatcher: Are we just going to let this lady die?

              Nurse: That's why we're calling 9-1-1.

              Dispatcher: We can't wait. She can't wait right now. She is stopping breathing. She can't wait for them to get there.

              Nurse: She's taken three breaths.

              Dispatcher: It's not enough. We need to get CPR started.

              Nurse: He's saying we don't. So you can talk to my boss. I don't know what to say.

              Dispatcher, to another dispatcher: They're refusing CPR. They're going let her die. By the facility. Yeah.

              Nurse: When will the fire department be here? When will the ambulance be here?

              Dispatcher: They're coming as quick … they've been on the way all this time. But we can't wait. This lady is going to die.

              Nurse: Yeah.

              Dispatcher: Well, if you get anybody, any stranger that happens to walk by, who is willing to help … I understand if your boss is telling you you can't do it. But if there's any … it's a human being. I don't, you know … is there anybody that's willing to help this lady and not let her die?

              Nurse: Not at this time.

              Dispatcher, to another dispatcher: No. They won't touch her at all. I can't get them to touch her at all.

              Nurse: We have residents that are her age or older.

              Dispatcher: Any guests? Any guests that are there that are willing to help?

              Nurse: No, I don't have any.

              Dispatcher: Is there a gardener? Any staff … anyone who doesn't work for you anywhere? Can we flag someone down in the street and get them to help this lady. Can we flag a stranger down? I bet a stranger would help her. I'm pretty good at talking them into it. If you can flag a stranger down, I will help, I will tell them how to help her.

              Nurse: He said not to move her.

              Dispatcher: Okay. Has anyone gone to look for a stranger?

              At this point, the ambulance and fire crews arrive and the tape ends. More info at the link.

              BTW, the woman did not have a DNR, was living in her own apartment - not in a nursing facility, and was still breathing (but only barely). It would appear that a little help might have made all the difference.

              But the nurse wouldn't even hand the phone to someone who would have been able to help.

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              #1.118 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:04 PM EST

              As a Respiratory tech in a hospital I did CPR many times as part of a code and I used to teach it for the Red Cross and American Heart Association. Some lived during those codes and did well, some died, and some lived and did fairly okay but died later. It all depends on the situation whether CPR is appropriate and what the outcome is, and I worked on everyone from newborns to elderly, and I have to say that doing CPR on an 87 woman isn't going to end well. I wish the nurse had explained a bit more to the 911 operator, but it wouldn't have saved the woman if she had done CPR. I have seen some recover and leave the hospital healthy and some hang on sick and miserable for months, and of course many died despite the code procedures. There isn't a "one-size-fits-all" for everyone, and I disagree that doing CPR at an accident is not going to work and is just for the bystanders in every case by any means. I have worked on patients brought in from accidents or illnesses who did get CPR, and although of course many die, some did live and have decent or healthy lives.

              The lady was 87 though...ever given CPR to an older person? The sensation of fragile ribs cracking under your hands isn't a pleasant one and the person wouldn't make it or would be in serious pain and die soon after. That sure isn't how I want to go at that age. Those of you saying things about the family need to get a grip. You have no reason to say that and you have no clue what they feel or think. Shame on you for accusing a family of awful things when you don't know the whole story or you haven't a clue about what CPR does to an 87 year old woman.

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              #1.119 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:12 PM EST

              Lea Kelly, it seems that you missed the part about her living in the independent section of this facility. That means she was able to live independently and still able to do for herself. That, by definition, means she did not have Alzheimer's.

              If she had a DNR it should have stated it in this article (typical poor writing and half done articles we see so often.) I have seen many people at 87 who are not only still spry but have all their facilities. However, at that age you don't want to pass out in your home and need help and not be found for an extended period of time. One of the posters said there is zero chance of them getting out of the hospital alive after performing CPR on anyone over 80. Why would you not at least try? I once did the heimlich manuever on a 90 lb, 82 year old woman. I did crack one of her ribs, because she was so fragile, but she lived. Should I have not even tried because I might have hurt her. Then I, and the other hundred guests in the restaurant who were all just sitting and staring would have watched her die.

              If my parent was in this facility I would immediately remove them. Quite frankly, no matter how futile, unless there was a DNR, I would want someone to at least try. This whole article saddened me. As someone who cared for my mother at home for 10 years through many illnesses before the end of her life, I am sad this woman ended her life with a nurse who was more concerned with company policies than a woman's life. If, however, it turns out she was terminally ill (which would seem odd given that she lived independently), that should have been stated so we are not all thinking poorly of this nurse.

              • 2 votes
              #1.120 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:29 PM EST

              Rules, Regulations, Red Tape - That's Obama and Big Government for ya!

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              #1.121 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:49 PM EST

              Mamny people have ignored the last sentence in the article because the author got the desired effect - piss off the ignorant populace:

              Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

              It doesn't sound to me like the care center has to worry about being sued, except by the people on this site who don't have a dog in the fight.

              Here is a real life example of almost the exact same thing. My mother and sister called 9-1-1 because my father was in distress. My sister was a nurse and they refused to perform CPR. When the ENTs got there the first thing they wanted to do was intubate my dad. My mother refused to allow them and told them of his wishes of DNR/DNI. The paramedics kept telling my mother to get out of the way or they would call the police. She told them if they kept trying to intubate him she would call the police. When they had him on the gurney and ready to transport they wouldn't let her into the ambulance and she told thm to put him in her van and she would transport. They relented because she knew they would try to intubate while in transit.

              The reason for my story isn't for pity. It is to point out that the media is know for only telling part of the story to get readership. The care center could have been following "company policy" of following the patients wishes but was also required to call for medical attention because it was not a hospice center.

              The media has done its job: inflamed the passions of its readers.

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              #1.122 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:51 PM EST

              @Ranger Combat Vet you are wrong your wife is insured if she is practicing and required to play by the rules, not all nurses are in a job where they can afford to carry malpractice insurance like a lower level nurse in a assisted living might only be there to call for assistance when its needed, more of a elder sitter then a practical nurse or even a registered nurse, those personal may be in a clinic on the facility but not always on the floor, not everyone that looks like a nurse and has the tittle is in fact qualified and capable of doing the job in a legal sense, if they don't have the insurance they cant risk assisting and if they assist when they are not supposed to they will never be insured again because the cost would be to great, that person would be priced out of a job. besides CPR on a frail old lady is in its self a death sentence and a horrible death at that so what should she have done. old people don't survive being resuscitated even in a ER setting with all the technology available they usually do not last very long, its almost like old age is working against them.

                #1.123 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:04 PM EST

                What's sad is that if the nurse had performed CPR and saved the patient's life, the nurse would have been fired the next day. Gotta hand it to California... would somebody PLEASE dump that state into the Pacific Ocean already?

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                #1.124 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:09 PM EST

                In refusing the 911 dispatcher's insistence that she perform CPR, the nurse can be heard telling the dispatcher that it was against the retirement facility's policy to perform CPR.

                Wow, the "retirement facility's policy" took precedence over the oath she took during her pinning ceremony:

                Florence Nightingale pledge:

                "I solemnly pledge myself before God and in the presence of this assembly, to pass my life in purity and to practice my profession faithfully. With loyalty will I endeavor to aid the physician in his work, and devote myself to the welfare of those committed to my care."

                Wait a minute....this happened in CALIFORNIFUCA.

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                #1.125 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:11 PM EST

                @the kids are insane -- Jello? Sounds fun!! :)

                Brenda got her last little boorish comment in & she's feeling much better now, thank you. She's comfortable with a "just doin' ma job" response from the nurse, who didn't have either the compassion or the brains to stick her neck out and do the right thing for this woman, when the experts on the phone were telling her exactly what she should do, and that the responsibility for undertaking CPR lay with the EMS. I wonder if Brenda would feel the same way if SHE was the one who needed the help.

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                #1.126 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:11 PM EST

                Then their is the question of how much medical training does the 911 dispatcher have and should they be advising the medical professionals over the phone? and should these stories from 911 calls be public! or not? where I live there is a privacy thing and even our emergency radios have filters on them so the stories are not reported till the responsible person allows that info out.

                  #1.127 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:20 PM EST

                  I think some are missing the point. They said the relatives were not upset over this incident. My guess is that they're more or less relieved that she has found peace and not rotting in a care facility. Think about it, she's 87 years old, I would not want to be revived at that age either. Especially, when we keep hearing horror stories coming out of nursing homes that make you cringe. This is going to be a common occurrence, especially, when the "Death Panels" take affect. And yes, under the new "Affordable Care Act" (what a joke), they will decide if you are worth the expense. As barbaric as it may be, this woman would have been refused resuscitation under the new rules due to hear age.

                  Welcome to the future!

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                  #1.128 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:29 PM EST

                  @ Brenda1964, totally agree with what you are saying. "some people" obviously were not entirely understanding what you were trying to say, either by choice or lack of insight.

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                  #1.129 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:37 PM EST

                  It's not a hard call to make. A human life is at stake. Stop being a selfish idiot and help a dying person. The company policy can go to hell.

                  • 3 votes
                  #1.130 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:52 PM EST

                  This nurse was at an ethical crossroads- to do her duty as a certified nurse or go against her employer's policies which may have cost her a job. Was it better to follow protocol and not administer cpr? Or would it have been better going against the grain, administer cpr and perhaps have saved the woman's life?

                  From a moral standpoint, she failed her in her duty to protect life. She could have helped save the woman and did not- something that she can't justify despite any insistence that what she did was 'right' because she followed 'the rules'.

                  However, we can assume that before she accepted employment with this organization that she was apprised of this particular rule, understood why she was not to perform cpr if needed, and had signed an agreement to the same. One can also assume that those entering this facility as well as their families are knowledgeable of such rules and have already agreed to them. In this sense she willfully agreed to go against her training and adhere to the regulations governing her workplace and has done nothing dishonorable.

                  Which is right? Tough call but the point is, it depends on which perspective you take.

                  • 1 vote
                  #1.131 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:15 PM EST

                  For those of you with your "expert" CPR advice, it certainly depends on the size and frailty of the person. However, if you do it CORRECTLY, you do not risk breaking a rib. You trace the rib cage to just below the sternum and start compressions. It is harder than believed to be and easy to break a rib. And, for the armchair quarterbacks, I am certified and I used to be on the Board of the American Heart Association.

                  The whole story's not out. Previous posters have pointed out that she didn't have a DNR, but may have had a living will. Who knows?

                  I wouldn't want to be the nurse though. I personally wouldn't be able to live with myself, but that's just me.

                    #1.132 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 5:04 PM EST

                    87 DNR times up long life. What more do you want 187 not yet

                      #1.133 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 5:05 PM EST
                      Comment author avatarLea Kellyvia Facebook

                      @laliana, I stand corrected. She was in the independent living part of the facility. The one my grandmother is in is operated by the same company and provides the same care options, but they are all there because their families feel they are not safe or able to live in their homes independently as they once did. That being said, if you are equating "independent living" at this facility (without knowing this woman's medical history) with her being of sound mind and fully capable of making her own decisions, then she would have entered into residency at this facility with the knowledge and consent to the fact that, should she have a heart attack, they would not perform CPR.

                      So, if she was sharp as a tack, then she made that choice for herself.

                      • 1 vote
                      #1.134 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 5:43 PM EST

                      All you people on here mouthing off about what should or should not have been done in this situation need to shut your hole and mind your own @!$%#ing business. Most of you don't have any medical experience in your pathetic, wasted little pea brained lives and thus don't know jack about what is or is not the right thing to do in this situation. Most of you so called saints coming on here talking about all the heroic things you would do in this situation and how self sacrificing you would be under similar circumstances in truth couldn't even be bothered to train to be a nurse or take a job as a nurse in a nursing home facility. Want to know why? Because you would not for a moment consider working such a gritty, thankless job for the low pay and benefits these staff make. How's that for selfless? Not only would you not sacrifice your job or well being for these patients, you can't even be bothered to try.

                      And let me tell you something. Just because I became a nurse does not mean I am any more obligated to want to help people than the next person. I went into nursing as a profession and as such I am responsible for certain PROFESSIONAL obligations just as any other professional. Beyond that, I owe you nothing, and you'll get nothing. My first responsibility is to myself and my family and then my company, not you. I will follow company policy to the letter as it protects my license and puts the blame where it belongs on the company who has a whole hell of a lot more power than I do not to mention $$$. I care for my patients in a professional capacity because that is what I am paid to do. I possess unique abilities and skills due to advanced training which I am paid to use to help the client get the best possible health outcome.

                      The only thing this nurse likely did wrong was accept a job at such a facility in the first place. She could have likely used her skills in a more personally advantageous setting with less hassle for her and more $$$ to boot.

                      It's mouthy, self-righteous @!$%#s like yourselves that drove me to take my skills away from the bedside care of actual patients and use it to sell pharmaceuticals. I was amazed at how much better the pay was and the perks compared to being a regular bedside nurse.

                      In the end I'm not any more selfish than you people are. I'm just more honest. I was a dedicated nurse, too. So shut your hole about how the profession is better off without someone like me because truth is I was dedicated and highly skilled in multiple areas of medical expertise. You and your attitudes drove me away after decades. So now when you need advanced care I and many like me won't be there for you, and all your big talk isn't going to mean jack in that case. And I couldn't give a @!$%#.

                      • 4 votes
                      #1.135 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:12 PM EST

                      dee,

                      youre off a little on your hand position. Its at t4 (nipple level). Remember, we're trying to squeeze the heart, not abdomen

                      Place the heel of one hand over the center of the person's chest, between the nipples. Place your other hand on top of the first hand. Keep your elbows straight and position your shoulders directly above your hands.

                      http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/first-aid-cpr/FA00061

                      its nearly impossible on an elderly patient to not crack ribs

                        #1.136 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:12 PM EST

                        If her daughter is a nurse and is comfortable with the actions and inaction of the "nurse" on duty, I am guessing there is more information on the case than we are being told.

                        All of your idiots blaming Obama, stop blaming the ACA, its not socialized medicine where so called death panels take place. Republican sure now how to make paranoid freaks come out in droves.

                          #1.137 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:16 PM EST

                          I'm glad all you 47%ers are willing to see another American join your ranks of the unemployed...

                          She followed protocal... something she was torn up about. Had she "(gone) against the grain" she would have lost her job... lost her way to support herself (and her family is she has one). How dare you people make judgment on this woman... it's bad enough that she has to live with this on her concience. Shame on you...

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                          #1.138 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:18 PM EST

                          ObamaCare...... Union job..... which one?

                            #1.139 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:06 PM EST

                            I think the law says you do not have to perform cpr. Also if the woman is taking breaths then you dont do cpr.

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                            #1.140 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:16 PM EST

                            lso if the woman is taking breaths then you dont do cpr.

                            thats absurdly incorrect. She was probably having agonal respirations

                            http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agonal_respiration

                            Agonal respirations are also commonly seen in cases of cardiogenic shock or cardiac arrest where agonal respirations may persist for several minutes after cessation of heartbeat. The presence of agonal respirations in these cases indicates a more favorable prognosis than in cases of cardiac arrest without agonal respirations. In an unresponsive, pulseless patient in cardiac arrest, agonal gasps are not effective breaths.

                            If you don't feel a pulse, do cpr. I dont care what the patients lungs are doing

                              #1.141 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:29 PM EST

                              Nixon99

                              So you went from giving bedside care to selling pharmas that kill people? This was just a joke so don't flip out.

                              You are right. Nursing is one of the most thankless, heart-wrenching jobs that I can think of. I spent a month with my mother in an ICU in Florida after she had an aneurism. Those nurses worked their butts off. Plus dealing emotionally knowing that many will not walk out I could see takes a toll. IT is easy to be judgmental from a distance. My mom lived, but told everyone to not let her go through it again, and to not call emergency if it happened.

                              • 1 vote
                              #1.142 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:32 PM EST

                              Nixon99

                              Wow, bitter much? Sorry to tell you but following company policy will not in anyway protect your license. You are a "professional" and as such are responsible for your own actions. If in following policy you do something that gets the Board riled, you will be a former nurse.

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                              #1.143 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:47 PM EST

                              RRS in MN

                              @the kids are insane -- Jello? Sounds fun!! :)

                              Brenda got her last little boorish comment in & she's feeling much better now, thank you. She's comfortable with a "just doin' ma job" response from the nurse, who didn't have either the compassion or the brains to stick her neck out and do the right thing for this woman, when the experts on the phone were telling her exactly what she should do, and that the responsibility for undertaking CPR lay with the EMS. I wonder if Brenda would feel the same way if SHE was the one who needed the help.

                              RRS - Yes I would feel the same way if I was the one needing help. Also, 911 is not a team of experts. I have a friend that used to work as a 911 dispatcher and he has no training in CPR or any other medical procedure to be giving advise over the phone. He says all he is trained to do is try and keep the person calm until help can arrive. Try learning something before you speak. By the way, I feel she had compassion and brains to do the right thing and follow policy. If you don't like it, why don't you try and walk a mile in her shoes before criticizing her. Oh and yes, I have, nurse assistant for the elderly.

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                              #1.144 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:02 PM EST

                              Geez, Brenda--give it a rest, girlfriend. As of my writing this, there are over 1,100 comments on this article. Some agree with you; many don't. That's the joy of these comment boards--everyone has the right to his or her opinion, based on their interpretation of what they read. My opinion is that the nurse was wrong. You have a different opinion. Furthermore, you have absolutely no knowledge of what experience I may have on the subject. In any case, I really didn't see anyone calling you stupid because of your opinion. Snotty, rude and quite possibly hateful--but not stupid. In fact, I think many of us are/were quite in awe of your jaw-dropping intellect. I mean, seriously, last I checked, Forrest Gump really is the last refuge of the brilliant....

                                #1.145 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:52 PM EST

                                Bayless' daughter told a reporter for KGET, the NBC affiliate in Bakersfield, that she was also a nurse and was satisfied with the care her mother received.

                                As a health care professional herself, I really cannot understand how the daughter can say this she is satisfied.

                                In my opinion, nowhere in this article did I see "DNR" mentioned on this lady. Since all of this is taped through the 911 call, someone at the home should face charges.

                                Let me say this from reading some of these responses about the Nurse who made the 911 call. I believe she stated her "job" told her the employees could not perform CPR, not that they were not qualified. I'm certified EMS, I also have one daughter who is a FNP, and one who is a RN, I don't think I know any Nurse, or Paramedic who does not know CPR.

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                                #1.146 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:11 PM EST

                                Doing a quick search on CPR for the elderly, I found this on the NIH web site --

                                Abstract

                                Data comparing the success of CPR in elderly hospitalized persons, those living in the community, and those in long-term care facilities show varying results. In general, elderly patients who receive CPR following arrest do not fare as well as younger patients, but there appears to be a subgroup of elderly in whom the success rate is relatively high. Specifically, patients who demonstrate ventricular fibrillation or ventricular tachycardia are more likely to survive than are those demonstrating asystole or electromechanical dissociation. Most studies have not shown a difference in mental or functional impairment between older and younger survivors of cardiac arrest.

                                It would be interesting to hear what caused this woman to collapse in the first place, to determine if perhaps she was in the subgroup "more likely to survive"??

                                • 1 vote
                                #1.147 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:35 PM EST

                                Marty-

                                I'm sorry you are losing someone, it isn't easy. However, don't be so quick to judge me or those in my care. I have cared for my mother since I was 4 years old when she suffered an episode of anoxia on the operating table at the age of 29. She just turned 73. I have cared for her, my now deceased father and my two children. I have done more for my mother than she ever did for me and before you get all judgmental again just realize that you don't know my story.

                                It would be nice if we all lived a Hallmark card life but it isn't always like that. Some people don't want to live (Even at the age of 29 and with a couple of kids) or care for themselves.

                                My mother is no longer in my care because I couldn't raise my children and have my mother beg me to help her kill herself each night. I also didn't care much for her crapping her bed each night and laughing as I cleaned it up. I stopped being her primary caretaker because if I continued on like that I was going to let her self medicate and kill herself and I didn't want to be responsible for that, no matter how tired or angry I was.

                                When you care for someone for as long as I have you can judge me.

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                                #1.148 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:37 PM EST

                                Just some observations on my part. I'm NOT a medical professional, and have very minimal training. (I initially wanted to go to med school, but decided before I went to college that the liability was too high...so I went to architecture school instead.)

                                1) I had a great aunt who lived to be 102 years old. She lived independently until she was 92-95, and probably the last 30 years with a rod in her leg that prevented her bending one of her knees at all. The reason my parents put her in an independent facility was that she fell...an incredibly mild fall...that broke her "good" leg and required surgery to repair. For probably 10 years (starting before she moved into a facility) she would always ask why God left her, but took her sisters. She was ready to die, she was just waiting for the day. Just because she was old, but still healthy and of sound mind, didn't mean she necessarily wanted to be "kept alive".

                                2) I understand that bones get incredibly brittle as a person ages. I'm just guessing, but, it seems to be there is as much potential for the nursing home to cause catastrophic damage as save the life. What if the nurse did the CPR and keeps the woman alive. But, in the process, she breaks a rib that punctures a lung or the heart, which leads to the woman dying later at the hospital. What if it's later shown that had the nurse not done CPR, the woman would have lived? There would be a huge lawsuit against the facility for causing the damage that ultimately killed the woman. As unfortunate as it sounds, sometimes the best solution is to do nothing if you don't have the facilities immediately available to handle the situation. Most assisted living facilities are not equiped with high-tech medical equipment. Most are basically apartment complexes with nurses to administer meds, and very basic medical equipment.

                                3) For all of you "bleeding heart...screw the policy, she should have saved her life" folks out there....my question is simple: where do you draw the line? Say you have an 85 year-old who collapses today, and you revive him/her with CPR. Next week he/she collapses again, again you revive him/her. The following day he/she collapses again in the morning, and again is revived. Then collapses again in the afternoon, and again is revived. At what point do you decide, maybe it's just his/her time? What's the point of continuing to revive? What kind of end-of-life quality is that? It seems to me, the company decided they didn't want to draw an arbitrary line at a time or a frequency or a number....they drew the line at the door, and their clients/patients knew it going in.

                                Those that think they should sue the company remind me of the idiocy that surrounded the housing bubble. People bought houses and SIGNED CONTRACTS for houses they knew they couldn't afford, and when the bold print in the contract actually happened, they blamed someone else for their own failure to read the contract they signed. On what grounds are you sueing, if it was outlined in the contract what the procedures would be should the resident collapse or need medical attention outside of the facility's capabilities?

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                                #1.149 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:27 PM EST

                                RRS in MN

                                Geez, Brenda--give it a rest, girlfriend. As of my writing this, there are over 1,100 comments on this article. Some agree with you; many don't. That's the joy of these comment boards--everyone has the right to his or her opinion, based on their interpretation of what they read. My opinion is that the nurse was wrong. You have a different opinion. Furthermore, you have absolutely no knowledge of what experience I may have on the subject. In any case, I really didn't see anyone calling you stupid because of your opinion. Snotty, rude and quite possibly hateful--but not stupid. In fact, I think many of us are/were quite in awe of your jaw-dropping intellect. I mean, seriously, last I checked, Forrest Gump really is the last refuge of the brilliant....

                                I never called you stupid, you did, I simply agreed with you.

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                                #1.150 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 12:11 AM EST
                                Comment author avatarT.A. Clarkvia Facebook

                                She didn't have a DNR (as can be seen in other stories on the subject). However...

                                It's not just a company policy like no-shoes no-shirt or something. Those policies for those types of facilities are generally created by state licensing requirements for elderly care homes, and the facility can lose its license if the nurse violates the policy. The facility could face censure, and the nurse wouldn't have been protected by good-samaritan laws in the very likely case that ribs are cracked or broken on a patient of that age.

                                The knee-jerk reaction that the nurse is a horrible person is really misappropriated given the age of the person involved and the constraints she is put under to protect both her and the facility. She did what she is supposed to do, and there's a reason those restrictions are put in place for facilities of that type. At 87 years old, unfortunately there's a pretty good chance that CPR would have killed or badly injured her (which is very likely to indirectly cause the death at that age anyway) if the existing condition didn't.

                                  #1.151 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 2:28 AM EST

                                  Being able to do CPR is part of being a nurse ??

                                  Unless DNR.

                                    #1.152 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 3:10 AM EST

                                    Oh, Brenda--you are just too funny! Remind me sometime to teach you about synonyms and implications.

                                    BTW, in all seriousness, did you listen to the any of the tape of the 911 call? It's posted on abcnews.com. The audio took this article, with its terrible lack of detail, and put some much-needed context around what happened. Seems this woman had a better chance of getting help had she collapsed outside on the street than she did inside that facility. It was really sad to hear, and reinforces my belief that the nurse, if not cold and calloused, wasn't very competent--policy or not.

                                    • 1 vote
                                    #1.153 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 7:21 AM EST

                                    No, I didn't get a chance yet, but ill check it out.

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                                    #1.154 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 7:47 AM EST

                                    Rules, Regulations, Red Tape - That's Obama and Big Government for ya!

                                    wtf does Obama have to do with this?

                                    /palmface

                                    Unfortunately, in this situation the nurse, although callous as hell was right. If you don't like it, take it up with the facilities policy, which is stupid to say the least. The nurse should not put herself in a position of getting fired/sued to satisfy 911 dispatch. You can blame our sue-happy society for forcing policies such as this, but it is what it is (and what is, is sad).

                                    Had she broken the woman's rib doing CPR (extremely likely on an 87 year old) and this woman later succumbed to those injuries, many families today would sue the facility/hospital and this nurse would lose her job and possibly her livelihood. It's awful, but that's the reality of the world we live in today.

                                      #1.155 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 8:41 AM EST

                                      I think we're missing the overall theme here people.

                                      Fear of litigation has no overtaken saving fellow human beings.

                                      Yes, she was 87 years old. But this facility's policy is a blanket policy. So would you still agree with it if the person was 65 years old? 60 years old?

                                      For those of you yelling she was justified for refusing to help, get a life.

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                                      #1.156 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 9:38 AM EST

                                      For those of you yelling she was justified for refusing to help, get a life.

                                      But the fact of the matter remains that she WAS justified in refusing to help. I don't like it, but it's the truth, whether or not you think I should "get a life."

                                      Fear of litigation has no overtaken saving fellow human beings.

                                      and whose fault is that? The public has spent decades suing doctors and hospitals into submission for every slight real or imagined. The cost of malpractice insurance for doctors is outlandish because of it. In Nevada, one of the costliest states, OB/GYN malpractice insurance can run from $85k to $142k PER YEAR alone.

                                      The public has forced this, we have no one to blame but ourselves.

                                        #1.157 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 10:16 AM EST

                                        I expect that the company's policy was buried somewhere in the paperwork that the family (or she) signed when bringing her into the facility. The nurse obviously knows the company's policy and felt compelled to follow it. I can't fault her as much as I fault the policy of the company for obviously letting well trained staff people stand by and not acting. It's a sad commentary on the world we now live in, where we let people die without helping them because there is more liability in trying to help than in not lifting a finger. Sad. (since the woman's daughter is also a nurse and "understands", I have to wonder if she works in a facility with a similar policy.)

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                                        #1.158 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 10:43 AM EST

                                        Personally, I don't care WHAT the policy says.....if someone needs CPR and I'm certified to perform it (and I'm sure this nurse is certified), I'd darn well perform it. It seems the 911 dispatcher told her to do CPR, and she chose to ignore the request based on "policy." I would be a little suspect of ANY convalescent hospital or whatever to have a policy that says a nurse can't perform CPR while waiting for the EMT's to arrive, especially if the dispatcher tells her to do so, and there's no DNR order in the patient's file!!

                                        As a nurse, you've pretty much got the same rules as a doctor...."do no harm!" What is also a little suspect to me is that the daughter, or whatever relative put her there, doesn't seem to be too shook up about the situation!! I'd be VERY shook up if this happened to my mother!!

                                        • 2 votes
                                        #1.159 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 5:22 PM EST

                                        As a note, the patient did NOT have "do not resuscitate" instructions in her file. If I ever had to put someone in a nursing home, you can be darn sure that I'll check to make sure they don't have this type of policy in place! Again, why have nurses in the place if they aren't allowed to do their jobs. I know...they need them to give medications, etc., but this is a little ridiculous!

                                        I believe I read in an article that the policy was to "call 911 for assistance".....my idea of "assistance" would be to follow whatever the dispatcher tells me to do no matter what the rest of the policy may say!!

                                        As for the patient's age....my grandmother was 92 years old, went into respiratory arrest at her nursing home, they did CPR until the EMT's arrived, and guess what......she lived to be 98!! Age doesn't make a darn bit of difference when it comes to prolonging someone's life.....we're not the ones that make that decision!! Someone higher up does that for us.....we can only do what we can until that happens!

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                                        #1.160 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 5:30 PM EST

                                        A lot of people are too quick to jump to conclusions without having all the facts. Thanks for the rational ones like Brenda on here.

                                        First, I am a nurse with 20 years+ experience, and I have a problem with other nurses and health care personnel who believe this nurse should be fired, sued, or turned into the Board of Nursing. If this was a doctor his/her peers would have his/her back.

                                        Secondly, according to the nurse, the facility is a non-resuscitate facility. The family and the patient would have signed papers stating they were aware of this. This would cover both the nurse and the facility.

                                        Thirdly, too many people are living in fantasy land and don't understand the repercussions of doing CPR on anyone over the age of 70, let alone an 87 year-old. As humans, we are mortal beings, just like all other life forms. We need to come to terms with death, and ask why are we trying to extend life another day? As cold as it seems the lady died peacefully from natural causes. If you think this wasn't a peaceful death you would be mortified to see the outcome of a CPR that leaves one brain dead, hooked to life support & feeding tubes, and immobile with bed sores for months or years. Then people are asking if they can pull the plug!!!

                                        It was a blessing knowing that both my parents passed naturally in the night being spared from all the above. Some family had regretted that they weren't there to help, but both my parents were in their 80's, and that far exceeds the life-expectancy of any developed country in the world. It's too bad that we all can't go at night when others are sleeping.

                                        People need to get a grip and ask are they doing this for their own selfish interest because they are unable to let go, and is their decision in the best interest of the patient/ their loved one?

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                                        #1.161 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 6:45 PM EST

                                        Karlene -- "Rational" & "ethical" are 2 different things entirely...

                                          #1.162 - Tue Mar 5, 2013 12:33 PM EST

                                          And for those screaming to fire the nurse...if she was following company policy you can bet her lack of action saved her job for the reasons I just mentioned. It's a @!$%#ed up system that allows good deeds to be punished but until we get some politicians with the balls to stand up to the trial lawyer lobby and push through tort reform we're stuck with it.

                                          Sad part is that following company policy might have saved her job temporarily, but all the negative publicity is likely to cause the company to fire her anyway. Afterall they will need a scapegoat to blame in order to help minimize thier liability.

                                            #1.163 - Fri Mar 8, 2013 9:57 AM EST
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                                            The dead lady's daughter is a nurse and she makes the statement the family is satisfied with the care her Mother received.

                                            Yeah, right. Sounds to me like all the greedy kids want is for Mom to be dead so they can get their hands on her life insurance and property.

                                            She is satisfied that no one at the facility and especially the nurse would try to save her Mothers life?

                                            They all deserve to rot in hell, and don't anyone put their parents in this care facility.

                                            Good times or bad, your parents gave you a start in life and supported you for your first 18 years or so.

                                            You owe them the same consideration when they are old.

                                            I am happy to be able to help make my Mom's life comfortable now that she is older and needs assistance.

                                            No way I would abandon her to care like this place.

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                                            #2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:28 AM EST

                                            I was wondering that myself however, I was also wondering if she was commenting simply on the "care" the facility gave her mother and not the actual situation at the end.

                                            The story does not mention whether she was satisfied with the nurses decision "not" to perform CPR and also does not mention if she did have a DNR or not.

                                            If she did "not" have a DNR, then I would be pissed & I'm sure there would be an internal investigation..

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                                            #2.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:31 AM EST

                                            So far not one single person has ever escaped death. Not one.

                                            Suppose this elderly lady had a severe bone issue...and that force of CPR on her chest would break her bones?? Suppose this lady has had Alzheimer's for 10 years and has become vegetative?

                                            Before you start hurling all the hate....maybe there is a whole lot more to the story.

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                                            #2.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:36 AM EST
                                            Comment author avatarOkeeboyExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                                            Morning Creek Dog,

                                            The nurse said this was not a nursing facility, but instead a 'assisted living' community.

                                            Just when a resident needed 'assistance' none was given.

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                                            #2.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:37 AM EST

                                            Ya know, at the time her daughter made that statement her mother was already dead and she'd have nothing to gain by saying that. If she's as greedy as you say I think she'd go after the nursing home for as much money as she could get from them. I think this is more of a case of MSN sensationalism than a daughters unwillingness to go after an establishment that she felt took good care of her mother.

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                                            #2.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:43 AM EST

                                            Okee,

                                            Thanks for clearing that up for me.

                                            You have a valid point there. Assistance or not?!

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                                            #2.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:44 AM EST

                                            The DNR if on the medical record with an advance directive would have been invoked and 911 not called...sad...my mom is 89, lives at home with family support and we are happy to have her around.

                                            • 4 votes
                                            #2.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:48 AM EST

                                            Hate much? Did your mommy not want you? Guilted up as well? Troll

                                            • 5 votes
                                            #2.7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:57 AM EST

                                            You have a valid point there. Assistance or not?!

                                            Please read the article...."She has been identified as a resident of the home's independent facility, which is separate from the skilled and assisted nursing facility."

                                            Get it?

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                                            #2.8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:16 AM EST

                                            This is a great discussion. My mother is 96 and lives at home with 24/7 care. She is weak and sometimes she falls, her blood pressure is not strong enough to keep her upright for long. My mother was very active and gets discouraged because she is so weak. I am a nurse and have performed CPR on many people in my life. If I were to perform it on my mother, her ribs would break, she might suffer terrible pain if I were able to keep her brain perfused with enough oxygen, and she would most certainly die anyway. Her caretaker said that if she couldn't get my mother to respond she would definitely call 911. Maybe some EMT can tell me if they are able to make the decision to withhold CPR when they answer a 911. My mom wants to die at home. Even if she didn't need to be resucsitated she would end up in the hospital.

                                            Although I am a nurse I've never had to make the decision for an elderly person living independently. In the hospital we have lots of paperwork and need a Docs signature to allow for a DNR. Once approved, the person wears a bright yellow or orange bracelet.

                                            As it turns out, this can be done when someone is living at home. I no longer worry some well-meaning EMT following the law will cause my mother's last moments to be horrible.

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                                            #2.9 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:03 AM EST

                                            @ganafan201...creek dog has read the article...so take your supreme know it all some where else...he was stating that you need to know what assistance or not you will be getting....turn the corn cob sweetie...cause you obviously got it twisted.

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                                            #2.10 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:13 AM EST

                                            The woman was 87 & maybe she didn't want CPR in the first place. Please, I am old please don't torture me with CPA just to make other people feel good. Death comes to us all, why fear it.

                                            This article is based on the 911 operators point of view.

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                                            #2.11 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:17 AM EST

                                            All of those who think this nurse should be fired, you'd change your tune if you actually worked in this field. I am a nurse in skilled and long term care and although I have to follow the patients' code status, from what I have seen, it is unethical to perform CPR on someone elderly. If they do come back, it will not be for long and their quality of life will be zilch. I am glad the daughter is a nurse...that is probably why she is not up in arms over this, she knows her mother would have just suffered.

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                                            #2.12 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:33 AM EST

                                            You, sir, are an idiot.

                                              #2.13 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:45 AM EST

                                              I read this story on the local feed. That story mentioned that there was no DNR.

                                              • 1 vote
                                              #2.14 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:46 AM EST

                                              Well once they do CPR and resuscitate you and you become a vegetable because of the heart attack would you 1) want to continue to suffer on a nursing bed for the rest of your life or 2) be relieved by death?

                                              • 11 votes
                                              #2.15 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:14 AM EST

                                              So, if I fell and seriously cut myself, I could lie there on the floor and bleed to death before someone would bring me a bandage? Interesting, since it the policy of the nursing home "... is to immediately call emergency medical personnel for assistance and to wait with the individual needing attention until such personnel arrives.''

                                              Let's say I got choked--no Heimlich maneuver, either?

                                              How about the building on fire? I guess I'm toast.

                                              Just answer me this, why am I in a (very expensive) nursing home if no one is looking after me and nursing (providing medical care or aid for) me? If I'm at home, I'd still be dead either way. And if not, I could probably dial the phone or hit my medic alert caller.

                                              My grandson, who is autistic and 11, could provide better health care and do it with more compassion. He knows CPR, can put on a bandage, can drag an adult out the door, and perform the Heimlich maneuver. He was taught how. What does this non-act at the nursing home say about us as adults?

                                              • 3 votes
                                              #2.16 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:28 AM EST

                                              Everyone needs an Advanced Directive (living will) stating whether or not they want to be resuscitated and under what circumstances. It does not require a lawyer or any registration.....it only has to be signed by the person involved and 2 witnesses, one of which needs to be an uninvolved party (like a friend or your neighbor). Forms to assist you can be found on-line, or can be given to you at any hospital.....they will be offered to you at any hospital anytime you are admitted for any reason. An Advanced Directive doesn't always mean you don't want to be resuscitated - it can also say that you want EVERYTHING done.........at least then your children or your health care decision maker would know what you want! Keep a copy handy at all times (like in your car), so that it will be with you in an emergency. Make sure your children have a copy, make sure your healthcare surrogate has a copy and understands the responsibilities, and make sure your physician has a copy.

                                              And just because a child agrees with the decision to not resuscitate does not mean they "want all the money". I've seen cases where a grown child refuses to agree with a DNR when there is no hope because they are living off their parents Social Security and living in the parents home (I'm talking 40-50 year olds).......so it works both ways.

                                              • 2 votes
                                              #2.17 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:42 AM EST

                                              Don't blame this nurse. She followed policy. Blame the jerks that sued after CPR caused bodily harm. Broken and fractured bones can result in punctured internal organs, and in some cases, it resulted in death. Doesn't make sense, now does it? Sue the person who tried to save a life, but that is exactly why policies, in facilities like these, have been put into place.

                                              • 3 votes
                                              #2.18 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:43 AM EST

                                              hope the family sues the balls off of them if its not a DNR facility ,hope there license gets pulled and they are" left to die"as no more customers for them ,and if the nurse was a licensed nurse as in LPN /RN take their license too as they failed the NURSING HIPPOCRATIC OATH,looks like that nurse took the hypocritical oath instead!can them all"company policy"should not go byond breaking the law

                                                #2.19 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:07 PM EST

                                                I've read some of you think she should have given cpr. Ever see how brittle bones get as you age? At this lady's age it would have caused more damage to give cpr. Her ribs would have broken and damaged other organs or even punctured the heart. I've had to perform cpr assisting a P.A. from a oil platform in the gulf to the hospital in Louisiana and if you don't use alot of pressure it does not work. I would be hesitant to perform cpr on a person that old. What I don't get is why they didn't have a electro heart blaster ( forgot the name sorry) to shock the heart. We also don't know the quality of life she had and if it was better to let her be. Somewhere in time we decided to keep people alive well past their time.

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                                                #2.20 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:15 PM EST
                                                Comment author avatarlee-936758Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

                                                Welcome to O'Baggercare..... Was the nurse a fat azz savage? Did the nurse call the unelected O'Baggercare death panel before calling 911?

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                                                #2.21 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:17 PM EST

                                                Sue baby Sue. I was married to a Sue one time what a Bi**. If only we knew all the facts before we condemn anyone on what they have did or didn't do. Lousy reporting on these stories then a bunch of idiots get out there and make such stupid comments because they know everything that happened. I'm only 66 and I have a DNR, you revive me I sue you, I don't want to live as a half vegetable.

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                                                #2.22 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:24 PM EST

                                                My mother was 97 when she died. She had a DNR and yet I had to call 911 (and by the way, Medicare doesn't pay for an ambulance to show up when the person is dead -- ask me how I know). That was the only way I could deal with all the issues. She lived at home so maybe it could be different in an assisted living facility and they could have handled it differently. But I will say, that for anyone who is elderly (and since I'm 70, I'll define that as 80 - lol) doing CPR can be very traumatic. I think the nurse did exactly as she should have regardless of the facility's policy. I don't think that the daughter's reaction of satisfaction with the outcome should be questioned or attributed to greed or lack of love for her mother. I loved my mother and was very happy that she died quickly in her own home without the hardship (for her) of an illness or hospital stay or all the stuff that goes on surrounding so many deaths of the elderly because family is unwilling to let go. Think about what is like for that old person to be hooked up to machines and all the pain and anquish that goes with it. Most elderly people are ready to go when their body gives out and don't want all the fuss. My grandmother lived to be 101 but the last years were not pleasant and she would have been very happy to have left this world the way her daughter did -- up doing stuff one minute and then gone the next. I hope I'm as lucky as my mother -- and don't do CPR or put me in the hospital with tubes and monitors and stuff, just let me go in peace.

                                                • 6 votes
                                                #2.23 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:43 PM EST

                                                I should have also mentioned that when my mother died, the 911 operator kept telling me to perform CPR and I refused. I knew my mother would not want that and I probably would have done more damage than good. There are a lot of reasons to NOT do CPR and to wait for the EMS people.

                                                • 7 votes
                                                #2.24 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:52 PM EST
                                                Comment author avatarLea Kellyvia Facebook

                                                Well said!

                                                • 2 votes
                                                #2.25 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:13 PM EST

                                                Creek and Okee, and others too,

                                                No one said this was an assisted living facility. It was clearly written in an otherwise poorly written article that this dead woman lived in the INDEPENDENT living facility, and was NOT part of the assisted, or care facilities. Perhaps where you were educated "independent" means assisted, but to me it means that people who live there want to remain independent, perhaps even to the point of knowingly living in a facility that will not itself allow medical life-saving procedures to be used. Why can't we be grateful that people can still live, and die, as they might want, in the few short years we have left to do so? This woman's choice may not even be legal within months. Isn't the shame of it all that we are becoming less free all so that we can tell others how they must live?

                                                I think I admire this dead woman for her decision to live, and die, as she wanted just about as much as I can't stand everyone else in my country who is intent on making everyone else live, and die, as they want.

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                                                #2.26 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:40 PM EST

                                                eric (#1.61 above) provides a link. Perhaps some of you would like to know what really happened there. Here is a transcript of the last three minutes of that call.

                                                Dispatcher: We need to get CPR started

                                                Nurse: Yeah, we can't do CPR

                                                Dispatcher: Then hand the phone to the passerby. If you can't do it, I need, hand the phone to the passerby, I'll have her do it. Or if you've got any civic citizens there, I'll have them do it.

                                                Nurse: No, no, it's not …

                                                Dispatcher: Anybody there can do CPR. Give them the phone, please. I understand if your facility is not willing to do that. Give the phone to that passerby, that stranger … this woman is not breathing enough. She's going to die if we don't get this started. Do you understand?

                                                Nurse: I understand. I am a nurse. But I cannot have our other senior citizens who don't know CPR do it…

                                                Dispatcher: I will instruct them.

                                                Nurse: we're in a dining room …

                                                Dispatcher: I will instruct them. Is there anyone there who will …

                                                Nurse: I can't do that …

                                                Dispatcher: Okay. I don't understand why you're not willing to help this patient

                                                Nurse: I am but, I'm just saying that …

                                                Dispatcher: Okay, I'll walk you through it all. We, EMS takes the liability for this, Colleen. I'm happy to help you. This is EMS protocol.

                                                At this point, the nurse asks someone else to get a supervisor. She is heard telling someone else at Glenwood Gardens, "Can you get (unintelligible) … right away. I don't know where he is. But she's yelling at me and saying we have to have one of our other residents perform CPR. I'm feeling stressed and I'm not going to do that, make that call."

                                                Dispatcher: Colleen, is there anybody who works there who is willing do to it?

                                                Nurse: We can't do that. That's what I'm trying to say.

                                                Dispatcher: Are we just going to let this lady die?

                                                Nurse: That's why we're calling 9-1-1.

                                                Dispatcher: We can't wait. She can't wait right now. She is stopping breathing. She can't wait for them to get there.

                                                Nurse: She's taken three breaths.

                                                Dispatcher: It's not enough. We need to get CPR started.

                                                Nurse: He's saying we don't. So you can talk to my boss. I don't know what to say.

                                                Dispatcher, to another dispatcher: They're refusing CPR. They're going let her die. By the facility. Yeah.

                                                Nurse: When will the fire department be here? When will the ambulance be here?

                                                Dispatcher: They're coming as quick … they've been on the way all this time. But we can't wait. This lady is going to die.

                                                Nurse: Yeah.

                                                Dispatcher: Well, if you get anybody, any stranger that happens to walk by, who is willing to help … I understand if your boss is telling you you can't do it. But if there's any … it's a human being. I don't, you know … is there anybody that's willing to help this lady and not let her die?

                                                Nurse: Not at this time.

                                                Dispatcher, to another dispatcher: No. They won't touch her at all. I can't get them to touch her at all.

                                                Nurse: We have residents that are her age or older.

                                                Dispatcher: Any guests? Any guests that are there that are willing to help?

                                                Nurse: No, I don't have any.

                                                Dispatcher: Is there a gardener? Any staff … anyone who doesn't work for you anywhere? Can we flag someone down in the street and get them to help this lady. Can we flag a stranger down? I bet a stranger would help her. I'm pretty good at talking them into it. If you can flag a stranger down, I will help, I will tell them how to help her.

                                                Nurse: He said not to move her.

                                                Dispatcher: Okay. Has anyone gone to look for a stranger?

                                                At this point, the ambulance and fire crews arrive and the tape ends. More info at the link.

                                                BTW, the woman did not have a DNR, was living in her own apartment - not in a nursing facility, and was still breathing (but only barely). It would appear that a little help might have made all the difference.

                                                But the nurse wouldn't even hand the phone to someone who would have been able to help.

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                                                #2.27 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:58 PM EST

                                                The woman's age says allot in this case, she had already lived her life she was 89. in the process of doing CPR you will break some bones and 89 year old would not heal to well and more than likely contract pneumonia and die a long painful drug out death from that, to many of you posting are thinking with your feelings, back up and rethink its possible that the wording MSN has chosen is flaming your opinionsand you are not thinking rational the media can do that to people. just like they can scare you with a weather report, or brain wash you to think the way they want you to think. now what do you think they are setting the readers up for this time? the right for the government to intervene and run the show on how people will die? do you smell the issue of euthanasia coming around again? what will theywant to add to Obama care to clear up this issue. I have it when you hit 72 you can retire when you hit 80 you get to retire again permanently. nobody should go beyond 80 it cost to much and the quality of life sucks, give them time and they will have you all looking in that direction and giving the decision making to the government. along with everything else. like good socialist everywhere. except the rich ones they will be exempt. euthanizing saves money for the rich and keeps taxes down for the poor. the media is duping you again first they plant the seeds then you demand the government to step in and fix it, then they take control and you are helpless, and it all starts with a story. then there is the real story 89 year old woman died! no story here, this kind of thing happens. about 300,000 times every day. but that wouldnt serve any purpose now would it. watch for more seeds to come.

                                                  #2.28 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:01 PM EST

                                                  Physicist, I am really glad she didn't hand anything to another patient...how awful that would be! One has a heart attack trying to do CPR? I can assure you it is hard work, and some little elderly man or woman can't keep it up even if they can get it started right. And that responsibility...now way to do that. And a stranger or visitor? Nope...not in that situation.

                                                  And any of you talking about death panels should already know your insurance company already has those. This is not about Mr. Obama, so grow up.

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                                                  #2.29 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:26 PM EST

                                                  Remember and Gayle, Kudos for caring for your mothers at home. It is all too easy these days to ship our elderly off to these facilities so we can go on with our lives. I wouldn't trade my last years with my mom for anything. It wasn't easy but she was able to retain her dignity and be surrounded by love, not indifference.

                                                  I understand the difficulty of attempting to perform CPR but I wonder (and I'm not sure if I missed it in other comments) if they didn't have an AED (Automatic external defibrillator machine). You would think a facility that caters to elderly people would have one. Most hotels, sports areas, malls, and even some restaurants have them these days. They do not require excessive pressure on the chest cavity and are really "idiot proof."

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                                                  #2.30 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:41 PM EST

                                                  New... - Please read my comment above (1.121). People have ulterior motives for refusing to allow CPR. My family did also BUT it had NOTHING to do with getting access to whatever assets my father had. Our reason we allowed CPR to be prevented was because of HIS wishes. Since the state in which he lived did not allow for dying with dignity that was his best option. My father suffered for years from severe COPD and that is a slow painful death where the patient slowly suffocates. In my father's case he was fully lucid/coherent up to the very end.

                                                  Inheritances aren't the only reason for refusing CPR by trained professionals. I would rather have my father alive - but not in the condition he was in. Luckily for me I got to have a heart-to-heart talk with him about a month before he passed. He accepted the fact that he was terminal - he just wished it would come sooner than it did. He suffered for over 14 years with the illness.

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                                                  #2.31 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:06 PM EST

                                                  The transcript clearly reveals the 911 dispatcher was a self important cowboy with absolutely no perspective on the situation. What a total clown. Performing CPR on an 87 has 0% chance of working and if she was still semi conscious would guarantee she died in immense pain and total humiliation exposed for all the other residents to see. The nurse did the most caring thing and sat with her as she passed peacefully. The 911 guy making the suggestion that another resident should be coerced into performing CPR is appaling.
                                                  This was a no CPR facility, people are asking if a DNR was in place, on moving into a no CPR facility you sign a form stating that CPR will not be performed, that is a DNR.

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                                                  #2.32 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:19 PM EST

                                                  Rob, you are correct. Although I was required to perform CPR on any patient that did not have a DNR recorded on their medical record, there were many times that I felt foolish and even cruel for attempting to put someone in a permanent vegistative state. I wonder at many of the comments. Why is it that so many people believe that doing CPR on this woman would be "helping" her? I've learned, through the years, that there are many things worse than dying that can happen to a person. Our wish to save lives at all cost is not always in the best interests of the patient/victim. The chances of a positive outcome for this patient were zero. Still, she was not left alone to die. Her caregiver stayed with her and that is helping the patient....It is a hard thing to do to watch helplessly when someone dies. So many of you think she was so very wrong....actually, what she did was the hardest thing of all to do....let nature take its' course. I followed the rules and did what I was required and ordered to do....Not always happy about how things turned out.

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                                                  #2.33 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:00 PM EST

                                                  BTW...New CPR rules do not call for mouth to mouth--or any form of resiratory assistance except O2 if she was still breathing...as she, apparently was. There is no mention of whether or not she had a pulse. Compression may have been appropriate, if she was pulseless. You do not intubate a conscience person--even a semi-conscience person in the field without Procurium. Yes, she was clearly dying and the nurse was aware of that. She was 87. It was her time and I doubt that anyone could have changed this outcome.

                                                    #2.34 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:06 PM EST

                                                    Dome, it was not the nurse:

                                                    the nurse can be heard telling the dispatcher that it was against the retirement facility's policy to perform CPR.

                                                    This place needs to be investigated and if this really is the case it needs to be fined or shut down. Unless they force their patients to sign DNR's the Hippocratic Oath compels them to help those in need; if they are any good at their jobs that is.

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                                                    #2.35 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:19 PM EST

                                                    Geowil...Remember, the Hippocratic Oath states: "above all else, do no harm." Do you think that doing CPR is ALWAYS helping? If so, you are wrong. Not all of "those in need" are being helped by extending their lives. Sad, but true. Quality of life has some meaning as does quantity...

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                                                    #2.36 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:55 PM EST

                                                    The oath does compel us to help those in need and breaking all the ribs of a semi conscious 87 year old and laying her bare for all the other homes residents to see is not helping it is harming. What this nurse did was the most caring, most Hippocratic thing possible. It is quite likely in entering a no resuscitation home that she would not have wanted resuscitation and she would have signed a form acknowledging in the event of an arrest CPR would not be performed, not only would attempting CPR have been utterly cruel and inhumane but it would have been contrary to a legal document signed by the patient and as such it would have represented an assault.

                                                      #2.37 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 5:51 PM EST

                                                      The woman was 86 years old. How many years did this dispatcher wanted her to live? The woman was living in a nursing home her family put her in. I'm sure she lived a full life, and no one can live forever.

                                                        #2.38 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 6:26 PM EST

                                                        Two years ago in my town two drivers stopped at an auto accident..one performed CPR on the accident victim. That accident victim was lucky he got fast treatment ( was told he would of died if not). But the accident victim sued the person who performed the CPR..stating in the lawsuit..he didn't have any type of medical license and broke one of his ribs doing the CPR!

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                                                        #2.39 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:39 PM EST

                                                        Then expert witnesses would have stated that CPR frequently results in rib fractures when performed correctly and the case would have been thrown out.

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                                                        #2.40 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:34 PM EST

                                                        So many studies show that CPR does NOT work.

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                                                        #2.41 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:18 PM EST

                                                        lee-936758
                                                        Welcome to O'Baggercare..... Was the nurse a fat azz savage? Did the nurse call the unelected O'Baggercare death panel before calling 911?

                                                        Poor lee, stuck on the stupid party principle from Limbaugh, Hannity, and Beck, doing what they tell you!!

                                                        O'Baggercare, and fat azz savage.....

                                                        And I'd bet you'll swear you're not a racist!!!

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                                                        #2.42 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:20 PM EST

                                                        Let me get this straight--a great number of you think that dead is more comfortable and less embarrassing than alive? Wow, I'm glad you're not my caregivers. The thing about not getting the CPR or other lifesaving interventions is that one is DEAD without them. Just thought I'd let you know that's the bottom line. Sometimes, intervening is the only choice between life and death. Personally, unless I know I'm on the way out and have very limited time, (unlike this lady who was living happily on her own but with some intrapersonal communication with a "nursing" staff), please note, I'd like to live just a bit longer.

                                                        (I'm sitting here shaking my head trying to wrap my thoughts around the ignorance of the folks who think it's embarrassing to receive medical care or someone's life isn't worth living. I'm glad no one has that authority to tell me I should just die because of some "policy." Sheesh.)

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                                                        #2.43 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:47 PM EST

                                                        I see more problem with the 911 dispatcher that decided against protocol and leaked the conversation to the news agency. Although the nurse most likely followed protocol and did things the way she was supposed to do, the 911 dispatcher on the other hand didn't and breached their contract when they released the information to the news agency. If anyone should be fired, it is the 911 dispatcher.

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                                                        #2.44 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 1:31 AM EST

                                                        Suppose this elderly lady had a severe bone issue...and that force of CPR on her chest would break her bones??

                                                        Doing CPR on a normal, health, 25 year old will often break bones. CPR when done right, by a medical professional, will often break bones.

                                                        This situation is sad, but I can't blame the nurse for hospital policy as dumb as said policy is. Perhaps in the wake of this incident, the should review it (and I hope they do) but it's only an artifact of the modern sue-happy society we live in. It's CYA instead of CPR, you don't wanna lose the farm...

                                                          #2.45 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 8:46 AM EST

                                                          Let me get this straight--a great number of you think that dead is more comfortable and less embarrassing than alive? Wow, I'm glad you're not my caregivers.

                                                          Zapper, let me tell you a story.

                                                          About 15 years ago my mother suffered a major seizure and was rushed to the hospital. She had this siezure as a result of multiple surgeries for recurring menengiomas. Each surgury had damaged more of her brain. By the time she had this seizure she was unable to walk, and had lost most of her capacity for speech, and was also no longer able to read or write. This was a lady with a Masters degree in English who had been writing a novel. She was only 67 years old.

                                                          My brother and I flew to Phoenix to be with her, and to help our father cope.

                                                          In her hospital room the neurosurgeon, in her presence, told us that she would be paralyzed on her right side, and would never be able to go home. She would need trained care 24/7, and would need to tube-fed because she was unable to chew or swallow. The tumors would comtinue to grow, but additional surgery was not possible. She could live this way for as long as another two years.

                                                          Our Dad was distraught, and swore that he'd take her home and care for her. But Mom, as best she could, communicated that she didn't want that for either of them.

                                                          We spend the night with her at the hospital, and the next morning she slipped into a coma. The doctors said that with proper care she could live for at least another year. Fortunatly both my parents had signed living wills, and after my brother, father, and I discussed it, we asked the hospital to keep her as comfortable as possible, but to withold nourishment and allow her to die with dignity. She lived another week and passed peacefully.

                                                          We have never regreted that decision.

                                                          I hope you never need to face this situation but I will tell you emphatically that often, yes, sometimes dead is more comfortable and less embarrassing! Where there is life there isn't always hope.

                                                          But I doubt you'll ever agree with that concept. I myself will choose to die with dignity, rather than allow others to inflict suffering on me because they think that it is always the best decision to prolong life as long as possible, even if it's only for one more day or week of suffering.

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                                                          #2.46 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 10:30 AM EST

                                                          Dear Severed, the lady in this article was not in the state of your mother. She had a chance that was taken from her. My own mother is in the same state as yours was. Her time will come soon, and no extra CPR or resuscitative efforts will save her. We know this. She knows this. She has an advance directive, as well. I do not try to second guess this.

                                                          The lady in the article may have been saved, maybe not, but until this event took place, she appeared to be handling her own fairly well. I, personally, would prefer the chance to survive. Not all feel the same way.

                                                          BTW, I, too, have a living will with all the proper stipulations and addendums about foolishly extending an ending life. I have no wish to be a burden to anyone. However, if it's just a bump in a long road, that a little help could fix, I think I'd like to have the fix--or at least try.

                                                          As for dead being more comfortable, I wouldn't know. Very few have come back from that state to let us know the comfort level of death. It may be more comfortable for the survivors, but I don't think myself so omnipotent as to speak for the dead.

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                                                          #2.47 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 1:25 PM EST
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                                                          The nurse did the correct thing. I would not perform CPR on anyone for any reason. Families of the person who is ill are SUE happy. The best policy due to our SUE happy people in the United States is to not get involved. If we, in the United States would get rid of the Ambulance chasing bottom feeders, we could go back to helping people in need. Good for the Nurse.

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                                                          #3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:31 AM EST

                                                          Sounds like a catch 22 to me. Sue for "not" performing CPR or sue "for" performing CPR.

                                                          Take your pick....

                                                          Also, you're referring to somebody you do not even know but, if it were "your" mother, I doubt you would've posted that comment of yours.

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                                                          #3.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:46 AM EST

                                                          Just like the car accident , run them over twice. The dead can not sue.

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                                                          #3.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:55 AM EST

                                                          Old folks enter these homes to die in peaceful circumstances. Reviving them to suffer a bit more seems like a practice inspired by Mother Church during the Inquisition.

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                                                          #3.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:15 AM EST

                                                          wascigarman, the good Samaritan law protects all those giving aid to the injured. No one rendering CPR can be sued. But sue for not performing CPR? that may be possible.

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                                                          #3.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:33 AM EST

                                                          you are sick to even think like that.

                                                            #3.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:36 AM EST

                                                            Creek Dog

                                                            Sounds like a catch 22 to me. Sue for "not" performing CPR or sue "for" performing CPR.

                                                            If you signed the contract then you agreed to the policies of the home. You can't sue someone for something you agreed to.

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                                                            #3.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:34 AM EST

                                                            My grandmother, who lived to 92, moved in with my mother at age 89. Mother was happy to care for her, but we worried about the stress level, as Grandma was lucid most of the time, but like a child at others. When she finally fell, and Mom could not lift her nor provide care for at that point, it was nursing home time - for about 6 weeks, until "the end". Grandma specifically had instructions, written and verbally to us all, to do no heroic efforts to prolong her waning life - at 89.
                                                            Like another poster said, none of us are getting out of this life alive. Since antibiotics were discovered, some people seem to think death will escape us somehow. I have my own exit plan, hopefully I don't stroke out and can carry it out - a bottle of wine, a running car in the garage, good night.
                                                            Maybe in 20-30 years, if I'm lucky, instead the law will change so that I can get medically assisted suicide and have the dignity of death that my dog would have when she gets old and can't even go to the bathroom alone.

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                                                            #3.7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:12 PM EST

                                                            No one rendering CPR can be sued.

                                                            WRONG! Maybe the good Sam laws apply to the lay person. However, people in the medical profession are held to a higher standard. The can be and have been sued for perceived errors in performing CPR. This even applies to the common person with a certified Red Cross card stating they have successfully completed CPR training.

                                                            I have been trained in CPR for over forty years and stay current on the practices but refuse to enroll or register for courses. I don't need to brag about my abilities (card in my wallet) because there will ALWAYS be somebody questioning the correctness of the treatment.

                                                            They refuse to accept that if people hadn't even tried to help their loved one would almost certainly be dead - without anybody to sue.

                                                              #3.8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:14 PM EST

                                                              wasc...You are so wrong. Never is a big word. If I saw a child actively drowning and pulled them out of the water, you can bet that I would do CPR vigorously. They are not dead until they are warm and dead. I don't give a damn who sues me....Just because you are sued, doesn't mean that they are going to win the case. The Good Samaritan Rule protect against that sort of thing. Too many people today are not willing to "get involved" and that is what is leading this country into a sense of lawlessness--nobody is going to interfere. Different circumstances require different actions and Never is almost Never an appropriate philosophy.

                                                                #3.9 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:12 PM EST

                                                                JB...Anyone can be sued for just about anything...Still, few get to court and even fewer still are convicted or fined if they acted out of a sincere desire to help the victim.

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                                                                #3.10 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:58 PM EST

                                                                My grandmother passed away at 93. She had Alzheimer's for her last four years, and spent those years bedridden. She had a living will drawn up when she still had all her facilities. She didn't want any tubes stuck in her to keep her alive. My aunt took care of her in her home for her last five years. Her brother was very upset when she reached her end, because no extraordinary care was given to her. It's been two years, and he still feels his sister killer their mother because she didn't have the hospital hook her up to machines to keep her alive. My grandmother made my aunt promise not to keep her alive, and she abided by her wishes.

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                                                                #3.11 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 6:34 PM EST

                                                                She was breathing so she had a pulse, so you do not do cpr on a person wit a pulse. If they had an aed they could have hooked it up and let it decide to shock or not.

                                                                  #3.12 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:00 PM EST

                                                                  tom,

                                                                  she was possibly having agonal respirations. The best indicator of effective cardiac activity is a pulse

                                                                    #3.13 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:12 PM EST

                                                                    WRONG! Maybe the good Sam laws apply to the lay person. However, people in the medical profession are held to a higher standard.

                                                                    This. Medical professionals CAN be sued for performing CPR, especially when it's done so incorrectly.

                                                                    They refuse to accept that if people hadn't even tried to help their loved one would almost certainly be dead - without anybody to sue.

                                                                    yep, and again here's the crux of the situation. It's freaking ridiculous and sad, but it is what it is.

                                                                      #3.14 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 8:49 AM EST
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                                                                      And if the nurse performed CPR and the patient still died, the family would probably sue the facility.

                                                                      The facility has a do nothing policy. The lady knew it. She could have lived somewhere else.

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                                                                      Reply#4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:32 AM EST

                                                                      If the dead woman happened to have had a DNR order all the nurse had to do was say so to the dispatcher and the argument would have ended.

                                                                      As the nurse working in that establishment she should have had access to that record.

                                                                      The policy of that establishment is strange to say the least.

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                                                                      #4.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:15 PM EST

                                                                      maggie... - Not necessarily. Read 1.121. My mother carried a court stamped legal document recognizing my father's DNR/DNI wishes. Yet she got in an argument with paramedics when they went to transport my father to the hospital. There were threats of police intervention from both sides but the EMTs relented when my mother told them should would sue them personally and their company if they violated my father's wishes. She had my sister as a witness.

                                                                      Many people are confused between the policies and practices of a care facility and a hospice facility. Some may be both but there are nuances even to those facilities.

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                                                                      #4.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:23 PM EST
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                                                                      There is a whole load of "what if's" not covered by the article. Crappy write up for the drama factor.

                                                                      FIRE the author!

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                                                                      Reply#5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:32 AM EST

                                                                      If they did that every time an article on MSNBC lacked any details they'd run out of writers in about a week.

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                                                                      #5.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:38 AM EST
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                                                                      Many elderly people (including my mother, same age as this woman) do not wish to be rescussitated in this situation, whether or not they have a formal DNR order. However, they also do not want someone calling 911, which results in even more drastic medical intervention in the natural dying process. The nursing home needs to examine both pieces of its policy. That said, the family is content with what happened, and they knew their mom best in terms of what she would have wanted. That's what's most important in my book.

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                                                                      Reply#6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:33 AM EST

                                                                      Saw it all the time when I worked. Told people about it, no one listened. Overdoses of pain medicine, once told by a nurse"but we're relieving suffering, we're relieving suffering." Take care of your loved ones at home or with an agency nurse or CNA. The nursing homes only have the bottom line in mind. And/or lawsuits. If this woman did not have a DNR in her file, she should have had CPR performed on her. One of the women that was in a home I worked for was ill, and pleaded to go to the hospital, but had a DNR designation and the nurses would not send her there. She died that night. I will not work in the medical field again because of what I witnessed. BTW, all staff in most nursing homes must have a card that certifies them to perform CPR, and it must be updated by classes every year. There was no excuse for this.

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                                                                      Reply#7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:34 AM EST

                                                                      AMEN

                                                                        #7.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:53 AM EST

                                                                        Read the article, the daughter is satisfied by the level of care. I'm guessing that since it's company policy that they knew about that when they were deciding which facility to choose.

                                                                        It's not like they can just trot out false policy documents whenever they're subpoenaed, it's there in black and white for people to read, if not, then that's a completely different matter.

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                                                                        #7.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:08 PM EST

                                                                        My mother in law had hospice at home, cancer, it was awful. The hospice provides a kit for the patient, morphine, for pain/suffering, but there was an attendant the last 2 weeks for 24/7, they knew it would be "soon". Ever see someone drowning in their own lung fluid? Not a pretty sight. I wondered and wished they'd just give her an extra dose of morphine, so instead of just being able to sleep, she could have passed away in peace sooner.

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                                                                        #7.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:19 PM EST

                                                                        So I guess you never did CPR on an elderly woman, right? If you had you would see why this doesn't work well for the patient.

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                                                                        #7.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:29 PM EST

                                                                        Ever see someone drowning in their own lung fluid? Not a pretty sight. I wondered and wished they'd just give her an extra dose of morphine, so instead of just being able to sleep, she could have passed away in peace sooner.

                                                                        My mother chose at home hospice for her final days. When the doctor came by (yes, a house call) my sister, a former nurse, expressed the level of discomfort our mother was experiencing. She asked the doctor if he could up the dosage to get her some relief. She specifically stated that she wasn't trying to OD mom but let her relax a little more. The doctor's comment "I'm concerned that she might become addicted to the morphine." My sister was aghast - addicted on her death bed? The doc's concerns were short lived. Our mother passed less than two days later. We'll never know if she was addicted.

                                                                          #7.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:32 PM EST

                                                                          Frank why do you assume they knew about the policy? These places are like any other corporation and hide these kinds of things in the small print of their legalese documents.

                                                                            #7.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:23 PM EST

                                                                            Geowil....Why would any facility try to hide a DNR policy? That is crazy!!! They are losing a patient who is making them tons of money!!! They have no interest in letting their patients die. They just don't happen to believe it is in the best interests of the patient to extend their lives by doing CPR when the outcome would almost certainly be horrible. I have yet to see any facility try to "hide" a DNR policy. I don't agree with an overall DNR policy and believe that each case should be consider on its merits at the time, but still, you are off base.

                                                                              #7.7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 5:03 PM EST

                                                                              Geowil, because the facilities don't want their reputation ruined by people who aren't being told what the facility has to offer. Ultimately, they're the ones that get sued and or shut down if the people aren't getting the appropriate treatment.

                                                                              There's no reason to hide the fine print as any decent facility is likely to be running a waiting list even when disclosing these sorts of things. This is something the facility chose to make a policy because it gets them more clients.

                                                                                #7.8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:40 PM EST
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                                                                                Performing CPR on someone that age can be more dangerous to the patients health as it could have broken her rib bones. If then that caused one or more of the ribs to puncture a lung it could be fatal. If the coroner's findings were the patient died as a result of the CPR the nursing home could be held liable. Most probably the nursing home has this somewhere in their policy and people should be aware of it.

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                                                                                Reply#8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:34 AM EST

                                                                                A Big JR Fan! is correct. This was an 87 year old. Even with "successful" CPR, this elderly woman would have had almost zero chance of recovery. Here is a link. "Most patients live for a short period after CPR, but still die in the hospital. Only 1% to 4% of patients with multiple chronic illnesses or > age 70, survive to leave the hospital."

                                                                                CPR is a real lifesaver for young people with no underlying major health problems. For the elderly it is a sure path to a prolonged painful hospital death. The story should have had that information.

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                                                                                #8.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:44 AM EST

                                                                                A broken rib doesn't matter very much if you heart isn't beating.

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                                                                                #8.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:55 AM EST

                                                                                Heck, I've been a nursing home nurse and I have felt an old lady's ribs break under my hand. I got her back but she dies an hour later at the hospital, thank god.

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                                                                                #8.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:53 AM EST

                                                                                True, John, and a fragile rib puncturing a heart won't make it beat well either, right? A broken rib is seriously painful for anyone, but why do that to an 87 year old woman who will end up having horrible pain with each breath, won't be able to move without excruciating pain, and will end up dying soon in agony from CPR anyway?

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                                                                                #8.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:32 PM EST
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                                                                                Before everyone jumps to judgement, consider how rough CPR is on a frail, extremely old person, how easy it is to break ribs on an elderly, frail person, how likely it is that this person has oft-times expressed to staff her willingness "to go", and how likely it is that patients like this die not in peace but under duress and much pain while emergency procedures are performed. Readers who have not been there, in other words, shut up.

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                                                                                Reply#9 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:36 AM EST

                                                                                John,

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                                                                                #9.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:00 AM EST

                                                                                That presumes that you give CPR to an 87 yo in the same manner that you give a teen. I got CPR training in the Air Force and we were instructed on the different ways to provide CPR to an adult vs an infant for instance. Very different procedures but it IS possible without injury.

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                                                                                #9.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:12 AM EST

                                                                                @ tatas...doesn't matter if you are 47 or 87 unless you are an infant/child cpr is the same for all adults

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                                                                                #9.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:16 AM EST

                                                                                CPR is not Possible without Injuries...

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                                                                                #9.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:42 AM EST

                                                                                CPR to an adult vs an infant for instance. Very different procedures but it IS possible without injury.

                                                                                then, frankly, you are not doing it correctly. It is almost impossible to give adequate chest compressions in an elderly person without breaking ribs. Nearly every time.

                                                                                Its like trying to push on a mattress through eggshells. youre going to break them

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                                                                                #9.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:42 AM EST

                                                                                Ever see a EMT Cry while giving a infant CPR? Thats because they felt the pain of breaking that babies ribcage for them the instant they heard the cracks happen. If you can imagine, most of you can't due to the fact that your mouths won't stop running long enough to feel it and the person would have already died during your conversation.

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                                                                                #9.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:52 AM EST

                                                                                Amen.

                                                                                  #9.7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:56 AM EST

                                                                                  TaTas: I'll never forget the first time I performed CPR on an 88 year old with a stiff rib cage (not my first time performing CPR on a real person)....and I hear and felt the "pop-pop-pop-pop' of ribs breaking first on one side of the rib cage and then the other side on the second stroke...........there was no other way the heart was going to be compressed otherwise....so...NO....there is no way to do it safely and effectively on someone with a rigid ribcage.

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                                                                                  #9.8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:53 AM EST

                                                                                  Yes, Val...horrible feeling. If you don't compress the ribs enough to make the heart "beat" you aren't going to get oxygen in. Now I have done it before on young adults once or twice no ribs broke and the person lived, but that was thin people who had more flexible bones. They were still very sore and didn't wish that experience on anyone...at 87 with stiff, brittle ribs...seriously painful.

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                                                                                  #9.9 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:36 PM EST

                                                                                  Chosen...If they were breaking the ribs of an infant, they were not doing CPR correctly. Infants have very flexible bones. The sternum of an infant or child is very hard to break and they should not have their hands over the rib cage. Different circumstances call for different responses.

                                                                                  Creek Dog...Always enjoy your posts! Still, no catch 22 here. Some incidents just don't call for someone to consider the legal liabilities as you watch a victim die. Do the right thing at the right time and let the legal system sort it out afterwards. This 87 year old lady met her time of death and I doubt that anyone could have prevented it. An injured child or adult that there is even a minimal chance of saving that had no DNR on record is due every effort....This lady was in a facility that doesn't do CPR and her relatives obviously knew that when they signed the admitting papers. Too many people are worried about getting sued. Fact is, most of us are judgement proof anyway. I was never sued by a patient in almost 40 years of nursing and would not have been able to do my job if I was constantly worried about getting sued. It doesn't factor in when there is a dying child in front of you, for example.

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                                                                                  #9.10 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:48 PM EST
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                                                                                  The article doesn't have enough facts to make an informed opinion.

                                                                                  DNR's, contracts, mission statements all play a role here.

                                                                                  I do find it amusing though the posters that say "if it was my mother I would be so mad...."

                                                                                  Well if you loved and cared for your mother so much why did you put her in a nursing home??

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                                                                                  Reply#10 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:37 AM EST

                                                                                  You use a nursing home if your loved one needs 24/7 care and you can't give it to them because you aren't in the same town or your work schedule won't allow it or the care needed is beyond your ability to give or some combination of these. I always swore I'd never put anyone I loved into a nursing home, then I had a situation where the doctors made it clear there was no way she could live at home. She could certainly die at home, but live? No, not possible. Not with the situation we were facing. It wasn't the money, it was the logistics.

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                                                                                  #10.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:36 AM EST

                                                                                  Making the end of life decisions for people you love is very hard. Assuming the person wants to live at home, anyone would prolong thier independence for as long as possible. The last stages of life can go on for years, with a slow decline in the elderly persons abilities. Putting them in a care facility when the time comes is a difficult and neccessary decision. Finding a facility that is clean and professional as well as loving and respectful is not easy. Once a person is placed it is important that family members check in on them every day. You also have to build your own relationship with their care givers, and offer them the same respect that you want shown to your loved one. I brought the caregivers a treat every week at my fathers facility. I loved them for loving him!

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                                                                                  #10.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:12 PM EST

                                                                                  Interesting, I see that their policy tells the nurse what to do "wait until EMT comes," but no where do I see DO NOT USE CPR. Am I missing something? Some nursing homes have younger patients, so if age isn't an issue, do you still let them die?

                                                                                    #10.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 6:49 PM EST
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                                                                                    We can only hope that we all are afforded the decency and luck to go that way.

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                                                                                    Reply#11 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:37 AM EST

                                                                                    Seems like there might have been a DNR in place if the daughter states she is satisfied with the care her mother received. I wouldn't be surprised if that wasn't the case though. I successfully resuscitated an individual in a long term care facility a few years ago and the staff nurse's only comment was "oh he passed" and she was done.

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                                                                                    Reply#12 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:38 AM EST

                                                                                    Really? It's a shame that "policy" and our litigation society has dictated and overruled our basic instinct to help our own brothers and sisters. I'm sad for us.....

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                                                                                    Reply#13 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:38 AM EST
                                                                                    Comment author avatarGeanie Tilleyvia Facebook

                                                                                    Some of you say what happened is ok, assuming she had a DNR, which we don't know.

                                                                                    What I am reading is that they did call 911 asking for help to be sent. IF there were no DNR, there was NO reason to call 911 and ask for help be sent.

                                                                                    So since they DID call 911, I see their refusal to allow anyone to perform CPR totally disgusting.

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                                                                                    Reply#14 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:39 AM EST

                                                                                    Even the old lady's daughter, also a nurse, said she was satisfied with the care her mother recieved.

                                                                                      #14.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 4:11 PM EST
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                                                                                      Ironic.

                                                                                      The nurse refuses to give CPR because it's against this facility's policy, in order to keep her job - which she will now most likely lose because of the negative publicity surrounding this facility's policy.

                                                                                      But at least she gets to live with the thought that she might have saved a life and didn't.

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                                                                                      Reply#15 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:40 AM EST

                                                                                      Yea and how much longer would a 87 year old with health problems live? Troll much?

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                                                                                      #15.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:51 AM EST

                                                                                      Planet,

                                                                                      Kelly posted her opinion. Then "you" come Trolling along.

                                                                                      A comment is not a Troll. A Troll is when someone comments negatively on another's post within that vine.

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                                                                                      #15.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:57 AM EST

                                                                                      CD

                                                                                      I believe Kelly posted her comment with

                                                                                      But at least she gets to live with the thought that she might have saved a life and didn't

                                                                                      and that looks like a Troll remark to me. Our Planet just chose the incorrect statement that Kelly never said.

                                                                                      With that being said, this is going to be quite the "conversational" topic on the vine because many can see "there is no good way to answer", especially if you have an elderly relative in mind.

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                                                                                      #15.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:08 AM EST

                                                                                      Mornin' jack...

                                                                                      Copy that. I just hate when people come on here to be arrogant. I know I can also be sometimes (rare) but I seen a lot of Planet'sposts and a lot of them are taking pokes at people. You know me "The Mediator". LOL...

                                                                                      Thanks man........

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                                                                                      #15.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:35 AM EST

                                                                                      Hey there CD

                                                                                      I understand and am not aware of the history of Our Planet's posts. There are some posts on here that slay me and then when I get used to those that don't have a clue along they come with a comment that makes sense - heck, we all do it.

                                                                                      However, by and large, you are quite the mediator and your posts are done with a lot of thought- were you born in October, as the Libra? hehehe. I was and I can usually see both sides of the debate, except when posters get rude and then of course....

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                                                                                      #15.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:02 AM EST

                                                                                      Seeing some of my favorite commenters on this one. I'm 68, going on 17. I have DNR instructions posted in every room in my house, and end of life directives with the VA, the local hospital and my beloved daughter who will abide by my wishes. Anybody tries to CPR me I hope they gag and choke to death on their own puke, or mine. I have performed CPR several times, but not on an 87 yr. old. I also support the practice of euthanasia and assisted suicide, permissable in some of the more advanced and humane countries. Which is the better choice---allow the medical profession to turn me into a drooling, urine soaked, feces smeared rutabaga, or just go on up to the big pot patch in the sky? I've known the answer to that question a long time. Oh yeah, ASHLEY JUDD (D-KY) 2014 Adios Mitch.

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                                                                                      #15.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:08 AM EST

                                                                                      hatfield

                                                                                      I like the 68 going on 17 remark as my wife says I'm the same. I also believe in the right to assisted suicide.I have never understood why people think you should suffer with a illness that is not reversible and painful. They say they will make it painless at the hospital but most they can do is induce a coma so whats the point. From what I've experienced the pain meds really don't work with severe pain after prolonged use. Comes a point in life under circumstances it's better to go

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                                                                                      #15.7 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:44 PM EST

                                                                                      We have hospice care where I live. They will keep you so doped up on morphine that you will feel no pain. Of course you will be so out of it you can't spend much time with your loved ones but at least there is no pain.

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                                                                                      #15.8 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:27 PM EST

                                                                                      I work for hospice, and you are very ill advised about morphine. It is NOT given to keep someone doped up, it is given for pain relief. Anyone who is narcotic naive will be tired the first few days after morphine is started, but your body adjusts to it after a few days. IF after a few days the person does still not arouse, don't blame the morphine, blame the disease process.

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                                                                                      #15.9 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:53 PM EST

                                                                                      .

                                                                                        #15.10 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:57 PM EST

                                                                                        A troll is someone that comes to an online forum with the expressed intent of making comments to start attacks in their direction. Their comments often do not apply to the subject. The people that screamed "death panels" and "Obummercare" or blamed Republicans for this situation are trolls because they made a generalized statement in an inflammatory manner.

                                                                                        Kelly made an opinion you didn't like. That is not trolling, Creek Dog. It's making a comment that you just didn't like...which is fair game here.

                                                                                          #15.11 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 7:21 PM EST

                                                                                          chilluvr1228,

                                                                                          Do you think that real death is more like what is portrayed in movies...you will be crying and whispering "I love you" or "Good-bye" to your family and then you'll suddenly and peacefully die?

                                                                                          That is not what it is like...and if you had seen real death up close you would know that it is not Hospice's fault that someone is "out of it". It is a natural part of death.

                                                                                            #15.12 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 11:09 AM EST
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                                                                                            Nursing homes have the bottom line in mind and many times it is a condition to enter them that when the patient dies , there property goes to them .

                                                                                            Much like medicare when it pays for a nursing home the patients property goes to the govt when they die along with their social security income during their stay there.

                                                                                            There is a reason for the no cpr rule , and it is all about cash.

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                                                                                            Reply#16 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:40 AM EST

                                                                                            You are talking about Medicaide, not Medicare. Yes, their Social Security is deducted from with a small stipend left for personal items however, they cannot have that much in assets to even qualify for Medicaide. Please do not post erroneously and scare people on Medicare.

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                                                                                            #16.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:11 AM EST

                                                                                            If it was all about cash then keeping her alive at thousands per month would make more sense! There is only one specific type of facility that "inherits" the patients assets and they are most uncommon!

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                                                                                            #16.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:17 PM EST

                                                                                            Do you just make up stuff about everything and share it with people? This is about a lady who was 87 and died. It isn't about property and she did have a family who were satisfied with her care.

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                                                                                            #16.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:40 PM EST
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                                                                                            There is information that is not available in this article. First, was the patient a DNR (do not resusitate) and this would be in the chart. Second, their policy may have been to call for assistance but do nothing to assist the patient as the story says (frankly if this is the case then why call if someone is a DNR or nothing is going to be done because that is a waste calling medical professionals out of service on such a call) Third, find out the truth as it is and don't bash the nurse if she if following policy of the facility. And finally i read at the end of the story that the daugther was happy with her mothers care at the nursing home. I wish folks who write these stories for the drama would get their stuff together and put the facts in and stop leaving out important details.

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                                                                                            Reply#17 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:44 AM EST

                                                                                            Agree with Medical Advocate. I have been an advanced life support provider, Paramedic, for near 30 years. I would not give 1 dime for any nursing home in the world, however this nurse did the right thing. In some states you must indicate in writing DNR or not prior to entering a home, In the state where I live and work many of the facilities got around this by claiming to be rehab facilities and therefore are exempt. A pretty sneaky way to bypass asking that difficult question. I am now 59 and have been a DNR myself since 49. Reason being the chances of survival without some type of deficits are nil. Unless someone is standing over you with a defibrilator you are more likely dead. Please don't believe all the life saving stories you hear from rookie EMT's boasting about how they save lives, thats talking but not walking in reality. Dead is Dead. The American Heart Assoc. is another teller of tales. Their statistics are teribly flawed. They talk about treatments that are "evidence based" as well as bogus survival rates. Depends on who is getting paid for what evidence on a given day. Come up with a conclusion, then go find the evidence to support it. All to pay high administrative salaries. Don't believe it, it's 90% Bull@!$%#e.

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                                                                                            #17.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:56 PM EST

                                                                                            giadawd, You are so on target with your comments about the American Heart Association; yes, studying situations and trying to improve outcomes using after action reviews to see what could have been done more effectively is a good thing, and "evidence based" care is a good thing also, but come on- the American Heart Association changes the CPR 'ground rules' constantly so that they can print 'revised' CPR and ACLS manuals every couple of years, and ALL providers must then buy new training materials from, guess who...? Every time the manual is revised they say, "with our new 'evidence based' approaches the survival rate is improved", it's this kind of mumbo-jumbo makes people who have never worked in health care think that the modern medical system can cure all ills, even death itself. The best thing that they teach is just what you said, "dead is dead", so that a CPR responder can feel comfortable applying as much pressure as needed to to pump blood through the heart, even when the ribs start cracking; after all, if you commit to doing CPR, you have to try to do it with enough force to successfully circulate oxygen.

                                                                                            Once I heard a presenter at a medical conference say something so true that it startled me, and comforted me at the same time; "even with all our modern advances in health care," he said, "and with all the miracle drugs and high tech medical equipment, the mortality rate today is exactly the same as it was in ancient Egypt, 100%,... everybody dies."

                                                                                              #17.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:20 PM EST

                                                                                              I could not agree more, Giadawg. These posters do not know what the reality is until they have experienced it.

                                                                                              When they can say they've seen it...they've been there and watched; horrified by the suffering we inflict on people for the sake of "saving" them....then they can judge.

                                                                                                #17.3 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 11:28 AM EST
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                                                                                                Not enough information to make a statement but all of you have read into this story whatever pops into your mind. She was 87 and lived a long life. Move on. At 87, I don't expect anyone to do anything unless I am able to ask for it. I have told my three kids that if I have dementia and wander off on a cold night, just let Hypothermia take me. Geez - NONE OF US GET TO LIVE FOREVER and the living need to let go.

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                                                                                                Reply#18 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                                                                                If I'm 87 and in a nursing home, I would certainly not want any CPR.

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                                                                                                Reply#19 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                                                                                Get it in writing...now.

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                                                                                                #19.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:24 AM EST
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                                                                                                This was an 87 year old. Even with "successful" CPR, this elderly woman would have had almost zero chance of recovery. Here is a link. "Most patients live for a short period after CPR, but still die in the hospital. Only 1% to 4% of patients with multiple chronic illnesses or > age 70, survive to leave the hospital."

                                                                                                CPR is a real lifesaver for young people with no underlying major health problems. For the elderly it is a sure path to a prolonged painful hospital death. The story should have had that information.

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                                                                                                Reply#20 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                                                                                I performed CPR on my Mom in a restaurant in 2011. She was 87 at the time, just before her 88th birthday. She has cardiomyopathy...etc etc....I am a cardiac nurse and can say that CPR saves lives....but then you must look at the quality of life as well. ...hospice is different than assisted living/nursing home care. Not enough information really as noted above...but still....odd story, I would have done CPR if no DNR...and agree...keep folks at home with a CNA.

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                                                                                                #20.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:58 AM EST
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                                                                                                Appears once again the lawyers win. If you perform CPR and the lawyers get involved you're done. Wonderful where lawyers have taken America, huh?

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                                                                                                Reply#21 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                                                                                At 87 don't think that the CPR call would be correct. As well the 911 operator is in no position to make any judgement call. She was old, let her go. Those saying different are just wanting to use a lawyer for cash.

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                                                                                                Reply#22 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:47 AM EST

                                                                                                Then why did the nurse call 911?!

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                                                                                                #22.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:12 AM EST

                                                                                                Why on earth would anyone call 911 with a naturally occurring death in progress?

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                                                                                                #22.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:26 AM EST

                                                                                                Does anyone bother to read the articles anymore. She was following hospital policy to call 911.

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                                                                                                #22.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:10 AM EST

                                                                                                And, like someone else has already posted, 911 is called as part of the policy, probably to cover their a$$es so that the patient can be "pronounced" from natural causes, rather than from some other un-natural cause. (But, "un-natural" causes would also pend an autopsy, if there was suspicion.)

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                                                                                                #22.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:44 AM EST

                                                                                                They may have called 911, besides it being their policy, to get the elderly person to the hospital. This lady was not in a nursing home. Medicare requires a doctor's paperwork, from the hospital, to go to a nursing home and start the Medicare clock on payment. My grandmother went to the nursing home directly from the hospital for "rehabilitation" for a fractured pelvis after falling - and sat drugged in a wheelchair like a potted plant. And this was a "good" nursing home.
                                                                                                After 6 weeks of that, she went to hospice - the doctor (and all who work with the elderly) could see the end was near, and was gone in a week.

                                                                                                  #22.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:27 PM EST

                                                                                                  My dad had dementia living in MA with my mom and mentally handicapped sister while I lived in NV. I moved them all out here and within 6 mos my dad fell going upstairs. Paramedics were called by me daughter as she was staying with them while my husband and I were on vacation. He was brought to the hospital and they performed all the xrays and mris that were necessary and could not find a broken bone or anything else to keep him from walking. Anyway after the hospital stay(1 week) he was moved to a nursing/rehab home and deteriated from then on. He passed away 1 1/2 years later. We were with him when he died and yes he had a DNR. No paramedic or ambulance was called. I was completely satisfied with the care her received at this facility and thank god, no first responder was called. This nurse did the right thing, I think it was the aggression of the 911 operator who was problem.

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                                                                                                  #22.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 2:44 PM EST
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                                                                                                  Yep, I just knew there would be a whole lot of self righteous judges commenting on this article, how cruel the nurse was, etc. Have these posters ever worked in a nursing home? I have, and I don't believe I've ever seen a patient who wanted to be resuscitated when the "attack" happens. I believe that people know when their "time" has come, and they would consider it a mercy to "go" in a quick burst rather than lie there & suffer.

                                                                                                  Plus, as others have commented, when you are 87, what are your chances of a real recovery? Most likely if you are resuscitated, you will live a few months longer--with an IV in your arm, a catheter in your lower parts, and a tube in your throat.

                                                                                                  My personal designation for the initials CPR is "corpse-pounding routine". When I worked on the ambulance corps I did my share of pounding on corpses. None of us believed these patients would live. We just went thru the motions.

                                                                                                  I say kudos to the nurse, except she shouldn't have called 911. PS. EVERYONE with a medical problem should have an easily viewable set of instructions, such as "DNR" on their person at all times.

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                                                                                                  Reply#23 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:51 AM EST

                                                                                                  Green feather I'm glad you don't work for the ambulance service any more I'm glad they fired your sorry butt, Life means nothing to you only a pay check...........................

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                                                                                                  #23.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 9:17 AM EST

                                                                                                  Greenfeather1, I'm glad you understand what happens in this type of situation. This story is ridiculous! Most residents in these types of facilities have a DNR (do not resuscitate) on file. Many have their DNR information available for emergency personnel by posting it in their doorway. That way emergency personnel have explicit instructions not to perform CPR. They have lived their lives and do not want extreme measures taken to extend their lives.

                                                                                                  Like you stated they would end up having a miserable and painful existence for a few months in a hospital enduring one unnecessary medical test or procedure after another. Not only will they be suffering from what caused them to collapse (heart attack, stroke, etc.) but also from the cracked ribs and sternum caused from the CPR. Our elderly deserve to die on their terms, not ours. They deserve to die with dignity.

                                                                                                  I am a nursing student with only weeks to go before graduation. My passion and hope is to work in geriatrics and have taken every opportunity offered to work with our older population. I adore the elderly and want to help them any way I can, but I will not perform CPR on someone that has a DNR. It is their right to make their own end of life decisions and we need to respect them and allow them to die on their own terms and with dignity. When I speak to elderly patients/residents they all tell me the same thing - they have lived their lives and are ready to die. They want to be remembered. They do not want to spend their last days hooked up to machines and in pain.

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                                                                                                  #23.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:20 AM EST

                                                                                                  Most of the comments on this article seem to be based on our cultural fear of and avoidance of death. Death is inevitable. None of us gets out of this experience alive. When we administer CPR to an elderly person we are NOT prolonging their life, we're prolonging their dying process. Yes, life is sacred, but death is a natural part of life and trying to play GOD or superhero to save those who are clearly dying is ridiculous and futile. It may make YOU feel better, but I'm betting the person being "saved" would just as soon have been left alone.

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                                                                                                  #23.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:35 AM EST

                                                                                                  Very well said Wake Up-372468. We want to give our elderly the best care possible and that includes letting them die and not prolonging the process.

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                                                                                                  #23.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:06 PM EST

                                                                                                  I do have a question regarding this incident....Why didn't they give the woman some O2 and suction? DNR does not mean "Do Not Treat". It means do not rescusitate. They said she had taken three breaths. Why didn't they treat her? She isn't dead until she isn't breathing or is pulseless. That part has me baffled.

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                                                                                                  #23.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 5:20 PM EST

                                                                                                  As sparse as this article is on the facts...how can you know they didn't? How can you know they even had those things available? It wasn't a nursing home...they may not have. Even if they did, it probably would have still ended the same way.

                                                                                                    #23.6 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 12:51 PM EST
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                                                                                                    We live in a world that if the nurse failed or somehow didn't perform CPR correctly, she and the nursing home could be sued and prosecuted. This doesn't surprise me at all. People aren't willing to get involved in the affairs of others today for these fears alone. And honestly, the woman was 87 years old. You could've crushed her and caused more harm anyways.

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                                                                                                    Reply#24 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:52 AM EST

                                                                                                    This generation will never learn..

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                                                                                                    #24.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:21 AM EST

                                                                                                    paragus, Rob is correct. In the United States if you help someone YOU become liable. Why do you think medical costs are so high? Here in lawsuit-happy USA if a doctor does his job and anything goes wrong, the patient or the patient's family feel it's their god-given right to sue regardless of the circumstances.

                                                                                                    The only way you can ever safely help anyone in this overly-litigious country of ingrates is to help anonymously. Never give valid contact information or you will most likely hear from a lawyer regardless of the outcome. Or, just don't help.

                                                                                                    Things aren't like this in Europe, where if it's clear you did your best to help someone nobody is going to blame you, especially if the outcome is positive. Not so in the USA. This isn't a generation thing, just a simple fact. Sad but true.

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                                                                                                    #24.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:53 AM EST

                                                                                                    Ummm... Don't blame the lawyers entirely. Medical costs i.e. hospital bills are deemed "high" (like $400,000) because of breathtaking markups and triple billing... triple billing would be considered fraud in most other industries. Read TIME March 4, 2013.

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                                                                                                    #24.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 12:22 PM EST
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                                                                                                    What a ridiculous article! There's no mention of the critical information, was the patient DNR?!

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                                                                                                    Reply#25 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 8:55 AM EST

                                                                                                    You apparently can't read. The Nurse said SHE didn't agree with the Facilities Policies. Why was she even working there.

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                                                                                                    #25.1 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 10:39 AM EST

                                                                                                    Laz.... she was probably working there to feed herself... jobs seem to be pretty hard to come by the last 4 years for some reason.......

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                                                                                                    #25.2 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:03 AM EST

                                                                                                    "for some reason". Yeah, it's Obama's fault.

                                                                                                      #25.3 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:50 AM EST

                                                                                                      Really... because I remember it being Bush's fault. Maybe you need to go back on dementia meds.

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                                                                                                      #25.4 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 11:58 AM EST

                                                                                                      Hey, Laz. (That's) an outstanding personal attack launched in augman's direction. Apparently you're unable to insert punctuation as needed. In the event that "Why was she even working there." was intended to be a rhetorical question, it still requires a ? as opposed to a period. If you're going to be a tool, you might as well be a hammer. Have a wonderful day.

                                                                                                        #25.5 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 1:38 PM EST

                                                                                                        Shameless reporting, no doubt. I do blame the media for their lack of facts and putting out stories too quick and or not telling the truth...over throw the media, not the government.

                                                                                                        Crazy Miranda Lives on propaganda. Jefferson Airplane.

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                                                                                                        #25.6 - Sun Mar 3, 2013 3:08 PM EST

                                                                                                        That's kind of a naive emotional response don't you think?

                                                                                                        Let's face it, no good deeds go unpunished. The nurse did according to the mandate of her job position. Had she intervened, she could've lost her job... or worse, be sued. The hospital could also have been sued.

                                                                                                        Don't put the blame on the nurse, put it on the society and the law.

                                                                                                        One of the earliest this type of story I heard as a child. A man saw a woman collapse across the street. So he rushed across the street to help her, but instead was struck by car. He flew onto the car and broke the windshield.

                                                                                                        The driver of the car sued the man and won because he jaywalked. He ended up paying for the loss of the lawsuit and his own medical bill, not to mention he could've been killed in the car accident.

                                                                                                        Our laws do not protect heroism. Our society will take any opportunity to sue.

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                                                                                                        #25.7 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 12:56 AM EST

                                                                                                        Nothing that this nurse did - by her admission will ever be trusted again by any other person. I am glad that the press covered this news story for that reason.

                                                                                                        Anyone that says they would want this person to attend their family member is sick.

                                                                                                        We all make personal judgments every day.

                                                                                                        Her lack of integrity as a human being is well established and now publicly known.

                                                                                                        Moral decency used to be at the core of our laws.

                                                                                                        That abandonment is solicited by lawyers that are principally the very same men that preside on a majority of our nation's benches today - same beliefs, same depravity.

                                                                                                        Depravity is at the heart of this act of omission.

                                                                                                        Though she did not commit to saving the life of this person - I still say it was an omission because of her admission to the emergency dispatcher that she was a health care provider and willfully withheld that health care under her intended occupation.

                                                                                                        She was not a death nurse.

                                                                                                        She is a life-giving emergency responder.

                                                                                                        That actual role is what will cause this family to prevail if they pursue it in court.

                                                                                                        They should.

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                                                                                                        #25.8 - Mon Mar 4, 2013 6:06 AM EST
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