Canadian charged with rape after San Diego business trip

A Canadian man who visited San Diego was charged with rape by intoxication by the district attorney’s office.

Whistler resident Nelson Drake, 39, was arrested in Dallas, Texas, on Feb. 20 after an arrest warrant for $1 million was placed the day before. He was then extradited to San Diego and placed in the South Bay Detention Facility.

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At Drake’s arraignment, prosecutors said the rape occurred when he was in San Diego for a business convention.

Drake’s bail was placed at $100,000. If convicted, he faces up to eight years in prison.

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This story sure leaves alot out. How did they get together. What the -ell is rape by intoxication? They need to get better reporters.

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#1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:12 AM EST

I agree - give us some definition of what that is.

Is it possible the woman got drunk, they had sex, then later she was upset about it?

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#1.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:47 AM EST

Or maybe she was so drunk she forgot to get paid up front and he stiffed her. If you know what I mean Vern.

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#1.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:51 AM EST

GM Mary and Scooter and all the "Usual Suspects"

What the -ell is rape by intoxication?

It could be getting her drunks, slipping in "Roofies" (rohypnol?spelling) - commonly referred to as the "date rape drug", into her drink - or any combination of "skulduggery by the man.

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#1.3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:51 AM EST

Dammit - I hate to make a joke in the situation, but yes Mary, he "stiffed" her and may have stiffed her.

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#1.4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:30 AM EST

@sleepinsadie---- I hate to make light of it also, but the story is so lame,what else can you do. You sure can't make a serious comment.

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#1.5 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:38 AM EST

I wonder if the "business trip" included a short visit to a MJ grow operation.

    #1.6 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:33 AM EST

    Rape by intoxication? I thought you needed a pecker to do that...

      #1.7 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:36 AM EST

      It's generally when somebody is so intoxicated that they're not capable of giving consent or are passed out. Without a lot more details it's hard to say how valid this might be, he may have been quite drunk himself in which case it makes no sense to charge him as she would be just as guilty.

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      #1.8 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:03 AM EST

      @Ido

      Why would a Canadian go to an American grow op and risk a ridiculous US prison sentence when we can get it at home and only risk a fine....

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      #1.9 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:07 AM EST

      The article doesn't even say he raped a woman. Maybe he was partying with a bishop or a cardinal...

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      #1.10 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:09 AM EST

      If by "rape by intoxication" they mean the other person was too drunk to say no, well boo hoo.

      This is just another example of a liberal society refusing to accept personal accountability for their actions. You got drunk, you got laid, get over it. Don't ruin someone else's life because you make poor choices.

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      #1.11 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:35 AM EST

      You're saying that rapists shouldn't take accountability for their actions? You sound like a leftist. If he raped someone, he should be held accountable. We don't need an overly-permissive society where rapists feel a sense of entitlement. He should put his pecker away, make something of himself, and be a productive citizen.

        #1.12 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:13 PM EST

        @ Snoozer, maybe we should all hear more of the facts before we start calling him a rapist because at this point the charge of "rape by intoxication" makes me (and apparently everyone else) think that it was a night of drunken sex with morning regret...

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        #1.13 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:34 PM EST

        In California, rape by intoxication is where "the victim is prevented from resisting due to alcohol or drug intoxication." Presumably, this means that the victim was incapable of giving or refusing consent due to intoxication.

        Since the story absolutely sucks at details, my best guess would be that the victim went to the hospital and they found "date rape" medication (like Flunitrazepam) in their system along with DNA from the perp. If it were a "drunk and passed out" situation, there would likely have to be some other corroborating evidence (video, eye witnesses, etc.), since they had to go across state lines to catch up with this guy.

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        #1.14 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:53 PM EST

        I'm not saying a rapist shouldn't be accountable, Snoozer. I'm saying that this sounds exactly like Rose Colored Glasses described, which is, "a night of drunken sex with morning regret."

        I mean let's be honest here, with the advent of women's rights and the inevitable feeling of empowerment that came with that, coupled with the zealous over-protection of the female species in our society, there are a lot of witch-hunts conducted for alleged rapists who actually raped no one.

        It's beyond ridiculous that a woman only needs to mention the word rape and within 24-hours the accused's name is in the papers and on the news, his life wrecked forever regardless of the eventual outcome, yet her identity remains guarded. That is complete and utter bullsh!t.

        There needs to be accountability on both side of that situation.

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        #1.15 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 4:35 PM EST

        Yeah, I wonder how much Sarah Grieco got paid for writing that article. If it were any shorter [and any less informative], it could have been tweeted.

          #1.16 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 10:44 AM EST

          I'm not saying a rapist shouldn't be accountable, Snoozer. I'm saying that this sounds exactly like Rose Colored Glasses described, which is, "a night of drunken sex with morning regret."

          Carryingcongealed - Based just upon what is in the article, I don't think you can make any assumptions about the case.

          I agree that, if the alleged victim simply allowed herself to become intoxicated and did something she would not ordinarily have done, that is something for which she can only blame herself.

          But if the alleged rapist induced intoxication by doctoring her drink, which may be hard to prove, or if she passed out and he had sex with her after she had lost consciousness, that would constitute rape.

          From the "article", you cannot tell much of anything about the actual circumstances of the case. It is just another bang-up job by a modern media outlet.

            #1.17 - Sat Mar 9, 2013 10:52 AM EST

            In California, rape by intoxication is where "the victim is prevented from resisting due to alcohol or drug intoxication."

            So, all sex in California is rape?

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            #1.18 - Thu Mar 21, 2013 11:32 AM EDT

            It's generally when somebody is so intoxicated that they're not capable of giving consent or are passed out.

            but doesn't that automatically presume they would decline? What about presume acceptance?

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            #1.19 - Thu Mar 21, 2013 11:45 AM EDT
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            so they got ONE Canadian. how many Mexicans are walking around free doing the same thing? Which group poses the greater threat in San Diego for all crimes, not just rape? Or doesn't that fit into this weeks agenda?

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            Reply#2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:41 AM EST

            Gmornin' Scooter...

            I hear ya. The problem with illegals committing crime is that they are not even registered Americans. They don't even know who they're looking for.

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            #2.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:55 AM EST

            Hello??? Rape is rape, no matter who commits it. Someone's nationality is irrelevant.

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            #2.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:21 AM EST

            gm to all the usual suspects

            Valaunt,

            You are partially correct. A person's nationality is irrelevant in terms of committing the act of rape, unless you are compiling statistics about which nations have more rapes. Tramp and Creek Dog, however, are making the valid point that the policies of the Federal government and the sanctuary cities towards illegal aliens makes the job of finding and prosecuting rapists harder than it need be.

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            #2.3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:54 AM EST

            If Friends with Benefits is giving sex away for free and Casual Sex is giving away sex for free, Prostitution is selling sex... then why isn't rape STEALING? Just asking, don't get me wrong, I come from having been in relationships and having friendships with women who've been raped, beaten, molested etc. and definitely don't condone it, but with the way morals and values have gone to the sh!tter, a spade is a spade.

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            #2.4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:23 AM EST

            They were able to catch the guy because he came into the country legally and he had a job.

            Yes, nationality is irrelevant, but I don't see many canadians sneaking in this country illegally, at least not as many mexicans do.

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            #2.5 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:05 AM EST

            good morning, gang...

            I have a question... this is the first time I have ever seen a dollar value placed on a warrant.. a one million dollar warrant?

            And my take on why this guy was arrested so easily as opposed to the illegal aliens who aren't? He's a businessman who can be taken to the cleaners and when he runs to the border, he doesn't disappear into the jungle.

            All that aside, if he's guilty of rape, I can't think of a punishment too horrible for him. Well, I can, but if I print it on here I will be banned from Newsvine.

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            #2.6 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:30 AM EST

            Hey Scooter!!! I'm down here in San Diego & that is not necessarily true man!! @!$%# is happening everywhere & at all times, whether by Mexicans or others, just check your local news.

              #2.7 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:41 AM EST

              Rape is rape, no matter who commits it. Someone's nationality is irrelevant.

              Even a Canadian?

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              #2.8 - Thu Mar 21, 2013 11:34 AM EDT
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              He should be sentenced to 8 years living in Detroit.

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              Reply#3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 7:44 AM EST

              well i do believe in the death penalty so.....

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              #3.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:09 AM EST

              Detroit is already dead. Oh I got you now.

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              #3.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:15 AM EST

              as a quasi-citizen of midtown detroit I've seen lots of disparaging comments like this and have learned that they only come from people who have never been here. Not only would the United States of America not have grown into a super-power without Detroit, but it proably wouldn;t even exist today becuase Detroit along with Pittsburg provided the infastructure for the economic explosion that put America at the top and fueled the war-effort that stopped the german-emmpire in world war two. today while we do have problems we are a noble and resilient population that won't take no crap from irrelevant crap-talkers like you and if you ever dared to show up here talking like that we'd find a nice corner in the dequindre cut to show you a sky-line view of the great city and the promise of a new tommorow that it offers to all of its native sons and daughters you douche.

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              #3.3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:46 AM EST

              and falling on hard economic times doesn't equal death mary, stop being such a money-obssessed-alarmist please.

                #3.4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:50 AM EST

                I would rather live in Syria than Detroit.

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                #3.5 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:06 AM EST

                I went through Detroit one time on my way to Canada. It was on the radio that if you get lost don't get off the interstate to ask for directions, just keep on going till your out of Detroit. This was years ago. Must be lovely now.

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                #3.6 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:11 AM EST

                notoc, well no one would ever make the mistake of inviting you to detroit anyway so you won't have to worry about that we're on the rise again due to a new sense of purpose and industrial-drive and small-mindded chumps like yourself will only slow down the progress that w're making. and mary yeah it was probably the farmington hill stations taht you were listening to and since they want to be michigan's next-biggest city all they do is crap-talk about detroit through all of their broadcasts so don';t beliieeve that nonsense, people in detroit havea great sense of geography andd can help you out with most any location-relatted quesstion that you have.

                  #3.7 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:20 AM EST

                  Oh stop BSing people LittleHater you're going to get innocent people hurt and/or killed. The people there are sub-human just like the south and west sides of Chicago.

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                  #3.8 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:00 PM EST

                  if people from detroit are so "sub-human" then why have we donated more money to charitable causes than baltimore has you tool? Does that make them even less humans than us are? You're such a stupid moron to say that people will die if they go to detroit, thousands of people visit there everyday and dont die and chicago has more homicidies there now than detroit does anyyway so why dontyou go and critique their way of life instead and leeave more respectable-cititess alone you coarse-malloaderr.

                    #3.9 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:09 PM EST

                    Lot of dumb in these comments about Detroit. Detroit has some of the best examples of Art Deco architecture in the world. On a nice day you will see many of the people who work in the office buildings along the river having lunch in one of several parks. The suburbs of Detroit are sprawling and affluent.

                    Yes there is decay in Detroit. The auto industry left behind a great deal of empty housing and decaying factories but it is nothing more than you will see in Toledo or South Bend or Gary or a dozen other cities in the midwest.

                    Detroit will rise again. Many of you commenting here probably never did in the first place.

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                    #3.10 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:40 PM EST
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                    So if she gets drunk and has sex it's considered rape, but if he gets drunk he is responsible for his every action. Where are the womens groups protesing this outrageous double standard. When women teachers molest a young man they lose their job, but when a male teacher does the same with a young woman he gets lots of time to reflect in the big house. The conclusion would be that young men are mentally developed and can make decisions for themselves and the young women are pliable dolts that need to be protected. One then must conclude that the male of the species is vastly superior and held responsible to a much higher standard than the mindless waifs. Oh yeah that would exclude all areas that are desirable or economically viable, then it's a completely level field. Now, in no way do I hold these ideas as true, but for some reason the legal system does and womens groups fail to have any issue with it at all.

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                    Reply#4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:17 AM EST
                    Comment author avatarThomas Hansonvia Facebook

                    Exactly. Rape because she can't handle her liquor?

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                    #4.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:50 AM EST

                    One might just as easily conclude that there is a class of men who find intoxication and low self esteem as desireable attributes in a potential partner.

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                    #4.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:58 AM EST

                    If he slipped her something then of course it's rape, but if she was drunk because she choose to drink too much then as far as I'm concerned she's responsible for her own actions. It's not a crime if a person gets drunk and then makes a poor decision that they regret the next morning it's being an irresponsible drinker.

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                    #4.3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:19 AM EST

                    So shouldn't female drunk drivers not be responsible too. After all they were to drunk to make a responsible decision. Actually they should charge the male in the passenger seat, wether sober or drunk.

                    And how about that kid was told to pay child support after getting his teacher pregnant, and she was charged for statuatory rape.

                    But as far as this story goes, we have no facts at this time, just an odd undefined charge.

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                    #4.4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:43 AM EST

                    @Explorerdog,

                    You're assuming a lot here. But to your point about the law and how it's applied to men and women, the law doesn't state that the victim need be a woman. Nor does this article (on MSNBC anyway) state the gender of the victim. In the best of situations, ANY rape victim has a long, difficult road ahead of them if they choose to prosecute. And let's face the statistics--Men are typically the aggressors and they use many means to get what they want. When a law is passed of this nature, it's because men are performing these acts.

                    Lastly, it's my opinion that women require a certain level of protection from violence over what we might provide to men. Just the fact that we need 'safe houses' for women bears that out.

                      #4.5 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:13 PM EST
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                      One tequila, Two tequila, Three tequila, Rape!!! Really Rape by intoxication... Wonder how many drinks both of them had before this supposed rape took place.

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                      Reply#5 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:26 AM EST

                      it doesn't say anywhere in this story that this man drinks aocohol to excess so stop trying to slander his chracter by making accusations like that. I happen to know someone who once met him and they said that he seemed fine and never mentioned anything about him drinking, raping, or causing any sort of problem whatsoever so until you actually have proof about that crap that you're saying stop you tool.

                        #5.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:26 AM EST

                        LitterHater, you have it backwards. If this guy was also drunk it wouldn't be rape. If he was sober and she was too drunk to consent then it would be rape. You're trying to defend this guy by saying he never drinks too excess; if that's the case, then he does rape to excess (once). If you're his fan, you need to hope he was also too drunk to consent.

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                        #5.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:04 PM EST

                        LittleHater's mom taught him how to resort to personal attacks and name-calling.

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                        #5.3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:04 PM EST

                        well kaleb since it's been a friggin year since someone got it into this girls' head that her once and a likfetime encounter with someone who's actually down to earth and real wasn't legal I can't prove that he wasn't drunk since his b.a.c, will obviously be 0 right now and you can't prove that he was drunk for the same damn reason. what it's up to the court to decide is how much of a penalty this girl should get for slanderring this very successful man of industry's reputation after hhe's found innocent and i hope that the girl has to do ilelgal ctivitieis to raise enogu hmoney to fund the guy's lawyer-fees that he shouldn't have to pay for either. kaleb you are irresponsbile and i can also tell that you are or would makea bad fatherr so please stop trying to impunge on an onn-oging investigation with your irrelelvant speculation and please stick to the facts that are recordedd in the article.

                          #5.4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:20 PM EST
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                          A few more details:

                          A BC man faces charges of "rape by intoxication" in San Diego.

                          Nelson Drake, 39, of Whistler, was arrested in Dallas on Feb. 20 and extradited to the southern California city, the San Diego District Attorney's office said in a news release.

                          The felony charge stems from an alleged sexual encounter with a woman when Drake was in that city last year for a convention.

                          The Union-Tribune newspaper reports that Drake pleaded not guilty in San Diego court Tuesday. A judge set his bail at US$100,000 and said he could remain under house arrest at his boss's house, with electronic monitoring, if he could post the bond.

                          Drake reportedly works for Centerplate, an event catering company that says its clients include more than 250 sports and entertainment venues in North America. The company website says it has provided event hospitality to 13 Super Bowls, 21 World Series, 30 US presidential inaugural balls and the 2010 Olympic Games.

                          If convicted, Drake faces up to eight years in prison.

                          http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/sunnews/world/archives/2013/03/20130306-081445.html

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                          Reply#6 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:28 AM EST

                          To clear this whole thing up, maybe we could have Missouri Rep. Todd Akin determine whether this was legitimate or illegitimate rape.

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                          Reply#7 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 8:33 AM EST

                          Or maybe we could have Joe Biden support legislation to provide every American woman over the age of 17 with a double barrel shotgun. Unlike your suggestion, this would also provide shovel-ready jobs ..... both before and after the attempted rape.

                          • 4 votes
                          #7.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:02 AM EST

                          Hey Denver, Can Joe make mine a Winchester. I always wanted one.

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                          #7.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:21 AM EST

                          denver bill 2 says:

                          "Or maybe we could have Joe Biden support legislation to provide every American woman over the age of 17 with a double barrel shotgun."

                          I don't think Joe would do that. You are thinking of Sarah Palin or Mitt Romney.

                          Unfortunately for you, Sarah has gone back to Alaska -- to look for Russia.

                          And Mitt? Last time I saw him, his dog had locked him in a box on top the car and driven off on vacation.

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                          #7.3 - Thu Mar 7, 2013 1:35 PM EST
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                          as a soon-to-be-half-canadian-man I can tell you that we are very charming and sensual people which is how this woman liekly got into a linen-cacoon with this gentleman to begin with. The thing we are bad at however is calling these women who instantly fall insanely in love with us back after the fact and we typically flee the state/province becuase we don't know what else to do and then they forget why they fell for us in the first palce and assume that the lustyness that tehy felt towards us must have been caused by some chemical-coercision since no person can really be that desirerable they think and then they do this rape claim and we end up in a courtroom where we then charm and seduce the jury into a innocent verdict so everything will work out fine here and don't worry about either party involved. hot air balloon-season is coming up though in the norhtern-hemipshere so get ready for a lot more crazinness to come.

                            #8 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:13 AM EST

                            @Litter Hater--- That's the funniest comment I've read all day. I can't wait to get my Canadian Hunk calendar every year. But now the day is still young.

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                            #8.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:27 AM EST

                            Litter Hater--- What do you mean a soon to be half Canadian man. They're not going to wack off your pee pee are they.

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                            #8.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:34 AM EST

                            mary, there's nothing funny about false accusations by americans on foreign people who they misunderstand. And you don't need this hunk calendar stuff because canadians aren't more attractive than your americans they're just more intellect, maybe buy a book from a male-canadian author and you'll discover what i mean but these psoters won't help you out at all in apprecaition of who they really are.

                              #8.3 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:35 AM EST

                              mary no I mean that I've been following this unbelievably cool canadian girl on twitter for a while now and am getting ready to take the plunge and hit on her a little bit which hopefully will lead to marriage and dual-citizenship that's all.

                                #8.4 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:37 AM EST

                                Hey LitterHater, becoming half Canadian through marriage won't make you any smarter. I doubt any nationality's intelligent population would ever claim to be more intelligent than any other's. But you go there and try to act more intelligent, it would do you some good.

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                                #8.5 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:50 AM EST

                                hey kdfm you big tough internet guy here's a cool story for you: in the year 637 the byzantine emperor bernard cornellius declared that the byzatntine aristocratic class was superior to the aristocratic class of any other cvilizaed nation in the world so they had what you could compare to a today's math-olympics contest and won in a landslide proving that some nations are smarrter than others and then as a concolsation prize emporeor cornellius awarded all lossing aristoratics from the foreign nations precious jewels from his salt mines showing that intelligent people are more generous too you loser. so yeah canadians do tend to be more respeonsbile and more smarter but with your restricted mental-capacities you'd probably never be able to recngonize or understanndd that anyway so keep being ignorant you moron.

                                  #8.6 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:57 AM EST

                                  Hey Litter Hater-- That's why I made the comment I did. Because no smart Canadians are posting on here today. Just joking with you.

                                    #8.7 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:01 AM EST

                                    mary maybe you';ve never heard of tim horton's then? Just go down the line of their corporate chain and ther'es nothing but geniouses and men and women who are years ahead of their time intellectually, go ahead I'll wait and then expect a apology or some sort of reason why you hate these people from your own life-experiences, liekly though this is just anti-canadia prejudice that americans seem to have which got this innocncent man from the article arrrested.

                                      #8.8 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:06 AM EST

                                      Litter, you make some semi valid points but claiming your intellectual superiority in a bunch of posts filled with typo's sort of undercuts your argument.

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                                      #8.9 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:47 AM EST

                                      LitterHater, I'm curius as to what a half Canadian is. I was born Canada and am now an American citizen. I have dual citizenship and when I cross the northern border, I'm a Canadian. What the hell are you talking about?

                                        #8.10 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:48 AM EST

                                        I'm glad that you asked that jamie because this is something that a lot of people get tripped-up on and I'd like to clear the record for those people. Because citizenship is a theoretical thing and not a physical state you can never truly be all of anything except for human/ a person but i've founda way to become still my human self but while identifying with a nationality that also makes up some of who i am. that's why after i marry my canadidian girtlfriend and she asking me to move itno her canadian apartment i will become a half-canidan since she makes up my other half of my being and is all-canadian herself theoretically but since we're also both all physically-human in makeup this would make her 75% percent candian and me %50 percent canadian and 50% detroit and 50% dual-citizen for each. therefore together we'll eacch be a cpmplete part of ourselves but will still also encompass the territories that we physically live in so that even when i go back to visist the detroit i will still be half-candian in principlle while also retaining mmy status as a persson.

                                          #8.11 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:06 AM EST

                                          LittleHater's real name is Manti Te'o.

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                                          #8.12 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:08 PM EST

                                          LittleHater - so you've been following a girl on Twitter, and you've somehow made the leap that you're going to be emigrating to another country? Seriously, dude - adjust your meds. Have you even met this girl? How do you know she's not a 350lb male lumberjack?

                                          Hot air balloons, Tim Hortons, Byzantine Empire? You're even more all over the place today than usual.

                                            #8.13 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:55 PM EST

                                            I can't decide if I smell troll or catfish.

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                                            #8.14 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:21 PM EST

                                            way to try and deflect foccus from the very serious nature of this story mifo but since you've just gotta know I'll tell you that we met on chatroullete late one night after a busy-time at the dance-hall and I mustve been looking good or whatever cause she wanted to then get my phonne number but since i didnt have a phone at the time i gave her my neighbors number and they talked for a few weeks and then he said that she was actually pretty cool and wanted to meet up with me but since i'd only seen her wearing a president's mask i wanted pictures of her face first so i got her twitter account name and followed it then approved of her pictures and am now saving up for a few day trip to see her and meanwhile her and my neighbor still talk occasisioanlly on the weeknds. that's how most american and canadaian-women meet however which is why i even bother to tell you that since it's porobably a similiar situation to what lead up to the two people in this article meeting up. the modern-day communication technology can be a grea ttool but it must be used responsbily and i want to make sure that people dont think that this canadian guy here was threatning her over their cell phones for them to have sexual-relationns because taht's not what even happened but the tabloids blow this crap way out of proportion and these idiot bottom-feeders just mesh it all up and then go crazy over itt.

                                              #8.15 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:31 PM EST

                                              LitterHater,

                                              Thanks for the clarification. :)

                                              It's troll.

                                                #8.16 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:41 PM EST

                                                oh my, little hater.....there are no words for your debonair personality....I think I may swoon....

                                                  #8.17 - Thu Mar 7, 2013 8:41 AM EST
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                                                  It was probably the most polite rape ever.

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                                                  Reply#9 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:28 AM EST

                                                  Useless article.

                                                    Reply#10 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 9:29 AM EST

                                                    A drunk monkey wrote it.

                                                      #10.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:12 AM EST
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                                                      "Rape by intoxication" - i.e., you drink a little too much, have sex, and were therefore raped by definition. But if he was intoxicated too, who do you charge, the man or the woman?

                                                      Are women inherently inferior, and thus are unable to make choices and are automatically a victim when both parties have had a couple of beers? (2 beers in one hour = too intoxicated to legally drive.)

                                                      8 years in jail because you meet somebody, have some wine, and end up in bed together?!!

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                                                      Reply#11 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:00 AM EST

                                                      It's because of anatomy.

                                                      It's an anatomic difference,

                                                      although I fail to see how having exterior reproductive organs makes a person less prone to hurt them or being taken advantage of.

                                                      Another reason for people to avoid all this is to keep it in their pants or avoid drinking and making sure the other person is not already drunk.

                                                        #11.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:15 AM EST
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                                                        Hey MSN. Can you give a few more details not of the attack but just the body of the story? The headline seems to tell more of the story than the body of the story does.

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                                                        Reply#12 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:10 AM EST

                                                        Pretty bad reporting. We got nothing out of this MSN. Pathetic. Just an a** load of sensationalism. That's not reporting...

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                                                        Reply#13 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 10:54 AM EST

                                                        Can't really blame someone from another country thinking it's ok to rape an American, with the way they constantly vote in those who do the same!

                                                          Reply#14 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:08 AM EST

                                                          I'm sure 'they' were intoxicated instead of 'he' was intoxicated. What a joke! He probably didn't put out the way she was use to before from men at bars and now he's accused of rape?

                                                          What a waste of time even reading this article. Women at bars are all the same! Slutty!!

                                                            Reply#15 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:26 AM EST

                                                            This article gives no details. But being from San Diego, it reads like a typical San Diego news report. They need to get some native English speaking reporters because most of what they write is almost unbearable to read.

                                                              Reply#16 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 11:50 AM EST

                                                              You are all missing the whole point of this story. If we banned penises and alcohol, this wouldn't have happened.

                                                                Reply#17 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:02 PM EST

                                                                Good one! Those bans will soon arrive.

                                                                The corporate-oligarchic-theocratic 'police state' is just warming up Mr. Steady. :-(

                                                                  #17.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:36 PM EST

                                                                  Piers Morgan: I don't understand why anyone NEEDS a high capacity penis capable of firing such a high volume of semen at one time.

                                                                  Guest: But Piers, that same weapon is used by many men to eliminate urine.

                                                                  Piers: What a ridiculous argument. A catheter could be used to do the same thing.

                                                                    #17.2 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 3:02 PM EST
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                                                                    San Diego home to illegals,navy personnel and a bar hopping scene in old town.I'm not surprised that he was able to pick up a one night stand who now has regrets about her choice.

                                                                      Reply#18 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:07 PM EST

                                                                      I've been to San Diego plenty of times. Men do not rape the women there. It is the women who rape the men. Fast ladies all.

                                                                        Reply#19 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:13 PM EST

                                                                        Nelson... this isn't going to go well for you. In the US when a woman charges you with rape... you will have to prove why you are not guilty. Your word against hers. Good luck with that!!

                                                                        Rape by intoxication? You mist have been forcing her to drink into oblivion. Right?

                                                                          Reply#20 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:17 PM EST

                                                                          Canadians are the new ugly americans. Traveling abroad recently I noticed a lot of canadians mistreating people and acting like they had just conquered the people of the country we were visiting. Apparently the days of canadians being generally good is over.

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                                                                          Reply#21 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:24 PM EST

                                                                          They sound just like Brazilians.

                                                                            #21.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 12:31 PM EST
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                                                                            Dear "marywhatever", according to my website connection this story is 6 hours old and the arrest warrant issued about 15 days ago. Doesn't say when the actual incident happened. The suspect hasn't even been arraigned yet, only held on a arrest warrant. The entire article is only 5 sentences long! What did you expect, Dostoevsky's "Crime and Punishment"?

                                                                              Reply#22 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:01 PM EST

                                                                              <<<Whistler resident Nelson Drake, 39, was arrested in Dallas, Texas, on Feb. 20 after an arrest warrant for $1 million was placed the day before>>>

                                                                              I made many arrests although never heard of " an arrest warrant for $1million"....whatever the hell that refers to-bond? Arrest warrants have nothing to do with bonds.

                                                                              Another sign of declining English literacy?

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                                                                              Reply#23 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 1:29 PM EST

                                                                              Dear franz...I am not an attorney. However, if I read this correctly a Canadian man was arrested in Texas for a felony committed in California. Hmmmmmm? Could be they were worried this guy would flee? I don't know how much weight an out of state arrest warrant carries but if the wording is anywhere near correct I suspect those issuing the warrant didn't want the arresting agents to let this guy bail out for the equivalent of a traffic ticket. I have read countless stories (and still do) about a felon on the run arrested out of state who is not immediated correctly ID'd and is set free for on a low bail. Maybe its just an attempt for the CA authorities to tag this guy before bail.

                                                                                #23.1 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 2:51 PM EST
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                                                                                After reading the above, one wonders how many idiots there are.

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                                                                                Reply#24 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 2:17 PM EST

                                                                                Even the poor Canadians have to worry about the crazy Americans that have designated themselves as the world police. I thought the Americans just locked up poor Arabs and Mexicans but now they are looking North as well.

                                                                                  Reply#25 - Wed Mar 6, 2013 3:27 PM EST
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