Can a gay Boy Scout share a tent with another boy? Boy Scouts survey members on anti-gay policy

Darrell Byers / Reuters file

Robin O'Neal holds a sign during a prayer vigil at the Boy Scouts of America headquarters in Irving, Texas, on Feb. 6. The Boy Scouts of America have delayed until May a vote on whether to end a controversial ban on gay members.

“Bob is 15 years old, and the only openly gay Scout in a Boy Scout troop. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for the troop leader to allow Bob to tent with a heterosexual boy on an overnight camping trip?”

“Tom started in the program as a Tiger Cub, and finished every requirement for the Eagle Scout Award at 16 years of age. At his board of review Tom reveals that he is gay. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for the review board to deny his Eagle Scout award based on that admission?” 

These are some of the questions on a survey being conducted by the Boy Scouts of America as the private youth organization prepares to decide whether it should end its controversial policy banning gay Scouts and leaders. The Boy Scouts intends to make a decision in late May on the ban, which has roiled the organization in recent years.

More than 1.4 million surveys have been emailed to registered volunteers, parents of Scouts and alumni. The questionnaires were part of a biannual survey, “The Voice of the Scout Survey,” that the BSA conducts of leaders, parents and youth over 14 years old. But this time, the BSA used the survey to add questions about the policy banning gays (those questions went only to adults).


BSA spokesman Deron Smith, who provided the questions on the survey to NBC News, said in an email that “the BSA is committed to dialogue on the topic of its membership standards policy, within the Scouting family at the local and national levels.” The group was in the listening phase, which included the survey of key stakeholders, he added. 

The Boy Scouts’ policy has increasingly been a sore spot for the organization over the last year, following the dismissal of a den leader because she is a lesbian and the denial of the Eagle Scout rank to a California teen because he is gay. Some of the questions on the survey provide similar scenarios and ask respondents how acceptable or unacceptable these situations are.

Tristam Harrington

Tristam Harrington, an assistant district commissioner of the Water and Woods Field Service Council in Michigan, provided a screenshot of the survey, which he completed Wednesday morning.

When the BSA announced in late January that it may ditch the national policy and instead let local sponsoring organizations decide if gays can join, the organization received a flood of responses from both sides. It then decided to push a decision to May, when some 1,400 members of Scouting's National Council will vote on a resolution the Boy Scouts' officers are crafting on the policy. The survey results will be shared with those officers, Smith said.

Tristam Harrington, an assistant district commissioner for the Scouts in Okemos, Mich., who opposes changing the policy, said he thought the BSA had done a good job with the survey.


The members “have the right to have their say and I think it’s better for them to understand exactly where their membership stands,” he said Wednesday. “Are you just assuming it needs to change or is this really a groundswell from within the organization? Is this an outside influence? A combination of both? … You don’t really know unless you ask, and I think it’s fabulous that they’re actually, you know, taking the time to now ask.”

Steve Gates, Scoutmaster of Troop 98 in Taos, N.M., who supports changing the policy, agreed with Harrington.

 “They come at it from all sides and I think that’s good. I don’t see it as any kind of a biased survey,” he said.

But he added that some of the questions may rile up some members opposed to the change who could perceive talk on the issue in the survey as having validated homosexuality.

The survey was developed by a third-party research provider, North Star Opinion Research, with input from volunteer and professionals representing diverse viewpoints, Smith said. The Boy Scouts have asked for the surveys to be returned by April 4.

The BSA also asked if the currently policy was a “core value” of Scouting and if respondents would leave the BSA if a decision was made that disagreed with their view.

Other questions on the survey include:

  • A gay male troop leader, along with another adult leader, is taking a group of boys on a camping trip following the youth protection guidelines of two-deep leadership. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for the gay adult leader to take adolescent boys on an overnight camping trip?
  • A troop is chartered by an organization that does not believe homosexuality is wrong and allows gays to be ministers. The youth minister traditionally serves as the Scoutmaster for the troop. The congregation hires a youth minister who is gay. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for this youth minister to serve as the Scoutmaster? 
  • Johnny, a first grade boy, has joined Tiger Cubs with his friends. Johnny’s friends and their parents unanimously nominate Johnny’s mom, who is known by them to be lesbian, to be the den leader. Johnny’s pack is chartered to a church where the doctrine of that faith does not teach that homosexuality is wrong. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for his mother to serve as a den leader for his Cub Scout den?
  • David, a Boy Scout, believes that homosexuality is wrong. His troop is chartered to a church where the doctrine of that faith also teaches that homosexuality is wrong. Steve, an openly gay youth, applies to be a member in the troop and is denied membership. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for this troop to deny Steve membership in their troop?

If you are a current or former member of the Boy Scouts and would like to share your thoughts on how your troop, pack or council is handling the BSA's decision on the membership policy, you can email the reporter at miranda.leitsinger@msnbc.com. We may use some comments for a follow-up story, so please specify if your remarks can be used and provide your name, hometown, age, Boy Scout affiliation and a phone number.

Related stories: 

Boy Scouts: We need more time for decision on gay Scouts

After years of heartache, gay Scouts and supporters react warily over proposal to lift ban

'Gravely distressed': Religion looms large over Boy Scouts decision on gays 

'BATTLESTATIONS!': Call-in war waged over Boy Scouts' ban on gays


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Comment author avatarWilliam Morrison-6819231Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Lawsuits, homo rape are just a few problems this issue will have!

  • 71 votes
#1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 12:58 PM EDT

Would one condone male/female tent accommodations? I think not, especially given the ages of such young people and their raging hormones.

Since the definition of homosexuality is a sexual attraction to members of the same gender, sharing a tent would be unwise and asking for trouble.

  • 168 votes
#1.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:28 PM EDT
Comment author avatarThe CompanyExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Umm...Statistically speaking, a scout (or any prepubescent boy, for that matter) is much more likely to be sexually assaulted by a heterosexual than he is a homosexual.

Since the definition of homosexuality is a sexual attraction to members of the same gender, sharing a tent would be unwise and asking for trouble.

Basically, you are saying that gays are not capable of being in the same room with the same gender without the strong, overpowering urge to rape them.

When you walk into a room and see an attractive member of the opposite sex, is your first instinct to go and rape them? Probably not, or you'd be in prison. I am a straight male, and I have spent nights and shared rooms with female friends, and it never became sexual.

  • 124 votes
#1.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:28 PM EDT
Comment author avatarTimothy1MilExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

No way on earth would I allow my son to tent with a known homosexual. Homosexuality is deviant, demonic behavioral. Never.

  • 121 votes
#1.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:32 PM EDT

Basically, you are saying that gays are not capable of being in the same room with the same gender without the strong, overpowering urge to rape them.

You're right on this, but his first point still stands.

Would you let 14 or 15 year old boys and girls share tents together overnight?

  • 82 votes
#1.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:41 PM EDT
Comment author avatarjustrossExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Timothy-

are you worried that your son will be "converted" to homosexuality?

  • 68 votes
#1.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:49 PM EDT
Comment author avatarvoxrationisExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Timothy1Mil

No way on earth would I allow my son to tent with a known homosexual. Homosexuality is deviant, demonic behavioral. Never.

Well, aren't we the self righteous one? People who talk this way always have horrendous skeletons hanging in their closets. And of course there is another tendency that goes along with being homophobic!

And how do you know your kid hasn't slept in a tent with someone who was gay? I was in the Cub Scouts and Webelo's (say that slowly) as a kid and I have no doubt there was probably someone in my troops that likely was homosexual. But back in that day that was not a subject for discussion. And I remember a few scoutmasters who were kind of sweet and always willing to help out. They were usually the ones who cared the most about us. But they were married and had kids. So they couldn't have been gay, right? LOL!

To each his own. I prefer blond women with green eyes and curvy bodies. But that's not what everyone seeks in a mate.

  • 67 votes
#1.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:56 PM EDT

You're right on this, but his first point still stands.

Would you let 14 or 15 year old boys and girls share tents together overnight?

That is not exactly an equivalent comparison. 14 or 15 year old boys and girls are likely to be attracted to one another. This boy is the only openly gay one in the troop. It's highly doubtful that there would be a mutual attraction between the boys. And, as The Company stated, just because the boy is gay does not mean he is going force himself on his tentmate. Being gay does not make you a monster. They could very possibly be friends, both inside and outside scouts, so why would the boy want to hurt the other?

  • 77 votes
#1.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:00 PM EDT
Comment author avatarPatrick -632150Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Wet Willy - seems to think that gay people can't control their "raging hormones"...lol....I think people that believe that one can't control their "hormones" must have their OWN issues with controlling their "hormones" otherwaise they wouldn't have such a twisted view. I suggest that all the little girls in Wet Willy's neighborhood beware...even his nieces since he can't control these "hormone" rages.

Also, check the studies and the stats - overwhelmingly they both show that 90 plus percent of all pedophiles are hetero sexual white males......hmmmm.....sound familiar Wet Willy?

  • 45 votes
#1.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:08 PM EDT

Homosexual boys are more interested in OTHER homosexual boys. If you trained your kids right, you could put boys and girls together in tents and not worry. And I should like to point out, if you WOULD worry, then it's going to happen anyway (sex that is). So stop worrying so much.

  • 53 votes
#1.9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:09 PM EDT

Can a gay boy scout share a tent with another boy? Um, they already do, don't they? You want to discriminate against them because they have the strength to own up to it honestly? I think it may send a conflicting message to the child considering "honesty" is supposed to be one of the boy scouts oaths, correct? Or am I wrong on this? After all, this comes directly from the Boy Scouts promises:

"Being morally straight means to live your life with honesty, to be clean in your speech and actions, and to be a person of strong character."

  • 66 votes
#1.10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:11 PM EDT
Comment author avatarYafoolsfosho!Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Dennis...then why don't they develop a Gay boy scouts?...simple..isn't it?

  • 66 votes
#1.11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:11 PM EDT
Comment author avatarMickey-1983943Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Some Guy,

"Would you let 14 or 15 year old boys and girls share tents together overnight?"

That's like comparing apples and oranges. With females, there is always the risk of pregnancy. I have yet to see a male get pregnant.

  • 10 votes
#1.12 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:20 PM EDT
Comment author avatarlexus114Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

This Homosexual stuff is getting out of control. And no matter how much they push people, it will always be a sin against god and nature!!

  • 71 votes
#1.13 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:22 PM EDT

Lexus,

A sin against your god perhaps... not mine. Nature? I think not. Nature makes no sin. Period.

  • 62 votes
#1.14 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:25 PM EDT

If a straight boy scout doesn't want to share a tent with a gay boy scout, is he going to be sued for being biased?

  • 51 votes
#1.15 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:25 PM EDT

I support gay rights but I'm going to say no. Just like I'd say no to a boy and a girl sharing the same tent at their age.

  • 41 votes
#1.16 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:26 PM EDT
Comment author avatarjrae-1215199Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

It's only "straight" people that think homosexuality is only about sex - and predatory sex at that! Educate yourselves, people.

  • 51 votes
#1.17 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:27 PM EDT

Timothy1Mil

No way on earth would I allow my son to tent with a known homosexual. Homosexuality is deviant, demonic behavioral. Never.

So if the homosexual was unknown, that would be okay right? In other words, if you didn't know the kid was a homosexual, that would be okay with you.

  • 30 votes
#1.18 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:28 PM EDT

I personally don't agree with homosexuality because it is morally wrong...but I would rather have my son with another gay scout than a gay scout leader. Mainly because they would be with someone of their own age and I am sure that they would be fine...as with an adult they are weaker and can't always fight off improper behavior. That happens every where...not only in scouts but in the church and unfortunately at homes. My opinion,only!

  • 17 votes
#1.19 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:28 PM EDT
Comment author avatarDarkShadow1701Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

Hey Lexus, homosexuality has been observed in just about every species on the planet in NATURE. Funny thing is that mating for life is only found in a handful of species. So what is more unnatural, homosexuality or marriage?

  • 29 votes
#1.20 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:28 PM EDT
Comment author avatarlexus114Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

There is only ONE God. And just because the Bible is old does not make it invalid.

  • 48 votes
#1.21 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:30 PM EDT

lexus114,

"it will always be a sin against god and nature!!"

Tell me how it is possible to sin against nature. Although we often speak of "mother nature", that's just a figure of speech. Nature is not really a person. Besides, being gay is perfectly natural for gay people. For them to behave otherwise would be unnatural.

  • 36 votes
#1.22 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:30 PM EDT

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    #1.23 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:31 PM EDT

    what a query that is .....

    • 2 votes
    #1.24 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:32 PM EDT
    Comment author avatarlexus114Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    You all twist things to make it all in your favor, but it isnt. Its just plain wrong. And I have never seen two dogs ,or Cats or any other animal try and have sex together with the same gender. Nice try.

    • 28 votes
    #1.25 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:32 PM EDT

    OMG the ignorance of you homophobes is just astounding. Therefore I will attempt to educate you:

    A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female.

    STOP being so ignorant. Gay and lesbian people have been around since the beginning of humanity. Stop your irrational fear of them. This coming from a happily married heterosexual.

    • 40 votes
    #1.26 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:32 PM EDT

    There is only ONE God. And just because the Bible is old does not make it invalid.

    Prove it.

    The reason the Bible is invalid is because it is a book on contradictions and falsehoods. It is a book of symbolism that people use to control other people. Of course you probably think that there is enough water on the Earth to actually create a flood that covers it entirely.

    • 24 votes
    #1.27 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:35 PM EDT

    Maybe I am being too realistic, but haven't they already been doing this with boys who have not come out? Or boys who have not realized their orientation?

    Isn't this the same complaint about military members sharing barracks... even though they have ALWAYS shared barracks with homosexuals?

    So, from what I understand, if someone says the words "I'm gay", that suddenly makes it unacceptable to share a tent. But if they do not utter those two words, then it is acceptable? So saying two words will completely change everything? Wow... people give words far too much power.

    • 37 votes
    #1.28 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:35 PM EDT

    Everyone knows that heterosexual males cannot help themselves from raping females when left alone in their presence which is why we seperated them from the girl scouts thus it is only natural for these people to also believe that homosexual males cannot stop themselves from raping males when left alone in their presence. That makes a lot of sense to me. Gotta keep the male heteros segrated from the rest of the population. This isn't about segregating the homosexuals, it is about enforcing the segregation of the male heteros.

    • 13 votes
    #1.29 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:35 PM EDT

    You all twist things to make it all in your favor, but it isnt. Its just plain wrong. And I have never seen two dogs ,or Cats or any other animal try and have sex together with the same gender. Nice try

    Wow. Perhaps you need to step outside your apartment once and a while. I have seen dogs, cats, and goats all engage in homosexual activity. That's the kind of thing you see when you are in nature and not buried in a book that commands how you think.

    • 34 votes
    #1.30 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:36 PM EDT
    Comment author avatarlexus114Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Your the ignorant one`s. Thats why you all feel so compelled to make everyone else see what you are doing as being okay with God. And it is natural, and all this other nonsense.

    • 14 votes
    #1.31 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:38 PM EDT
    Comment author avatarlexus114Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    I`ll take my book that commands how I think thank you. Any time over what your doing.

    • 13 votes
    #1.32 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:39 PM EDT

    You can lead a horse to water, but you can't give him a brain.

    • 23 votes
    #1.33 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:40 PM EDT

    And I have never seen two dogs ,or Cats or any other animal try and have sex together with the same gender. Nice try.

    Well then you're awfully sheltered. I have 2 male cats, and the only thing keeping them from actually having sex is that they are both neutered. Doesn't stop them from trying, though!

    • 24 votes
    #1.34 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:40 PM EDT

    Your the ignorant one`s. Thats why you all feel so compelled to make everyone else see what you are doing as being okay with God. And it is natural, and all this other nonsense.

    I have no need to make anything seem okay to anyone to please an non-existent invisible being. Also, I am a married heterosexual. I just have this funny belief that people have the right to lives their lives how they wish if they aren't hurting anyone. Go ahead and keep being a controlled sheep Lexus. You obviously have no ability to run your life yourself and need it guided.

    • 23 votes
    #1.35 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:41 PM EDT
    Comment author avatarlexus114Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Hey, there is no reasoning with any of you. So God Bless and have a nice life.

    • 12 votes
    #1.36 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:41 PM EDT

    lexus114

    So you are saying you have never seen a male dog try to hump on another dog,or a person's leg, or about anything else for that matter? You have not been around dogs very much then.

    • 20 votes
    #1.37 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:43 PM EDT

    What I find utterly amazing, is that for all their talk of purity and religious doctrine, all these people think about is sex. SEX! SEX! That big three letter word that most young kids don't even consider unless confronted by GROWN-UPS. Grownups? What happened to teaching tolerance, respect, ethics? By, are these "adults" having a huge impact on the future generation: intolerance, fear, Sad! For some reason you're all waiting for that cute little kid to suddenly turn into a rapist. Pedophiles are in fact, "normal" heterosexual men, usually married. Geez folks, take the time to learn more than the whispered myths floating around.

    • 22 votes
    #1.38 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:43 PM EDT

    Sex is an option in the Boy Scouts? You should be asking this of the Priests and Catholic Church where this a greater likely hood of this being an issue. The truth hurts, I know.

    • 8 votes
    #1.39 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:44 PM EDT

    Your the ignorant one`s. Thats why you all feel so compelled to make everyone else see what you are doing as being okay with God.

    I'll go ahead and let God judge gay individuals as he sees fit, and for my part I'll just try to love my neighbor as myself, as the Bible tells me to do.

    • 31 votes
    #1.40 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:44 PM EDT

    And I have never seen two dogs ,or Cats or any other animal try and have sex together with the same gender. Nice try.

    I have a female cat and a female dog. The female dog constantly humps the female cat. So not only is she gay, she is into inter-species erotica. That is like "super, ultra abomination"... or it's just nature, either way.

    Although we are convinced that the female dog humps the female cat because she is a wiener dog, and doesn't realize that being a wiener does not mean she has a wiener. Oh well, that's nature for you.

    • 28 votes
    #1.41 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:44 PM EDT

    lexus114,

    "Thats why you all feel so compelled to make everyone else see what you are doing as being okay with God."

    If it's not okay with God, then I'm sure God is capable of dealing with the situation. We don't call him the Almighty for nothing. So there is no reason at all why you should concern yourself about it. Just leave it up to God. I haven't heard God complaining though. It's always people who complain.

    • 26 votes
    #1.42 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:45 PM EDT
    Comment author avatarRandomBExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    I wouldn't recommend putting two gay scouts in the same tent, just to avoid problems. Scouts is not about exploring one's sexuality. I wouldn't have any fears about putting a gay and non-gay scout together... as stated above, being gay doesn't make anyone force themselves on another.

    Whichever way the BSA goes with this, there will never be any guarantee that all problems can be avoided. But scouting is supposed to promote tolerance, understanding, education, and a sense of community and working together. Exclusion of gays is just the opposite of all that.

    • 16 votes
    #1.43 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:47 PM EDT
    Comment author avatargregorio057Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Why not ask Obama if he would allow his daughter to share the same room with lesbian in the girl scout.

    Mr. Random my friend has many gay and lesbian friends. It so happen that her daughter grew up with these people and guess what? her daughter is now lesbian and she is only seventeen. so if you mingle with something you will end up caching a portion of it.

    • 12 votes
    #1.44 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:50 PM EDT

    I think its ridiculous to equate a homosexual male to a female. Do homosexual males have female genitalia? No. Are heterosexual males generally more attracted to them? Again, no. Aside from the fact that homosexual males are generally more attracted to males than females from a nature perspective, there is no more similarity between homosexual males and females than there is between straight males and females. Again, or am I missing something? It sounds as if the only problem is with paranoid males and females who don't realize that homosexuals were created as normal as heterosexuals.

    • 11 votes
    #1.45 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:51 PM EDT

    A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female.

    Listen, I'm in favor of allowing homosexuals into Scouts, but that statement is not true. I'm 100% straight, and have had gay men hit on me. But I've never had anyone force me into something I didn't want to do.

    • 19 votes
    #1.46 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:51 PM EDT

    Patrick 1.8

    Your post is an attempt to dispute my assertions but only ends up generally agreeing with it.

    First, putting young people of the opposite sex in the same tent in no way assures there will be any "hanky panky" but it could nonetheless happen, hence the wisdom of not doing this and creating such an enabling scenario.

    The same goes for tenting homosexual and heterosexual boys. There doesn't mean there will automatically be incidents, but the same wisdom with the male/female tenting applies here as well. It is better to not do this to avoid any such temptations.

    As for your alluding to stats, even assuming they're not contrived, my statement that pedophiles come in both heterosexual and homosexual proclivities is correct. If you wish to assert that most pedophiles are one sexual orientation or the other, go right ahead. It doesn't change anything.

    As for your rather snide assertion that little girls in my neighborhood should beware, I suppose this implies you've labeled me a heterosexual.

    jac 1.26

    A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males? What color is the sky in your world? You ought to be hearing a lot about this nonsensical statement from other posters.

    • 10 votes
    #1.47 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:52 PM EDT

    jac:

    A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female.

    I hope you're being sarcastic, especially with the ignorance comment. If not, then you really need to go talk to the gay males that have come on to me in the past, set them straight..(er, no pun intended) and tell them that they weren't attracted to me.

    Saying a gay male is only going to be attracted to other gay males is false. It is like saying that I, as a heterosexual male, will not be attracted to a beautiful woman if I find out she's a lesbian. Sorry, I don't think it works like that.

    • 19 votes
    #1.48 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:52 PM EDT

    gregorio,

    "Why not ask Obama if he would allow his daughter to share the same room with lesbian in the girl scout."

    What does this have to do with Obama? Is he in charge of the Boy Scouts now? That's quite a step down from being President of the United States, don't you think?

    • 13 votes
    #1.49 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:52 PM EDT
    Comment author avatarbibolExpand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    I believe homosexuality is deviant way of life. Adult males do not share tents with boy scouts. I went to boy scouts. All my sons went to boy scouts. If they allow gay boy scouts. I will discourage all my grand grandsons from joining an ex religion organization.

    • 14 votes
    #1.50 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:54 PM EDT

    Mickey,

    Ain't it the truth. God Almighty.

    • 3 votes
    #1.51 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:55 PM EDT

    And another thing....STOP equating pedophiles with gays. The VAST MAJORITY of pedohiles are heterosexual men, often times married men.

    • 16 votes
    #1.52 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:58 PM EDT
    Comment author avatargregorio057Expand Comment Comment collapsed by the community

    Mickey Obama is the reason we have all this. You forgot his campaign Inauguration with all his gay support. I didn't I saw everything including how these guys were dancing for him.

    • 5 votes
    #1.53 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:58 PM EDT

    @ jac-931625

    You say that "A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female."

    Seems as though YOUR ignorance is just astounding....therefore I will attempt to educate you:

    I am totally straight and yet have had numerous homosexual males come on to me - to the point of telling me that they would love it if I would be willing to do some pretty specific acts with them.... I also have other straight friends who I have been with at a bar and witnessed homosexual guys trying to pick them up. Finally, I have a good friend who is openly homosexual and he admits to regularly "hitting on" heterosexual men....

    ....so who is the ignorant one is now.....

    • 16 votes
    #1.54 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:00 PM EDT

    I remember the scouts... we would go camping with signs that said "No Girls Allowed". We also discussed how girls were "icky" and had "cooties".

    Then we all wore neckerchiefs, a sash, high-rise shorts... and we all learned how to sew "flair" (or badges) on our own sash.

    Yup... nothing but straight boys, dressed in questionable styles, talking about how much they don't like girls.

    Oh the irony.

    • 23 votes
    #1.55 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:01 PM EDT

    A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female.

    Jac, I don't know where you grew up but that's not a fact. I know my son was approached by gays adults and kids a few different times when he was growing up. One of the gay men who approached him later died of AIDS.

    I as his mother have been approached by lesbians.

    Just like we are approached by people of the opposite sex who are attracted to us, it is common that homosexuals approach many straights as well.

    • 13 votes
    #1.56 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:01 PM EDT

    bibol,

    "I believe homosexuality is deviant way of life. Adult males do not share tents with boy scouts."

    What is the point you are trying to make there? The article is talking about gay boys sharing a tent with heterosexual boys; not with adult males sharing a ten with the boys. There are gay children, you know. Or didn't you?

    • 5 votes
    #1.57 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:02 PM EDT

    Lexus is one of those christians who denounce homosexuality as a sin...but supports war, the death penalty, and the vast accumulation of personal wealth, and the whole time, still doesn't see the irony of that position.

    • 15 votes
    #1.58 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:03 PM EDT

    mguy,

    LOVE IT! You made my day! Hilarious!

    • 8 votes
    #1.59 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:06 PM EDT

    lexus114,

    yes i have seen animals mate with others of the same sex -we used to raise pigeons, and there were two male that got together and never separated. and also i've seen this with our 2 male iguanas and 2 female zebra finches. does that answer your question? maybe you should get out more and observe nature closer -you're trapped inside your little denial-bubble that only leaves you with a handful of ignorant thoughts

    • 12 votes
    #1.60 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:06 PM EDT

    gregorio,

    "Mickey Obama is the reason we have all this. You forgot his campaign Inauguration with all his gay support."

    Obama may support the Gay Rights movement, but let me assure you, both gays and the Gay Rights movement have been around a hell of a lot longer than the Obama administration.

    • 18 votes
    #1.61 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:06 PM EDT

    trout

    I am totally straight and yet have had numerous homosexual males come on to me

    Perhaps you should re-evaluate the attire you wear out of the house. As a tip, I would leave the bike shorts and neckerchief at home.

    • 12 votes
    #1.62 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:08 PM EDT

    Go start your own organization. Call it whatever the hell you want. Quit trying to change religious based organizations to tolerate and accept your perverted lifestyle.

    An no one can tell me that a gay man isn't attracted to another straight male, that is one of the most retarded thing that I have ever heard from a gay proponent.

    Go start the buttscouts of merica, it's a free country......so go and be free.

    • 18 votes
    #1.63 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:08 PM EDT

    Go start your own organization. Call it whatever the hell you want. Quit trying to change religious based organizations to tolerate and accept your perverted lifestyle.

    An no one can tell me that a gay man isn't attracted to another straight male, that is one of the most retarded thing that I have ever heard from a gay proponent.

    Go start the buttscouts of merica, it's a free country......so go and be free.

    • 13 votes
    #1.64 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:08 PM EDT

    AND NOW, FOR THE ANSWERS....

  • A gay male troop leader, along with another adult leader, is taking a group of boys on a camping trip following the youth protection guidelines of two-deep leadership. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for the gay adult leader to take adolescent boys on an overnight camping trip?

    Adult pedophiles overwhelmingly associate themselves as "straight", not gay. Jerry Sandusky, for example, was a married father of six children of his own. There is no conclusive study that gay men are any more interested in adolescent boys than straight men are.

  • A troop is chartered by an organization that does not believe homosexuality is wrong and allows gays to be ministers. The youth minister traditionally serves as the Scoutmaster for the troop. The congregation hires a youth minister who is gay. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for this youth minister to serve as the Scoutmaster?

  • No ministers, period. Boy Scouts is not a religious organization, and never was intended to be.
  • Johnny, a first grade boy, has joined Tiger Cubs with his friends. Johnny’s friends and their parents unanimously nominate Johnny’s mom, who is known by them to be lesbian, to be the den leader. Johnny’s pack is chartered to a church where the doctrine of that faith does not teach that homosexuality is wrong. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for his mother to serve as a den leader for his Cub Scout den?

  • Why not?.., at least that den would get their carpentry and auto repair badges.
  • David, a Boy Scout, believes that homosexuality is wrong. His troop is chartered to a church where the doctrine of that faith also teaches that homosexuality is wrong. Steve, an openly gay youth, applies to be a member in the troop and is denied membership. Is it acceptable or unacceptable for this troop to deny Steve membership in their troop?

  • Again, why are Boy Scout troops chartered to churches anyway??? What if the church is a mosque that teaches that women are second class citizens and the US is the Great Satan? If religious institutions wish to host Boy Scout troops, they should be instructed that promotion of their religious beliefs and agendas is not allowed at troop meetings. Boy Scouts should not promote any specific religious beliefs, or encourage their membership to do so. That's how they got themselves into this pickle in the first place.
    • 22 votes
    #1.65 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:09 PM EDT

    You don't need to start a Gay Scout program, you just need to give NAMBLA some Camping gear. I say the Boy Scouts are right to keep Homosexual Scout Masters out as well as Scouts. If you are Gay and have a problem with their policy then you can go elsewhere.

    • 12 votes
    #1.66 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:09 PM EDT

    And heterosexual raging-hormone boys don't do things in tents, sleepovers, etc.??? Get real.

    • 13 votes
    #1.67 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:10 PM EDT

    Lexus, while I like what you are saying, I have seen animals of the same sex try to mount each other so that isn't a good argument. My faith tells me homosexuality is wrong and I agree with you there and I in no way would put my child in a situation where he was uncomfortable.

    • 5 votes
    #1.68 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:11 PM EDT

    I can't understand where this is such an over the top huge issue that we can freely debate it and let it monopolize so much of our debate time, when gangs are accounting for more than 48% of all crime nationwide and more than 90% in many cities and regions throughout the country. This should just be a non issue. So what if someone is gay, I DON'T need to know about it. It is none of my business and doesn't hurt me or them for it to be kept in the home. The problem is that we spend an inordinate amount of time discussing this crap when we should be finding ways to cure the real ills of this nation. Why is it so damned important for them to have to flaunt there preferences in every aspect of life? Is it because they have to be recognized for what they are? Is it because they insist on being the same mainstream fish as everyone else? Is it because they insist on being allowed to infiltrate every aspect of hetero life? I have news for you, If they want infiltrate every aspect of hetero life, then be hetero. Otherwise forget it. And just STFU already. We have gangs murdering people left and right, pumping drugs into our neighborhoods, assaulting law abiding citizens, kidnapping our teen boys and girls for slavery,(check that one our for yourselves), and creating whole areas of fear and depridation for the citizens who deserve to live free of such atrocities. The politicians do not address this issue, (they would rather take away your rights). The police do not address it,(they would rather arrest regular people for a traffic ticket than enter the mouth of the dragon that is gang land to do their real jobs). And the rest of us sit here and discuss this crap.

    Wow, no wonder we are so f-d up.

    • 6 votes
    #1.69 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:11 PM EDT

    Nothing against homosexuals (the obligatory some of my best friends are gay) but # 1 I am hetero with 2 kids and a beautiful wife and I get hit on by homosexuals even when they know I am hetero. #2 every one here pro homosexual, you are arguing it is natural by pointing out that small minded "animals" do it so why not? Again no problem with any orientation other than pedophile, family relations, necro and bestiality, BUT ANIMALS DO IT SO ITS OK. is not an argument you want to get behind. Just saying

    • 11 votes
    #1.70 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:16 PM EDT

    The headline question is a moot point because little Timmy is always first to pitch a tent in camp.

    • 2 votes
    #1.71 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:18 PM EDT

    To all those saying their pets are gay because they "hump" others of the same sex...

    That is showing dominance... (Alfa dog establishment) not a sexual urge.

    • 6 votes
    #1.72 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:19 PM EDT

    Contrarian001

    Why is it so damned important for them to have to flaunt there preferences in every aspect of life?

    I know, right?

    Like, just the other day I had a knock on my door... my own damn property... and two women were behind the door, with a flyer in hand, wanting to "talk to me" about converting to their lifestyle. Why do they have to shove it in my face and try to convert me? On my own damn property at that.

    Then I left the house on Sunday morning, and this same group was ringing bells to let everyone know that they were meeting. Why do they have to let everyone know? We don't care.

    And then, I find out that my work is closed on a day specifically celebrating their holiday. Why should we celebrate their day? It's their day, can't they keep it to themselves?

    I mean... these homosexuals are getting out of control with "forcing their lifestyle" down our throats.

    Oh wait... that was NOT homosexuals forcing their lifestyle on me, that was CHRISTIANS.

    Sorry... my bad.

    Continue telling us all how homosexuals are the ones who "flaunt" their lifestyle in your face.

    • 18 votes
    #1.73 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:20 PM EDT

    A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female.

    Where in the world did you get this from???

    • 14 votes
    #1.74 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:20 PM EDT

    I don't know what jac was thinking when he said gay males are only attracted to other gay males, but whatever.

    As a gay male myself, I've had straight male roommates/friends. Strangely I never raped any of them! And as you would expect, gay guys are not attracted to every guy in their presence. I for one am pretty selective in who I find attractive.

    In fact one of my attractive straight roommates who of course knew I was gay seemed to very much like showing himself off (walking around shirtless, etc...) knowing full well that I would be checking him out. It was pretty obvious what he was doing. LOL. I can only assume he enjoyed knowing that he was being found attractive even if by another guy. Or maybe he just liked teasing me. Of course given that he was straight nothing ever happened between us, and I certainly never tried.

    I don't think there is anything wrong with a gay scout sharing a tent with a straight scout. (I might not want two openly gay scouts sharing a tent together). Scouts should learn boundries anyhow. That will serve them well in life. And straight scouts should learn not to be fearful or agahst that someone who's gay finds them attractive. And hey, it might give them insight into how girls/women might feel about being the object of one's attraction from someone they are not interested in. What straight guy couldn't benefit from learning that!

    Ultimatey we need to STOP being so hung up about sex and sexuality in society. It's not healthy. In fact it's downright neurotic.

    • 21 votes
    #1.75 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:23 PM EDT

    William Morrison-6819231

    "Lawsuits, homo rape are just a few problems this issue will have!"

    Mr. Morrison, may I point out how f*cking' gay your hat looks? If you ask me, the whole premise of camping without girls is pretty gay, and just being in scouts is likely to create an atmosphere of homosexuality. In my opinion, a straight scout is a lonely scout.

    • 5 votes
    #1.76 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:23 PM EDT

    Parents don't want to allow boys and girls to have sleepovers together because they are afraid of what might happen. But then the same parents who only allow same gender sleepovers wonder why their kids are gay. They should just ban sleepovers and make all events one day. And get rid of summer camps. Something could happen in the cabins.

      #1.77 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:24 PM EDT

      dan,

      "Again no problem with any orientation other than pedophile, family relations, necro and bestiality"

      By "family relations" you mean "incest", don't you? You had the right words for everything else, but you got that one wrong. Unless, of course, you are opposed to every sort of family relationship whatsoever. Mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, nieces, etc. :)

      • 1 vote
      #1.78 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:25 PM EDT

      Query me this:

      1. Few years back I read an article where bi-sexual men were being persecuted to leave a gay men sports team.

      2. Racial Minorities have their own clubs (naacp, la raza, etc, etc)

      3. Different orientations of the LGBT community have their own clubs.

      4. Women have their own clubs.

      But if you're a white heterosexual male, by god you have to accept anyone and everyone into your club.

      As a white heterosexual male, I'm sick as @!$%# for be persecuted because of my race and sexual orientation.

      You liberals are the most @!$%#ing hypocritical, racist people I know.

      • 19 votes
      #1.79 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:26 PM EDT

      @darkshadows "and i have seen animals engage in homosexual activity.....". So with that logic, i have seen lions engage in infanticide. Shall we accept that as normal in society as welll??

      • 6 votes
      #1.80 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:26 PM EDT

      I guess the motto of the Boy Scouts is "Ignorance is Bliss!" They act like if they change their policies then things will change. They seem to be totally ignorant of the fact that there have been gay kids and gay troop leaders in the Boy Scouts since the beginning. It's just that the official policy has been "If you are not straight then lie about it and pretend you are straight." So much for the part about honesty.

      As some have pointed out, gays aren't going to try to come on to straights. Also, gay adults aren't going to come on to boys. Pedophiles? Yes! But, gay? No! And pedophiles aren't going to "come out" because of any official change in BSA policies on gays.

      Quite frankly, I'd trust to the safety of my son in a tent with a gay boy a heck of a lot more than I'd trust to the safety of my daughter in a tent with a straight boy.

      • 5 votes
      #1.81 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:31 PM EDT

      Isn't this the same complaint about military members sharing barracks... even though they have ALWAYS shared barracks with homosexuals?

      Not even remotely, that is a completely pathetic attempt at an analogy. You are comparing adults who understand sexuality to children. The people who compared male and female were much more on target. You may as well have stuck with the stupid arguments some have made about rape.

      This is not about rape, I didn't read every comment, but didn't see anyone mention the gay raping the other child, and if they did then they are as much of an idiot as those making analogies like you did or this idiocy;

      Basically, you are saying that gays are not capable of being in the same room with the same gender without the strong, overpowering urge to rape them.

      Saying they shouldn't share a tent is because if the child knows he is gay then he is aware of sexuality, the other child may not be. They are children and may do things that you wouldn't expect because they are innocent, and the gay child may not understand that he is doing something wrong if he acts upon impulses, the same way two children may if the are opposite sex, which is why oppsoite sex children wouldn't be allowed to share a tent either.

      Enough of the BS arguments being made, this is completely rational to not want your child in a tent with someone who may have a sexual impulse towards them; boy/boy girl/boy girl/girl, it's irrelevant.

      • 4 votes
      #1.82 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:32 PM EDT

      AlexM - I understand your frustration, however the uprising has been caused by the white heterosexual male having the best of everything and influence over everything for a long, long time.

      • 6 votes
      #1.83 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:32 PM EDT

      I think most of you are missing the point. The question isn't so much would you let 14 year old straight boy tent with a 14 year old gay boy.

      There are two much better questions. Would you let two 14 year old gay boys tent together?

      Which is no different than a 14 year old boy and a 14 year old girl tenting together.

      And is it OK to put a 14 year straight boy in a situation were they may feel uncomfortable?

      Which is really no different than putting forcing a girl to tent with a boy.

      Before you go calling me names, I don't think a gay boy is some sort of monster that can't control himself around other boys. I think he a boy like any other just attractive to somebody different.

      • 5 votes
      #1.84 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:32 PM EDT

      If you are Gay and have a problem with their policy then you can go elsewhere.

      I'd have to agree with that. But, those who advocate a homophobic policy for the Boy Scouts can't, at the same time, complain when corporations eliminate their donations, public schools and municipalities drop their support and the organization is pilloried in the press.

      The Supreme Court said that the Boy Scouts had a right to a policy of their choosing, but it never said that others had to tolerate it.

      • 7 votes
      #1.85 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:33 PM EDT

      "If you are not straight then lie about it and pretend you are straight."

      Why would kids in the boyscouts be talking about who they want to have sex with? Don't boys that age usually talk about how girls have cooties?

      • 3 votes
      #1.86 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:34 PM EDT

      Mickey, you got me. Got pulled away on a call and completely spaced it. Touche'

      • 1 vote
      #1.87 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:35 PM EDT

      "I am totally straight and yet have had numerous homosexual males come on to me"

      people will take their chances with a person they feel attracted to -think the 'bar scene', so you won't take a chance with the cute girl, make eye contact, smile, and offer to buy her a drink? it is up to her to accept or reject it, the same goes for yourself as well -unless, of course, the guy tried to force you down and jump you right there... otherwise your argument is invalid

      • 7 votes
      #1.88 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:38 PM EDT

      @AlexM-3929653

      But if you're a white heterosexual male, by god you have to accept anyone and everyone into your club.

      But what you fail to mention and accept is that the aforementioned groups (you mentioned) don't deny membership to White, Heterosexual males..... Where is the discrimination again?? The hypocracy??, the racism??

      LMBAO@Whiteguyragin'

      • 5 votes
      #1.89 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:38 PM EDT

      "it will always be a sin against god and nature!!"

      After reading this comment, and the rest of those church taught thoughts you posted above lexus, I can now see why humanity is in the state that it is. I hope for the good of all humanity, that you never claim to be a "good Christian". Why? Because, if this is how a "good Christian" thinks, humanity will never grow spiritually as it should. You are taught to build a wall, so high, and so thick around you by the church, that you even fail to see what is going on within the same church that taught you how to build that wall. You fail to see the corruption within the very core of those running the church, even when it is brought out into the open. That means they taught you well then. Your taught to not like gay people, yet, you don't mind taking your family to a church to be taught the word of God by someone who may have raped a child? Good luck with that reality. By the way, if you would, keep that reality right there with you, there is no need to share it with the rest of the world.

      • 6 votes
      #1.90 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:38 PM EDT

      ohwell

      So with that logic, i have seen lions engage in infanticide. Shall we accept that as normal in society as welll??

      Even when lions commit "infanticide", they still have better morals and treat each other better than humans do.

      I have never seen any animal commit genocide on another because of some bull-sh** idea like religion. Yet we humans sit here fighting and killing each other over some f***ing fairy tale about an invisible sky man who used to talk to nomads thousands of years ago.

      You would do well not to compare humans to animals... especially humans like YOU... you will lose every time.

      • 7 votes
      #1.91 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:39 PM EDT

      jac-931625---You are truly ignorant to think gay men are not attracted to straight men.

      mguy-478---Just a note if you want to work on Sunday go ahead, it is a holiday as declared by the US government because people of highly moral fiber wanted people to work seven days a week, twelve hours a day. Religion in this case was used by the lawyers to justify the shorter workweek. As far as the people knocking on doors, how did they force you to believe anything? They made their pitch and left I would bet and you are angry because they knocked on your door or that they exist and do not believe as you. Typical atheist, liberal nutjob, I believe therefore you cannot.

      mguy-478---"You would do well not to compare humans to animals... especially humans like YOU... you will lose every time" ---Well aren't we special and I think proves my point perfectly

      • 3 votes
      #1.92 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:46 PM EDT

      pssst! don't tell anyone else but the agenda is to build acceptability to a otherwise unacceptable social behavior. the people that desire to deviate from the norm will say anything to get your approval even if it is the farthest thing from the truth, the truth is the more deviated society becomes the more normal deviates become its that simple now bend over and submit. then and only then will we all be normal. yes if everyone is gay then we can label it as normal straight will be considered queer. the best way to begin is change the terms in the language that sets them out like Deviate meaning a different approach or method don't use that word it doesn't sound nice just say enlightened, then the word queer means different or peculiar, mustn't say that the dictionary is off center just say Gay meaning happy and free that better describes them as a superior and kind person. its essential to separate a gay child molester from the main group and blame their actions on straight people, that was taken right out of the liberals hand book,"always blame the opposition". I could go on all day on this subject but work awaits maybe latter. all you need to understand is they want in so they can change the BSA for their own reasons. remember the more Gay people the merrier so tiptoe through the tulips with them. come on people lets all be Gay!!!

      • 3 votes
      #1.93 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:46 PM EDT

      alve, he was talking about the other person that said gays only hit on gays. So his argument was completely valid.

      My friends brother is gay and does the first thing you said, I have been out with him when he has bought drinks for guys, and a couple of times the guys have gotten pretty pissed, and he reply always was, you should be flattered you are good looking and got a free drink, would you accept one for a girl you didn't find attractive?

      • 2 votes
      #1.94 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:46 PM EDT

      You would do well not to compare humans to animals... especially humans like YOU... you will lose every time

      But those who argue for gay marriage or being born gay compare humans to animals all the time when someone says homosexuality is unnatural. The argument is that "there are gay monkeys." So why is the quote you have issue with less true?

      It is actually the perfect rebuttal to the "born gay" argument.

      I do like how you went the religion route because you didn't like the scientific argument though, really shows you are incapable of having an honest discussion.

      alve, he was talking about the other person that said gays only hit on gays. So his argument was completely valid.

      Have also had plenty of gay guys hit on me, we both get a laugh out of it, they get embarrassed, more often than not I get a free drink out of it, no harm no foul. But gay guys do hit on straight guys.

      • 3 votes
      #1.95 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:48 PM EDT

      I have never seen any animal commit genocide on another because of some bull-sh** idea like religion.

      No just over stuff like territory and breeding rights.

      • 6 votes
      #1.96 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:48 PM EDT

      If gay boyscouts can share tents with straight boyscouts, then why not just have co-ed tents altogether with boyscouts and girlscouts? I really don't see the difference.

      I think the gay boyscout should pitch his own tent.

      • 7 votes
      #1.97 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:51 PM EDT

      Irvmani

      Wow... way to completely miss the point.

      Here, let me spell if out for you. People like YOU constantly complain that gay people "force their lifestyle" on you because they exist. They walk down the street, they kiss in public, they want equal rights... and in your eyes, and people like you... that is "forcing" something on you.

      However, when YOU Christians literally come to my door and try to convert me, you see nothing wrong with that.

      So let's recap for you, because you obviously have a problem with critical thinking skills.

      Homosexuals simply existing on the planet: Christians consider that "forcing a lifestyle" on them.

      Christians coming to your door and attempting to convert you: You do NOT consider that "forcing a lifestyle" on you.

      So one group existing is "forcing" something on you... another group coming to your property and trying to convert you is NOT "forcing" anything on you.

      Do you really fail to see the hypocrisy there? This is not a hard concept. Shall I get out finger puppets to act it out for you?

      • 6 votes
      #1.99 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:52 PM EDT

      AlexM - I understand your frustration, however the uprising has been caused by the white heterosexual male having the best of everything and influence over everything for a long, long time.

      I wasn't alive nor was I the cause of the history in this country. The LGBT community and minorities don't want equality, they want pay back. This is more than obvious in our country. I happen to have been raised that all (wo)men are born equal, yet I'm not treated that way by the very people that discriminate against me.

      My sincere non-apologies if I honestly don't understand this.

      As far as the boy scouts, the LGBT community can just get over it, start their own club. A very similar thing happened with the girl scouts when the liberals got in there and planned parent hood started handing out masturbation pamphlets to underage pre-teen girls and also the girl scouts pulled religion out of the club. Conservative parents that didn't agree with the new policy formed a new club called American Heritage Girls. They didn't go in to DEMANDING girl scouts bow to their beliefs.

      But what you fail to mention and accept is that the aforementioned groups (you mentioned) don't deny membership to White, Heterosexual males..... Where is the discrimination again?? The hypocracy??, the racism??

      They don't? You might want to research that (and also learn to spell).

      • 5 votes
      #1.100 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:53 PM EDT

      On the heterosexual males more likely of being a pedophile and molesting boys, wouldn't that make him gay? Male on male! As for percentages only about 4% of the population admits being gay.

      Yes animals of the same sex "hump" each other but it's still against nature, they can't reproduce which is the purpose of sex. Very few species have sex for pleasure. And animals don't make decisions, they act on instincts driven by hormones. Which describes some people too!

      The BSA is a private organization so they can allow whoever they want to be a member. They are chartered by churches so I would expect them to reflect the morals of these organisations. I wonder about any church that does not denounce homosexuality, they should read the Bible. The Bible does not teach tolerance of sin, only forgiveness.

      • 3 votes
      #1.101 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:53 PM EDT

      @ The Company

      Umm...Statistically speaking, a scout (or any prepubescent boy, for that matter) is much more likely to be sexually assaulted by a heterosexual than he is a homosexual.

      Kinda ceased being heterosexual the moment he sexually assaults a boy. Realistically speaking, the assaulter didn't just think about it moments before the act either. It's more likely that that individual fantasized about it well before the act occurred which made him more homosexually inclined well before the incident.

      This is the entire point. We may not know the Boy Scout leaders intentions...but they did.

      • 4 votes
      #1.102 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:54 PM EDT

      "That is not exactly an equivalent comparison. 14 or 15 year old boys and girls are likely to be attracted to one another. This boy is the only openly gay one in the troop. It's highly doubtful that there would be a mutual attraction between the boys."

      Actually your wrong. You don't allow kids of the opposite sex to share a tent for the same reason public schools segregate boys and girls at all ages in rooms on overnight field trips. It's not attraction or rape that causes the segmentation. It's sex. An organization that is charged with caring for other peoples kids has a responsibility to insure a reasonable amount of care is take to safeguard that child. In the case of boys and girls it's reasonable to separate them for sleeping to avoid the hormonal urges. I don't see a difference with boys in this instance. When dealing with a boy or boys who are openly gay then reasonable care would need to be taken to keep the kids in your care for doing something they should not be doing. Heterosexuality or Homosexual makes no difference Sex as a whole should not be taking place at a school, on a school trip or at a scout camp. Will we be able to stop it? Heck no where there is a will there is a way. However there is a responsibility to take reasonable action to stop it. If that means Gay boys have to bunk alone, well then gay boys have to bunk alone.

      • 7 votes
      #1.103 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:57 PM EDT

      Look, some of us are against this not because they are gay, but because they want to be OPENLY gay to adolescents. That is unacceptable no matter what their sexual orientation. The Boy Scouts is no place for openly discussing man on man sex.

      And for those on the left who insist that this is about more than that, *insert your past comments on catholic priests with little boys here*. There is no difference since it's a fact that practically all catholic priests would never even imagine such an act, yet bad apples apply to the entire stereotype in that case.

      • 4 votes
      #1.104 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:04 PM EDT

      honestdebate

      But those who argue for gay marriage or being born gay compare humans to animals all the time

      WRONG.

      They DO NOT compare them to animals... they are responding to the comment that homosexuality is "not natural".

      See... this is how it works:

      You say that homosexuality is not natural. Meaning that it does not occur in nature.

      Someone rebuttals with proof that it does occur in nature, thus invalidating your comment.

      Instead of admitting that your first statement is wrong, you twist it into the "born that way" discussion.

      THAT comparison was NOT the original argument, and you know it. The animal comment is ONLY in relation to the "not natural" comment, THAT'S IT.

      However, trying to be the clever debater that you are, you twist their rebuttal into something it never was. You try to twist their rebuttal into a comparison of everything animals do. THAT was never the intention... the ONLY reason anyone says that is to refute the claim that it is "not natural".

      really shows you are incapable of having an honest discussion.

      Ironic... coming from the person who willingly twists a response into a different discussion instead of keeping the original intention and debate.

      Now, do you want to have an "honest debate", kid? Think you are up for it? Think you can stay on topic? Let's find out...

      The animal comparison is in relation to the "not natural" comment... THAT'S IT. So, would you like to provide any further evidence that it is "not natural", in light of the fact that it occurs in nature? Stick to the specific topic.

      Or, would you like to transition to a discussion about whether they are "born that way"? That is a different point in which we start with different facts.

      Come on, big boy... are you up for an actual "honest debate"? Or are you going to stick to petty tactics of twisting answers into unrelated questions? Let's see if you can stick to your name.

      • 4 votes
      #1.105 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:04 PM EDT

      As far as the boy scouts, the LGBT community can just get over it, start their own club.

      Ummm..... That's what the NAACP, La Raza (capitalized correctly...) and all the other clubs you so vehemently decry ARE!!!

      Jack and Jill..... Miss Black America..... All those other "Racist" clubs were started because minorities had no place at the WHM table... NOW THEY ARE RACIST?? What a bag of dog-chit"!!

      Hypocracy has multilpe spellings TYVM....

      LMBAO!!!

      • 3 votes
      #1.106 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:04 PM EDT

      I'm sorry but why do we have to make such a big deal over 2% of the population? You people afford more attention to gays than you do any other problem in this country, there are way bigger problems.

      And to you people who think you are enlightened thinking that gay is ok in nature? Your argument is moronic. If animals do it its OK for Humans, animals eat their babies and their feces, so eat your babies and eat your feces because it's natural, makes just as much sense.

      • 8 votes
      #1.107 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:05 PM EDT

      For those who suggest that Scouts can discriminate against any group and that those discriminated against can go elsewhere, in principle I do not disagree, BUT as a taxpayer than I stongly object to Scouts getting any kind of tax benefit (there are some councils and the BSA are tax exempt), using any kind of taxpayer paid for facility (keep out of public schools), etc. So long as my tax dollars dont go to support them fine.

      • 3 votes
      #1.108 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:06 PM EDT

      Alex - "I wasn't alive nor was I the cause of the history in this country." - Me either. I wasn't alive nor did I own or participate in the owning of slaves, but we all are paying for that too.

      • 4 votes
      #1.109 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:08 PM EDT

      And for those debating do anuimals exhibit homosexual behavior - yes they do - there have been studies that have shown a portion of a population of rats will be homosexual. Google it...

      • 1 vote
      #1.110 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:10 PM EDT

      Holly, you may want to check into the thousands of tax exempt non profits before only scolding the BSA.

      • 3 votes
      #1.111 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:14 PM EDT

      Ummm..... That's what the NAACP, La Raza (capitalized correctly...) and all the other clubs you so vehemently decry ARE!!!

      Jack and Jill..... Miss Black America..... All those other "Racist" clubs were started because minorities had no place at the WHM table... NOW THEY ARE RACIST?? What a bag of dog-chit"!!

      I really couldn't give a @!$%# if they do create their own club, more power to them. My point is that they shouldn't force people who don't agree with them to accept them.

      NAACP: Actually harmful to the african-american community in holding them back, and very racist. I don't agree with what they stand for at this time (like most organizations, the original intentions were very noble, but they've been lost), so I don't go forcing my thoughts on equality on them.

      La Raza : Open borders, amnesty, etc. I completely disagree with what they stand for, but I don't force my thoughts on them.

      Girl Scouts : Completely disagree with the teachings, but, their business, I don't force my views on them.

      Now we have the Boy Scouts, omg you don't accept gays, by god you WILL accept us into your organization because you're discriminating.

      I could really give a @!$%# if you're gay, it honestly doesn't bother me, it's outside my yard. So it isn't that I'm homophobic or anything like that. It's the fact that you want me to respect your beliefs, while at the same time you have no respect for mine.

      Me either. I wasn't alive nor did I own or participate in the owning of slaves, but we all are paying for that too.

      And that isn't right. Equality will never happen until that is truly what people want, I happen to want equality.

      • 6 votes
      #1.112 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:18 PM EDT

      Tom - Plymouth-3672298,

      i understand your point -and heck yeah, i'd accept a drink from a woman, i'd never turn down a nice chilled beer. and you are correct, it is flattering that someone singled you out in the middle of a crowd. if not interested, simply reject the person (respectfully, of course) like you'd reject any other woman or man, i just don't see what's the big turmoil

      • 3 votes
      #1.113 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:19 PM EDT

      This would be the "we're trying but we're still monumental bigots and huge asshats" survey...

      • 2 votes
      #1.114 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:22 PM EDT

      Ho hum, all of the usual rationalization.....it occurs naturally, it occurs in animals, those who oppose it are closet gays, and on and on and on.

      I took biology and anatomy, and while folks are born with the proclivity, it's obvious that homosexuality is not in tune with the physical design and reproductive functions of the human bodies. Despite that, I don't give one damn what you all do in your own houses; but, respect the beliefs and opinions of others, and quit trying to shove your agenda down our throats. The thug approach... "you'll accept us or else", isn't going to change anybody's mind.

      • 4 votes
      #1.115 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:25 PM EDT

      alve, the turmoil is that somebody said gays only hit on gays. That's it.

      The issue is I don't want my daughter tenting alone with a boy, I don't want my boy tenting alone with a girl. The hard part becomes do I want my gay son tenting alone with another boy (Probably not) or even another girl (for sure not)?

      So then it comes down to what do with do with the gay kids when this situation comes up.Doesn't seem fair to force them to sleep with the opposite sex, doesn't seem fair to force them to sleep with the sex they are attractive to, and it doesn't seem fair to force them to sleep by themselves.

      That is a tough situation to figure out.

        #1.116 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:27 PM EDT

        @averagejoe, you are obviously uninformed about what scouting is all about. First of all, it is against scouting policy to share a tent with another scout or a leader. Just because scouting does not involve girls does not mean scouting promotes homosexuality. Scouting is a program that teaches boys about courage, respect, loyalty, honesty, leadership, morals, GOD... and it helps them grow into wonderful well-rounded men who could probably kick your ass any day! If gay people want scouts, then form your own organization and leave BSA alone. If BSA decides to allow this, this will be the end of BSA, because every church sponsored BSA here has already said it will no longer sponsor scouts or allow them to use the facilities, and I will not allow my son to participate in a disgusting gay organization.

        • 2 votes
        #1.117 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:27 PM EDT

        Justross comment asking a reader if they were scared about there son being converted to homosexuality was a funny one. After all aren't people who are homosexual born that way? Thats the idea they try to force down our throats. Why would a God who forbids homosexuality let some one be born homosexual?

        No folks its a learned behavior. Its a choice.

        • 2 votes
        #1.118 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:28 PM EDT

        Someone on this thread made the comment that Lib's were hypocritical. Hmmm, haven't we ALL been a little hypocritical from time to time? Hypocrisy is human nature. And to the "Dolts" (not to be mistaken for Adults) you know who you are, some animals DO engage in "same sex" sex. You can look that up for yourselves. And another thing, I know that no one wants to admit it or put it in print here BUT, it's a natural thing for young boys (and girls) to EXPERIMENT--sexually, with each other whether same sex or male and female. Really...it is...and some of YOU know that first hand. And you grew up being who you were meant to be; heterosexual or homosexual, lesbian, bi, or transgender.

        I think the real concern should be with adult men or adult women sexually attracted and or assaulting, children--boys and girls alike. In other words, a Pedophile. Like Jerry Sandusky and the long list of Boy Scout Leaders who, like Catholic Priests, were slapped on the hand and sent to another "Pack" or "Parish" with transgressions all forgiven....blah, blah, blah.

        Gay boys or girls in the Scouts? Oh, like it hasn't been going on since FOREVER?! Please! Some of you really need to just smack yourself a few times and wake up. There's a great big world out there. Really, there is.

        • 8 votes
        #1.119 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:33 PM EDT

        Tom I have issues with any non-profit group that discriminates, I dont want them to have my tax $$, I dont want churches to use Public Schools either. But I limited my comment to BSA because that is what we are talking about here.

        • 3 votes
        #1.120 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:33 PM EDT

        SabotAndHeat: Kinda ceased being heterosexual the moment he sexually assaults a boy. Realistically speaking, the assaulter didn't just think about it moments before the act either. It's more likely that that individual fantasized about it well before the act occurred which made him more homosexually inclined well before the incident.

        You are so misinformed. An adult who likes to have sex with a child is a pedophile. If they're both male, it's still pedophilia, not homosexuality. There are (sadly) many heterosexual men who are also pedophiles and drawn to boys. Pedophilia is a form of rape, and rape is not about sex but power and control. Look at that slimeball Sandusky from Penn State. Married. Nobody would call him gay, but a pedophile, heck yes.

        • 6 votes
        #1.121 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:35 PM EDT

        Gregorio -

        so if you mingle with something you will end up caching a portion of it.

        Does that mean that you have mingled with idiotic haters?

        • 2 votes
        #1.122 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:37 PM EDT

        Andrew,

        "No folks its a learned behavior. Its a choice."

        Really, Andrew? Where do they teach it? Is there a university of homosexuality somewhere? Is it an undergraduate or postgraduate program? I would like to get a degree in that. At least a B.A. if not an M.A.

        • 6 votes
        #1.123 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:37 PM EDT

        Homophobia is deviant, demonic behavioral problem.

        • 9 votes
        #1.124 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:40 PM EDT

        ourdoc,

        is that so? who are you again -and in what is that based upon? please define in your own written words -without help from your "holly book"- what's correct and incorrect. please don't infect the rest of the world with your ludicrous and unprecedented nescience.

        • 1 vote
        #1.125 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:52 PM EDT

        Very enlightening thread, thank you to all who participated.

        Rob-1903183

        Your post won the day, thank you for everything you posted about honesty, morality, transparency, and for teaching that there's a difference between semantics and reality.

        The reality is this already happens, the reality is everyone against it is basically against honesty and straightforwardness, and only because they have their own demons.

        The boy scouts will be open to all races, creeds and orientations from here on on out, amen.

        Bless you, bless gays and straights, bless god himself if he exists. Keep on truckin brothas and sistas and keep to the light boy scouts of america, dont bow to the hate from the right

        • 5 votes
        #1.126 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:55 PM EDT

        Kid is probably already pitching a tent in his pants

        • 1 vote
        #1.127 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:57 PM EDT

        I would have to say No, I would not want my son to share a tent with a homosexual.

        • 3 votes
        #1.128 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:58 PM EDT

        Oh this is funny! So you are comparing gays to animals? That doesn't really help your arguments. It is unnatural and animals don't have gay $ex to be gay, they do it to show dominance! Humans are not animals. We are mammals but not animals. That was what I learned in basic science in first grade. That was public California school by the way.....

        • 1 vote
        #1.129 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:59 PM EDT

        And to the "Dolts" (not to be mistaken for Adults) you know who you are, some animals DO engage in "same sex" sex. You can look that up for yourselves.

        I think the real concern should be with adult men or adult women sexually attracted and or assaulting, children--boys and girls alike.

        Aren't both things "natural" therefor should be socially acceptable? I mean if being gay is socially acceptable because they are born that way, then should pedophiles get the same respect using that argument?

        I could care less about gays, and find pedophiles reprehensible and wish them all the torture guantanamo can put out, but I sure wouldn't contradict myself like that when trying to make an argument.

        Homophobia is deviant, demonic behavioral problem.

        Homophobia is used as liberally by liberals as racist, neither word has any meaning at all, all they represent is that someone disagreed with a liberal.

        That was what I learned in basic science in first grade.

        This is when mguy comes back and calls you a bible-thumping bigot that doesn't believe in science because you are a creationist. He likes resorting to attacking religion, I think he was drilled by a priest as a youth, or maybe he sought it as an adult.

          #1.130 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:00 PM EDT

          "Ban Guns": I hate to break this to you, Dude (or Dudette), but some people ARE animals, rabid ones, ones that are evil and should be destroyed.

          • 2 votes
          #1.131 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:14 PM EDT

          STOP...this is all nonsense! My wife and I were involved with Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts for over 15 years in both stateside and overseas locations. It has been, even in recent years, our experience, that we adults are injecting way too much of our judgement into this matter than letting the kids solve it.

          Don't misunderstand me. I am not saying we shouldn't be involved. We should allow the kids to have the discussions. The only thing we really need to do is to prevent bullying in the process and to answer questions, if asked. It has been our experience, throughout the years, that the kids will arrive at a fair and equitable solution.

          Even in the worse scout troop I was ever involved with...where the boys constantly fought over the smallest things...once we were in the field, either our own troop camp out or an area Jamboree, the boys were a team. They frequently won awards for everything from camp sight construction/layout to physical mental competitions. In short, when put to the test THEY showed team spirit. WE, the adults, just stood by and let them run the show...they were also extremely adept at dealing with their own discipline situations. Never, even when they were at their worst, did they ever allow anyone to pick on one of their own.

          Trust me, the kids know how to make the right decisions.

          • 4 votes
          #1.132 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:15 PM EDT

          Wow ... the homophobic comments on this thead alone speak to the wildly ignorant fears of a huge number of Americans. That's just crazy. They're not animals, people. They're perfectly capable of mature and rational decisions and behavior and control. Some of you, however, never seem to have emerged from preschool. Wow just wow.

          • 5 votes
          #1.133 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:29 PM EDT

          honestdebate

          This is when mguy comes back and calls you a bible-thumping bigot that doesn't believe in science because you are a creationist. He likes resorting to attacking religion, I think he was drilled by a priest as a youth, or maybe he sought it as an adult.

          Ahhhh... you are too kind.

          Although I notice you still have not responding to my last post, requesting an honest debate with you... the type that stays on topic and addresses each discussion without deviating to a different point.

          I suppose attacking me and hurling insults instead of taking me up on my offer is another way to go about it. I'm sure your god is very proud of the way you are conducting yourself.

          • 2 votes
          #1.134 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:30 PM EDT

          No, "Lexus", God didn't say anything about not being homosexual. MAN said that God said homosexuality was a sin. Man said that God said A LOT of things. "And Jesus said: "...that we should love one another as ourself..." or was it, "...do unto other's as you would have other's do unto you..."?

          • 5 votes
          #1.135 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:33 PM EDT

          The Company

          Basically, you are saying that gays are not capable of being in the same room with the same gender without the strong, overpowering urge to rape them

          I did not see where Wet Willy said or insinuated that. What he said was...

          Would one condone male/female tent accommodations? I think not, especially given the ages of such young people and their raging hormones.

          Since the definition of homosexuality is a sexual attraction to members of the same gender, sharing a tent would be unwise and asking for trouble.

          And that's understandable considering that a gay boy sharing a tent could possibly have an attraction to the straight boy. That in and of itself could cause an unwanted remark or gesture such as a compliment or even thorough up and down look that could make the straight boy feel uncomfortable not to mention the possibility of an unwanted touch. I can't see why pro gays don't realize that gay boys or men are attracted to the same sex and do and say the same things a heterosexual says to the opposite sex. Gays don't always hit on just gays and aren't just attracted to just gays. They are going to act and think just like any heterosexual will and have the same impulses.

          You can't tell me a gay boy sleeping in a tent with a straight boy he finds good looking isn't going to arouse him! And what straight boy is going to want to sleep next to a gay boy who may be laying there with a woody all for him? I can't figure out why pro-gays and gays find it hard to believe a straight male/female would not want to possibly be put in that type of situation. That like saying a straight male can be put in a shower room with a 25 year old Raquel Welch and wouldn't look or get an urge! Yet you think a gay male can sleep next to or shower with a straight male and won't notice the straight male if he finds him attractive. That's TOTAL BS! and you people know it!!!!

          And we all know a gay person would NEVER try and have sex with a hot straight person of the same sex so they can be the first same sex partner they had. We all know that no one wants to be the opposite sexes first a encounter. Why would a 21 year old male want to be the first to be with a 21 year old female or vice versa?

          I had a gay guy try and pick me up once at a club. When I told him I was straight, he seemed to get turned on more and approached me a second time thinking it was cute that I was uncomfortable. Finally when I was leaving he decided to grab a handful of my ass thinking it was funny until he realized security had seen him do it. Which I was glad for. Security at Harpo's at I-94 and Chalmers in Detroit was very heavy and no non-sense. This was also in 1981 and I'm assuming this guy never did that @!$%# again as he had a pretty petrified look on his face as he was escorted towards the back of the building.

          A gay sleeping a room, or tent in this case, with the same sex is no different then a straight person sleeping in the same room as the opposite sex. What is so confounding that gays or pro-gays can't see it? We wouldn't let our children sleep in a tent with the opposite sex so why would we let them sleep in a tent with someone attracted to the same sex. Isn't the difference the same? And if not....why not?

          • 5 votes
          #1.136 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:34 PM EDT

          "honestly" "debate"; if you think that an adult man or an adult woman being sexually aroused by children and or having sex with them is NATURAL, well then, I think either YOU are a pedophile or you should seek some help. Period. Your argument is, "Waaay out of Whack."

          • 2 votes
          #1.137 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:38 PM EDT

          Ourdoc,

          I apologize -i misread your post. please forgive my insolence...

            #1.138 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:41 PM EDT

            "alve" what's a "Holly Book"? Does that have something to do with a commercialized Christmas? You know, the one we celebrate on December 25th? Oh no, wait a minute, that's the date that MAN set for Christmas, right?

            • 1 vote
            #1.139 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:57 PM EDT

            @darkshadows "and i have seen animals engage in homosexual activity.....". So with that logic, i have seen lions engage in infanticide. Shall we accept that as normal in society as welll??

            Oh well, obviously you can't tell the difference between one act being between consenting parties and another act as a violation of rights of a child. I am assuming you are of the religious homophobes of the current age. If you want to talk about the death of children, it was the Biblical god himself that killed the firstborn in Egypt. I love people like you that can't even have a logical response because you are so warped by your paranoia and think you have a free card to judge everyone.

            • 3 votes
            #1.140 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:59 PM EDT

            Wet Willy

            Would one condone male/female tent accommodations? I think not, especially given the ages of such young people and their raging hormones.

            Since the definition of homosexuality is a sexual attraction to members of the same gender, sharing a tent would be unwise and asking for trouble.

            Of course they wouldnt. When i was that age I was sexually attracted to girls.. If one was in a tent with me, I would love to have seen her getting naked getting into her sleeping bag ect ect . Im sure she would feel very uncomfortable having guys look at her getting undressed.

            So now you have gay boys in the tent or cabin with you, and your straight and now you undress in front of your gay co-scout , of course he will be attracted to you, is that fair to our straight kids ?

            Why should we subject our kids to this kind of stuff ? WHy is the BS even thinking of changing their rules ? They have the SUpreme court backing them up to not allow gays.. All that work they did to get the courts to rule in their favor years ago.

            Why should the BSA, a private organization allow themselves to be bullied by the LGBT community. And this is bullying because the BSA had already made it clear how they felt, but that wasnt good enough.. The LGBT keeps on taking them to court and getting endless litigation against the BSA. NO !! isnt good enough for the LGBT, the supreme court isnt enough.. It being a private organization isnt enough, this is blatant bullying.

            Why even want to be around people who dont want you around ? Why would gay people want to be in an organization who doesnt want them anyway. Go make your own Gay scouts of America and have endless fun with people of the same morality, prinicples, thinking. Birds of a feather flock togather.. ever hear of that ? Why force a set of beliefs on another group.. It is nothing but blatant bullying.. i cant say that enough.

            • 2 votes
            #1.141 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:07 PM EDT

            @ Maggie

            I agree that the core issue is pedohilia...but, to say that a pedophile can't be a homosexual, or a homosexual can't be a pedophile is ignorance at a level you can't possibly believe. If a male leader has sex with an underage male he simply becomes a homosexual pedophile.

            The question one has to ask themselves is this...is it ok for Adult heterosexual male, girl scout leaders to sleep in a tent with girls?

            The obvious answer is no. Why?

            • 1 vote
            #1.142 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:08 PM EDT

            If your out camping and someone put in a penis in your buns would you tell anybody..."hell no"...want to go camping then? This joke doesn't seem funny anymore now.

            But no keep to yourself no gays seeping with straights the temptation is to great for the man lovers to be in the same tent, and if they do they need to allow co-ed sleep overs for both sexes so the temptation is the same for the heterosexuals or shall i say 'the normals"??

            • 2 votes
            #1.143 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:09 PM EDT

            JMagnum Yes some people are like animals. What I was saying was that we should not be acting like animals. Just because an animal does something doesn't make it right. We are capable of thinking for ourselves and not following instinct. Homosexuality is a sin and that's it. End of story.

            Oh, I'm a guy since you having trouble as to who to address your post to....

              #1.144 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:09 PM EDT

              Gays hit on heterosexuals all the time. Back in the late 70's I was an assistant bar manager at a nice local restaurant & lounge. 99% of the guys on the restaurant side were gay guys, who hit on me constantly. The ones who didn't get it, that I wouldn't go out with them, after bugging me 2 times, I went directly to my manager, and to the owner. 3 of them were fired for harrassment. End of story.

              I never offended any of them. Just told them I was interested. Some will not take no for an answer, just like anyone.When that happens, just make sure you can document it in this day and age.

              Also, that goes for straight people as well

                #1.145 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:14 PM EDT

                Homosexuality is a sin and that's it. End of story.

                So is eating shellfish. So is wearing clothes of different fabrics. So is working on Sunday.

                So is having "lustful thoughts" about a hot girl... yet I am willing to bet that you continue to do that.

                So is "coveting your neighbor"... yet people continue to be jealous, or get angry about what someone else has and how they acquired it.

                So is judging others... yet here you are.

                Oh... I forgot. You are the typical, disrespectful christian who picks and chooses what parts of the bible you follow, and what parts you ignore. Continue treating your "holy book" as a Chinese take-out menu.

                • 3 votes
                #1.146 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:27 PM EDT

                mguy,

                Damn it, stop making sense!!! What the heck is wrong with you?????

                Seems a bit simple to me. Don't want to share a tent, don't. No problem with it. Then hey, no problem!!

                • 3 votes
                #1.147 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:47 PM EDT

                "SABOT"; If I may...Yes. Theoretically, a MAN could be both a Pedophile AND a Homosexual; meaning he would "like" and have "sex" with a CONSENTING adult male as well as being attracted to and assault/abuse children. These are two very different mindsets. A man who is homosexual has sex with a, "Consenting Adult." By virtue of being a "homosexual male" does NOT, in any way, mean that said male is a pedophile. Like I said, they are two very different ways of being.

                Consent: Noun; permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.

                Assault: Make a physical attack on. Abuse: Treat (a person or animal) with cruelty or violence.

                • 3 votes
                #1.148 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:48 PM EDT

                "Can a Gay Boy Scout share a tent with another boy?" I would guess it all depends if the Gay Boy Scout was pitching his " OWN " tent.

                  #1.149 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:50 PM EDT

                  JMagnum Yes some people are like animals. What I was saying was that we should not be acting like animals. Just because an animal does something doesn't make it right. We are capable of thinking for ourselves and not following instinct. Homosexuality is a sin and that's it. End of story.

                  It's your side that brings up that homosexuality is unnatural. So it is proved that it does occur in nature, so now that is disregarded because we are of higher intelligence. So which is it? Just like the typical Christian today, the story keeps changing to suit the argument because you cannot debate any of your points logically. I would think if we are capable of thinking for ourselves, we wouldn't need an archaic book to do it for us like you seem to need. I would think higher intelligent beings could get past judging others because they are different. You don't like homosexuality, then don't do it. No one is forcing you to engage in that activity, but you seem happy to make sure you force your beliefs on those that do.

                  • 3 votes
                  #1.150 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:53 PM EDT

                  TXHorseman

                  Actually I am a little confused. It's been a while, but when I was in scouts I didn't share a tent with anyone... well, except my dad when they did the father/son trips. But other than that, everyone was required to bring their own tents.

                  Maybe things have changed, but I thought all scouts had their own tents. Solves the problem, if you ask me.

                  • 3 votes
                  #1.151 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:01 PM EDT

                  @ Dark Shadows

                  The only "evidence" of homosexual acts in nature is a illustrated book thats all conjecture, with no scientific backing.

                  The strongest evidence against homosexuality being a naturally occuring phenom vs. a human societal side effect (unless your counting random genetic mutations).... is that life, void of human ego and will, fights for survival as primary to all other things. Homosexuality is in direct opposition to the survival of a species. The very nature of homosexuality, prevents the "homosexual" gene from reproducing on any meaningful scale. It would simply be worked out of the gene pool.

                  @ Jmagnum

                  By virtue of being a "homosexual male" does NOT, in any way, mean that said male is a pedophile.

                  Never once did I say that by virtue of being a homosexual you are automatically a pedophile.

                  But, by being a homosexual pedophile it does automatically make boys the most likely target. So where logic is concerned, you don't place people of the opposite (or attracted to same sex) person in a tent with said target sex child. This isnt rocket science Mag.

                    #1.153 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:30 PM EDT

                    It seems to me that you are trying to bad mouth my view on homosexuatlity. I think it is wrong, disgusting, immoral, and unnatural. That is my view and I am entitled to them just as you are entitled to think that sticking your d!ck inside some guys butt is perfectly ok and normal. It's not my crap that is going to flow out when I am old and my anus is stretched beyond repair....

                    • 1 vote
                    #1.154 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:33 PM EDT

                    It's ironic that we call Muslims neanderthals living in the Stone Age because of their belief that if women show too much skin, the male Muslim will lose control and rape them. And yet you have idiots on here thinking the same way when it comes to homosexuals. "OMG don't let a homo boy sleep in a tent with a straight boy, he's gonna molest/rape/kiss/whatever him!!"

                    Me thinks the lady doth protest too much...

                    • 3 votes
                    #1.155 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:42 PM EDT

                    It's not that people believe that ALL will do that!! Would you put a girl and boy in the same tent? Hopefully not! It is the same for gays. You wouldn't mix them because there is always that chance that it WILL happen and then they'll have a law suit on their hands because they didn't "take precaution".....

                      #1.156 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:46 PM EDT

                      Sabot

                      The only "evidence" of homosexual acts in nature is a illustrated book thats all conjecture, with no scientific backing.

                      Except... you know, all those documented cases of scientific analysis when it happens. But that is just science mumbo-jumbo, right?

                      Homosexuality is in direct opposition to the survival of a species.

                      Not when said species is in danger of extreme over-population. Then survival depends on a certain subset NOT reproducing, in order to maintain balance.

                      • 3 votes
                      #1.157 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:57 PM EDT

                      ohwell-1824629

                      @Mgay "You would do well not to compare humans to animals... especially humans like YOU... you will lose every time". Your group of clowns are the ones constantly comparing the occurence of homosexuality in the animal world to justify your deviant behavior to society. Your respite was poor to say the least.

                      Matter of fact, if you homosexuals would just learn to keep your sexuality to yourself, then gays in the boy scouts would not have ever been an issue. Homo's would exist in the boyscouts and life would go on. But NO, a number of queers decided that they would like to make sexuality an issue. You just had to bring up your perversions and announce them to the world instead of just quietly going about your life like most normal people do.

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                      #1.158 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:23 PM EDT

                      coravensfan: Cub Scouts? Yes! Boy Scouts? Do you really think Junior or Senior High kids are talking about "cooties?"

                        #1.159 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:31 PM EDT

                        I guess it comes down to this. If the Boy Scouts/ Girl Scouts change to allow the gay movement, then we as parents that don't want our children exposed to this sick way of life will have to get our children involved in after school activities other than the scouting programs. It's too bad, because these really were great programs but to keep our children from being around this gay crap I am prepared to watch as these programs die and move on with my children to good programs. Well, I hope the gay movement is happy with bringing their sick lifestyle to this point. You will go down in history as what caused the death of the scouting programs. Hey grandpa, whatever happened to the scouting programs that were around when you were a kid? The gay movement pushed their agenda on the scouting programs and people pulled their children out of scouting and quit supporting those programs.

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                        #1.160 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:38 PM EDT

                        SABOT said: "If a male leader has sex with an underage male he simply becomes a homosexual pedophile."

                        No. You're wrong. You can't imply that one equals the other; X+Y does NOT = Z.

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                        #1.161 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:42 PM EDT

                        If you are dying of hypothermia and your straight scout friends are arguing over which one is going to get naked to warm you, then you'll be begging for a gay scout.

                          #1.162 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:08 PM EDT

                          Michael-4273928

                          I guess it comes down to this. If the Boy Scouts/ Girl Scouts change to allow the gay movement, then we as parents that don't want our children exposed to this sick way of life will have to get our children involved in after school activities other than the scouting programs. It's too bad, because these really were great programs but to keep our children from being around this gay crap I am prepared to watch as these programs die and move on with my children to good programs. Well, I hope the gay movement is happy with bringing their sick lifestyle to this point. You will go down in history as what caused the death of the scouting programs. Hey grandpa, whatever happened to the scouting programs that were around when you were a kid? The gay movement pushed their agenda on the scouting programs and people pulled their children out of scouting and quit supporting those programs.

                          Yeah they call that "personal choice." You are welcome to raise your children to be just as bigoted as yourself.

                          "Hey grandpa, whatever happened to the scouting programs that were around when you were a kid?"

                          "Well, junior, I didn't want my kids hanging around them faggots. They might have turned into faggots themselves"

                          "But grandpa, you didn't know that I'm gay as well and that there is nothing wrong with it?"

                          "GTFO of my house faggot!"

                          ...Substitute the N word instead of faggot and you'll understand what life before the 50's was like for blacks. Why you would raise your children to be like that, to hate like that, is beyond me..

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                          #1.163 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 10:15 PM EDT

                          You *do* that Michael-4273928. The Scouts actually do not need narrow minded fundamentalists like you. And it is the fundamentalist Christian religious that infiltrated and gained significant power in the BSA over the last 30 years which *will* be the death of the Boy Scouts if they don't kick this fundamentalism to the curb.

                          Why? Because the scapegoat Du-jour of the fundamentalists during that time, being gay people, have come out of the closet and their friends, family, neighbors, coworkers, associates, and fellow Americans have rapidly come to realize that they are just like everyone else in every conceivable way except who they are romantically attracted to. And society is no longer tolerating prejudice bigotry and discrimination against their friends, family, and fellow citizens.

                          It's not LGBT people who are forcing the BSA's hand in this. It is their rapidly dwindling membership numbers as more-and-more people choose to not to have their children affiliated with such a discriminatory organization that would say for instance their son's brother or beloved uncle is not welcome among them. And it is their increasing loss of corporate sponsorship and donations, who also do not agree with the BSA's discriminatory policies against gay people and also non-theistic children, that is causing the Boy Scouts to rethink their position on this.

                          The Girls Scouts has no anti-gay policy and they are doing just fine. So will the Boy Scouts. Do you think the various fundamentalist sects are going to get together to have a similar organization who's only defining characteristic is that they forbid gay kids? Ha! Even if they did that, each of these fundamentalist sects, be they the Mormons or the Southern Baptists or fundamentalist Muslims, etc... are going to want the organization to revolve around their specific religious beliefs. You're not going to have a large vibrant national organization like the BSA with narrow-mindedness like that.

                          So you can take your sad pathetic bigoted a** and your kids out of scouting, but make no mistake your kids *are* growing up in a world where gay people are increasingly accepted as the valuable friends and family that they are and your kids *will* almost certainly one day look down upon their father as being an ignorant bigot insofar as it comes to gay people. And if you're ESPECIALLY lucky, one of you kids will be gay and you can further contemplate how much you want to disadvantage and discriminate against him or her.

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                          #1.164 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 10:32 PM EDT

                          @ohwell-1824629 "So with that logic, i have seen lions engage in infanticide. Shall we accept that as normal in society as welll??"

                          So.... you are saying that if we see something in nature, indicating that it is natural, that ALL things seen in nature should be okay among humanity? Hence you conclude that if we demonstrate that homosexuality is, in fact, natural because it is seen in the animal kingdom, that means that because we see infanticide in the animal kingdom as well, then THAT should be considered acceptable if we are to consider homosexuality acceptable?

                          And you don't see any gaping holes in your logic here, ohwell-1824629?

                          By your logic, since we see heterosexuality (straight sex) in the natural world and we consider it as okay among humans, then we should also see infanticide as okay among humans.

                          How it is you cannot distinguish acts between two adults who are consenting with one another to engage in those acts (gay sex) with those acts in which NOT all participants are willing and consenting (infanticide), is simply astounding and really seriously undermines your having any credibility whatsoever.

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                          #1.165 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 10:58 PM EDT

                          michael: Do you keep your boys locked up in their separate bedrooms? What are you doing as a parent to prepare your boys for reality? Do you tell them that anyone who doesn't think like them is sick, so they shouldn't have anything to do with them? Do you teach them that they should be as frightened as you of anyone who isn't like you? Or, are you teaching them to shoot anyone who doesn't agree with your philosophy of life? Do you know anyone who is gay? Let me rephrase that, do you know anyone who you know is gay? Do you know why I rephrased it? Let me tell you why. It is because everyone I've known who's claimed they don't know anyone who is gay really does know someone who is gay. It's amazing who people who are like you haven't a clue that others don't realize that you are like you are. So, why would they be honest with you?

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                          #1.166 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:58 PM EDT

                          A gay male is ONLY attracted to other GAY males. A gay male is NOT going to be attracted, or come on to, a heterosexual male or any female.

                          You're complaining about other's ignorance and yet you make this absurd statement. There is a whole subsection of homosexual porn in which they show straight males masturbating. Do homosexuals look differently so that another homosexual can tell that they're homosexual? Do you think that gays look at someone, ask him "are you gay" and only after they say yes, are attracted to them? Sexual attraction is something that happens unconciously.

                            #1.167 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 9:35 AM EDT

                            @ Jmagnum

                            No. You're wrong. You can't imply that one equals the other; X+Y does NOT = Z.

                            No. You're wrong. I'm not not implying...I'm stating, if a male leader has sex with an underage male he is a homosexual pedophile.

                            Imply: to make something understood without expressing it directly

                            Statement: idea expressed in definite terms

                            @ MGuy

                            Not when said species is in danger of extreme over-population. Then survival depends on a certain subset NOT reproducing, in order to maintain balance. (in response to my comment -Homosexuality is in direct opposition to the survival of a species.)

                            Sure...over population.

                            Then suicide shouldnt be illegal or even discouraged then.

                            Why bother about with anti-obesity campaigns, since obesity killed off 400,000 Americans last year.

                            Seat belt wearing should be optional.

                            Anyway...enough placating your silliness. There in no evidence this country is overpopulated...in fact to the contrary. Just today this posted... http://news.msn.com/us/census-more-than-1-in-3-us-counties-are-now-dying-off

                            Oh...you meant the world?

                            http:/geography.about.com/od/populationgeography/a/popdensity.htm

                            It breaks down to less than 2% of the Earths surface is populated by humans. Doesnt really sound like over population. Pull your head out of your fifth point of contact.

                              #1.168 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 10:02 AM EDT

                              mguy-478

                              Homosexuality is a sin and that's it. End of story.

                              So is eating shellfish. So is wearing clothes of different fabrics. So is working on Sunday.

                              Changed after new Testament came. As for Sunday, the day isnt important, its about keeping the sabbath. Allowing one day of rest to enter Gods sabbath day, and focus on him. Kind of like recharging your soul ..

                              So is having "lustful thoughts" about a hot girl... yet I am willing to bet that you continue to do that.

                              Im sure a lot of us do. I know I do. But where does it say that being a Christian makes you immune to sinful things ? Christians are sinners , just like those who dont believe and do the same things that are sinful, are sinners. The difference between Christian and non, as that the Christian will lust, and then at some point in time, feel convicted of what they have done and goto God for forgiveness, and as for the strength to not do it any more. That still doesnt mean that it wont happen, but we are to try to make ourselves more like Christ.

                              So is "coveting your neighbor"... yet people continue to be jealous, or get angry about what someone else has and how they acquired it.

                              Once again, if done, conviction comes, and repentance is needed.

                              So is judging others... yet here you are.

                              And we are allowed to Judge according to Scripture to help keep our fellow Christian people in check. How ever, if I am going to judge a person and doing the exact sinful thing myself that they are doing then that is being a hypocrite .. Hence the saying dont talk about the speck in your brothers eye when you have a plank in yours. So yes we are allowed to judge when confronting our fellow brothers and sisters to help keep them in check with biblical teaching. We are looking out for each other.

                              Oh... I forgot. You are the typical, disrespectful christian who picks and chooses what parts of the bible you follow, and what parts you ignore. Continue treating your "holy book" as a Chinese take-out menu.

                              There are plenty of people out there who are like this. I have no idea who you are referring to here, but I agree with you that people are guilty of such things. Just not the bible, but History books is another fine example. I see so many one liners or partial sentences ripped from entire paragraphs of our founding fathers to make them look like they are saying or believing something else completely from what they are saying in full context. Even our first ammendment gets butchered.

                              Also i would like to add, all sin , is sin. Being gay itself doesnt seem to be the sin, its the act of homosexuality. A man sleeping with a man, woman with woman would be the sin. Lying is a sin, cheating is a sin, stealing, murder, worshiping other Gods.. There are many sins, and they are all viewed the same. But all of them can be forgiven, and we are to refrain from sinning.

                              Example of the one liner thing i was telling you. Jesus and the woman at the well..

                              Let he who is with out sin cast the first stone.....

                              So many people toss this out there in christians faces, but nobody seems to finish the rest of the sentence. Jesus did forgive her, but he also tells her to go and sin NO MORE.. meaning knock it off.. stop doing what your doing. So, if homosexuality, the act of it , is a sin, then refrain from doing it, if your a liar, refrain from doing it, if you cheat , then refrain from doign it..

                                #1.169 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 11:30 AM EDT

                                @ Chris

                                I substituted the words faggot (or gay) with the N word....

                                Grandpa - "Well, junior, I didn't want my kids hanging around them n*ggers. They might have turned into n*iggers themselves"

                                Grandson - "Sir, you are talking to a n*gger!"

                                It just dissolved into a scene from 'The Jerk.'

                                  #1.170 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 2:05 PM EDT

                                  @SabotAndHeat

                                  How so very quaint that you think human beings occupying less than 2% of the Earth's surface area equates to not having an overpopulation problem.

                                  I realize it's difficult for people who were never taught to think beyond the tips of their noses to comprehend these things. But let me try to simplify it for you.

                                  It's not about how much SPACE human beings take up. It's about our ever expanding resource consumption (and the majority of the world does not live with the same massive resource consumption of the average American - though they are very much trying to get there), and the subsequent damaging impact that consumption (and other activity) has on the very ecosystem that sustains human life! (This is where I'd add 'you dolt' if I wanted to drive home the point of the absolute stupidity of your statement).

                                  Human beings don't just take up their own physical space and the space of their personal living area. The amount of space required to support an individual human being for a lifetime is MUCH bigger, AND human beings are only a small part of the vast and intricate ecosystem that maintains and sustains the very environmental conditions that provide a surface that is habitable by humanity. We are already having an undue amount of impact on that ecosystem, and if we cause it to collapse, while life will happily go on on this planet, it won't be able to support human life again perhaps for thousands if not 100's of thousands of years.

                                  As to not fighting against those things which kill existing human beings, it's an absurd analogy. We value other living sentient human beings, and once realized we work to protect each other. But we also work to improve the impact each other has on society. Obesity, suicide, not wearing a seat belt, war, etc... don't just kill off people. Those things, and the death, can and do have negative impacts on all the other people those lives touch and ultimately society at large.

                                  We have extended human life and health tremendously due to our advents of things like agriculture, medicine, industry and other scientific advances. We've circumvented nature's built in population regulators (like homosexuality), and have exploded the human population. And here we have people like YOU who are stuck in the bronze age trying to say we should eliminate even the things nature has evolved to try to prevent a population from overgrowing itself and killing itself off!

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                                  #1.171 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 10:28 PM EDT

                                  @ Glen

                                  And here we have people like YOU who are stuck in the bronze age trying to say we should eliminate even the things nature has evolved to try to prevent a population from overgrowing itself and killing itself off!

                                  I would love to see where exactly I stated anything should be "eliminated" ! I'm arguing homosexuality is a choice... and that's all. It is you who are trying to make me an extremist out of words that were only typed by you.

                                  It's about our ever expanding resource consumption...

                                  This is nothing new to the planet. It only happens in degrees. Why were Native Americans nomadic? Because they used up resources in that spot and moved on. It's a rather simple human modus operandi. We will do just as Dr. Sagan envisioned and continue to expand out into the galaxy and consume even more resources!

                                  We havent even begun to scratch the surface of the resources that we can use for energy right here on this planet. So I find it rather quaint that you believe we are at the peak of human capablity to produce new forms of energy. (This is where I'd add 'you tool' if I wanted to drive home the point of the absolute stupidity of your statement).

                                  ...the things nature has evolved to try to prevent a population from overgrowing itself and killing itself off!

                                  To say that the homosexual population is basically "here to save us from ourselves" is absurd. If nature were just simply trying to prevent overpopulation by making an irrelevant vessel for procreation...it would be much easier and save far more energy by just making the mother of said "naturally made" homosexual, sterile. Then you have no birth and no extra mouth to feed via the very same uber-strained ecosystem you bleat as being the natural reason for homosexuality in the first place.

                                  I do not disagree... homosexuals should have the same rights we do. No matter what you might try to do to fit me into a box because we disagree...I have clearly stated it now. You may now argue with yourself in private as to the honesty of that statement.

                                  Your logic is flawed beyond words and shows that youre simply pandering to the homosexual, without thought. But, your sycophant pandering friends will agree with you, and that's all you really need...the mindless acceptance of other fragile hearts like yourself.

                                  As I stated originally, homosexuality is a choice.

                                    #1.172 - Fri Mar 15, 2013 10:09 AM EDT

                                    @ Glen

                                    P.S...

                                    A sterile woman cannot procreate.

                                    A homosexual (or gay) person can pro-create.

                                    If homosexuality was a built in mechanism to prevent over-population, why wouldnt nature choose sterilization over homosexuality?

                                    In fact, many gay couples have found surrogates to help them actually have a child despite the homosexual nature of the couple.

                                    Please try and weasle an explanation as to why a homosexual couple would want to reproduce if natures sole purpose for homosexuality was to prevent reproduction in the first place? Sounds a bit like homosexuality is choice of the ego, not a burden of nature.

                                      #1.173 - Fri Mar 15, 2013 10:48 AM EDT
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                                      aside from people like you right? rape is rape whether it be gay or straight... seek help morrison

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                                      #2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:12 PM EDT

                                      I think we should have a New Merit Badge ....Kron-Holing

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                                      #2.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:27 PM EDT

                                      NO WAY! Any kid of mine is not going camping with a fgt.

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                                      #2.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:15 PM EDT

                                      FACT: gays are no more likely to be pedophiles than straight men. (are Catholic pedophile priests gay?)

                                      FACT: homosexual boys grow into homosexual men...therefore, there are and probably always have been gay boy scouts. Undoubtedly, there have been gay boys sharing tents with other boys in the past. Has rape or gay sex on boy scout camping trips every been a problem before? If not, why would it be any different if a boy is openly gay as opposed to secretly gay?

                                      FACT: There are millions of ignorant homophobes in the US. Perhaps some can be persuaded that homosexuals are just as normal as anyone else. Probably, many will never be convinced; they're too brainwashed by religion or hatred to ever accept homosexuals. Thankfully, their numbers are dwindling. But if the Catholic Church pedophile priest scandal hasn't shaken their faith or allegiance to their particular church, nothing we say here will change their minds.

                                      If you want to avoid these homophobes, keep your sons out of the Boy Scouts! That's what I did, and they are just fine without scouting, thank you very much. I refuse to support any organization that promotes this type of bias (while protecting/hiding their pedophile members).

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                                      #2.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:23 PM EDT

                                      Even asking such a question is based on the automatic assumption that one's sexual orientation makes them a sexual predator. It is the worst kind of stupid.

                                      The BSA should have been as concerned about sexual predators among their heterosexual leaders and members. They wouldn't have found themselves in the position of covering over the sexual assaults on children that have occurred.

                                        #2.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:26 PM EDT

                                        Support the Girl Scouts instead! No religious affiliation & no haters. Cookies on sale this month folks!

                                        *smile*

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                                        #2.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:40 PM EDT

                                        Not only is the act of homosexuality physically filthy, but it is also morally filthy

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                                        #2.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:45 PM EDT

                                        You wanna talk about physically filthy, DocHolliday, there's plenty of heterosexual that are probably into anal sex. You're aware of sodomy laws, I'm sure. Those same laws also make oral sex illegal.

                                        As far as what's morally right? I think most people would agree that soemthing is morally wrong if it hurts another person. Lying, stealing, beating... Anyone who thinks morals extends much beyond this is drawing from either what they consider a higher moral authority (i.e. God), or from fear.

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                                        #2.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:55 PM EDT

                                        I agree with Maggie 100%.

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                                        #2.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:16 PM EDT

                                        Homosexuals, think about your lives folks, do you really understand what type of diseases you could be facing?

                                        How about these for starters:

                                        - Anal Cancer

                                        - Rectal Cancer

                                        - HIV, or worse... AIDS

                                        -HPV

                                        - Karposi Sarcoma

                                        - Oropharengeal Carcinoma

                                        - MonoNucloesis

                                        - Herpes Type II

                                        - Colorectal Cancer due to metastasis from other regions

                                        - Prolapsed Rectum

                                        - Hemorrhoids

                                        Why go through that path of destruction, in the end no one will ever remember you for anything good...plus no kids, no dignity, no generation of your own...just you and your so called partner in death..

                                        Just crazy...

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                                        #2.9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:28 PM EDT

                                        Hey doc. Heterosexuals = SAME LIST

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                                        #2.10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:29 PM EDT

                                        Speaking of crazy .. Doc you take the cake and the straightjacket and the thorazine drip. That is just unbelieveable how ignorant that comment is. You have a wildly limited understanding of epidemiology.

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                                        #2.11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:33 PM EDT

                                        DocHolliday,

                                        "Not only is the act of homosexuality physically filthy, but it is also morally filthy"

                                        Don't tell me. Let me guess. You learned that from Saint Augustine, didn't you? I've read his Confessions. He was always writing about the "filth of concupiscence" or "the filth of the flesh", but I think he was talking about sex in general. He had so much of it when he was young, I guess he got tired of it and came to the conclusion that all sex is filthy.

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                                        #2.12 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:33 PM EDT

                                        Why can't they all just have separate tents? Problem solved. Also something that is annoying...just because someone is gay doesn't mean they're going around trying to rape everyone and "turn" everyone else gay. Come on people.

                                        Would I allow a straight boy & girl to sleep together..no.

                                        Would I allow my child to sleep with an openly gay kid..depends...is my child gay as well? Then no I wouldn't.

                                        If my child were friends with said gay kid and didn't have a problem with it then why should I have a problem?

                                        If someone is uncomfortable then no they shouldn't be forced to sleep together...just like you wouldn't put two kids together that picked on each other.

                                        They're people too. Don't talk about them like they're objects with no feelings. No wonder kids are so uncomfortable being in their own skin.

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                                        #2.13 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:15 PM EDT

                                        @ Maggie

                                        There are plenty of homosexuals who do the very same thing you describe of homophopes. Seen it personally

                                          #2.14 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:20 PM EDT

                                          The truth hurts, doesnt it?

                                          Dont hide behind the veil of invisibility, it could cost you your life...

                                          Some more diseases that homosexuals are 100 times more likely to contract than the average person are....

                                          -Gay Bowel syndrome

                                          -Hepatitis A

                                          -Hepatitis B

                                          -Hepatits C

                                          -Gonorrhea

                                          -Proctitis

                                          -Proctocolitis

                                          -Enteritis

                                          - Syphilis

                                        • - Candidiasis of bronchi, esophagus, trachea or lungs
                                        • - Coccidioidomycosis that has spread
                                        • - Cryptococcosis that is affecting the body outside the lungs
                                        • - Cryptosporidiosis affecting the intestines and lasting more than a month
                                        • - Cytomegalovirus disease outside of the liver, spleen or lymph nodes
                                        • - Cytomegalovirus retinitis that occurs with vision loss
                                        • - Encephalopathy that is HIV-related
                                        • - Isosporiasis
                                        • - Lymphoma
                                        • - Mycobacterium avium complex or disease caused by M kansasii
                                        • - Mycobacterium tuberculosis in or outside the lungs
                                        • - Pneumocystis jiroveci, formerly called carinii, pneumonia
                                        • - Progressive multifocal leukoencephalopathy
                                        • - Salmonella septicemia that is recurrent
                                        • - Toxoplasmosis of the brain, also called encephalitis
                                        • - Wasting syndrome caused by HIV infection
                                        • It brings a chuckle sometimes when folks call others ignorant and yet they are sticking others in the wrong place..who's more ignorant? Lol

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                                          #2.15 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:31 PM EDT

                                          Best way to learn about something is to try it for one's self!

                                          Wouldn't want any ignorance or intolerance now, would we? Ha, ha, ha!

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                                          #2.16 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:15 PM EDT

                                          DocHolliday,

                                          "Some more diseases that homosexuals are 100 times more likely to contract than the average person are...."

                                          You're really into diseases, aren't you? Haven't you learned yet that if one thing doesn't kill you, another will? We are all going to die, gay or straight. Or have you discovered the key to eternal life? If you have, please let me know what it is. I'd be more than happy to try it.

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                                          #2.18 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:20 PM EDT

                                          I don't know how any of you could think that practicing gays are clean. It is disgusting and immoral.

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                                          #2.19 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:51 PM EDT

                                          Ban Guns,

                                          "I don't know how any of you could think that practicing gays are clean."

                                          They really don't need to practice. It just comes naturally to them. But who ever said that sex of any kind was clean? Sex is all nasty, filthy and dirty. You can grow quite a frightening culture of bacteria in a petri dish containing a little nutrient agar if you swab the sex organs of anyone. So Gay sex is no dirtier than heterosexual sex.

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                                          #2.20 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:07 PM EDT

                                          @Mgay "You would do well not to compare humans to animals... especially humans like YOU... you will lose every time". Your group of clowns are the ones constantly comparing the occurence of homosexuality in the animal world to justify your deviant behavior to society. Your respite was poor to say the least.

                                          Matter of fact, if you homosexuals would just learn to keep your sexuality to yourself, then gays in the boy scouts would not have ever been an issue. Homo's would exist in the boyscouts and life would go on. But NO, a number of queers decided that they would like to make sexuality an issue. You just had to bring up your perversions and announce them to the world instead of just quietly going about your life like most normal people do.

                                            #2.21 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:21 PM EDT

                                            "DocHolliday"; you do know, don't you, that EVERYTHING you listed in your last post is everything that men and women exchange between each other? Yes, that's right...MEN and WOMEN. As in: "Money Sex"; "Forced Sex"; "Casual Sex"; "Porn Sex"; "Drunk Sex"; "Pissed-Off Sex"; "Phuck You Sex; "Wild-Side Sex"; etcetera, etcetera.

                                            And so now, young girls starting at age nine, are "mandated" or advised to take the HPV Vaccine--not boys, just girls. There is something very wrong with that equation. Are you paying ATTENTION?

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                                            #2.22 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:03 PM EDT

                                            ohwell-1824629:@darkshadows "and i have seen animals engage in homosexual activity.....". So with that logic, i have seen lions engage in infanticide. Shall we accept that as normal in society as welll??

                                            Yes. It's called abortion.

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                                            #2.23 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:54 PM EDT

                                            Wow. DocHolliday is here! Surprise surprise

                                            I don't participate in these discussions regarding LGBT rights on NBC all that often, but when I do it's a certainty that DocHolliday will be in the discussion railing on-and-on about the "evils of homosexuality". It seems reasonable to conclude that he's railing on in EVERY such story on NBC and likely many other places as well (in fact I believe I have in fact seen a DocHolliday spewing on with his anti-gay diatribe in other forums around the web).

                                            The guy is SERIOUSLY sick in the head.

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                                            #2.24 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 10:46 PM EDT

                                            You are sick in the head Glen,

                                            He got more up arrows than all you liberal clowns combined. Doc is logical, but you liberal clowns follow your perverse emotions and desires. Ha! The truth hurts doesn't it SODOMY Supporters? The truth hurts doesn't it immoral jackass clowns? He got more supporters than you jack ass Glen.

                                              #2.25 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:18 PM EDT

                                              wow... angel of light... I think you should consider changing your screen name.

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                                              #2.26 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:23 PM EDT

                                              Just a tad too ironic, isn't it?

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                                              #2.27 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:45 PM EDT

                                              Anyone ever seen the movie Deliverance? Maybe they ought to show it to all Boy Scouts. It's a classic. Soo-weeeeeeee!

                                                #2.28 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:51 PM EDT

                                                Mandy,

                                                "I think you should consider changing your screen name."

                                                Right! Might I suggest "Angel of Death"?

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                                                #2.29 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 10:13 AM EDT

                                                I find it very odd, that the religious folk who post their hate for gay "people" on here, tend to forget the Bible passage about " those who are without sin, cast the first stone". How many of you religious folk that are here, are without sin? And please, don't post any of your BS that you are without it when we all know better.

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                                                #2.30 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 3:08 PM EDT

                                                Bunch of gay bashing homophobes...Being gay does not mean humping the straight person their camping with. Gay does not equate to rape. Christianity is NOT the only religion out there and your religion isn't the almighty religion. (There are a LOT of other religions out the 1000's of years older than yours)

                                                Just keep your religion off/out of MY life. Schools/Laws/Politics/etc....that's all I ask.

                                                You have a problem with this...FOAD

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                                                #2.31 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 5:31 PM EDT

                                                Joe R.,

                                                Then you HOMO supporters should stop trying to force others to support the IMMORAL LIFESTYLE of GAYS. When GAY MARRIAGE is allow, the FILTHY AGENDA will be taught in the class rooms. So kids can be taught sexual confusion and sexual experimentations! YOU LIBERALS are sick in the head.

                                                  #2.32 - Tue Mar 19, 2013 1:28 PM EDT

                                                  You know there are gay republicans too, right?

                                                    #2.33 - Wed Mar 20, 2013 10:53 AM EDT
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                                                    I especially don't see where the lesbian den mother is a problem. Maybe if more lesbians had been involved in scouting, as opposed to married males who like little boys, the BSA would have had fewer cases of molestation to hide.

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                                                    Reply#3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:15 PM EDT

                                                    Wow, bad argument. Does putting a rapist in prison straighten him out?

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                                                    #3.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:32 PM EDT

                                                    Are you equating being a lesbian with being a rapist, John?

                                                    I think you're confused. All shinystar was trying to say was that by working hard to exclude one group of people from being involved in scouting (the openly gay), that it may have ended up being attractive to another group (the pedophiles).

                                                    Some people have the same criticism of the Catholic church. By insisting their priests remain celibate, it made it a place for pedophiles to hide their activities.

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                                                    #3.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:02 PM EDT

                                                    The problem, shinystar0525, isn't just about having a leader to babysit them, but a wholesome, male, role-model. Mom or not, I certainly don't see a lesbian as a role-model for boys. A role-model, by the way is somone you are able to idenyify with. Women have their place in a boys life, regardless of what their preferences might be, but the BSA is a male-oriented organization. Unfortunately there are a lot missing dads out there.

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                                                    #3.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:24 PM EDT

                                                    Big Curt than why the heck do they call it a DEN MOTHER?

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                                                    #3.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:12 PM EDT

                                                    Holly, because the father is elsewhere, hun, and not involved.

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                                                    #3.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:19 PM EDT

                                                    Holly, den mothers are for the Cub Scouts, the grade school scouts. Then comes Webelos, then Boy Scouts. There's a general recognition that boys, especially as they approach and go through adolescence, need male role models in life. In that, Curt has a point.

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                                                    #3.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:19 PM EDT

                                                    Random - I knew everything you said but BSA does include Cubs and up. Also one of the questions was specifically about Den Mothers.

                                                    And yes young men need and deserve male role models - but I also know that most of the time when I see scouts out fund raisng the adults supervising/supporting sure as heck aren't men it is the Mom's that I see.

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                                                    #3.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:39 PM EDT

                                                    If more lesbians were involved in scouting, there would be a raging obesity problem about the scouts.

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                                                    #3.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:45 PM EDT

                                                    Not the same thing, "John", really.

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                                                    #3.9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:19 PM EDT

                                                    Since we know Lexus is not a sinner (maybe she should be Pope). Let's look at Leviticus:

                                                    Leviticus 15: 19-22: During the monthly cycle women should not be touched or sit, or lie down. Or contaminate said object,person. I assume Lexus (if a woman) goes into hiding once a month.

                                                    Leviticus 14: Ever had a skin disease? If so you better sacrifice a lamb or you are a sinner.

                                                    Leviticus 12: Do you have children? After they were born, did you sacrifice a lamb or 2 doves?

                                                    Leviticus 11: Better not eat anything from a pig, shellfish, shrimp, lobster.... sinner

                                                    Leviticus 19: Have you ever lied (don't lie by saying no). Take a hard look at Leviticus 19. I bet you break these rules a lot.

                                                    Leviticus 20: Looks like based on the sins you have committed above, do you think you should follow your bible to the latter and be put to death. No? If not then which arbitrary rules apply to you?

                                                      #3.10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:13 PM EDT

                                                      all of you homo boosters are being really stupid. "oh homos are only attracted to other homos", and "heteros are more likely to rape then homos"-how stupid are you? The ISSUE here is NOT rape, or attraction(that was retarded by the way) The issue is the same as letting boys and girls share bunk houses or tents or whatever. You just dont, at that age kids dont need to be exposed to sex as a part of their daily life. The fact that kids even know what gay is already and are making a decision about what they are before they are even ten is a little scary. Homo boys are basically girls, just like you dont want your boys and girls seeing each other naked, you dont need your gay boys checking out all the other boys because good parents try to prevent their kids from knowing much about sex for as long as possible. Homos seem to want to be classified as their own gender until it means you cant join certain clubs, or some things are too manly and not sensitive to gayness. You guys just need to chill out and shut up. Start your own damn scouts, why is that so hard?

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                                                      #3.11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:58 PM EDT

                                                      For the homos that keep comparing themselves to animals all you are doing is proving that you are acting like animals and not humans first of all and secondly, though animals hump on each other in a form of dominate animal behavior I can guarantee you that you have never once seen any tow male animals insert their penis into the anal cavity of another male dog or any other type of animal and that is just the facts, it does not happen so quit trying to make it sound like they do, even two male animals know that it is not normal behavior. The humping is just a dominate action to show who is boss and nothing else it is not homo behavior!!!

                                                      Morons!!!

                                                        #3.12 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 12:49 AM EDT
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                                                        Should an openly heterosexual woman be allowed to be a den mother to heterosexual scouts?

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                                                        Reply#4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:19 PM EDT

                                                        Should a heterosexual man be allowed to take girl scouts out into the woods for a weekend trip? No.

                                                        What about a pedophile who has served his time. Why not allow him to become a scout leader? No

                                                        Why not allow John and Sarah who are boyfriend and girlfriend to join the same Boy Scout chapter and sleep in the same tent?

                                                        Why not allow men to join sororities?

                                                        Why not let white men take advantage of affirmative action?

                                                        Why not let men attend an all girls boarding school?

                                                        Why not let women attend an all boys boarding school?

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                                                        #4.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:27 PM EDT

                                                        Heterosexual men can be Girl Scout leaders, and can take girls on camping trips, as long as there is also adequate female leadership on the trip. Same thing for female leadership in Boy Scouts. And girls can be registered Boy Scouts, but when girls camp there must be a female leader on the trip. My husband and I have been registered leaders with both Boy and Girl Scouts, and have been on trips and outing with the troops regardless of gender. Sex - regardless of whether it is heterosexual or homosexual - has no place in Scouts and on camping trips. Boy Scouts has instituted a two-deep leadership policy to protect Scouts (and also to protect leaders from unwarranted accusations). Excluding gays in the past did NOT work to prevent boys from being molested. So let's focus on the leadership training and policies that WILL keep our kids safe while allowing them to reap the benefits of Scouting.

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                                                        #4.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:40 PM EDT

                                                        Homosexuality is a sexual orientation not a "demonic act" and the molestation occurred from pedophiles in the ranks not Gays.

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                                                        #4.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:55 PM EDT

                                                        Any male that has sex with another male who is underage is indeed homosexual and a pedophile.. It is a nasty demonic behavior endorsed by satan himself.

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                                                        #4.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:14 PM EDT

                                                        then how come male reporters cannot go into female locker rooms? why is there all girl colleges? why is there all black colleges? what a crock!

                                                        BTW, it is pretty ironic that one of the communist goals (Congressional Record--Appendix, pp. A34-A35 January 10, 1963) number 26. Present homosexuality, degeneracy and promiscuity as "normal, natural, healthy."

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                                                        #4.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:33 PM EDT

                                                        Right on, princessbride!

                                                          #4.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:51 PM EDT

                                                          right off princesbride.......no homo is going to teach anything to my kids. I dont' care to what title the world allows you to achieve. Your lifestyle does NOT reproduce offspring, so it's pretty clear where we are supposed to put our parts, our efforts, our lives.

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                                                          #4.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:12 PM EDT

                                                          I think you're missing the entire point of the Boy Scouts. It's a male role-model environment that teaches you things society has forgotten to teach. Could a woman lead it? Sure. A man could lead a support group for women with breast cancer or depression after child birth too, but it wouldn't be my first choice.

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                                                          #4.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:11 PM EDT

                                                          Empson - first can you guarantee that your sons teachers are all straight? Or maybe you to prevent him from being exposed to a gay public school teacher you put him in a Catholic School -- oops that wont work they have a small percentage pf pedophile priests (who must be gay), guess you need to keep your kid at home.

                                                          Second - people who present arguemtns like you (and many others here have) are so far overcompensating that one begins to wonder if maybe you are closeted?

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                                                          #4.9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:17 PM EDT

                                                          Alan - since men do get breast cancer I would see no reason that they could not lead a support group, in fact they might have more empathy than a woman who had never had the disease. And if it is such a male role model group why do they have Den Mothers - and why when I see Scouts fund raising is the makority of their support Mothers.

                                                            #4.10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:19 PM EDT

                                                            @mountaindave-As a den mother myself, den mothers are only leaders in cub scouts and cub scout policy is that a parent has to be present with their scout at all functions, camp outs, activities, etc. No scout is allowed without his parent being there. When there are camp outs, only the parent is allowed to tent with their scout; other scouts cannot sleep in a tent with other scouts. There is also a rule of 2 on 2-there always has to be 2 leaders with a scout, you are never alone with scouts. If you were a cubs scout leader you would know all of this, and that is why heterosexual women can be den leaders. The problem is not with cub scouts, it is when boys move up to Boy Scouts, it is much different then-mothers are not allowed to be den leaders and the boys only have a couple of leaders that attend activities with them-this is where the gay issues come in and if this passes, this is where I say my son will no longer be in scouting.

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                                                            #4.11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:37 PM EDT

                                                            Although i have my views on sexual orientation, just like everyone here, no point in talking about them because noone here will change the other sides minds.

                                                            So lets use logic for the orginal question. My thoughts are, why are there different rest rooms for males and females. Why not have a restroom for homosexuals? Males and females have different restrooms to avoid complications that could arrise, not all men would be rude and hit on the women, and not all women would be grossed out by the guys. But some would.

                                                            So we have the homosexual debate, sure not all homosexual boys or scoutmasters are going to be tempted to do bad and not all hetrosexuals are going to be uncomfortable having them sleeping in the same tent. I love how people are defending homosexuals like they are perfect beings.... you all try to suggest there is nothing different between you and hetros other then whom you're attracted to.. which means we should be just as concerned and take precautions about boys/boys and boys/girls

                                                            I for one would not be comfortable with it. But also with the boyscouts caving in on thier principals, I simply wouldn't put my kid in it anyways, seems like it used to stand for something good, now its all about giving in to "peer pressure"

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                                                            #4.12 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:59 PM EDT

                                                            "Candlewycke"; a male scout leader can take a "Girl Scout" troop out to the woods for a weekend trip, just like a male Drill Sergeant can take his female platoon out on bivouac. The question is not about the sex--it's about character and integrity. If a man is weak and has NO sense of right and wrong--then he has no business in being a leader, PERIOD. And if I were there with a Scout Leader who felt obliged to accost a (boy) scout or (girl)--I would surely change that man's religion--at any cost. He would never even think to do that ever again. He wouldn't be able to...let's just leave it at that.

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                                                            #4.13 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:30 PM EDT
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                                                            Why are the people that are supposed to be so 'moral' the ones that seem to have sex on their minds the most? They are so afraid of homosexuals, thinking all they do is have sex all the time and trying to convince everyone else to as well.

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                                                            Reply#5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:21 PM EDT

                                                            Do you know why homosexuality is becoming so accepted among young people? Because of arguments like this, arguments that give people a choice, Either accept homosexuality or be defined as a bigot, or a closet homosexual or a homophobic or a hatemonger. It is no wonder children accept this blidnly, it is about bending to the pressure to fit in.

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                                                            #5.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:29 PM EDT

                                                            It is no wonder children accept this blidnly, it is about bending to the pressure to fit in.

                                                            Not even close. Children accept homosexuality because they look at their gay peers and realize that they aren't any different.

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                                                            #5.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:47 PM EDT

                                                            Hey Candle, it wouldn't be that big of an issue if people like you wouldn't stop spreading your hatred. SO you don't like homosexuals, we get it. That doesn't give people like you the right to deny them the same rights everyone else has just because they are different. Here's a clue for you, people have a choice to do what they want. It's people like you that want to make people follow a certain path because of biased beliefs.

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                                                            #5.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:52 PM EDT

                                                            Candlewycke--That choice is only problematic if you believe it's a false choice. You've presented no arguments to show that failing to treat someone as an equal due to homosexuality IS NOT bigotry.

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                                                            #5.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:55 PM EDT

                                                            Why is it that all of you Godless, liberal types that trumpet the merits of evolution lash out at those who would continue our species? If homosexuality had become the norm in the animal kingdom, all life would have ceased to exist. Homosexuality lost out to a strategy that is actually conducive to the survival of the fittest. Do all of you homosexual advocates secretly wish for all life to cease to exist? How morbid is that?

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                                                            #5.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:57 PM EDT

                                                            Godbless- how do you know homosexuality isn't God's way of curbing overpopulation? And don't worry, we won't go extinct. The worst thing that could happen if our population does go down is that we'll (as a society) value children instead of considering them a burden.

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                                                            #5.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:08 PM EDT

                                                            GodBless - I find it interesting that all you religious types cling to the survival of the fittest mentality. Let them die I guess is your position. How Christian of you. Sounds like you are the morbid one. Personally any break in the overpopulation of this world would be a welcome one. I would rather have a million gay people than a dozen families like the Duggars.

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                                                            #5.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:32 PM EDT

                                                            Funny how it's the super religious folks who always come off as the most hateful and intolerant.

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                                                            #5.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:40 PM EDT

                                                            If there were no such thing as religion, or the bible to tell us how to live, or christians to tell us what sinners we are, would every person alive be a bad human being?

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                                                            #5.9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:15 PM EDT

                                                            Dark - "That doesn't give people like you the right to deny them the same rights everyone else has just because they are different."

                                                            I am not against gays at all, but when I here this, I always wonder what rights they are being denied?

                                                            I am sure you are talking marriage, but they have the same right as I do to marry somebody from the opposite sex, and they in most states are denied to marry somebody from the same sex which I also can't do.

                                                            If you are talking about the right to marry somebody they love, lots of people are denied that right, my friend in college swore to God she loved two people (one guy and one gal) and she doesn't have the right to marry both.

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                                                            #5.10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:34 PM EDT

                                                            What happens in the tent stays in the tent. Happy scouting!

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                                                            #5.11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:42 PM EDT

                                                            "The Company

                                                            It is no wonder children accept this blidnly, it is about bending to the pressure to fit in.

                                                            Not even close. Children accept homosexuality because they look at their gay peers and realize that they aren't any different"

                                                            What a bunch of bullShizz. Gays are way different than most of the population. Percentage-wise, more mental illness exist among gays than straights

                                                              #5.12 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:48 PM EDT

                                                              What a bunch of bullShizz. Gays are way different than most of the population. Percentage-wise, more mental illness exist among gays than straights

                                                              The above post is an example of "grasping at straws."

                                                              Mental illness of homosexuals as compared to heterosexuals is negligible. And most of it can be explained by the discrimination they regularly face. But don't take it from me, take it from the American Psychological Association themselves:

                                                              "...they take a step toward demonstrating that the social stigma felt by LGB people has important mental health consequences" - apa.org

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                                                              #5.13 - Thu Mar 14, 2013 12:25 AM EDT
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                                                              Mountain, is she a school teacher that has inappropriate relations with her students? Seriously though, as a former Scout (hetero I may add), this is all BS and the hate needs to stop. It's a great organization that teaches many useful skills and values, having a gay scout or leader is no more different than being in the same room with someone that has HIV, nothing will happen.

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                                                              Reply#6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:23 PM EDT

                                                              I'm not sure, is having a black person drink out of the same water fountain a problem, discuss.

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                                                              Reply#7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:25 PM EDT

                                                              Exactly

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                                                              #7.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:35 PM EDT

                                                              Homosexuals carry a lot of diseases from the animals and things they come in contact with..Blacks don't

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                                                              #7.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:24 PM EDT

                                                              Homosexuals carry a lot of diseases from the animals and things they come in contact with..Blacks don't

                                                              Well, that's the prize for the most blatantly ignorant thing I've read, and probably will read, today.

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                                                              #7.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:12 PM EDT

                                                              yafoosfosho is childish. yes God is flesh and Blood as opposed to your comment regarding Newton Massaxre.

                                                              He came to eath through the womb of a virgin; Therefore the Lord himself shall give you a sign; Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel." Isaiah 7:14

                                                              True God and True Man, onw in being with father

                                                              As for diseases , your mind is diseased, and soon your body. for what is corrupt, decays

                                                                #7.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:19 PM EDT

                                                                One has nothing to do with the other....NEXT!

                                                                  #7.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:56 PM EDT
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                                                                  Why do parents force homosexual children into these confrontations. That's where the trouble lies.

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                                                                  Reply#8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:25 PM EDT

                                                                  Why do adults insist on being confrontational to children about their sexuality? That's where the trouble lies.

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                                                                  #8.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:57 PM EDT

                                                                  The tru problem lies with people that have no standards, and no values.....aside "Being a good person."

                                                                  Ask yourself where do you get your sense of "Right vs Wrong?" I would bet that you don't get it from the evolutionist dictionary....or wherever the heck you rest your head at night.

                                                                    #8.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:15 PM EDT
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                                                                      Reply#9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:27 PM EDT

                                                                      Yep!

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                                                                      #9.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:17 PM EDT
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                                                                      Just have the Homosexuals join up in pairs & let them share the same tent. Give them a box of wet wipes & let them go. Who cares?

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                                                                      Reply#10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:28 PM EDT

                                                                      Why do so many assume that gays & lesbians have absolutley no self control? They can be around people of the same sex without feeling an uncontrollable urge to have s ex with them. If a straight male & a gay male share a tent the fact is nothing is going to happen, since the straight male is into females & the gay male is not going to r ape the other kid.

                                                                      The fact is gay & straight boy scouts have shared tents since the organization started. The straight scout just didn't realize it and yet I'm not aware of any senarios where that was an issue or a problem ensued.

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                                                                      #10.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:04 PM EDT

                                                                      In the past they may have shared tents, but in the past, the practice of homosexuality was in the closet. To have tried anything would have revealed their secret. It was the same when I was in the Army. many, many, moons ago. There were those who were light in the loafers in those days and they kept it a secret.

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                                                                      #10.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:43 PM EDT
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                                                                      I sure there will be push back from the Gay crowd that the existing members are being asked what their opinions are. They need to be FORCED to accept who ever wants to join ? People that meet the requirements shouldn't be able to have a say in who they share a tent & sleeping arrangements with? Let's hear it?

                                                                      Bart, where are you? There is a GAY story calling.

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                                                                      Reply#11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:34 PM EDT

                                                                      There are plenty of gay youth in Scouts today, they just have to hide who they are or risk being thrown out (although many local councils politely ignore the stated National policy). There are plenty of gay Scouting alumni. You can pretend they aren't there, but they are, side by side with heterosexual boys, and guess what - the world isn't ending!

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                                                                      #11.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:54 PM EDT

                                                                      Bart, where are you? There is a GAY story calling.

                                                                      You forgot EngEsq, Vermontguy, Sarah, Gordy, and a host of others.

                                                                        #11.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:54 PM EDT
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                                                                        So the implication is that this gay child is going to rape the other kid just because they're sharing a tent? Sure, that makes sense - if you assume that given the opportunity, all homosexuals are just waiting to pounce on straight people. Give me a break. They should treat this boy just like any other kid, because that's what he is.

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                                                                        Reply#12 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:34 PM EDT

                                                                        That is not the implication at all.

                                                                        In general you do not allow boys and girls to share tents, sorry that is the way it is. So in the case of a gay scout, how is that different than boys and girls sharing the same tent?

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                                                                        #12.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:45 PM EDT

                                                                        BrentAZ - So in the case of a gay scout, how is that different than boys and girls sharing the same tent?

                                                                        Several differences:

                                                                        1) Gay scouts and straight scouts already share tents, just like they have since the beginning of scouting. It generally hasn't been a problem so far.

                                                                        2) Gay folks are actually interested in other gays, not straights. Regardless, sex isn't allowed anyway.

                                                                        3) There's less of a power differential between boys than there is between boys and girls.

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                                                                        #12.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:49 PM EDT

                                                                        1) They may already share tents, but it will happen more often and be more open which may cause situations that distract from the intended goals

                                                                        2) You are making a generalization

                                                                        3) Power differential has little to do with it as I doubt many people are worried about rape....We seperate boys and girls to avoid the tensions that these situation lead to

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                                                                        #12.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:59 PM EDT

                                                                        skrekk--you missed a difference:

                                                                        4) consensual sex between a hetero boy and a hetero girl is a likely outcome. Consensual sex between a hetero boy and a homosexual one is, well, highly unlikely.

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                                                                        #12.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:59 PM EDT

                                                                        justross - skrekk--you missed a difference:

                                                                        That's what #2 was about, but I probably didn't phrase it well. Your phrasing is a lot better.

                                                                          #12.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:07 PM EDT

                                                                          A problem i see is not sexual activity in the tent, but possible teasing if a straight boy is assigned to share a tent with a gay boy. I think any such sharing would have to be voluntary. Some boys would not be confident enough to ignore teasing about being gay if they consider themselves straight.

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                                                                          #12.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:32 PM EDT

                                                                          "In general you do not allow boys and girls to share tents.."

                                                                          Yes, because straight girls & staight boys have a mutual attraction to each other, but gay boys & straight boys don't. As my aunt used to say "it takes two to tango"

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                                                                          #12.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:08 PM EDT

                                                                          There are a couple of issues with sleeping in the same tent leading to sexual activity. First at that age even if it is a boy and girl in the same tent most pre teens would be too embarrassed to try anything. Plus you are in denial if you think straight boys don't experiment just like girls do. Remember the guys in the gym whipping it out and daring each other to do something. You mean your kids have had friends over and you over hear "I'll show you mine if you show me yours". The comments from people saying being gay is a sin are the same people that think you can either catch the gay bug or can learn to be gay. AS mentioned in a previous post about being raised in a gay family causing them to become gay. Are you serious. That would be like me saying because I was raised by white parents I will become white. People; facts are important. Argue a point with facts it is a discussion. Argue with rhetoric it is just BS. An why is it that those with the biggest sex hang ups seem to have the biggest misconceptions that being gay means you are a sexual deviant. And this idea that you would not let you son go on a trip with a gay scout master. Don't they realize the difference between homosexuality and pedophilia and one has noting to do with the other.

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                                                                          #12.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 7:15 PM EDT
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                                                                          You cannot put questions of rights to a vote. When blacks were first admitted would you have called for a vote on whether black and white children should share a tent?

                                                                          No one has been hurt, and yet dozens of people are writing that children cannot be allowed to sleep in the same tent based on imagined problems that have never occured. You just make stuff up and accuse people who have done NOTHING!

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                                                                          Reply#13 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:44 PM EDT

                                                                          Black and white are two races of people....when did homosexuality become a race? Black and white people along with every other race was NEVER in a closet....homosexuality is a devaint and repugnant behavior and urge like beastiality ...hope this clears it up..

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                                                                          #13.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:17 PM EDT

                                                                          I see part of your point, but don't agree with most of your opinion. Maybe the actual goal of the LGBT organizations is to change all the forms we fill out that ask us to identify ourselves by sex, race, etc. Next they will want it to ask are you male, female, lesbian, gay, transgender, hermaphrodyte, bisexual, or none of the above. I get offended when asked my race on forms because I don't think it has anything to do with why I'm filling the form out unless "they" choose to serve one race over the other, when possible I choose decline to state.

                                                                          As far as the story goes, the BSA is a private organization and can set up their rules anyway they want. the impact of these rules will have a negative or positive effect on their organizations membership, our opinions really don't matter.

                                                                            #13.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:55 PM EDT

                                                                            I see a lot of ignorance going on here when you start throwing up blacks in the mix. These issues are TWO DIFFERENT THINGS!

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                                                                            #13.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:58 PM EDT

                                                                            First, there is only one race, the human race. Black, White, Red and everything in between, all part of one big human race. Being a homosexual identifies you as being a subset inside a group. Integration was social-engineering on the part of some to force others to accept and associate with those they would not normally have associated with out of their own preference. If you choose not to associate with some of a different ethnic background today, that's your choice accept in the workplace. However, in private organizations one may set the standards of whom they wish to include into their club or what have you.

                                                                            In the case of Homosexuality, (a subset group), there has been and I doubt there ever will be any genetic evidence to substantiate that one is born that way. It's a sexual identity crisis, as far as I am concerned and no amount of social-engineering on the part of the Progressives is going to reprogram an entire society to disavow their own strong held beliefs that it flies in the face of what they have been taught.

                                                                            As for the BSA policies, they are a private organization, free to choose their own policies. As a Scout from decades ago, I would prefer to see that they don't compromise their past tradions and positions, but I wouldn't single out this young man because he claims to be a Homosexual. He was honest about it, though I think he is confused.

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                                                                            #13.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:12 PM EDT

                                                                            Yafools,

                                                                            I agree with you, you never see an ex-black walking around. But there are a lot of ex-gay walking around on earth. You can not reason with people with mental disorder. Now they are going to the schools to teach the kids sexual experimentations and sexual confusion. Yep, that's where we are going! SICK! SICK! SICK! Yep, the society is ruin and now STD and AIDS will spread like wild fire!!!! Oh, liberals why are you so stupid?

                                                                              #13.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:12 PM EDT

                                                                              STD and AIDS are usually spread because people are not properly informed. You may consider Sex Ed a liberal act and that may be true but I believe it stops more problems than it creates when handled in a mature manner.

                                                                                #13.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:38 PM EDT

                                                                                Yafoolsfosho!: Black and white are two races of people....when did homosexuality become a race?

                                                                                Actually, there's no credible scientific basis for the concept of "race". It's a completely human construction based on prejudice. No other creature on Earth is divided into "races".

                                                                                Black and white people along with every other race was NEVER in a closet

                                                                                I am reminded of Malcolm X's mother, who got jobs as a maid because she was light-skinned and could pass for white. When her employers eventually found out she was African-American, she would be fired. That sounds like the closet to me.

                                                                                homosexuality is a devaint and repugnant behavior and urge like beastiality

                                                                                Thank you for that empirical analysis.

                                                                                * * *

                                                                                Angel of light: you never see an ex-black walking around. But there are a lot of ex-gay walking around on earth.

                                                                                There are even more ex-ex-gays. Sexual orientation is innate and immutable. One can fight one's own nature for a time, but typically not forever.

                                                                                Oh, liberals why are you so stupid?

                                                                                I would be careful about calling others stupid when you have yet to master verb tense: The society "has been ruined" - not "is ruin".

                                                                                  #13.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 6:03 PM EDT

                                                                                  DCogito,

                                                                                  You nit pick little mistake. But I will nit pick your stupid little brain. Where are the "ex-ex gays" on youtube? Why can't they make up their minds? Homosexuality is a mental disorder caused by disordered upbringing!!! Where are your sources on the "ex-ex gays"? You don't have a come back for that one, do you clown? A few mental disordered minorities do not have the same right to the benefits as the married couples. WHY? Because gays do not produce TAX PAYERS! You want the money honey - you need to reproduce tax payers! I'm trying to make people see the stupidity of the liberal agendas. And I don't want gays to adopt because they will pollute the minds of the children and STDs and AIDS will spread like wild fire!!!! And if they do adopt the number will be so small that it still does not justify the benefits that they will reap.

                                                                                  You see liberal clown D., it is good to use a little logic!!!!

                                                                                  Liberal clowns don't care about saving the Social Security System, but I do!

                                                                                    #13.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 8:16 PM EDT
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                                                                                    What kind of an organization needs to conduct a survey to decide whether or not to treat everyone equally? It's time to stop pretending that the Boy Scouts are some protector of morality.

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                                                                                    Reply#14 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:44 PM EDT

                                                                                    A private organization that cares what its members think?

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                                                                                    #14.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:49 PM EDT

                                                                                    Rick, when you have to question an organization about morals, why would you want to join? It would seem that you would be out trying to organize your own organization for gays..maybe call them the Rainbow Scouts or something.. you would be a hero in the gay community..

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                                                                                    #14.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:21 PM EDT
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                                                                                    I received this survey and was thrilled for the chance to express my opinion. One question I have is how "morally straight" is it to kick out boys who have not ever even had sex, but know they are homosexual, when you allow boys who have had sex with girls (outside of marriage) to stay in a troop? How many troops throw out leaders who commit adultery? If you're going for biblical arguments about morality, not committing adultery is a COMMANDMENT. God obviously did not feel so strongly about homosexuality that he had the need to engrave it on one of the stone tablets. Start applying "morally straight" consistently and then we can talk. Of course, then there would be a lot fewer Scout leaders out there....

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                                                                                    Reply#15 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:46 PM EDT

                                                                                    I am thrilled as well to share my opinion...this survey or this conversation would not be happening if Gays got their own organization for boys...what's the problem with that? why force yourself on any organization when you have the clout and money and an endorsement from the president himself to do your own thing...what am I missing here?

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                                                                                    #15.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:29 PM EDT

                                                                                    So when a boy decides to join Scouting, at age 6 or 7, he has to declare whether he wants to join the "Straight Scouts" or the "Gay Scouts"? It's not about whether the boys are allowed to join the troops - they're already there. It's a matter of how respectful and caring it is to throw a boy out of his Scouting family because he has realized as a teenager that he is homosexual. That, to me, is against the principles of Scouting.

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                                                                                    #15.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:48 PM EDT

                                                                                    Princess... at 6 or 7 it would be the parents who are getting their son signed up and they will know if he is fruity or not...

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                                                                                    #15.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:32 PM EDT

                                                                                    Finally a posting by some people who have ACTUALLY TAKEN THE SURVEY, like I did yesterday. I have absolutely no problem with allowing the Chartering Organization making their own policey on this issue. If the program is run the way it's designed to be run, with 2 deep leadership, this shouldn't be an issue at all.

                                                                                      #15.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:16 PM EDT

                                                                                      Princess - the stone tablets you refer to say that "Thou shalt not commit adultry." Adultry is sex outside of marriage - SO it is there - as they say, written in stone.

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                                                                                      #15.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:26 PM EDT
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                                                                                      What about their color or religion? F**king A**holes!

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                                                                                      Reply#16 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:47 PM EDT

                                                                                      I can speak from experience. I had a homosexual kid in my troop when I was in boy scouts back in the early 90's when in the ages 9 -12. He was in the closet at the time and later came out in High School. It was no big deal. I didn't care. He didn't care. I was never uncomfortable around him. I also had 2 homosexuals in my Fraternity at college. Once again. No big deal. My Frat brother once told me "Just because I'm gay doesn't make you attractive". Knowing that he was openly gay we would respect each others privacy when we were changing clothes, showering, whatever. I think it would be more uncomfortable for him than it would be for me if he saw us. And no, I was never afraid I was going to be raped by any of them just like I don't go around afraid of heterosexual women raping me. I am a happily married heterosexual man. This is just my personal experience. I understand other people might not feel as reasonable.

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                                                                                      Reply#17 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:47 PM EDT

                                                                                      "Just because I'm gay doesn't make you attractive" - I love that comment!

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                                                                                      #17.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:55 PM EDT
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                                                                                      Haven't seen a gay/boy scout story in a while. NBCLite must be short of shootings today.

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                                                                                      Reply#18 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:48 PM EDT

                                                                                      Haven't seen a gay/boy scout story in a while.

                                                                                      But they're always juicy.. wouldn't want to miss one, right? :-D

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                                                                                      #18.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:54 PM EDT

                                                                                      The comments are usually amusing.

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                                                                                      #18.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:08 PM EDT

                                                                                      There's two gay scouts lying in a tent together and the one says ohhhhhhh do you like my Brownie big boy? The other says sure but I'd rather eat your cookies!!! LMAO!!

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                                                                                      #18.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:09 PM EDT

                                                                                      Scout leader to the boys in the tent-"no dicking around in there, reveillie at 5am on the dot."

                                                                                        #18.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:25 PM EDT

                                                                                        I was out at 15 , played varsity and captain of my wrestling and track team , saw naked guys on my team or at matches everyday , and slept in the same bed in hotel rooms during tournaments without adult supervision and it never once crossed my mind that I was wanting to do anything with any of the other guys. It was never about self control, I just knew they were my friends and they were not gay and that was that.

                                                                                        I don’t think people should be inputting or surveying on a issue that they don’t know anything about. Parents should talk to their kids and give them a little bit more credit of having half a brain. Comparing straight teen males sleeping with girls in the same tent to a gay guy and a straight guy is completely different and ridiculous, which brings me back to my point of these people not knowing anything intelligent on this topic. The part about leaders who are gay and they go on a trip with kids and it being a problem is the most backwards and ignorant thing of this whole situation and is a huge insult if he/she has a their on family and kids. Gay adult are just like other adults they are not attracted to children and if they are that would have nothing to do with being gay nor straight, that is a whole different thing that is illegal and perverted.

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                                                                                        #18.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:34 PM EDT
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                                                                                        Some of these questions are really tough. Would we let a heterosexual boy share a tent with a girl (regardless of her sexual preference) at that age? As a society, we've deemed that inappropriate. I don't think a homosexual male would be any more likely to "terrorize" an uninterested male any more than a heterosexual male would do it to an uninterested female. Personally though, if I had a daughter, I'd be uncomfortable with her sharing a tent with a male, so I can see why people are uncomfortable with this. It certainly prompts a lot of discussion about gender, age, and sexuality...

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                                                                                        Reply#19 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:52 PM EDT

                                                                                        Be careful, you actually sound reasonable and I don't think that is allowed here.

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                                                                                        #19.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:53 PM EDT

                                                                                        I just feel that before there can be a yes or no answer to these questions, a LOT of discussion has to take place. This is a huge topic, and I don't know that a simple poll is going to answer any real questions.

                                                                                        For the record, I have no issue with homosexuality. I just think an honest discussion needs to take place without people getting too quickly offended, defensive, nasty, etc. In response to the tent question, I saw a comment above that stated that it's different since there is no chance of pregnancy. I totally disagree - I'd be uncomfortable with the thought of kids engaging in sexual activity in a tent because I feel it's inappropriate, hetero OR homosexual.

                                                                                        When homosexuality was less reported and known, we decided to split kids by gender, which took care of these sexuality issues for the most part. This highlights the fact that we can't necessarily just rely on gender segregation for that purpose.

                                                                                          #19.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:21 PM EDT

                                                                                          cjacque7219 - This is a huge topic, and I don't know that a simple poll is going to answer any real questions.

                                                                                          I wonder if they took a similar poll before dropping the whites-only troops policy in 1974?

                                                                                          Such a huge topic......whether to enforce dumb bigotry or simply treat all children with equal respect.

                                                                                            #19.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:28 PM EDT

                                                                                            @skrekk - I completely agree that all children should be treated with equal respect. I'm asking - why are males and females then not allowed to share tents in similar situations? Most people freak out at the thought of it. Maybe it shouldn't be a big deal at all? I don't know the answers. Just throwing questions out there.

                                                                                            The difference between this and the dropping of the whites-only troops policy, in my opinion, is this. No one has a problem with skin (color aside). Thus, the policy was dropped because people unfairly 'disliked' non-white people for (essentially) their skin, which was unfair because white people have skin. We all have skin, of different colors, which is acceptable, so it should all be acceptable in every situation.

                                                                                            This, on the other hand, deals with sexuality, which most DO have a problem with when it takes place between minors (sexual orientation aside). So, seeing as right now, society generally doesn't approve of allow boys and girls sharing tents, having sleepovers, etc., you could assume that society wouldn't approve of boys and boys doing it when there's a risk of sexual attraction either. We all have sexuality, which is not acceptable in minors, so it shouldn't be acceptable in any situation.

                                                                                              #19.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:40 PM EDT

                                                                                              cjacque7219 - The difference between this and the dropping of the whites-only troops policy, in my opinion, is this. No one has a problem with skin (color aside). Thus, the policy was dropped because people unfairly 'disliked' non-white people for (essentially) their skin, which was unfair because white people have skin.

                                                                                              Ummmm......I suspect you aren't aware of the history of the whites-only policy and the justifications for it, or why the policy was ultimately dropped due to a lawsuit by the NAACP. The Mormons and Southern Baptists used their bible-babble to justify their ignorant racism, exactly in the same way that they justify their ignorant homophobia today.

                                                                                              The only difference is that gays have always been in the scouts from day one......including the founder. And unlike their racist policies which date back to the very beginning of the BSA, the anti-gay policy dates back only to 1978.

                                                                                                #19.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:57 PM EDT

                                                                                                @skrekk, you still haven't answered my main question - you don't feel, then, that it's inappropriate for a girl and boy to be in a similar situation?

                                                                                                I feel as though you're mistaking my honest questions for me trying to push some sort of agenda, which isn't the case. Again, I've NEVER had a problem with homosexuality. However, the best way to win your case is to find arguments against it, and find an answer. I'm simply wondering what the answer should be to that argument. Instead of simply calling it bigotry, homophobia, etc., why not talk about why it is wrong?

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                                                                                                #19.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 4:05 PM EDT

                                                                                                cjacque7219 - you still haven't answered my main question - you don't feel, then, that it's inappropriate for a girl and boy to be in a similar situation?

                                                                                                Since most kids are straight there's slightly more of a reason to be concerned about consensual sex in your example, but no reason at all to be concerned about consensual sex when it's a gay and a straight boy sharing a tent - it's simply a non-issue in that situation.

                                                                                                In reality many scouting organizations in the world aren't gender-segregated anymore, and most don't prohibit gays. It's only the BSA and scouting groups in Muslim countries which have such ignorant and bigoted policies. And the BSA didn't even have a ban on gays at all until 1978, when the organization was taken over by the Mormons and Southern Baptists who moved the headquarters to Texas. No surprise that the American Taliban shares the same bigoted views as the Afghan Taliban.

                                                                                                  #19.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:32 PM EDT

                                                                                                  A non-issue. gay's will most definitely forcefully attempt to start something with the other member in the tent and that is a fact.

                                                                                                    #19.8 - Sat Apr 20, 2013 3:23 PM EDT
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                                                                                                    Those who compare the rights of homosexuals to the rights of black or women are comparing apples and oranges.

                                                                                                    Homosexuality is a result of acting upon desires. Just because you may or may not be pre-disposed to having those desires has no correlation to acting upon them. You cannot change the color of your skin, but you can decide not to act upon certain desires that you may have.

                                                                                                    Therefore, we are looking here at an organization desiring certain behaviors of their leaders. Homosexuality is a behavior whether you are pre-disposed to that behavior or not.

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                                                                                                    #20 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:52 PM EDT

                                                                                                    BrentAZ - Those who compare the rights of homosexuals to the rights of black or women are comparing apples and oranges.

                                                                                                    Sounds like you're unfamiliar with the BSA's racist past, as they allowed whites-only troops until at least 1974. Sounds exactly like their current "straights-only" troops, except that the BSA at least allowed black kids to join even if they gave them inferior facilities.

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                                                                                                    #20.1 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:54 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Homosexuality is a sexual orientation not a "choice" or a "behavior". So does that mean since you are heterosexual that you are willing to be celibate as well???

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                                                                                                    #20.2 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:00 PM EDT

                                                                                                    skrekk...As I describe in my post, we are comparing discriminating based upon behavior vs. discriminating based upon appearance.

                                                                                                    In society we discriminate based upon behavior all the time and no one says a word unless it is homosexuality.

                                                                                                    kpcoach...Homosexuality is an action whether you are pre-disposed to it or not. There are people who are pre-disposed to be alcoholics. Men tend to be pre-disposed to wander sexually, yet our morals tell us that one should not cheat on their spouse or girlfriend.

                                                                                                    Listen as a Christian, I know we are all sinners and saved only by the grace of God. However, I don't have to condone sin, even if I am a sinner. I love homosexuals as I love other people and saying that they are choosing to act upon their desires is not hateful. I should also choose not to act upon the sinful desires that I have, but sometimes I fail.

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                                                                                                    #20.3 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:02 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Interesting and valid take Brent.

                                                                                                    Sounds like you're just digging sh*t up skrekk.

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                                                                                                    #20.4 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:03 PM EDT

                                                                                                    BrentAZ - As I describe in my post, we are comparing discriminating based upon behavior vs. discriminating based upon appearance.

                                                                                                    Ummmm......exactly what "behavior" are you talking about? Sexual orientation isn't a behavior, and sex isn't allowed in the scouts at all.

                                                                                                    Gay and straight scouts have always shared tents and it hasn't been a problem so far.

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                                                                                                    #20.5 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:04 PM EDT

                                                                                                    By categorizing yourself as a Homosexual, you are acting out upon your desires. Even if you are not engaging in sexual activity, you are acting out to describe what you would like to do in the bedroom.

                                                                                                    Also, I personally would be more concerned with two homosexual scouts sharing the same tent.

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                                                                                                    #20.6 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:15 PM EDT

                                                                                                    BrentAZ - Even if you are not engaging in sexual activity, you are acting out to describe what you would like to do in the bedroom.

                                                                                                    That's a truly moronic statement. Is saying that you're straight "acting out to describe what you would like to do in the bedroom"?

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                                                                                                    #20.7 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:37 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Brent, you are absolutely correct...there are plenty of things in society that people act on, drug use, pedophilia, beastiality, prostitution, serial killers...these people along with homosexuals have compulsions and urges that they act upon and mostly cannot quit because they LOVE what they do or do not have the willpower...No one is born this way out of any of the aforementioned groups, including homosexuals...One is just as bad as the other and you cannot carve one out, dress it up and parade as normal...what about the others?

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                                                                                                    #20.8 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:37 PM EDT

                                                                                                    End both (boys and girls scouts) and just call it the scouts of America. Any sexual conduct should equal lifetime bans. Sex in the scouts is just stupid. they are not adults.

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                                                                                                    #20.9 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:46 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Sexual orientation is a behavior. It has genetic and environmental components which can be measured quantitatively although no gene has been identified. Just google "heritability of homosexual behavior in twin studies". I believe the heritability is about 30%, although one non-random study came in at 50%.

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                                                                                                    #20.10 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 2:51 PM EDT

                                                                                                    janellect - Sexual orientation is a behavior.

                                                                                                    Actually it isn't. You have a sexual orientation even if you never actually have sex.

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                                                                                                    #20.11 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:31 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Hell no I dont want my boy sharing a tent with some little fruit thatll stick his little johnson in my boys mouth while hes sleeping. Keep them in their own tent at night with a lock on it. The only tweet he'll be playin with is his own!

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                                                                                                    #20.12 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:55 PM EDT

                                                                                                    Everyone has the right to enjoy sex

                                                                                                    Homosexuality is not a "behavior." Two straight girls can kiss but that doesn't make them gay. Sexual orientation is about what gender you are sexually and romantically attracted to ("Sexual Orientation"). Yes, it involves a behavior that you can decide to act upon or not. However, you cant chose who you're sexually attracted to and its not fair to expect a certain group of people to make a choice between never being able to have a meaning, emotionally ( its not just about sex) and sexually satisfying relationship with someone and be accepted by society vs pursuing your happiness with another consenting adult and being shunned.

                                                                                                    Thats where we dont have a choice!

                                                                                                    our choices are either never find true love and never enjoy sex

                                                                                                    or pursue freedom and be an outcast

                                                                                                      #20.14 - Wed Mar 13, 2013 11:58 PM EDT

                                                                                                      Shrekk, you know I meant sexual activity as a result of orientation. Scientists do treat sexual activity and orientation as a catalyst for activity as behavior.

                                                                                                      http://www.amazon.com/Behavioral-Genetics-Robert-Plomin/dp/1429205776

                                                                                                        #20.15 - Fri Mar 15, 2013 1:58 PM EDT
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