By Miranda Leitsinger on U.S. News

  • Mormon church OK with ending Boy Scouts' ban on gay youth

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    Boy Scouts hold signs at the "Save Our Scouts" prayer vigil and rally in front of the Boy Scouts of America' national headquarters in Irving, Texas, on Feb. 6, 2013.

    The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has given tacit approval to the Boy Scouts’ proposal to allow gay youth to join, saying they “appreciate the positive things” included in the plan to end the organization's controversial ban on gay boys.

    The Boy Scouts of America last week proposed allowing gay youth – but not adults – to participate in the private youth organization. That came two months after they floated the idea of allowing gays and lesbians of all ages to join, a proposal that was denounced by the conservative religious groups that make up a bulk of Scouting.

    “We are grateful to BSA for their careful consideration of these issues. We appreciate the positive things contained in this current proposal that will help build and strengthen the moral character and leadership skills of youth as we work together in the future,” the LDS church said Thursday in a statement posted to their website.

    “The current BSA proposal constructively addresses a number of important issues that have been part of the ongoing dialogue, including consistent standards for all BSA partners, recognition that Scouting exists to serve and benefit youth rather than Scout leaders, a single standard of moral purity for youth in the program, and a renewed emphasis for Scouts to honor their duty to God."

    The Mormon church tops the list of membership enrollment numbers, with 431,000 youths participating in LDS-sponsored units as of Dec. 31, 2012. That was followed by the United Methodist Church at 364,000 and the Catholic Church at 274,000. More than 70 percent of Scouting units are chartered to faith-based groups.

    The Boy Scouts said Thursday in a statement that it was pleased the LDS church was “satisfied that the BSA has made a thoughtful, good-faith effort to address this issue.”

    “For nearly 100 years we have worked together with the mutual goal of building the moral character and leadership skills of youth. We believe kids are better off when they are in Scouting, and the program is successful because of its relationships with valued chartered organizations like the Church,” the statement said.

    The Boy Scouts’ policy has increasingly been a sore spot for the organization over the last year, following the dismissal of a den leader because she is a lesbian and the denial of the Eagle Scout rank to a California teen because he is gay.

    The BSA’s National Council will vote on changing the membership policy on May 23. Its biannual “The Voice of the Scout Survey,” conducted earlier this year, for the first time included questions on gay membership.

    Among the 280 administrative local councils, half recommended no change, 38 percent recommended a change and 14 percent took a neutral position, the Scouts said.

    "While perspectives and opinions vary significantly, parents, adults in the Scouting community and teens alike tend to agree that youth should not be denied the benefits of Scouting," the organization said last week in a statement.

    If you are a current or former member of the Boy Scouts and would like to share your thoughts on how your troop, pack or council is handling the BSA's proposed change to the membership policy, you can email the reporter at miranda.leitsinger@msnbc.com. We may use some comments for a follow-up story, so please specify if your remarks can be used and provide your name, hometown, age, Boy Scout affiliation and a phone number.

  • Boston bombing survivor takes baby steps toward recovery

    Courtesy Alyssa Loring

    New England Patriots' running back Stevan Ridley and tight end Rob Gronkowski visited Brittany Loring on Monday in her hospital room and signed a jersey for her. Loring suffered multiple injuries in last week's bombing at the Boston Marathon.

    BOSTON – Nine days after the Boston Marathon bombings killed three people and injured more than 260 others, at least one survivor is on the long road to recovery.

    Brittany Loring, who was celebrating her 29th birthday last Monday when the bombs went off, suffered serious damage to her left leg in the twin explosions allegedly carried out by brothers Tamerlan and Dzhokhar Tsarnaev – who lived less than a mile from Loring and her fiancé, John McLoughlin, in Cambridge, Mass.

    Wounds reveal part of the damage: She was left with small pellet-sized wounds across her body, some red, others black. But she also suffered a cracked skull, a concussion, and had to endure three “cleaning” surgeries to help prevent infection from her shrapnel wounds, said McLoughlin.

    In the immediate aftermath of the attacks, it wasn’t clear if she would be able to walk again. But that changed Tuesday.

    There are growing questions as to whether or not U.S. intelligence officials have done more when investigating Tamerlan Tsarnaev prior to the Boston bombing.  Russia had asked the FBI to find information about him, then later asked the CIA. Both times, the U.S. said nothing had been found, but his name ended up in the master terrorism database. NBC's Pete Williams reports.

    “She's starting to walk on her crutches, still in a lot of pain, and on heavy medication,” her dad, Dan Loring, a 53-year-old real estate agent, said late Tuesday. “She's looking good. She actually wore clothes today and did her hair.”

    McLoughlin has been keeping a constant vigil at Brittany’s bedside, taking leave from his work as a loan officer to focus on her recovery and spend time in what he quips is their “little hotel room.”

    “She's half the team, so I've got to be here,” he said Wednesday. The couple plan to wed in September. “Her spirits are good,” he said. “She's still up and down, but overall she's better.”

    Boston Medical Center said Wednesday her condition was fair. It's not clear yet when Brittany will leave the hospital, but when she does, she will need physical and mental health therapies, he said.

    “She wakes up in the middle of the night. She has nightmares,” McLoughlin said. He believes they are all related to the bombings, but he hasn’t asked for details. “We wake up a couple of times a night. She's startled, and I try to get her back to bed.”

    Her family hasn’t been speaking to her about the bombings and what happened at the finish line of the marathon.

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    John McCloughlin (left) and Dan Loring talk about the injuries sustained by Brittany Loring in the Boston Marathon bombings. McCloughlin is engaged to Brittany and Loring is her father.

    “We're not bringing that in at this point,” said Loring, of Lancaster, Mass. “We're trying to build up her stamina – you know she had three surgeries in six days and ... the heavy medication. So trying to get her to eat, think positive thoughts.”

    “We have told her she's safe but that's it,” McLoughlin said. “We don't think it's good for her recovery” to talk about it.

    Besides getting back on her feet again, Brittany recently had other good news: Boston College has said she will graduate this spring with a joint degree in business and law, waiving her final exams and some last assignments. 

    “She's very strong. She'll move on. This will be a blip in the past,” McLoughlin said. “I hope a year from now we're all good.”

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  • Marathon bombing survivor Ryan McMahon: 'I want my Boston back'

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    Ryan McMahon (middle) suffered fractures to her back and wrists when she fell off the VIP grandstand in the aftermath of the Boston Marathon bombings. She is flanked by her father, John, and her mother, Donna. She is seen taking her first steps after the attacks.

    BOSTON – Nearly 20 people out of the more than 170 wounded in the Boston Marathon bombings were hurt so badly that they had to have one or two limbs amputated -- while another 50 other injured runners and spectators are still in the hospital a week after the blast.

    But another group of hurt survivors are beginning the long roads to recovery at home, with hospitals releasing more people each day. Though they are leaving, they may spend months or more recovering from multiple broken bones, damage caused by shrapnel or painful ruptured eardrums.

    Ryan McMahon, 33, is one of those survivors. Suffering from fractures to her back and wrists, she left the hospital on Monday a week after the attacks to embark on the next part of her journey to recovery, which will include physical therapy and possibly mental health support.

    "I want my Boston back … I just want to see my town, you know, and like I feel like they stole it," she said through sobs. "I love this city. ... It just has a lot of heart."

    But as eager as she is to get back to normal, McMahon was anxious about her release, too. “I actually don't know what's going to happen, so (I'm) just setting up all of the support."

    "I know how lucky I am. … I am going to be fine,” she said. “It was just really hard, especially being in the ER and just seeing how many horrible injuries there were and just hoping that everyone is going to be okay and get through this."

    Ryan's mother has watched the injured forge ahead in the hospital as she tended to her daughter.

    "The strength that they have moving forward, it’s been really quite something to see. ... They're survivors," said Donna McMahon, a 57-year-old nanny who lives in western Massachusetts. "It's a real lesson … the human spirit and how you just, you know, fight back and go on."

    Boston firefighter Jimmy Plourd talks about Victoria McGrath, 20, a victim he rescued at the Boston Marathon bombing, saying "she was scared" but she was "a brave girl." Kerry Sanders talks to Plourd, whom McGrath hopes to thank in person.

    Ryan is one of those fighting back from her injuries, both emotional and physical.

    Over the last week, she watched TV reports of the manhunt for the two suspects – Tamerlan Tsarnaev, who died in a gun battle with police and his younger brother Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, 19, who was captured late Friday.

    Ryan sent a lot of "angry texts” as the authorities searched for the pair — which isn't like her, she said.

    "I'm still trying to understand all my feelings about this," she said.

    She ended up in the hospital after watching the first blast go off directly across from where she was sitting with friends at the top of a VIP grandstand. The group nervously looked at each other and decided to get out.

    As they did, the second explosion tore through the air and a frenzied exodus began from the riser.

    Ryan looked under the bleachers and thought her best chance would be to climb down, but the thunderous shaking as people ran from the stands caused her to lose her hold and she was tossed into the air, landing on her back.

    Though she also had a concussion, adrenaline gave her enough fuel to propel her through the streets, running, as she and her friends sought help.

    "I definitely knew I hurt my back when I fell, but my friends said ‘we’ve got to get out of here,’ and that was the main thing," she said. "I just knew that ... if there was another blast I would be by far worse" off.

    Kind strangers picked up the group in a cab and dropped them off at the hospital, where Ryan was among the first to arrive and had a front-row seat to see other patients rolling into the emergency room.

    Ryan had surgery on her right wrist, which was seriously damaged and is now tucked in a cast, and has braces on her other wrist and her back. Doctors have said it could take six months to a year to recover, but she can walk.

    “She came out of the surgery fighting, feisty. She was a big sister bossing her brothers around,” said her dad, John McMahon, 58, who works in sales.

    Though they know she has a long journey ahead, her release was “awesome,” Donna said.

    As for Ryan, she has some plans for this time next year: She intends to run in her first Boston Marathon.

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  • Classmates of suspected bomber Dzhokar Tsarnaev suggest 'brainwashing' by older brother

    Stephen Troio, 19, a former classmate of Dzhokhar Tsarnaev at the University of Massachusetts-Dartmouth, says the suspected bomber is shown, kneeling at left, in this January 2012 photo of their intramural soccer team. Troio is squatting in the center, wearing yellow gloves.

    NORTH DARTMOUTH, Mass. -- As students trickled back to the university on Sunday where surviving Boston Marathon bombing suspect Dzhokhar Tsarnaev, 19, has been enrolled as a sophomore, the teenager's classmates expressed disbelief over his involvement in the attack and suggested that he may have been the victim of "brainwashing" by his older brother.

    Tsarnaev is suspected of acting with his older brother, Tamerlan, to detonate two pressure cooker bombs at the city's iconic road race last Monday, killing three people and injuring more than 170 others. Tamerlan was killed in a shootout with police early Friday; Dzhokhar was arrested later that day.

    Two classmates of Tsarnaev’s at the University of Massachusetts-Dartmouth said they saw the bombing suspect at the gym working out on Tuesday -- the day after the bombing.

    Sophomore Nathan Young, who described himself as a good friend of Tsarnaev's, said that Tsarnaev seemed glum when he saw him at the gym.

    "He seemed really ... down and out of it, just like he wasn't really working out. He was just sitting there," said Young, 20, who is studying pre-law and finance.

    Zach Bettencourt, 20, a sophomore studying political science who said he met Tsarnaev in a Spanish class during their freshman year, also encountered Tsarnaev at the gym and said he seemed normal, except for appearing tired.

    "We talked about the bombing for a little bit ... and basically I was like, 'Yeah, man, did you see the bombings that was crazy?' And he was talking about, 'Yeah it's a tragedy.' ... I can't remember the exact words, but I went up to him and said, 'yeah the people in Boston must be feeling like how the people in Iraq feel kind of.' He was like, 'yeah tragedies like this happen all the time, like in Afghanistan, too, you know, all over the world.'" 

    As investigators dig into the pasts of accused Boston Marathon bombers Dzhokhar and Tamerlan Tsarnaev, more information is coming to light about the suspects. NBC's Jeff Rossen reports and talks to friends of the brothers.

    "It was just like a normal conversation," though he noted that Tsarnaev, a former wrestler, "wasn't really working out that much."

    Young said Tsarnaev once talked about his older brother, and noted that it seemed like the teenager looked up to him. He suggested that Dzhokhar might have been subject to "brainwashing."

    “I definitely think that's what happened, at least with his brother," Young said. "It is speculation. That's how I feel like it happened.”

    “I feel like ... that's the only thing that makes sense," said Stephen Troio, 19, who played on an intramural soccer team with Tsarnaev. "Just because I feel like he couldn't have just randomly snapped.” The two met in fall of 2011, and Troio said he stayed friends with Tsarnaev after the league ended in 2012, before summer break.

    Young said he met Tsarnaev the first day of freshman year because his roommates had gone to high school with the suspect in Cambridge. He said he spoke to Tsarnaev nearly every day -- this year, they lived together in the sophomore dorm -- noting that he'd sometimes wake up late at night to see Tsarnaev and his roommate playing FIFA soccer on Xbox.

    "He's a really nice kid. Like, honestly, one of the nicest kids I knew. He was friendly to everyone," said Young. "I partied with him. I hung out with him."

    Young said the Friday before the bombings, he received a text from Tsarnaev asking if he could bring something to Boston for him. Young told him that he wouldn't be making it to Boston, so he never learned what his friend wanted him to bring.

    "I've been thinking ... all weekend about it," he said. "He never told me what he needed. ... I could have become a hostage or something ... anything could have happened."

    Troio, who dropped out of UMass at the end of last year, said he last saw Tsarnaev two weeks ago when he was visiting some other friends in the sophomore dorm. The pair hung out for a few hours and played FIFA.

    He was "normal, nothing out of the ordinary," Troio said.

    "I can't stress how normal a kid he was, like extremely nice. ... even in soccer, I wouldn’t call him an aggressive player," he said, noting that Tsarnaev played the striker position. He was "very charismatic" and made "friends easily," Troio said, as sophomore Blake Muccini, who described himself as an acquaintance of Tsarnaev’s, nodded his head in agreement.

    Muccini and Young said friends speculated whether the first blurry images released by authorities on Thursday could be Tsarnaev, but they did not believe it was him. But Young said that when the fire alarm went off in the dorm around 8:15 on Friday morning and students were hurriedly evacuated by authorities, it dawned on him that it must be true.

    "I freaked out. ... I didn’t want to believe it," said Muccini, who took a mathematics course with Tsarnaev last year. "I just really want to believe that his brother had a lot to do with this and not him." 

    "I honestly don't know what to feel ... he's my friend," Young said, adding that it upset him to see people calling for his torture or death online. "I don't know what actually happened."  

    "Everyone was like, 'Oh, I want him to die in the worst possible way’ and I was just like ‘I don’t want him to die in the worst possible way’ ... I just didn’t want to see him die," he said. "I think it's better that he is caught alive" and given a fair trial.

    Students slowly returned to the dorm throughout Sunday, some toting bags. But Young said he was "probably going to try to stay out. ... It's a very emotional place."

    "I guess everyone's lives here are changed forever,” he said.

  • 'Trying to be strong' for marathon victims, scores descend on memorial

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    Jennifer Anstead, a runner, had three friends injured in the marathon attack, including one who lost a leg.

    BOSTON -- Scores of marathon runners, doctors, nurses and others descended on Boston on Thursday to join a memorial service to pay respect to the victims of the bombings that struck the iconic road race as the city continued to reel from the twin blasts.

    Some nurses attended in their blue scrubs, while others in the crowd wore their blue-and-yellow Boston Marathon jackets. There were many large contingents of staff from the various city hospitals that responded to the trauma.


    About 2000 people gathered at the Cathedral of the Holy Cross, less than a mile from the finish line, to honor the victims of the bombings that killed three and injured 176. NBC's Lester Holt reports.

    Jennifer Anstead, a runner who was about 20 feet away from the second blast, choked up as she talked about three of her friends who had come to cheer her on and were injured in the explosions, including one who lost her leg.

    "I still feel a lot of guilt. It's a lot to process. It's a lot to take in," she said.

    "I'm trying to be strong for her," Anstead, a 37-year-old operating room nurse, said through sobs. Her friend has a "long road ahead," she added. "She's incredibly strong, she's an amazing person."

    Another runner, Brian Ladley, said he found himself between the two bomb blasts but emerged unscathed. He appeared solemn and paused between words as he spoke with a reporter.

    President Obama, addressing the crowd at the Cathedral of the Holy Cross, tells the people of Boston  "your rebuke is the greatest resolve to whoever committed this heinous act."

    "I'm here for the runners who can't be here today," said Ladley, 39, who just moved to Boston. "It's still surreal, but (I'm) coping, managing. It's good to be here with people ... people are coming together."

    Rodney Bensley, a resident at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center who worked in the trauma unit as patients were incoming, said the last few days have been emotionally challenging, especially since a number of the victims were young.

    "We personally cared for a lot of these patients and want to pay our respects to the ones that lost their lives and the ones that are injured as well as their families," said Bensley, 34, who waited with a long line of colleagues to attend the service.

    "I kind of think about what happened and how to move forward and ... heal as a city," he added.

    Registered nurses Linda Denekamp and Kim Cross, who work with Bensley, said the service offered a period of reflection for the staff.

    "It's partly to decompress, partly to offer support to them and their families," said Denekamp.

    "It's just nice to come here to take ... a step back and reflect," Cross, 26, added.

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    Jennifer Dunphy, outside the memorial service: "I guess I'm just looking for ... maybe some peace, some understanding, something, a little bit of hope."

    Another runner, Jennifer Dunphy, 29, stood in line with a friend who offered her a ticket to the service to help her cope with her feelings from that day. She said she was nearing the finish line as the blasts went off, and ultimately ended up crossing it as she searched for safety.

    She later learned that some of her friends were hurt in the attack.

    "You were numb at first, and then you're in shock and then you're angry,” said Dunphy, a political consultant and Charlestown resident. “Now I guess I'm just looking for ... maybe some peace, some understanding, something, a little bit of hope."

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  • Good Samaritans take in Boston marathoners: 'You're not in it alone'

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    Ali Hatfield, right, poses with friends Stacy Scalfaro, wearing blue, and Diana Stauffer after completing the Boston Marathon, just minutes before two bomb blasts put an end to the celebrations.

    As runners and their loved ones fled bomb blasts that tore apart the finish of the Boston Marathon on Monday, many were taken in by locals who offered them shelter, food and a comforting hand.

    Ali Hatfield, who traveled from Kansas City with two friends to run in the race, said she was touched when a  mother brought her daughter out to offer help as the trio and their families wandered the streets of Boston’s Back Bay, unable to return to their hotel.

    “I’m bringing my daughter her out here because I want her to see that there (is) good in people and I don’t want her to be scared,” she recalled the woman as saying.


    Many other runners and family members found themselves in the lurch after the twin bombings, with no obvious place to take shelter when Police Commissioner Edward Davis urged people in the area not to gather in large groups and to move inside.

    Or so, it seemed. Word quickly spread on social media with the hashtag twitter #Bostonhelp. Some Good Samaritans offered their homes, couches, cots and sleeping bags, while others, such as a local restaurant, offered free food, access to phones and a place to get together with other stunned racegoers.

    Lissa Riley, a 27-year-old doctoral student in neuroscience at the Boston University School of Medicine, said her offer of a place to stay, was just a "drop in the bucket." 

    "It just seemed like the right thing to do," she said. Though the tragedy was “terrible and sad,” hitting the city on what is traditionally one of its best days, she thought it was “also good to look at all the people who are trying to help. Many more people trying to help than trying to hurt.”

    Hatfield, 26, said she and her friends crossed the finish line while holding hands about 15 minutes before the blasts. They briefly returned to their hotel but were soon asked to leave as authorities evacuated the area.

    Instead, they found themselves walking aimlessly with dozens of other  runners who were still wearing race bibs and the look of “pure exhaustion” common to marathoners. But it wasn’t long before they were welcomed by residents, who poured out of their homes to offer a hand, said Hatfield.

    “The people that lived in the brownstones surrounding us just started bringing everybody out there blankets, food, orange juice, coffee, offering their homes for anybody that needed to get warm … anything they needed,” said Hatfield, a project manager at a digital consulting company. “So many of the marathon runners around us had not been able to put on their clothes after the race. They were still in tank tops and shorts, they were freezing. … The people were just amazing.”

    Hatfield and her friends, Diana Stauffer, 41, and Stacy Scalfaro, 39, eventually were invited into the home of a 60-year-old widower, who served them cheese and crackers and beers as they watched news reports on the attack. It was several hours before they could return to their hotel.

    Also helping visitors and stranded locals nearby was  Jim Hoben, 45, and his El Pelon Taqueria staff. They handed out water, soda and watermelon juice to the runners as well as anything they wanted off the menu, provided phone charging stations and  let those without cellphones make calls from their phones.

    Courtesy Jim Hoben

    Addison Hoben, 9, left, drew pictures on to-bags in an effort to cheer up shaken racegoers.

    Hoben’s 9-year-old daughter, Addison, who was off from school, decorated to-go bags with words of encouragement, like “It’s going to be alright” and “We’re not afraid.”

    “She surprised me,” he said. “Her first thought was … to lend a hand.”

    Hoben, who said he received lots of support from the community that enabled him to reopen his restaurant in 2011 after a fire some two years earlier, said he saw an opportunity to make a payment in kind. He called all his employees in and put out the word that El Pelon was now a refuge for anyone who needed a place to shelter.

     “It’s the least we could do,” Hoben, 45, said. “We kind of just opened it up to everybody. … People just came by, hung out.”

    After a busy afternoon and evening , Hoben headed out late Monday night to buy thank you burgers for his staff.

    “You’re seeing like random acts of kindness all over the city. You’re seeing … the best in people on a day when you’re seeing the worst,” he said. “It helps a lot to be just around other people … when that kind of stuff happens. … You’re not in it alone. I think, that’s the thing.”

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  • Waiting half a life for a green card: Families languish in immigration line

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    Sergio Garcia poses for a portrait in Chico, Calif., on April 2. Though he earned a law degree and has passed the state bar exam, Garcia, an undocumented immigrant, is not allowed by the state to practice law. He's spent most of his life trying to gain citizenship.

    This article, the third in a series on the paths to citizenship, is part of NBC News’ special report “Immigration Nation,” an in-depth examination of immigration in America. 

    For Sergio Garcia, the magic number is 25. That's how many years he will have waited for his green card if, as he estimates, he gets it in 2019.

    Garcia, 36, is one of millions of immigrants seeking a green card, or legal permanent residency in the U.S., which he has called home for most of his life. His dad, a naturalized citizen from Mexico, sponsored him, and he was approved to begin the naturalization process in 1995 at age 17.

    But like many other applicants, Garcia has to wait for a green card to become available since quotas limit the number given out annually. Authorities first told him it would take three to five years to reach his “priority date” – when he could start the five-year process of getting a green card.

    “I was crying about that. I’m like … how am I going to survive five years without my documents?” he recalled recently from Durham, a community outside Chico, Calif. “Little did I know that almost 19 years later I would still be in the same shape. … You’re approved but just wait around … half of your life.”


    Aspiring citizens like Garcia face decades-long waits, ever-changing laws and an unwieldy bureaucracy that leads applicants on an epic odyssey to the “American dream.”

    As Congress prepares to unveil its long-awaited immigration reform, many would-be immigrants are hoping it provides a viable legal way for them to join their families in the U.S., with reasonable wait times they feel will discourage unlawful immigration.

    Why is it so important to become a U.S. citizen? At recent swearing in ceremonies in Los Angeles, we asked our newest citizens that question.

    The U.S. immigration system was refashioned in the mid-1960s to focus on family unification, though critics say it has hardly lived up to that ideal.

    Now, applications for family-sponsored green cards represent the vast majority of requests for legal permanent U.S. residency: 4.3 million of the roughly 4.4 million applications on the waiting list as of November came from parents, adult/minor children, adult siblings or married couples, according to the State Department.

    The previous national-origins-based system  was “very discriminatory” in prioritizing Europeans over Asians and Latin Americans, said Doris Meissner, commissioner of the Immigration and Naturalization Service from 1993 to 2000.

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    In a bid to provide an even-handed approach, limits were placed on how many family-sponsored and employment-based visas could be issued to immigrants from a single country. Today, that ceiling stands at 7 percent of the total. (There is an exception for spouses, minor children and parents of U.S. citizens, who go to the head of the line.)

    But lengthy lines built up for countries with high numbers of applicants, such as Mexico, the Philippines, India and China, said Meissner, now head of the Migration Policy Institute’s U.S. immigration policy program.

    “It’s become increasingly clear that this is just really a perverse set of outcomes that the people who thought about the ’65 act and passed it … wouldn’t have contemplated,” Meissner said. “To make family reunification be meaningful and make it be real, you just can’t have people waiting 20 years. I mean you shouldn’t even have spouses and children waiting two or three years.”

    'Overpromising and under-delivering'
    Some advocates of stricter immigration controls think these lines shouldn’t exist at all, saying family-sponsored green cards should only go to the minor children and spouses of U.S. citizens.


    The waiting list “creates a political pressure for advocacy groups to demand higher caps,” said Mark Krikorian, executive director of the Center for Immigration Studies, a nonpartisan research organization in Washington, D.C. “… They point to it and they say, ‘Look, this is unjust and we have to speed family immigration.’ It’s become a talking point.”

    There is “no good answer” to cases like Garcia’s, he added.

    “That’s the kind of thing that happens when you have a bad immigration policy that is jury-rigged and complicated and opaque,” he said. “The goal needs to be to define as clearly as possibly who gets in and then let everybody who qualifies in every year … and make clear that if you are the brother of a U.S. citizen there is no category for you, there is no line, so don’t get in it. The problem is overpromising and under-delivering.”

    Garcia's story is in many ways typical of undocumented immigrant residents treading the family path to a green card, lawyers and experts say. His father had a green card but was not yet a U.S. citizen when he applied for his son, putting Garcia in a lower-priority category even though he was under 21 – the age when minor children become adults under U.S. immigration rules.

    His dad became a citizen in 1999, which would have put Garcia on the fast track as the child of a U.S. citizen had he not turned 21 the previous year. Instead, he entered another line: unmarried adult children of U.S. citizens. Immigration is today handling those cases from Mexico dating to Aug. 1, 1993.

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    That may appear close to Garcia’s priority date of Nov. 18, 1994, but don’t be fooled, he said. The line crawls forward about one week a month, he said, “and sometimes it jumps back real fast and by a lot.”

    In the meantime, Garcia said, he has lost college financial aid and job offers because he is undocumented. He said he would have probably returned to Mexico if he had known it would take so long.

    “It’s probably been a month or two since I last ended up crying because sometimes this life does get to you,” he said. “It’s not living, it’s just surviving.”

    Even for those on a seemingly smoother path, such as a foreigner marrying a U.S. citizen, the family route still can take years.

    Married ... with complications
    Jeanette Smith, a former immigration lawyer in Miami who once guided couples through the system, is at the next step in the process as she tries to win citizenship for her husband, Agustin Gonzalez, a Panamanian national: providing documentation and going through interviews with immigration officials.

    Applicants have to provide a dossier that includes the results of a medical exam, an affidavit of support from the relative sponsor saying the applicant has sufficient means of financial support and is unlikely to become a public charge, and any military, court and prison records, plus original documents establishing family ties between the sponsor and the applicant.

    Many applicants must do interviews with U.S. consular or embassy officials in their home country.

    Married in 2009, Smith and Gonzalez, 41, have had two interviews with immigration officials and have submitted documents such as wills, powers of attorney and three years of joint tax returns.

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    After migrating to the U.S. as minors, children take their oath of allegiance to become citizens.

    The couple provided a wedding album, and affidavits from friends and co-workers attesting to their relationship, too.

    But Gonzalez, who first came to the U.S. on a guest worker visa that expired, remains undocumented. Since the couple was married less than two years during their first immigration interview in 2009, he could only get a conditional green card that expired in January while they were awaiting the second interview, said Smith, 47, executive director of South Florida Interfaith Worker Justice.

    It leaves Smith feeling scared that her husband could be deported, although judges can exercise discretion.

    The immigration officer “has the ability to make a decision on whether my marriage is valid or not,” Smith said. “Who else in this world has the ability to do that other than the couple themselves?”

    Though Smith knows she has more experience that helps her navigate the system, she said: “It’s difficult, I don’t think people realize it  …  People think that it’s some automatic process, and all your problems are solved. And it’s not.”

    Some who make it through the process can still in the end be denied a green card for dozens of different reasons, said Muzaffar Chishti, director of the Migration Policy Institute's office at New York University School of Law.

    “This is an amazing story in people’s resilience at some level and it continues to show you how much appeal the U.S. green card still holds, that people are willing to put their lives on hold for prolonged periods of time,” he said.

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    Sergio Garcia helps Alma Garcia obtain a legal work permit at his office in Chico, Calif., on April 2.

    Garcia has forged ahead despite the barriers. He graduated college and law school, and is leading a landmark case in California that could set a national precedent on whether undocumented immigrants can receive law licenses. In the meantime, he works as an independent legal aide.

    He ultimately believes the wait will have been worth it.

    “I still think this country is a great country and I think it will give me, in the end, a better future than I could have had in Mexico,” he said. “… I tell people my purpose in life at this point is to prove that the American dream is still alive and well.”

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  • Ex-Marine arrested in alleged hate crime in attack outside California gay bar

    A former Marine has been arrested in the beating of two men outside a popular gay bar in Southern California last year and will face hate-crime charges for using anti-gay slurs during the attack, the Los Angeles County District Attorney's Office said Thursday.

    John Kelly O'Leary, 21, was arrested Monday by police in Evergreen Park, Ill., Deputy District Attorney Gretchen Ford of the hate crimes unit said in a statement. O'Leary was discharged from the Marines on Oct. 19, about six weeks after the attack, Marine Corps’ spokesman Master Gunnery Sgt. Mark Oliva told NBC News. He will be extradited from Illinois to California to face the charges.

    O'Leary and a group of friends, including other Marines, went to the Silver Fox bar in Long Beach, Calif. in the early morning hours of Sept. 3, 2012. O'Leary was accused of shouting anti-gay slurs outside the bar at closing time, which triggered the hate crime charge, said Jane Robison, a spokeswoman for the district attorney's office.

    "Following a verbal exchange with one of two alleged victims, O’Leary allegedly turned and began punching the first alleged victim as he continued to shout anti-gay slurs. The victim, who suffered a concussion and a fractured hip during the altercation, was knocked unconscious," the statement said. "As others joined in to break up the fight, O’Leary allegedly began punching and choking a second male victim before police arrived."

    O'Leary has been charged with two felonies – battery with serious bodily injury and assault by means likely to produce great bodily injury – and faces up to eight years in prison, which includes time for the hate crime allegation, Robison said. The Press-Telegram of Long Beach first reported the charges.

    Authorities arrested three other Marines after the attack, but they were not charged, the district attorney's office said. Robison said they were attempting to break up the assault, and Oliva said they were on active duty with their commands.

    The four Marines, based at Camp Pendleton in southern California, were in their first enlistment. Oliva characterized O’Leary’s discharge as “less than honorable,” but he didn’t have the exact nature of it. He also said the Marine Corps was still conducting an inquiry into the attack.

    Robison said she didn't know if the two victims were gay. Immediately after the attack, CBSLA.com reported that one of the victims had gone to the bar with his boyfriend and that he had blacked out from the assault. He was hospitalized overnight and released with non-life threatening injuries, Long Beach police said at the time.

    O'Leary is being held on $105,000 bail. He has waived extradition and will be transported to Los Angeles some time next week, the district attorney's office said. Attempts to reach O'Leary, his family or an attorney representing him were unsuccessful.

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  • Montana votes to strike down law criminalizing 'deviate' gay sex

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    Republican Rep. Duane Ankney, left, of Colstrip, Mont., speaks on the House floor on April 9, in Helena, Mont. Ankney joined the chamber in voting to repeal an obsolete law that criminalizes gay sex.

    Montana lawmakers have voted to get rid of a law that criminalizes gay sex and the governor is expected to sign it -- which would leave 11 states where such statutes remain on the books.

    The Supreme Court ruled these laws unconstitutional a decade ago, rendering them unenforceable, but gay rights advocates say they support their removal due to the stigmatizing language.

    With a 65-34 vote on Wednesday, the bill was shuttled off to Gov. Steve Bullock, who is likely to sign it, his spokeswoman, Judy Beck, told NBC News. Montana's Supreme Court struck down the law in 1997, but a block of Republican lawmakers had stymied efforts to repeal it, the Billings Gazette reported.

    “It’s not about encouraging a lifestyle,” Rep. Bryce Bennett, D-Missoula, an openly gay Montana lawmaker, was quoted as saying Tuesday by the newspaper. “It’s simply about respecting privacy between two adults. … It’s just as simple as saying that all Montanans deserve dignity and respect.”

    The old law made “deviate sexual conduct,” or sexual relations between people of the same sex, a crime. Those convicted of it faced a prison term of up to ten years and/or a maximum $50,000 fine.

    The Supreme Court in 2003 ruled that a Texas state law criminalizing gay sex was unconstitutional, thereby striking down some 14 active anti-sodomy laws on the books in other states and Puerto Rico.

    "As a matter of law, sodomy laws, as they apply to same-sex couples and in some states different sex couples, were struck down by the U.S. Supreme Court in our 2003 lawsuit Lawrence v. Texas," Susam Sommer, director of constitutional litigation at Lambda Legal, said in a statement.


    Nonetheless, Montana's repeal "goes a long way in building a supportive environment for LGBT people and their families," she added, noting that the ongoing presence elsewhere of "these unconstitutional laws in state penal codes implicitly stigmatizes gay people and puts them and many others at risk of unlawful prosecutions. It is time every state cleans up its books and cleans up its act."

    Eleven states still have laws on their books outlawing oral and anal sex between same-sex couples, while another nine have statutes outlawing oral and anal sex for everyone, according to Lambda Legal.

    The 2003 Supreme Court case has been cited by pro-gay marriage supporters in arguments before the high court on whether gays and lesbians should be allowed to wed. The court is expected to rule in those cases in June.