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  • 11
    Jan
    2013
    3:36pm, EST

    Fight over laundry led man to set girlfriend on fire, San Francisco DA says

    San Francisco Police Department via AP

    Dexter Oliver, 22, is pictured in this undated photo from the San Francisco Police Department. He is charged with 11 felonies, after allegedly setting his girlfriend on fire.

    By Lisa Fernandez and Monte Francis, NBCBayArea.com

    The San Francisco District Attorney's Office has charged a 22-year-old man with 11 felonies after he allegedly set his girlfriend on fire over a dispute about who would carry the laundry.


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    "The acts of this defendant are despicable and he will be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law," District Attorney George Gascón said in a statement Thursday. "The cycle of domestic violence must end. This case illustrates how domestic violence is never an isolated incident but rather a pattern of physical and emotional abuse that increases in severity."

    Dexter Oliver now faces charges that include attempted murder, aggravated mayhem and torture. Each charge carries a maximum sentence of life in prison. He is currently on misdemeanor probation for violating a court order from a domestic violence incident in October 2011. His bail was set at $10 million. Attempts to reach Oliver's attorney were not immediately successful.

    The charges stem from Jan. 6. Court documents allege Oliver threw flammable liquid on his 25-year-old girlfriend - Starr Lamare - and set her on fire, sending her to the hospital with life-threatening burns, which have rendered her unrecognizable.


    Officers were called about noon to Hollister Avenue between Jennings Street and Ingalls Street near the Bayview district in San Francisco on reports of a woman screaming. When they arrived, they found that she had been severely burned.

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    Prosecutors revealed this week that the couple had an argument over who would carry the laundry. Lamare had asked Oliver to carry the dirty clothes to the laundromat a few blocks away, and documents allege that Oliver refused. Lamare went to the laundromat anyway.

    While she was there, prosecutors said, Oliver grabbed two empty bottles of Pedia-Sure - a nutritional drink for children - and filled them with gasoline. He went to the laundromat, the documents indicate, threw the gas on her and set her on fire.

    Those court allegations coincide with what Lamare's sister told NBC Bay Area immediately after the horrific crime.

    "She said he had to get out and they were over," Lamare's sister, Precious Craig previously told NBC Bay Area. "And she left the laundromat and 10 minutes later, she was burned."

    Family members said that Lamare and Oliver had been dating for six months and had a rocky relationship. Relatives also said that the couple was returning from the laundromat down the street, when Lamare told Oliver she wanted to break it up. Oliver allegedly returned home to get some gasoline, relatives and police said. The family had never before mentioned the incident about who would carry the dirty laundry.

     

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    This isn't normal. It isn't acceptable. Something is wrong, wrong, wrong with the food, water, air in this country and the last two or three generations born here are susceptible to the effects of it. And I'm not kidding or being facetious. Someone needs to get cracking on the cause of the disconne …

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  • 8
    Jan
    2013
    4:04pm, EST

    California man arrested a day after girlfriend set on fire

    By Lisa Fernandez and Monte Francis, NBCBayArea.com

    San Francisco Police Department

    Dexter Oliver, 22, is suspected of attempted murder of a San Francisco woman.

    A day after his girlfriend was set on fire in San Francisco, police and the U.S. Marshal's Service Task Force arrested a 22-year-old man in connection with the fiery attack.

    Without giving away too much detail, San Francisco police said they "received information" about Dexter Oliver's whereabouts, and arrested him at a hotel in Oakland. He surrendered without incident, police said. He was taken to San Francisco and was booked on charged of attempted murder and arson, police said.

    Police say that on Sunday, Oliver allegedly threw flammable liquid on his 25-year-old girlfriend - Starr Lamare - and set her on fire, sending her to the hospital with severe burns.

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    "She said he had to get out and they were over," Lamare's sister, Precious Craig told NBC Bay Area on Sunday night. "And she left the laundromat and ten minutes later, she was burned."

    Family members said that Lamare and Oliver had been dating for six months and had a rocky relationship. Relatives also said that the couple was returning from the laundromat down the street, when Lamare told Oliver she wanted to break it up. Oliver allegedly returned home to get some gasoline, relatives and police said.

    Officers were called about noon to Hollister Avenue between Jennings Street and Ingalls Street near the Bayview district on reports of a woman screaming. When they arrived, they found that she had been severely burned.

    Craig told NBC Bay Area that when she visited her sister in the hospital, her face and chest were so burned that she barely recognized her.

    Previous report: Los Angeles man charged with setting homeless woman on fire

    "They argue all the time," Craig said. "Couples argue all the time, but I didn’t know it was going to go this far."

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    CA will probably give him probation work release due to overcrowding. He should be hung from a park tree.

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